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Vjawarrior Legend Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 36024 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 68.53.21.199 Rating: N/A |
Tears in my annai after seeing your post....stay strong....take care of your daughter...please be in db often and dont be lonely.. also have some hobbies and do more volunteering work and keep urself busy... Im sorry for this | ||
Speaker Megastar Username: Speaker Post Number: 22624 Registered: 06-2016 Posted From: 157.48.226.5 Rating: N/A |
Hello Venu Brother... Kashtaalu Kanneellu only Vaatini edurkogalige vaarike ostaayi.. Mee family anthaaa chaala edurkonnaaru..come what may.. Vodinamma is epitome of Motherhood... She will always give u and your little one all the courage to face any darn thing in the future... U know why...?? Just by reading your story...it gave me the courage, grit, determination to face anything...n if it could do this to a reader..I can imagine how your family would be in any situation... I know u will stay strong n overcome any situation.. However, I have no words to express for your irreplaceable lossssssssss... Hope n wish that you will find your grooveback very soon.. GoodLuck n wishing u da besttttttt Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke... | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23423 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 107.15.218.221 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear sister. Unfortunately many think after treatment things are Ok and no more issues but if it is not diagnosed in early stages after few months to 1 or 2 years it is back and aggressive!
I think it is called Delirium and wife for sure was not knowing what's going on and was in and out of our senses...very unfortunate that the person and loved ones going through it...very disturbing! | ||
Neel Hero Username: Neel Post Number: 10155 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 108.171.131.188 Rating: N/A |
Venu brother be strong after reading your post still crying similar story lost Brother-in-law yesterday in early morning hours of Monday in Hyderabad he was diagnosed with Prostrate Cancer 2 years ago cured and doing well family never told anyone or us untill it relapsed in August 2018 since las t4 months we are did our best to save him but God had different plan He talked something different like your wife and passed away peacefully while his 2 daughters and wife around him. I know its not that easy but for the sake of your daughter be strong. | ||
Humpty_dumpty Moderator Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 38348 Registered: 02-2009 Rating: N/A |
@poli bro hope you find some peace and strength in the people around you and the work you do your daughter is more precious than ever. please take care of yourself as well. | ||
Biriyani Megastar Username: Biriyani Post Number: 22337 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
sorry for you loss annai..you are a tough man...stay strong | ||
Annavaram Side Hero Username: Annavaram Post Number: 4443 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 72.64.90.22 Rating: |
edipinchesaaru venu, I wish you stay strong for your daughter, god bless | ||
Bunty717 Legend Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 57885 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.160.93 Rating: N/A |
sorry for your loss annai.. | ||
Tombrady Legend Username: Tombrady Post Number: 64643 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.220.32 Rating: N/A |
so sad and heart breaking | ||
Aha Side Hero Username: Aha Post Number: 5802 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 205.153.115.162 Rating: N/A |
Stay strong annai. Time should heal your pain even though your loss is irreparable. Atleast , mee daughter ni grand parents and atha daggara unchaaru, which is good at this time. You also should spend spare time with close friends as much as possible, instead of staying alone at home. The One and Only Veturi | ||
Ysr2009 Side Hero Username: Ysr2009 Post Number: 6846 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 69.73.85.161 Rating: N/A |
heart touching venu annaa | ||
Guru Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 13463 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 45.74.35.121 Rating: N/A |
Soory to hear. Dont know how you and your daughter handled it? May god give you both the courage to move on. Take care. | ||
Kick Side Hero Username: Kick Post Number: 2717 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 117.196.250.177 Rating: N/A |
I think prepare ayyuntaranna konthaina.. Okati slow poison grief aithe inkoti sudden happening valla oche massive grief.to each its own. Atleast you and madam and papa had your talks and not many people will have closures due to sudden events in life.That way you are lucky. Papa ki meeku thanu em cheppalanukunnaro cheppi untaru.. and like wise aa roju overnight requestmeda kuda intikochesina kuda..luckily your daughter had the chance of her life to again talk to her mother and make a promise.Blessing. and mee case lo you never guess the event kada..letgo meru cheyagalindanta meru chesaru.. aa last time lekapoyane annadi you should go easy. | ||
Anirvesh Comedian Username: Anirvesh Post Number: 1136 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 182.74.148.6 Rating: N/A |
Venu bhayya, sorry for your loss.. may her soul rest in peace. | ||
Starbucks Side Hero Username: Starbucks Post Number: 5266 Registered: 08-2011 Posted From: 222.229.226.68 Rating: N/A |
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Sorry for you loss... tears rolled down... take care of your daughter and stay strong When "i" is replaced with "we", even "illness" becomes "wellness" | ||
Lolligadu Hero Username: Lolligadu Post Number: 16883 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 175.101.77.52 Rating: N/A |
sorry for your loss annai.........mee wife willpower and strength ki hats off.... | ||
Supremehero Comedian Username: Supremehero Post Number: 1613 Registered: 09-2017 Posted From: 157.48.2.73 Rating: N/A |
Annai.... Feeling sad for the loss Mundu rojulalo kuda vadinamma laane alaane dhairyanga undi.bt chaala grt aavida a dhairyaaniki a tym lo. Anninchusukovalani chusukuntaavani handle chestavani aasituna.. She wl feel happy by seeing | ||
Nyk Side Hero Username: Nyk Post Number: 3538 Registered: 04-2018 Posted From: 49.207.188.77 Rating: N/A |
Kastam lo unnappude they need more love and she got highest love and care from you during those days..what else any body wants more than those highest moments....she was lucky and you too very lucky to have such a brave woman... Hatsoff to you couple | ||
Nyk Side Hero Username: Nyk Post Number: 3537 Registered: 04-2018 Posted From: 49.207.188.77 Rating: N/A |
After reading your post, got emotional Guruji... She was blessed to have you... Definitely she cherished her life with you... I think she left life peacefully... She was brave and your strength was great... Keep up the strength to recover.... Hope you get recover soon from this trauma.. | ||
Kadapafan Legend Username: Kadapafan Post Number: 30505 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 83.251.112.241 Rating: N/A |
So sorry to hear Poli annai, literally cried reading your post, may god give greate strength to you and your daughter | ||
Twotown Hero Username: Twotown Post Number: 11394 Registered: 09-2016 Posted From: 67.184.73.168 Rating: N/A |
Annai stay strong .. we all know you will .  | ||
Prasanth Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 10851 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 183.82.22.68 Rating: N/A |
Venu annai... Em react avvaalo kuda artham kaatam ledhh... But one thing which u can do is extend the positivity towards life she has shown.... Blessing to your girl | ||
Discoveringself Side Hero Username: Discoveringself Post Number: 3011 Registered: 01-2016 Posted From: 99.243.218.18 Rating: N/A |
Hmmmm.......OK, whatever works for you....I dint mean in that way of donations......... | ||
Shivavishnu Side Hero Username: Shivavishnu Post Number: 3998 Registered: 10-2010 Posted From: 73.110.240.109 Rating: N/A |
Stay strong Politricks. You need to get going and be strong for your daughter. Om Namah Shivaya.....Om Namo Narayanaaaya.... | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23422 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 107.15.218.221 Rating: N/A |
By the way in OCT in my wife's condolence thread one of our DB brother was talking about him going through similar situation...hope he is doing good and I pray god for him and his family! | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23421 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 107.15.218.221 Rating: N/A |
Sure thing brother...I was supposed to go to Ramakrishna Mutt in HYD to donate but was down all through my HYD trip and could not make it! I need to check if I can donate online to their Anna danaam scheme! My wife used to donate there for this scheme! | ||
Shikari Megastar Username: Shikari Post Number: 27849 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.63.247 Rating: N/A |
 stay strong annaihttp://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Whyme Megastar Username: Whyme Post Number: 27391 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 172.73.186.98 Rating: N/A |
Nice post sir I agree poli annai | ||
Discoveringself Side Hero Username: Discoveringself Post Number: 3008 Registered: 01-2016 Posted From: 99.243.218.18 Rating: N/A |
Nice to see you back.....for some reason was thinking about you a few days back, although don't know u personally...... Do some good things in her name.......may be some kinda respite to you and you can make the world a lil more beautiful place in her name.........just saying........ | ||
Kranth1 Moderator Username: Kranth1 Post Number: 11327 Registered: 03-2016 Rating: |
Stay strong sir. I am sure that she will look after your family from wherever she is. "Every twist, every turn, can challenge our sense of direction. But it's the choices we make when we reach a fork in the road that define who we are." - Dexter | ||
Ruj Megastar Username: Ruj Post Number: 22603 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 73.228.241.243 Rating: N/A |
etla tattukunav anna.. neeku mee wifeki padhabhivandanam.. | ||
Royal1234 Side Hero Username: Royal1234 Post Number: 2639 Registered: 12-2010 Posted From: 173.89.13.141 Rating: N/A |
sorry for your loss | ||
Cavs Junior Artist Username: Cavs Post Number: 792 Registered: 04-2017 Posted From: 107.11.43.209 Rating: N/A |
Sorry brother for your loss.. tears ,, no words to say. God bless you and your daughter to come over this. | ||
True_indian Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 15371 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 76.193.121.43 Rating: N/A |
sorry venu bro for your loss cant stop thinking how brave your wife was one of my friend wife in raleigh is also going thru cancer treatment wish your daughter all the best and hope she fulfills your wife last wish keep praying and wish you all the best .those who are serious about their watches display them prominently, those who are more concerned with style and branding present you with aircraft carriers and hide their watches. | ||
Kaisersooze Hero Username: Kaisersooze Post Number: 17648 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 107.77.72.64 Rating: N/A |
Stay strong brother. Time will heal everything. | ||
Miniontada Side Hero Username: Miniontada Post Number: 3023 Registered: 08-2017 Posted From: 99.237.64.226 Rating: N/A |
You and your Better Half are brave people ... Even we (most) are nothing for you , you Posted here , we do empathize , even though we cant come to close to reality 1% , May God give you new energy and self to sustain this rest of journey ... May Your Wife attain Moksha !!! Yet one thing lingers in my mind .... we are will cease to exist in our own memories one day ... till that day we will live with our Best Memories and Best moments in life we shared with !! MahaOtami lobot  PS: Appatlo Methanithodugu aka softwear | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 71631 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 73.239.22.111 Rating: N/A |
Stay strong There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23420 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 107.15.218.221 Rating: N/A |
Idi nightmare situation...I pray god some miracle should happen! | ||
Sachin Legend Username: Sachin Post Number: 43509 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 108.171.130.163 Rating: N/A |
sorry for your loss annai... | ||
Rahul Moderator Username: Rahul Post Number: 8134 Registered: 12-2010 Rating: N/A |
stay strong brother Biryani... Parvathi... Lacha | ||
Nellorerp Junior Artist Username: Nellorerp Post Number: 89 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 172.6.223.67 Rating: N/A |
edupu vachesindhi aapukolekapotunna venu garu. May god give you and your daughter strength to recover from this loss. Stay strong. | ||
Guriginja Legend Username: Guriginja Post Number: 39966 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 47.39.180.113 Rating: N/A |
pelli naati sukhamu...chaavu naati dukkhamu yella kaalam vundavu ani maa nayanamma seppindi oka 15 yrs back....it is not easy but just try to divert yourself to something else bedar. | ||
Mahiz Side Hero Username: Mahiz Post Number: 2270 Registered: 10-2012 Posted From: 70.134.228.220 Rating: N/A |
Akkaya athma ki shanti kalagali ani devudini korukuntanu .. Janani Janma-bhoomi-scha Swargadapi Gariyasi | ||
Raptors Side Hero Username: Raptors Post Number: 2755 Registered: 09-2017 Posted From: 99.235.141.181 Rating: N/A |
Only time can heal... nothing else... hope you get better WE THE NORTH | ||
New_user Megastar Username: New_user Post Number: 20326 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 192.119.235.22 Rating: |
Nobody can replace your loss. Stay strong. Believe me, death is the most beautiful thing in life. | ||
Whitecollar Megastar Username: Whitecollar Post Number: 20896 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 73.24.39.20 Rating: N/A |
Poli sir matter vinnaka naa close friend gaadi scenario gurthochindhi.. Vaadiki 6 years back aada pilla puttindhi.. Papa ki muscle growth ledhu.. some serious and rare problem anta.. Now she is in wheel chair. The biggest problem is, heart and other organs are also muscles. So they are not growing too. Doctors said they will fail when she is growing big.. Her heart is 4 year old heart antha undhi anthe anta.. Doctors said she can make it 10 years or if lucky 15 years.. Maa friend gaadi tho matladithe nenu aapukolenu.. Ee papa ki ila ayyindhi ani, they did not opt for second kid. Roju narakam choosthunnadu.. I know what he is going thru.. veni.. vidi.. vici.. Ikkada oka sumathee sataka padyam undedhi.. oka edupu lo kottuku poyindhi.. Kulam is always correct.. | ||
Telugu_times Legend Username: Telugu_times Post Number: 54293 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 99.0.30.9 Rating: N/A |
You went through a lot Time will heal everything Bro CCDB - Caste Chemchas Discussion Baavi | ||
Whitecollar Megastar Username: Whitecollar Post Number: 20895 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 73.24.39.20 Rating: N/A |
evaro cheppinattu, Manaki vasthe kashtam, manaku kavalsina vallaki vasthe narakam.. Mee pain ardham kuda avvatledhu sir, just in tears anthe.. Hope you get enough strength to face veni.. vidi.. vici.. Ikkada oka sumathee sataka padyam undedhi.. oka edupu lo kottuku poyindhi.. Kulam is always correct.. | ||
Machomegastar Hero Username: Machomegastar Post Number: 17475 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 96.240.97.143 Rating: |
I am in full of tears...na valla kaledu 2014: main villan congress ki ycp relation antagatti, second villan bjp help tho gelicharu... 2019: second villan bjp ki ycp ki relation antagatti main villan congress help tho gelavalani kutra pannuthunnaru... | ||
Sannayi_nokkulu Legend Username: Sannayi_nokkulu Post Number: 31983 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 68.100.234.22 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear Poli.....hope God gives you strength and courage i can understand the emotion you are going through sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT | ||
Nanigadulocal Hero Username: Nanigadulocal Post Number: 14315 Registered: 09-2016 Posted From: 70.178.63.91 Rating: N/A |
Sagam post ee chadivaa Motham chadiveee dairyam cheyylekpoyaaa... gunde baruvuu ekkipoyindhii Sorry for u ... evaroo cheppinatu mee wife FIGHTER nijangaa | ||
Rgb Side Hero Username: Rgb Post Number: 5686 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 173.63.176.16 Rating: N/A |
Just wanted to wish you all the strength | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 72260 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 74.96.198.115 Rating: N/A |
good to see your post bro...brave heart..  It's ok | ||
Jodhaa Legend Username: Jodhaa Post Number: 37709 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 165.225.34.115 Rating: N/A |
edupu vachesindhi bhayya..so sorry for your loss. | ||
Mikkymouse Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 13983 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 173.79.165.146 Rating: N/A |
Chaduvuthunte edupu vachindi Anna. She is a fighter . kudos to her. Dhairyam ga undandi ani thappa emi cheppalo ela odarchalo kooda teleedam ledu. Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani... | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 15162 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 175.101.105.18 Rating: N/A |
annayya..please keep up the spirits and I know you will. Vadina garu will watch over you and your daughter Sometimes I wonder about the time I have left and try spending every min with my daughter | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23419 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 160.83.73.16 Rating: N/A |
In fact you and Krishna garu came to my house in 2012 and appudu kuda problem undi but asala chupinchadu paiki and behaves very normal! | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23418 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 160.83.73.18 Rating: N/A |
Papa ni NJ pampinchanu and is with sister's family and grand parents! Madhya madhya lo phone Amma Gurthosthondi antadi, nannu bangaaru ani inka yevaru pilustharu antadi, atta uppu karam yekkuva vesthondi curries lo antaadi...bottomline she wants to say is she is missing her mother! Ika nenu, I don't want to be home chala ibbandi gaa untadi but slowly getting back! | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23417 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 160.83.73.16 Rating: N/A |
She will turn 20 coming Jan | ||
Scallion Side Hero Username: Scallion Post Number: 5359 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 104.179.14.202 Rating: N/A |
Venu garu very sorry, it is so sad to read all that U went through... may god bless U and your daughter It will be a big impact on U both but, I am really concerned for your daughter.. how old is she hope god give U both strength | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23416 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 160.83.73.16 Rating: N/A |
These things are very tough to handle...oko sari anipisthadi sudden death is better for self and also family ani! Naaku thanu 7 years suffering kanna aa last 4-5 days yentha suffer ayyindo manasulo anedi artham kakunda undi! Maa ammayi chala brave face pettukoni handle chesindi...than thana atta who is a doctor cheppindi ala anachukoni undoddu share your pain with others and let it off ani...papam girls ki mothers are important! | ||
Scallion Side Hero Username: Scallion Post Number: 5358 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 104.179.14.202 Rating: N/A |
Venu garu very sorry, it is so sad to read all that U went through... may god bless U and your daughter I will be a big impact on U both but, I am really concerned for your daughter.. how old is she hope god give U both strength | ||
Vishwamitra Moderator Username: Vishwamitra Post Number: 1173 Registered: 04-2017 Rating: N/A |
Very sorry for your loss, may god give you all the strength to deal with the loss. Your wife will look over her child from where ever she is. The universal friend, vishwamitra was here. | ||
Macbook Junior Artist Username: Macbook Post Number: 651 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 208.54.147.131 Rating: N/A |
Sorry for your loss annai | ||
Goonda Megastar Username: Goonda Post Number: 26952 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 167.187.100.154 Rating: N/A |
its touching brother.. very emotional, just by reading.. i don't know how you are taking.. be strong and stay strong... | ||
Risingstar Legend Username: Risingstar Post Number: 41174 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 96.245.82.131 Rating: N/A |
Venu annai very sorry annai edupochesthondi chaduvutha untee lakshmi garu will be with u forever..I think it was in 2014 November I came to your home, she looked very normal now she is for greater deeds anukuntunna... | ||
Spy_india Hero Username: Spy_india Post Number: 12207 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 208.54.147.131 Rating: N/A |
Venu Anna office lo unna Ani telusutundi mind ki ayinaa edupu aapukolekapotunna.... We have to accept Ani move ayipovaali Ani manasuki cheppukunduu munduku velladame... Ela unnaru miru papa? | ||
Lolakulu Comedian Username: Lolakulu Post Number: 1672 Registered: 06-2017 Posted From: 68.112.201.138 Rating: |
Meeku mee kutumbaniki aa devudu santhi, dhairyam jeevithantham chekurchali ani praying. 4th paragraph ke naaku dhairyam saalaka tears vochayi. | ||
Baatasari Junior Artist Username: Baatasari Post Number: 788 Registered: 10-2018 Posted From: 171.159.64.10 Rating: N/A |
sorry for your loss.. and a very touching description of the entire ordeal. Takes lots of courage to handle death, while it is known before hand.. you should have been there in the final momemts .. this will keep you hurt forever.. brahma satyam jagan-mithyä jivo brahmaiva näparah | ||
Whitecollar Megastar Username: Whitecollar Post Number: 20894 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 73.24.39.20 Rating: N/A |
Literally crying here brother.. May god give you enough strength.. Edupochesindhi.. veni.. vidi.. vici.. Ikkada oka sumathee sataka padyam undedhi.. oka edupu lo kottuku poyindhi.. Kulam is always correct.. | ||
Gatti_gunde Megastar Username: Gatti_gunde Post Number: 25175 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 72.81.215.178 Rating: N/A |
gunde baruvu aipoyindhi anna mee post chadhivithe May God give you and your daughter the strength to recover from this loss. I hope where ever your wife is she is at peace and watching you..... | ||
Lenin Hero Username: Lenin Post Number: 19259 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 103.253.93.33 Rating: N/A |
you made us emotional..feel sorry for you Guntur, Hyderabad, Andhra, Telangana, Tamilnadu, Karnataka first....India last!!! | ||
Whyme Megastar Username: Whyme Post Number: 27387 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
dang.. sorry brother.. it is tough.. kudos to the lady.. she was a fighter.. will be with you guys always | ||
Sasibabu Legend Username: Sasibabu Post Number: 62958 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 165.225.35.0 Rating: |
tears rolled down reading your post annai ....sorry for you once again | ||
Politricks Megastar Username: Politricks Post Number: 23414 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 160.83.72.105 Rating: |
Hello All First of all thanks for all the Condolences and it felt like a family! Many were calling on 7th and 8th October but for some reason could not take all the calls for which plz excuse me! I am doing OK except that it is not that easy to digest the fact that an active family member is missing from day to day life! Especially, when I recollect last 6 days of her life my mood is completely off! My wife was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer in 2011 (August 2011) and had to undergo Hysterectomy operation followed by 6 Cycles of Chemotherapy! Her treatment completed in March 2012 and she started showing her +Ve thinking, Will Power to fight it out which made her survive 7 more years even though doctors gave her only 2-3 years! I learnt a lot from my wife and this should help me to be +ve, determined in rest of my life! After staying strong from 2012 to Mid 2017 slowly things started going bad! My wife wanted to sell her house in HYD and in 2017 July in the middle of her treatment we went to INDIA to complete the formalities! I cannot imagine how but she was handling the home sale with lot of energy! After coming back her health deterioted and for the first time I was asking doctor what am I looking at! He told soon we may have to give up! But, again she fought back and survived for 1.3 months more! On 1st OCT this year she was in doctor's office for IV fluids (As for 3 weeks she was not able to eat well) and doctor asked her to admit to hospital to fix the problem! We never thought this was it! On 2nd OCT I was in office and she called me saying doctors declared no options left and she need to be on Hospice! It was shocking for me but she was calm, asked to me to come over and in hospital she still was hoping things will work out! I consulted some Oncologists in family that night by sending the Clinical notes and every one declared there is NO WAY OUT of this! We were hoping she has FEW MONTHS but doctor said FEW WEEKS left! The plan was to shift her home the NEXT MONDAY (OCT 8th) and a nurse will be coming home to treat Pain Symptoms and WAIT FOR THE FINAL moments! It was a shattering feeling that we cannot do anything but shockingly my wife was composed! Thursday (OCT 4th) for the first time she started talking about me keeping good health as she don't have much time, told all the things to my daughter like "You should not cry and persue your goals" "I will keep watching from wherever I am" like this she started talking on 4th Evening (Yevaraina yela antha composed gaa untaaru adi kuda anthaku mundu 3 hours mundu oka nurse direct gaa nuvvu even 1 week kuda ksatam ani cheppaka I don't know)! For some reason she asked me to call my sister spoke to her, spoke to my brother's wife for long, spoke to her close friends that day! Suddenly I started noticing a pattern in her talk by night that day...she talks something and suddenly talks an unrelated topic! I did not get it but thought as she is in heavy sedatives talking like that! FOR THE FIRST TIME she asked my daughter if she can stay with her that night but my daughter did not come prepared to stay overnight! We promised we will be back next morning and went home! After driving back my daughter called her MOM and NO REPLY! She left a message like "Sleep well, have a good night, don't let the bed bugs bite" like that something! 100% of the times my wife replies but did not and we were puzzled but thought she slept! Next morning (5th OCT) my daughter was repeatedly calling and no reply! Meantime I got a call asking me to rush to hospital! We were there in 30 minutes and what we went through for next 20 minutes will always sadden me! My wife in a semi conscious and confused state was ONLY UTTERING "MY Daughter, My Daughter, I know she is Brave", "I know my daughter is brave" like this and she was only talking in English! I was shattered started asking her to talk in TELUGU but she won't! In between she says "What's Happening...I don't know" and again talks "MY Daughter, My Daughter" like that! Only once she replied to me when I asked to talk in Telugu "Telusandi"...thats all! Doctor said she got inspection and from Early hours she is like this and they need to make her sleep...the reason they asked us to hurry is to talk one final time as after making her sleep she will not come out! We could not see her like that and asked them to do whatever lessens the pain! They made her sleep and declared COUPLE of Hours! But she was in sleep not couple of hours but all through Friday into Saturday till OCT 6th 8:00 PM!! My sister's family, Brother's Family, Cousins, Close Friends every one came by FRIDAY NIGHT! Saturday as I was continuously in Hospital for 36 hours was asked to go home take shower and come back! 30 people including family were in Hospital EXCEPT ME and suddenly she opened eyes at 8 PM! She started looking around with my sister, brother's wife telling her they will take care of my daughter! Someone pushed my daughter to the front and my daughter started saying "I WILL DO WHATEVER I PROMISED YOU ON THURSDAY"! They say tears started rolling and my wife tried to say something to my daughter WHEN SHE STOPPED at 8:06 PM! I am not sure how it works but after being in deep sleep for 36 hours she opened eyes, listened to everyone, looked and cried when my daughter spoke and passed away! One thing will haunt me forever...that I did NOT STAY BACK in Hospital on Thursday night and if I were maybe could have spent some more time talking to her! Once again Thanks everyone for keeping my family in your prayers! It takes time but we are trying to come out! | ||
Stalker Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 10606 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 146.115.122.165 Rating: |
venu annai, hope you are getting to normal, god bless you. Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Mamamiya786 Megastar Username: Mamamiya786 Post Number: 24042 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 4.16.147.234 Rating: |
yes...i was wondering... db is missing him. Hope every thing is normal now. come to DB bro.. Sensation(About Bala):He can win in atleast half of the segments in Rayalaseema. Emi matladutunnavo neeku telusa. He can contest any where in coastal and rayalaseema districts. I personally feel he should contest from Srikakulam dt. Jagan|Modi| | ||
Telugu_times Legend Username: Telugu_times Post Number: 54289 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 99.0.30.9 Rating: |
How are you? CCDB - Caste Chemchas Discussion Baavi |
