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Mental_sachinodu
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 11:02 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

Respect is totally different aspect of this topic. Don't you think so?




on one hand, we can call some one unnatural,deviant, sick, unhealth, and we thing respect is whole another thing? may be it is. ayway go to go.

there is not much here really.

my point is only one, personally anyone can like or dislike anyone else, but based on those likes others cannot be denied rights. thats my whole point.

and about it being natural or not, everyonee conceded it to be natural but not sure if its sickness or not ... who knows. is baldness a sickness .. may be it is.. is it relevant .. may be it is .. may be it is not.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:58 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

Absolutely. What is acceptable varies from person to person. Going to strip clubs is also acceptable for most. It is their prerogative.
Each act has it's own justification. Baloney or not.


what?? if you speak telugu tamaru telugu lo cheppeyandi..mee english artham avatledu..

you said "what is acceptable varies from person to person" -that is exactly what i said in my previous posts..so manaki english light le, chetho tineddam - ni badha endo telugu lo cheppu?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:56 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

I will stick to the law.
Sodomy was illegal. Over time, parts of it became legal. Parts didn't. That tells you how law evolves. Stay with it.




ofcourse we will stick to the law? who is acting illegal here. but laws evolve, because people try to change them. they attempt to change laws, by staying with in the boudaries of current laws.

by the way, you havent still answered, where you would stand :-) and it is the same question you asked jp_rox
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:55 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

exactly, why your question appears ill placed. why does it matter what jp_rox offspring preference is on how he thinks they should be treated with.
ycp doesnot prefer his kids to be gays, and he has no respect for them
jp_rox may not prefer his kids to be gays, but he thinks they should be respected.



Respect is totally different aspect of this topic. Don't you think so?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:54 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

and in the example i mentioned it is illegal to follow that religion. where would you stand?



I will stick to the law.
Sodomy was illegal. Over time, parts of it became legal. Parts didn't. That tells you how law evolves. Stay with it.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:49 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

Different topic. I was presenting a case for YCP against people differing with his view. You should be able to see that line somewhere below.
Coming to your question, it is not illegal. There ends the matter of rights. Only people who commit crimes lose their legal rights to freedom.




exactly, why your question appears ill placed. why does it matter what jp_rox offspring preference is on how he thinks they should be treated with.
ycp doesnot prefer his kids to be gays, and he has no respect for them
jp_rox may not prefer his kids to be gays, but he thinks they should be respected.

my example may be different topic, but its not irrelevant. and legal and illegal are based on the constitution of the land. and in the example i mentioned it is illegal to follow that religion. where would you stand?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:47 pm:      


Jp_rocks:


if you watch •••• or like seeing images of hot woman, are you disloyal to your wife? if you are loyal to your wife and still enjoy seeing a picture of a hot woman, are you a hypocrite?



Absolutely. What is acceptable varies from person to person. Going to strip clubs is also acceptable for most. It is their prerogative.
Each act has it's own justification. Baloney or not.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:42 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

Again - you are missing the point. it does not matter to anyone what YCP feels or prefers his offsprings to be or jp_rox prefers his offsprings to be. if there were to be someone who is not straight, do they have the same rights as others is the question.



Different topic. I was presenting a case for YCP against people differing with his view. You should be able to see that line somewhere below.
Coming to your question, it is not illegal. There ends the matter of rights. Only people who commit crimes lose their legal rights to freedom.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:42 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

If I think it is natural and nothing wrong why do I still prefer straight children? Hypocrisy. I am OK with that. Hence I won't find fault with YCP. At least he knows what he wants.


what the hell are you talking about??

if you watch or like seeing images of hot woman, are you disloyal to your wife? if you are loyal to your wife and still enjoy seeing a picture of a hot woman, are you a hypocrite?

this is baloney.....if you are a doctor and you don't "wish" your kids become doctors - are you a hypocrite? what kind of a lame ass argument is this?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:37 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

It is the right question to ask. So that we really understand where we stand.
One one hand, people have been arguing that it is natural. But they won't wish it upon their own offsprings. Why is that?
On the other hand, there is YCP, who is openly against it and you got the answer below.
If I think it is natural and nothing wrong why do I still prefer straight children? Hypocrisy. I am OK with that. Hence I won't find fault with YCP. At least he knows what he wants.




Again - you are missing the point. it does not matter to anyone what YCP feels or prefers his offsprings to be or jp_rox prefers his offsprings to be. if there were to be someone who is not straight, do they have the same rights as others is the question.

lets say there is a communist regime, and they are denying rights to folks who are religious, and a particular religion you are not too keen on? where will you stand? since you dont like that particular religion, would you be ok with what the communist regime is doing?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:34 pm:      


Discoveringself:


dude enough of your bullshit, what the heck is your take on this?

lavadalodi pedda lord lafangdas laga ochi prathi sympathizer meeda ekkestunnav, intaki ni position endi, dani justification endi?

we have said enough..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:33 pm:      


Anthamidhya:


Btw somebody asked jp_rocks what would he do. You asked the wrong person sir, you need to ask that to jaiycp !!!



It is the right question to ask. So that we really understand where we stand.
One one hand, people have been arguing that it is natural. But they won't wish it upon their own offsprings. Why is that?
On the other hand, there is YCP, who is openly against it and you got the answer below.
If I think it is natural and nothing wrong why do I still prefer straight children? Hypocrisy. I am OK with that. Hence I won't find fault with YCP. At least he knows what he wants.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:11 pm:      


Anthamidhya:




I will try to get him to change through psychology training, and if not kick his ass out of my life and home. I would do the same if he was a pedophile or gang member or a serial killer.

Just because he was my own flesh and blood, I will not support the deviant behavior of any type
the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ
http://goo.gl/gn6XL5
the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:05 pm:      


Discoveringself:

ur bleeding heart sickness




lol... why would you assume this? i am no torch bearer for anyone. everyone gotta fight their own fight. i am just looking at the consistency with which we apply our senses.

like i said, many times already here, it doesnt matter to me what others think, or what their purpose is. naturally or socially.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:44 pm:      


Anthamidhya:

that people can be biologically different.




vaammo reddochchi modalu ani........i think everyone agrees they are different.....

antey reddy gaaru, issue entantey.......rakarakaala hairstyles untey....diff hair style or color or whatever diff nose diff eyes anukuntaaru..........vadilesthaaru......if those things are serving the purpose they are intended for.....

if someone has three eyes or four hands.....then questions arise......third eye avasaramaa?....or may be the child is God's incarnation or something like that....

so plz chill.....and stop that bleeding....already many spilled here enough i guess...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:40 pm:      


Swavas:

Help in the sense if any one gone through similar issue in their family ani bayya, So this is not common kada. Help means suggestions.




bhayya, sorry man.......may be this thread we shud not be discussing......plz understand no malice.........and hope it is not hurting u........nothing personal in my comments....and no clue wat needs to be done.....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:37 pm:      

It’s very unnatural that some people don’t understand that people can be biologically different.
50 yrs back Leo kahner ane pshyciatrist spread similar theory about autistic kids that it is caused due to refrigerator moms who are so cold hearted that they didn’t take care of the kids.
Being different is already a burden for a lot of minorities. A lot of people here have seen more of the world than our previous generations from villages and cities. Let’s have an open mind and not intrude into other peoples rights. Empathy is to understand the other without ourselves being in that position, if we can’t do that I hate to pray for someone to be in that position to understand the same.btw, a lot of conservative politicians changed their stance when someone in their family came out as lgbt.

Btw somebody asked jp_rocks what would he do. You asked the wrong person sir, you need to ask that to jaiycp !!!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:34 pm:      


Discoveringself:

the nature of purpose




purpose of nature
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:34 pm:      


Swavas:


I am just kidding anduke j/k Ani kuda pettina...
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:33 pm:      


Sannayi_nokkulu:


Help in the sense if any one gone through similar issue in their family ani bayya, So this is not common kada. Help means suggestions.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:28 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

There are a lot of "sick" people out there who think




who cares what others think?.......I am ok with any other word that u wud like to use....if "sick" is offending ur bleeding heart sickness.....conveniently u tagged all kindsa social evils/shortcomings into the study of a phenomenon happening in the nature

from purely academic perspective......is it perfectly natural in the sense, it is serving the nature of purpose?........may be it is.......or is it like some kinda wiring issue.......bcos it doesnt look like nature serving purpose.......as simple as that for me.......

I ain't talking this from a social perspective really........more from a nature perspective interested in knowing what it is.....socially, they are like anybody else for me..........
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 07:45 pm:      


Sannayi_nokkulu:

nenu anedi adi kadu, valla cousin ala cheste dbers emi help chestaru help Ani tadu vesadu Ani j/k




Ferr thammudu kooda oka khatarnaak question adigaadu....nuvvu ee question...
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 07:40 pm:      


Chiru_fan:


nenu anedi adi kadu, valla cousin ala cheste dbers emi help chestaru help Ani tadu vesadu Ani j/k
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 06:58 pm:      


Chiru_fan:

.yee janma loo chesunna papamoo..



I shouldn't have typed this...it was my mistake.....
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 06:57 pm:      

I don't hate gays...I pity them...they are deprived of normal life....
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 06:57 pm:      

I don't hate gays...I pity them....yee janma loo chesunna papamoo.... they are deprived of normal life....
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 06:24 pm:      


Sannayi_nokkulu:

Tadu title endi ila undi??



1 + 1 = 1 anta
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 06:12 pm:      

@discoveringself - if it's just calling names like sick or unhealthy for being different, it's not a problem as long as the others can do the same. There are a lot of "sick" people out there who think religious people are sick, atheists are sick, blacks are sick, whites are sick, gays are sick, and so on. Not a problem as long as anyone is not being denied rights. Probably everyone is sick one way or the other.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 05:10 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

lol tumhare daridr ko maine samjha




good for you.....but i cant understand urs though.......

when something is not ordinary, then ppl call it sickness, anamoly, unhealthy and look for ways to see if it can become ordinary...........unless it is deemed an extraordinary quality.....that everyone in the society thinks shud be retained at any cost.......

inka nee istam.....jai_ycp and others might be thinking on those lines....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 05:04 pm:      


Discoveringself:

is that orientation itself out of ordinary? anedi question......is that itself an anomaly antuntey....


lol tumhare daridr ko maine samjha

from a very objective, mathematical standpoint - the orientation definitely seems to be "out of ordinary"..just the sheer numbers will tell us it is not the norm....andulo malli discussion emundi?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 04:29 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

whether it is mental or physical, i haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary with them




are you dense or acting dense?........out of ordinary in other things ani kaadu....the idea behind that argument.........is that orientation itself out of ordinary? anedi question......is that itself an anomaly antuntey....


jeeeeeeeez..........vaadiki mukku kaaratledu.....he groomed his hair well.....they look healthy...no extra fingers.....cool attitude........idekkadi kaamedy?........whoz talking abt all the rest of that crap?....just analogy kosam vaadithey.....daanni pattukuni disco continue chesthaa antey em chepthaam.....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 04:24 pm:      

Tadu title endi ila undi??
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 04:21 pm:      


Discoveringself:

srsly?...health is not about obese or not..health is just about physical aspects?......mentally unhealthy emotionally unhealthy....diff types of unhealthy categories.......


whether it is mental or physical, i haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary with them...as a matter of fact, they are much more productive at work, fit (rajusk annattu no bana potta uncle responsibilities kada)..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 04:08 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

i think "health" and "gender preference" are mutually exclusive..

actually, coming to think of it, i've not come across an obese gay guy....




srsly?...health is not about obese or not..health is just about physical aspects?......mentally unhealthy emotionally unhealthy....diff types of unhealthy categories.......
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 03:36 pm:      


Rajusk:

eating..gymming..working..sleeping..kabatti healthy gaa untaru emo




age old joke gurtostondi Raju garu. okadu hotel ki velli room kavalantadu. clerk room istoo don't open the window and look at other house antadu. sare ani cheppi apukoleka window open sette mugguru maga gents bum chik bum chik. veedu clerk ni pilustaadu. aa clerk gaadu vachchi soosi, that luck jack bzzzztard always in the middle and gets wonderful szzzwitch treatment antaadu...
paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 03:18 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

, i've not come across an obese gay guy....




Pillalni soodala..vallani padukobettali..sadivinchali..itlanti samsara bandhalu undavu kada..

eating..gymming..working..sleeping..kabatti healthy gaa untaru emo :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 03:12 pm:      

Final ga em telchaaru?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 03:01 pm:      


Discoveringself:

naturally healthy, is it an anamoly?


i think "health" and "gender preference" are mutually exclusive..

actually, coming to think of it, i've not come across an obese gay guy....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 02:56 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

may be that's what it takes for some people to survive? may be that's what "nature" came up with to control populations or eliminate some genetic lines?




possible...not denying that.....but from a general sense of naturally healthy, is it an anamoly? still seems like a valid question.....and a valid discussion to engage in.........doesnt sound outrageous to me....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 02:54 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

the problem is about denying rights as equals - again not equals as in one person is same as the other, but equals under law.




I doubt anybody would advocate that now.....they dont have a basis/need, except the book ppl......lets not get that in here plz....

by healthy discussion i mean, avoiding those extreme positions :D......and the other extreme is "it is naturally perfect, and shud only be looked at it that way".....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 02:45 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

I heard argument from a few friends. I personally have no experience. So, I end up listening to them than converse.
Come to think of it, when we were kids, most of our parents dressed us as girls for a few minutes/hours. It could also be some boys try to dress up as girls and vice versa for the fun of it. Doesn't mean they are gay.
At what point would parents know before the kids know?


it is not an "argument" - what i said was a firs hand account of a mom....i guess the manifestation timing varies but in her case her son never took a liking for the typical toys boys tend to like...he always liked girly stuff and kept coming back to those even after she tried to 'set him straight'..

Moviebuff001:

Would you prefer your son/daughter to be straight should have been the question.


well, as a straight guy, i "prefer" my kids are straight...like i "prefer" they become rich or stay out of trouble..but my preference is merely a product of the society that i live in....

who knows? if a time comes when genetically engineered kids are the norm (and that time will come faster that we all expect), there's no evolutionary incentive for humans to procreate themselves....then things might change and people may really come to see this as a personal preference..we are not there yet but we may get there..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 02:35 pm:      


Discoveringself:

but is it a natural disposition serving its purpose in the nature? is a question that can be looked into I guess.....if not for anything, just for theoretical purposes....



Jp_rocks:

may be that's what it takes for some people to survive? may be that's what "nature" came up with to control populations or eliminate some genetic lines?


 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 02:03 pm:      

This is a very delicate issue. Agree or not, it is being accepted in the society today even though there are no medical or scientific explanations.
So, the discussion can be for or against but nobody can unequivocally say that it is correct or wrong.
Majority would probably agree with "I wouldn't do it but I won't deny the presence. I also wouldn't see LGBTQ people as any less."
 

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Discoveringself:



sorry for the typos... distracted :D
 

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Gochi:




What you said is 100% true

Unless ilanti valla valla society ki èlanti harm leka pothe why should society look at them in bad angle , if society grow up and give them moral support atleast 70-80% cases lo every thing will set right

Oka ammai gonthu kosaru ani blame chese badhulu , ilanti vallani accept cheste they can come up openly and say no to heterogeneous marriages

same applys to lesbians also
 

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Discoveringself:

very gud question...we can discuss that too....atleast in this issue, antha hard core supporting and hard core against positions avasaram ledu kaabatti.....kantham, santham style lo discuss cheyyochchemo ani.....rather than "omygosh" expressions about anybody having a different opinion......and then fighting about our stance...than discuss issue at hand....




whats wrong in someone saying ohmygosh, as an expression of unbelievable, when they hear really something strange.. yes it was strange to the person who heard it... is it so wrong to say ohmygosh.. lol... unless the discussion has taken to levels where it socially not palpable in the type of words are being used.. its still a healthy discussion ...

lets not say anyone is fighting here.. it may appear so, but fight means there is some thing is really at stake here... like you said there is a hardcore position is not needed...

if saying ohmygosh is taking a hardcore position, i guess these are reall fights here.


Discoveringself:

ee sin gola endi raaja?...yedo book preachers tho maatlaadutunnattu.....u seem to be influenced by that.....wat u talking sin ya?.......

if someone calls it crime, we are talking at the lowest levels...i thought everyone seems pretty level headed here at least in this thread



i did not mean ycp vunkl said its a sin, i am talking in general about how they have been treated historically. they were called unnatural, then it got confusion whether its natural or not, they were labeled sinful, and they were treated as criminals and arrested, even today there are many countries that arrest them and treat as criminals....


Discoveringself:

i think discussion should not be about natural or unnatural...or is it right or wrong...or even worse sin or crime or sane.....thats too cheap.....

i think the discussion around whether it is an "anamoly".....as in the general sense......main purpose of sex is reproduction and for that.....male female combo sounds to be the perfect fit.......

just like having a proportional body.....or certain number of hands/fingers/legs.....any extra growth or inhibited growth is considered an anamoly.......does that fall in that category? is something to look at......

I dont have a clue.....open to both ideas......



like i have already mentioned, i have no problem even if its called unnatural - based on whatever their definition is. the problem is about denying rights as equals - again not equals as in one person is same as the other, but equals under law.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 01:44 pm:      

search something called "bachcha baazi" in afghanistan pakistan areas......they might feel perfectly ok with it........whether that is how the things are? we dont know.......and the abuse rate on boys in those societies seems to be abnormally high.......

may be it is the unavaialbility of girls....or the strict dressing and everything.....and availability of only boys and things.....that it seems perfectly natural and accepted.......

in that way, a gud idea is to look at probable causes.....than declare unequivocally, this is it.....
 

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Cinejeevi:

majority of these type of cases lo low mental stability with high proxomity plays major role. usually hostels. evaro okariddaru alavatu padi try to catch some easy fish. weak minded or disturbed background unnavallu padachchu. oka mandu, cigarette laaga konnallaki vyasanam laa aipoi inka nenu inte anukovachchu kooda.

ivemi lekundaa brain imbalance valana i think i am this ane batch kooda vundacchchu.

in the first usual preys are busstands, rly stations, jails etc., earlier this used to be with slum area people but now educated coming out saying I am this.

taking to psychiatrist and talking with open mind and trying for a medical cure for some time will NOT hurt ani naa tokkalo opinion. if it's still not cured... then blame it on KARMA...



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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 01:39 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

i said there is nothing unnatural, but you seem to indicate that its still unnatural.




i think discussion should not be about natural or unnatural...or is it right or wrong...or even worse sin or crime or sane.....thats too cheap.....

i think the discussion around whether it is an "anamoly".....as in the general sense......main purpose of sex is reproduction and for that.....male female combo sounds to be the perfect fit.......

just like having a proportional body.....or certain number of hands/fingers/legs.....any extra growth or inhibited growth is considered an anamoly.......does that fall in that category? is something to look at......

I dont have a clue.....open to both ideas......
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 01:38 pm:      

majority of these type of cases lo low mental stability with high proxomity plays major role. usually hostels. evaro okariddaru alavatu padi try to catch some easy fish. weak minded or disturbed background unnavallu padachchu. oka mandu, cigarette laaga konnallaki vyasanam laa aipoi inka nenu inte anukovachchu kooda.

ivemi lekundaa brain imbalance valana i think i am this ane batch kooda vundacchchu.

in the first usual preys are busstands, rly stations, jails etc., earlier this used to be with slum area people but now educated coming out saying I am this.

taking to psychiatrist and talking with open mind and trying for a medical cure for some time will NOT hurt ani naa tokkalo opinion. if it's still not cured... :-(:-( then blame it on KARMA...
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 01:33 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

but when you start saying that it is sin to be born




ee sin gola endi raaja?...yedo book preachers tho maatlaadutunnattu.....u seem to be influenced by that.....wat u talking sin ya?.......

if someone calls it crime, we are talking at the lowest levels...i thought everyone seems pretty level headed here at least in this thread
 

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Mental_sachinodu:

healthy ante enti rao garu... ?




very gud question...we can discuss that too....atleast in this issue, antha hard core supporting and hard core against positions avasaram ledu kaabatti.....kantham, santham style lo discuss cheyyochchemo ani.....rather than "omygosh" expressions about anybody having a different opinion......and then fighting about our stance...than discuss issue at hand....
 

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Jai_ycp:

do some research. many kids during adolescent age could not differentiate between attraction, infatuation and their sexual orientation. there are many stories who went into that path and realised later they are not into it.




why can't they come back from it.. i do not think you can influence the sexual orientation or attraction.. what person gets attracted has nothing to do with nature.. yes, as you said it could be chemical reaction in brain like any other feelings or emotions.. tell me what is unnatural other than reproduction..

as male do we get attracted every other woman.. is it unnatural for not getting attracted to certain women? some get attracted to eyes, face, skin color, shape, thunder thighs.. :-), etc..



Jai_ycp:

how do you protect or force someone from not becoming phedophile? those deviations should not be normalized and should be left lurking in the dark corners.




what this has to do with LGBT?.. as you said the former one is unnatural too.. the serial killer is unnatural too.. abuser is unnatural too.. cheating is unnatural too.. for me spitting on the road is unnatural too..

What is the nature? how do you define? are you talking about the nature on earth from the birth or few thousands years of our civilization?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 01:06 pm:      


Doraveerachakra:

adult making his own choice ki illegal drug addiction or alcohol overkill ki link eti saar.


people has every right to make their choice whether we like it or not. kurrodu edhuru thirigi nuvvu evadu raa nannu maarchataaniki antey, tala ekkada ettukovaalo koodaa telvadhu mallee evarikee.


koorchopetti endhuku emiti elaa kocchens adigi explore cheyyatam veru (with an intention to explosre if he was forcedd it to this)....... pychiatrist daggaraki teesukupovadam veru.



meeru cheppedhi anni addictions ki same ee kadha? you did not specify how its different when its choice/preference from other forms of addiction.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 01:01 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

then it can be changed. so whats the issue here? just like drug addict, movie addict, alcohol addict, they can be rehabilitated



adult making his own choice ki illegal drug addiction or alcohol overkill ki link eti saar.


people has every right to make their choice whether we like it or not. kurrodu edhuru thirigi nuvvu evadu raa nannu maarchataaniki antey, tala ekkada ettukovaalo koodaa telvadhu mallee evarikee.


koorchopetti endhuku emiti elaa kocchens adigi explore cheyyatam veru (with an intention to explosre if he was forcedd it to this)....... pychiatrist daggaraki teesukupovadam veru.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:58 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

we are repeating our positions again and again. lets leave the topic.




words tho aadatamu emi ledhu. my gripe about is simple and i think you understand what i am saying. anyway, everyone should think about it and try to be humane about it.

peace out vunkl. if i said anything personal was not my intention.
 

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Mental_sachinodu:

20 finger guy or gay is not the point. the individual for whatever he is, as long as he is not infringing other rights, how is it a deviant behavior. again, dont normalize that i normalized something here.



words tho kabaddi adutunnara?. . Mu belief is we should not normalize the deviant sexual behavior irrespective of whether they infringed other rights or not. it is sickness and we should not holdback in calling that.

we are repeating our positions again and again. lets leave the topic.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:55 pm:      

vaarni, entee discussion....its nothing to do with Psychology or taste...its an inbuilt genetic thing that cannot be changed, deeni meedha chaala documentaries unnaai, doctors tell you what is the difference and why such feelings are caused...US laanti countries lo oorike legalize cheyyaledhu deenni...autism ante theleeni vaadu, pillalaki naalugu debbalu thagilisthe vaalley nerchukuntaaru annattu undhi...accept these people how they are and move on...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:54 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

ol addict, they can be rehabilitated



 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:53 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

to moviebuff's question - do i "wish" my son be a gay? i don't 'wish' him to turn out into a gay like i don't 'wish' he turns out a doctor or a lawyer....but if he does turn into one, i sure as hell am prepared to protect him , love him for who he is and to remind him that he is special because he is himself..




kondaru sese over action ki mee answer great...

 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:51 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

we both said what should be said and lets leave the discussion back to swavas cousin. i hope he gets cured by the treatment




lol... ok.
 

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Jai_ycp:

atleast you got the natural/unnatural part. I don't worry about 2 tongue or 20 finger guy but worry about deviant sexual behavior people either he is a gay or phedophile. you dont thats a different story.




dont try to normalize vunkl... i said there is nothing unnatural, but you seem to indicate that its still unnatural.

20 finger guy or gay is not the point. the individual for whatever he is, as long as he is not infringing other rights, how is it a deviant behavior. again, dont normalize that i normalized something here.
 

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Doraveerachakra:

taste/preference...



then it can be changed. so whats the issue here? just like drug addict, movie addict, alcohol addict, they can be rehabilitated. we both are saying same thing
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:49 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

do you think evolution has stopped... may be we are still evolving and may be we will evolve to an "Acceptable" unisex animals lol...



might be not also. . we both said what should be said and lets leave the discussion back to swavas cousin. i hope he gets cured by the treatment
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:48 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

take him to psychologist. it can be cured



nee paasugoola... current shock ippinchettu gaa vunnaavu gaa bidda ki chance isthey...

homosexuality is a taste/preference.... not a disease
 

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Mental_sachinodu:

as long as you are not going against their rights. but when you start saying that it is sin to be born with 20 fingers and they should not have the same rights as a 10 finger person... then starts the struggle.



atleast you got the natural/unnatural part. I don't worry about 2 tongue or 20 finger guy but worry about deviant sexual behavior people either he is a gay or phedophile. you dont thats a different story.

Amaravathi:

No one is normalizing the issue but trying to be aware of the issue than ignoring or opposing it. understanding the issue in the society does not mean accepting it right?



read jp_rocks and other messages. some are accepting it as natural behavior and are sympathetic to it. adhi kuda ok thats their choice. they are blaming others who don't feel that way.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:46 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

issue is about normalization of that behavior which some people are doing it under the false premise of progressiveness.




No, this is nothing to do with Progressiveness .. but just accepting some anomalies in mankind and move on... this does not mean u wish some one to become like that..
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Amaravathi:

is prob will stay there no matter what. U support it or reject it..does not matter much



issue is about normalization of that behavior which some people are doing it under the false premise of progressiveness.
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Jai_ycp:

what is nature single and biggest principle? survival of the fittest and the best. humans evovled into hetrosexual beings because that is the best form. otherwise we would have been an unisex animals.




do you think evolution has stopped... may be we are still evolving and may be we will evolve to an "Acceptable" unisex animals lol...

Jai_ycp:

I gave an example below. a boy born with 2 tongues and 20 hand fingers can be called natural by your definition (since nature creates natural things only) and is called as unnatural by me. I consider one born with single tongue and 10 fingers as natural. inka rdhamu kakapothe



ardham kaaka povataniki emi ledhu.. its still a natural phenonemenon for someone to be born with 2 tounges... and 20 fingers there is nothing unnatural about it. It looks like you want to be able to label things that you dont like as unnatural and make yourself secure for what you are. nothing wrong in it. as long as you are not going against their rights. but when you start saying that it is sin to be born with 20 fingers and they should not have the same rights as a 10 finger person... then starts the struggle. hope you got it.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:40 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

those deviations should not be normalized and should be left lurking in the dark corners.




It seems you did not get the essence of the discussion here...

No one is normalizing the issue but trying to be aware of the issue than ignoring or opposing it. understanding the issue in the society does not mean accepting it right?
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:38 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:



I gave an example below. a boy born with 2 tongues and 20 hand fingers can be called natural by your definition (since nature creates natural things only) and is called as unnatural by me. I consider one born with single tongue and 10 fingers as natural. inka rdhamu kakapothe

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:37 pm:      

how can one not enjoy the beautiful dash but go for a dash instead, for a DUCK ...
same sex preference males amazes me ya. no hatred though. Only sympathy for their taste
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:36 pm:      


Jai_ycp:


gayism is not allowed for thousand of centuries under many societies.




I does not matter whether society allowed it or not... its the question is, issue exists or not.

This prob will stay there no matter what. U support it or reject it..does not matter much
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Amaravathi:

I dont think anyone would become a gay "by choice" ...I wud say its wiring problem... society simply cannot force a species to change its sexual orientation . period



do some research. many kids during adolescent age could not differentiate between attraction, infatuation and their sexual orientation. there are many stories who went into that path and realised later they are not into it. Human min deviates all the time. hence the rules and social behavior

Amaravathi:

How can nature corrects it? any idea?

U or society cannt simply "protect" or "force" someone from becoming gay or straight ..



what is nature single and biggest principle? survival of the fittest and the best. humans evovled into hetrosexual beings because that is the best form. otherwise we would have been an unisex animals.

how do you protect or force someone from not becoming phedophile? those deviations should not be normalized and should be left lurking in the dark corners.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:32 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

i understood you did not get it. where did is ay its natural? its a deviant behavior which is unnatural.




how is a behavior in the nature, unnatural? you are labeling it deviant first and then claiming it as unnatural. if it were not natural how is it even happening in the world?


Jai_ycp:

You can call me anything you want i don't care. i know that you know who the snowflakes are



i did not call you anything, you are the one who attributed that to others, and i said may be it is you. again, i dont care enough to call you anything vunkl.


Jai_ycp:


gayism is not allowed for thousand of centuries under many societies. those that allowed perished. now you can wish for that change but history is on my side. technology might have advanced leaps and bounds but the raw insticnt human nature and behavior did not change much



lol, i am saying the ame thing. human nature and behavior did not perish. although it has been labeled sin and they were being punished for however long it has been, they are still around and surviving... exactly the raw insticnts are surviving :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:29 pm:      


Mental_sachinodu:

you said its not natural to start with, and then now saying its natural but its sickness



i understood you did not get it. where did is ay its natural? its a deviant behavior which is unnatural.

Mental_sachinodu:

looks like you are the snow flake who is afraid of nature .. please dont mind the personal message, probably something to introspect with.



You can call me anything you want i don't care. i know that you know who the snowflakes are.

Mental_sachinodu:

under the name of the society rule, many people have been killed for however they are born. the thing societies rules can change, and they will always change for better or worse.



gayism is not allowed for thousand of centuries under many societies. those that allowed perished. now you can wish for that change but history is on my side. technology might have advanced leaps and bounds but the raw insticnt human nature and behavior did not change much
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:23 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

nature will correct it. we just have to protect our kids during this hard times.




How can nature corrects it? any idea? :D

U or society cannt simply "protect" or "force" someone from becoming gay or straight ..
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:23 pm:      


Raman:

uncle ittanti personal vishyalu db ki lagi racha cheyyudu manchidi kadu

mods ee thed delete cheyyandi




medicines prescribe chestharemo vunkl sickness ki.. who knows there might be a solution if we have a healthy discussion here :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:22 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

it is not progressive to support unnatural behavior but its a deviation. most of these supporters won't even want their kid to be gay. There are always both type of gays: by choice and wired that way. "normalization" of this unnatural, ahboric behaviour will cause more normal kids to attract to it.




I dont think anyone would become a gay "by choice" ...I wud say its wiring problem... society simply cannot force a species to change its sexual orientation . period
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:21 pm:      


Discoveringself:

we just gotta celebrate it and endorse it to the maximum extent possible...without even allowing any healthy discussion (with a different view) about it......




healthy ante enti rao garu... ?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:19 pm:      


Jai_ycp:




Dude,
you said its not natural to start with, and then now saying its natural but its sickness :D ...

looks like you are the snow flake who is afraid of nature :D .. please dont mind the personal message, probably something to introspect with.

under the name of the society rule, many people have been killed for however they are born. the thing societies rules can change, and they will always change for better or worse.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:17 pm:      

uncle ittanti personal vishyalu db ki lagi racha cheyyudu manchidi kadu

mods ee thed delete cheyyandi
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:15 pm:      

snowflake bleeding hearts kakamma kaburlu chebutunnaru.

men has evolved into this species with this behavior as the best possible outcome. otherwise men would have evolved into unisex mammals. we are not. why? there will be a deviations and anomalies through the human history.

what is natural? what is unnatural?

What if a kid is born with two tongues, 20 hand fingers, do you call it natural?

people often get confused how to define thsi ebhavior? if it is
Choice - it can be cured through psychological treatments.
chemical imbalance in thier brain: i call it sickness. if you are a sensitive sudarshan, you can call it development disability or mental heath issue.

"normalizing" the unantural behavior is wrong. if you think this issue existed only in this century, you are wrong. it has been there from the start of mankind. but societies evolved, understood the abnormal nature and made it ominous under society rule.

it is not progressive to support unnatural behavior but its a deviation. most of these supporters won't even want their kid to be gay. There are always both type of gays: by choice and wired that way. "normalization" of this unnatural, ahboric behaviour will cause more normal kids to attract to it.

Imagine if you normalize the behavior using drugs, alcohol in front of your kids, what are the chance that they would choose that path. as parents we should guide them in right direction and tell them difference between right and wrong.

for me pediophile, paraphilla and deviantr sexual behavior is sickness and unnatural. there is no sugar coating it.

The rise of these deviant beings is nothing new nor the first time in history. nature will correct it. we just have to protect our kids during this hard times.
the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 11:43 am:      


Jp_rocks:

there are MANY things in this world that are seemingly against nature





Jp_rocks:

to call it a sickness JUST because it doesn't fit your construct of how nature should work -




vaammo....enti ee aavesam?.......against nature ani kaadu gaani, is it an anamoly in the nature type lo think cheyyochchu....cancer is part of nature......"it is not against nature, so it shud just be accepted as normally as health" antey....so in that way, others opinion needs to be thought through....than rubbishing it with bleeding hearts......

dont get me wrong....no way wud i see anything criminal or mentally cruel kinda thing that I attach to ppl of different orientation.......but is it a natural disposition serving its purpose in the nature? is a question that can be looked into I guess.....if not for anything, just for theoretical purposes....

if anyone is trying some religious fundamentalism or abusing and ill treating LGBTQ.....sure they shud be booted and kicked......

but the same time....we just gotta celebrate it and endorse it to the maximum extent possible...without even allowing any healthy discussion (with a different view) about it......might be a lil too extreme liberal fundamentalism...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 11:37 am:      


Vijayy:

Swavas - this is about u and not ur cousin kada




No Bayya, I am married. Its actually my cousin and wanted to help him/
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 11:29 am:      


Frasier:

Gays ante andaru vichitramaina gestures chesthaaru ane hard and fast rule ekkada ledhu...



No questions there. Previous argument lo 3 or 4 years nunchi telisindi or doubt vachindi ani unte .... chesina argument adi.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 11:12 am:      


Moviebuff001:

I heard argument from a few friends. I personally have no experience. So, I end up listening to them than converse.
Come to think of it, when we were kids, most of our parents dressed us as girls for a few minutes/hours. It could also be some boys try to dress up as girls and vice versa for the fun of it. Doesn't mean they are gay.
At what point would parents know before the kids know?




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My best friend is gay and ee desam kaani desam lo naaku thammudi laaga untaadu.. veedu chepthe kaani veedu adhi ani theleedhu antha manly and normal untaadu, I like the no fear attitude and confidence in him.

How I met your mother lo Neil Patrick Harris ni chuusthe assalu doubt raadhu, his acting is that good. Alaage Prison break lo Wentworth miller ni chuusinaa assalu doubt raadhu.

Gays ante andaru vichitramaina gestures chesthaaru ane hard and fast rule ekkada ledhu...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 11:12 am:      

for all who think this is a relatively new phenomenon ...

jewish texts considered sodomy as a sin about 2000 years ago.
Romans were open and much more liberal about it prior to that.

it exists in other animal species as well as a part of nature. simple google search about it will show the vast majority animal species that involve in it.

so now, if its natural, it could still be sin according to religious text. ila Sin ani seppi great writers ninchi scientists ni lepesaaru... ippudu Sin ani chepthe "God" nijama ani aduguthunnaar ani, adhi answer cheyaleka "not natural" ki stick avuthunnaar.. you know with science you can dig your head in the sand like an ostrich and say it is wrong science and claim we dont know enough about it.

but what about individual rights - well as long as they are not my rights, i dont mind taking away other rights :D .

the last not but the least is, society guggyipaalu avuthadhi ani decide chesaaru.. gays valla..

anyway it takes time for societies to adapt to such challenges .. time is the only answer as always..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:55 am:      


Jp_rocks:

but if he does turn into one, i sure as hell am prepared to protect him , love him for who he is and to remind him that he is special because he is himself..



Most straight people that I know, think this way. Including me.

Jp_rocks:

do i "wish" my son be a gay? i don't 'wish' him to turn out into a gay like i don't 'wish' he turns out a doctor or a lawyer.



Interesting thought. extending the analogy to being a doctor or a lawyer.
Would you prefer your son/daughter to be straight should have been the question.

Jp_rocks:

started to notice things that were "off" from when he was 3-4 years old.



I heard argument from a few friends. I personally have no experience. So, I end up listening to them than converse.
Come to think of it, when we were kids, most of our parents dressed us as girls for a few minutes/hours. It could also be some boys try to dress up as girls and vice versa for the fun of it. Doesn't mean they are gay.
At what point would parents know before the kids know?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:50 am:      

wiring prblmunte puttinappude doctors cheppesthaaraa?leka aa tests/technology inkaa raaledhaa?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:40 am:      


Jodhaa:

Bayam ayethaandi saaaru...


future lo mana kids kuda idhe situation lo unte ela aney kadha mi bhayam..naadhi same bhayam..andhuke kindha adiga how it happens all of a sudden ani..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:38 am:      


Jp_rocks:

so the least we can do to enjoy the little time we have in this world and to make the world a better place - even for people who are "different" - is to not further constrain ourselves and further shackle ourselves into these narrow social frameworks..




well said.. people worry about others and the world than their own..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:30 am:      


Mental_sachinodu:

any thing that is in real world is part nature no? if Gays exist that is part of nature.


well said brother! nailed it!! what i said in a thousand words you said it in a sentence
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:28 am:      

my first contact or realization that there are folks who are attracted to their own kind came from personal experience when i was 21 when some guy in a shared auto tried to do something....at first i was disgusted, then i realized there's more to this world than meets the eye..and then in my professional world i kept running into some incredible people, learned, well-read guys who are wildly successful and rich - who were gays.....so i talked to them over drinks, read some books and tried to understand this seemingly unnatural thing....finally i've realized that what's natural to us may not be to someone else..

i read a very moving book "My son wears high-heels" - its written by a mom who came to terms with the reality that her beautiful child, a son, was a gay...its the story of a mom, a conservative, who loved her child more than anything else - started to notice things that were "off" from when he was 3-4 years old....it was a brutal reality for her - a reality nonetheless..how she accepted, respected, loved and nurtured her son into a successful person is the story..

not all gays are lucky enough to have such kind, accepting mothers......as minorities, we know how it feels to be seen 'differently'..but no one called us "sick" or "queers" or other expletives...it breaks my heart to imagine the plight of LGBTQ guys and their parents who face discrimination to a degree that no other community is facing....they are vulnerable - let us respect them for who they are and let them live their lives

to moviebuff's question - do i "wish" my son be a gay? i don't 'wish' him to turn out into a gay like i don't 'wish' he turns out a doctor or a lawyer....but if he does turn into one, i sure as hell am prepared to protect him , love him for who he is and to remind him that he is special because he is himself..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:27 am:      

Bayam ayethaandi saaaru...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:23 am:      


Platypus:

LBGT ante enti?

LGBT - Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual and Transgender




Q ni miss chesaaru
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:22 am:      

LBGT lo

L and G poni wiring problem anukovachchu.

B ni enduku support cheyyali? he/she should stick to only one right?

T ante asalu characterstics ela untayo telidu kabatti no comments.
paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:21 am:      


Swavas:




if he is shy, lack of interaction with girls may also be a reason.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:21 am:      


Platypus:




Thanks
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:19 am:      

LBGT ante enti?

LGBT - Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual and Transgender
Disclaimer: Do your own research before investing in any cryptocurrency or conventional stocks. My views are my personal opinions.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:13 am:      

As indiviudals they are one of the best i met.....
so i respect their choice...
my view...ofcourse...
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
-- Aristotle
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:12 am:      

I agree with what Ringo_Rangaswamy said in his post # 18460.

before concluding he is it and confirm try once.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:10 am:      

LBGT ante enti?
paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:08 am:      

People who point fingers at people who don't follow societal norms are generally the ones who have always experienced life as a bed of roses.

Everyone should go through the path of thorns to reach the matured state of not judging people for what they are.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:06 am:      


Swavas:





My ofinion -

This behavior happens because of abuse or repression or lack of confidence in self to face situations. The choice is a result of trying to find something where there is acceptance.

The person has mental health issues and needs therapy and counselling from family and medial fraternity to find out the cause and address it.

Unfortunately, Indian society acts with hate and violence which only causes the person to go even deeper into this regressed mindset.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 10:01 am:      

Evaraithe emundhi stand up for yourself and please don't ruin someone's life because you were not brave enough.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 09:59 am:      


Jp_rocks:


"idi kaade vidhi raatha, anukode edureetha" ani sirivennela the great annattu, 'vidhi ratha' or 'nature' is more often our perception of how things "should be" based on our limited education or social conditioning..this nature that we see and perceive is far from reality / truth in many cases.....anyway homosexuality is actually nature at work..may be that's what it takes for some people to survive? may be that's what "nature" came up with to control populations or eliminate some genetic lines? see this can be explained in scientific, genetic and evolutionary terms..



any thing that is in real world is part nature no? if Gays exist that is part of nature.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 09:57 am:      


Moviebuff001:

What is the reason for a person to not want/wish his/her kid to be gay...
Is it because they think being gay is wrong or unnatural or natural?

If someone straight supports LGBT cause, is it for humanitarian reasons or is it because they believe that it is natural?




why are you asking me vunkl... you already seemed to know why ycp unkl is posting that way, so you already know the answer?

Not sure what he thinks, he said its not natural ... to me, im not even sure what that means.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 09:57 am:      

Homosexuality is 'biological'..there are MANY things in this world that are seemingly against nature...a salmon swimming upstream, jumping up waterfalls and in many cases into predators mouths may seem like it is on a suicide mission while in reality it is survival!

"idi kaade vidhi raatha, anukode edureetha" ani sirivennela the great annattu, 'vidhi ratha' or 'nature' is more often our perception of how things "should be" based on our limited education or social conditioning..this nature that we see and perceive is far from reality / truth in many cases.....anyway homosexuality is actually nature at work..may be that's what it takes for some people to survive? may be that's what "nature" came up with to control populations or eliminate some genetic lines? see this can be explained in scientific, genetic and evolutionary terms..

to call it a sickness JUST because it doesn't fit your construct of how nature should work - is preposterous and is also unfortunately the easy and lazy way to come to terms with something you don't get.....anyway if you don't understand something, read up, give it the benefit of doubt before judging it....look it up and you will find answers..

heck we aren't even capable of physically seeing or hearing MOST phenomenon in the universe because we are constrained by human limitations...so the least we can do to enjoy the little time we have in this world and to make the world a better place - even for people who are "different" - is to not further constrain ourselves and further shackle ourselves into these narrow social frameworks..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 09:56 am:      

Swavas - this is about u and not ur cousin kada
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 09:55 am:      


Mental_sachinodu:

ycp vunkl post chesina dhaaniki, meeru adigina dhaaniki eti sambandham.



What is the reason for a person to not want/wish his/her kid to be gay...
Is it because they think being gay is wrong or unnatural or natural?

If someone straight supports LGBT cause, is it for humanitarian reasons or is it because they believe that it is natural?

You can be conservative and support LGBT cause... you are supporting on the grounds of humanity. Not because you think being LGBT is right or natural.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 09:37 am:      

First get him out of india
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:20 am:      

Out of Topic :

Gay's ki oka forum kuda vundhi ( Ippudu Active vunnattu ledhu...yeppudo 2 yrs back chusa)..... due to societal restrictions ye city lo ye public place lo they can meet or they can get fun ani information share chesukuntu vuntaaru...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 08:14 am:      

Desam intha maarindhi anukuntunnaru ante....ikkada chaala mandhiki desam gurunchi teliyadu ane anukovali..... Almost 15 yrs nunchi School, Inter ila prathi chota chusthune vunna gays ni.... particular ga co education leni Schools/College Hostels lo Teenage kurrallo start avuthundhi....Asalu akkada dhaaka endhuku 10yrs back Bezawada busstand lo restroom ki velli.... evadu teda ga tagalakunda tirigi vasthe chaalu ra anukune vaadni.....ippudu contract ki ichesthunnaru kabatti godava ledhu akkada(or may be ippudu kuda teenage kurrallani anthe tagulukuntunnaru emo)....

Just that evariki cheppukovatledhu kabatti teliyatledhu anthe.... And I Appreciate the guy for informing you.... Intlo vallaki strong and firm ga pelli ante ishtam ledhu.... pelli pette kashtalu...ala ila cheppi brainwash cheyyamanandi....oka 2 yrs lo vallu fix avuthaaru eedu pelli chesukodu le inka ani..... Just UK vellipoyi Live-in Relationship lo bathikeyyochu easy ga....
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 07:36 am:      

mm...india lo unnaadu kabatti family ki kastam.....aa okka factor theesthey.....

its his choice....if its genuine inclination......


councelling or doctor daggariki endku suggest chesthunnaro ardham kaledhu.....


also.....by birth gurnatee ga undalani rule ledhu anukunta.....usual ganey oka vayasu vaachaka they identify themselves....


If at all he has chosen that path......peddaga chesedhi yemi ledhu anukunta.....but he has that community growing to provide solidarity and rights.....
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 07:31 am:      


Nice:

parents ki cheppakapovatam better emo ani naa village thinking.



Edhi village thinking enti annai ..
Edhe correct konni visayalu cheppakapovatam best ..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 07:25 am:      


Teenmaar:




 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 03:33 am:      

First talk to him and find out if it is true. If so, let him live his life. Evaro cheppinattu wiring problem anukoni be happy. Of course parents health issues annaav kabatti for now pelli cheukolenu ani cheppu nettadame until they are alive
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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:25 am:      


Chillarodu:

maa Friend thammudu Canada lo living.
nenu pelli chesukonu ani cheppesaadu. Parents Village lo vuntaru and vaadni convince cheyyataaniki try chesaaru but vinatledhu and so left him to his choice..

maa friend gaadiki naaku idhe doubt vachi adigithe atla emi ledhu antadu.
Reason adigithe emi ledhu antadu




What he is doing is right thing
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:23 am:      


Platypus:

Ee DB lo intha mandhi uninformed janaalu unnaaraa?

He is wired differently. Just accept it and let him move to the UK




Let him move on correct ey gaani, parents ki cheppakapovatam better emo ani naa village thinking. They can't understand like the way this generation understands ani

Marriage vadhu ani strict ga cheppesi kudirithe UK vellatam aa candidate daggara ki or else bachelor ga undipovatam best same parents tho undetattu aithe
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:14 am:      

Every one India cannot go to uk,USA,Canada,Australia to hide thire sexual orientation , or fulfill thire sexual desire openly

aa country’s emi Indians ni raramani gates opens chesi kurcholedhu

India should transform and protect LGBT community , recently Australia passed LGBT bill


India lo inka prostituation ee pedda offense la chustaru which is very common and happening fact for centuries , then forget about LGBT

but compared to prostitution being LGBT is not a big crime , prostitution comes due to backwardness or by force and pressure for money , but LGBT could be only a case by nature or psychological problem

India lo daridram emiti ante as per law ED problem which can be curable by medicine is considered as crime if girl approach a court and court orders boy to undergo potency tests even though doctors say potency tests are not accurate to say boy as impotent but still Indian laws permit potency test

and girl parents easily brand boy as napunsukudu much before court pass out any judgment , this is worse for a boy and his parents to handle


Only solutions for all this is adoption , surrogacy , mutual breakup , mutual adjustment or else stay single and don’t care about relatives
 

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Posted on Tuesday, January 30, 2018 - 12:11 am:      

maa Friend thammudu Canada lo living.
nenu pelli chesukonu ani cheppesaadu. Parents Village lo vuntaru and vaadni convince cheyyataaniki try chesaaru but vinatledhu and so left him to his choice..

maa friend gaadiki naaku idhe doubt vachi adigithe atla emi ledhu antadu.
Reason adigithe emi ledhu antadu
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:51 pm:      

Ee DB lo intha mandhi uninformed janaalu unnaaraa?

He is wired differently. Just accept it and let him move to the UK and live his life the way he wants. Anavasaramgaa oka ammaayi gonthu koyyoddhu abaddhaalu cheppi.
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:27 pm:      

India lo adoption rules liberalise cheyali so that this kind of issues can be addressed to some extent

Tushar Kapoor, Karan Johar lanti dabbu unna vallu gone for sorrogate kids reason every one knows , which cannot be afforadable to middle class men

after all marriage in India is for somebody who can take care for life long or during aging days , either wife,husband,children

Compared to women , men’s life is very difficult to live single when he is aged

Then why can’t men can given opportunity to adopt a child , why only woman are permmited to adopt a child legally

Gays unatte lesbians kooda untaru , but gays are easy targets in society compared to lesbians because society will show some kindness to women and lesbians count is less and are difficult to be traced and proven guilty

If gay married to a girl can be branded as sin , then viceversa is also could also be possible and could also be a sin. But it is very difficult to be proven as per Indian laws in case of girl is a lesbian


Mumbai lo oka ame tana koduku ni oka abbai ki ichi Pelli chesindi as knowing he is a gay and publicly accepted thire marrage , ofcourse the married person is from different country
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:23 pm:      


Moviebuff001:

I know where YCP is coming from. Think of it this way. Answer the 2 questions below.
Would you wish your kid to be gay?
If the kid turns out to be gay in future, would you denounce him/her?

If you say "no" to both questions, there is no difference between what you and ycp are saying.




ycp vunkl post chesina dhaaniki, meeru adigina dhaaniki eti sambandham... you are talking about what he might be feeling as a parent, but he is talking about what the other person is.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:23 pm:      

Futurelo

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/2105675/goodness_gracious_me_g ay_son/

 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:17 pm:      

3rd grade towns lone common aindhi vunkl gay marriages desam lo ..mana anukune antha hard emi kadhu idhi ..desam chala develop aindhi kikki
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:13 pm:      

Best thing is parents ki emi cheppakunda undatam. Option unte UK velli settle aipovatam

Parents ki chepthe, they can't handle the idea itself. So better not to say and run the life without getting married
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 11:12 pm:      


Starc:

if you are really good guy, just announce this publically and give news paper add.


 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 10:55 pm:      

yes,I think we can treat him, Tell him of the love of Christ, and tell him the gospel, make sure to tell him he is a sinner bound for Hell, but if he trust in Christ s death on the cross his sins will be forgiven.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 10:42 pm:      


Jp_rocks:

manaki own ga thoughts emanna untaya leka simple ga conservative boards or social media posts ni copy paste aa? you post like a social media bot



I know where YCP is coming from. Think of it this way. Answer the 2 questions below.
Would you wish your kid to be gay?
If the kid turns out to be gay in future, would you denounce him/her?

If you say "no" to both questions, there is no difference between what you and ycp are saying.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 09:53 pm:      


Jai_ycp:



classic kellyan kohnway ishtyle type change of topics !!!
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 09:45 pm:      


Jp_rocks:




Edhi uscis vadu indian kids ni chusi parents application deny chestunnaru anna ne logic ni batta?

Kallu moosukune chepeethava lekha kallu terichi kooda cheppestava?
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 09:34 pm:      


Jp_rocks:



5*
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 09:21 pm:      

First take him to doctor and ask the doctor to check his a$$
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 05:53 pm:      

don't ruin a woman's life by getting him married..accept him for who he is, protect him and let him live his life.....

as to his parents - they are parents, they will love him no matter what..


Jai_ycp:

its against nature. you want to sugarcoat a sickness, do that but i wont.


manaki own ga thoughts emanna untaya leka simple ga conservative boards or social media posts ni copy paste aa? you post like a social media bot
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 05:17 pm:      

It’s his choice, let him explore n learn. Forcing into a marriage won’t be helping his cause.

I know a couple of ppl who are happily married. Mav cheppinattu Ivy League couple okalu not software bemmis
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:54 pm:      

god bless
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:51 pm:      

mana desam la, adi kuda conservative families inka ee types of marriages ni accept chese strength raaledu.... relatives accept cheyyaniyyaru and parents ki social torture..

Ask ur cousin to move out of the country and do wat ever he wants... parents accept cheyyalenappudu permanent ga connection break cheskovadam correct... 2-3 weeks yedshi antha marchipotaaru
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:41 pm:      


Rebel:

ikkada kooda ladies ni tokkestunnaru..desi ladies ila openup epudu avutaru



Bochhedu cases ippudu india lo evi .. manam edhagaala vannai ..allu kaadhu allu eppudu mundhe anni isayalloo ..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:39 pm:      

Accept him and respect him. Get used to it. It's not about his parents
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:37 pm:      

inkenni vinaaalooo mundhu mundhu
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:27 pm:      

ikkada kooda ladies ni tokkestunnaru..desi ladies ila openup epudu avutaru

1960's lo America ila undedi mana thinking tho matching..give it 50 years india will be high flying with lgbt's like good old america
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:27 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

its against nature.




Manaki nachanidi edina against nature eee..... Using condoms is also against nature in that case...
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:26 pm:      

Shaheen extra bounce super. Bending his back for that bit extra bounce.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:22 pm:      


Biggboss:

Do I know him?



I don't think you know him. But he is very popular in Hyderabad LGBT circle.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:18 pm:      


Chantichanti:

This is not madness. Ila anukunte oka sanyasi ki abbayi and ammayi pelli chesukovadam kuda madness ee...



its against nature. you want to sugarcoat a sickness, do that but i wont.
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http://goo.gl/gn6XL5
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:12 pm:      


Biggboss:

vunlce anyone on H4 EAD?


Iddaru h1..okadu seattle lo unnadu..partner ki amzn lo job undi kaani seattle lo ivvaledu..pora po ani.ibm job.teesukunnadu to stay close..me

But we just need.to.respect them and move on.. rapist s ee samajam lonunnary..veelu tappemi ledu..
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 04:09 pm:      

Help neeka cousin kaa...

Nekaithey simple ga oka bottle mandu esi happy ga navvukuni accept chesey.... This is not a problem. People are worried of real problems.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:59 pm:      


Rajusk:

naaki vachina doubt


same doubted
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:59 pm:      

No he have Canada visa, he can go to Canada if he wants.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:55 pm:      


Twotown:

UK vellatam kosam filan emo anipisthandhi ..




meeku bhi naaki vachina doubt ae vachindi gaa :D
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:47 pm:      


Maverick:




YT lo konni videos kooda unnayi. iddaru mallu abbailu, desi ammailu, oka desi and videsi ammayi.. etc.,

veellaki todu ikkada popular singers and actors batch okati..

kinda evaro annattu inko okati rendu taralu poyaka maa abbayi ammaini pelli chesukunnadu anukuni happies feel avutaremo janalu
paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka...
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:47 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

out of that madness.




This is not madness. Ila anukunte oka sanyasi ki abbayi and ammayi pelli chesukovadam kuda madness ee...
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:46 pm:      


Maverick:

and typical wife-husband(man woma) laa same place job trying..




vunlce anyone on H4 EAD?



 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:45 pm:      

ee madhya desis lo ee trend baaga observing..iddary mugguru marriage chesukunnaru..and typical wife-husband(man woma) laa same place job trying..okkala kosam okkalu career compromises..malla yale graduates..samajam maripoindi
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:39 pm:      

Shiva Shiva....enni ghoralu choodalo...
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:37 pm:      

naaku telisina oka kurrodini pendliki balavantham chesaru....voorlo avamanam ani feel ayyi...aa kurrodi gurunchi uuth lo oka idea vundi...

aa pressure ki tattukoleka suicide chesukunnadu....aa kurrodu UK ki poyadu MS or MBA kosam....
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:31 pm:      

UK vellatam kosam filan emo anipisthandhi ..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:28 pm:      


Swavas:




naaku okadu telusu..
valla sis match kosam velithe veedu sollu kaarchu kontunnadu.. anyways, aa match kaaledu, but veedu maatram ade ayyadu.. 35 years, still no marriage but now he says yes to marriage due to force .. pilla ready gaa ledu.. unna upayogam undaka povachu..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:26 pm:      

Vunkls. Please do not force gays to heterosexual weddings. It spoils 2 lives.

Social pressure unte, move to a different country or remain single and in closet.

I know cases where the girl's life became hell after. Aa kahhu evariki ledu.
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:26 pm:      

try getting some psychological treatment, also psychiatric hypnosis may turn useful in this case
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:23 pm:      


Machomegastar:

How can a guy turn out a gay just a like that in the middle




Ganga Chandramukhi gaa maarinattu maarocchu

also Manmadhudu lo Nagarjuna dialog reg having a girl as friend valla disadvantages vini vundocchu

If both are of same sex they can reuse the clothing atlaa (comedy gaa lee)
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:22 pm:      


Swavas:



is he boy or Girl to the partner?
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:20 pm:      


Swavas:

How about parents, Society. I don't think their parents can take it.



They may not. But spoiling a girl's life is not good either.
Him coming out to you is itself a big deal.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 03:17 pm:      


Chantichanti:

It is just his choice.



what is a choice? other than a chemical reaction in you brain? he is attracted and feels that it is sexual in nature. by counselling we can get him out of that madness. it is a form of mental disease especially for people who don't display any patterns till they are adults.
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:42 pm:      


Lisk:

room mate okadu undevaadu UK lo unnapudu..vaadi pakkana night padukunte private parts touch chese vadu anta ani vere janalu chepparu.....ippudu aithe married but kids leru inkka...



nuvvu bi-x ki gay ki conpuse avuthunattu vunnavu...

try to take him to prostitute....may be he cud be bi-sexual and confused....

if prosti route work ithe marriage chesina adjust ipothadu...
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:42 pm:      


Biggboss:

"janalu" yeah right


ni yenkamma..nijam annai..ante nenu room loki koncham late entry..so enter avvagane ee news chepparu...:D
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:40 pm:      


Jai_ycp:

it can be cured.




This is not a disease. It is just his choice.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:36 pm:      


Lisk:

vaadi pakkana night padukunte private parts touch chese vadu anta ani vere janalu chepparu....




"janalu" yeah right

 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:30 pm:      

vere caste kuda oppukoru annaaaru kada

anduke ila abbayyi ani antunnattu unaaaru..... last ki ammayi vere cast nundi set chesthaademo
Boob annai ni kindhesi thanthe DB set aithadhi
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:28 pm:      

Yeah decided not to get marry any girl..but dont want him to go with the guy either till..parents health alredy baledu..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:26 pm:      

room mate okadu undevaadu UK lo unnapudu..vaadi pakkana night padukunte private parts touch chese vadu anta ani vere janalu chepparu...:D..ippudu aithe married but kids leru inkka...
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:25 pm:      


Machomegastar:

If he is like that by birth,






idhentii ?? ilaa kudaa avudhi aa ??
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:24 pm:      

Babulu athaniki counseling ichi, oppinchi evaro oka ammayi throat cut chesebadulu, ask his parents to embrace what he is and let him do whatever he wanna do. My 2 cents
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:22 pm:      


Lisk:

papam kurrod dheni valla ala maaradu ani na doubt..




this is what I am always wondering myself,

How can a guy turn out a gay just a like that in the middle

If he is like that by birth, I can understand!!
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:22 pm:      

Oka famous classmate gurinchi vinna recently...intlo baaga gola ayyindhi anta. Its a huge adjustment for family but support him...then everyone will be happy.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:22 pm:      

mmmm nenu anukunedhi ee jarguthunhdii...
mana generation ki same religion pelli chesukunte chalu annatu undhii..
next gen ki same gender aithee chalu annatu avudhi anii ..

by the way Ferrari uncle dovut ee naku kudaa ..assla gay lu antee elaa untarr ..vallaki boys ee nachutharu aa ?? or boys lo kudaa selecetd untaraa ?
garals aslaa nachraaa ? super figures tho undee garal vasthee villu emi chestharuu ..
 

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Mass:

evadra babu nuvvu




perrario redyy naidu...
Namo Buddham Saranam Gacchaami
Namo Dharmam Saranam Gacchaami
Namo Sangham Saranam Gacchaami
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:21 pm:      


Awesomedber:

One of distant cousin turned out Gay and now a LGBT activis




Do I know him?
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:20 pm:      


Xxx:

manaku aanduku guruvu gaaru


papam kurrod dheni valla ala maaradu ani na doubt..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:19 pm:      

try counselling(i doubt it is going to work) other wise let him live his own life
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:18 pm:      


Swavas:

Vre cast ammayi anatene kudradu anataru alantidi inko desam abbayi..




ee mukka septhe eyy caste aina ok antaaremo...jus kidding...

vaadi life vaadu soosukundhaam anukuntunnaadu, thappu ledhu...kaani parents paruvu pothundi, paisa ki paniki raani vaadu kooda chulakanagaa maatlaadathaadu, adhi thappu...kaani vaalla paruvu kosam veedu lifelong suffer avvadam, leka inkoka ammayini suffer cheyyadam correct kaadhu...so ask him to get out of house, move to UK and live on his own with other guy...kaneesam vaallabbayi ki pelli istam ledhu ani abaddham cheppukuni aina bathikesthaaru parents India lo
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:17 pm:      

Ask him to move to UK first.
Next Ikkada Parents ki evarina adigitey, ippatanthalo pelli chesukodu ani cheppamanu.. 3-4 years alaa nettukostey.. adey alavatu ayipoddi..

One of distant cousin turned out Gay and now a LGBT activist(was there in couple of TV Debates too) :-).. Initial gaa shock tinnaru intlo vallu.. Melliga adjust ayyaaaru.. Social gatherings takkuva chesukunnaru anuko..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:16 pm:      


Lisk:

.ante vallaki ammayilanu chusthe levadha..only abbayilanu chusthene lestadha..




manaku aanduku guruvu gaaru ,
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:16 pm:      


Mass:

evadra babu nuvvu



Perrari unkle
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:15 pm:      


Jai_ycp:


Yeah bayya planing to take him to Psychologist.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:14 pm:      


Lisk:

how can a person turn to be gay anedhi na kochen ..ante vallaki ammayilanu chusthe levadha..only abbayilanu chusthene lestadha..




evadra babu nuvvu
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:13 pm:      

how can a person turn to be gay anedhi na kochen ..ante vallaki ammayilanu chusthe levadha..only abbayilanu chusthene lestadha..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:10 pm:      


Swavas:

Vre cast ammayi anatene kudradu anataru alantidi inko desam abbayi..




Cassette Desam kadhu
akkada Abbayi kadh adhi main issue avuthundhi
kurradini ikkada move avvamanandi
at least he will be happy
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:10 pm:      


Swavas:

Now suddenly he is saying this.




playing Devil's advocate here.

inthaki mee vodi life ambition living in UK..living abroad type emaina undeva..just asking..just wondering if that is the reason..behind this decision..

baadh ki baadh mein dekhlenge..idi shortcut to vere country anukontunnada ani naa doubt..endukante aa tendency unna kurrod ki local gaa evaru kanapadaledu..opting for remote option sounds very weird..

sorry if he is already living in UK..ignore all the above..

also ..please ignore my post..if you think it over spinning the story..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:09 pm:      

take him to psychologist. it can be cured. if he is wired that way, cant do anything.
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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:07 pm:      

He is noraml.I know him since he is kid and he never behaved like a gay. I know he like few girls too. Now suddenly he is saying this.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:06 pm:      

He is noraml.I saw him as a kid and he never behaved like a gay. I know he like few girls too. Now suddenly he is saying this.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:06 pm:      


Swavas:




do not spoil another women life.. if you are really good guy, just announce this publically and give news paper add. people would hide this and get him married to some poor girl. Later they move blame to girl.

please please .. do your part
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:04 pm:      

Hard place to be for everyone involved. only time can help, but it will be a stressful time unless the parents accept. its going to hurt... im afraid.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:03 pm:      


Mass:


How about parents, Society. I dont think their parents can take it. Vre cast ammayi anatene kudradu anataru alantidi inko desam abbayi..
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:02 pm:      

Let him move to UK and move on with his life.
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 02:00 pm:      

Get them married valla life vallani happy ga vundanivvu
 

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Posted on Monday, January 29, 2018 - 01:59 pm:      

Hello,

My cousin 28+ ki matches chusthunnamu (Working in IT, 5+ exp, India). He is not interested getting married. Finally when I ask him he says he likes some one from same gender who is from UK.Seems he met the other guy through FB and meet couple of times. What need to be done. Unable to digest this and completely blank now. Any suggestions please.