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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 12:51 pm:       


Ferrari:

400 kottinche baadyatha sesani annai dhi..


hey hey hey... etlaandi threads la nee neethula thoti piccekkistha...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 12:50 pm:       

Rudra thammud..inthaki assalu story ento and divorce dhaaka endhukochindo koncham brief chesthe DB peddhalu suggestions istaru thed 400 kottinche baadyatha sesani annai dhi..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 11:09 am:       

Babai..

Best thing is let the guy talk to her and compromise. Inka undalemu ame tho ani feeling vaste better to break ani feeling.. kids suffer kaani..

Guys has to compromise more.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 11:06 am:       


Cinejeevi:

take them to Sri Chaganti or Yandamuri Veerendranath




or PK - the Pavan Kalyan
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:50 am:       


Prasanth:

counseling lo em septaaru...roju oka puvvu ivvu, poddune coffee kalipi ivvu...sardaga oka ganta matladukondi...varaniki oh cinema...roju hathukuni padukondi...ilantivi septaaru




Ikkada they help identify the problems and suggest possible remediations. Of course iddhariki nijamga solve chesukovali anukuntene ivvanni workout ayyedhi.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:44 am:       


Prasanth:

close friend tho tirigaa



ok ok ...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:42 am:       


Rajin:

Prasanth:
first hand experience undi kabatti


nee enkamma..alaa ostundha meaning...close friend tho tirigaa ..so aa rakamga first hand....naaku iddaru pillalatho sakkaga undaale...noru ekkuva sepu tervak
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:34 am:       


Prasanth:

first hand experience undi kabatti


 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:32 am:       

Tell your friend to talk to his wife honestly. Tell him to accept his mistakes and apologize. And he need to make sure he won't make those mistakes again. I think rebuilding of their relationship should start from here. I take my hat off to the couple for putting kid's wellbeing ahead of their own egos.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:30 am:       

babailu..when the guy is trying to save marriage...you know where exactly the problem lies..

sorry but marriage counselling centers mostly in india doesnt work, mostly people are unprofessional...will try to run their own prejudices...ee madya adoka fashion ayipoyindi, ladies ki slave la undamanettu deal cheyatam...first hand experience undi kabatti I definitely doubt these counselling centers...bangalore lo naa manager oka ame telusu...chestundi counseling...result cheppalenu...

having said that parents along with both sides relatives kurchunte okosari work avuddi emo but naaku daani meeda kooda peddaga nammakam ledu...end of day, both side parents are mostly biased..

now present kurrodu cheppina family problem ki solution emundadu...edo naalugu counseling sessions ki ellangaane janam lo maarpu raadu...time is the only solution...

alaane counseling ante manollu only couple ni pampistaaru, actual ga both sides parents kooda counseling ki vellali...ala ani counseling ki asal velloddu ani kaadu...lathkoru center ayuna sare vellali...that would define a perspective..slow ga ila deal cheyali till one of them believes it is unbearable to stand the other person...hyd lo centers naak teldu :D

counseling lo em septaaru...roju oka puvvu ivvu, poddune coffee kalipi ivvu...sardaga oka ganta matladukondi...varaniki oh cinema...roju hathukuni padukondi...ilantivi septaaru...ivi work avochu when the suggestion comes from a third party...ala ani froblems povu...compromise avvaneeki chances perugochu...froblem ento teliste kaani suggest cheyalem...for suppose guys parents undatam istam ledanuko, daanni address cheyyali as part of counseling..ante more often DIL and MIL should also interact with each other frequently...oka vaaram MIL vandi kodalaki pattukelli pettatam...oka vaaram DIL kodalaki vandi pettatam ila anamata...ivvanni chesina okosaari sanka naaks...

since asal problem ento initiator define cheyaledu kabatti, unless the gal has got anger issues and is a harasser, aa kurrodu ki seppedokate...people will eventually realize from a conflict..counseling ki velthe not just the couple but take both sides parents as well...oppukunte goppa..
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:22 am:       


Jambalahaart_raja:

mee visleshana baagundi...
family, friends, acquaintances will be biased, so definitely no... ani nenu antaanu...
vunna only alternative is counselors..
Counselors deggaraki velithey vunna problems anni meeru list chesthunnaru...
you have to note that Counselors toh problems vundav.. counselors deggaraki velithey manaloney problems vuntaayi... vinakapovatam.. agree avvakapovatam etc etc..
Counselors toh problem is only fees in the form of multiple sessions.
inni problems vunnaka mari alternative koodaa meere cheppandi...




solution kashtam... manushulu by nature manchivaally kakapothe emcheyyalanna kashtam.

general ga ilanti situations one side always lose.. .adi typically manchi side ayyuntadi.. endukante valle compromise authaaru.

poorvakalam marriages enduku nilichevi ante one side would bulldoze the other.
win win ante both sides compromise avvali.

actual ga vere vallaki chala chinna vishayalla kanipinchevi parties involved ki pedda problem laga anipisthay.
inko pedda problem entante evaru genuine and evaru nijam chebuthunnarannadi telusu kovadam... manushulu cheppedaani kanna circumstantial evidences pariganana loki teesukovaali.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:21 am:       


Zulu:

ikkada artham chesukovalsindi..if they both are ready to go to counseling they already want their marriage to work..so, divorce is out of question.




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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:19 am:       

Ignore DB..ask them to try Counseling..it might or might not work, but its worth a try...

ikkada artham chesukovalsindi..if they both are ready to go to counseling they already want their marriage to work..so, divorce is out of question.

naku counselors idea leru..kani pattabhiram..yandamuri ani tv celebs perlu chepthunnarenti...america lo dr.phil okkadena Councillor...chala mandi untaru ga..

good luck to your friend.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:19 am:       

Paid Counselor / Peddha Manishi / Peace Maker - Perlu evaina, edhaina

Treatment to the problem should be narrated only through Kids point of view ani naa feeling. Vundi kooda Talli Tandri premaki nochokoni pillala pempakam ela vuntadho counsel chese anubhagnulu aithey fail avuthundhi anukunna married life resurrect avvachu.

Divorce icche lawyer kooda idhe chepthadu ga inka anubhavamtho chepthaadu, try to make peace in first place ledhu maaku kaavali ante chesedhi ledhu he will start paper work. Evaro akkarledhu even a divorce lawyer can give practical and first hand counseling and it makes more relevant.

Entha counseling anukunna, it depends on what is already seeded in individual mind. Adhe pollute or corrupt aithey entha mandhi vacchi cheppina boodhila posina panneere avuddhi.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:11 am:       


Nisarga:



mee visleshana baagundi...
family, friends, acquaintances will be biased, so definitely no... ani nenu antaanu...
vunna only alternative is counselors..
Counselors deggaraki velithey vunna problems anni meeru list chesthunnaru...
you have to note that Counselors toh problems vundav.. counselors deggaraki velithey manaloney problems vuntaayi... vinakapovatam.. agree avvakapovatam etc etc..
Counselors toh problem is only fees in the form of multiple sessions.
inni problems vunnaka mari alternative koodaa meere cheppandi...
"Chill Bro.
I told you to let it go!!"
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:07 am:       

if atleast oneside is serious to get along then just ask to do this way.

lets assume boy is 100% ready to get along, then ask him to go and stay one month where his wife is staying
no need to think whether they r treating properly or not, ask him to involve actively or talk some general issues like politics movies.
if you are keen to get along surely they will entertain
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 10:06 am:       


Linkmaster:

Westerns ni kuda mana dharmaniki teesukostunnaaru.. evvaro okallu arani example gaa teesukovaddu.. vallu follow ayyedi srimath Bhagavatham




saar..already maa intlo ee bhagavatham nadusthundi

maa vodu okadu..oka Westerner ni teesukoni vachadu...

inko iddarni ..Smartha form of worship nunchi ISKCON ki thippadu ..not 100% though but on the way..

so +1 and -3 maa score :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:59 am:       


Rajusk:


own dharma ni vadilesi..westernized form of ISKCON loki jumping sesina vaallu manaki sanathana dharmam septhar antaru aithe

valla school veru..vaallani involve seyyakandi rao garu




Westerns ni kuda mana dharmaniki teesukostunnaaru.. evvaro okallu arani example gaa teesukovaddu.. vallu follow ayyedi srimath Bhagavatham
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:57 am:       

maree.. itta septhunnaar endhi db la.. that guys is in a complicated solution. he may be ready to step down few notches from where he is.. the other party may also be interested... especially with a kid in the picture... encourage cheyandayyaaa...
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exactly...

the guy is kind of admitting that there is a problem that a counsel can handle....that itself is a good start......

i hope both of them are in same thinking on this and surely it should help....
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:56 am:       


Mental_sachinodu:

vunkl.. its not very common for that parents to be objective in these scenarios. more often than not, they will take a side, and even one out of the four(considering all four are part of the discussions) to change the tone of the mediation.

infact no stakeholder needs to be part of mediation, but need to be counselled along with the couple in case.


uncle... parents impact kuda on this marriage ani Rudra recent post varak naak idea ledu (thread mottam soodaledu)... parents being biased is very common ante i agree with u but biased to an extent where they are ready to break off the marriage is when i am saying kick them out of this mess and make sure they dnt influence u...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:54 am:       

...and another thing is counselors have conflict of interest, if they tell the truth, the other side will not like it and tend to stop going to him/her. So they do not call a spade a spade. They(counselors) need multiple sessions to get more fee.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:49 am:       


Jambalahaart_raja:

Meeku oka real-life example chepthaanu..
Mohd Azharuddin international cricket loki adugu pettinappudu chelaregevaadu... within 2 years his batting took a down-turn, and his career was in question. Wasim Akram gave a simple suggestion.. his left-arm style of holding the bat needed some correction, nets lo try chesi sari chesukunte he was alright after that.
Gavaskar cheppaleka naa? Vengsarkar, Ravi Shastri.. Azharuddin not at all a bad batsman.. sonthangaa teliyakanaa.. telivi tetalu lekanaa.. aalochinchakanaa..
Given example lo Wasim Akram chesindi counselling ye..

Health issue vasthey doctors ne consult chesthaam... manchi doctor okkalle chaalu.. correct diagnosis chesi correct medication ivvataaniki... incompetent doctors ayithe health inkaa saava dobbs!!!




you cannot deal with Ego the same way. ee DB lone chinna chinna vishyalainaa, pedda vishayalaina otherside arguements accept cheyyaru avi correct aina... it works the same way.

unless one is already good by nature, he/she cannot listen.. the only thing that works is fear, not love or good words.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:47 am:       

@Simba:If I were living in India, I wouldn't have ventured into love marriage. I can't deal with everyone on daily basis. Living away from parents/relatives has perks.

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I second you annay

Love marriage ani decide avvaganey, first anukunnadhi idhey, should move out of india ani... India lo ippudu elagundho teldu, nenu vunna time lo too much involvement of close relatives in every freaking thinking, that will ruin any relationship anipinchindhi

ikkada kottukunna, thittukunna it stays between wife and husband, as long as they keep it between them life will sail well, the moment you involve someone else (even a close friend), there ends the matter, you and your relationship will lose respect
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:46 am:       


Linkmaster:

he should see any ISKON guru..
we all should follow sanathana dharma, it protects our families..




own dharma ni vadilesi..westernized form of ISKCON loki jumping sesina vaallu manaki sanathana dharmam septhar antaru aithe :D

valla school veru..vaallani involve seyyakandi rao garu
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:44 am:       


Rudra:




best, he should see any ISKON guru..
we all should follow sanathana dharma, it protects our families..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:41 am:       


Nisarga:

counselling is unlikely to work. anni telise jaruguthay.



Meeku oka real-life example chepthaanu..
Mohd Azharuddin international cricket loki adugu pettinappudu chelaregevaadu... within 2 years his batting took a down-turn, and his career was in question. Wasim Akram gave a simple suggestion.. his left-arm style of holding the bat needed some correction, nets lo try chesi sari chesukunte he was alright after that.
Gavaskar cheppaleka naa? Vengsarkar, Ravi Shastri.. Azharuddin not at all a bad batsman.. sonthangaa teliyakanaa.. telivi tetalu lekanaa.. aalochinchakanaa..
Given example lo Wasim Akram chesindi counselling ye..

Health issue vasthey doctors ne consult chesthaam... manchi doctor okkalle chaalu.. correct diagnosis chesi correct medication ivvataaniki... incompetent doctors ayithe health inkaa saava dobbs!!!
"Chill Bro.
I told you to let it go!!"
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:39 am:       

maree.. itta septhunnaar endhi db la.. that guys is in a complicated solution. he may be ready to step down few notches from where he is.. the other party may also be interested... especially with a kid in the picture... encourage cheyandayyaaa...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:37 am:       


Whyme:

sometimes things get better when the couple move away from the proximity of their kith and kin




more often, guy feels that his parents are his responsibility while the girls parents are not her resp. so move away ante ma amma nanna lu ante istam/respect ledu type opinion ki commit ayipotaru chala mandi (okappudu ide boat lo unna nisani fellow ni nenu).

marriage tarvata unna privacy chusaka neither parents should be around ani strong opinion ki vacha. :-)
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:35 am:       

Pedha vaallanu involve chesaaru antey its gone case annattey, pedha vaallantha sentimental, foolish, immatured people inkoru vundaru, ventaney oka side theeskuntaaru

Ika aada counselors dhaggaraki assalu vellodhu, adhedho vaallakey anyaayam jariginattu buildup start chesthaaru

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:33 am:       

orini professional help ante enta simple ga kottestunnaru nayana.. shrinks/marriage councellors ante maree inta silly views aa educated db public ki..

oorlo sadukonollu aa maake anta telsu. ma amma nanna la kante ma suttala kante aadikem telsu type matladau matladaru ante ardam pardam. meeru kuda ilaage matladatannaru ante god bless amma
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:23 am:       


Whyme:

sometimes things get better when the couple move away from the proximity of their kith and kin


Agree.

If I were living in India, I wouldn't have ventured into love marriage. I can't deal with everyone on daily basis. Living away from parents/relatives has perks.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:23 am:       

counselling is unlikely to work. moreover counselling ki vellalane alochana both sides nundi ravali. they should both voluntarily accept for it.

most likely that each individual know what the problem is. anni telise jaruguthay.

okkati matram tappadu.. the good always lose in these cases. iddarilo good evaro vallu vodipoka tappadu. there is no win-win solution possible.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:16 am:       


Sesani:

. if parents are being biased and taking sides,




vunkl.. its not very common for that parents to be objective in these scenarios. more often than not, they will take a side, and even one out of the four(considering all four are part of the discussions) to change the tone of the mediation.

infact no stakeholder needs to be part of mediation, but need to be counselled along with the couple in case.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:14 am:       

sometimes things get better when the couple move away from the proximity of their kith and kin
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 09:12 am:       


Rudra:

However there are few practical issues when it comes to mediation - Biased approach for parents to their Kin (could be boy or girl) and especially if its a boy, they will ignore few things thinking thats very common in india for a boy to do, but that might be significant for a girl. These small misunderstandings will lead to big arguments.


ok agreed.. if parents are being biased and taking sides, then definitely things will get worse... so family is not helping here but what makes u or them think that the marriage consular will help? The reason why I am saying this is no matter how much he/she is trying to help the couple, the moment they speak to their parents they who whole counselling session goes down the drain... they should realize now that their family is also a reason for the current situation and stop discussing their personal thing with them asap..

Its easier for me to type but the couple's thought process is getting influenced by some family member.. they need to realize that soon...



Rudra:

I dont think our parents might have faced these situations too often to deal with . Also their view will be to compromise irrespective of what their(couple) are thinking.


back then the concepts of freedom, independent living, personal space etc. werent as significant as now.... our parents used to compromise a lot, which is rare to find these days
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:58 am:       


Vja2va:

Pokemon Go...


ante kid ni chetla paal sestara :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:53 am:       


Sesani:




as i told you that those discussions are already done. You are absolutely right no one can better understand their kids than the parents and they will definitely look out for best. However there are few practical issues when it comes to mediation - Biased approach for parents to their Kin (could be boy or girl) and especially if its a boy, they will ignore few things thinking thats very common in india for a boy to do, but that might be significant for a girl. These small misunderstandings will lead to big arguments. My view is to get independent professional help(whose daily job is to talk to people about issues and they have experience dealing with lot of people). I dont think our parents might have faced these situations too often to deal with . Also their view will be to compromise irrespective of what their(couple) are thinking.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:51 am:       


Sesani:

mari kid ni em cheddam




Pokemon Go...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:50 am:       


Vja2va:

Rudra valla friend ni DB ki addict sesi, friend valla wife ni ye Tori ko, TV serials ko addict cheste "all set" , "all is well" ani naa adi.. naa idi..


mari kid ni em cheddam
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:45 am:       


Vja2va:

Paatabhiram and Yandamuri ki leni "gaaru" Chaganti ki ettaru ante meeku counseling mundu ippinchala ani pavala tammi whatsapped...


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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:45 am:       


Sesani:




Rudra valla friend ni DB ki addict sesi, friend valla wife ni ye Tori ko, TV serials ko addict cheste "all set" , "all is well" ani naa adi.. naa idi..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:42 am:       

The whole process of marriage counseling will work because ur under the impression that the guy who is helping u out is an expert... He will give u the exact same 'gyaan' ur friends and family gave u but with a different approach... the difference is u will follow his instrucitons bcoz u think he is special, same thing coming from parents u ignore...

I think they should first go back to basics to understand what is their problem... see what are the conflicts in day to day life... what are the issue which are bothering each other... try to solve them one after the other... respect each other's decisions, patience blah blah...

Marriage counselor will do the exact same thing i assume... he will teach u to change/amend ur ways to make sure ur partner is ok with it.... he will try to show the +ves of ur 2 yr life... think abt the help or support from ur partner, ur kid's future... love for each other is something which will solve their problems, doesnt matter who makes them realize consular or family or friends..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:41 am:       


Jambalahaart_raja:

Best Counsellor no-doubut Pattabhiram ye!!!
I don't know if Yendamuri Veerendranath does counselling as such, and Chaganti gaaru ippudu




Paatabhiram and Yandamuri ki leni "gaaru" Chaganti ki ettaru ante meeku counseling mundu ippinchala ani pavala tammi whatsapped...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:37 am:       

edo drugs ki banisaavdam leda tagudu cigarette lanti vyasanalaki counceling ante ok gani counseling anedi waste for 3rd world cheppevadiki vinevadu lokuva ani oorakane analedu .. renduvaipula pedddalu koochune vollu gatamlo ippudu third party psychos untaru .. i mean psychologists :d ..
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:31 am:       


Jambalahaart_raja:

revolver teesi seelaanni sankisthunnava ani adigaadu.



 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:29 am:       

Ee vishayam lo naaku davirect first-hand experience...
Kids ni adopt cheskundaamaa ani adigina paapaaniki manam oka saari fertility tests teeskundaam iddaram ani nenu adiginanduku gaanu.. vaalla telisinodu yevado cheppa pettakundaa intiki vachhi.. naaku counselling ichhaadu...
poni vachhaadu.. pedda manishi ani asalu vishayam chepithey.. revolver teesi seelaanni sankisthunnava ani adigaadu...
dheenemma bathiki vunte chaalu ra babu ani vatts gonthulo pettukuni bayata paddaa..

Do Not involve family or friends, or mutual friends even, or even elders etc etc...
Marriage-age daughter can happily sit in her Father's Laps publicly ni vaadinche progressive thinking people chaalaa vunnaru ani DB loney telisindi...
Mediation ki yevadu vachhinaa yentho kontha biased ayipothundi...
Best Counsellor no-doubut Pattabhiram ye!!!
I don't know if Yendamuri Veerendranath does counselling as such, and Chaganti gaaru ippudu paristhithi ki solution cheppamanate puraanaalu tiragesthaaru... counseling aapesi..

2 yr old daughter kaabatti.. counseling is better than divorce.. but antha daaka enduku vachhindi... anthalaa problem enti asalu???
"Chill Bro.
I told you to let it go!!"
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:20 am:       


Raman:

counseling valana entamandi bagupaddaru??

strike rate entha i doubt 5 % kuda success untado ledo ..




naak telisi paisal dobbinchukodame tappa .. emundadu.. normooskoni unte1/2 days lo set ayipotay...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:18 am:       


Raman:

strike rate entha i doubt 5 % kuda success untado ledo ..



1% success kudaa success ee kada tatha garu...ekkadaa success avvaledu ante inka ash ee kada...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:14 am:       


Cinejeevi:

take them to Sri Chaganti or Yandamuri Veerendranath




RGV ni kooda add seyyundri..

itlu rgv fans..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:13 am:       

ikkada councelling endukantey.,.....no side would feel the one giving advice is biased towards other....

ika migathaadhi aa counselling chesey manishi meedhe depend avuthundhi
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 08:03 am:       

take them to Sri Chaganti or Yandamuri Veerendranath
Jihvaagre Vartate Lakshmi, Jihvaagre Mitra Baandhavaha
Jihvaagre Bandhanam Praapti, Jihvaagre Maranam Dhruvam

 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:59 am:       


Raman:

counseling valana entamandi bagupaddaru??

strike rate entha i doubt 5 % kuda success untado ledo ..



marriage sangati telidu, but personally chala useful.
5 mins after your birth, they decide your name, nationality, religion & sect & you spend rest of ur life defending something u didn't choose.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:51 am:       

counseling valana entamandi bagupaddaru??

strike rate entha i doubt 5 % kuda success untado ledo ..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:49 am:       


Idle_yzag:

Pattibhiram


+1

Marriage counceling ki kaadu kaani, I know someone who got treated for depression with him..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:45 am:       


Rudra:



if they are willing to come to Bangalore for counselling, ready to pay good money and comfortable to discuss their problems, I can recommend a fantastic counsellor.

Secunderabad lo manchi consellors unnaru.5 years ago I visited a few, don't have their contacts now.
5 mins after your birth, they decide your name, nationality, religion & sect & you spend rest of ur life defending something u didn't choose.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:23 am:       

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:22 am:       


Rudra:




Professional Help is the way to go....Its difficult to identify an unbiased and broad outlook person within known circles who cud give a matured suggestion.

Also, it is proven that the couple is likely to follow the advise of a professional rather than a known reference.

As someone suggested, Dr. Pattabhiram is seasoned and popular.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:16 am:       

Pattibhiram
--

not a bad idea.....

B V pattabhiram

http://www.pattabhiram.com/
We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 07:01 am:       

Pattibhiram
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 06:50 am:       

Rudra

Oops already elders interfere ayyaru antunnaru...ignore my below post!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 06:48 am:       


Rudra:

good marriage counselling




Usual gaa family elders give this advise and that works! Vallani minchina Councellors undaru...like in our villages village Panchayat takes care of that etc. Ika HYD lo deeniki separate unnara ante I think we need to wait for some one to reply!

I appreciate your friend to be approaching wise people to save the marriage!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 06:40 am:       


Boxoffice:

Roja akka in Gemini & Jivitha vadina in Maa tv lo programes vastayi...


roja akka in gemini - raccha banda; jeevitakka in zee telugu -- batuku jatka bandi (first one to be started in 2010 and sumalatha is the host then) and sumalathamma in maa tv --samsaaram oka chadharangam
India lo telugoDini
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 06:03 am:       

some background - All usual discussions are done,Elders interfered and now they are living together but not living as such. So there was a suggestion to get some counselling to address any issues as we all know parents generally try to compromise but still there will be differences. Hence looking for some suggestions. We could get many from google search but not sure how good are they. we are also exploring other avenues to get the details and just a thread to see if anyone has a suggestion
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 05:59 am:       

A good friend for both would counsel them well than 3rd party. Once families get involved it takes more toll.

Beat way is ask family friend to talk to both of them and analyze and suggest where they need to work.

Especially in india lady cousellars are worst. They encourage women more for rift
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 05:33 am:       

people trying to find a solution should be encouraged.....

surely...someone will post the details....

bumping....until then
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 05:16 am:       

Babu veeelaitey kalapandi yendi yeeee divorce salahalu

I guess parents should take the responsibility
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:48 am:       


Rudra:



Evaro okaru manchi suggestion istaru. Ignore the rest of leg pulling replies.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:36 am:       


Rudra:


If he needs to give divorce, why would he think about getting some kind of counselling. Its just 2 years into marriage but they have a daughter , so he is thinking twice before he thinks about the last step




Roja akka in Gemini & Jivitha vadina in Maa tv lo programes vastayi... valla dagariki pampu... all is well chesi pampistaru
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:28 am:       


Rudra:


If he needs to give divorce, why would he think about getting some kind of counselling. Its just 2 years into marriage but they have a daughter , so he is thinking twice before he thinks about the last step




Ignore that comment.... He is going in correct direction.... Hope someone from hyd can guide your friend.... Bump to Reddit and others
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:27 am:       


Termi:



Termi:




If he needs to give divorce, why would he think about getting some kind of counselling. Its just 2 years into marriage but they have a daughter , so he is thinking twice before he thinks about the last step
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:21 am:       


Termi:

ask him to give divorce




To put it bluntly, dumb people are too dumb to know it. Similarly, unfunny people don't have a good enough sense of humor to tell.

http://www.livescience.com/18678-incompetent-people-ignorant .html
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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:15 am:       

ask him to give divorce
Hardcore Prabhas raju fan
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:15 am:       


Rudra:




How many years into the marriage?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 - 04:14 am:       

my friend is going through few marital issues and looking for some good marriage counselling. He currently lives in hyd with his family. Any suggestions?

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