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Brighton Side Hero Username: Brighton Post Number: 2828 Registered: 05-2014 Posted From: 208.54.80.220 Rating: N/A |
inko 2 weeks lo MIL digutandi already parents vachharu...1 month mom/mil/wifi...3 lo not even 1 common quality..naaku pagilinatlenemo... office lo oka aada ladies ki chepte nuvvu manishiva mahesh babu va ani pynundi kindi daaka chusindi... | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3454 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 204.136.21.141 Rating: N/A |
ayana ID ne amayakudu laaga vundi  | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 51506 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
So ippudu amma gaaru nasthikulu ayyeraa leka wife became Asthik edho meeru Amayakulu kabatti ilaa saafigaa nettukosthunnaaruuu No Signature | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3453 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 172.56.11.253 Rating: N/A |
Meeku sesani tho gnanodayam cheyinchalsinde | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9698 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 107.77.76.82 Rating: N/A |
Lol | ||
Amayakudu Junior Artist Username: Amayakudu Post Number: 371 Registered: 01-2014 Posted From: 76.108.221.203 Rating: N/A |
Inlaws: Matallev....matladukodal levv. Since our marriage 10 years ago. So, bindaas. Parents: Mother and daughter la untaru...so no worries at all. Chala rare ga misunderstandings vastayi due to generation Gap...(Mom full puja punaskarals, wife almost atheist). But, one day lo all set. Mom's 4th visit and over 2 years stay in USA and 3.5 years stay in India before moving to USA. | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 19716 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 76.109.163.196 Rating: N/A |
DB lo oka ID create cheyinchandi raman goru mee FIL ki. ikkada aithe chala mandi vuntaaru, anni vishayalu vivaramga talkudaam ani seppandi /run Sesani lo inta hater dagi unada malli neetulu baga chebutadu, lol - Gotcha | ||
Tilak Legend Username: Tilak Post Number: 40412 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 116.51.10.61 Rating: N/A |
same to same naaku kuda .. idi maa generation gola ne anukunna .. mee appatnunchi same aa ..   Team India : NaMo - Parrikar - Gadkari - Prabhu - Piyush - Smriti - Uma Bharti - Sushma | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 43910 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 49.207.184.178 Rating: N/A |
andulo emundi raja band melam lekka same gift to 2 big moms koni padeste set kada? HD ki elagu special as she belongs to younger generation | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 43909 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 49.207.184.178 Rating: N/A |
parents sukti muktavali but freedom in-laws hellow how are you ..inko mukka pegaldu only HD attitude lo difference ekkuva untundi .. why dont you talk to them ani sodi .. | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 12301 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 73.194.94.28 Rating: N/A |
Heights of pressure ante couple of years ago Mothers day time ki, we had parents and in-laws at home So pressure to balance 3 moms is unbeatable 3 moms - Mom, MIL, Wife Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Tilak Legend Username: Tilak Post Number: 40410 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 116.51.10.61 Rating: N/A |
Parents vachinappudu hayi .. poddunne lechi father morning walk ki vellinappudu milk packets and vegetables vastayi .. same way mother cooks .. lekapothe renditlo nenu involve avvali .. Team India : NaMo - Parrikar - Gadkari - Prabhu - Piyush - Smriti - Uma Bharti - Sushma | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41664 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 172.58.200.163 Rating: |
Perfect matching ee thread ki.. ippudu watsapp la camedddd.. A man Goes to the Police Station with His Head Bleeding badly . SI : What Happened ? Man : My Wife Hit Me !! SI : Why ? Man : Her Parents Came, She asked me to Get Something from Outside for them. I brought a Taxi for Them..!! | ||
Chiru_fan Megastar Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 24888 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.184 Rating: N/A |
I feel pressured in both the situations...... CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 19443 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 24.0.18.90 Rating: N/A |
In laws vacchinappudu Wife ki Adv Parents vacchinappudu manaki Adv Sankaa naakinchaali anukunte evaru occhina okkate. | ||
Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 17950 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 32.97.110.61 Rating: N/A |
mana in-laws valla parents kadha baa, anni issues vundavu, manaku elagu royal treatment ani thelcharu gaa, so manaku ibbandi vundadu but valla in-laws mana parents appudu ammayi 2 months ye kadha ani sardukupothey K nemo kadha, but ur right thali kabhi ek hath se nai bajthi annadu mana coke friend Karan Johar | ||
Legend Username: Twitter Post Number: 45552 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.162 Rating: N/A |
blanket stmt ba .. not only ammai .. parents and in-laws kooda manchollu sardhukupoye gunam unte appudu no froblems | ||
Nanigadu Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 17949 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 32.97.110.61 Rating: |
majority of the cases lo Ammayi manchidhi aithey (antey sardukupoye gunam) vunna pilla aithey, evaru vocchina problem illio but adey koncham theda aina narakamey  | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3428 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 204.136.21.250 Rating: N/A |
Vundaru kaani okavela vunna antha issue kadani feeling | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 51476 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
assalu vaalu annni rojulu vudnane vundaru. Infact desam lo aithee manaki kooda that wont happen kathaa No Signature | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3427 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 204.136.21.250 Rating: N/A |
In-laws vishayam lo mana indians better anukunta. Tellollaki in-laws 3-6 months staying ante asalu adi ela possible annattu chustaru | ||
Whyme Hero Username: Whyme Post Number: 17856 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 171.159.64.10 Rating: N/A |
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Legend Username: Twitter Post Number: 45551 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.162 Rating: N/A |
Parents : more responsibilities more pressures less joy but more happiness inLaws : less responsibilities less pressure more joy but less happiness general rule : any one >70 = more pressure and tensions ..once they cross 70 then I will visit desam than calling them here. | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 51468 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
maa voorlo okkallaki almost similar dhee aindhiii No Signature | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41624 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
naadi kuda same cocam response... chill, thats a joke... | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41622 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
more than a year... probably brother... not denying it... My basic point is accommodating undaale.. thats the key here... | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 19437 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 24.0.18.90 Rating: N/A |
In laws/ Parents evaru vacchina they look after kids kadha. Bayataki thippadam edho peddha pani, cost involved anukunte Visit valla Monetary benefit okate kaadhu, hassle free of kids, food preparation, feeding, looking after chores until they are here .... | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 19436 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 24.0.18.90 Rating: N/A |
In laws vasthe they treat you as Alludu - the king. Oorikane thini koorchavadam ishtam vundadhu, they will be constantly trying to help you or offer some help. "Mee ishhtam babu meeru ekkadiki teesukelthe akkadiki" maadhemundhi type lo vuntaayi answers and demands. Geral ki happy mother vasthe, vanta,vaarpu penta antha valle choosukuntaaru. oka routine ki break padinattu feel avuthaaru for few months. | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3935 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
When my mom is here my wife enjoys a lot as pressure is on me  Mom wants to go places and does not want to sit home and relax. So i am wheels when in-laws visit no such pressure as they are not much into travel and stuff. One or two trips during stay is OK. only complaint i have is my mom always says to my HD, how you are managing this short tempered guy !!! Jihvaagre Vartate Lakshmi, Jihvaagre Mitra Baandhavaha Jihvaagre Bandhanam Praapti, Jihvaagre Maranam Dhruvam | ||
Moviebuff001 Comedian Username: Moviebuff001 Post Number: 1185 Registered: 06-2013 Posted From: 208.92.228.62 Rating: N/A |
at home. | ||
Moviebuff001 Comedian Username: Moviebuff001 Post Number: 1184 Registered: 06-2013 Posted From: 208.92.228.62 Rating: N/A |
In-laws vachinappudu wife (even though they are her parents) pressure teesukuntundi unnecessarily. They dont let me help with any chores at work. But wife needs my help. So I help with whatever I can. Parents vachinappudu naku double duty but they get along very well. I am more relaxed with lots of work. | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3323 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
stellar.. right on the spot.. correct cheppavu | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 51456 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
95% of the janalaki pelli ayyekaa assalu India lo vundaledhu kabatti this situation applies No Signature | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3423 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 204.136.21.250 Rating: |
Naa varaku ayithe no difference. Wife delivery time lo in-laws vasthe happy, guy parents kanna. Aa time lo lady mood swings lo entha baaga chusukune kodalu ayina maata toolochu. | ||
Jai_ycp Side Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 4146 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: N/A |
 correct. there will be a pressure to satisfy them. parents aithe mostly sardukupotharu. In-laws aithe show off cheyyali. Inka vere siblings vunnare ante inka chachame. parents aithe adjust aipotharu money issues lo. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 52968 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.89.18 Rating: N/A |
please change your glass. Nenu NNN l ojoke start cheste, sesani complete chesaaDu. take it easy | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3322 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
sesani.. pedda seppocchavu.. nivu luck anthe.. andariki aa luck undadu.. pedda matalu matladaku.. penli gilli ani | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 52967 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.89.18 Rating: N/A |
me: mummy, museum ki eldam ostava mom: aa eldaam. nee istam. nuvvu ekkadiki ante akkadiki me: aunty, museum ki eldama atha: museum aa...meeru ellandi | ||
Aquarian Side Hero Username: Aquarian Post Number: 3564 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 104.2.246.75 Rating: N/A |
In laws vasthe kitchen vaipu ki vellanu.... Daily mandhu mukka paekaata Parents vasthe regular visit to kitchen .. Mandhu mukka paekaata only weekends Other than this no difference for me | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3421 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 204.136.21.250 Rating: N/A |
Mee mom, wife total enni months oka chota vunnaru? Mee mom ki entha mandi pillalu etc chala cofigurations batti relation vuntadi. Konthamandi few days/months ye kada ani sarduku potaru. Permanent ga vunte koncham thedalu ravataniki chance vundi | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41621 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
aithe pelli cheskokoodadu... artham cheskoni bharya, prema leni in-laws ante naak allergy telusa (brahmi NNN style la saduko cocam | ||
Jai_ycp Side Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 4145 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: N/A |
In-Laws: kharchu ekkuva, lot of free time. Parents: kharchu takkuva, less free time, pressure to maintain balance is high. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3320 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
you would feel more pressure especially with families where girl came to us just after marriage and never stayed with in-laws. plug & play kadu.. You should stay at home as long as ur wife and parents are at home. You need to take responsibility of serving.. maryada..etc by urself.. you cannot plan for your own stuff. if you are not at home your parents will be left lonely unattended. correct seppana? | ||
Biriyani Hero Username: Biriyani Post Number: 19306 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
this | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41620 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
Maadi typical below poverty line family mesharu... pressure temperature balance ante maak erka ledu here is how it works in my family... When my wife doesnt like something, she either tells me or talks to my parents in such a way that they dnt feel bad... patience and decent ga cheptadi.. When my parents dnt like something, they just relax and take it easy (never crib or complain)... my mom says - naa koothuru ki etla cheppalo, atlnae cheptha naa kodalki (or assalu cheppanu) and will follow what my kodalu says... Ego clashes ekkada levvu annattu... knock on the wood... | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3319 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
i know some families which send the boys parents back becoz of rift. | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 4070 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 49.205.70.254 Rating: |
Any day - In-laws visit Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Kantha_rao Side Hero Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 2279 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 12.218.0.70 Rating: N/A |
ide cheppa kinda post lo...u r lucky enough to be in such situation, but this happens only in few cases....if u look at a large scale, max will be the other way around | ||
Kantha_rao Side Hero Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 2277 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 12.218.0.70 Rating: N/A |
maha pralayam idi maatram | ||
Aggipidugu116 Comedian Username: Aggipidugu116 Post Number: 1792 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 96.227.101.28 Rating: N/A |
intha manchi matalu cheppetodivi.. rakul ni maaku odileyyochu kada.. | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3318 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
sesani.. anduke seppa.. tum pursh nahi.. ani | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41616 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
not necessarily... my wife and mom get along so well (knock on the wood) that they even hide few things from me... antha rapport undi iddariki... Depends on the relationship, cant generalize... | ||
Stellar Side Hero Username: Stellar Post Number: 3419 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 204.136.21.250 Rating: N/A |
2 sets same time vasthe bhale vuntadi | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 19685 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
sesani ni ho annanduku starc ni ban seyandi Sesani lo inta hater dagi unada malli neetulu baga chebutadu, lol - Gotcha | ||
True_indian Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 12762 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 143.165.48.50 Rating: N/A |
both pressures parents: my mum is into teaching so she reads lot of books so no worries Dad: daily cards and drinks alavatu, every weekend casino ante doola teerio they use to go to my sister in mineapolis, akkada ma sister intiki casino deggara plus cousins unnaru, they will take him, double doola, and my dad only stays 1-2 months max so no relief inlaws: father in law good, always helps and tries to pay for his all expenses mother in law, trouble starts, complains that we are not taking her new places batuku bustand, shopping, trips and outside eating .those who are serious about their watches display them prominently, those who are more concerned with style and branding present you with aircraft carriers and hide their watches. | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41615 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
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Mental_satti Junior Artist Username: Mental_satti Post Number: 489 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 159.220.74.5 Rating: N/A |
Ante in-laws ante they cook at home, not many trips ll plan.. but with parents they have freedom to ask if they want to go out and eat, also plan more trips. I treat both as my parents but this is consistantly happening in my case ROMing in CCDB | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 19684 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
pressure lekunda vundali ante , naa daggara oka simple chitka vundi. sesani ni naalu booths dobbithe septaanu Sesani lo inta hater dagi unada malli neetulu baga chebutadu, lol - Gotcha | ||
Kantha_rao Side Hero Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 2276 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 12.218.0.70 Rating: N/A |
parents vachinapude u should be careful about what u speak n what u do....balanced ga undadam pressure ye (most of the cases ide untundi) in-laws vasthe they (wife n her parents) will be in a different world all together and u will not have any pressure as wife takes care of them n in fact u will be a free bird | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 52966 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.89.18 Rating: N/A |
andaru mee laa dhairyam ga undaleru kada uncle | ||
Mental_satti Junior Artist Username: Mental_satti Post Number: 486 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 159.220.74.5 Rating: N/A |
parents vaste pressure due to tension between mom and wife. eventhough they get along well, it is coded deeply in their DNA to fight. ROMing in CCDB | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 51450 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: |
why is it so?? In laws aithee vaalu India nunchi dabbulu emanna thesthaara enti expenses low lo aupotaaniki No Signature | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3317 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
sesani.. tujse great ho.. tum purush nahi.. | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41614 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
when u treat ur in-laws as ur parents, no pressure ani naa inner meaning... Aina parents vasthe pressure endi comedy kakapothe | ||
Mental_satti Junior Artist Username: Mental_satti Post Number: 485 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 159.220.74.5 Rating: |
In laws: Expenses low, excitement low, pressure low parents: all high ROMing in CCDB | ||
Kantha_rao Side Hero Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 2273 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 12.218.0.70 Rating: N/A |
namasthe pedarayudu saab....this thed is not about how u treat, it is about the pressure u feel | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 41613 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
If u treat ur in-laws also as ur parents, it shouldnt make a difference... Jai karan johar... | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 48864 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 128.229.4.22 Rating: N/A |
boys parents : wife and hubby both feel pressure garals parents : wife and hubby enjoys | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 52964 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.89.18 Rating: N/A |
in-laws: we become extra member in the house. manaki time ki food, bed, unlimited laptop time, shopping time, games time. overall less pressure. parents: we become central figure. trip planning, execution, balancing between HDand parents preferences. Overall little pressure but also excitement at the same time bottom line. in-laws visit - Supergood film. Parents visit - Pawan Kalyan creativ works | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 51445 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
wife feels pressured in this scenario
wife will be relaxes as her mom will takeover the kitchen. But husband mandhu babu aithee problemeee No Signature | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 19425 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 24.0.18.90 Rating: N/A |
Lol. Taambulaalu ichaam kottukuchaavandi !!! | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 3314 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.116 Rating: N/A |
which one is more comfortable for you and which one is more relaxing? Your parents visit: do you feel more pressured? Is environment at home is healthy? or typical Attha -Kodalu rivalry? In-laws visit: Is it more relaxing? You need not to worry abt anything? Food, snacks and tea come to you ontime and you are taken care like really big boss? You can go for parties, games, tennis at your own time. No one would bother you even you come late. |
