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Anand_n
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Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4276
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Pplsuck:vocan saripoyinaa, grammar valla ardham kaademo
LOL cut paste edit errors 
"my arm/leg goes to sleep"
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Pplsuck
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Post Number: 395
Registered: 07-2008
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I mean vocab |
Pplsuck
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Post Number: 394
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>>>>.
my arm/leg has goes to sleep
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vocan saripoyinaa, grammar valla ardham kaademo |
Mallik
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Username: Mallik
Post Number: 5523
Registered: 10-2008
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Iamim:Not spasm.. Pins and Needles is correct..
Got it mam.. thanks..
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Iamim
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Username: Iamim
Post Number: 1981
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quote:Thanks..
Hyd: Yes.. tingling ae..
Not spasm.. Pins and Needles is correct.. |
Anand_n
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Post Number: 4275
Registered: 02-2008
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Mallik: Last time dr deggarki pothe deenni xplain seyyaleka sachhentha pani ayyindi..
For that the usage "my arm/leg has goes to sleep" is easier and they understand it Usually nerve pinch ayite avutundi
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Mallik
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Post Number: 5522
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Anand_n:Thimmiri Sensation - numbness and tingling...
Thanks.. Last time dr deggarki pothe deenni xplain seyyaleka sachhentha pani ayyindi..
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Kkd
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Post Number: 16357
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hindi lo pair so gaya antaaru  |
Mallik
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Post Number: 5521
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Humpty_dumpty:spasms
Thanks..
Hyd: Yes.. tingling ae..
In this db, there's always someone watching you!! |
Anand_n
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Post Number: 4274
Registered: 02-2008
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Mallik:'Thimmiri' ni aanglamuna emanduru?
Layman's term for thimmiri ekkatam- "going to sleep " as in "my arm/leg has gone to sleep"
Thimmiri Sensation - numbness and tingling...
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Iamim
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Post Number: 1979
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Pins and Needles.. |
Linkmaster
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Pplsuck:•••••.......chinnappudu pakkanollu balloons aadukuntey, pin tho guchchaali ani undedi........
neevu saamanyudavu kaadu saami
"Reputation to be valued more than one's life".. Geetha
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Elcaminocapastrino
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endho vayya kurrollani kani penchi ee tension endho ardham kavately....bindhass ga manaki 50 years vacchina tharwaatha oka 20 year old cultured n succesful n good person ni adapt seskuntey ee tension emi undavvv |
Pplsuck
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Post Number: 393
Registered: 07-2008
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tingling anukuntaa....
Hyder,
I thought you are smart....my bad...ippudu thokka volichi pandu pettey opika ledu.....enjoy chesko.......anyways, I was just trying to be a •••••.......chinnappudu pakkanollu balloons aadukuntey, pin tho guchchaali ani undedi........but kudaraledu......so residual strain of that deep rooted desire anukuntaa.........hehehe...you are dealing with a psycho me....so watch out.... |
Mrhyderabad
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Post Number: 1761
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Mallik:
Are you referring to Tingling Sensation?
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Humpty_dumpty
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Mallik:
spasms
Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books |
Mallik
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Post Number: 5520
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English panditulu ikkadane unnaru kaabatti oka kochhenu..
'Thimmiri' ni aanglamuna emanduru? ante mana kaallu affudaffudu thimmiri ekkutai kadaa blood flo lekunte.. so aa term ni emantaru..
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Gatha
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Username: Gatha
Post Number: 331
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First tell about 20 Lakhs Indian Youth coming out of Colleges to Job market.
Just 7 lakhs unemployed are shaking USA govt. But India has 20 Crore Youth with begging bowl roaming on Indian streets.
If they are alive then only we can think about civilization etc, when they die with hunger , who will take care of their parents.
Are Parents & Kids Important or Civilization. Lol... For me Parents and Kids comes first than Civilization. |
Mrhyderabad
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Post Number: 1760
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Pplsuck:Adi old movie Hyder......kotha movie lo twist
Idi eppudu vachindi? Ohh mee direction lo movie ani meaning aa?
Pplsuck:ok now lets play pokiri roles.....nenu Ali nuvvu Brahmee.
You seem to be very bad at picking examples  Pokiri lo ali asks Bemmi not the other way around So meeru kashtapadi post chesina class nenu meeku ichinattu as per this example.
Go ahead and try to come up with a better one this time.
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Gatha
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Username: Gatha
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For people who are in Viragyam stage like Iamaim, it is better to go to Himalayas. Because they find fault with everything from Coke to Jeans from songs to Language.
Jogi Jogi Raskoings Budidha Ralings...Lol |
Humpty_dumpty
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Post Number: 1508
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good ...vomerica parents andaru shradha teesukuni raise ur kids as ABCD- American Born Cultural Desis...it is upto them whether they will live with it or leave it...
india lo raise chedham anukunna parents - dont raise ur kids under ABCD syndrome - America Bagodhu Choodu Deshanni...
either way it is destiny controlled by our own deeds...so be ready if they ditch you when u hit 50...
Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books |
Pplsuck
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Adi old movie Hyder......kotha movie lo twist........eduru debbalu, titlu anni neekey.....tappulanni neevey.....
neeku class kudaradu......mass ye melu.......ok now lets play pokiri roles.....nenu Ali nuvvu Brahmee......advice kaavaali anthey gaa.....
Hyderabad vellu......biriyani tinu......cinema choodu......settle aipo.....relevant post kaavaalanta relevant posts......em relevant post cheyyaali......hyderabad vellamani cheppaalaa?........... america lo undamani cheppaalaa?......canada rammani cheppaalaa??.........prathi daaaniki thread vesi, relevant posts eyyi.....relevant posts eyyi........okatey nasa....
neeku siranjee type change antey istam kaabatti.......ee scene lo kooda chinna change chooosaavaa? andulo Ali dabbulichchi biriyani tinamantaadu.......ikkada dabbulu neevey......
I hope your story telling kavi hrudayam appreciates this..... |
Spy_india
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Mrhyderabad:I can never understand why so many people send their kids to India while they work here.
so many undaru le ...
job chestuu second kid planning lo unte kondaru
wife and hus vere vere chotla workd cheyaalsi ochinappudu
ilaa evari reasons vallaki untaay .. avi face chesinappudu miku ardam avutaay lendi |
Gatha
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Post Number: 329
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Iamim:Infer sangathi ela unna.. you have made me very nostalgic with your langa-voni post!
Those days.. it was sacrilegious to wear even churidar!
Slowly Churidars caught up..
Then Jeans..
Then all sorts of fancy dresses..
Today when I look at the females in culturally rich Asian countries like Japan.. Korea etc.. it makes a sorry spectacle.. their traditional dress Kimono is all but dead.. India is following suit..
Thinadaniki minga methuku ledhu, meesalaku sampangi nuney...Lol...First food, education takes priority not Civilization, Dress code etc...What is wrong in wearing Jeans...All is in Mind...If some 1% of Indian populations settles in USA nothing can happen to Indian civilization. Civilization,Religion, all these are Paronia created by some Fundamentalistic people. |
Jkm
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Post Number: 2959
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thread double century kottondi. DB lo parents chaala mandi vunnaru.
India or USA. ekkado oka chota penchandi. vaallu perigetappudu vallatho daily 2 hours anna spend cheyyandi. lekapothe peddayyaka mimmulni boothulu thidatharu. |
Ustad
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Mrhyderabad:This kid calls the dad "uncle"
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Mrhyderabad
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Username: Mrhyderabad
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Pplsuck:same role eppudooo bore kodutundi kaabatti, climax lo nuvvu Jack and I will become Tom
PS: By referring the above movie you have indirectly agreed that you did a mistake but fighting for your honor.
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Annavaram
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Mrhyderabad: Anand_n:
likelyhood of kids moving to India after growing up here is miniscule...
it's not true anymore, the kids of today are far more likely to travel abroad out of the USA and live elsewhere
the money chasing lifestyle is not chic anymore with the current gen
going to india, dreaming of serving docs without borders, working in med camps in under developed countries especially with the current abcd crop is a huge huge thing
they may or may not comeback to settle their roots here, but more likley the current upcoming generation is headed toward a modern day globe trotting gypsy |
Anand_n
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Pplsuck:
Hi CCDB psychiatrist  How's life treating you ?
Iamim:
Changing times
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Pplsuck
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I have a lot to say about this........but only if you ask me nicely.....I mean you need to ask me nicely........and you will get it.......remember "A few good men" movie? andulo Jack Nicholson nenu and you are Tom cruise now...........lets play along now.........same role eppudooo bore kodutundi kaabatti, climax lo nuvvu Jack and I will become Tom........Alrite? now thats what I call a fair deal.......
PS: thread relevant posts aa? sorry you are asking a wrong person....... |
Iamim
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Post Number: 1977
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quote:Tappu ani nenu annana ? Ela infer chesaru ?
Infer sangathi ela unna.. you have made me very nostalgic with your langa-voni post! 
Those days.. it was sacrilegious to wear even churidar!
Slowly Churidars caught up..
Then Jeans..
Then all sorts of fancy dresses..
Today when I look at the females in culturally rich Asian countries like Japan.. Korea etc.. it makes a sorry spectacle.. their traditional dress Kimono is all but dead.. India is following suit.. |
Mrhyderabad
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Iamim:even if they have to stay with grand parents
I can never understand why so many people send their kids to India while they work here.
One couple for example sent their son to India when he was 1 year old. Brought him back when he was 5 or so. This kid calls the dad "uncle" 
What a pity !!
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Iamim
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quote:Lkg-Ukg best time anukutunna
Baga chepperu.. dont send kids to US schools.. even if one parent can go to India along with them.. even if they have to stay with grand parents.. send them to India for schooling right from LKG.. |
Bhikhu
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Mrhyderabad:What is the cut-off age in your view? Before kids turn 5?
Lkg-Ukg best time anukutunna |
Anand_n
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Iamim:Telugu read/write chesthe tappa.. mana vesha bhasha lu nerchukodam tappa..
Tappu ani nenu annana ? Ela infer chesaru ?
Iamim:so India is better.. they will be strongly rooted.. they will get used to rough and tough.. they will have more choices.. they will grow up to be able to live anywhere on earth..
"Better" is a personal definition - inni posts lo cheppindi adi
Mrhyderabad:What is the cut-off age in your view? Before kids turn 5?
No, even in middleschool velli settle ayinavallu unnaru - kids will adjust - it just makes it tough on them later because they have to start learning all the languaes from scratch so earlier the better ...
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Iamim
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quote:Ofcourse if you really want to settle down in India, then for that reason alone you need to move to India cos the likelyhood of kids moving to India after growing up here is miniscule...
Baga chepperu.. so India is better.. they will be strongly rooted.. they will get used to rough and tough.. they will have more choices.. they will grow up to be able to live anywhere on earth.. |
Iamim
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quote:Did my parents have the same questions/dilemna - I am sure they did .. instead of demurely wearing langa-voni in AP I was playing basketball regionals/nationals in shorts, intead of learning to read/write telugu we were learning other languages...studying in co-ed schools and had friends of both genders, which would likely have scandalised Dad's family in the village
Asalu Langa-voni ki demure ki link enti.. asalu Langa-voni ki basketball ki link enti.. Telugu read/write chesthe tappa.. mana vesha bhasha lu nerchukodam tappa.. |
Mrhyderabad
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Anand_n:likelyhood of kids moving to India after growing up here is miniscule...
What is the cut-off age in your view? Before kids turn 5?
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Bhikhu
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eti avutondi ikkada..janal pagelu pagelu posts dimparu |
Mrhyderabad
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Pplsuck:Wanna feel young? Try something else Unlce Hyderabad.....
I can see young and energetic spirit/enthusiasm in Anand.......
Thank you for taking time to analyze my post.
Now, do you have anything to say regarding the thread topic?
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Pplsuck
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>>>>>>
Abbooo chaala deep gaa disco chesinattunnaru PEDDALU
>>>>>>>>>>
Wanna feel young? Try something else Unlce Hyderabad.....
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I can see young and energetic spirit/enthusiasm in Anand....... |
Mrhyderabad
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Anand_n:
Unknown:
 Abbooo chaala deep gaa disco chesinattunnaru peddalu... bumping to keep it alive so that i can read it tomorrow morning...
ippudu inta analysis chadivite nidra pattaduu emo
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Anand_n
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Unknown:sorry meeku koncham kopam vacchindanukuntunnaa
Again you read it totally wrong ... no there was not even a trace of anger or displeasure as I wrote that - I was clarifying the point.. So absolutely no need for apologies...
Unknown: these topics cannot have concrete end/conlcusion..becasue these topics are kind of personal..
Anduke US or India ani cheppaledu kada - Learn to trust your own instincts and judgement annanu Survey chesi information teesukovatam is good - but finally everyone has to make their own decision
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Unknown
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Anand_n:
Anandji..sorry meeku koncham kopam vacchindanukuntunnaa..u r senior and ahead of us..u know better
I am clear on what you said in your post..but coould not agree completely..
leasons learnt is - these topics cannot have concrete end/conlcusion..becasue these topics are kind of personal.. |
Anand_n
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Unknown:
It more looks like..we all know the underlying question/dilama here..but our answers appear more like giving justification to our decisions and prove that they are correct..
I don't think you really got what I was saying if you ended with thes..
Why should anyone have to justify their decisions to anybody?
You make your decisions based on your priorities , your needs and your circumstances - inka justify cheyyalsina avasaram emiti unless you are not convinced of your own decision - or you need other people to ratify your decision ?
Unknown:but the change that is happening for our generation now is little different..Because the change we are talking here is cultural..country..and the mindset of many Indians who are at cross roads in their life..
Maybe my outlook is different because I am a generation ahead in that aspect - my parents decided to raise us in a different culture from where they grew up- my dad grew up in a conservative village - I grew up moving from state to state , culture to culture, language to language.. albeit within India...
Did my parents have the same questions/dilemna - I am sure they did .. instead of demurely wearing langa-voni in AP I was playing basketball regionals/nationals in shorts, intead of learning to read/write telugu we were learning other languages...studying in co-ed schools and had friends of both genders, which would likely have scandalised Dad's family in the village
I am sure they did have their dilemnas, but they took the leap of faith that they had instilled the right values in us and trusted us to make the right decisions- we benefited from that...Ofcourse there will be people who think otherwise,that a girl should be confined to the four walls but I thank God my parents were not like that
Finally it boils down to do you have confidence in your upbringing and do you trust your children to do the right thing and are you able to adapt to the conditions ? India or US does not matter
Ofcourse if you really want to settle down in India, then for that reason alone you need to move to India cos the likelyhood of kids moving to India after growing up here is miniscule...
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Unknown
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Anand_n:
Anand garu..agreed. I am also saying its a personal decision.
As you mentioned we should not/cannot take our decision only to make our parents happy..we have to see lot of other things..otherwise our life will become unhappy
Inka changes antaara..things always change from parents to children..it cannot stay same..50 yrs back situation..ippudu same undavu..change happens for each generation.if there is anything consistently happening in this world..that is only change..but the change that is happening for our generation now is little different..Because the change we are talking here is cultural..country..and the mindset of many Indians who are at cross roads in their life..if we compare this change(being discussed in this topic) to all those changes happen from parents to children in each generation..then we are comparing apples and oranges..
maa thaatha farmer..vaalla time lo TV ledhu..village lo undevaallu..maa nana teacher..valla time ki TV vacchindhi..town lo unnaaru..there was a change..but the change we talking here was not there for thatha and nana..so this question did not arise for them and for previous generations..
nenu IT lo unna..naa time ki internet vacchindi..inka so much has changed like things changed from maa thatha to naana..
manam entha discuss chesina..this question gets answered with only time..
People who want to stay here will find all good points to stay here..and people who want to go back do the opposite...it is all about choices we make in life that decides our future..meeku invanni thelusanukondi...
It more looks like..we all know the underlying question/dilama here..but our answers appear more like giving justification to our decisions and prove that they are correct.. |
Anand_n
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Unknown:When I grew up in India..I enjoyed everything..cousins..uncles..festivals..those streets..friends..movies..freedom...security feeling..and so many other things..
Have you never heard your parents say similar things about how good life was in their childhood
Wanting to give our children a better life than we had is a natural instinct...but be aware of the fact that our children do not live in the world we did as a child and they may not appreciate the same things we do..
We did not have access to electronic media , entertainment and we think we had better time without these material trappings... Our parents think they did not have access to TV , radio and they had a better childhood playing barefoot in the sun How far do you want to regress ?
As to personal choices - totally respect them - anduke anna it is a personal decision, you should base it on what makes you happy..
Valla kosam decision teesukoni roju edustu bratukutunnamu anipiste its a huge disservice to both the kids and yourselves...
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
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Apple
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Dont know how can you speak kids growing in India is difficult..............
i dont know how can we forget ourselves........... we have grown in India....
we have seeen difference...........
Pls dont tell me India is different now......if it is the case, yes it is different for our parents too......... it all depends how you grow your child...
if a child in US says mom I need privacy lagi okati peekali....... adi first nunchi raavali.. privacy is needed when it is that means as a mom and dad we failed to tell.........
Child from 3yrs to 12years will grow closer to his/her parents, it all depends how a parent turns his attitude and character, if roots are good he will be like you... just like you.......
If you are respecting you parents now ............ it will be the same with your kids........
Same kinda dialoges our mom might have used " Pillalni kanagalam kaani valla raatalni kanalemu ani" but still you love ur parents right..........!
if you say, i am changed then your kid tooo.. |
Unknown
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Anand_n:I can make it simple for you ... pick the place where you as a couple will be most happy and comfortable...
The reason I say that is if the parents are happy and well-adjusted, the atmosphere in the home will be positive...and the kids will be nurtured well
Anand gaaru ..if this is that simple..then this question won't arise for many people..I feel that many Indian parents (esp girl parents) have this kind of dilamaa at one point in time. Kids age 10 yrs reach avuthunna koddi...aa uneasiness ekkuva authundhi..
evari reasons vaallaki untaayi..everyone's situation is different..so we cannot apply this simplified solution to all in general..
I respect the personal decision of indviduals..they are right..they know why they took that decision..
If I take my case...naa borther, sister, parents and all close relatives are in India..it may not be the same case for many...
maa amma..eppudu phone chesina..eppudostunnaru India ki..naa manavadini miss avuthunnaaru raa..papers lo roju edho oka bad news chustunnam..jagrattha undandi naannaa..ila untundhi diso..just vedhava dabbu kosam and ee material life..luxaries kosam..idanthaa avasaramaa anipistundhi..
When I grew up in India..I enjoyed everything..cousins..uncles..festivals..those streets..friends..movies..freedom...security feeling..and so many other things..
I don't think I can give all those things to my kids being here..they are very small now and they don't know what they are missing..ofcourse they enjoy lot of other things that I didn't do during my childhood
deciding to stay here permanently is like marrying this culture...yentha Indian culture force chesina..vaalla meedha American culture influence untundhi..
I cannot imagine spending my old age here..again everyone's situation is unique..I have so many friends who have settled here..they all are very happy..
Again it all depends on which place we are living in USA..NJ,Chicago, Dallas lanti place lo undevallu chaala chaala happy..
I know many people who returning to India for various reasons...kids is one of the main reasons..
USA is a great country..ikkada unna infrastructure..facilities..comforts..India lo levu..if we need something..we have to sacrify something..which one you want to sacrify is a personal decision. |
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Mrhyderabad:Ilaa chesthe adi mana selfishness avutundi emo.
Personally a couple might feel very happy and comfortable in a small village. But kids might miss good education and other benefits that a city offers.
I have a very different view of "sacrifice" ... If someone feels they are sacrificing their happiness for the kids at some point in time if things do not work out , they will rile at the kids "we sacrificed our life for you " making the kids feel like dirt and killing their self-esteem...
If the sacrifice does not translate into the joy of doing something for your children right now in this moment - its not worth it...
Finally however you view and evaluate the decision - the benefits to you(tangible and intangible) have to outweigh the costs right now and every moment of your life....
If you think it is an investment against a future possible return (your child's security/life), if that return does not meet your expectations you will lead the rest of your life regretting your "sacrifice" and never letting your children forget it either...
Tim Ruiter who was the runner up in Spelling Bee is a homeschooled kidThere are ways to solve any issue especially when the two parents are an educated and capable couple.
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Joe
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Mrhyderabad:
I think Anand garu is ryt.... Nothings more important than a peaceful, happy atmosphere @ home
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Mrhyderabad
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Anand_n:I can make it simple for you ... pick the place where you as a couple will be most happy and comfortable...
The reason I say that is if the parents are happy and well-adjusted, the atmosphere in the home will be positive...and the kids will be nurtured well
I don't agree with this point...
Ilaa chesthe adi mana selfishness avutundi emo.
Personally a couple might feel very happy and comfortable in a small village. But kids might miss good education and other benefits that a city offers.
Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
Telugu_times
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Going to India next year mindset tho maathram penchoddhu.
DB is either for hat-red or for bajana.
Definitely, not for discussion. |
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