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     Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5434 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
My first priority would be famils name nilabadaali.. alaa ani cheppi nilabade varaku kanalemu.. so max=2. My famils name taken care of. But still maaku oka buddodo, buddido kaavali.. Esp, ninna spelling bee soottunte.. bahu muchhateshindi.. maa pillalni kooda spelling bee no, sentence bee no cheshestaa.. ikkadane penchutaa.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1718 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
Maa ammayi ki kuda already 2-3 proposals vunnayi  Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Secondcup Junior Artist Username: Secondcup Post Number: 205 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 199.74.155.50 Rating: N/A |
Nuvve cheppu one kid or two kid , intha ki emi decide chesavu antha chadivi  | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5432 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
Mostly undakapovachhu mama.. pakkane oka desi kurrod teesukunnadu.. so all set.. My frnd had a boy last week.. If we have a girl, iddariki penli set ani memu set.. 6 100 ainaa 100 6 ainaa, idi chinaraayudi theerpu.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10814 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
kids* | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10813 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
mini 2 and max 4 kinds | ||
| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 7934 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250 Rating: N/A |
Iddaru pillalu undali ani  BTW..NJ trip eppudu? | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10812 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: |
meku 50+ lo happy ga vundali antey ipudu kasta padali.....go back to india..... | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5431 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
Theddu 100 kottabotundi.. edi deside sesinru inthakee..  In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Nanigadu Side Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 2678 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 204.92.92.4 Rating: N/A |
good to know annai, glad that you had a wonderful trip When you point a fingre at some body remember that there are three fingers pointing at you and one finger pointing at God | ||
| Mikkymouse Junior Artist Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 880 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Same problem. Okkosari undali anipistundhi. okkosari endhukule anipistundhi. | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10811 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
mali 46= AGE LO job pohtey mali darunam ga vuntundi life | ||
| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 7932 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250 Rating: N/A |
Agreee 200% percent | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10810 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
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| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 7931 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250 Rating: N/A |
Doing good thammudu..Trip was good..FF garini kalise adrushtam kaligindi.. Lords darsanam aindi..adi chaalu | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10809 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
correct..inka manam chesindi emiti chepu pilla laki....so pilla lu kuda lite thesukontaru..loans ani..inkoti inkoti thisukontaru...lite ala slow ga divide avuthundi | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14626 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: |
And the mantra to raise a second gen indian wid indian roots n respect for our habits antey....u should have a huge extended family in USA...like how gujaratis have.....they have their whole freakin khandhan living in a neighbourhood....mummy daddy chacha chachi naana naani kaaka kaaki dhadhima dhdadhaki ....itla set inappudu kids dont feel they r aliens in this country.....they hang out wod family most of the time....even if they tend to develop accent or attitude of americans their roots r still intact.... Take kal penn the dude from harold n kumar...he was born n bought up here....he acts in movies....does everything n succesful yet he wont even touch meat as its against his religion....he does observe so many things like dat which came with his religion....so are many greeks n pakis.... so it can be balanced if u have a huge big axss family in usa.... parents single handedly dealing antey kashtamey..... | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 694 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
manam Ind vellitene.. will be in upper class.. ikkada unte..we'll be one more bodi lingam in this country.. payments(house,cars, childers edu) katukuntune ne jeevitam ayipotundi.. | ||
| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 7930 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250 Rating: N/A |
samething is happening in our family too... two guys were so raised that they did not even get into a city bus until Intermediate.. guess what..ippudu okallu Ph.D chesi Geneva lo ..ae desam nativo inka teliyadu..kaani tella ammayi.. inkokallu...vomerica lone thella ammayini marrying.. family get together aithe em basha matladutharu..5 years down the lane ani soinchaisthunna | ||
| Nanigadu Side Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 2676 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 204.92.92.4 Rating: N/A |
Annai long time, Welcome back, elagayyindi mee trip When you point a fingre at some body remember that there are three fingers pointing at you and one finger pointing at God | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1717 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
Scholrships, assistence etc evo vuntaayi kadaa... 500K pocket lo nundi evaru pedataaru? after 15 years it may be million dolalrs Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 7929 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250 Rating: N/A |
and Celebrated on Earth... | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1494 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
first desi quarterback awwali ani korika... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 7928 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250 Rating: N/A |
CCDB undiga thammudu... CCDB rocks | ||
| Iamim Comedian Username: Iamim Post Number: 1960 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 118.94.226.99 Rating: |
I think its better not to have kids altogether.. than raising them in the US.. I dont want to bother too much about their marriage.. marriages are made in heaven.. What I do want to bother is about their roots.. what I can give to my kids as they grow up.. I want to inculcate culture.. traditions.. civilization.. all of them rooted in natural settings.. that can only be in India.. how they recieve it.. how they imbibe it.. is not entirely in my hands.. but.. that is the only genuine way to give the best shot.. | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10808 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
exactly what im trying to say.......evi ani comman US life lo.......naku just think cheshteyney badha ga vuntundi alanti vishya lu.......poni USA lo vuntey edana advantage a antey na thoka emi ledu....nothing......just konchum kastalu vundavu.... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14625 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: N/A |
On the other hand raising kids in USA ...if it works out then it will be too good annattu....last time olymmpics lo deshi kurrod gymnastics sesthuntey mucchata esindhi....I mean we dont have dat infrastructure back home....so kids ni manchi tennis player or gymnast or u want to see him to flourish in something related to sports this is the best place.... | ||
| Kalikaalam Comedian Username: Kalikaalam Post Number: 1628 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 71.175.26.110 Rating: N/A |
As father of 2 kids(One teenager and the other one is 3 years old), Naa opinion- Yekkada penchinaa okkate. Pillalu chedipothaaremo ane vudhesyam lo ayithe yekkada ayinaa okkate. Yedi mana chethula lo vundadu. USA ayithene inka safe ani naa abhipraayam. Ikkada pillalu chaalaa varaku honest gaa vuntaaru. yendukante vaalla ku anigi manigi vundatam alvaatu vundadu kaabatti. Mana india lo ayithe kids mana daggara oka laa behave chesthaaru. bayataku velli vaallu cheyyaalsivi chesthaaru. Chedipoye avakaasam akkade yekkuva ani nenu anukontunnaanu. India yenudu ku best ante??: education cost baagaa thakkuva India lo. Maa ammaayi 5 years lo college ki vasthundi. Ikkada medicine chadinchaalnte 500 thousands avuthundi.India lo Ramachandra medical college laanti top college lo chadivinchinaa kudaa 100 to 15o thousands lo ayipothundi. andukani India veladaamanukontunnaamu. | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5427 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
My frnd.. vaadu okkade koduku parents ki.. inga vaadu dagginaa, tummina valla nana ki tension anta.. chaalaa pressure raa babu ani maa deggara cheppukunetodu.. if posbl, iddaru undaali kkdio.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10807 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
again adi mana meda depends avuthundi.......manam USA na leka India na alochisthunam antey....illanti problems rakunda mundey plan chesu kontam....nuvu chepindi correct...india lo kuda vunaru...kani ikkada 100% anthey vuntaru..adi american life......india lo ekkado oka case vuntundi...... | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 693 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
nadi same dilema mama.. nenu Ind return avudam anukunnadni ekkuvaa maa gurinchi.. alochice.. I dont want to get old here.. last week okkaru dinner ki vocheru.. mam mama gari collegue some 30 yrs back.. kani iddaru inka touch lo unnaru over the phone atanu US early 70 lo vocheru.. atani wife is a doc so avida career meeda ekkuva concentrate chesi .. itanu evo jobs chesevaru .. ekkuva kids ni take care chesevaru.. kids okkalu CPA and doc both of them married americans. Itanu got divorced like 15 yrs back.. itanu valla kids ni chudaniki 1 yrs ki oka sari vochi oka 2 days undi vellipotaru ta.. he is 72 yrs.. atani siblings Ind lo unnaru 3 sis's and one brother kani inka ikkada ee unnaru..atani mother inka unnaru ta ..and shock enti ante.. atani mother ni chudaniki kuda Ind vellaledu from 96 .. atanu emi sadinchero naku artham kaledu.. | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1714 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
 ee kaalam lo 4 kids ante KISHKINDAKANDA avutundi illu  Also, ee generation girls ki anta opika, time ledu anukuntaa Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Bhikhu Side Hero Username: Bhikhu Post Number: 2685 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53 Rating: N/A |
nenu seppedi ee type janal ki biggest cultural shock untundi..na frind okad unnad desam ninchi H-1 mida vachad vadu compltely americanized..illu konni basement lo antique guns collect sestunnad, hunting eltad, dorkina janthu ni tintad..etc oka matalo lo sepali ante he is in complete sync with american life style..vadu lanti vadu ikkada pilla ni penchute full happies anutkutunna.. | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14623 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: N/A |
its not practical mama to adapt like dat....entha sinchukunna deshillo ekkado deshi nature dhaagi untadhi...pillalu parents ikkada bxtch ,ahole ani dhobbuthuntarr....desham lo alaa antey kosi kaaram edatharu....so tough | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1492 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
india lo unna current pace lo ila chala cases unnai mama...maa in-laws nay quote seyyochu...BIL lives in yusufguda with wife, both into IT...FIL govt employee and lives in malakpet..FIL has loads of time but BIL kee pellam tho time spend cheyyatamay kastam...so at most they meet once every 2-3 weeks...eppudoo 50 yrs age taruvaatha emi jaruguthundoo who knows... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Ravino786 Side Hero Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 9111 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 12.107.188.5 Rating: N/A |
above average earnign untadhi, desam lo kuda okey properties untayi...still one or max 2 kids?? desam lo can uderstand ekakda 3rd 4th kid ni kantaniki emi rogam .... | ||
| Kkd Hero Username: Kkd Post Number: 16269 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.61.20.228 Rating: N/A |
naaku attanti feelings levu thammud...on a side note...naa brother nilabettadu recent ga...so no probl anukuntunna.... infact i wanted a girl...maa family lo ammailu leru chala generations.. | ||
| Ravino786 Side Hero Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 9110 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 12.107.188.5 Rating: N/A |
Thu mana batukulu cheda....entha bayam tho batukutam ra babu... allaha malik ani wadileyyochu ga?? why our way of life is this fear ful?? prathi chinna esayaniki bayapedataru starting from child hood ...chus Md. Ravi ga maralani undhi | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5426 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
[no offense to aada ladies, anosrangaa oogipokandi..] Maayya.. my family name already nilabadindi.. so naaku aa pressure ledu.. mari neeku .. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Kkd Hero Username: Kkd Post Number: 16268 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.61.20.228 Rating: N/A |
ikkada naa collegue came here on H1 and now citizen...vallaki okade kid....vadu born and brought up here...high school elthunnadu.... typical ABCD....parents ki vaditho matadalante koncham alochinchi...jagrathaga matadatharu..not like US....vadu accent tho english thappa inka emi matadadu...friends choosthe andharu chinki,tellollu and others...okkadu desi friend ledu.... parents matuku typical desis ne... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14621 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: N/A |
haha...ikkadakadaki kooda ostharrr mama....discos thaagina porulni molest seyyatam...lafangi naa dassh gallu | ||
| Dlm Hero Username: Dlm Post Number: 11391 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 98.180.214.27 Rating: N/A |
okkaru muddu - iddaru haddu - mugguru vaddu Chiru - 2014 | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 692 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
two undali mama.. memu kuda one chalu anukunnam.. kani relatives lo oka two incidents chusi second ki vellem.. | ||
| Kkd Hero Username: Kkd Post Number: 16267 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.61.20.228 Rating: N/A |
India or US....depends on the environment and neighborhood anukuntunna... | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10806 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
ummm may be...i dont think they are major problems when compare to USA problems........I love my indian life...... 50yr tharuvatha edana problem vashtey evadu chusthadu........atleast nenu vuna nanna antey chalu manaki...ekkada avuthey weekend vachi ela vunavu antaru ...adi kuda appointment thisukoni.....manam emi expect chestham chepu 50+ vachaka..... | ||
| Cinejeevi Comedian Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 1581 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 65.244.125.146 Rating: N/A |
oka kannu kannu kaadu oka koDuku koDuku kaadu ani peddollu antaaru. ee janamalo evaro okallu anukuntunnam. so i would say iddaru unDaali abbai and ammai aite better. iddaru same gender aina OK. this is my personal opinion though!!! pani pangu lEkE ikkaDa tirugaaDutunnam | ||
| Nanigadu Side Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 2675 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 204.92.92.4 Rating: N/A |
I am also in the same boat annai, naku inka vokkaru kuda leru, kani vokkaru chalu anipistundi, kani intlo amma vallu iddaru ani godava chestunnaru, assalu vokkarikey dikku ledu ikkada anukunta vuntey When you point a fingre at some body remember that there are three fingers pointing at you and one finger pointing at God | ||
| Bhikhu Side Hero Username: Bhikhu Post Number: 2684 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53 Rating: N/A |
tamud eyyi caselu ittanitiv susa..sinnapu vallu eti seinsa talli tanri ma pilla topu ani samabaru padipotam..allaru muddu ga penchatam..10-15 ki vallu mellaga americanized avvatam..talli tanri desi restaurant ki ellali ante pillal ki pizza hut lo mundu lunch seyinchi attukuni ellatam..ika ard 20 vaste valla jeevitalu vallavi 'itta sestunna' ante villu ok ani muskotam | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1491 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
well there are ways to shield...konni areas lo public schools lo pillalni join cheyyaru...also ikkada teacher observation on student ekkuva untundi compared to india... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1713 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
 Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Kkd Hero Username: Kkd Post Number: 16266 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.61.20.228 Rating: N/A |
nenu same decide sesukoleka vunna....first one is coming to Kindergarten already. | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5424 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
My fear is more about guns.. asalu adi talsukuntene heart beat miss aithadi, even naa laanti ruff and tuff gaadiki.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1490 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: |
so will u subject ur kids to the same ordeals u went through? Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Ravino786 Side Hero Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 9109 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 12.107.188.5 Rating: |
jodha example icha ekkada penchithe endhi luck mater ani... nee neelugudu apu ...Indra and mee mega fans gurinchi naku sebutunnava?? kukka muthi pindhiyalu todalu kottinappudu ekkadunnav?? | ||
| One Hero Username: One Post Number: 10805 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 66.45.237.210 Rating: N/A |
india better emo..manaki 45+ vachaka thelusthundi aa badha emito......45+ tharuvatha chala expect chestham manam mana pilla la nundi.....atleast love and respect.....avi emi leka pothey inka mana jeevithaniki ardham ledu...intha kasta padi valu 18yrs key bayataki pothey inka endhuku mana jeevitham.......USA lo manaki pilla la thapa inka evaru vundaru.....i mean relatives....aa time lo kotha friends kuda avaru...aa time lo chala badha ga vuntundi....poni aa time lo ndia ki podam anukona kani adi inka darunam ga vuntundi......so 35yrs age lo ndia ki povadam better......whatever shit....yea i know india lo kuda chala problem vunayi...but manam andharam alaney perigam kadha........ | ||
| Dlm Hero Username: Dlm Post Number: 11388 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 98.180.214.27 Rating: N/A |
ento pillala raising gurunchi opinions cheppandi ante, pillalu atta paadu ipotharu..itta paadu ipotharu ani tappa, vere posts levu.. India lo metros lo penchedaaniki, ikkada US lo penche daaniki pedda difference vundadu... village lo penchudam ani decide ithe, mana family values, traditions, childhood andari relatives madhya chala happy gaa vuntadi.. education anedhi..chadive vaallu ekkada vunna chaduvu thadu..may be 8th class aa time nunchi koddiga ekkuva care teesukunte saripoddi... US lo ithe naaku telisi pedda life emi vundadu anukunta..ikkada americans laane perugutharu...after some years, india thoti disconnect ipoyi, next generations ki tellallatho kalisipotharu... ika ammayilu, abbayilu chedu thirugullu thiragatam anedhi ekkada vunna vundedhe..india lo ithe tappu ani feel avutha chestharu..ikkada ite alanti feeling lekunda chestharu.. Chiru - 2014 | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1489 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
mama nenu malla time same matter septhunna...desham lo it is not like when u were growing up...ippudu akkada schools ilanti matters shaana advanced...gumpu lo govind type lo emi jaruguthundoo u cannot catch it... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Nanigadu Side Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 2673 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 204.92.92.4 Rating: N/A |
manchi neighbourhood, manchi school , aithey manam ivvagalamemo kani, manchi character punadi valla nunchey ravalanukunta, but u need to keep track of who they are mingling with a lot, in these electronic gadgets time, its better avoid buying some gadgets pretty soon... cheppatam easy ne kani, cheyyatam chala kastham emo... Anand garu ee thread inka chudaledu emo, avidaithey best anukunta ideas ki When you point a fingre at some body remember that there are three fingers pointing at you and one finger pointing at God | ||
| Jodhaa Side Hero Username: Jodhaa Post Number: 9425 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 98.28.107.203 Rating: |
asalu e thread lo chiru topic enduku anna? induku kaadu ninni Indra ragging chesedhi..chuss | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1711 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
You guys must be lucky to get such understanding parents. Mana kids kuds love chesukoni pelli chesukonte ... that's not a big deal in this generation. But ikkada andaru cheppinattu high school time lo affairs, drugs etc ante too much. Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Nanigadu Side Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 2672 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 204.92.92.4 Rating: N/A |
Babai maa vishayam chepthanu, memu muguru brothers, amma nanna baga strict ga pencharu, ammaki aithey degree varaku bhayapaddanu nenu, Pellillu valla istham vacchina varini cheddamanukunnaru, kani nenu maa chinnodu iddaramu love marraige chesukunnam, adi kuda maa decisions tho vallani chala ibbandi pettam, maa meeda apyayatha tho vallu oppukunnaru, and valla samskaranaki chethuletthi mokkali, etuvanti issues create cheyyaledu... Inekvaraina aithey sasemira ane varemo... Maa vallu (relatives) evvaru expect cheyyaledu memilanti steps teesukuntamani.. So bottom line enti antey... Pillalni kanatam varakey manachethilo vundi Valla bhavishyathu kadu... anavasaramaina alochanaltho mind kharabh chesukoku... ekkada penchina vokatey, valla rathani batti vuntundi antha... When you point a fingre at some body remember that there are three fingers pointing at you and one finger pointing at God | ||
| Kondaveti Junior Artist Username: Kondaveti Post Number: 868 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 195.152.249.14 Rating: N/A |
--- "Can I take your daughter out" ..... ani adgethe... india.. lo adegthe untadhi... yela untadhi.. okasari uhinchukondi.. | ||
| Woodpecker Side Hero Username: Woodpecker Post Number: 2742 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 199.198.251.106 Rating: N/A |
pillal 15 yrs vachaka ika mana pani devudki dandam thappa emi undadu anukuntuna, totally their choice | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5422 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
Aa shock vidhambu ettido poorthigaa vivarimpumu.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1708 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
Are you referring to people who force their kids to join Music/Kuchipudi etc Dance classes etc? Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 691 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
ikkade pillalni track cheyadam easy..unless they're hyper active.. vallani contral cheyalem | ||
| Bhikhu Side Hero Username: Bhikhu Post Number: 2682 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53 Rating: |
tamud bottom line septunna..ikkada settle ayyi pilla ni ikkada penchali anukutte..be american.live life like an american...desi gallu chana mandi america lo untu india lo untunattu life lead sestar..aa type lo untu pilla ni penchite..edo roju shock tagultundi | ||
| Rasputin Side Hero Username: Rasputin Post Number: 5189 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24 Rating: N/A |
Kaaadu. Ikkada direct ga kurrod vachi, "Can I take your daughter out" ani aduguthaaru. India lo vallu adagaru, manollu chepparu, tuition or college or relatives intiki ani cheppi velthaaru. | ||
| Wrathchild Side Hero Username: Wrathchild Post Number: 3971 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 192.146.101.71 Rating: |
reverse true kada | ||
| Okatelugodu Side Hero Username: Okatelugodu Post Number: 5499 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 98.221.49.98 Rating: N/A |
Idi correct. Atleast they don't feel that are not the odd men out and try to act as someone else. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1488 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
mama it all depends on how u raise them...how many kids, let alone ourselves, ask parents to watch tv... fav hero movie soodapothay roju crying... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Rasputin Side Hero Username: Rasputin Post Number: 5188 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24 Rating: N/A |
ON the flip side, individualism vasthundi. Desam lo perigithe, itharula meeda dependancy perige chances unnayi. Ikkada unte, sonthanga thama decisions vallu teesukonela untaaru. | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 690 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
you're right desam lo andarini chusi .. veelu street smart avutaru.. ikkada avi takkuava | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 689 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
anduke manchi area lo undali.. for ex NJ lo princeton or plainsboro lo unte.. valla frnds only desis,whites or chinkus ee untru.. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1487 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
good question...aa group lo max % will be those who see woman as an object...mana poragallani ala penchamu anay confidence undhi... next % will be psychologically untreatable and imbalanced...wallakee woman, man or barray doesnt matter as long as there is a an avenue... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Bhikhu Side Hero Username: Bhikhu Post Number: 2681 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53 Rating: N/A |
tamud depends on what u choose..na opinion desam lo pillal perguthe they have many influences..parents/grand parents/uncles/aunts/ frinds etc..adi ikkada anta undadu they turn a little lonely ankutunna | ||
| Mikkymouse Junior Artist Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 874 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Ekkade better anukuntunna. Ekkada em chesina konchem cheppi chestaru. India lo aithe bayataku vellina vallu em chestunnaro aa demudike teliyali. Bottomline Ravi annayya cheppinatlu all depends on luck | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1707 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: |
Friends intlo kids ni choosthunte bhayam vesthundi. Their dress sense, don't care attitude for elders etc 7 years girl said "Mom, i need some space. Don't intrude my privacy" Nenu shocked !! And majority of desi kids hang out with Obama relatives Not that i have anything against their race... but i don't like their habits.Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5421 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
aa kasi kamesh lu mana poragaanle enduku kaakoodadu?  In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 688 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
US lo pillala activities track cheyochu chala matuku.. Ind lo adi avadu.. so pillani ikkada penchadame best kani.. kani andaru Ind return ki pillala gurinchi antaru kani infact ..adi parents gurinchi.. vallu old age lo ikkada undadam kastam ani ..pillala peru cheppi veeli Return 2 Ind antunnaru.. nenu maa uncle pillalu in US and relatives pillalu in Ind chuste.. US lo pillale ekkuva displined ga unnaru.. | ||
| Cinejeevi Comedian Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 1578 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 65.244.125.146 Rating: N/A |
paiga desam lo acid daaDulu kooDaa unTaayi  pani pangu lEkE ikkaDa tirugaaDutunnam | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1486 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
lol...same logic applies to raising girls in desham too...substance abuse leka poyina x factors shaana untaai...for ex : no1 checks age in desi pubs, daaniki thodu desham lo VP mattas untaaru who haven't spoken to a girl other than their mom...walla kasi kamesh eyes nundi rakshana evaru isthaaru...sabitha reddy aa Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Cinejeevi Comedian Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 1577 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 65.244.125.146 Rating: N/A |
ekkadaina ee desam lo aina pillalni kanagalaru(m) kaani vaaLLa raatalni kanalem. maa circle lo poragallu well educated in India later went to US or some other country and married tella/mexican poris. parents rest of the life suffer and all cousins and siblings contacts untai kaani vallato emi mattadataru. similarly girls also well educated and in india eloped with other caste guys. oh!! god guys include mala, madiga, gouda, kamma, reddy, vysya, brahmin, marwadi, and what not... ikkada aite atleast mana kalla mundu unchi mancho chedo cheppachchu. desam lo aite college ani cheppi ekkadakeltunnaro kooda telidu. all depends on luck pani pangu lEkE ikkaDa tirugaaDutunnam | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14620 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: N/A |
nenu observe chesina matuku abcds lo cute ga undey chala mandhi high schools lo sex n drug asbuse ekkuva chesaru....alaa kakunda geek lu baa sadhuvukuni settle ipoyaru....vallaki bayata nundi disturbances thakkuva for temptation | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1485 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
could also be the reason that dad is a bum at home Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Ravino786 Side Hero Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 9107 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 12.107.188.5 Rating: N/A |
general perception... Oka deso girl while growing up looks at her mom who works hard and cooks food and cleans home, so she thinks mom is slave and desi's are bad so better not marry a desi... (now they have desi boys to date so they may change perception later ) oka desi boy looks at mom and thinks indian girls are best as they do everything so he may only think to marry indian... finally bottomine is luck ani na uddesam | ||
| Rasputin Side Hero Username: Rasputin Post Number: 5186 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24 Rating: N/A |
IVF (some IN Vitro Fertilization). Two embryos with gender selection pettinchukovachu. Very unpredictable. triplets, quadruplets, sextuplets putte chance undi. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1484 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
multiple birth by such means can lead to bad situations for the kids...rest mee 8 kids california mom Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1706 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
BY taking hormone shots... Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1705 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
Idem logic? Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14619 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: N/A |
hey how can uplan for twins ya??? never heard | ||
| Secondcup Junior Artist Username: Secondcup Post Number: 202 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 199.74.155.50 Rating: N/A |
Satti, iddaru ayuthe okariki okaru thodu ga vuntaru. Okkalle ayuthe anni asalu valla meede pettukuni vundalii,they feel lonely ani JMO. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Comedian Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 1483 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
girl or boy better wherever u r there for them when they need u...to guide them to choose what and what not... desham lo teen issues like substance abuse, shex has become very common in many big cities...conservative values u can instill them in usa too...desham lo sedipovaadaaniki avenues saana unnai...exp tho septhunna....ala ani vomerica lo pakkana intlo desi pillal tho udilesinaa they cud be doing drugs in the basement too... Liberty is too great a virtue to be buried in books | ||
| Ravino786 Side Hero Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 9106 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 12.107.188.5 Rating: |
mrhyd ...ekkada penchina its all luck... Annayya sreejammani baga pechaledha ?? papam entha hurt sesindhi .... so pilla tappu sesindha?? annayya tappu sesada?? it all depends on how u take it... ragavulu daughter love-married muslim, kurrodu just welli asirwadinchi wachadu .... its his nature ... bottomline evaru eppudu endhuku ela marutaro god knows | ||
| Bunty717 Junior Artist Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 687 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
first one boy or girl ayina should go with second.. | ||
| Rasputin Side Hero Username: Rasputin Post Number: 5185 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24 Rating: N/A |
Mee opika batti. Kharchulu kalisostaayi anukunte, one delivery two kids plan chesukovachu. One boy + one girl. Ila plan chesukunte entha kharchu avuthundo?? | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 14618 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.37.19.54 Rating: N/A |
papa cute iithey desham ki theskellatam best papa geek iithey usa best..... dis is wat i observed...inga poragallu iithey yadanna lite....atta nettukochestharu | ||
| Mallik Side Hero Username: Mallik Post Number: 5417 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69 Rating: N/A |
Asalu naaku inko dout endi ante, one kid aa two kids aa ani.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Rasputin Side Hero Username: Rasputin Post Number: 5184 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24 Rating: N/A |
Girls ni ayithe thappakunde US lone penchadam better. Boys ni ayithe ekkada penchina bewarse avuthaaru. | ||
| Mrhyderabad Comedian Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 1702 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.118 Rating: N/A |
Raising KIDS in usa (Esp girls) VS Raising them in INDIA Please post your valuable suggestions / experiences. I am sure both have their own positives and negatives... but let's weigh them. So far we haven't decided whether to go back to India or not... but starting to give it a thought now. (Of course, uncle sam can kick us out anytime by denying GC )Perception is immune to Intellectual Correction ... |
