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Mahi_chiru
Junior Artist Username: Mahi_chiru
Post Number: 5 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 67.50.76.83
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 01:02 pm: |
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agree with Guriginja and chantodu 2008 tell you friend to don't go for ego satisfaction, even though if you make the guy repent, you will not get any thing time waste, may be she try to take the dowry back( if she has given any) and also compensation, and tell your friend to try to have a wonder full new life. if she was my friend i would suggest that. |
   
Guriginja
Side Hero Username: Guriginja
Post Number: 2800 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 128.192.176.145
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:47 am: |
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2008:nenu susoect cheyyakdaam kaadu saami. The gal her self told. They didnt normal family life in the days they were together soon after marriage. I know what you were trying to say. There are all types of people in GUYS and GALS. BAD BEHAVIOUR IS NOT GENDER BASED or any thing.
ade bedar...divorce varaku vasthe ituvanti acusations common...
2008:He needs to realize his mistake which he still didnt. He is trying to blame her parents and her, for no fault of them
once divoce varaku vacchina yevvadu yemi sesina I don't think it will workout...practical ga think sesi..better to get divorce and move forward...but vaadu yedava ayithe vurike vadala kudadu...kummadame.....oka kalanna theseyyala.....vadi bathuku bustand seyyali......natho patu ninnu kuda theesukupotha annattu....should not let him get away with divorce...get married again and live happily....anyway...nenayithe adi setta... |
   
Chantodu
Side Hero Username: Chantodu
Post Number: 2509 Registered: 07-2007 Posted From: 12.34.246.7
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:42 am: |
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Going through legal channels is the best way. Not to find a way to get here and be with him...but to punish him to the maximum extent possible. ****** tamud..champaign county ki oka ap kurrod crick adutadu ..he is married white girl..works in bloming..same case..six years desam nunchi selli fight..no use.. legal ga desam deport seyyalekpoyaru..gc holders ni emi seyyaleru ..best advise get mutual divorce..dont waste girls age.. |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3108 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:40 am: |
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2008, Legal help kaavali ante .. naak jepundri .. |
   
Rajusk
Side Hero Username: Rajusk
Post Number: 2223 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:39 am: |
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2008:The gal her self told. They didnt normal family life in the days they were together soon after marriage.
2008, Not sure why the girl wants to continue living her life with someone (as per your statement) has some physical limitations (or whatever) in living a normal married life...unless there are other motives...like girl (middle class)..buy Ultra rich types.. |
   
Rasputin
Junior Artist Username: Rasputin
Post Number: 285 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.71
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:37 am: |
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2008, On topic, Going through legal channels is the best way. Not to find a way to get here and be with him...but to punish him to the maximum extent possible. Nbkfan: "merit anedi oka peda busa" |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3105 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:34 am: |
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Guriginja:mp seat sare..adettagu ivvaru...vepanjeri kada actual vur....adi reserved ayipoyaaa...why palamaner...konchamanna pattunda....
MLA gaa vesthaada .. Cong nunchi ticket doubte ..so jump kottina kottochu .. I dont know abt palamaner .. emaina news undha .. is he planning to contest from palamner.. Pattu ante edho koddo goppo following untadhi .. but definetly not enough to win a whole assembly seat .. |
   
Rasputin
Junior Artist Username: Rasputin
Post Number: 284 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.71
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:34 am: |
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Guriginja:gnanendar reddy jumpaaa kottha party ki...
Eeyana, maa Father-in-law jigri dosthulu. Eeyana most of the time US lo kids daggare gaduputhunnadu ee madhya. Chiru party ani telisina ventane, malle calculations started. PS: Manam ee thread nundi ika jump avudaam. Ippatike baaga side track chesesaamu. Blame BattalSathi Nbkfan: "merit anedi oka peda busa" |
   
2008
Junior Artist Username: 2008
Post Number: 51 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 122.164.81.138
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:32 am: |
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mee kaal mokthaa. baanchen. YEE THREAD NI DIVERT CHEYYAKANDI PLEEZ. Guri bro, nenu susoect cheyyakdaam kaadu saami. The gal her self told. They didnt normal family life in the days they were together soon after marriage. I know what you were trying to say. There are all types of people in GUYS and GALS. BAD BEHAVIOUR IS NOT GENDER BASED or any thing. LINK, lets see POLITRIKs bro, He needs to realize his mistake which he still didnt. He is trying to blame her parents and her, for no fault of them |
   
Guriginja
Side Hero Username: Guriginja
Post Number: 2797 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 128.192.176.145
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:28 am: |
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Jackjill: etlagu seat reserve ayyindhi ..
mp seat sare..adettagu ivvaru...vepanjeri kada actual vur....adi reserved ayipoyaaa...why palamaner...konchamanna pattunda.... |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3101 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:24 am: |
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Guriginja:jacku...gnanendar reddy jumpaaa kottha party ki...
chaala rojula kritham annaru .. not sure .. we may see many faces on 26th ..meeting lo .. aina unna okate poina okate.. etlagu seat reserve ayyindhi .. pakka party loki poyi emi sadisthado .. |
   
Jodhaa
Side Hero Username: Jodhaa
Post Number: 4836 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 208.11.223.20
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:23 am: |
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2008:THis gal has literally tried all ways to make this marriage work and all her attempts were so far futile as the guy was adamant and started saying these days that his career will get affected with family life.
Husband call chesi DIVORCE istha antey thinu marriage work avvataaniki try cheyyatam enti na moham..ask her to take divorce & new life ni start cheyyamani cheppandi No one can make you feel inferior without your permission, remember they are no better |
   
Guriginja
Side Hero Username: Guriginja
Post Number: 2795 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 128.192.176.145
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:22 am: |
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Jackjill:
jacku...gnanendar reddy jumpaaa kottha party ki... |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8069 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:20 am: |
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Jackjill:neeki ram babu aithayi .. nen chandu esham esthayi ..
 In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3099 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:18 am: |
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Mclovin:Idle sukka eyyadu annav?
neeki ram babu aithayi .. nen chandu esham esthayi .. |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3098 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:17 am: |
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Tdp_jeevi:oka jilla vallanu titti dhengi sense of humor ante yelaa saami.
ehe .. edo comedy ki annadu .. lite teesuko saaru .. he was targeting people in the DB .. he didnt mean to insult the whole district .. |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8068 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:16 am: |
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Jackjill:Ram babu esham .. Piya tu ab tho aaja .. gaaju penkalu special effect
Idle sukka eyyadu annav? In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Tdp_jeevi
Junior Artist Username: Tdp_jeevi
Post Number: 631 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 165.200.82.218
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:15 am: |
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Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate.. .. /// Mclovin oka jilla vallanu titti dhengi sense of humor ante yelaa saami. mee jilla vaallu anthaa yerri pookulu, kondexx gaallu, dhimaak lenollu ani cheppi sense of humor undaali antee baaguntundhaaa |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3097 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:15 am: |
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yaada nunchi yaadiki poindhi thread .. evaro friend divorce annaru .. Chittoor.. Chandragiri .. Chandra Babu .. rasputin.. deeniki kaaranam aina .. vallaki .. sikhsha tappadu .. Ram babu esham .. Piya tu ab tho aaja .. gaaju penkalu special effect ..  |
   
Politricks
Comedian Username: Politricks
Post Number: 1014 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 153.39.180.149
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:15 am: |
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TT bedar Oh my bad! Rasputin yemi droham jesindu? |
   
Politricks
Comedian Username: Politricks
Post Number: 1013 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 153.39.180.149
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:13 am: |
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CHITTOOR pasa, NALGONDA busaa inko thread lo mattadukundam ye thread 2008 questions ki answers ivvaneeki parimitham seddam... |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6667 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:13 am: |
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They were trying to kindal CBN by bringing CHANDRAGIRI name, I don't think you...>>> venu bedhar, i posted that for Rasputin.  |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8067 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:11 am: |
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TDP maava.. endi maamaa.. assalki sense of humoring ledaa meeku?  In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Politricks
Comedian Username: Politricks
Post Number: 1012 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 153.39.180.149
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:11 am: |
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Rasputin They were trying to kindal CBN by bringing CHANDRAGIRI name, I don't think you... |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6666 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:10 am: |
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Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3096 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:10 am: |
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Politricks:
Tdp_jeevi:
annai lu serious kaakandi .. next weekend .. flouride water Nalgonda's ki ram babu esham eyistha ..  |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6665 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:10 am: |
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mee jillalo assalu devorce le levaaa. ye jilla cheppu dhammuntay.>>> tdp annai mclov kyamidy jesindu, morning nunchi okatay firing jesthundru meeru, bhindra level lo.  |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8066 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:09 am: |
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:Idi ayithe nannu maathrame target chesinatlu undi? JJ di Puttur Side. Pelli ayyaka same flight lo teesukocha. Ikkada naa colleagues antha pelli ayina 2 months tarvatha wife ni techaru ikkadiki.
Evarooo vipareetham gaa shoulders rubbingooo rubbingg.. self rubbing kaakundaa, JJ anta.. aayanadi kooda rubbing..
 In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Tdp_jeevi
Junior Artist Username: Tdp_jeevi
Post Number: 630 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 165.200.82.218
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:08 am: |
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Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate..// mee jillalo assalu devorce le levaaa. ye jilla cheppu dhammuntay. |
   
Politricks
Comedian Username: Politricks
Post Number: 1011 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 153.39.180.149
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:08 am: |
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Mc "Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate.." Avvu malla, NALGONDollu thurum khans mama... |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6664 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:07 am: |
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One shot two birds raalinai >>> Rasputin jeppedhi gooda gadhay, one shot, two balls ani
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Rasputin
Junior Artist Username: Rasputin
Post Number: 282 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.71
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:07 am: |
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Rasputin:Yeah, especially chandra giri pakkana undaytollu
TT nuvvu kooda intha maata anesaava. Idi ayithe nannu maathrame target chesinatlu undi? JJ di Puttur Side. Pelli ayyaka same flight lo teesukocha. Ikkada naa colleagues antha pelli ayina 2 months tarvatha wife ni techaru ikkadiki. Nbkfan: "merit anedi oka peda busa" |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8065 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:06 am: |
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:Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu
One shot two birds raalinai..  In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Rasputin
Junior Artist Username: Rasputin
Post Number: 281 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.71
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:04 am: |
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Mclovin:Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate..
  Nbkfan: "merit anedi oka peda busa" |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3095 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:04 am: |
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Mclovin:Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate..
Next weekend sitting eddama ?? neeku ram babu esham .. no doubt |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6662 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:03 am: |
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Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate..>>> Yeah, especially chandra giri pakkana undaytollu  |
   
Guriginja
Side Hero Username: Guriginja
Post Number: 2793 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 128.192.176.145
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:02 am: |
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Mclovin:Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate..
matesthunnav...daggare vunnav...intikocchi kottipotharemo..jarattha..... |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3094 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:02 am: |
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Mclovin:I dont think that is the case. Family pride kosam chooshetodu, raatri ki raatre illu khaalee chesi ekkadiko poru. Vadilichhukundaam ani choostundu koduku.. nenu thedaa gaanni ani chepte, veeji gaa odilestaaru ani vaadi feeling..
emaina jeppu satti kaaka .. needhi maatram masth criminal brain .. 2008, meeku legal help kaavali ante .. naak jeppundri .. manchi lawyer ni introduce sestha India la .. |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8064 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 11:01 am: |
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Guriginja:I saw a similar case...girl from hyd....married to guy from chittor....cards printed...marriage over..in 3-4 months started trouble....I know both girl and boy....same kind of accusation on boy.....finally divorced...girl back to hyd....boy...cards printed.....again marriage.....now has a son...adi matter.....
Chittoor ollu battebaaz gaanlu maama.. yemaatakaamaate.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Mclovin
Side Hero Username: Mclovin
Post Number: 8063 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:59 am: |
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2008:Based on conversation from my friend, I am suspecting him as unfit for marriage life. He just married the girl for family pride and to prove him self as a normal healhy guy.
I dont think that is the case. Family pride kosam chooshetodu, raatri ki raatre illu khaalee chesi ekkadiko poru. Vadilichhukundaam ani choostundu koduku.. nenu thedaa gaanni ani chepte, veeji gaa odilestaaru ani vaadi feeling.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Guriginja
Side Hero Username: Guriginja
Post Number: 2791 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 128.192.176.145
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:59 am: |
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Guriginja:why did your friend also go for divoce just like him?
sorry I mean't why didn't.. |
   
Guriginja
Side Hero Username: Guriginja
Post Number: 2790 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 128.192.176.145
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:58 am: |
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2008:I am suspecting him as unfit for marriage life.
who are you to suspect? if that is the reason why did your friend also go for divoce just like him? Why did she try hard to keep her marriage? naku pilla pichu lekhapoyina parledu....ayantho vunte saalu eejanmaki anukunda mee friend? Sorry I am not defending the guy, he might be an a** what ever....butvere vaalla godavallo bayata vaallu 'suspect' seyadam valla kuda problems vasthayanukunta...that is just agrevating the problem. I saw a similar case...girl from hyd....married to guy from chittor....cards printed...marriage over..in 3-4 months started trouble....I know both girl and boy....same kind of accusation on boy.....finally divorced...girl back to hyd....boy...cards printed.....again marriage.....now has a son...adi matter..... |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6659 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:55 am: |
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2008 brother vaadi last name maathram petta kandi. Discussion inketo velli pothadhi. |
   
Politricks
Comedian Username: Politricks
Post Number: 1010 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 153.39.180.149
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:53 am: |
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2008 Vaadi E Mail ID unte ivvandi cheppu tho kotte la E Mail ivvali vaadi ki. GC holder ante anni telsu, inko GC holder ammayi ni, leda H1/F1/B1 ni chesukoka ye ammayi ni chesukoni ippudu ye natakam yendi? STANFORD aa chintakaya aa... |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6658 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:52 am: |
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manaku yendhuku cheppu valla gurinchi >>> I already said, it was none of my business. Ikkada Db kaabatti, valla names, college name seppa kundaa, discuss sesthunnaa. Even people here dont know my name. rest mee ignatha. |
   
Tdp_jeevi
Junior Artist Username: Tdp_jeevi
Post Number: 628 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 165.200.82.218
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:50 am: |
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Vaallu naaku baaga telusu, both Ph.D holders. vaallu b.tech lo class mates. luv marriage, both career oriented. // made for each other lagaaa unnaru idharu. marraige antay pillalu ani rule yemi laydhu kadhaaa. happy gaa undaaali I think they are happy. manaku yendhuku cheppu valla gurinchi, plus nee classmates antunnavu. |
   
Linkmaster
Side Hero Username: Linkmaster
Post Number: 3590 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 68.2.141.11
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:49 am: |
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Telugu_times:Linkmaster gaaru, mee id baagundhi.
maama linkulu enno ettam.. kaaneesam ee okka mariage cheste 2 pellillu chesinatle.. 2 manchi hrudayaalu kalipi jeevithalanu nila petti natle.. |
   
Getafix
Junior Artist Username: Getafix
Post Number: 99 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 208.242.14.185
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:47 am: |
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ona lighter side.. divorce teesukune mogodu bhayapadli never married males ke pelli kashtam ayithundi inka aadi sangathendi ani.. ammayiladi duniya iyal repu..jambhalakidi pambha.. EVV is george lucas of telugu film industry. |
   
Rajusk
Side Hero Username: Rajusk
Post Number: 2221 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:45 am: |
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2008:
This is easier said that done..because everything depends on the state of the mind of the girl.. As most of the responses have come from guys (remember Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars book)..I would step back and think.. It all depends on her mental strength to regroup herself..can she find a job and work for herself and earn a living..if so...she needs to get started on that..and then when she is confident that she can lead her own life..get rid of this guy..rather than trying something in haste.. If all the above is already happening..and if the girl's parents decide that they want to teach the guy's family a lesson..then there are lot of ways.. but in the first place..did the girl's family know that this guy was GC and could not take the girl along with her immediately after marriage..if they already know..they cannot blame anyone but themselves to begin with.. |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6656 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
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Linkmaster gaaru, mee id baagundhi. |
   
Jackjill
Side Hero Username: Jackjill
Post Number: 3093 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:44 am: |
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Linkmaster:
this is Chalanachitram.com not shaadi.com |
   
Linkmaster
Side Hero Username: Linkmaster
Post Number: 3588 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 68.2.141.11
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:43 am: |
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2008.. I have another friend (GC holder ) got married.. But she is not comming to USA for her own reason and took divirce.. This guy is great and very good guy.. I strongly feel ur friend should ok to marry my friend.. let me know if u have this propossal.. |
   
Telugu_times
Side Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 6655 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
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Telugutimes Growup man. kontha mandhiki pillalu puttaru becasue of various reasons. Vaallu maaku pillalu puttalaydhu chalaaa try chesina ani cheppalayru. >>>
. Vaallu naaku baaga telusu, both Ph.D holders. vaallu b.tech lo class mates. luv marriage, both career oriented. eppudo party lo kalusthaar. vaallu mohamaata padi edho reason seppay type kaadhulay. I did not ask them personally, as it is nonne of my business. valla parents vacchinappudu, they said that to them and the parents told some of us. rest mee tdp |
   
Getafix
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Post Number: 98 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 208.242.14.179
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:41 am: |
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2008, If the guy has some issues then your friend is better off wiht out him. Divorce proceedings modalettukotam better. Inka guy should nto be spared ..strip him off from his job ivanni revenge seeking avuthayi.. the guy is already half dead (if at all mee freind anumanam nijam ayithe).. inka alantodi meeda case vesi mahila sanghalu visiting cheyatam valla oche prayojanam undadhu.. |
   
Rajusk
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Post Number: 2220 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 66.93.90.250
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:40 am: |
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Tdp_jeevi:Telugutimes Growup man. kontha mandhiki pillalu puttaru becasue of various reasons. Vaallu maaku pillalu puttalaydhu chalaaa try chesina ani cheppalayru. When somebody asks why you dont have kids then some say the fact some say these kind of stories.
Ademi ledu.. I have a friend..my MBA classmate...when I spoke to her couple of years back..she said...they have decided not to go for kids as at that point the only choice to have kids was through IVF for them..so they decided they cannot afford and dropped the idea. Few months back..they decided to give IVF a try and now she is pregnant.. So some people..if you are a close confidant..then may tell the truth...other people may be covering up like TDP_J suggested..indulo grow up/ grow down emi ledu.. |
   
Andhrawala
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Post Number: 273 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.58.204.226
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:36 am: |
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Mclovin:Iff, marriage is as per american laws.
Even when the marriage was absed on Indian law also, they can get divorced based on US law as he was staying here. Onlything need to be doen is she need to come to US on some F1 visa and then initaite the proceedings. Indian law prakaram aithe katnam thirigi icchesi oka 2-5 lakhs icchi chethulu dulipesukuntaadu |
   
Telugu_times
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Post Number: 6654 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:36 am: |
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ituvanti cases lo, dhonga dowry cases veyyadam better. naaku thelisina oka aavida undhi, avidani contact sesthey use avuthundhemo? naaku aavida telusu, but aavida ki nenu thelvadh Sherni: Renuka Chowdhary rest mee ignatha. |
   
Jackjill
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Post Number: 3092 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
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2008:
So what is the problem .. Divorce ichheyalsindhi .. her life would be living hell even if they get back together .. |
   
Tdp_jeevi
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Post Number: 626 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 165.200.82.218
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:34 am: |
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Maa indy lo, oka telugu couple undru, career affect avuthundhani, they will not have kids anta. married almost 9 yrs ago. // Telugutimes Growup man. kontha mandhiki pillalu puttaru becasue of various reasons. Vaallu maaku pillalu puttalaydhu chalaaa try chesina ani cheppalayru. When somebody asks why you dont have kids then some say the fact some say these kind of stories. |
   
Mclovin
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Post Number: 8062 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
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Andhrawala:As per US laws, Wife and husband 1 years vidigaa vunte divorce ivvochu.
Iff, marriage is as per american laws. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Maverick
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Post Number: 4518 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24
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2008:I am suspecting him as unfit for marriage life.
He shouldn't be let to take the girl for a ride to prove something..if he is threatened of his career, then i think he will come down..India lo complain ivvamanu cheat chesadu ani..and if possibl use the dowry angle for it..he shouldn't be spared |
   
Telugu_times
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Post Number: 6653 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
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He is simply asking for a divorce . He shouldnt have married her when he is having probs with him self.>>> True. Ammayi parents thappu kooda undhi. Already GC unnodiki isthey, visa problems untaayani thelusu kovaalsindhi. |
   
Andhrawala
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Post Number: 272 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.58.204.226
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:33 am: |
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Best thing is to proceed thro Lawyer. As per US laws, Wife and husband 1 years vidigaa vunte divorce ivvochu. Pelli ayyeka 2 years kalsi vunnaru kabatti that has to give 50% of what he has made (after expenses) in the two years to her. Lawyer dwaara proceed aithe vaadi mukku pindi maree vasoolu cheypisthaadhi. Dabbu pothe ainaa kaastha antha pain thelsuthundhi veelaki. |
   
2008
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Post Number: 50 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 122.164.81.138
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:31 am: |
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Mav, He never tried in any ways for the past 2 yrs to take her to USA. He never cared for her, soon after marriage. His family in India ( Mom, 2 Brothers, his Dad got exired long back) movedfrom Hydbad to pune with out her knowledge when my friend is staying with her parents. Based on conversation from my friend, I am suspecting him as unfit for marriage life. He just married the girl for family pride and to prove him self as a normal healhy guy. I know the company which he is working for and his name is listed in the company website as he is in very good position. The people who suffer for no fault of them will only get to know the pain they are going through. He still didnt realize what he has done to an innocent gal's life. He is simply asking for a divorce . He shouldnt have married her when he is having probs with him self. |
   
Telugu_times
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Post Number: 6652 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:29 am: |
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ayinaa vaadem manishi ? GC unnodiki, India lo pelli chesu kuntay problems untaayani, andhariki thelisina vishayamay gaa? He should bring her on another visa like student or h1. Hemto, mana jeevithaalu anthaa EAMCET/TOEFL/BRE/STANFORD/MIT meedhay depend avuthunnaayi. evaro db lo seppinatlu, evaru common sense ni use seyyadam ledhu. |
   
Mclovin
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Post Number: 8061 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:28 am: |
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Telugu_times:Maa indy lo, oka telugu couple undru, career affect avuthundhani, they will not have kids anta. married almost 9 yrs ago.
If both wife and husband agree, I dont think any problem with that.. Pillalu kanadam anedi maatram personal choice.. we cannot question.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Mclovin
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Post Number: 8060 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:27 am: |
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2008: If your friend is well educated and can stand on her own, then divorce is the best solution. Else: 1. Police complaint ivvandi first. Athha/Mamala meeda kooda pettandi case. 2. Mahilaa sanghaalaki vellandi. 3. Try to get as much details possible abt her husband. Naaku telshi pelli cheskundemo inkoti.. You can go to local federal office and book a complaint. Cheyyachhu maama.. chaalaa cheyyochhu.. vaadu mana jindagee tho aadukunnadu.. he has to face the consequences.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Getafix
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Post Number: 96 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 208.242.14.179
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:25 am: |
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Maverick:proper proof of marriage and due to the fact that he is demanding divorce for no reason that baxxxtrd can be stripped out of his job
he is not denying the marriage kada.. atleast thats what've I got from the initiator post..he is asking for divorce and naku telisi divorce adiginanduku job strip cheyaru anukunta. |
   
Maverick
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Post Number: 4515 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:23 am: |
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Telugu_times:Maa indy lo, oka telugu couple undru, career affect avuthundhani, they will not have kids anta. married almost 9 yrs ago.
Poor souls..or may be they are not getting along well with each other and may be using career to cover that up |
   
Telugu_times
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Post Number: 6650 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:21 am: |
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as the guy was adamant and started saying these days that his career will get affected with family life. >>> eee thelvi, pelli chesukunay mundhu undaali. Maa indy lo, oka telugu couple undru, career affect avuthundhani, they will not have kids anta. married almost 9 yrs ago. bongulo career. recession osthey, okokkadu pizza delivery chesthar malla. |
   
Maverick
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Post Number: 4512 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.24
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2008 - 10:05 am: |
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Its true that GC holders cannot bring immediately..the question is did he try to? some possibilities are B1 visa..atleast stay 6 months a year. F1 visa and H1 visa..did he try any of these channels? Coming to the divorce,get the details of the company he is working for and with proper proof of marriage and due to the fact that he is demanding divorce for no reason that baxxxtrd can be stripped out of his job |
   
Chantodu
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Post Number: 2506 Registered: 07-2007 Posted From: 12.34.246.35
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tamud i suggest /advise to mutually get divorced..instead of getting thoda kottudu..etc gc vachhina dependent tedaniki lot of ways are there..like visitor visa than convert of F1 visa or group tourist visa |
   
2008
Junior Artist Username: 2008
Post Number: 49 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 122.164.81.138
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Hi, I am posting this question on behalf of my friend and pardon me, if this is not a right place post this matter. My friend's husband is a Green card holder and she has been married for over 2 years. Her Husband, a stanford grad, is working in one of the leading software firms in SFO. Soon after marriage this guy has left to USA and was not bothered in taking his wife to USA. He called her just once in past 6 months and asking her for DIVORCE. Simply he is trying escape and get rid of her by giving divorce for his own reasons. My questions are 1) Is it difficult for green holder in USA to take wife as dependent along with him? All these days, this guy has been saying this reason to my friend. 2) What legal action can she take as she literally got cheated for no fault of her? His family in India also not responding well and they are trying to get rid of my friend by way of divorce. THis gal has literally tried all ways to make this marriage work and all her attempts were so far futile as the guy was adamant and started saying these days that his career will get affected with family life. She is utterly in a state of confusion and disappointment. Can any one suggest a better way to deal with this situation. Thanks |