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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:49 am:       


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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:49 am:       


Mamamiya786:

intlo ammai vunte ..aa kale veru ..




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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:48 am:       


Jodhaa:




ikkada kaadu kaani, India lo aithe maa close relative adopted.

Ikkada oka friend tried to adopt, but in the process of adoption, their IV treatment was successful.

India lo process aithe I went thru the entire process for them,, when in Pune. Its a very long process, Ikkada aithe idea ledu.

But my relative adopted a girl child and are very happy, its been 8 years and everyone is extremely happy.
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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:47 am:       


Whitecollar:

Even maa parents ni kuda nenu choosukovatam ledhu, ikkada ki vachi cuttings koduthunna.. Maa akke daggara undi choosukuntondhi.. Aada pilla eppudu bangarame..




mmm right !!!
Adapilla lu always best amma ... koncham aa prime age lo parents friendly n supportive gaa unte all gud
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:47 am:       


Nanigadu:

10-15 years enti 0-25 care teesukovali




Appudu kooda vadileyyaleru. Nannu ippatiki parents and brother care cheyyalane choostaru, no need ra babu anna kanee. Ade adapilla intlo chinnadi ayithe mareenoo.
Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:46 am:       


Whitecollar:

Ante already 3-4 years unna kid ni adopt chesukuntaru gaa.. So, adhi taggudhi..




hmm correctey kani, adopted kid kabatti aa 3-4 years negligible antunna
the day you bring them home nunchi adjustment vuntadhi for everyone

Jodha ki kavalsindhi process of adoption, chesukovala voddha ani kadhu kadha
ee thread inthatitho aapatam manchidhi emo :-)
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:43 am:       


Nanigadu:

10-15 years enti 0-25 care teesukovali




Ante already 3-4 years unna kid ni adopt chesukuntaru gaa.. So, adhi taggudhi..
veni.. vidi.. vici..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:42 am:       


Whitecollar:

Adopted kid ki oka 10-15 years care teesukovali.. Tarvatha vallu independant avuthaaru..




adopted ayina kakapoyina
10-15 years enti 0-25 care teesukovali
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:41 am:       

maa ammayini adopt chesu kontaaraaa?.. Minimum 1 mil ista ammayi tho paatu...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:39 am:       


Nanigadulocal:

haaaa ippduu banee untadhii .. tawathaa mujjiicuuuu start avudhii ani cheppamannnaduu




Intlo idharu maga *** gallu unnaru naaku.. Veellu matram nethina paalu posthaara?
Even maa parents ni kuda nenu choosukovatam ledhu, ikkada ki vachi cuttings koduthunna.. Maa akke daggara undi choosukuntondhi.. Aada pilla eppudu bangarame..
veni.. vidi.. vici..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:38 am:       


Whitecollar:

aada pilla chinna gajjelu pettukuni intlo tiruguthunte aa kala vere





haaaa ippduu banee untadhii .. tawathaa mujjiicuuuu start avudhii ani cheppamannnaduu
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:36 am:       


Mamamiya786:

intlo ammai vunte ..aa kale veru ..




+100.. Asalu aada pilla chinna gajjelu pettukuni intlo tiruguthunte aa kala vere
veni.. vidi.. vici..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:33 am:       


Starc:

akka.. unless you and your hubby are really clear on what you are getting into , you should not even think of it.

sontha pillalu ayithe.. manam kottina.. vallu kottina.. chuse vadiki emi undadu.. manaki undadu..

kani adapted kid lo miru oo mata anna.. vallu edanna anna.. it looks different..

people say,, becoz he/she is not your own kid.. pacchadi methukulu pettina sontha pilla , sonta pille





endi vayya ei age old theories...
adopt chesukondi ..prapanchaniki premani panchandi ..

Mana antha hypocrytes evaru vundaru .. lakhalu velu gullaki gopuralai tagalestaru , kaani oka pedodiki help cheyadaniki manasu radu ..oka anadha pillalani datta chesukovalante manasu radu ..
itta aithe etta..
konnnaina manam west nunchi nerchu kovali..

Jodha , go ahead and adopt ...
nenu try chesa ... intlo support ledu .. ada pilla leni badha alane vundi poindi ..
intlo ammai vunte ..aa kale veru ..
Sensation(About Bala):He can win in atleast half of the segments in Rayalaseema. Emi matladutunnavo neeku telusa. He can contest any where in coastal and rayalaseema districts. I personally feel he should contest from Srikakulam dt.

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:28 am:       


Jodhaa:




Akka evari maata vinaku.. Neeku vachina thought chala adhbhuthamaina thought..

Intlo 500 petti konna TV meedha mamakaram penchukuntam, jagratha gaa choosukuntaam.. Kukka ni penchukuntam, daanitho emotional bonding penchukuntam.. Alantidhi saati manishi ni preminchalema? Baruvu ayipodhaa? Emi avvadhu akka.. Adopted kid ki oka 10-15 years care teesukovali.. Tarvatha vallu independant avuthaaru..
veni.. vidi.. vici..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:25 am:       

Main question Patel neelane fully interested ga unnara? Commitment ki ready na? Endukante same aasa naaku undedi, nuvvu kaavali anukunte nenu ok anta but anukunte naa Ammayini love chesinantha inka evarini cheyyalenu, so adopt chesukunte that won't be fair to the kid ani hubby kachitham ga cheppesadu
Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 09:22 am:       

India lo cousin in laws chesukunnaru Jo, chala years wait chesaru . Sudden ga evaro chepparu, Parents too poor and unplanned ga twins ravadam tho vellu effort cheyyaleka adoption kosam choostunnaru ani. process easy ne ayyindi after that. inside rumor aa ammayi name meeda konchem aasthi petta mannaru safity kosam ani unna, which is not a problem at all. Kid adorable and cheppaka pothe asalu teleedu adopted ani. So good luck.
Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:58 am:       


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ala emi undadhu before adoption they decide that they r going to take care themaas their baby no matter what ....and most of them continue...one or two incidents antava ekkadina untayi
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:46 am:       


Madhwapathi:

Don't read these posts



Intha rasi, last ki don't read ani end chesava..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:45 am:       


Jodhaa:


my full moral support to you... do whatever it takes...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:42 am:       


Nanigadu:

Please nee negativity spread cheyyaku



Both sides alochinchi final decision ki ravatam better. Rather than turning blind eye to oneside.

Optimist - Flight; Pessimist - Parachute
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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:39 am:       

Just a different thought...
Surrogacy option ruled out?

Both India & Few US States lo legal.
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:37 am:       


Starc:




Please vodhiley
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:31 am:       


Nanigadu:




Reality would be always harsh.. I said, you should be above all these all to adopt a girl. do not go by just current mindset. You have to think far ahead .

If you had made decision you would not have asked in db. If you came to db and posted this thread means you are not at all prepared and you are throwing stone.

Adopting kid as above of all.

Nenu drastical failue ayina cases cheppanu.. success ayye cases tho nivu ellithe.. you would never find the complexity in adopting.


first find why people failed.
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 07:11 am:       


Starc:




Please nee negativity spread cheyyaku
manchi cheppalenappudu moosukoni vundatam better
Sorry to say this but please
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 06:18 am:       


Jodhaa:




My cousin adopted a baby boy from India. (Vallu US lo untaaru) They had a five-year-old girl child but still wanted to adopt another one. That guy is a child prodigee. There's absolutely no difference in the way he is treated and everyone accepts him completely and one hundred percent.

If you want to adopt, go do it. I know your question is NOT "whether I should" but is "How should I go about it" but I see a number of BS posts on this thread. Hence saying this.

Another cousin of mine, lives in India, adopted a baby girl from Sisuvihar in Nellore. Again, acceptance is 100% by everyone (not just the parents)

Also, if you are adopting from India, the officials always match your skin tone, features etc to the available babies and suggest only the babies that "they think" are the "best fit". You can always override though.

Adoption is a lovely experience.

You shouldn't have posted this on the DB though. Don't read these posts and don't get second thoughts.
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Posted on Thursday, December 20, 2018 - 01:16 am:       

chi siggupadandi...pillalu ni choosedantlo koda valla fairnes and genetics choosthaara? pillalu sami all are same... manam emi nerpithey atla mould avutharu....
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 10:06 pm:       


Starc:

ekkada pouttaro.. valla background ento.. valla parent buddulu ento




so genetic qualities kooda important antav? suppose mana kid average color vundi...adopted kid super fair skin vunte....biological kid ki ela anipisthundhi ?
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 08:54 pm:       

Its a very personal topic. Nothing wrong. Please dont judge guys
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 08:45 pm:       


Onlytruth:




Really ? Isn’t that a personal choice ? :-)

Starc:


stop it - for your one story I have 5 stories of parents who are extremely happy with their decision to adopt ! The case you are talking about was not a problem with the child but with the parent !

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 08:41 pm:       


Onlytruth:

Why you need though ?


nenu adagaleni kochen u asked OT baa
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 08:40 pm:       


Jodhaa:




DB is the wrong place to discuss these things - you will get a confusingly wide range of opinions -talk to family, to people who have been thru it - kids are a gamble - biological or adopted ... biological kids to struggle avutunna parents ento mandi ... the question is how ready are you .. nenu cheppina cousin and her sister had both decided that they would have one biological kid and adopt another girl child before they even had the first one ... she stuck with that decision , convinced family and adopted a girl after having her daughter...now into their teens they are both doing well ...the other sister did the same thing - Everything else apart , how it turns out depends on your conviction !

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 08:39 pm:       


Starc:




malli sollu example techi duniya lo cases anni ilage anattu chepthavu enduku

aapra ayya, intha pessimistic entra babu nuvvu

It's ok

 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 08:15 pm:       

remember one Indian family caught killing one disabled kid whom they adopted from India

sontha kid avuthe kundellonunchi tannukostundi.. manaki puttani bidda ayithe extreem situation vaste mana pranam icchaina brathikinchukuntam.. manaki oo sixth sense untundi.. valla body lo emi jarigina manaki edo telustundi.. vallaki akali ayina telustundi..

kani adopted kid ante.. sontha kind ki 100 retlu ekkuva chusukovali.. sontha kid ayithene opika pothe vipu vimanam chestamu.. ade inko kid..ekkada pouttaro.. valla background ento.. valla parent buddulu ento.. eee paddatulo ani anumanalu vacchi.. edo alochistaru..

so.. manchi cheddam ani manasunte chaladu.. edanna kastam vaste .. niku puttina biddani pakkana petti ayina antha daradattam cheyyali adopted kid ki.. your responsibility is 1000 time more on adopted kid than your kid. .


you know.. human brain anedi situation kichange avutundi.. spur of the moment okko sari mari goram ga alochistundi.. just think abt it
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 07:57 pm:       

Why you need though ?
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 07:57 pm:       


Landcruiser:

*lamada




lambada ......
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 07:56 pm:       

rangu ruchi chikkadanam emanna choodala adopt chesukonetappudu ? I mean good looking / fair skin/ country / race yada yada....

ugly looking ni evaranna adopt chesukontara ?

AP lamada pillalu ku craze ani aaa madya chadiva.... because they are fair skinned....
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 07:49 pm:       


Jodhaa:

Does anyone one of you or your family/friends gone through this process here in USA? How tough is the process and how long its gonna take?




Good thought Jodha sister....but you should consider many things before you do that...

I think the process is not hard...but takes more time...and many conditions....you can adopt from India too...

Before you proceed just put this question on the paper...why you want to adopt? write your answers and go through the answers again again

oka saari adopt chesukunnakaa....down the road because of some situations if you think like...I shouldn't have done this etc....you will struggle a lot...

My suggestion is talk to the people who already adopted the kids and ask their experience

You and your husband has to sit and write all your ideas and questions, pros and cons on the paper and take the decision...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 07:42 pm:       

I spent lot of time and after much deliberation concluded that Adoption is a double edged sword...as much as ur good heart loves to redefine someone's life, it could also be detrimental for the kid and for ur kids and family...the younger you adopt (both kids and parents), the better it is for both...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:15 pm:       

We had a counselling session as part of the adoption process where the counselors show/explain that some kids come with emotional trauma and baggage. We met a couple whose story was very similar to amrutha movie. Kid was angry and never could fit in the family. It opened our eyes for the hardships.

Spouse and I realized how sensitive we were, tough and true unconditional love becomes subjective with each circumstance and child. We met several couples ranging from extremely happy to miserable. Also, we realized adopting game after one biological child is very different. The children are vulnerable to changing family dynamics and their teen years will show a great impact. Forget about love and being thankful. Dealing with doubt and motives is hard.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:15 pm:       

my info in this area is mainly theoretical, derived from youtube :D

i keep watching vids to keep me inspired,focussed.. Vienna Rae

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0JgM_KUjVqs

naku telisi Chin adoption is very easy, just that there is wait time.. related vids lo chalane untai agencies, you contact them do the paper work and wait for your call.. you get to goto chin, spend time do paper work and back..

all of this, i observed for US Citizens.. i believe it will be more complicated if you are on H1 etc..
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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:07 pm:       


Rasputin:

Some companies offer adoption assistance as part of their benefits. So, check your benefits.


oh good info rasp. thanks
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:06 pm:       


Saarang:

naaku teslina vallaki unnaru mugguru adopted kids from Africa and Asia...i think it took about an year.


recent ga ayethe can you find out the details please?
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:03 pm:       


Emc2:

beeda arupulu arusthadu



sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:02 pm:       


Jodhaa:




BTB good yeh chesthunnav
process tough ayina kudirithey proceed avvu
good luck :-)
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:02 pm:       


Emc2:

Antha money undi kuda DB lo beeda arupulu arusthadu




 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:01 pm:       


Jodhaa:




ikkada maku telisina oka family chesukunnaru
kid if from India, 3 years appudu adopt chesukunnaru
right now she is 7 years anukunta
happy to see her life change
true slumdog millionaire annattu
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:00 pm:       


Lolakulu:

per year ke anta. inka house hold income 400k antaga.


nuvvu evaru saami nannu tagulukunnav
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 06:00 pm:       


Lolakulu:




Correct ga cheppavu ento ee sannayi kurrodi basha

Antha money undi kuda DB lo beeda arupulu arusthadu

It's ok

 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:59 pm:       


Sannayi_nokkulu:

per month aa year aa adhi kuda clarify cheyuu....lekapothe sari.....100k ki tikana ledu ra ante 200k mogada annaytu ga undi




per year ke anta. inka house hold income 400k antaga.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:58 pm:       


Lolakulu:

neeku 200k


per month aa year aa adhi kuda clarify cheyuu....lekapothe sari.....100k ki tikana ledu ra ante 200k mogada annaytu ga undi
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:56 pm:       


Neel:


idi emo gani mam naku dog ni adopt cheskovali ani eppanundo oka dream....unna kids ke kattam.. chudali
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:56 pm:       


Sannayi_nokkulu:

endi vallu chesedi adi amlika lo...kiki retire ayye time ki vallu inka college kuda avuddo ledo....fees lu evadu kattali ara kora chali chalani keyboard jobs tho.....




neekemi thakkuva. neeku 200k ani talk db lo. inka lands properties sare sari.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:55 pm:       

Go for adoption. dont give up even it takes 1 year. worth it. My grandma adopted my babai(basically found him in railway station abondoned) though she has 2 of her own. They all grown well and happily.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:53 pm:       


Starc:




Eppudu chusina potugadila pessimistic ideas isthavu enduku

Movies chusi sollu eyaku, pakkodu edina ante D ani cheppali anthe kani prathidaniki sollu cheppaku

It's ok

 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:52 pm:       


Neel:

you guys are lucky, future lo anni panulu valle chestaru you can relax on couch


endi vallu chesedi adi amlika lo...kiki retire ayye time ki vallu inka college kuda avuddo ledo....fees lu evadu kattali ara kora chali chalani keyboard jobs tho.....
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:50 pm:       

My wife want to go for it, memu second kid 100% girl anukunnamu

Big disappointment for my wife, India lo research chesanu,, akkada adoption easy but lot of paper work here

3 kids too much ani lite teesukunna

It's ok

 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:49 pm:       


Sannayi_nokkulu:

3 ayyaru




speeker ki 4


you guys are lucky, future lo anni panulu valle chestaru you can relax on couch
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:23 pm:       


Neel:




One total adoption from kid to marriage own family love chusindi chebutunna. Reality and before adoption anedi total different. Pegu sambandan anedi urike analedu

Mana pillalu gukka Patti edichi ratri antha nidra lekunda cheste manam orchukuntam adi adoption lo Radu.. as feeling lekunte adoption anedi oka created action anthe
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:17 pm:       


Neel:


okappudu memu anthe anukunnam mottham 3 ayyaru
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:13 pm:       


Thokkalohdi:

E topic meeda generalized uchita salhaa kashtam.




email ichhi paypal ki ampamanu :D
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 05:12 pm:       

go to somalia or some poor african countries and adopt guys
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 04:48 pm:       


Starc:




E topic meeda generalized uchita salhaa kashtam. These are emotional bonds and decisions.
Caste: Shudra, Sub-caste: Software , Sub-sub-caste: nri Kula daivam: satyam raju
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 04:41 pm:       


Starc:

pacchadi methukulu pettina sontha pilla , sonta pille




Maa Dad oka sametha cheptaru allways

he says his mom used to say this

kunto guddi o tana kadupulo puttali taudo ganjo tana polam lo pandali ani

cheppi cheppi nannu discourage to adopt and says be happy with one what ever you have
mom says nee Kharma
nuvvu DB lo 3rd person

maa baadha neekem telusu
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 04:03 pm:       


Jodhaa:




I have a cousin who adopted - She had a biological daughter and adopted another - both are doing really well - call me in the evening and I will connect you to her :-)

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:56 pm:       

naaku teslina vallaki unnaru mugguru adopted kids from Africa and Asia...i think it took about an year.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:55 pm:       


Starc:


i know bhayya. Its not easy ani. Still in thinking phase meanwhile asalu process ento choodhamu ani.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:53 pm:       


Rajusk:



Aha:


ikkada indian kids ni adopt chesukovacha?
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:24 pm:       


Jodhaa:


from India or local? Age group? Ee details isthe konchem easy avutundemo ya to answer .
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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:22 pm:       

Nice idea. Some companies offer adoption assistance as part of their benefits. So, check your benefits. One of my former colleagues adopted two girls from China
Jan 2012 - 169.4; Aug 2013 - 182; Nov 2017 - 192.2; Jan 2018 - 175.8
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:22 pm:       


Jodhaa:

Does anyone one of you or your family/friends gone through this process here in USA? How tough is the process and how long its gonna take?



maa office lo ex-colleague okatanu kerala nundi 3 yrs old ni adopt chesukunnadu.
took him close to 2 yrs for entire process ani cheppadu.
he is not working in my company currently, ledante info kanukkune vadini.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:20 pm:       

akka.. unless you and your hubby are really clear on what you are getting into , you should not even think of it.

sontha pillalu ayithe.. manam kottina.. vallu kottina.. chuse vadiki emi undadu.. manaki undadu..

kani adapted kid lo miru oo mata anna.. vallu edanna anna.. it looks different..

people say,, becoz he/she is not your own kid.. pacchadi methukulu pettina sontha pilla , sonta pille
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:17 pm:       


Jodhaa:

Does anyone one of you or your family/friends gone through this process here in USA? How tough is the process and how long its gonna take?



is your quechen..

adopting girl child ..from India and getting to vomerica ?

or davirectly adopt in vomerica ?

be clear gaa seppandi
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:10 pm:       

We wanted to adopt and did a bit of research. But, didn't go ahead because of the process and constraints. It takes around 2 years and costs about 25k (if the parents are US citizens). Not sure, if things have changed.. Adopting Chinese and African kid is relatively easy.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 03:10 pm:       


Jodhaa:

Does anyone one of you or your family/friends gone through this process here in USA? How tough is the process and how long its gonna take?


I think if the kids parents are alive laws koncham different untayi.. my cousin did some work on this...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, December 19, 2018 - 02:42 pm:       

Does anyone one of you or your family/friends gone through this process here in USA? How tough is the process and how long its gonna take?

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