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Ishan Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 10004 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
As others said, its just behavioral intervention...so it doesnt hurt...and it can be tailored to his individual needs...you can tell your concerns to the BCBA ,set goals and start with 10 hours a week training for few months and see how it goes... "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 771 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
i do noticed it, the more you interact the more talent he is showing. kottavallu intiki vasthe vallaki hi chepthadu he play with them and interact with them if i ask him to say hi bye cheppadu | ||
Brightlife34 Junior Artist Username: Brightlife34 Post Number: 6 Registered: 11-2017 Posted From: 73.104.150.30 Rating: N/A |
No we have not. i know many who are doing it. We are doing basic supplements right now from bio med perspective. But I strongly believe its mostly about spending lot of time with kids and having loads of patience. Working with my kid I realised they have good ability but just not enough focus and motivation (could be body related) but they can be inspired by designing your play around their ability rather than forcing things on them. based on what you mentioned baseline in case of you kid is much better, and I hope he continues to grow every day. | ||
Brightlife34 Junior Artist Username: Brightlife34 Post Number: 5 Registered: 11-2017 Posted From: 73.104.150.30 Rating: N/A |
no harm in doing ABA. You can always set goals based on his current ability. its not like they have same goals for all kids. for my son they set easier goals so that they could build a trust bond with them and slowly started to increase the level.. so you can work with them and set appropriate goals and phase down therapy if you think he does not need any more of it.. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 770 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
thank you, we will than | ||
Sahoo99 Junior Artist Username: Sahoo99 Post Number: 3 Registered: 10-2017 Posted From: 107.77.80.91 Rating: N/A |
Aba therapy doesnot harm him.It will help.E age kids interactive play thone nerpistaru.Ma son memu chepithe vinadu but bcba chepte edina new thing ventane grasp chestadu and follow avutadu.Their way of teaching is diff meru avi chusi implement cheyochu.Help e avutundi me kids even if he is normal. | ||
Sahoo99 Junior Artist Username: Sahoo99 Post Number: 2 Registered: 10-2017 Posted From: 107.77.66.28 Rating: N/A |
ya,ABA therapy is helping him a lot and his BCBA also very good.we hope that she will not move anywhere.And We dont miss any social gatherings.We joined him in soccer to improve his social communication.He is doing good there,He follows the directions very well.But it is day to day battle.We dont know when he will come out of the spectrum.
} Ya we just started speech therapy last week.We did not do those tests.In our last visit,when we asked our doctor,She said he doesnot need now.But we will do definitly this time.Does she need to order those tests?.She ordered genetic tests fragile x test. And yes infinite patience must be there.Sometimes we lost our patience but we know thats not the way to deal wih him.We need to improve in that area. Rigidness untundi chala in some things,He does not want half sleeve shirts,All the time he wants only full sleeve shirts and for bath he doesnot want to take off his shirt.We introduced visual schedule for bath recently. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 769 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
i agree partially because lots of kids are having greater improvement with name check and some see regression i was little worried anduke inulin start cheyaledu, my kid doesn't have gut issues, so waiting for stool test results, doctor told me lets deals with those issues if have any..
and my kid doesn't have any classic syptoms of autistic kids have, he is learning to follow the instructions, shirt theeyi,pant theeyi ante teesthadu try chesthadu, sitting on potty, but i do see some delays in following instructions. here it is where i am confused, shell i give him ABA or just wait ,ABA is going to start in one week... | ||
Ishan Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 10002 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
} Each autistic kid is different...you dont need extensive therapies unless they are needed...along with ABA, you can try speech therapy which will improve his communication and language skills. If not done yet, check his blood levels of vitamins and minerals...if deficient, give supplements as per doctor's recommendations...after that, infinite patience of parents is the only thing they need  I cant believe I posted 10000 posts in this DB lol "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Ishan Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 10001 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
Bro, sorry but I dont buy any of this...only a subset autistic kids have gut problems and only in subset of that subset have SIBO...my son who has classic autism, has zero gut issues...in fact many kids in our autism group dont have gut issues...if your son doesnt have any GI issues, why would you want to unnecessarily put him on some therapy which could actually cause side effects...inulin has side effects...that nemechek protocol claims that it can reverse autism...any one who claims they can "reverse" or "cure" autism, is a fraud, period... ABA is essentially used to reduce unwanted behaviors such as stimmings, and impart independent behaviors such as putting their own cloths on, brushing their teeth etc. If your son needs any of that, yes ABA can help...most of autistic kids need ABA because their skills are not age matched...ABA helps to expedite this process of skill development... "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57624 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 96.231.135.116 Rating: N/A |
i think your kid is doing good, he will be all right don't change anything just watch for any changes.. | ||
Sahoo99 Junior Artist Username: Sahoo99 Post Number: 1 Registered: 10-2017 Posted From: 107.77.66.28 Rating: N/A |
Hi my son is almost 3 yrs old.22 mnths apudu diagnise ayadu.Aba terapy start chesi 6 mnths avutundi.He improved a lot in social situations like saying bye and Hi.Speech kuda chala improve ayadu.Pointing chestunadu now.When he wants something he is requesting now using words (3 word sentences)and asks for help. But he is very rigid.We are trying to change those.He does some repetiitive behaviours (Stimming) but that is very less.He needs lot of prompts to say his name when stranger asks.But at home he is doing good.Now he speaks lot of words and he can label anything.We just started speech therapy for him.matladatapudu konni clarity levu.letters miss chestuntadu.Peers tho interact avatam lo he is doing good now. Turn taking baga adatadu but he does not understand my and your.he says my turn but he doesnot understand "your".idi ela practice cheyali emana ideas unte chepara. Otherthan ABA terapy we did not do anything.Aba terapy is helping him a lot. He does not have any sleep issues.He is very picky eater but he eats good amount.we are introducing new foods for him,when he eats one bite of new food he gets one bite of highly prefered food.He has been improved a lot. Do we need to do anything in particular.? This is my first.But epatinundo i am following dis db. Na question is ikada chuste merandaru trying lot of procedures,memu just Aba therapy istunam.} | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 768 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
started and stopped,problem with honey is vedi chesthundi, diper rash | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 767 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
yes agree, anduke i haven't started giving him inulin yet, just waitin for his test results. are you trying namecheck protocol? | ||
Speaker Hero Username: Speaker Post Number: 13624 Registered: 06-2016 Posted From: 205.194.127.36 Rating: N/A |
1. Helps with SIBO, Low Stomach Acid, Acid Reflux Small intestine bacterial overgrowth (SIBO), low stomach acid and acid reflux go hand in hand. Because of Manuka honey’s known natural antibiotic qualities, it is a great medicine for any bacteria-related disorder. In fact, in a recent study, one dangerous bacteria related to all three conditions, Clostridium difficult, was found to be quite susceptible to Manuka honey’s bactericidal effects. (2) So taking Manuka honey is very beneficial at reducing acid reflux and balancing your digestive system to heal stomach and intestinal imbalances. Namo Buddham Saranam Gacchaami Namo Dharmam Saranam Gacchaami Namo Sangham Saranam Gacchaami | ||
Speaker Hero Username: Speaker Post Number: 13623 Registered: 06-2016 Posted From: 205.194.127.36 Rating: N/A |
Top 10 Manuka Honey Benefits Manuka honey benefits have been touted in the natural health world for a long time and even more in recent years because a growing body of research is starting to support thousands of years of folk medicine use. Some of the top Manuka honey uses are and benefits include: Helps with SIBO, Low Stomach Acid, Acid Reflux May Help Treat Acne and Eczema Combats Staph Infections (MRSA) Treats Burns, Wounds and Ulcers Prevents Tooth Decay and Gingivitis Aids IBS and IBD Treatment Improves Sore Throats and Immunity Helps Allergies Beauty Treatment and Health Booster Improves Sleep Namo Buddham Saranam Gacchaami Namo Dharmam Saranam Gacchaami Namo Sangham Saranam Gacchaami | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 766 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
most of the desis has misconception about this, you need to observe for other signs not just speech, there are certain behavioral patters other than speech which are red flags.. please do some research don't just say 14 months ki speech delays enti, | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 765 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
it is based on scientific research only,part of healing process doctor specifically saying we may see regression when introduced the inulin. my kid does not have GI problems, but by default most of the autistic kids will have SIBO, this is what DOCTOR SAYING PART OF HIS RESEARCH but pruning of neurons doesn't happens because of SIBO.. pruning of neurons is key in recovery, because of SIBO undigested food will be mixed part of your blood stream and this causes the brain swelling and fogging, this is the issue why autistic kids have delays in development.. SIBO is related to altered DNA..
i got it and he has speech therapy going on already. what i meant was he is picking up the speech on his own this is what i see over the 9 months period, but does he need ABA for behavioral modification ? or slow ga pickup avuthada? this is my question. | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 6862 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.78 Rating: N/A |
14 months ki speach delay enti? how could you judge at that young age. some kids very late. Every kid is different. | ||
Brightlife34 Junior Artist Username: Brightlife34 Post Number: 4 Registered: 11-2017 Posted From: 160.83.72.208 Rating: N/A |
how does one know if a kid has GI problem apart from being constipated and sleep issues.. we are consulting 2 MAPS now and did almost an yr of biomed with high dose Probiotics and many rounds of anti fungals. his recent blood test was much better while stool test has some bacterial markers..there are some definite improvements but as always not sure if they are age related or biomed related  reg Nemechek protocol, I too heard about regressions before improvements. Infact most protocols are said to cause initial regression as body takes time to adjust before responding, but I would suggest everyone to do a proper research before trying on their kids | ||
Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 10000 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
regression is part of healing? never heard about that...dont know its scientific basis...inulin is for SIBO kids if I am not wrong...does he have GI problems? No, ABA is for behavioral modification...he needs Speech therapy "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 764 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
waiting for results, don't no yet, based on this we are planning to give him inulin, but scared of regression, part of the protocol doctor saying regression is common and that is the healing process but with out inulin also we started noticing healing process, he is more tearful and closing his ears when he is stressed out..
i do agree on this, we are working on it, but my question is over the period he will get it kada or do i need to put him in ABA ?
yes he looks at me and holds my hand and asks in action mode,when get hurt he will show how he fell and where he get hurts, nenu vadiki discipline cheppalsi vachinappudu look into my eyes ante he closes his eyes and looks at me, he know i am angry.
watching ante i do noticed when some other kids using his toys he trys to play with same toys and i do see giving his toys to other kids
as i mentioned he has some delays, that is why we are going through this process and i am teaching him.. | ||
Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9999 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
Good question - so pointing at a specific thing, for example if the kid wants a toy, involves a three way communication - the kid looks at the toy, wants it, knows that he cant take it by himself, knows whom to ask, how to ask (looking directly at parent's face), and then points - so there are so many advanced steps going on in the mind automatically with that simple gesture of pointing. Pointing with a finger is a gesture only humans can do...no other animal can do it...though pointing is gesturing, its almost like speaking in language form...thats why its an important milestone. On the other hand, bringing the object to you can be done even by animals...your dog might bring stuff for you ...but she cant point (yes, some dogs do with training but its an exception) so its a step below finger pointing."...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Cinejeevi Moderator Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 6726 Registered: 10-2014 Rating: N/A |
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Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9998 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
Kiddo is fine, we just had another kiddo...so full busy On the top of what MS said, evolutionarily speaking index finger and thumb are used to grasp things by apes - so neurologically its easy to move index finger than the other 3 fingers...it takes effort to use other fingers...verbal communication is the most advanced form (humans)...gestures are used by animals...so toddlers pass through that stage before talking... thats because thats not standard of care for autistic children...there is no consensus or guideline to follow a protocol for autistic kids...the best they could do is to recommend ABA, OT and ST. Yepp, parents are the best doctors for these kids "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 14211 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 205.167.199.122 Rating: N/A |
Please dont put pressure on kids. Spend more time...all they need. I spoke at 3 Yrs..I dont stop now | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57615 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 96.231.135.116 Rating: N/A |
sorry...  | ||
Onlytruth Legend Username: Onlytruth Post Number: 199470 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 107.77.83.81 Rating: N/A |
Pregnancy time lo growth concerns, Delivery complications tho dadapu tension end ayipoyedhi even 5 years ago mana lanti valla world lo....inka once kid puttaka auto pilot laaga undedhi except initial days over caution Now it is extended period...maatalu vachi, crankyness lekunda, repetitive tasks cheyyakunda all iz well ani 3 yrs vache daaka parents are nervous God bless ALL | ||
Jalsa Legend Username: Jalsa Post Number: 36172 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.53.46.144 Rating: N/A |
not just pediatricians, even developmental pediatricians kooda emi suggest cheyaru. This last appointment, I also went with my wife and the doctor didn't even look at the kid. She was not even suggesting us to try anything different. Then I asked about SPEAK and B12. She gave prescription for B12. Then we asked if we should do any additional bloodwork or any tests, she gives couple of prescriptions - one for urine (from a special lab) and other blood (forgot the actual names). It's only up to parents to educate themselves and be proactive in asking. Maa school ayithe literally useless. They can't even make her eat the little bit of lunch we pack. Forget lunch, they kept saying she doesn't drink water even when we provided data sheets from home. Had to make a strong case for them to do that. The list goes on Pfan, guess you did right things at the right time and kid is seeing some benefits. Good luck! | ||
Urumi Side Hero Username: Urumi Post Number: 4419 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 96.242.135.253 Rating: N/A |
SIBO maaku vunna isues lo chaala chinnadi andi. my son is not yet ready for a particular protocol. complicated case. | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66747 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
say a kid wants something on the other end of room,..is taking a person close to the object and asking for help a better communication than just pointing from far in the room? just pointing doesn't help or convey anything right? rather taking the person to the object or brining the object to a person for help is a better way to communicate kada. There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21281 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
the actual reason to why its important is still up in the air. but it is one the preliminary forms of pre-verbal communication. around 1 yr of age, typical kids no enough to understand how to communicate with gestures and its an instinctive behavior. | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66746 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
I see this index point stressed a lot. what is the difference between taking a person and poiting at a object? There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21280 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
anna howdy.. how is the kiddo.. | ||
Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9997 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
Thats good, I thought some other DBer made that comment of punching him, not you General pediatricians in the US are very ill trained in neurodevelopmental disorders...we had the same experience..many of them either dont know jack about autism or play safe and refer. Nevertheless, dont expect much from your regular pediatrician...neurodevelopmental pediatricians are ideal, but hard to get an appointment with. Child psychologists are in between...you can rely on them. What are the results? I didnt mean to say that you were in denial, but some of DBers here always brush such concerns aside suggesting that it is nothing which they think is "cool" to say...but the fact that you took time effort and went through all these appointments, readings and analyses means that you are a worried parent and there is a reason behind it...some autistic parents DO get in to denial mode and thats why I always take the opposite stand in this DB to what these so called 'cool' dbers say. good. this is bit concerning because typical kids dont need so many prompts to say things...they just say it...if its like occasional reluctance, thats fine but if he does this all the time, I would mention it to the doctor. did he show any interest in playing with them, watching them, interacting with them? When you point or show him something on the wall, does he turn his head and look at it? does he use his index finger to point distant objects in the room instead of taking you to the object? does he look in your face and ask what he wants? he doesnt have to do it all the time, but does he do it occasinally? does he look deep in to your eyes for more than 5 seconds? thats good. hmmm...based on the points you made, cognitive and physical developmental seem to be fine, but communication lo koddiga issues vunnayemo...some kids have just expressive communication delay and nothing else... first thing is stop worrying...acquire as much knowledge as you can...see things objectively...worry makes things worse. "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57612 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 96.231.135.116 Rating: N/A |
if you are interested please do some research on Dr name check protocol, very effective and people are having lots of lots of improvement.. no medication it is just all natural process. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 763 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
autism is related SIBO,which is also related to our digestive system,most of the developmental disorder are related to SIBO, if we control SIBO it helps the healing process of brain .. vasa cleans up the vocal cord bacteria and also controls SIBO , this will help in regulating neurons and brain development.. This is my conclusion based on bits and pieces info and research i found.. | ||
Urumi Side Hero Username: Urumi Post Number: 4418 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 96.242.135.253 Rating: N/A |
more details plz....vasa digestion ki manchidi antaaru. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 761 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
Just FYI when i say omega-3 i use only fish oil, below product. https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/61eMx6zRUjL ._SY679_.jpg non-marine omega-3 fatty acids, such as flax oil (ALA), do not penetrate the central nervous system enough to have an impact on inflammation or microglia function. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 760 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
@tadi_mattayya Evvo and omega3 is used as s supplements, evvo mix in food or if kid takes it by mouth feed him with spoon, cooking is different Omega3 strawberry flavor direct with spoon | ||
Tadi_mattayya Junior Artist Username: Tadi_mattayya Post Number: 339 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 104.188.245.59 Rating: N/A |
Just for clarity.. EVOO is used for curries etc for the kid ..or is it administered differently like a supplement? Also Omega3 I am guessing is administered by adding it to Juices/Milk etc.. pls let me know. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 759 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
yes it is vasa https://www.vitacost.com/Images/Products/500/California-Oliv e-Ranch/California-Olive-Ranch-Extra-Virgin-Olive-Oil-850687 104009.jpg extra virgin olive oil, this is what it is recommended.. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 758 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
though people say vacha is for speaking this is actually some thing to do with gut bacteria, this is what i believe.. US also did some research on vacha during 1960's but FDA banned this saying it contains carcinogens.. i am still scared of regression ,confused and monitoring his progress closely recently visited naturopathic doctor, she was asking all the things i provided to my son , i mentioned about vacha and for my surprise she is very familiar with vacha.. | ||
Urumi Side Hero Username: Urumi Post Number: 4417 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 96.242.135.253 Rating: N/A |
VACha ante vasa na ? Evvo ante ? | ||
Anthamidhya Junior Artist Username: Anthamidhya Post Number: 351 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 50.207.24.82 Rating: N/A |
didn’t try vacha. But that’s for speech. Looks like everything else improved, very surprising for just those 3 to make such a huge difference in 6 months. Whatever it is, enjoy the relief, I know how painful it would have been for all of your family | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 756 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
per my research mostly vacha , EVVO and omega 3 helped him big time ani anipisthundi | ||
Anthamidhya Junior Artist Username: Anthamidhya Post Number: 350 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 50.207.24.82 Rating: N/A |
Iglad to hear the kid made progress. I concur with everything Ishan said. Need to take a 360 view. Per your description he seems to have overcome most of the delays, yee fox tail thokkaaru Yeah, lot of ppl don’t understand spectrum and don’t provide support for us. Even most parents don’t accept the condition, come out openly and ask for help, raise awareness. If we ourselves can’t accept and raise awareness why would typical kids piarents care ? Take the mchat test and watch out for any regression. All is well | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 755 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
problem with this is if the underlying problem corrects it self than no issues but early intervention is always good. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 754 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
i have no issues with pediatrician, in fact i like the early intervention and i did all research and provided all necessary things to my kid as early as possible naku kopam vahindi ekkada ante ma pediatrician meeda he just planted doubt and and he gave no guidance or no proper suggestion how to approach about the early intervention and ABA, other than suggesting to developmental pediatrician he did nothing, this is most frustrating thing to me i did all tests in the link which you provided several times, again that is most frustrating and confusing thing.. no i am not in denial that's why i went a head and did all the necessary tests as early possible.. his social behavior is good, chepthe vintunnadu and following directions .. recently i noticed sharing toys with other kids, he is stacking cups and identifying shapes, regression ante i am not sure how to explain, hi bye cheppu ante cheppadu, but he started doing few weeks back after so many prompts, ippudu bayata ki pothunna bye ante he looks at me and ignores, some times he walks few steps towards me and thats it. other day we had friends visit and kids entered the home , the movement he saw them he said hi to couple of kids thats it.. he is very active in pointing things and he takes me there and show it to me what he wants. he gets on to chair and tables to reach the things he want he likes pens and pencils but not crayons, kavalani vadiki kanipinche drawer lo pedatha, he takes me there and asks for it, i wait till he say pen or pencil instead of giving it to him directly, some times he says "open" than i will give to him. i haven't seen any repetative behavious as such, he used to do spinning wheels , but he stopped doing this since 4 months.. he started playing with cars he is riding cars, he started playing with toys appropriately..so this is also ruled out .. other day he figured out that if he pulls the car backwards he know it will move forward ani, but rarely he calls nanna, amma and anna..but he recognizes spelling of his name , when i ask his name he tells starting of his name. | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 8033 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 24.75.235.215 Rating: |
My son didn't speak a word till he was 30 months old. Now we can't stop him from talking. Give your kids some time Disclaimer: Do your own research before investing in any cryptocurrency or conventional stocks. My views are my personal opinions. | ||
Dts Comedian Username: Dts Post Number: 1150 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 209.95.56.53 Rating: N/A |
These are few of the behaviors of the spectrum. But don't worry, ABA at an early age is very safe and effective. Please consult a psychiatrist to be on the safe side. కోటిపల్లికి దారడిగి కొండపల్లికి వెళ్తున్నావేమిటి? ...మనసు మార్చుకున్నాను! DTS "The digital experience" | ||
Urumi Side Hero Username: Urumi Post Number: 4416 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 96.242.135.253 Rating: |
-1 lol. Speech gurinchi worry avakapoyina communication gurinchi worry avvaali aa age ki. Speech veru communication veru. | ||
Dts Comedian Username: Dts Post Number: 1149 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 209.95.56.53 Rating: N/A |
The spectrum is not a single behavior issue. It is a set of the behavioral problems. Since speech is a strikingly noticeable delay, we'd identify it and once a kid picks up the speech we feel that he is okay. But, that may or may not be true. Only a psychiatrist could tell if the kid has any of the behavior issues. These could be limited to a couple of areas. However, if identified, addressing them at the earlier stage is very good for kids. కోటిపల్లికి దారడిగి కొండపల్లికి వెళ్తున్నావేమిటి? ...మనసు మార్చుకున్నాను! DTS "The digital experience" | ||
Airliner Side Hero Username: Airliner Post Number: 4796 Registered: 11-2011 Posted From: 24.53.242.234 Rating: N/A |
14 months ki speech delpays endi vayya..  too much paranoia.. your kid is perfectly normal ..You are not born a winner. Nor are you born a loser. You are born a chooser. Choose to win. | ||
Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9996 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: |
Not to criticize or make any one anxious but having only a set of skills doesn't rule in or rule out a condition. We need to take in to account all aspects of the child....its a 360 degree observation...Just because a kid is speaking certain number of words doesnt make him normal, because many asperger kids can actually say 10 times more number of words than normal kids do...in fact many aspie toddlers can do everything that a normal kid would do but they fail at social interaction which cant be easily assessed in toddlers...its the overall development we need to analyze...thats why there are doctors...telling him to punch the doctor is not only inappropriate, it can also push the parents in to denial mode which is the worse thing that can happen to a kid. Better be safe than sorry. "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Chenagalu Side Hero Username: Chenagalu Post Number: 2883 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 45.22.61.28 Rating: |
iyanni worries aaa? what should you do na? Eee thread choosthe naaku bhayam vestundi mastaaru. Avi common ga pillalu chese allari type kada. naa 23 month old valla akka 7 yr old ni sofa lo koorchonivvadu, adi ekkada koorchunte akkadiki velli "MINE MINE" ani adi leche varaku nettesthadu. Ila chala chesthadu, may be oka 10 words vachemo | ||
Chenagalu Side Hero Username: Chenagalu Post Number: 2882 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 45.22.61.28 Rating: N/A |
iyanni worries aaa? what should you do na? Eee thread choosthe naaku bhayam vestundi mastaaru. Avi common ga pillalu chese allari type kada. naa 23 month old valla akka 7 yr old ni sofa lo koorchonivvadu, adi ekkada koorchunte akkadiki velli "MINE MINE" ani adi leche varaku nettesthadu. Ila chala chesthadu, may be oka 10 words vachemo | ||
Chenagalu Side Hero Username: Chenagalu Post Number: 2881 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 45.22.61.28 Rating: |
21 months ki 150 words, A to Z , numbers etc etc and you are worried? Maa vadu 23 months, meeru ichina list lo 10% untademo, antha particular ga notice cheyyaledu.I'm not worried. | ||
Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9995 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 12.130.196.253 Rating: N/A |
Take this test and see where he stands https://www.autismspeaks.org/what-autism/diagnosis/mchat Being in spectrum is not the end of the world - based on your description he seems to be at the high end of the spectrum. These kids usually get out of the spectrum with proper therapy.
How is his social behavior when he is around people? Does he point at the things he wants? any repetitive behaviors? No, for our son that was the age WE noticed clear changes. 2 to 5 years is a crucial age for brain development. Watch out for any kind of regression in his skills. Regression in the number of words or his social behavior or emergence of repetitive behaviors are red flags. Go to a neurodevelopmental pediatrician. Or take a second and third opinion from child psychologists. One thing you dont want to do is to get in to denial mode. "...but it's not who you are underneath, it's what you do that defines you..." | ||
Linkmaster Legend Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 57543 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 149.128.8.245 Rating: N/A |
umm.. intha mandi kids unnaraa Autism tho .... ayyo.. | ||
Brightlife34 Junior Artist Username: Brightlife34 Post Number: 1 Registered: 11-2017 Posted From: 160.83.42.137 Rating: N/A |
You need not be mad at ped, he/she might have been pro-active and sounding you off. Based on what you say I don't think there is any issue with the kid, but there is nothing wrong in being pro active. ABA is like regular play at his age nothing stressful about it. Looking back at my kid I would say tell tale signs would be proper play skills with toys or ppl, pointing and commenting on regular basis, eye contact and also food intake (my kid was not picky but he would only try a few things and rice was a must) I would say don't worry, and keep a track of your kid, he sounds good to me, but watch him like a hawk (but also enjoy him). | ||
Sri_anji Hero Username: Sri_anji Post Number: 12991 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 54.172.120.200 Rating: N/A |
agree The best Odarpu | ||
Sri_anji Hero Username: Sri_anji Post Number: 12990 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 54.172.120.200 Rating: N/A |
I think this is common. Nenu maa voditho entha games adina, cartoon, youtube choopinchina...finally amma ani velthadu...it is pretty funny sometimes. The best Odarpu | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66738 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
tanturms..anta kante em ledu..but if u read this in autism spectrum point of view, they call it resistance to change..repetetive..not flexible etc etc.. spectrum they made it so wide that every kid may exhibit at least one of those..near perfect kids unte tappa There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21248 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
not particular skills, but in general if they can learn any skill they are presented with, even if it does not come naturally ani... not saying they will not need help andi.. | ||
Urumi Side Hero Username: Urumi Post Number: 4415 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 96.242.135.253 Rating: N/A |
+ 1 adem stressful em kaadu. ye chinna gaps vunna fill avutay. forget about diagnosis, but vaallu kasepu vachhi aadite problem emuntundi ? capability of doing own things ante ADL's aa anni na ? migilina skills lekapote, ee world lo support lekunda bratakatam kashtame kadaa ? | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 16648 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.9 Rating: N/A |
>>feel like punching pediatrician on his face lol.. try to go to lady ped..noticed they have more patience to explain things | ||
Last_avataar Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 10232 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 139.71.144.9 Rating: N/A |
Manchiga unna babu ni inka kasta petti complicate cheyyakandi he is Normal... and growing well, Enjoy Keep an close eye, stop taking additional consultations except well check and if possible change pediatrician | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 753 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
@meverick 14 months too early for speech.. i know too early and we initially thought we will wait, but pediatrician recommended early intervention is always best , and as i said no help and guidance from any body, not even from pediatrician, feel like punching pediatrician on his face, other saying go for a doctor no help or suggestion from at all | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21243 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
if kids have issues that we cannot control, its a living nightmare. in your case there are alot of positive signs.
cant blame them... unless they have seen someone who is going through it, or part of it, its difficult to understand vunkl... | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 752 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
@mevrick does he watch lot of rhymes..he probably.picked letters number s etc from.rhymes yes he does and picked up lot of stuff from there and he is doing his own experiments | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66736 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 107.77.97.27 Rating: N/A |
14 months too early for speech..dont expect all.kids to achieve milestones at.the same.time..late bloomers anthe There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 751 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
@rebel he is growing yes agree | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 750 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
feel like crying since 9 months, sleep less nights since 9 months.. pain, sarrow, surprises this is the situation since 9 months.. DB helped big time, out side friends are suks, horrible telugu frineds in terms of support and info sharing..people in desi community treats ASD as taboo.. manollu eppudu change avutharo god knows | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 16647 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.9 Rating: N/A |
>> he is improving day by day. he is growing not improving..nothing to improve. | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 16646 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.9 Rating: N/A |
speech delay ani 14 months ke ela telsindi 14 months is a very ripe age aa time ki tests enti unless us ee strong signs | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66733 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 107.77.97.27 Rating: N/A |
does he watch lot of rhymes..he probably.picked letters number s etc from.rhymes There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66732 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 107.77.97.27 Rating: N/A |
true..dont get concerned..keep watching..anthe.. I would say every ok ne with toddlers and younger keep watching ur kids and their actions closely There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66731 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 107.77.97.27 Rating: N/A |
true.. There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21240 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
you dont need to be worried or concerned.. just keep an eye. like i said, you are lucky | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21239 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
lol, my friends son is one of the out going kids i have even seen, he is six now, but is always the center of a group, even with kids elder to him. he just talks non-stop and picks up every conversation tick you can find. but we can never make him completely recite alphabets from a to z or say 1 to 20. wonderfully charmful kids. they are too smart sometimes... | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 749 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
@sri_Anji 11-20 cheppaledu. he is almost 4. yes this is what confuses me, surprising thing is 1 to 30 chepthadu and reverse kuda try chesthunnadu like 20 to 1 and counting steps when he is going up and down, | ||
Sri_anji Hero Username: Sri_anji Post Number: 12986 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 54.164.134.252 Rating: N/A |
He is perfect and god bless the kids bro. The best Odarpu | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 748 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
yes he copies me, if i make funny sounds he repests, he plays peek a boo with his brother and me. he is improving day by day.
yes i was thinking the same, | ||
Sri_anji Hero Username: Sri_anji Post Number: 12985 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 54.164.134.252 Rating: N/A |
maa vodu kathalu antha matladuthadu....11-20 cheppaledu. he is almost 4. The best Odarpu | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21238 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
like i said, if kid is on spectrum its hard to ignore. saying that spectrum is a wide thing. so genuinely there could have been noticeable traits, that prompted for a follow up. but kids change fast, and change is good. if the kid is learning and has no issues to handle his own things, no need to be concern, even if the kid is still on spectrum. | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 66730 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
You probably got him diagnosed too early..if he is responding to u, mixing with people.following commands, speech delay okkati unnanta matrana autism kaakapovacchu..or may be he is out of it, dont worry. is he copying you? There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Rahul Moderator Username: Rahul Post Number: 6901 Registered: 12-2010 Rating: N/A |
telusu annai, but oka sari enduko change cheyyalsi vachindi and he was not happy and ee okka vishayam kadu annitilonu. mavadu brushing varaku malla amma, bedtime stories and book reading nene cheyyali iddarni baganey balance chesthadu | ||
Cinejeevi Moderator Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 6694 Registered: 10-2014 Rating: N/A |
it is NOT suggested to keep kids right behind the driver seat while driving. So kid is right. OTOH, please ask your wife if she trained your kid to be like that and if so share the training techniques. For me it's opposite and I have to do everything to my kid and want to train my kid to go to amma instead of nanna for everything n anything. paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka... | ||
Rahul Moderator Username: Rahul Post Number: 6900 Registered: 12-2010 Rating: N/A |
Thanks, Will try your ideas | ||
Rahul Moderator Username: Rahul Post Number: 6899 Registered: 12-2010 Rating: N/A |
idey anukunna. but things not related to him lo kuda he displays this behaviour, like he doesn't like when I talk on my wife's phone or viceversa, Alagey when we go out he doesn't like my wife driving the car..insists that I drive. | ||
Last_avataar Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 10231 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 139.71.144.9 Rating: N/A |
CORRECT ye Bhai, we all went thru. But if pfan feels boy looks normal, i strongly suggest to leave him without going for second, with close observation of parents | ||
Last_avataar Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 10230 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 139.71.144.9 Rating: N/A |
I totally understand, more than that it is even stressful for your kid too join keep a close watch weekly basis, couple of classes he likes, make sure pediatric miles stones are normal. you are good, he is good Donot complicate things by unnecessary second opinions when you donot see any issue . Small developmental delays, issues , behavioral patterns are common. I wish and hope all of you get to normal peaceful life ASAP | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21237 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
some behaviors might look like big hindrances at this age, but kids usually get out of it themselves. But it would be beneficial to help him through this phase by offering to sit in a different position for something he likes. there needs to be a give and take and a negotiating tactic so they can reason out themselves as to the benefit of considering other options. your negotiation should be reasonable with the kid. if the kid is really getting distressed and feeling upset with change, it will only help him to cope with change if they are tought to negotiate and considering choices. please keep in mind negotiation should start before the situation arises. like if i brush your teeth tonight, or put paste on your brush, will show a video of something you like(or whatever the kid likes which you think might not be willing to pass)... prepare him from evening and remind him a few times through out the evening and try it. if it did not work, try again after a couple of days and so on. | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57610 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 96.231.135.116 Rating: N/A |
probably you ki has OCD nothing more than that, most of us have this raana gadu oka interview lo chappadu he has it ani.. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 747 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
this is where i stressed out, going to to many doctors, blood tests multiple times, behavior analysis multiple times.. asalu horrible anipisthundi | ||
Gochi Side Hero Username: Gochi Post Number: 3207 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 159.53.46.142 Rating: N/A |
whatever works for you avataaar bhai...why we go to doctors is we believe they know better than us and can judge better...we don't want to take a chance on our kid right... even for my kid, at the age of 18 months, pediatrician recommended us to go for a hearing test as my daughter got multiple ear infections...though we know she is able to hear properly, we went for a hearing test..hearing test came negative and they recommended to put tubes inside my daughter's ear (which requires a surgery)...then we spoke to a desi doctor and he advised us to go for a second hearing test within a month(as he suspected ear infection was still there when she went for the first test) and this time she passed the test...ultimately we didn't need to put tubes bcos of this second attempt and she had a very normal speech like any other kid...ee US lo ee cautious approach kills parents with all the stress...so don't think it will confuse you, ultimately its your call and gut feel with what you decide... | ||
Rahul Moderator Username: Rahul Post Number: 6897 Registered: 12-2010 Rating: N/A |
thanks, we are trying explaining it to him that it's ok for things to change but right now he is very stubborn. Will continue doing it | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 746 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
so far zero medication, we are not giving him mediction | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21236 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
just curious what other therapies? ABA does not necessarily put much pressure on the kid, unless the suggested number of hours is causing a problem to the kid. Although its quite expensive. Its upto you all. You might give it a try for a few months, like six months and see if it is benefiting and later discontinue. Again, if you are not feeling the need, then there might be no need at all. From what you have described, i feel that he does not seem to have any major hindrances. | ||
Last_avataar Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 10227 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 139.71.144.9 Rating: |
These are simple behavioral patterns of small kids. May be he experiencing some insecurity , may be some peers stealing his places or stuff, so trying to compensate at him. he is pretty normal and just requires you both to address his small fears gradually and it takes some time | ||
Rahul Moderator Username: Rahul Post Number: 6896 Registered: 12-2010 Rating: N/A |
Not related to spectrum but issue with my kid my son will be turning 3 this week. Speaks normally fluently in telugu .sometimes stammers when trying to form 2-4 word sentences. Rest all normal but what worries me is, he doesn't accept change immediately.. Like he wants to sit on the same spot on the sofa(Big Bang Sheldon type lo na spot antadu)Doesn't like anyone sitting in that spot. Alagey he wants his car seat only on the right side of the back seat, When I tried to change it to Left side he is unhappy and doesn't want to get into car unless i change it Wants only his mom to help him brush his teeth.. Ila chala vunnayi.. it's kid of worrying me. once he gets used to soemething he is not ready for a change. What should I do ? | ||
Last_avataar Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 10226 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 139.71.144.9 Rating: N/A |
why regular pediatrician should tell us his milestones are normal i feel at this stage parents to have close monitor on weekly basis and act accordinly going to second will not help , more stress on kid and parents. this stress on kid may become detrimental to his normal process, which can confuse even | ||
Gochi Side Hero Username: Gochi Post Number: 3205 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 159.53.110.142 Rating: |
consult some other doctor and get a confirmation now to be sure...most of the times doctors here predict spectrum too early as they take a cautious approach...if your kid is improved well, you don't want to force any additional medication...Early intervention is still fine, like some one from govt comes and teaches words, signs etc... | ||
Last_avataar Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 10225 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 139.71.144.9 Rating: |
if both of you feel he looks and acts and learns, enjoys , mixes with people normal , Leave that Kid like he is, he is normal , take him to more outdoors and explore and be like a natural kid. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 745 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
now we feel he is normal, but they suggest for ABA and other therapies, do we need to go for it , is it too much pressure for the kid? we are confused and stressed out, unable to take any decision | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 72263 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.52 Rating: N/A |
he is normal | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21235 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
i feel you will not be able to feel that the kid is normal, if he is really on the spectrum. there is no escaping it. Kids change rapidly during this age, he might have developed the skills he needs, and if you are not feeling that there is no issue, (when i say you, both mom and dad), most probably he is not on the spectrum any more. btw, why are you worried if he is on spectrum? as long as he is healthy, and is capably of doing his own things, there is no need to worry vunkl. count yourselves insanely lucky and be happy. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 744 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
my son has speech delays and we noticed this at the age of 14 months pediatrician suggested to go for a pediatric psychologist. we got appointment and they declared him that he is in spectrum at the age of 18 months now he is 21 months an changed a lot, thought he says occasionally nanna amma he is goo at all other things now he can speak almost 150 words, a to z, 1 to 20, and sing all songs, identify the fruits and vegetables, and communicating with some words, asking for pen and paper and scribbles .. though he has some delays according to doctors standards i am really confused and stressed out .. no health issues, his activity and eye contact and response to calling his name is good..very active. i noticed sharing of toys with other kids.. is it too early doctor decided that he is in spectrum? please advice |
