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Film_fan Legend Username: Film_fan Post Number: 32412 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 62.253.210.187 Rating: N/A |
Difference in thinking, antha ku minchi emi ledhu. Amma chepthe tirigi answer ivvagalaru, athagariki tirigi answer ivvaleka adhi manasulo pettukuni kopam inka penchukunta untaru -- very valid point.... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
Komaranna Side Hero Username: Komaranna Post Number: 9471 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 73.247.189.194 Rating: N/A |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bv2SisJMnSY inko bakra gadu | ||
Rgb Side Hero Username: Rgb Post Number: 5242 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 38.132.107.162 Rating: N/A |
Ikkada other side perspective asalu ledhu. Also while the incidents seem to be increasing, there are a lot of DILs and MILs who are just fine and get along well | ||
Paneerdosa Junior Artist Username: Paneerdosa Post Number: 42 Registered: 07-2017 Posted From: 116.72.208.146 Rating: N/A |
icharu lendi pedha solution..dowry theeskodame illegal ante theeskoni bond raayala?it's like digging his own grave | ||
Rangoon Side Hero Username: Rangoon Post Number: 2998 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 113.23.137.112 Rating: N/A |
atta kodalu fighting normal wife husband fightings are lot these days. | ||
Chand Hero Username: Chand Post Number: 12275 Registered: 10-2013 Posted From: 183.83.223.234 Rating: |
Priorities mundhu cheppukuna , after marrage they will change in course of time and from girl side they least bother about boys priorities as indianlaws are in favour of girls mostly after marrage alludini grip lo pettukoli ane attitude untadi inlaws ki | ||
Chand Hero Username: Chand Post Number: 12274 Registered: 10-2013 Posted From: 183.83.223.234 Rating: |
Katnam teesukoka poina 498A , 420 cases edutunnaru boys paina Only reliefe is boys family ni idhi varaku laga jail lo pedatam ledhu just enquirer chesi vadilestunnaru , boy may also get bail if he send a notice to girl before he getting arrested or file a counseling petition in family court so that bhranam can be avoided until interrogation can be completed few years back varaku too much misuse chese varu 498A ni | ||
Shikari Megastar Username: Shikari Post Number: 24134 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.51.33 Rating: N/A |
agreement daaka akkarledhu..mundhu matladukune appudu valla situation,priorities,references enti anedhi open ga idharu discuss chesthe better..avemi lekunda..looks,ye co lo job,entha package chusi tosethunnaru..tarwatha andaru ibbandi paduthunnaru. http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18227 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: |
antha ledhu. Katnam teesukunna, teesukokapoina situations same gane untaayi. Chaala takkuva anchana vestunnaru  | ||
Chand Hero Username: Chand Post Number: 12273 Registered: 10-2013 Posted From: 183.83.223.234 Rating: N/A |
mundhu nunchi atta mammalo tho manchi ga unna ammai all of a sudden kids ragane maripodhu lendi 99% cases lo , 1% exceptional untaru vallani emi cheyalemu But Pelli ayina few days lone atta Mamala tho weirded ga behave chese ammailani life long tattukovatam chala kastam ee rojullo , after having kids boy have to comparamise with her in most cases even konni cases lo atta side kooda mistakes untayi , age old days thinking tho Kodalni chusi mudchukuni kurchokunda try to spend time with daughter in law as much as possible , they have to move as one family , boys should also play active role in this once in a month wife, mother, father ni teesukuni baitaki veltam endhanna shopping cheyatam , ledha emanna chinna chinna party’s lantivi chesukovatam lantivi cheyali so that bonding could be achieved and girl should get the feeling that this my family soon or later Most of cases attalu change of times ni ardam chesukoleka , daughter in laws ni dooram chesukuntaru and dini valla friction erpadatdi Thirdly food habits , cooking makes difference . First 1 year varaku intlo cooking ni entha restrict cheste antha manchidi before marriage itself prepare parents to avoid cooking at home if not possible every time ask parents to enjoy what wife prepare Having said that every thing will have ifs and buts | ||
Yodha Moderator Username: Yodha Post Number: 12987 Registered: 08-2011 Rating: N/A |
My solution for this agreement and bonds Both boy and girl should sign together in their marriage agreement 1. If boy willing to take dowry he should sign a bond for it 2. if boy doesnt take dowry the girl should file a note that the boy didnt take any dowry f'ked up Indian laws are more favorable to women so guys wake up and stop taking dowry Bhagat Singh|Subhash chandra bose | ||
Yodha Moderator Username: Yodha Post Number: 12986 Registered: 08-2011 Rating: N/A |
chusara.. money minded ayipoyindhi.. antha.. even marriage is like I paid for you so you should listen to me ani.. so boys should avoid dowry and be shemsher if you being like a kakkurthi fellow then ready to face everything from girl Bhagat Singh|Subhash chandra bose | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45513 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 27.59.135.69 Rating: N/A |
They wait till kids are born and raised upto 2years..then starts smoke.. kiki..anta takkuva anchana veyyak Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana | ||
Chand Hero Username: Chand Post Number: 12272 Registered: 10-2013 Posted From: 183.83.223.234 Rating: |
Money make all this nusence don’t send away parents out once got married , just observe the girl is well behaving with the parents for 1 year or not and then plan for kids , if she not adjusting and not well behaving and harshly behaving and not at all convincing go for divorce , otherwise after having kids your life will be more worse Try all possible ways to wife mingle with your mother Also ensure before marriage itself that girl whether having big family relatives , any lawyers , police in thire family . Don’t go for such girls as these are the once who carry away easily and make life difficult | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18217 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: |
Difference in thinking, antha ku minchi emi ledhu. Amma chepthe tirigi answer ivvagalaru, athagariki tirigi answer ivvaleka adhi manasulo pettukuni kopam inka penchukunta untaru | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18216 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: N/A |
90% happens same in my wife and mother case too. Roju ki oka 2-3 times phone lo maatladukuntaru, antha maatladukovataniki em untundho ardham kaadhu | ||
Pa1fan Comedian Username: Pa1fan Post Number: 1006 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 59.145.145.54 Rating: N/A |
Adi climax annattu.. No father mother completely depending on son. Max adjust ayyindi for her son. Struggled even for food. Love Marriage. MBA anukunta. | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18213 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: N/A |
You can't explain to mother ani naa feeling. As an elder person she has to think practically and behave accordingly. Amma nuvvu chesedhi tappu naa wife vishayam lo cheppatam chaala chaala kastam. But wife ki in between the 4 walls, konchem mellaga cheppukovachu - ala kaadhe, ila kaadhe anukunta because of same age. | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45511 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 183.83.76.167 Rating: |
antha ledu.. ee rojullo evadoo okka paisa ivvatledu boy ki.. antha girl ki jewelry and properties.. maha ante boy ki kotta battalu konukko.. epudoo aa jeans enduku annattu Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana | ||
Shikari Megastar Username: Shikari Post Number: 24129 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.51.33 Rating: N/A |
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Zingthing Comedian Username: Zingthing Post Number: 1282 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 103.14.196.151 Rating: N/A |
attaleni kodalu uttamuraalu, kodaluleni atta gunavanturaalu atta gunavanturaalayyunte ee prob undedaa? prob attalo unte kodalemchestundi ya...Girls tappemi ledu ee vishayamlo.... vaallu mana telugu saamethalanu just follow ayipotunnaaru... what’s wrong with that ya?? /s} | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45510 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 183.83.76.167 Rating: N/A |
2years undi daughter vaddane.. ipudu transferr valla must ga intlo ki move avvalsina situation.. ee peace talks ayyevaraku MIL tana sister intlo undi... epudanna edanna function ki inti ki ochina evening kalla return ellipoyedi anta.. daughter vaddaku.. Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana | ||
Pa1fan Comedian Username: Pa1fan Post Number: 1005 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 157.49.138.184 Rating: |
Ilantivi Chala vunnayi... Mother got dengue serious condition, son wanted to join Apollo, wife objected said let her die don't waste money. But son didn't listen. They got divorced. DIL expect in laws to die early but parents should long live. MIL DIL fight is default anna thinking vachesindi. Most surprising thing is why highly educated also fighting like this. | ||
Twotown Side Hero Username: Twotown Post Number: 9619 Registered: 09-2016 Posted From: 172.58.136.98 Rating: N/A |
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Senapathy Hero Username: Senapathy Post Number: 19106 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.180.12 Rating: |
In laws ni managa chese buddhi kooda icchadu. Vadakunte mana tappu. Anduke please both sides. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza | ||
Simba Megastar Username: Simba Post Number: 22555 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 173.239.215.30 Rating: N/A |
moreover, sagam DB janalaku inchu minchu ilanti problems untayi. Avi escape avvataniki DB ki vacchi, pedaraayudu teerpulu istuntaru. | ||
Njblue Junior Artist Username: Njblue Post Number: 211 Registered: 07-2016 Posted From: 98.110.82.126 Rating: N/A |
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Whyme Megastar Username: Whyme Post Number: 24087 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
 exactly.. all vover the warald.. inlaws relation is an interesting aspect.. animals lo ee concept led.. devudu manaki opposable thumbs isthu inlaws concept free ga ichad | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21233 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
mana generation ye kaadhu.. patha gens lo kooda undevi kadha vunkl ee issues. kaaka pothe appatlo gents solution saadincha leka poyina... "strong ga" action anna chese vaalu... adhi ippati rojullo kashtam ayyi.. just pocket lo poha smash chesthu.. db lo posts vesthunnaar ani whyme vunkl just whastapped... | ||
Senapathy Hero Username: Senapathy Post Number: 19103 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.180.12 Rating: N/A |
Thread saaramsham, Ladies ladies godavvalo gents naligipotunnar  I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21231 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
why will i call you anything vunkl... whether we like it, its happening. me commenting on you or you commenting on them or me wont change anything kadha | ||
Jai_ycp Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 12022 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: N/A |
joke gano comedy gano satire gano kooda alanti chandalani support cheyya. call me whatever you want. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21228 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: |
nee rationality ki emayindhi vunkl... lol...  | ||
Whyme Megastar Username: Whyme Post Number: 24086 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: |
intha pedda vuppara meeting petti emi decide chesaru or chestharu.. entha generalize chesina every case is unique.. | ||
Jai_ycp Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 12020 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: N/A |
 the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57608 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 96.231.135.116 Rating: N/A |
deeniki parents kuda reason, they are taking sides of the children, each parent has their favorite kid plus property sharing and documentation sarigga undadu.. cheppina ardham chesukoru | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21227 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: |
i think thats the reason people are trying to marry into their own sex. so "like-minded" and "broad-minded" can happily stay with men. you know the system takes care of itself one way or the other. | ||
Jai_ycp Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 12018 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: |
not all but plurality ga ladies ki broadmindedness, rational logic lantivi vadaru family relationships lo. that is the source of trouble. there will always be exceptions though the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9162 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: N/A |
This will be foolish..Active ga unna parents ye inka tirigi help cheyyali/chese vaallu unnaru...In taking care of kids etc | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9161 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: N/A |
Naaku ayte ee situation ledhu..Also parents n wifey oka party ayipotaru when met.. But actually what ever the points u said..Peddha le (ideal ppl) cheptaru ..Let kodalu have some space n we have some space etc ani... | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 506 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 92.40.249.174 Rating: |
My mum and dad never expect anything from my bro and we 3 always wish that my bro and wife be happy why wait till 20 years? | ||
Speaker Hero Username: Speaker Post Number: 13552 Registered: 06-2016 Posted From: 205.194.127.36 Rating: |
when girls r enjoying equal rights in properties, they also have to share equally in duties towards parents... India lo iyyaaala repu anni aasthi tagadhaaale.... families madyana no more trust...antha dagulbaajee tanam ekkuvayyipoyindi... Namo Buddham Saranam Gacchaami Namo Dharmam Saranam Gacchaami Namo Sangham Saranam Gacchaami | ||
Mikkymouse Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 13111 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 70.191.59.106 Rating: N/A |
haha antha ledu, Anduke intlo example adee parents side cheppa, malli abbayila thappa antunnara antaru ani. Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani... | ||
Aha Side Hero Username: Aha Post Number: 5070 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 198.200.132.56 Rating: |
You nailed it ya.... ide concept balanga naatuku poyindi mana vyavastha lo chala varaku.... Parents evarikaina parents ye, daughter has equal responsibility to take care of parents ani namme families lo ye problems undavu.... only kodukule choodaali, kooturlu choodakoodadu ani anukune vaallaki issues vastaayi ... ma parents ni choododdu ante mee parents ni Kooda choodanu ani ammayilu tiraga bade cases kooda unnaayi....anduke OP post lo case lo chala varaku manaki teliyani vishayaalu undochu.... we can not infer based on one side of the story The One and Only Veturi | ||
Mikkymouse Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 13110 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 70.191.59.106 Rating: N/A |
Ante Parents ki thana wife kooda part the family now and thanadi illu so give respect ani cheppadam, at the same time tanu ee stage ki radaniki parents ee reason so vallaki respect ivvali and vallu kooda part of the family ani wife ki cheppadam and danni follow kavadam. Parents ni manchi ga choosukovadam veru, vallaki pethanam ichi wife thana intlone outsider la treat cheyyadam veru. now wife di illu thanaki nachinattu maintain chesukovanichu, at the same time parents ki ee lotu lekunda choosukovali. so first daniki parents and second daniki wife addu cheppaleru but job chesi vachi thana parents ki wife vachi sevalu cheyyali ani expectation correct kadu. Adi mutual understandind nad respect meeda pothundi. Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani... | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9160 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: |
Good point...I agree with this...But seva cheyyalanukunna cheyya nivvaru konta mandhi aadavalle..  | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9159 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: N/A |
aa post endannai... Chass | ||
Mikkymouse Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 13109 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 70.191.59.106 Rating: |
Ya, Ammamma ni Amme choosukuntundi, In-laws ni kooda thane choosukundi, Maa Atha daggara ammaye but choodadu, ee maata ki aa maata avida thana parents ni kooda choodadu. Ippdu Amma valla parents ni choosinda kada ani dad emanna daggara undi Ammammaki seva cheyyaru kada, just mee thammudu choosukukunda manam enduku choodali ane complaints cheyyaru anthe , danike relatives he is generous antaru,edo ayana manchodu kabatti undanicharu lekapothe enti paristiti antoo, naaku ayithe unfair anipistundi. Ante boy parents ki ayithe hakku, girl parents ki ayithe charity type aa? Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani... | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9158 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: N/A |
And one more 5hing..Not only NRI ppl, Even for ppl working in hyd or blr etc.. Parents visits r occasional only from either side...Parents preferring to stay ay native places in majority cases..So mundu mundu ee godavalu taggutayi | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9156 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: N/A |
Ante mamulu ga ayte same value ivvadam uttamam kadha..Edaina issue vaste evari vaipu problem undo kurchoni explain cheyyadam whoever she is (mother or wife)..N resolving it anedhi ..I believe in..So it means we give respective equal value...
Final ga abbayilu tappu chestunaru ani telchaara..An ideal guy can't take sides and can't ignore Mom as he is going to live more life with wife etc.. Adee sangati..Inka twist cheyakandi.. And by not responding or condemning, it doesn't mean I support all posts below.. | ||
Komaranna Side Hero Username: Komaranna Post Number: 9469 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 206.80.128.15 Rating: N/A |
monna muslims talaq case lo supreme court ki mullah's affidavit lo...ladies because of hormonical problems can not take decisions and egoistic..due to their nature ani ettaru...same thought process lo old generations advallani intiki parmitham chesaru ..... otherwise dog sperem my choice appptlo ne susevallu | ||
Paneerdosa Junior Artist Username: Paneerdosa Post Number: 40 Registered: 07-2017 Posted From: 116.72.208.146 Rating: |
sis wait for 20years.. appudu idhe matladutharo chudham | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57607 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 166.137.240.62 Rating: N/A |
well said | ||
Mikkymouse Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 13108 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 70.191.59.106 Rating: N/A |
mari ee case gurinchi matladachu kada? ee rojullo girls elane unnaru, problem pempakam , girl mother ee chestundi etc generalise statements endhuku? Mom ledu ani India nundi anni MIl pampinchi choosukunna In-laws meda complain chestoo unde ammayilu telusu, Thnau in-laws ni assalu ranivvakunda but thammudi wife matram valla parents ki entha chesina sarigga choosukovadam ledu vallani ani complain chese ammayi telusu. Job chestoo joint account maintain chestoo pelli ayyi 15yrs datina prathidaniki MIL idi naa kodukudi, naadi pethanam nuvvu evaru ane mil telusu, morning nundi evening varaku TV choostoo kodalu 6.30 or 7 intiki vachaka emi vandutavu ane mil telusu. ee 4 cases lo abbayilu either mom side or wife side velladam or choosi choodanattu vadileyyadam thappa evariki iche value vallaki ichi fair behave cheyyadam ledu. Ala ani antha ala unna vallu kadu, manasulo ela undo manaki teleedu kanee bhayataki matram mutual respect tho evari panulu vallu chesukuntoo ikkadiki vallu vachina , vellu India vellina happy ga undi, week ki okasari phone lo yoga kshemalu matladukone vallu 75% mandi unnaru, observe chesina dani prakaram aa guys kind of sorted guys, evariki entha value ivvalo telina vallu, so problem ekkada undo danni batti artham chesukovachu. Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani... | ||
Paneerdosa Junior Artist Username: Paneerdosa Post Number: 39 Registered: 07-2017 Posted From: 116.72.208.146 Rating: N/A |
. That 5th point though!! | ||
Cinejeevi Moderator Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 6679 Registered: 10-2014 Rating: N/A |
maa circle (among our cousins) we used to joke - oka vela babu talli and babu pella by mistake bus lo pakkane koochunna gurtu kooda pattaleru okarikokaru ani paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka... | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 60958 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.248.19 Rating: N/A |
very nicely summed up.. #5 lo mana paristhithi ante..dhobi kaa dog ..naa ghar ka na ghaat ka..types.. | ||
Cinejeevi Moderator Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 6677 Registered: 10-2014 Rating: N/A |
one of the cases I saw which involves my atta (maama's wife). my atta has a brother lets call him babu. after searching for many matches finally babu got married with some baby. this was like mid 80s or so. hardly one week or so atta and kodalu in one house under the same roof. ever since old lady stayed alone or in her daughter's home (my mama house). finally old lady died at my mama's place in mid 90s or early 2000. kodalu did not even came to see atta/dead body. enni godavalu inna ee range lona ani ippatiki maaku adoka pedda aascharyam!!! paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka... | ||
Sicago Comedian Username: Sicago Post Number: 1673 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 77.172.211.78 Rating: N/A |
Pelli ayina kothalo first 3 months chala important, mogudu porapatuna kooda in laws ni kindal cheyyakudadhu, veedu okati ante vallaku chance ichinatte, chelaregipotharu.... Pellaina kothalo kodalu anigimanigi vuntadhi, alaa vundhi kadaa ani thokkeyalani chustharu chala mandhi athalu, akkade theda kodathadhi, once veellu settle ayyaka pathavi anni gurthuku thechukoni sadistharu.... Mogudiki matram appadam ayipodhi.... | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 72258 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.52 Rating: |
it cud be psychological disorder ..treatment /diagonsis lantivi mana daggira vundavu kabatti telise chance ledu...ila avuthundi... | ||
Cinejeevi Moderator Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 6676 Registered: 10-2014 Rating: N/A |
aa kurradi sister is serving her in-laws? we cannot give blanket statements by few lines of text. at the same time most of our opinions reflect the cases we saw/heard closely/loosely. either way voLLu kaalchukODam laanTi extreme step teesukundi anTE vishaya gambheeratani soochistOndi. 60% plus burns toni survive ayina kastam kabatti aame prasantagaa ee lokam vadili vellipote aame ki happies. okavela survive aite rettimpu narakam. pity her family especially her parents.. obviously the boy and small kids. paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka... | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57605 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 166.137.240.62 Rating: N/A |
abbayi elanti vaadu, before in laws separation kotlatalu etc ayyaya? abbayi ammayini kottada eppudina? these details are very important to analyze the case | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21223 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: |
there is no solution to this, unless someone always compromises. Parents should realize times have changed and should take care of themselves in old age. if kids turn out to be helpful, it should be a plus. Men strong, women strong, men weak, women weak, this is ladies nature, this is gents nature anukunta the situation will not change. Here clearly the lady is not in favor of living with her MIL, son has three options 1) Son insist on being with the parent - may eventually lead to break up with his wife and kids. 2) Son provide alternative means of care for parents - but may involve financially bearing the cost. will have to convince to this solution 3) let his parents understand that he is unable to provide and move on. Looks like the son here insisted with the first option or second option, and the wife was crazy enough to make the problem even worse. If its anyone'e failure its the failure of parents of the son and the son himself. I am not talking about who is wrong - but just who failed.
why do you think the son in the case is soft? he is not the one who burnt himself, and he did not give up on the option of taking care of his parents, as far as i see. | ||
Diwakaram Junior Artist Username: Diwakaram Post Number: 3 Registered: 10-2017 Posted From: 173.72.0.240 Rating: N/A |
==== I pity on Mothers, when they are young they are harassed (at some extent or case to case) by their MILs now by their DILs. Unfortunately they fall in sandwitch generation.. ==== Good point and true that. | ||
K805 Junior Artist Username: K805 Post Number: 45 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 208.87.236.201 Rating: |
//If you don't want In-Laws... pls marry some orphans on the road.. I liked your suggestion. Today's girls in the name of freedom are not taking care of inlaws.. I am not sure why they want guy from decent family when they don't want to give importance to family bonding. What they are going to show / thought to their kids. I pity on Mothers, when they are young they are harassed (at some extent or case to case) by their MILs now by their DILs. Unfortunately they fall in sandwitch generation.. Girl parents shouldn't encourage or not allow the girl into their home after marriage for such issues. Our Middle class mindset is Son need to be with parents and their daughter should be in US or not with inlaws.. This also need to change for better society and for betterment of our kids. | ||
Senapathy Hero Username: Senapathy Post Number: 19102 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 76.176.104.234 Rating: |
Sorry to hear annai. Times are changing and so are people --- If guys are so much into their parents, they better make sure to get a wife who agrees to the family system. And ask the parents to stop meddling into their life as well. Sarve jana sukhino bavanthu I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza | ||
Jai_ycp Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 12012 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: |
men are becoming soft anedhi kooda reason. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Gochi Side Hero Username: Gochi Post Number: 3200 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 159.53.78.140 Rating: |
abbo, idhi thegey vishayam kaadhu..generations generations gaa same issue... Few of my observations: 1. Abbayilu generalgaa konchem choosi choodanattu pothaaru, ammayilu prathi chinna vishayannai bhoothaddham lo choosi worry aipothaaru....Gender lo unna inbuilt nature, manam change cheyyalemu... 2. Coming to MIL's not treating DIL's properly, yes, this happens but again though it's not to be taken seriously ammayilu seriousgaa theeskuni inkaa double feel avuthaaru...just a simple word from MIL like 'coffee lo sugar thakkuvaindhi' will be a big serious fight if MIL tells it but not when husband says the same thing...ee vishayam lo both MIL and DIL should be more practical and matured...DIL is not your servant ani MIL ki theliyaali, MIL is not your enemy and DIL realize avvaali.. 3. From a guy's perspective, he needs to give some time for wife to settle down...u cannot expect a girl from an entire different family to come to your home and start accepting everyone as if she lived with you for decades...imagine boy going to girl's house and staying with them for ever and accepting her parents and working for them...obvious gaa girls will not be comfortable with others, may be privacy, getting more work due to extra cooking, hearing their comments etc.. abbaai blind gaa mother cheppindhi believe cheyyakundaa both sides separategaa vini oka matured decision theeskovaali....openly tell both mom and wife if they are wrong... 4. DIL's ki support chestunna anukokandi, every MIL was a DIL once..vaallu chesindhey vaallaki koduthundi, ippudu DIL's chesthunnadi, they will receive it back after a few years...madhyalo sandwich avuthunnaadhi abbailu...so i pity them... 5. Final gaa, US lo unna manam asalu suggestions ivvataanike kooda hakku ledhu, parents ni ee age lo akkada vadilesi ikkaduntunnaam...we will also get our punishment one way or the other... | ||
Yodha Moderator Username: Yodha Post Number: 12982 Registered: 08-2011 Rating: |
commercial ayyaru... main reason girls being like this is their parents... Bhagat Singh|Subhash chandra bose | ||
Twotown Side Hero Username: Twotown Post Number: 9617 Registered: 09-2016 Posted From: 73.36.88.84 Rating: N/A |
Bappa... nee circle ee verappa. | ||
Aha Side Hero Username: Aha Post Number: 5069 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 166.137.8.52 Rating: N/A |
sis ilanti threads loki raakandi meeeru... mood spoil chesukokandi. The One and Only Veturi | ||
Doosukelta Comedian Username: Doosukelta Post Number: 1153 Registered: 04-2016 Posted From: 145.116.176.29 Rating: N/A |
to peopele ....it depends on how you define old,...my present supervisor is 78 year old and still looks fit ...daily comes to university on bike....last july went to trekking on bike in italy at freaking 78 years... idi moderator cheta cheripiveyabadindi... | ||
Aha Side Hero Username: Aha Post Number: 5068 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 166.137.8.52 Rating: |
Kooture choosukovali anatledu.... kodalu tho intha issue unnappudu kooturu choosukovadam option undi kada antunna... it depends on each case. koduku choosukokoodadu ani ekkada anna? Kodalu choodaka kooturu choodaka aa old lady emavvaali? Again, generalise chesesthunnaaru mana DB lo.... too bad. The One and Only Veturi | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 57202 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 108.171.131.170 Rating: N/A |
gee matter la nen shaana lucky... my wife and mom and very close... iddaru baaga friendses lekka untaaru... no atta-kodalu friction... They usually back off if the other person has strong opinion on something... compromise ayitaaru iddaru.... | ||
Doosukelta Comedian Username: Doosukelta Post Number: 1150 Registered: 04-2016 Posted From: 145.116.176.29 Rating: N/A |
ఇది అత్హా కొడల్ల యుద్హం మద్యలొ దూరితే తప్పదు రనం !! idi moderator cheta cheripiveyabadindi... | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9153 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 223.227.97.91 Rating: N/A |
cool sister.. Ee case lo boy parents are not there with them yet kadha.. | ||
Xxx Hero Username: Xxx Post Number: 15272 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 149.168.132.16 Rating: N/A |
kiki curry point aa ? your inlaws are so lucky , aavi nenu kooda tinanu - | ||
Jai_ycp Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 12011 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: |
ee vurlo idhi. ee rojulo evaru saami vandhedhi. curry point olo techi padestha vuntaru. i never saw a case where Men throw tantrums to go to in laws house. US lo vunna vallaki ayithe max times vachedhi girl parents ee. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Xxx Hero Username: Xxx Post Number: 15271 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 149.168.132.16 Rating: N/A |
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Xxx Hero Username: Xxx Post Number: 15270 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 149.168.132.16 Rating: |
same with son-in-laws, lord amma mogudula cuttings ishtaru , when they go to the inlaws home , vaalaku cooking cheyalaka mother-in-law and father-in-law will wait when they will leave - | ||
Xxx Hero Username: Xxx Post Number: 15269 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 149.168.132.16 Rating: |
why should only a girl do aane question was mostly asked. Girl has parents too , will the son-in-law take care of the girls parents if need arises? Can girl give money to help her parents, as they raise her from childhood? This is a complicated topic, previous generations , girls did not earn their income and has no financial independence, now things changed, they are now having different needs - | ||
Jai_ycp Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 12009 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: |
unfortunate but its the fact today. we are also culprits. manamu mana pillalni garabam ga penchuthamu as they can do things on whim. adhe alavatu ayi vallu real life lo responsible and reasonable ga vundaleka potunnaru. girls/ladies think by emotion. daggar vunchukotamu emiti 2 years ki india vellinappudu 1 week vundataniki kuda raddantamu chese mahiolamani lunnaru . In-laws matalu pratidhi bhootaddamu lo choostha over ga react avutha vuntaru. ika issues anni generations lo vunna, men mari methaka ga vuntunnaru which is leading to these. boys tough ga vunte ladies max longutharu. matala tho macnhi ga manage ayye vallu takkuva as they dont thinl by logic but by emotion only. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 505 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 81.128.194.162 Rating: |
25 years penchina parents meedha prema tho wife tho godavalu and expecting wife to take care of his parents 2 years back pelli cheseskuni that too after paying money to get married you expect wives to unconditionally love your mom and dad despite the parents treating the wives like shit If parents have only a girl child how are they surviving? Only cause you gave birth to a being with one extra tool stop believing that you are privileged, •••••• patriarchal society Inkokkasaari ee ammalakkala meetings petti one sided theerpulu ichukuntu pothe uurkunedhi ledhu | ||
Jaguar Comedian Username: Jaguar Post Number: 1123 Registered: 01-2017 Posted From: 12.180.115.102 Rating: |
kooture enduku choosukovali ammanu? koduku enduku choosuko koodadhu? poni husband monetary help chesthe oorukontundha wife? akkada godave kada? siblings ki dabbulu roopam lo help cheya koodadhu...koothuru maatram ammani choosukovali??? | ||
Bunty717 Legend Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 55344 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.161.173 Rating: |
very unfortunate incident.. i blame the girls parents.. infact ee middle lo andaru parents ilaane unnaru.. evaru elaa unte maaku emi.. maa daughter ki emi resposibilities undakudadu ani kids ki cheptu unte.. vaalu alaane tayaru avutaaru.. Old siggy tesenu ani.. Twitter naa 1k ichesedu anukokandi.. | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 72241 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.52 Rating: |
Problem is who has control over husband and house... Atha garu vunte, naa koduku ane ownership assume chesukuni talking setharu... Athagaru cheppe suggestions, ownership ni wife tattukoleka potam old ppl indirect ga kummutharu kodallani....adi paiki visible vundadu....only wife chesedhe visible vuntadi... as long as Mothers realise, its her home and she is the boss, some issues will settle....but its always dog n cat fight.....amma enni seppina ok kaani, atha garu rendu matalu seppina, rendu thittina tesukoleru.....edo vella pride ki debba tagilinattu feel avutharu suggestions septhe... Also life lo okka sari comment sesi vunna kodallani, inka anthe....life long sachare | ||
Aha Side Hero Username: Aha Post Number: 5067 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 198.200.132.56 Rating: |
Ee case lo ammaayi entha mentally weak o, abbaayi kooda anthe weak. He should have managed in a better way. Eppudaithe outsiders (relatives) ni involve chesaado, he lost it. Looks like aa ammaayi ego hurt ayinattu undi and resorted to the extreme step.... little did she consider about her kids.... very unfortunate. I am thinking some thing else must have happened before she resorted to that step... MIL daughter daggara undi annaaru kada before they got transferred, until things settled, avida daggariki pampinchi undaalsindi. Any case, very unfortunate. Ilaanti situation raakoodadane emo bahusa ee westerners mundu nunche mee batuku meedi maa batuku maadi ani set chesthaaru when kids turn 16/18....no dependecies no responsibilities type lo. The One and Only Veturi | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21222 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: |
Dang . unfortunate situation. even if they come up with a solution to MIL-DIL situation, the girl just did not even consider her kids lives. | ||
Speaker Hero Username: Speaker Post Number: 13532 Registered: 06-2016 Posted From: 205.194.127.36 Rating: |
adi kooda oka reason kaadehess... ade MAIN...akkada unte...aatalu saagavu ani... eellenkamma tenki...entha mandini choodaledu... ooolllo boobilaa untaaru..ikkada Babe ki assal taggaru... boobi babe ayithe oche kashtaala moolanga...akkadaki no antaaru... Namo Buddham Saranam Gacchaami Namo Dharmam Saranam Gacchaami Namo Sangham Saranam Gacchaami | ||
Mamamiya786 Megastar Username: Mamamiya786 Post Number: 21748 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 69.109.128.225 Rating: N/A |
salami , idi ela chebutaavu .....  Sensation(About Bala):He can win in atleast half of the segments in Rayalaseema. Emi matladutunnavo neeku telusa. He can contest any where in coastal and rayalaseema districts. I personally feel he should contest from Srikakulam dt. Jagan|Modi| | ||
Shikari Megastar Username: Shikari Post Number: 24100 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.51.33 Rating: |
r2i ki ladies NO antaniki idhi kuda oka reason ani chebutharuga http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Mamamiya786 Megastar Username: Mamamiya786 Post Number: 21747 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 69.109.128.225 Rating: |
Guddiga ammai cada and support cheyakandi .... ei case vishyama paddknedite... This is very common trend in todays world.... Girls: we do not' want MIL , FIL , only me and my husband type . Naku telisina 2 cases vunnai ..exact similar behavior....2 divorce ayyayi.... MIL/FIL vaddu , na intiviki rakudadau ... ..ane mentality matauku sure ga chupistunnaru ....every where... Sensation(About Bala):He can win in atleast half of the segments in Rayalaseema. Emi matladutunnavo neeku telusa. He can contest any where in coastal and rayalaseema districts. I personally feel he should contest from Srikakulam dt. Jagan|Modi| | ||
Rangoon Side Hero Username: Rangoon Post Number: 2996 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 218.208.148.205 Rating: |
few observations vontari batukula vlla asalu moguditho kaapuramu ani nerpinche old people intlo leru talli kuda thana inlaws nu dooramu unchindhi close ga observe chesthunnaru father side vaalu ante dochu kovadaanike ani puusa guchinattu noori posthunnaru. my comments i dont want to find any mistake with girl. first boy should tell you no need to care inlaws but i spend time 50% with them. you no need to care me but take care the kids. boys want the girl from small fmily like one son one girl try to find the girl from big family u get different flavor. try to meet your chinnana pedanaana and their kids(not from mother side) motherside very worst just artificial love fatherside compleatly opposite true love | ||
Chanakya Side Hero Username: Chanakya Post Number: 6251 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 183.83.213.122 Rating: |
Adi okappudu. Ipudu there are enough mediums to speak but by default abbayi tappu ammayi correct valla cheppi waste Ani decide avtunnaru. Abbayi tana side argument namminchali ante enno reasonings ivvali, adey ammayi aithe just eduste chalu No one is going to tell you the truth. They’re only going to tell you their version! ~Julian Assange | ||
Jacksparrow Side Hero Username: Jacksparrow Post Number: 7145 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 37.228.250.36 Rating: N/A |
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Liteteesko Side Hero Username: Liteteesko Post Number: 2663 Registered: 01-2012 Posted From: 203.63.215.146 Rating: |
majority of the problems arise from girls mother ..pratiroju intlo jarigevi ammaki phone lo chebutundi kooturu..attagaru phone lo katha antha nadipsitadi... irony entante..kooturiki atta mamalani genteyyamani encourage chese eevida matram intlo kodali meeda pettanam chestu untundi.. this is what i observed in many cases.. Thala meeda muddulu pedithe church lo pastor vi avutaavugaani..CM elaa avutavu ?? oka Jagan fan avedana | ||
Twotown Side Hero Username: Twotown Post Number: 9611 Registered: 09-2016 Posted From: 73.36.88.84 Rating: N/A |
Pshyco problems generic chesi matladakandi .. edhi manalo entha mandhi ela bada laduthunnaru .. 1.3 biliion ( 1 out 6 people ) desis ee vunte ela news vasthuntaayi ... Ilage nris sons / daughters tho parents suffering ani ikkada vila vila kottukunte use enti .. valla intlo problem solve chesukovatam chethakaka andharu aadi laaage sannasulu anukuntaaru .. | ||
Film_fan Legend Username: Film_fan Post Number: 32403 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 62.253.210.187 Rating: N/A |
Nenu cheppina first case lo...DIL never allowed inlaws to stay with them... FIL unnantha varaku vere oori lo illu unte akkada nettukochar...MIL okkate unde sariki ipudu must ga kalisi undali anukontadi...godavalu pettukone type Kadu... health support cheyyadu...inni rojulu inko daughter vadda undedi..vallu kooda transfer ayyi vellipoyar...ipudu son okkade dikku...kodali ki nachajeppi undochu anukone time ku Ila extreme step vesindi... -- sad appa......it would have been matter of few years......paapam inka yemi options lenappudu.....konchem.....pedda manasu chesukuni untey....bagundu..... yes mee vodi badluck..... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18204 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: N/A |
nammaru ani kaadhu, chulakana avtam ani cheppukoru | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18203 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: |
Exactly. Alludu intlo anni panulu chesi pedutunte, abbo maa alludu entha manchi vaado antaru Adhe koduku intlo anni panulu chesi pedutunte, mari chetha kaani vaadila ayyadu antaru | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 54699 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 159.182.1.4 Rating: N/A |
worst case amma papam meevodu | ||
Chanakya Side Hero Username: Chanakya Post Number: 6250 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 157.48.117.17 Rating: |
Guddiga ammayini venuka veskoni rakandi. Ee assumption Valle abbayilu kastalu cheppukolekapotunnaru ettago evadu nammadu ani No one is going to tell you the truth. They’re only going to tell you their version! ~Julian Assange | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45509 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 27.59.136.43 Rating: N/A |
Nenu cheppina first case lo...DIL never allowed inlaws to stay with them... FIL unnantha varaku vere oori lo illu unte akkada nettukochar...MIL okkate unde sariki ipudu must ga kalisi undali anukontadi...godavalu pettukone type Kadu... health support cheyyadu...inni rojulu inko daughter vadda undedi..vallu kooda transfer ayyi vellipoyar...ipudu son okkade dikku...kodali ki nachajeppi undochu anukone time ku Ila extreme step vesindi... Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana | ||
Film_fan Legend Username: Film_fan Post Number: 32402 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 62.253.210.187 Rating: N/A |
entha unna......suicide attempt antey......maree thikkals lekkundhi...everyone suffering now.....sad situation... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
Film_fan Legend Username: Film_fan Post Number: 32401 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 62.253.210.187 Rating: N/A |
vallu anukunte avadu there are cases of intrusion and bommarillu prakash rajism by mils .. they think they treat dils better but not true --- exactly the situation many times.... and husband....has to rise up and stand by wife....on some things....(not belittling his parents...but there are loads of things)...atu husband....nolabadaka.....daily life lo ila undu ala undi type MIL's tho padalem 'anukuni' act chesyvallu kontha mandhi..... naaku thelisin close thammudu age kurrodki prob nadusthundhi......he is my relative tooo....but i support the girl in this...as......he pushed his Mom every six months to be with wife and he is on tours.....came here numerous times.....and when she is here.....wife was left out as an outsider......girl ki you are the queen of the house.....feeling ivvakuntey.....idhey situaton.....and she deserves it too......manaki daughters unna....adhey avvali anukuntaam.... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
Paneerdosa Junior Artist Username: Paneerdosa Post Number: 38 Registered: 07-2017 Posted From: 116.72.208.146 Rating: N/A |
Aina supreme Court order undhi ga if wife forces husband to leave parents it's a ground for divorce Ani.. | ||
Paneerdosa Junior Artist Username: Paneerdosa Post Number: 37 Registered: 07-2017 Posted From: 116.72.208.146 Rating: N/A |
life is not bommarillu movie..there are definitely going to be issues between people.. husband wife ki issues vachinattu u mil and Dil ki rava? Veelaithe problems discuss chesi settle cheskondi ledhante normuskoni barinchandi | ||
Jacksparrow Side Hero Username: Jacksparrow Post Number: 7144 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 37.228.250.36 Rating: |
pempakam ane word undi soosaru... its apt for this situation... | ||
Subbarao Comedian Username: Subbarao Post Number: 1129 Registered: 12-2015 Posted From: 175.101.68.31 Rating: N/A |
Evariki unde kattu baatlu vaallakundevi. Freedom anedi individual behaviour ni battu untundi. Cant generalize every men. kaalam kalisiraakapothe rajakumarulud kooda vanavasaaniki veltharu kaalam kalisosthe pichodu kooda maha kavi kaalidaasu avthaadu | ||
Hotmail Side Hero Username: Hotmail Post Number: 5631 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 122.171.238.134 Rating: N/A |
Time bad papam Control ani dhe starting lo chayali marriage aina first year tharuvatha mana chathilo yemi vundadhu 2 months back oka patha friend story chepenu kadha still fight is going on papam anipisthundhi vadini chusthe kani yemi cheyyalemu | ||
Goonda Megastar Username: Goonda Post Number: 26624 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 73.177.11.44 Rating: |
more than girls... i give credit to their mom..especially in this day because of technology at hand..mom's are biggest culprits.. women are always one sided... doesn't matter.. mother, mother-in-law, daughter, daughter-in-law... in whichever, wherever they stand.. they think from that standpoint.. Mom's have different set of rules for daughter and daughter-in-laws... totally ludicrous | ||
Pele Junior Artist Username: Pele Post Number: 749 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 203.99.197.164 Rating: |
All this becoz of Mobiles and telephones. ee daughters andaru.. everyday husband house lo routine ni phone lo mothers ki cheptaru. | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 504 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 90.221.191.78 Rating: |
Mari gents ki freedom enduku? | ||
Subbarao Comedian Username: Subbarao Post Number: 1126 Registered: 12-2015 Posted From: 175.101.68.31 Rating: |
anduke aadapillaki freedom ekkuva ivvakoodadu yesteryear generations lo anduke konni kattubaatlu undevi aadapillaki aa timelo ammailatho ilaanti head aches undevi kaavu. ippudu freedom ekkuvaipoi ilaantivi chesthunaru kaalam kalisiraakapothe rajakumarulud kooda vanavasaaniki veltharu kaalam kalisosthe pichodu kooda maha kavi kaalidaasu avthaadu | ||
Onlytruth Legend Username: Onlytruth Post Number: 199456 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 45.29.50.49 Rating: |
psychological issue...ee pillaki...badluck anthe mee vadu book ayyadu | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 503 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 90.221.191.78 Rating: |
Story chaalaa one sided undhi, police case avthundhemo ani abbai side kosam feel avthunnaaru. Mari vollu kaalchukunna ammaai antha duuram pichekki vellindhaa Athagaari pethanam ante gonthu penchi aravadam and kottatam okkate kaadhu. Silent mental torture is also what some older ladies do. Looks and nittuurpalatho mils show that it is a crime for the wife to sit next to her husband and talking happily is also a crime for them. Mental pressure is very serious and it drives people to such extremes: | ||
Asdf Legend Username: Asdf Post Number: 31753 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 24.6.217.145 Rating: N/A |
Dear antaava, how sexist are ya? | ||
Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18200 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: N/A |
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Nice Hero Username: Nice Post Number: 18199 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.11 Rating: N/A |
exactly. Both has to understand and try not to keep others in control Eppatiki ardham chesukuntaro eellu | ||
Thokkalohdi Hero Username: Thokkalohdi Post Number: 14059 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 24.5.236.139 Rating: |
parents ni verey intlo petti... wife ki income thakkuva cheppi manage cheyyali... | ||
Boeing747 Side Hero Username: Boeing747 Post Number: 2287 Registered: 04-2016 Posted From: 70.162.116.98 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear...ayina girl valla parents ayina cheppali ga atleast | ||
Rangoon Side Hero Username: Rangoon Post Number: 2995 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 113.23.137.112 Rating: N/A |
I mean son is choosing his choice for job, girl etc without looking parents preference. | ||
Rangoon Side Hero Username: Rangoon Post Number: 2994 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 113.23.137.112 Rating: N/A |
two things hubby should respect his parents in profession. If he is not listening then why wife has to keep them (she aslo have right to live her way) | ||
Komaranna Side Hero Username: Komaranna Post Number: 9467 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 73.247.189.194 Rating: |
father in law vunntha kalam bane vundi..father in law poyaka felt athhagaru ekkada vachhi vellatho vuntundi ani godava start... force full ga old age lo pettaru....kuthulu vunna parenst happy ga vunnaru..sons vunna parents suffering ada variki aham ekkuva ante ego.... | ||
Shikari Megastar Username: Shikari Post Number: 24098 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.51.33 Rating: N/A |
raman vuncle..silent ga valla manana vallu unde athagaru,mamagaru kuda undataniki ledhu antunnaru chala mandhi..nuclear families lo peragatam valla vachindhi emo idhi..they are uneasy when in-laws are visiting or staying with them. only son,koduku tappa family evaru leni okavida valla relatives lo sambandham chesukunte..aa pilla kuda 2 months lo start chesindhi..aa pilla ki chinnappati nunchi telusu veella family gurinchi..valla amma daniki support.alantappudu venta padi chesukotam endhuku?chesukuni dobbatam endhuku? http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Jaguar Comedian Username: Jaguar Post Number: 1122 Registered: 01-2017 Posted From: 12.180.115.102 Rating: |
India lo peddala panchayati vuntundhi ane bhayamu vuntundhi....outside India lo ee first generation garals ku no fear.... monna GST discussion okti koosindhi kada.....naaku magadu kooda avasaram ledu...kukka chalu ani....and.... anthaa naa istam nenu 10 feeful padukontanu.... it is my choice ani....That is where the problem is... Parents or Mogudu question cheya koodadu.....root cause... | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45508 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 183.83.76.167 Rating: N/A |
inko case.. old age lo unna parents ki 1month time ichad koduku.. inlaws intlo unte nenu ranu anesi puttinti ki ellipoyindi kodalu/ammayi.. hubby/koduku poorthi ga wife side ayipoyi parents ki 1month time ichad.. jan 31st kalla vacate sesi ekkadanna ellipondi..meeru unte naa family ikkadaku radu ani annatta.. ee kurrod degree fail ayyi julayi ga tirugutonte valla father vadi kallu veedi kaallu pattuknoi gulf ki pampinchad..akkada ellaka veedi life set ayindi..edo ms kurrodi resume type lo profile petti pelli set seskonnad.. aa pilla ki kastha govt job ragane veedu poorthi ga sided ayyad.. aa hubby/wife la ki nachajeppandi ani veellu adigaru.. ee lopu inko vishayam telisaka godavalu oddu..time baledu.. aa abbayi ki elagola nacha jeppi maintenance ku dabbulu adigandi..anthakante sesedi em ledu ani advise icham.. Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 54697 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 171.76.46.11 Rating: N/A |
ninna gudilo bhale incident le mil ledu kani okathanu pregnant wife niteeskochadu along with mil (leka elder sister by huge gap) worst fellow la unnadu .. mil was shouting like anything rush viareethamga undi it took nearly 1 hour for darshan in mediumsize temple lot of pushing mil hyper action husband inaction (teluguvallu avadam moolamga athagaruunable to explain to others around ) final ga nabotodu peddamanishi role eskuni gharbha gudi mundu aameni side na nilabettandi meru darshan cheskondi she wlll have a long shot of darshan aniseppi line loninchi tappinchar . parents ki valal daggarlo unnappudu tamalo okaru inko family lo unnappudu apuroopamga chuskunnam ani color istaru some case slo nijam avochu there is always a clash of cultures ..smart girls adjust ayitaru | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45507 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 183.83.76.167 Rating: N/A |
athayyaa ki health issues unnay..pethanam seyyali anukonna health support seyyatledu..only time ki food pedte chalu medicine vesukogaladu annattundi situation.. 3years back ilage aligi puttintiki ellipoyindi anta valla father nachajeppali ani sooste ureskoni sastha ani bedirinchindi anta.. vallu kooda silent ayipoyar.. ila antondi em seyyamantar antoo.. hubby tried his best to convince her.. evaru seppina vinatledu.. Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9151 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 183.82.21.79 Rating: |
i understand ur point..I am telling there r cases where not even before a month n before encountering in laws, they r putting forth this condition... Anyway, can't argue much as it may look that I am not buying ur point..But i agree that which is case in last decade or so..New.trend is different... | ||
Manthri Comedian Username: Manthri Post Number: 1890 Registered: 02-2013 Posted From: 67.174.99.43 Rating: |
In most of the cases Moms of the girls instigate this | ||
Rgb Side Hero Username: Rgb Post Number: 5236 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 108.5.158.245 Rating: N/A |
agreed ii madhya as many gayyali DILs as MILs. Progress | ||
Author Side Hero Username: Author Post Number: 9134 Registered: 12-2010 Posted From: 77.243.183.123 Rating: |
sorry to hear.. aame aa mentality thone puttaledhu kadha..society, family, relatives, friends, chuttu pakkala vaallu, aame ni ala tayaru chesi/influence chesi vuntaru...India goppadhi goppadhi ani dappu kottukuntaru gaani..ye vishayam lo goppadho naaku artam kaadhu. more than 1 term, oke party ki support chese kotta party, independent ga edhiginatlu charitra lone ledhu.. | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 54696 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 171.76.46.11 Rating: |
vallu anukunte avadu there are cases of intrusion and bommarillu prakash rajism by mils .. they think they treat dils better but not true .. | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9150 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 183.82.21.79 Rating: N/A |
kuturu kante ekkuva la chusukune cases lone variety ga ammayilu ila behaving..So don't assume that all MIL s r torturing DILs | ||
Sannayi_nokkulu Megastar Username: Sannayi_nokkulu Post Number: 22901 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 68.100.232.143 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear....endo desam lo counseling must anukunta...emi takkuva aindi ee ladies ki..... sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 54695 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 171.76.46.11 Rating: |
athagarlu control lo undali just treat dils as their daughters veellu vallani kadu anukuni vallu vellani kadu anukuni tv serials trp penchutunnaru .. suicide attempt endo over petty issues hubby kurradu is to be blamed anukuntunna he should have given his wife enough authority to run her home .. .. pathakalallo relatives lo marieges undevi kabatti okallaki okallu baga telusu godaval takkuva eekalam lo kastam | ||
Prasanth Side Hero Username: Prasanth Post Number: 9147 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 183.82.21.79 Rating: |
Self destructing girl..Instead she could have planned different ways to achieve her wicked goal | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 57604 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.126.165.28 Rating: |
Kharma unkl adi, pichidi la undi | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 6845 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 71.184.199.225 Rating: N/A |
Big issue in all over Telugu states. Now parents has to follow USA strategy . Kick son out after 14. | ||
Rgb Side Hero Username: Rgb Post Number: 5235 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 108.5.158.245 Rating: N/A |
Kondhariki adhi psychological problem Mari ila avutunnaru ento | ||
Abhysg Legend Username: Abhysg Post Number: 45506 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 183.83.76.167 Rating: |
If you don't want In-Laws... pls marry some orphans on the road.. since y'day... unable to digest a news came from relatives.. relatives lo babai varasa ayyevallaki oke koduku..manchi match soosi pelli sesar.. abbai sooper handsome.. after 1year girl started trouble.. inlaws undakoodadu ani.. vere illu/oollo undali ani.. ila godavalu avutoone..bandi nettukochar 1/2years.. abbayi father chanipoyaka kooda mother ni undanivvaledu.. avida thana sisters intlo untoo ochindi..recent ga peddavallatho panchayitee pettinchali.. enduku ila chestundi.. attayya ni kooda chooskokapothe ela ani andaroo matladadaniki intiki ostunnaru ani telisi vollu kalcheskondi..now in death bed ant.. 60% burns tho.. now all are in deeper shock.. antha stupid decision ela teeskondi ani.. oka 7months baby undi.. inko 4 years baby... papam aa kurrod ni soosthe chala jali estondi..he doesn't deserve this... ee incident ayyi 10days avutondi.. ekkada evariki cheppatledu.. idi police case ga marettundi..em jaruguddo ento ani.. Jai Telugu Veena-Jai Telangana |
