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Telangana_dora Junior Artist Username: Telangana_dora Post Number: 472 Registered: 02-2015 Posted From: 49.204.231.19 Rating: N/A |
perfect.. chinnappudu m kadigi shaman posi..entha allari chesina annam petti jabbu vasthe nidra kuda pokunda chuse valla gurinchi ila matladatam bad..at least Amma ante prema undali | ||
Jaiandhra Junior Artist Username: Jaiandhra Post Number: 573 Registered: 08-2015 Posted From: 192.158.48.90 Rating: N/A |
Adenti boss anta mata annavu?.Indakata nunchi ani messages chaduvutunna deep ga WORLD Class capital lakapote Andhra eppatiki financial ga paiki raledu. Mana capital chusi andaru parigettukuntu ravalai mana state ki. Center dabbulu ivvadu ayina sare kadata kattalisinde lekapote AP lo chaduvukunna students bayataki potaru. Assembly,highcourt,secretatiat anni oka chota vundali. Capital lo world class universities,hospitals,malls kavali lekapote intellectuals raru. Assembly mundu minimum 500 acre park and capital lo water bodies pedatam greenary kosam. Manaki world class city lekapote Adani,GMR lanti vallu bagalore,hyderabad vadili manaki enduku vastaru? Itlu mata tappani madama tippani YS Jagan | ||
Aquarian Side Hero Username: Aquarian Post Number: 3167 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 167.187.101.241 Rating: N/A |
ittanti vishyallo vuchith salahaalu maaneyandi... what goes around... comes around | ||
Lax Moderator Username: Lax Post Number: 18914 Registered: 11-2013 Rating: N/A |
 Karimnagar Pawan Fan | ||
Hiphop Comedian Username: Hiphop Post Number: 1573 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 198.7.62.129 Rating: |
manam just US lonay oka city ki alavatu paddaka inkoka city ki move avvalante entha kashtam alantidhi vallu ee late age lo ekamga India nunche US move avvalante? tough situation idhi mathram, India lo siblings leni vallaki Ready For Whatever | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10768 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
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Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 17926 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 108.60.158.130 Rating: N/A |
Akkada vunna comforts ikkada vundavu. Ikkada vunna comforts akkada vundavu. Rendu okkachote dorakavu. Manaki America goppa, life style katthi kataar, non polluted environments is a blessing anukuntaam. To parents idhi oka soul less life, ardham pardham leni hangu aarbhatam leni jeevitham laa kanipisthundhi. Ee Yupptv lu, serials, telugu birthday partys, 1-2 weeks rapid fire vacation in US will not give them same satisfaction as in desham. Most of the time enthaa baadha padina chepparu, edho praanam medhaki vasthe tappa. Kaalam maarindhi, maa laanti paatha rojulu kaavi ivi, kashtamo nashtamo maname kaallu eedchukuntaa bathakadam melu anukuntaaru. Alla bathuku allu bathakani ekkada vunte enti anna vairaagyam vachesthadhi. Ramanni evaru poru pettaru, vellalaa vellakoodadha anedhi individual naithiki bhaadyatha. | ||
Humpty_dumpty Moderator Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 32738 Registered: 02-2009 Rating: N/A |
vomerica or desham ...same conditions as you progress commute wise nyc, bay area hit hard anukuntunnda...rest all metro areas 1 hr avg ani set ayipoyaar it is no use to complain about lack of time when you lack effort ani hyder seppad...run_dog btw, topic kee vasthay in-laws kee perfect gaa set ayindhee...andriod relatives settled in hyd...BIL family also in hyd maa parents cannot move ...still working...brother family not yet settled health is main concern vs day to day tasks...they dont let go of chores/responsibilities that easily... in your case , sitting on my couch view antay moving them here is better yemo...not sure | ||
Politricks Hero Username: Politricks Post Number: 19014 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 160.83.73.16 Rating: N/A |
Guru My parents are alone with ALL 3 OF US (Me, Sister, Bedar) settled in USA for last 15-23 years! One confidence we have AS OF NOW is even though in HYD they are alone every 4 months they go our village and there they have many many relatives there and good medical treatment available within 1-1.5 drive! As of now they are both doing OK...but Scary part would be if some serious health issues etc. But, they don't want to come here permanently! As of now we decided that Me or my Brother will visit every 6-9 months and get them here at least every 2 years! As time goes the plan may change! | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10767 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
India lo spending baga echu ayipoyindi le | ||
Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 7781 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
ledi vunkul, meeru correct gaanay anukunnaaru.  j/k. I get the same feeling too, money flows like water without a second thought. | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9331 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 192.193.216.151 Rating: N/A |
tru when u are at entry level but once u move up, u are clocking 10-12hrs every day. No life on weekdays if u have long commute. | ||
Suyodhan Side Hero Username: Suyodhan Post Number: 3386 Registered: 01-2013 Posted From: 209.116.209.242 Rating: N/A |
Also india trip esinappudalla naaku anipinchedi, "cost of living is cheaper in US than india" ani Enduko teleedu kaani, india lo janaala money spending mundu nenu pisinaarodini emo anipinchindi. | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 11974 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 98.221.181.44 Rating: N/A |
Total opposite gaa cheptunnaru enti? Desam lo IT lo work chese vaallani adagandi chepthaaru.. work till 7-8 in the office is normal. Going to work on Saturdays is also normal. 1-2 hours commute tharvata intiki vache time ki you are exhausted.. no time for anything else. No one cares for your personal life ani crying. If you chose your family / personal life over work then your career is screwed.. MNCs used to be different in term of work culture but that is also slowly changing Ikkada america lo, work from home or work done by 5 or 6 pm for most junta. Plenty of time for personal life on weekday evenings and weekends. Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10766 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
Gannaram lo Oracle ettamani Larry gadiki arjee ettukovali  | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9330 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 192.193.171.151 Rating: N/A |
Kaiseresh - ee country escratch nuncy start chesam 2 suitcases tho digipoy. Now manam iddaram manaki iddaru types most cases + mortgage+ career+ ischool etc. Ayannai vodili India velladam easy kadu | ||
Agniparvatham Side Hero Username: Agniparvatham Post Number: 4610 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.71.124.159 Rating: N/A |
antee adhi adhi....  ... | ||
Suyodhan Side Hero Username: Suyodhan Post Number: 3384 Registered: 01-2013 Posted From: 209.116.209.242 Rating: N/A |
It all depends on how you mold your life annai. Im not debating on which is good or bad. All im saying is it depends on person to person on circumstances and needs. naaku telisina vaalli venakki vocheyyataaniki reason is their kids. aa kids parents ki akkada vundaali ani vunna kuda they came back, coz, they are worried about future than present and past. Vaalla point of view lo vaallu chepthunte correct ee anipinchindi. | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10765 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
thongi soodatam enduku raa annayi...raaa | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 48540 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
Absolutely True Kaiser and Hurujeee No Signature | ||
Agniparvatham Side Hero Username: Agniparvatham Post Number: 4609 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.71.124.159 Rating: N/A |
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Ravino786 Megastar Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 21908 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 107.147.200.97 Rating: N/A |
kids impossible they will come back ...ekakda putti ekakda 7-8 years unnarante akakdiki wellina they will be back | ||
Ravino786 Megastar Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 21907 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 107.147.200.97 Rating: N/A |
i can't comment on personal situations....several in my family though parents had gc's and in case few took citizenships live in India and kids yearly once go...i feel it all depends on waht u want and how u want...andariki anni telusu this is all time pass talk.. | ||
Shikari Hero Username: Shikari Post Number: 17966 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.215.135 Rating: N/A |
kids adjust avagaligithe r2i pedha kashtam kadhu. http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Kaisersooze Moderator Username: Kaisersooze Post Number: 13835 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: N/A |
naa cousin last yr citizenship thesukoni velladu...hez happy there..inko colleague last yr vealladu on GC...no regrets so far...I agree quality of life vuntadhi ikkada..but naaku aithae..ikkada edho soulless life laga vuntadhi...do you have life after work during week days here?? 8 months chalaiki intlo vundali....sunday afternoon nundae moday blues start avuthai...ganiga yeddhu tiriginattu tiruguthu vuntam...dhaniki theliyadu endhuku thiruguthundho..manaki theliyadhu enduku tiruguthunamo...ikkada vunatha stress india lo vundadhu...caz of weather or availability of services.... | ||
Suyodhan Side Hero Username: Suyodhan Post Number: 3383 Registered: 01-2013 Posted From: 209.116.209.242 Rating: N/A |
ikkada quality of life ki alavaatu ayyaka akkada chalaa mandiki kashtam anukuntunnaru. ikkada putti perigina kids tho all of a sudden india ante chaala kashtam. naaku telisina chaala mandi godaki kottina banthila malli venakki tirigochesaaru. | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10764 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
I mean evaranna adithe alane cheptaaru peddollu ani | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10763 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
Pakkanollaki seppetappudu attage septaaru le annayi | ||
Ravino786 Megastar Username: Ravino786 Post Number: 21906 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 107.147.200.97 Rating: N/A |
guru now a days posh old age homes unnayi and parents are happy with other same aged people around ...and health care kuda chala baguntadhi,, wallaki ekakd nuvvu undhi arogyanga undadame istam they too saying not to come to india wallu akakda safe ga happy ga undalante better good for upscale assisted homes last time i met one senior guy at one of those homes in kompalli they are happy its not that kids left them its paid and well maintained and they do gardening those who are active and those who need help have a nurse available | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10762 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
Annayi....Simpi seta sesaaavu ee post tho | ||
Shikari Hero Username: Shikari Post Number: 17964 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.215.135 Rating: N/A |
true..70s lo ok kani..mid 80s&90s lo chukkalu chupinchina vallani chusa maa relatives lo.pillale thittukune varu valla chadasthabiki.ika a to z anni panulu chesina panollani aithe nana boothulu..ayina opika anni chesevaru vallu..vallani mechukovali. http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Kaisersooze Moderator Username: Kaisersooze Post Number: 13834 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: |
ikkada majority of folks middle class nundi vacham....ippudu vunnatha jeethalu dabbu appudu ledhu...but still america ki pampincharu...chala sacrifice chesaru...ippuud india lo anni opportunities pettukoni...veltaniki endhuku jankuthunaro?? mana parents time lo kuda attha kodallu godavalu vunai...avi vuntai...avi manage cheyatam radhu kaani manam db ekki jagan ki mlas ni chuskovatam radhu...CBN ki T lo party ni kapadukolekapoyadu ani sollu kodatham...anni chakkaga vuntae mogudu leni munda kuda manage chesthadhi... | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10761 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
teesukovala odda ani alosinchings. Teesukunte better emo | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10760 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
yep. U are right | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 17924 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 108.60.158.130 Rating: N/A |
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Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 7774 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
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Kaisersooze Moderator Username: Kaisersooze Post Number: 13833 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: N/A |
citizenship vuntae vellachu kadha...US ki vachaka scratch nundi start chesam...ippudu intha exp pettukoni..intha network pettukoni....mana desaniki manam velatniki alochisthunam...if you want to go go guys... | ||
Mr_masi Junior Artist Username: Mr_masi Post Number: 500 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 108.245.87.11 Rating: |
Here are some items I'm following and wishing to follow: 1. Teach them to live independently 2. Train your self to be independent, create a feeling that you will be happy independently. 3. You should visit your place and keep all resources in touch, resources like plumber, electrician, a local store owner (my near by super market guy delivers items to my parent's home), few your old friends, any relatives, a nurse to check your parents periodically for BP/Sugar and any general health, online "mee seva" for phone/electricity and any other municipality bills, good terms with landlord or renters, Temple priest... just create a web people, and have them in your list say in whatsapp group/FB, always be in touch. 3. Mediation and a follow a guru path (you and your parents) 4. Periodic visits, now a days it is getting very common , people are travelling for a week, Fri to Sun.. tickets are under 1000, you can easily visit 3-4 times a year. 5. Periodic health check ups 6. Tours, they are many tour operators arranging pilgrimage tours 7. Provide internet, Ipad, Smart TV, web cams (So that you can monitor) from here. 8. Your kids should be in contact with them regularly. 9. Share your happiness and achievements with them regularly 10. Your kids should talk to them periodically 11. Invite them to USA for shorter duration trips 12. Last time I went and made friends with a local Tiffin/mess center guy, every weekend he delivers some kind of meat curry (Fish, chicken or goat) to my dad..and also 2-4 times morning breakfast or evening punugulu/bajji's.. I can what'sapp him from here ... | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10758 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: |
brother, manam chinnappudu amma ki nanni ki entha siraaku dobbichuntaamu? 20 yrs paatu? at the same time Pellam mari tana vallani soodakunda vadilestadaa? even if she does that, manam enduku seyyali? | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 48535 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
Problem with our generation is pelli ainaa ventanee USA vachetam thoa parents ki DILs ki pedha rapport kooda vundadhu. Interatcion is just in India trips once very two years for 10 days. No Signature | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10757 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
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Legend Username: Twitter Post Number: 43584 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.162 Rating: |
devudaaa inka plans esthunnara ..veellaki evaranna cheppandayya manam enni plans esina laabam ledhu ..it is already planned ..ela jaragalani plan chesunte ala jarigipothei on a serious note 70+ ayyaka musalollani bare cheyadam kastam, mana parents aina manake chiraku kopam badha theppisthuntaru alantidhi DIL's entha manchollaina musalollani chooskovalante kastam ..ikkadiki thechhe plans unte nursing homes / old age homes okkate dhaari .. na post kastanga unna adhi undeneiable fact ..also not genreralizing exceptions always apply. | ||
Whyme Hero Username: Whyme Post Number: 16443 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
ayyo papam.. | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10756 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
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Shikari Hero Username: Shikari Post Number: 17959 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.215.135 Rating: N/A |
true..manam expect chesinadanikante ekkuve help chestharu..i have seen such cases especially in villages&small towns. http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Risingstar Legend Username: Risingstar Post Number: 36199 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 12.20.48.10 Rating: N/A |
yeah.. adhi oohinchukolemu but emi cheyyagalam. akkada desam daridramga thayaru ayundhi. road meedha walking ki elthe kooda guddi champesthunnaru.. monna oka thelsinayana road meedha guddesthunnarani stadium loo walking chesukuntunte ekkadinunchoo cricket ball thalaki balamga thagilindi anta.. blood clot ayu komalokipoyaru. CNKV | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10755 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.203 Rating: N/A |
adhi correcte mama kani aa lottery maname koditheee anee bhayam | ||
Risingstar Legend Username: Risingstar Post Number: 36198 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 12.20.48.10 Rating: N/A |
annai meeru maree.. 100's of cases loo okati araa jaruguthayu.. generalize cheyyamakandi. mana time bagalekapothe edayuna jaragachu india loo.. unnanathaloo best opion nenu indaka cheppindee. start spending 1000$ more if you really want to look after them.. pani vallani hire chesukondi.. pick and start helping your 5-6 close friends and close relatives. yes swardham kosamee cheyandi. help is help. help chesi expect cheyyakoodadhu anee trash thokka pakkanettandi. don't demand help.. maintain coordial relations. start helping people anduloo min 70% people help chesthar mana parents ki..chaduvulaki, health ki, pellillaki padhoo paraka help cheyandi.. yes they expect more.. deal cheyyali jagrathaga.. evaranna help cheyyakapothe feel avaddu cut it and move for next person.. parents ki ee vayasulo emi kavali? pilisthe palike naluguru kavali vallu chadasthamtho cheppindi oo kotti vinevallu kavali.. pillalani marchipovalantee adhi ichina satisfaction edhee ivvaledhu.. CNKV | ||
Kantha_rao Comedian Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 2000 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 12.218.0.70 Rating: N/A |
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Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 36739 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: |
yaaa... parents should also equally respect the care takers... prathi deggara paisa paisa ani think cheste problem manake.. i agree with u baaa... parents should think beyond money sometimes and that is what i keep telling my mom... | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 36738 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10 Rating: N/A |
anduke antunna bhayya.. known family members aithe preferable... couple bcoz wife can take care of parents and cooking... husband driving, grocery etc etc.. naa family la unnaru ee type... very honest and caring people.... | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9329 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 199.67.140.56 Rating: N/A |
awala annai niku comprehension problem aa? | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 11973 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 98.221.181.44 Rating: N/A |
yeah me trying for same setup in america :-) my sisters and wife's siblings live in dallas.. so if also move to dallas then my parents and in-laws can also settle in dallas area...close family circle lo oka 6-7 families vunte parents/in-laws don't get bored in america also imo... Hum saath saath hain type setting ani planning... Gujjus has been doing it for years.. why not us? Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 17922 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 108.60.158.130 Rating: |
Ikkada Plug peeki akkada Plug pettatame annantha vezy kaadhu. Akkada pedathaam, ikkada pedathaam vaallu (chuttaalu) vacchi appudappudu choosi pothaaru ellakaalam panichese solution kaadhu. Velthe manaspoorthi ishtapoorvakamga alochinchukoni vellali, half baked thoughts tho, wife ni, kids ni moral ga prepare cheyyadakunda velthe will lead to disaster. For good anukunte, slow migration. 1) Wife, kids first move avuthaaru. 2) settle the kids in new arena (unless you have teen kids), school, weather, tuition, life style etc etc 3) Job switching US to India, same company offshore vunte, else india lo remote ki chance isthe, ledhu all together a fresh job oka 6-12 months lo scout cheyyadame. 4) Within 1-2 yrs Primary move avvadame. Ekkada guilt feeling vundakoodadhu, raakodadhu. | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10754 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.200 Rating: N/A |
 Good Point | ||
Keko_keka Side Hero Username: Keko_keka Post Number: 2134 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 199.44.15.72 Rating: N/A |
so true | ||
Kantha_rao Comedian Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 1998 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 12.218.0.70 Rating: |
this is all depends on spouse kuda kadaaa...ee generation lo how may ladies would prefer going back to India ? and serve in-laws ? return to India pakkana pedadaam, assalu ee generation lo India ki vacation ki vellinapudu ayina sare in-laws deggara enni rojulu untunnaaru ladies ? | ||
Suyodhan Side Hero Username: Suyodhan Post Number: 3376 Registered: 01-2013 Posted From: 209.116.209.242 Rating: N/A |
Annai, Saket pranaam ani retirement homes vunnayi.(Not old age homes). maa pedananna kosam nenu maa dad oka flat konnam andulo, as he dont want to stay anywhere and wants to be independent. initial gaa ela vuntaado anukunnam gaani, he was happy and saw lot of change in him after couple of months. nenu visit chesinappudu i saw old people there. And almost all kids are in abroad and parents are staying there. Amenities kuda baavunnayi. Food door delivery. ledante aptms lone canteen vundi akkadiki velli ayina thinochu. Nurse 24/7 available vundi. Doctor visits weekend. Absolutely no pollution. old people andaru baane enjoy chesthunnaru. | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10752 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.200 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear brother | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10751 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.200 Rating: N/A |
My sister moved back to Vizag but naaku matram nenu chusukovalanna asantrupti migilela vundi | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 17920 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 108.60.158.130 Rating: N/A |
 Touch chesaav bhayya. ilaage naligipoyevaadini. Unfortunately lost both my parents. Sad and bad luck. | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 17919 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 108.60.158.130 Rating: N/A |
Samjhaanewali baath Vs Samjnewaali baath. Ivi rendo rakam. Manam enni settings chesina, kanna koduku/koothuro vundi choosedhi veru, dabbu tho service chesedhi veru. | ||
True_indian Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 12249 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 143.165.48.50 Rating: N/A |
 e hyd uncle to ide problem anta rosy pic istadu manaku ittadi aithadi .those who are serious about their watches display them prominently, those who are more concerned with style and branding present you with aircraft carriers and hide their watches. | ||
Shikari Hero Username: Shikari Post Number: 17953 Registered: 03-2010 Posted From: 124.123.215.135 Rating: N/A |
idhi better option to hire a family and support them.but parents oppukovali..we can manage..endhuku dabbulu dandaga antaru vallu.car koni driver ni pedathanu antene..roju tirige pani emuntadhi..we are fine with autos when needed annaru nannu.em cheptham? http://i.imgur.com/eUYcc.gif | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10750 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.200 Rating: |
 eee rojullo janalu decoit naa M laga tayyarayyaru. Nammataniki ledhu...bhale vadivee | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 48519 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
Make a point to go India every year and stay for two weeks.
Sister or brothers leraaa. Purely single singinaadham gaaraa?? No Signature | ||
Sesani Legend Username: Sesani Post Number: 36733 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 172.56.37.244 Rating: N/A |
Hire a full time nanny or a family member (couple preferably) who is financially weak.. Tell them u will financially support then in all matters.. One of the options... | ||
Bunty717 Moderator Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 47997 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
ninne peladathaa anukunnavu eti annai.. idi antaa veezy kaadu.. malli dont genaralize naa frnd ki fnrd last 6 yrs nunchi kalisi untunnaru anaku pleezz.. | ||
Fargo Hero Username: Fargo Post Number: 10749 Registered: 04-2012 Posted From: 148.87.67.200 Rating: N/A |
podduna legisina daggaranundi adhe alochana. Nannu nenu booths tittukuni malli mamulu. I should move back. I dont know when and I know it is getting late | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 11972 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 98.221.181.44 Rating: N/A |
if parents and in-laws are in good terms then see if parents can move closer to in-laws or vice-versa. Same age group kaabatti okariki okaru thodu vuntaaru Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Raman Legend Username: Raman Post Number: 42124 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 117.202.178.172 Rating: N/A |
gc possibility unte chudu babay ... naku telsina brothers iddaru valla ammani india ninchi visit visa lo rappinchi akkade unchesaru for 10 years aame 6 months atu itu tirugutu us lo gadipindi final ga after 10 years tarvata deport ayyindi own ga india ki ravali ani .. kurrol ee time lo citizens ayyaru so vallalo evallo okallu 2-3 months ki okasari india vachi oka week gaduputunnaru | ||
Zamindar Hero Username: Zamindar Post Number: 10733 Registered: 10-2013 Posted From: 209.208.247.24 Rating: N/A |
same thing with parents they have start at age 60 or 70 which is more difficult | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9326 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 199.67.131.148 Rating: N/A |
I know there is no easy solution..just like to understand how u ppl are dealing with this common problem | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9325 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 199.67.131.148 Rating: N/A |
Other solutions eto seppey annai | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9324 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 199.67.131.148 Rating: N/A |
Moving back and starting life again from scratch seems to be a long shot. Bringing them here is better | ||
Risingstar Legend Username: Risingstar Post Number: 36195 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 12.20.48.10 Rating: N/A |
perfect ga chepparu.. manaki edhi manchidi anipisthe adhi cheyyatame... at end idhe cheyyandi mana anukunevallu naluguru (bandhuvulu or friends) thoo contacts thechukokunda relations maintain chesthe ilantappudu vallee manaki pedda dikku kinda untaru. bring here for 2-3 months... its all about money in india. spend 1000$ extra you will get the answer. think this point of view CNKV | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 47362 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24 Rating: N/A |
first step is if they are ok try to bring them here for longer stay, taking care here is not at all a problem you can get insurance for parents under obamacare unless they are with special needs you are ok here, slowly dad ki car driving nerpinchi you can set him up in some activity, moms love to be stay at home, try this first, | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 11971 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 98.221.181.44 Rating: N/A |
depends on how attached you are to your parents.. some are like filmy type attachment.. in such cases they will just go. Or modern western type relation anuko with parents then old age home or some other solution u can't generalize. know 2 families who moved to bangalore and hyd and living happily there so far.. 6 years and 3 years so far Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Chitti_babu Hero Username: Chitti_babu Post Number: 17918 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 108.60.158.130 Rating: N/A |
dheeniki No solution. Manasuki edhi correct anipisthundho adhi cheyyadame better. | ||
Bunty717 Moderator Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 47992 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
idi workout avadu.. nen chaala cases chusenu.. ejjjatly 2yrs lo back to pavillion.. | ||
True_indian Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 12247 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 143.165.48.50 Rating: N/A |
dude same problem but my parents wont come here, my mum gave her green card long back , india lo they are very active, ikkadiki vacchi daily bore kotti 1-2 months lo velipotaru but they feel lonely in india, relatives andaru only money kosame unnaru prati okadu, meku em avasaram, maku help cheyandi ani goduva thought about going back but cant take the step okasari baga bad ga feel avuta kani helpless .those who are serious about their watches display them prominently, those who are more concerned with style and branding present you with aircraft carriers and hide their watches. | ||
Bunty717 Moderator Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 47991 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
idi best option if your ones parents are OK to migrate.. 24 hrs vallu okkaru unde kante.. both working ayinaa atleast 15 hrs ayinaaa manam vallani chudochu kadaaa.. | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9323 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 199.67.138.49 Rating: N/A |
another option to relocate to desam. Kids schooling kadi nunchy anni thinking cheyali. | ||
Telangana_dora Junior Artist Username: Telangana_dora Post Number: 469 Registered: 02-2015 Posted From: 49.204.231.19 Rating: N/A |
Else assalu kudaradu naku ee life ye kavalankunte vallani us teeskelli ibbandi pettekanna..manchi dabbulu petti edhanna retirement home lo join cheyandi..but that is very bad | ||
Telangana_dora Junior Artist Username: Telangana_dora Post Number: 468 Registered: 02-2015 Posted From: 49.204.231.19 Rating: N/A |
Go to india..dharunam saami ila behave cheyadam..veyyellundam Manama ikkada..idantha kaadhu kani mee chinnappati gnapakalu gurthutechukondi..meere ellipotharu | ||
Guru Side Hero Username: Guru Post Number: 9322 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 192.193.216.147 Rating: N/A |
Old parents with no siblings in India. How are you taking care of them? Especially, if they are dependent? One option is to sponsor GC and bring them here but it's tough to take care of them if spouse is also working. |
