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Aggipidugu116
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Post Number: 997 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 72.78.82.30
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 12:28 pm: |
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Do not consider kids as your retirement 401k.. Then all will set automatically |
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Rgb
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Post Number: 2373 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 71.187.193.15
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 11:05 am: |
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Telugu_times:NJ, NY, Va, ATL, Texas, California etc lo, being same valla vacchina depression ayi untundhi
Depends on school dt. In our school dt, a typical high school class has only 10/500 desis |
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Telugu_times
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Post Number: 46045 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.41.66.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 11:01 am: |
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Rgb:Also part of the pressure is because of being different from their classmates
NJ, NY, Va, ATL, Texas, California etc lo, being same valla vacchina depression ayi untundhi Ignore spam. |
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Rgb
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Post Number: 2369 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 71.187.193.15
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 09:55 am: |
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Abcdefghij:thats true not denying it.... but the amount of kids in indian community using depression medication gurinchi cheptunna... its easy to say to teach kids succuss and failure etc...but when those kids went through parents push and their hardwork and suddenly not seeing what they were pushed for they sure are bound to get depressed... i am not saying there should not be competition but dont get into to same bus as 30 other indians in school if you want to get your kid to get into best universities....few exceptions always there...
Idhi nijamga desi kids lo usage more a? I tend to think we generally tend not to treat for depression at the beginning because of culture as compared to mainstream. Also part of the pressure is because of being different from their classmates |
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Abcdefghij
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Post Number: 17499 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 09:23 am: |
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Jai_ycp:that's what you have to teach your kids. life is made of success and failures. you should always pick up after defeat and move on. other solution suggested below of not exposing to competition is more dangerous. once they become adults and get set foot in real world, they succumb easily to cut throat life
thats true not denying it.... but the amount of kids in indian community using depression medication gurinchi cheptunna... its easy to say to teach kids succuss and failure etc...but when those kids went through parents push and their hardwork and suddenly not seeing what they were pushed for they sure are bound to get depressed... i am not saying there should not be competition but dont get into to same bus as 30 other indians in school if you want to get your kid to get into best universities....few exceptions always there... Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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Telugu_times
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Post Number: 46041 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.41.66.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 09:07 am: |
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Rgb:
That is good idea too Ignore spam. |
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Rgb
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Post Number: 2368 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 71.187.193.15
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, January 03, 2016 - 08:08 am: |
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Telugu_times:Desi kids in Wyoming, south dakota, north dakota, Montana etc have better chances in getting into good universities emo?
Desi kids e kaadhu evaraina. I know a few colleagues (whites) who moved to Alabama/Arkansas from NJ to get their kids into Harvard. |
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Telugu_times
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Post Number: 46038 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.41.66.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, January 02, 2016 - 10:52 pm: |
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Desi kids in Wyoming, south dakota, north dakota, Montana etc have better chances in getting into good universities emo?
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Saarang
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Post Number: 10973 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 174.21.101.144
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, January 02, 2016 - 10:27 pm: |
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Nice thread. Andaru same type of kids unna schools manchivi kaadhu generally. |
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Sannayi_nokkulu
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Post Number: 6058 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 68.100.234.172
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, December 31, 2015 - 07:40 am: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
annai Birmingham lo ee company lo chese vadivi? sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT |
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Nice
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Post Number: 11885 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 115.112.100.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, December 31, 2015 - 07:16 am: |
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Ringo_rangaswamy:telugu speaking nerpiste Tollywood lo career kooda try seyyocchu
manchakkai laaga matladithe saala |
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Ringo_rangaswamy
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Post Number: 13498 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 67.80.127.158
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, December 31, 2015 - 07:07 am: |
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Sesani:on top of this okadu dancing, singing, swimming, tennis, soccer vornaaiiiinooooooooooooooo...
Fighting, horse riding, telugu speaking nerpiste Tollywood lo career kooda try seyyocchu |
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Ringo_rangaswamy
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Post Number: 13497 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 67.80.127.158
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, December 31, 2015 - 07:02 am: |
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Hero:igguleni parents..own ga emi cheyaleru gani... kids ni chava gotti chevulu moostunar... kids chilod hood distroy chestunar....
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Jai_ycp
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Post Number: 2734 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 108.31.48.178
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 02:01 pm: |
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Abcdefghij:baga competitive ga vundi seat rakapothe voche depression is tough to get over ani anukontunna...
that's what you have to teach your kids. life is made of success and failures. you should always pick up after defeat and move on. other solution suggested below of not exposing to competition is more dangerous. once they become adults and get set foot in real world, they succumb easily to cut throat life the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu |
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Jai_ycp
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Post Number: 2733 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 108.31.48.178
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 01:58 pm: |
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Rocketk2:We should also teach them to cope with disappointments
This is very important. There is 2 much protection to the kids and false sense of success and betterment. Life is very unjust and cruel. when you grow with so much protection and start your adult life, many people wont take the shit that happens. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu |
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Rajusk
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Post Number: 43784 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.231.6
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 01:35 pm: |
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Telugu_times:kids kooda oka pattaana home works end cheyyaru, they drag it till mid night for no reason. Madhya madhya lo, TV, video games, friends tho texting anukuntaa, they drag it till mid night
idi matram correct.. every nimute vallani manam soodalem kabatti..we have to trust them like our parents trusted us (text book lo comic petti saduvuthunnappudu ) |
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Emc2
Legend Username: Emc2
Post Number: 46303 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 12:45 pm: |
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Xxx:I have a cousin working on H1b for cgi, he works from home and not going to the client place , but production support , fresher basically
what i am saying is for IRS,some agencies allow h1 |
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Xxx
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Post Number: 10056 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 85.17.24.66
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 12:39 pm: |
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Emc2:Cgi k ichina u required have GC or
I have a cousin working on H1b for cgi, he works from home and not going to the client place , but production support , fresher basically - |
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Telugu_times
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Post Number: 46009 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.41.66.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 12:26 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:it seems middle school ninse almost 11 varaki homeworks/studies ... eti seyaalo thelvatledhi...
maa dhaggara middle school end varaku, cake walk, daily half an hour home works etc undevi but now in high school, thaata theesio again, kids kooda oka pattaana home works end cheyyaru, they drag it till mid night for no reason. Madhya madhya lo, TV, video games, friends tho texting anukuntaa, they drag it till mid night Ignore spam. |
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Mental_sachinodu
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Post Number: 18199 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 209.60.166.146
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 11:58 am: |
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birmingham to ATL move tharvaatha biggest disappointment idhe... chass... morning to evening 7 busy kids... WTF anukunnaan.... it seems middle school ninse almost 11 varaki homeworks/studies ... eti seyaalo thelvatledhi... |
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Bunty717
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Post Number: 47260 Registered: 02-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 11:51 am: |
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Bunty717:govt proj's eppuduu outsource cheyaru annai..
yes I meant offshore.. |
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Humpty_dumpty
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Post Number: 32291 Registered: 02-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 11:50 am: |
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outsource diff offshore kadha govt projects are outsourced yes - cgi, northrop, accenture, lockheed...villa antha contractors yay gaa offshore seyya koodadhu..cannot leave vomerica jurisdiction anukuntaaa outsource lo kooda gc or citizen restrictions for many projects |
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Bunty717
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Post Number: 47258 Registered: 02-2008
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 11:40 am: |
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Okahyderabadi:but IRS used to do it in 2011 not sure if they are doing it now
govt proj's eppuduu outsource cheyaru annai.. |
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Okahyderabadi
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Post Number: 5170 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 192.76.82.90
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 11:33 am: |
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Emc2: Ok you mean CPA work right, IRS never give their work off shore
CPA's are doing it, but IRS used to do it in 2011 not sure if they are doing it now In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day |
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Telugu_times
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Post Number: 46007 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.41.66.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 - 10:53 am: |
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Glad I am in Indiana Ignore spam. |
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Emc2
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Post Number: 46292 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:58 pm: |
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Xxx:
Cgi k ichina u required have GC or ead min |
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Emc2
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Post Number: 46291 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:56 pm: |
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Okahyderabadi:
Ok you mean CPA work right, IRS never give their work off shore |
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Gotcha
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Post Number: 23280 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 73.51.218.122
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:50 pm: |
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Aeronautical join avakandi massi, u will be doin job on acoustics or vibrations kind of stuff ... |
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Xxx
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Post Number: 10054 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 85.17.24.66
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:46 pm: |
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Okahyderabadi:
Okahyderabadi:but we are still sticking to - IT and medicine
demand supply , mango people will have mango kids who cannot dream big Top 10% cream have no issues, 80 % - 90 % range kids will have some , rest 50 - 80% range mango kids will have to get a push , medicine still has some demand , unless some robots take their place mutliplication tables aa raane vaalu aame research chestaru - |
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Okahyderabadi
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Post Number: 5156 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 31.220.45.6
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:41 pm: |
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Rajusk:Aeronautical engineering jobs in..firms like Lockheed Martin types
new forms of transportation will pick up in next few years, aerospace will experience great changes. Alternate sources of energy will have to evolve and will become strategic areas for countries. This is all known but we are still sticking to - IT and medicine In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day |
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Xxx
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Post Number: 10053 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 85.17.24.66
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:36 pm: |
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Starc:oo pali idhi sudandi kummi dobbadu
stupid index of american dummies, super - |
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Xxx
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Post Number: 10052 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 85.17.24.66
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:34 pm: |
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Emc2: federal govt work no off shor
Outsourced to H1b/L1 etc like CGI - |
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Rajusk
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Post Number: 43751 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 74.88.201.12
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:27 pm: |
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Okahyderabadi:Anything related to to AI and research in some areas will be ok. With all the cuts in research there is still no country like US which invests in research even now. The cycle to market for any product has reduced very much in most areas but research is still a good bet in niche area
Aeronautical engineering jobs in..firms like Lockheed Martin types |
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Okahyderabadi
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Post Number: 5155 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 185.22.183.201
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:27 pm: |
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Emc2:You have wrong info, federal govt work no off shore, not legal especially tax payer data involved
I never said federal work is offshore, i said federal lo most of IT is our guys. As far as taxation is concerned reviews of tax filings were done offshore couple of years ago not sure if that is still the case. In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day |
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Okahyderabadi
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Post Number: 5154 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 185.22.183.201
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:25 pm: |
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Rgb:Okahyderabadi: Legal and taxation back office work is being outsourced slowly. IRS also sending some work offshore for reviews. Govt services lo IT lo chala % mana vallu unnaru kada. I am not sure about Banking sector as I do not have much exposure to that sector. Emi migulatayo pedithe we will encourage kids in that direction
Anything related to to AI and research in some areas will be ok. With all the cuts in research there is still no country like US which invests in research even now. The cycle to market for any product has reduced very much in most areas but research is still a good bet in niche areas. In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day |
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Starc
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Post Number: 2134 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 71.248.175.41
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:25 pm: |
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https://youtu.be/ceEog1XS5OI?t=2593 oo pali idhi sudandi kummi dobbadu |
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Emc2
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Post Number: 46290 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:23 pm: |
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Okahyderabadi:
You have wrong info, federal govt work no off shore, not legal especially tax payer data involved |
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Rgb
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Post Number: 2342 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 71.187.193.15
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:21 pm: |
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Okahyderabadi:Legal and taxation back office work is being outsourced slowly. IRS also sending some work offshore for reviews. Govt services lo IT lo chala % mana vallu unnaru kada. I am not sure about Banking sector as I do not have much exposure to that sector.
Emi migulatayo pedithe we will encourage kids in that direction |
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Okahyderabadi
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Post Number: 5153 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 185.100.85.101
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:18 pm: |
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Rajusk:Ee lekkana ikkada migilina professions kooda oka list pettandi.. Media Law Govt services Business side of investment bank
Legal and taxation back office work is being outsourced slowly. IRS also sending some work offshore for reviews. Govt services lo IT lo chala % mana vallu unnaru kada. I am not sure about Banking sector as I do not have much exposure to that sector. In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day |
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Rajusk
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Post Number: 43750 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 74.88.201.12
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 09:10 pm: |
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Okahyderabadi:manufacturing jobs anni (85%) gone overseas - IT jobs outsourced ( ~75%) - except some areas - Schools are moving more towards online learning - so hiring is going down - Research funding is cut down in most areas - thanks to stupid politicians who don't know jack$hit about how much time it takes to come out with some results. easy violation of IPR by other countries - china mainly followed by India - so no protection for the hard work put in by research teams, so no return on investment.
Ee lekkana ikkada migilina professions kooda oka list pettandi.. Media Law Govt services Business side of investment bank |
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Okahyderabadi
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Post Number: 5149 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 185.101.107.189
Rating:  Votes: 5 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 07:43 pm: |
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Vere desham vachina mana basic mentality maradu, we indians are big time in to education.We have been groomed that way for a long time and its not an easy baggage to let go. Few observations I have made during my interactions with friends and how I generally perceive asian families 1. Parents are too much in to controlling their kids careers ( this is especially true of first generation asian immigrants). 2. There is no other option given to the kids - get in to medicine or engineering - just like it was back home. - Eamcet( engg or mbbs). 3. No sports, even if the kid is good in some sport it ends at high school level, academics take precedence. 4. No arts - same as above 5. Deeni valla, independent thinking is gone, creativity is gone. 6. This kind of parent coaching/setting direction for kids is very prevalent in south indian familes especially tamil and telugus. Now the reality USA lo - manufacturing jobs anni (85%) gone overseas - IT jobs outsourced ( ~75%) - except some areas - Schools are moving more towards online learning - so hiring is going down - Research funding is cut down in most areas - thanks to stupid politicians who don't know jack$hit about how much time it takes to come out with some results. easy violation of IPR by other countries - china mainly followed by India - so no protection for the hard work put in by research teams, so no return on investment. With all these factors - what is the future for kids here? - It sounds pretty pessimistic. As far as we go, We have made a conscious decision not to impose our views on our kids both of them who are in high school now, the eldest one preparing to go univ in couple of years. They have never been to any of the prep programs like kumon etc. I have provided them avenues to explore their interests and form their own preferences, my eldest one now wants to be an attorney and she is working towards that, the younger one wants to go in to research in material sciences. So are we all doing something bad by controlling what our kids should do? - As a parent we want the best for our kids, however we need to know where their interest lies in and encourage them to achieve it. They can be the best in their profession if they love it not if they are forced to do it. The situation is completely different from how we were brought up and how our kids grow up here. The faculties they are exposed to are diametrically opposite to what we have been exposed to back home. They are encouraged to question and reason out while we have been "manufactured" to do exactly the opposite. Coming to college education I don't think white kids are any different than our kids as far as their interests in education goes, their priorities shift after they get out of high school, this can be attributed to lack of guidance & cost of education too most of the times. This is where most of the asian parents score high over the natives. We save up for education for the kids most of the time and fund them through college, 95% times of 100 natives are opposite of this. So it takes a lot of perseverance and focus for native kids to complete their college degrees with all these factors. So while our kids get a free ride using parents money (most of the times - exceptions always there) it is not the case for others. Let the kids live their childhood, be the governing force and advise them but not kill their interests In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day |
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Meghan
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Post Number: 1413 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 76.122.78.172
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 07:17 pm: |
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This is nothing about America, But my experience... A person can excel irrespective of his schooling ..... |
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Aggipidugu116
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Post Number: 977 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 72.78.82.30
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 05:50 pm: |
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Asa anedi 3rd world country vallaki on average ekkuva..dani valla valla pillalu bali avutunnar.. |
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Whyme
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Post Number: 15685 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 96.237.243.100
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 05:33 pm: |
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Onlytruth:thupuk thupuk on indian chinku parenting
mari uleleyleylo ooleylo uleleyleyla oolelo Antu Mozambique style lo parenting cheyyala.. Competition is a pain but must too.. You should try enough to get enough competetivrness in your kid.. Then leave it to them ani maa idi.. But being hands off parent (like we are with our son) risk emo ani appudappudu anipisthundi when I see other parents talk about their kids their courses etc.. Kid can get complacent too |
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Agniparvatham
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Post Number: 4462 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.254.189.138
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aa link loo unna school district lone naa koduku (mu son) studying .... last 5yrs gaa ... ee schools loo every week edhoo oka exams mana unit test laga etc etc.... alanee marks 100 ki 105 to 110 kudaa estharuu konni subjects .... dheenithoo manam emii seppakapoyinaa pillaleee sadhuvukontaru .... andhuke emoo last year 16 ki emoo vachayii admissions MIT loo from westwidsor -pliansboro anii maa vadu breifudu me ... nenu maaa vadiki kastha school studies kaadhu kastha extra curricular activities kudaaaa cheyii raaa anii briefudu him.... but okati ayithe nijam ..... ee school district loo vachakaa .. pilladii sadhuvuu gurinchii befikar ...he is doing well ani .... so never bothered to put him any kumon type of things etc except myself briefudu him any maths issues that too occasssionally ..... but already it seems he is in 2 class advance maths loo unnadu antaa... means 8th grade looo ekkadii 10th grade level Advance Honors maths antha adhi sadhavachuu ani opt chehsukonnaduu ... |
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Post Number: 1122 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 72.21.225.66
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Jai_ycp:Success requires commitment and sacrifice especially for average and above to average students. its tough to decide what is extreme and what is not? If all America kids play why is there obesity in usa? Or why is the depression prelevant on them. Like the person said a white will have more opportunities compared to us if the kids are at same level. We have to go for extra mile. How many of you remember what you have studied or put effort now? None. We have very low chance in surviving non education careers.
Well said.. extremities always bad kaani.. kids do need a little push.. As adults we have to help them challenge their barriers. Forget about good schools and colleges.. that will help them in a long run.. We should also teach them to cope with disappointments Aakasaniki nichanesthe.. atakaina ekkochani.. |
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Post Number: 1121 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 72.21.225.66
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ee science fairs, medical papers, inventions chala impressive, if kids are really doing them. Infact, I adore all those kids under 15 when I see news on social media and other places. However, konni cases lo I saw the parents or some adults doing the work and crediting the kids name. Idhi unfair.. papam kastapadi potipade rest of the kids ki fair game kadhu |
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Abcdefj:put kids in good school with predominately tella tollu...discrimination vundochu but its easy to get along after sometime then competitive pressure of desi's and chinku's... ee desi's and chinku vunna kada nunchi our kids go around with same desi or chinku kids not good for them.
memu ide set chesam, ma vodi KG lo 3 sections kalipi 4 desis unnaru. yes, no, alright tho nettukochesthannad. Princeton, edison lo ee paatiki ekkaalu, spellings nerchukoni vundevademo. |
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Post Number: 17492 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232
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Jai_ycp:Manaki capacity lekha mana kid ki lekha average school lo petti dhaniko philosophy add cheyyatamu swakuchamardhana anthe
may be true but capacity vunna antha competition lo rakapothe depression ee kada even if you are 99.97% where as 95% kid in other schoool gets it??? india lo laga eamcet petti top 3000ranks gets it annaru kada ikkada so you might have to be little careful emo how you plan... satya nadella/sundar pichayi ippudu bane cheptaru failures are stepping stones keep high anni etc...valaki tagilina failures ento kuda chepithe telusundi...idi anthe anipistundi...baga competitive ga vundi seat rakapothe voche depression is tough to get over ani anukontunna... Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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Post Number: 34181 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10
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Asdf: my brother's frd used to switch off others alarms and hid books in library.
nuvvu inspiration emo dog.run |
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Rajusk
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Post Number: 43743 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.231.6
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Asdf: my brother's frd used to switch off others alarms and hid books in library.
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Post Number: 16342 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4
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Sesani:even though ur kid is super smart, because of the competition he/she may struggle
struggle ye kaadu, pressure valla leni jealousy vastadi kids ki. my brother's frd used to switch off others alarms and hid books in library. |
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Sesani
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Post Number: 34178 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10
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Jai_ycp:
annayya... nuvvu topic ni complete ga opposite direction la saduvutunnattu unnav.. Ikkada affordability gurinchi kaadu talking... even though ur kid is super smart, because of the competition he/she may struggle in these so called top school districts anedi matter ikkkada.. plus mana desi mentality meeda commenting.. |
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Post Number: 2732 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 166.137.244.123
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Ikkada chala mandhi andani draksha sour grapes type chebutunnaru kadha chaduvukunnodu kanna chakalodu nayamu anedhi nanudi adhi pattukuni andaru sadavu maneshthe emi avvudhi. Ikkada anthe. Us visa Raka india lo vundipoyi kotlu pogesinollu unaru inka beware ga vundetollu vunaru. If an average kids gets into top what will he or she do? They will get depression at that time. There will be always exceptions. If you put your kid in best school, he will get the right environment to exceed and build bonds and contacts that will help him. Manaki capacity lekha mana kid ki lekha average school lo petti dhaniko philosophy add cheyyatamu swakuchamardhana anthe the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu |
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Post Number: 17488 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232
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parents here send kids to IA and other top schools...they might be working hard as they have too much work but grades are falling as too many kids are doing good and work is getting tough so grades are low. this is nothing but money bokka for parents, depression for kids coz they went to top school but did not get admission in ivy or top schools. admissions appudu they wont see kid did too much homework which is tough so he got 3.9 gpa. vallaki antha time vundadu. they need to have special activities on resume etc. ade average school lo your kid topu aiyte admission easy Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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Post Number: 2338 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 162.115.236.102
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Akkada antha Chinese Amrican names e vunnayi - Tiger moms kadha enthaina |
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Post Number: 46271 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24
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here is the classic example oka T family with 3 to 4 kids vs one brahmin family with 2 kids Brahmin family kid TJ etc full telivi blah blah blaha, T kurrollu raods meeda palying best buy lo working avarage grades cut chesthe TJ kid go to virgina univ, T kurroll all 3 go to VT desam lo M-cet scores vasthe saripothadi, ikkada ala work out avvadu, you decide what you want for your kids
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Post Number: 17487 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232
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Xxx:Next door tellolu doesn't play with my kids , parents teach their kids to not to mix with desi, so issue are their always
its like this rao garu we wont send our kids to nall tholu unless we are pretty sure its safe or good to... takes time...you might have to start the chat get to know or try someother houses emo... Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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Post Number: 2731 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 166.137.244.123
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Success requires commitment and sacrifice especially for average and above to average students. its tough to decide what is extreme and what is not? If all America kids play why is there obesity in usa? Or why is the depression prelevant on them. Like the person said a white will have more opportunities compared to us if the kids are at same level. We have to go for extra mile. How many of you remember what you have studied or put effort now? None. We have very low chance in surviving non education careers. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu |
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Post Number: 43741 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.231.6
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Sesani:It is always better to be in an average school dist. and be No. 1 in the school than be in top school dist. and be an average kid... the chances of the kid going to a top school are higher in first case..
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Post Number: 17486 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232
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Sesani:It is always better to be in an average school dist. and be No. 1 in the school than be in top school dist. and be an average kid... the chances of the kid going to a top school are higher in first case..
this is 100% true dont blindly send kids to high ranking school dist. colleges here do not take top kids in US. they want good mix of kids from all backgrounds meaning all school districts. good school lo 100 #1 kids vunna only three will be taken in ivy. ade average school lo mana kid top lo vunte voche chances high as not everyone will apply for ivy or top school also Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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Post Number: 2846 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 167.187.101.241
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Sesani:It is always better to be in an average school dist. and be No. 1 in the school than be in top school dist. and be an average kid.
this is perfectly true... na childhood experience - state syllabus school lo 5th clas varuku nene first in studies. 6th nunchi CBSE modhalu.. B grade, C grade and D grades vachai..10th lo 65%.... aa debbatho..Intermediate college ki vellala..only tutions..and I did very well. |
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Post Number: 896 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 199.90.60.4
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why don't we learn from our own experience? Almost all of my school and college friends are well settled. Many of them failed repeatedly in school. American Desi over action is unbearable. They are torturing the students at young age with all kinds of activities. |
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Post Number: 18635 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.55.231
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Xxx:f you don't push the Indian kids , how will they compete the boats load of kids who will be migrating in near feature from India /china and rest of the world ? -
rao garu...eelatho compete avvali ante jara street smartness, appaudu marketlo unna latest skill ki taggatu snake dance eyyatam etc nerpinchali..also undergrad and masters edho vidhamga degree sampadinchu ani set chesthe chal anukuntuna... sinpati nundi ruddhudu enduku?? interlo nenu nagarjuna series S chand series antha batti kottesa..aa booklo nerchukunadi 1% naa MSlo ayina kaani, job lo ayina kaani vadithe ottu..enduku ala sadivano naake teliyadu.. |
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Post Number: 34174 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 207.140.166.10
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Few months back break room la oka disco from peddayana - It is always better to be in an average school dist. and be No. 1 in the school than be in top school dist. and be an average kid... the chances of the kid going to a top school are higher in first case.. |
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Abcdefghij:dont take houses in desi and chinku community....dabbulu bokka as we jack up the prices + too many of our breed.
Next door tellolu doesn't play with my kids , parents teach their kids to not to mix with desi, so issue are their always - |
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Post Number: 2927 Registered: 11-2014 Posted From: 158.74.35.7
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Sesani:hey add DC area also yaaa... In general desi hubs mottam ide routine .. chusss
Enni sadivina sivariki DB ee final destination antava.. |
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naku anipistundi....nenu cheyaledu... may be wrong also but dont take houses in desi and chinku community....dabbulu bokka as we jack up the prices + too many of our breed. send to one activity of your choice and one activity of kids' choice. put kids in good school with predominately tella tollu...discrimination vundochu but its easy to get along after sometime then competitive pressure of desi's and chinku's... ee desi's and chinku vunna kada nunchi our kids go around with same desi or chinku kids not good for them. problem now lot of parents seeing is kids in predominate asian schools even if kid is 99.97% he may not get admission in good colleges. Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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Airliner:
Airliner:
As rest of Not Next door neighbor, to get a job, to get a college admission in a decent college etc Why are Indians getting jobs in us with high paid salaries, where as rest of average us household income is 60k or less. Is it OK for a kid to work in a store or fast food chain - |
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Xxx:how will they compete?
competition denik i.. pakkanoditho polchukunnantha kalam you loose.. Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people. |
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Post Number: 43740 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.231.6
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Abcdefghij:push cheyakapothe gadgets tho life nadisipothadi...push cheste guilt + eduru tirigithe depression...its a tough world....desi's antha kodiga relax avvali
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If we don't push our kids, how will they compete? If they are good in music will they become rehamans, If you are good in cricket in India, will it be a ,they need profession, how can a b grade be OK? if the kid is mango kid like a mango dad, they need some extra push, else if the kids have rich parents they will live on them - |
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Reentry: I get nervous sometimes that my kid is not reading at all 10 days holidays lo okka roju kooda pusthakam pattaledhu Homework ante already done in school antaaru - exam ki chadavandi ante school lo chadivaam antaaru
Same with my daughter. 10th grade. school winter break started on 19th December Around January 11th nunchi 1st semester exams. still she is not serious No Signature |
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Rajusk:juice kurrol and elite Tamil kurrol lifestyle
mana elite and juice telugu kurrol ki kuda tuitions/extraclasses/grilling vuntadi anne raju garu... but as a parent its tough to know what is correct or wrong....push cheyakapothe gadgets tho life nadisipothadi...push cheste guilt + eduru tirigithe depression...its a tough world....desi's antha kodiga relax avvali
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Abcdefghij:maa office lo tellalodu no extra coaching no extra classes...kid got into all ivy colleges...she chose MIT. she is good in swimming/skating malli...she does swimming and skating till 10 till night when other kids are reading reading reading
vunkul if you are comparing juice kurrol and elite Tamil kurrol lifestyle and achievements with mango Telugu kurrol..it is byaad..will not myaatch |
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Rajusk
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Post Number: 43736 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.231.6
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Emc2:if a kid has another talents push him into those streams, ikkada just school ki vellina B grades vasthayi, he is ok with that education but he will shine in another stream..
ante..ninnu sinnapude vadilesi unte..inka big magnate ayyevaadivi annamata .. |
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Post Number: 17482 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232
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ee desapu education system ni M kudipindi matuku mana desi's ee 10000%. chinku gallu ekkuva chaduvutaru to overcome their lack of english etc but dont go for excessive tution/classes/grilling but desi's echuki ruddude ruddudu... i think thats our trait...entha kadu/cheyakudadu anukona entho kontha push chesstam(including me)....kondaru marrrrrrrrrri too much aa pressure ki manam automatic ga chestam... maa office lo tellalodu no extra coaching no extra classes...kid got into all ivy colleges...she chose MIT. she is good in swimming/skating malli...she does swimming and skating till 10 till night when other kids are reading reading reading Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 |
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desam lo, luckily pressure antha ekkuva vundedi kaadu when i grew up. if at all there was pressure, it was self induced. exam fail aina parvaledu, dont be awake after 11 ani strict rule maa intlo  |
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OT kurrod screenshot is arachakam matter aa NJ county made a U-turn now kaani many counties are only half way through now their school programs are geared or getting ramped up towards academic acheivements backlash vachina kaada revert button kodathaaru, koduthunaaru |
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Xxx: if my parents let me choose not to study , what would I have ended up ?
expect chesa ilane aalochistharu ani.. i refer kumon because reading and english here is very important, we should try to put them in some activities, i know kids don't like to study, but we should try to push based on their interest, some kids have talent but they wanted to paly, thats where we need to balance, if the kid in not at all interested there is no point of pushing him same with sports and arts, ala ani basic education lekunda vadileyamani cheppadam ledu, if a kid has another talents push him into those streams, ikkada just school ki vellina B grades vasthayi, he is ok with that education but he will shine in another stream.. |
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Emc2:es i learnt this, and i am observing lot of high school and college kids here for example if the 100 people go to TJ that doesn't mean that all of them go to MIT and start google like companies, dantlo 80 students go to state good colleges and start working in IT, in another way if average student with B grades they also go to state good colleges and start working in IT ultimately evaru eppudu ela turn avutharo manaki teleedu, only thing is vallani displine lo petti min push isthe they will shine mana generation lo kuda not all IIT's are in top position, same time not all galli collage grads are useless
well said A rating vuncle we turned out to be good even though we are avg engineering students BALANCE is key anukontunna |
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nenu VA schools situation gurinchi vesina numbers % ye ikkada NJ school stats lo hospitalized kids(due to pressure) data tho matching..NJ lo psycho analysis ki pampinchina valla numbers ye antha high unte imagine ....calm ga anti-depresssant pills vesukune kids |
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Onlytruth
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Humpty_dumpty:OT kurrod posted few personal messages from a school guidance counselor about pressure on kids
here u go : VA lo esp those TJ desi kids common anta few SAT/ACT perfect score and that obviolusly pushed others into peer pressure and parents typical comparisons also 60% or more desi kids are on anti-depressant pills anta VA lo http://imgur.com/Vw0sou9 |
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Tombrady:peer pressure
yes i learnt this, and i am observing lot of high school and college kids here for example if the 100 people go to TJ that doesn't mean that all of them go to MIT and start google like companies, dantlo 80 students go to state good colleges and start working in IT, in another way if average student with B grades they also go to state good colleges and start working in IT ultimately evaru eppudu ela turn avutharo manaki teleedu, only thing is vallani displine lo petti min push isthe they will shine mana generation lo kuda not all IIT's are in top position, same time not all galli collage grads are useless |
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Rajusk:compared to other south indian aakul..telugu aakul thakkuva..ee game lo antunna
naa sample size la telugu ekkuva kanipisthar northie takkuva tennis raadu allaki sarigga |
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Asdf:eti ala anesaaru. kid tennis kosam states ye move aithunnaru.
compared to other south indian aakul..telugu aakul thakkuva..ee game lo antunna |
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Rajusk:i have rarely run into Telugu parents at Tennis ..
eti ala anesaaru. kid tennis kosam states ye move aithunnaru. |
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Emc2: kumon and aloha, if they like it that is fine, if they don't like it don't push them, find out another alternative..
I don't know how many kids will like to read ( math/english ) if they have alternative to play all day In India , math was easy as the rest of the subjects we are forced to remember , In US there is no need to remember much so , there is no incentive to learn math And most of the Indian kids has no physic to become starts like basketball or baseball , Very easy to say , we should let kid choose what he needs, if my parents let me choose not to study , what would I have ended up ? - |
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OT kurrod posted few personal messages from a school guidance counselor about pressure on kids sesani the search engine...please do your magic yaa |
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ayina ikkada schools lo kuda comedy PTA meetings lo don't send your kids to GT coaching antaru, another side school lo pamphlets panchuthunnaru GT ki coaching ki ekkadiki vellalo everybody is confused, evarini thappu analemu, ultimately mana kids entha load teesukuntaro ai cheyadam better thats ok mana pillalu IAS IPS lanti tests pass ayyaru ani cheppu koleka poyina, its a psychological game |
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Humpty_dumpty:tennis etc. lo yemuntaadhi for parents
nen anedi reinforcing the skills or game gurinchi.. very few of our guys play with the kids antunna.. gumpullaga car la lo poyi akkada dimpi..pick up matrame seyyadam kaadu..parents have to be actively involved antunna..not fees kattama..vachama..types have seen Tam/Kannada/Northie kurrol doing this |
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Emc2:
sababugane cheppar, peer pressure biggest culprit so far anukontunna |
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Rajusk:i have rarely run into Telugu parents at Tennis ..
i have seen quite a few raju gaaru |
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emc kurrod korrest gaa seppad rajan all activities are at rec level and competitive level rec level soccer, tennis etc. lo yemuntaadhi for parents...coach seppindhee syyi...a little bit of motivation talk from us interest untay go for competitive level...soccer, tennis, even things like taekwondo |
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Humpty_dumpty:kid college application lo raasukovaali soccer team lo star player or niche skills like music lo recognition etc. it is not like parents are Shankar sastris or yograj singhs ...they think they are helping the kids to become a better college prospect...sometimes yes, sometimes no - end result
sometimes yes la entha ruddings sometimes no la what went wrong anedhi parents chudali ani thed vuncle lekunte kinda link laga aipothar emo ani |
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Rajusk:i have rarely run into Telugu parents at Tennis .. my sample size might be small..but manavallu akkada opikaga koorsoni..kid game choosi..suggestions gatra...konchem kashtam..edo drop off..grocery shopping and india calling ante..manollu first untaru Soccer lo untaru..because you drop off and come back and pick up..and no need of monitoring skills
sample size growing lendi recent yrs ga soccer and tennis parents should teach them close ga, chilli chickens baga nerpisthar tennis matram kudrithe softball adinchali adi veasy kooda and other kids tho easy ga kalavochu |
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//agree adi esp piano etc lanti ninche skills chesthe oppukon tennis,skating,skiing,soccer is fine peer pressure or not ani naa feeling// kid college application lo raasukovaali soccer team lo star player or niche skills like music lo recognition etc. it is not like parents are Shankar sastris or yograj singhs ...they think they are helping the kids to become a better college prospect...sometimes yes, sometimes no - end result |
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Tombrady:tennis,skating,skiing,soccer is fine peer pressure or not ani naa feeling
Kids active gaa undali..sport aadali ani parents thinking sesthar...mostly.. i have rarely run into Telugu parents at Tennis .. my sample size might be small..but manavallu akkada opikaga koorsoni..kid game choosi..suggestions gatra...konchem kashtam..edo drop off..grocery shopping and india calling ante..manollu first untaru Soccer lo untaru..because you drop off and come back and pick up..and no need of monitoring skills |
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tappadu koti vidyalu kooti kosam ani our kids have to hone all skills to be competitve in next generation |
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ento mee athi.. parents ki em kavalo adi cheyadam kadu, kids ki emi kavalo adi cheyandi ala ani vallaki gadgets istam ani day mottam ade ivvakunadi, its a learning time for both parents and kids.. every kid is different, valla talents ni gurthinchadi, encourage them in that, its like a experiment and identify, there is nothing wrong in kumon and aloha, if they like it that is fine, if they don't like it don't push them, find out another alternative.. encourage them in sports and arts, don't be stereotype, first parents peer pressure loki rakunda vallaki vallu practice chesthe half of the problems will resolve |
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Sesani:some kid is doing this, chalo mana kid ni kuda cheddam... adi common ayitundi in desi crowd... saying this based on the experience.. repu aa pressure ni nen kuda chestanemo, u never know 
agree adi esp piano etc lanti ninche skills chesthe oppukon tennis,skating,skiing,soccer is fine peer pressure or not ani naa feeling |
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INDIA lo kooda inthe kada inka nasty aipoyindhi tappadu kids ki education esp mediocre graders ki ruddali entha varaku ruddali anedhi big question |
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Tombrady:adi load release laga kada, when u play more it is good for health and mind
not denying that... but ikkada peer pressure scenarios gamaninchaali... some kid is doing this, chalo mana kid ni kuda cheddam... adi common ayitundi in desi crowd... saying this based on the experience.. repu aa pressure ni nen kuda chestanemo, u never know  |
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ias, ips lantivi yemaina local gaa maanchi posts untay avi kooda set essay wallam under coaching kindha seppinattu Chinese tiger moms are peakest in demanding |
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Onlytruth: DALLAS, NJ Metro area
Dallas -irving walmart ki velte ...99% manolle unnar kids ki 1/2 day kooda rest ivvakunda kummese batch chala mandi unnar..
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Tombrady:eti ivi NASA laga nova?
northern virginia  |
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JOB super dhi dorikite tappa, more or less equal other opportunities elsewhere unte avoid like plague cheyyalsina areas : DALLAS, NJ Metro area , VA-DC Metro its herd mentality ...vandha mandhi mana vallE unte majority in the group behavior change ayipotundhi by blood or by force we will be pushed to same shit plagued HYD-VJA society greed showoff gajji all blossoms again ade small or mid range telugu valla communities unna cities towns in USA lo aa problem ekkuva undadu more ppl more gabbu na nagalu chudu na cheeralu chudu na car chudu daridrapu buddhulu strikes |
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Rajusk:winter lo physical activity ante..Xbox ae kada..your honor
meeku kaadu andi kids ki antunnad |
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Biriyani:west windsor or plainsboro lo thappa inkekkada house buying ki 1% approval kuda ledu wife nunchi
Yo..South Brunswick..Ridge road meeda...502,000 ki 2200 sft Townhouses..walking distance to South Brunswick High ischool.. $5000 initial deposit..one week to decide..3 months lo 10% down payment.. phone # kavalante seppu..will forward  |
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Onlytruth:thupuk thupuk on indian chinku parenting
2 X 3 =? how aantadu maa next door 3rd grade omerican kid , if you don't push the Indian kids , how will they compete the boats load of kids who will be migrating in near feature from India /china and rest of the world ? - |
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Biriyani:at least an hour of physical activity daily leni childhood is not a childhood
winter lo physical activity ante..Xbox ae kada..your honor  |
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Reentry:Raju garu as a senior parent in the DB konni suggestions ivvandi
nen Senior parent ni kaadu compared to Anand and OkaHyd and YSR2009...but can understand..as I am going thru the same phase ..ippudu intlo.. I know of some parents who setup 2 or 3 hour cut off for gadgets..not sure..if that is flying ..for them or not.. give them assignments that will keep them busy for an hour or two during holidays..not more than that..may be reinforce some already completed units Whyme/Bunty vunkuls kooda milk sharing sesthe..andaram oka idea ki ravochu |
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at least an hour of physical activity daily leni childhood is not a childhood |
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Biriyani
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west windsor or plainsboro lo thappa inkekkada house buying ki 1% approval kuda ledu wife nunchi  |
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Sachin:NOVA lo TJ coaching....GT training....comedy unlimted
eti ivi NASA laga nova? |
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Tombrady
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Sesani: am not saying thats an issue.... kids ki unna 'load' inka perugutundi with these activities is what I am saying.. weekends vasthe saalu... both days gone with dancing, singing or some other sessions..
adi load release laga kada, when u play more it is good for health and mind kids have to play and enjoy, weekends ante mana laga movies chudali relax avvali ani vundahdu kada |
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Onlytruth:avoid cheyyalsina areas : DALLAS, NJ Metro area
hey add DC area also yaaa... In general desi hubs mottam ide routine .. chusss |
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NOVA lo TJ coaching....GT training....comedy unlimted |
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Tombrady
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so balance cheyyali studies and sports? when we were kids even our parents followed the script but they let us play more and study a bit, basic ga lucky generation manadi |
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Raju garu as a senior parent in the DB konni suggestions ivvandi |
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Sesani
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Tombrady: tennis,swimming,soccer, dancing ki eti issue? kumon etc issue ante ok kaani
i am not saying thats an issue.... kids ki unna 'load' inka perugutundi with these activities is what I am saying.. weekends vasthe saalu... both days gone with dancing, singing or some other sessions.. |
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JOB super dhi dorikite tappa, more or less equal other opportunities unte elsewhere unte avoid cheyyalsina areas : DALLAS, NJ Metro area |
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Rajusk
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Reentry:10 days holidays lo okka roju kooda pusthakam pattaledhu Homework ante already done in school antaaru - exam ki chadavandi ante school lo chadivaam antaaru
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sesani, tennis,swimming,soccer, dancing ki eti issue? kumon etc issue ante ok kaani |
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Onlytruth:thupuk thupuk on indian chinku parenting
Indians slightly better than chinks... Chinks are like Prakash Raj from Anthapuram... too violent and demanding.. sadavakapothe thokki naara teestaru |
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Reentry:Bradesh maree eppudu choosina computers and gadgets anukunte etlaa ani chadavamanta appudappudu -- veellu chadavaru gaaka chadavaru
bayataku tesukellandi vuncle sports swimming or skiing or skating etc ani winter kabatti i know edo chepthunna ippudu aa time ki even i don't know how i will be |
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U gotta be in NJ to feel this yaa... too much pressure on kids... okadu ridgewood antaadu, okadu milburn antaadu, okadu north edison antaadu, okadu princeton antaadu... deenemma jeevithaaa... kids ki maatram narakam showing... going to these tops schools is such a punishment of an average kid i tell ya... on top of this okadu dancing, singing, swimming, tennis, soccer vornaaiiiinooooooooooooooo... |
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mana desi parents comedy naa valla kaaadu..may be few years lo nenu anthe emo.. week lo 2 days kumon antaru...inko 2 days inkedo antaaru....best braisn antaru....okadu violin class antaaru..inkodu classical dance antaaaru..most of these kids looks like nerds to me....kooja mohalu eskoni ..sight vachi glasses pettukoni...already bojjja eskoni.. papam pillalni aadukonindayyaaa... |
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Reentry
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Post Number: 4178 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 65.198.163.148
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:52 am: |
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Bradesh maree eppudu choosina computers and gadgets anukunte etlaa ani chadavamanta appudappudu -- veellu chadavaru gaaka chadavaru planning to move to a place where there is lot of Desi crowd and they can feel the competition but ilaanti news choosthe bayamestondhi |
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Tombrady
Legend Username: Tombrady
Post Number: 41981 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.220.32
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:51 am: |
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Onlytruth:thupuk thupuk on indian chinku parenting
mari generalize cheyyak, thupuk on omerican kooda lekunte drop outs vundevi kaavi kada ee crying on us vundedhi kaadu |
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Onlytruth
Legend Username: Onlytruth
Post Number: 177515 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 107.77.89.30
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:46 am: |
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thupuk thupuk on indian chinku parenting |
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Hero
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Post Number: 8098 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 104.177.182.44
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:45 am: |
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sigguleni parents..own ga emi cheyaleru gani... kids ni chava gotti chevulu moostunar... kids chilod hood distroy chestunar.... |
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Tombrady
Legend Username: Tombrady
Post Number: 41980 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.220.32
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:45 am: |
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Reentry:10 days holidays lo okka roju kooda pusthakam pattaledhu
holidays kada vuncle y book pattali just asking? |
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Guru
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Post Number: 9168 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 72.76.196.228
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:44 am: |
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Desis prefer north Edison n Princeton school districts, no different from rat race back in India |
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Reentry
Side Hero Username: Reentry
Post Number: 4176 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 65.198.163.148
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:43 am: |
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Dallas lo kooda baane perugutondhi ee madya inthakee manam eti cheyyali bayya?? I get nervous sometimes that my kid is not reading at all 10 days holidays lo okka roju kooda pusthakam pattaledhu Homework ante already done in school antaaru - exam ki chadavandi ante school lo chadivaam antaaru |
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Tombrady
Legend Username: Tombrady
Post Number: 41979 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.220.32
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:40 am: |
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very scary, |
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Leader
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Post Number: 1351 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 73.42.160.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Tuesday, December 29, 2015 - 10:33 am: |
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http://www.nytimes.com/2015/12/26/nyregion/reforms-to-ease-s tudents-stress-divide-a-new-jersey-school-district.html |