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Startrek
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couple of years houston lo okame unlicensed home day care naduputundedi..madhyanampillala nap time appudu she locked the house and went to walmart for quick shopping. ame vache lopala house was on fire and 4 babies (12 months to 3 years) all died in their cribs

personal experience to cheptunna, if you need to leave your kid then leave them a licensed daycare school.. in home daycares, nannies assalu vaddu
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..additional maintenance cost clothing or others...min $2500 avutundhi second income person ki.... avi ponu chetiki enti migiledhi $500 per month ??


after tax just 3k matrame earnings ani ela decide chesav nuvvu? ssay wife and husband 100k each vesukunte, atleast 5k to hand vatundi iddariki
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$1500-$2000 easy ga avutundhi plus second car plus car insurance plus gas..additional maintenance cost clothing or others...min $2500 avutundhi second income person ki.... avi ponu chetiki enti migiledhi $500 per month ??


ashton kurrod cheppay billing rate lekkalu ivi
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akkada aa lady di entha tappo parents di kuda tappe...

papam case evaru file chesaru kids parents aa....i know its tough on parents too but papam other lady life kuda padu ayyindi kada....

manaki telise pedtamu desi home care lo just for our convenience....licensed kadu ani telise vuntadi aa kid parents ki.....

aa case lo grandparents vunna what would have been different?
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I have seen close friends send kids who are less than 3 months to day care.. I can never understand it.. I thought I am the only one thinking like this.. good to see more dber's with same thought process..
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Maserati:

HD sacrificed her career despite good credentials and opportunities because we didn't want to leave kids at any care center. Probably would have lost few hundred thousands extra



i salute her
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Timepasskosam:

to gain job experience and self confidence




graduation to mRRIAge chese job

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marraige to pregnancy chese job

5-6 yrs plus experience saripodaa ?

2 yrs break teesukunte venukabadutara ?
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Kids ki 3 years/ until they can speak , Mom or Grand parents care is must.. I know its not possible for lot of parents but anytime I had to leave kid with a day care or nanny, I feel guilty..Even if the Nanny/ daycare has lot of good references, I can never have 100% confidence in them as they are not parents and your kid is just one of the many to them..
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it comes down to personal choice OT. In our case, HD sacrificed her career despite good credentials and opportunities because we didn't want to leave kids at any care center. Probably would have lost few hundred thousands extra income over the years but money is not the only thing in life.
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grand parents ni maximum utilize chesukodam best..both working vallu
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Onlytruth:

avi ponu chetiki enti migiledhi $500 per month ??



to gain job experience and self confidence
think of unfortunate situation like something happens to spouse - they are ready to face consequences
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Andaru ala vundaru, theleeka chesinda ani doubt ga vundi. It comes down to personal choices where to leave your kid annadi. Kontha mandiki career important, inkontha mandiki money avasaram..without knowing the other side of the story it's not good to judge..
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I read a quote some where and it goes like this

"' The less time you spend with your kids you pay more money in the future and vice versa"""
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both parents job Income kosam Babies ni full day care ( 0-3 age madhyalo) pampe valla stats naku ardham kaadhu..

$1500-$2000 easy ga avutundhi plus second car plus car insurance plus gas..additional maintenance cost clothing or others...min $2500 avutundhi second income person ki.... avi ponu chetiki enti migiledhi $500 per month ??

em jesukuntaam aa millions ??
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Uppu:

kontha mandi parents start 3 months nunchi day care start chestaru, kids kosam until high school break tesu konna vallu unnaru

it is choice, kid future or money




well said..its personal choice...and i respect every individual's own choice...but I/WE can make comment/analysis on overall so that future parents make appropriate choice....


most cases career kosam kakunda money kosame.... Career emi avutundhi emi kaadhu 2-3 yrs break teesukunte especially USA lanti CONTRACT based IT job world lo...career wont be harmed...technical foundation unte easily one can brushup their skills when needed....
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Onlytruth:

This incident is 1 in thousands pure bad luck case , circumstantially exposed untrained ,illegal baby care centres weakpoint....

Own parents mistakes negligence valla kids life poina incidents even more...

alage professional day cares lo jarige accidents even more %....


but end of the day, blame will on untrained ones....just because untrained ones...

aithe ee case lo trained vs untrained clearly visibile....if this case exactly started occuring in same sequence in trained day care, aa baby ki assalu emi ayyedhi kaadhu...immediate medical assistance undedhi




desis months babies ki care provide cheyatam nen first time chustunnaan..mana vallu ekkuva afercare type untundi..potty trained ayite ne kaani vellu kids ni chudaru..
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Maverick:

why only wives should stay at home and sacrifice their career? ot konchem cheppama..why cant u stay at home and take care?




my good neighbor who is an american is doing this.. He is a teacher and took time off to stay home with his 2 kids and raise them instead of giving his pay cheque to Day care. Loooks like his wife makes more money than him... It worked out well for them..
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Unfortunate incident. Feel sorry for both the kid and provider.
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This incident is 1 in thousands pure bad luck case , circumstantially exposed untrained ,illegal baby care centres weakpoint....

Own parents mistakes negligence valla kids life poina incidents even more...

alage professional day cares lo jarige accidents even more %....


but end of the day, blame will on untrained ones....just because untrained ones...

aithe ee case lo trained vs untrained clearly visibile....if this case exactly started occuring in same sequence in trained day care, aa baby ki assalu emi ayyedhi kaadhu...immediate medical assistance undedhi
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mana db keyboard veerulu one size fits all type suggestions istaaru eti tokkalodi..

lacha untaayi scenerios/issues/probs untaayi .. db janam chesindee correct vere vallaki kids ante love ledu annatu eti ee tokkalo posts..
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Cocanada:

boledu complications untaayi vegetarians ki. allergies gatraa unte inkaa kashtam

konni situations lo ilaati desi day cares ki pampaalsostundi




neeku inka kids leru..nuvvu kooda cheppestunnava.. veggies ki chepte clear ga options unnai..and u can send home food also with doctors letter. day care lo vallu icchevi sarigga tinakapote intiki vacchaka pettatame..its lot better than leaving in unlicensed day cares or staying at home for moms..maree 2-3 yrs intlo koorchavala..at toddler age, intlo tv serials bocchu tappa emi undav..1 yr taruvata daucare best for their social skills and growth
Happy Vizag
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Cocanada:

boledu complications untaayi vegetarians ki. allergies gatraa unte inkaa kashtam

konni situations lo ilaati desi day cares ki pampaalsostundi



there are dozens of kids who are veggies and school makes sure they dont get meat
every meal lo meat alternative untundhee
nut, gluten etc allergies walla school parking lot lo kooda boards untaayi
again if the baby develops an allergic reaction - whom would you trust? one person or a facility where there are more than a few who got some kind of basic training , have a procedure to follow to check for symptoms , raise alarm, call emergency services etc

serious medical grounds ayithay ignore kottu
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Maverick,

Why men cant deliver instead lanti vitamda vaadam seyyaku
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respect to strong willed mothers who take the decision to either stay at home or send kids to a licensed day care *after* doing 100s of checks


ittanti home day care pampudhaam ani decision nee support chesina weak ass moguds nee laagi oka 4-5 peekali...period


rest mee bad luck, timing etc
you create chances by the decisions you take and this is not a split second one...you would have spent at least a few hrs going over it
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Maverick,

Comedy aapu...men cant do mamy major things in raising babies
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why only wives should stay at home and sacrifice their career? ot konchem cheppama..why cant u stay at home and take care?
Happy Vizag
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We did not send our daughter to day care until she is 2 years. Until then, By the time I come home, illanthha kishkinda kaanda..Then we started sending her part time to a licensed Day care where we have the option to see her on video. It worked out well.
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Kuyyo_morro:

Ikkada raise chesina parents are well versed not to shake the kid whatever the situation might be.




India lo almost chala mandiki telusu, shake cheyyakodadu ani
Akkada mana kanna ssan exp mothers and ladies untaaru

voopiri aagipovatam to kangaaru padinatlu unnadi
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After 1 yr kids become so active.. I knew few families who sent the kid part time to day care to have the kid to mingle and play with other kids.
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boledu complications untaayi vegetarians ki. allergies gatraa unte inkaa kashtam

konni situations lo ilaati desi day cares ki pampaalsostundi

:-(
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BABIES ni upright position lo koorsobeetti ASSALU FEED CEYAKOODADHU babies ante 8 months below ani naa artham .

till 8 months bbaies ni slanting position ante thala etthugaa petti feed cheyaali bcos till 6 montsh vallaku meda nilapatam raadhu.

also feed cheyatam ayipoyina tharvatahbujam meedha vesukuni BURP vacche varaku pattukuni undaali ante valla moham mee bujam ni thaakuthu undaali mee cheyi valal veepu meedha from top to bottom slow gaa relaxing gaa move avuthu undaali then they burp and themn make them sleep

assalu SHAKE ceyakooddahu if they cry try to console them by putting u r cheeks close to their cheeks and by carrying them on u r shoulders basically cheek to ckeek touching will relax many babies
even if tehy cry GIVE 0.5 ML OF COLICAID they might be crying bcos of stomach unrets.
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Most parents at least moms who raised abcd kids know not to shake. Either she raised her kid in India till kid was school age or she doesnt have kids.

Ikkada raise chesina parents are well versed not to shake the kid whatever the situation might be.
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Sesani:

Hmm.. i really doubt if its a natural reaction bhayya.. assalu 4 months ago kids tho zero experience unna naaku natural instinct is kids are delicate and make sure u dnt put too much stress part of the body... inka India and indian relatives aithe naaku idea ledu.. any ways sad for the family...




US lo 50,000 cases per year and most doctor's say thats what untrained people do when they dont know what else to do. Search for shaken child syndrome.
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kontha mandi parents start 3 months nunchi day care start chestaru, kids kosam until high school break tesu konna vallu unnaru

it is choice, kid future or money

Lenin:

YS Raja Reddy murderer kadu...edaina case lo convict ayyada YS Raja Reddy? let me know...


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Onlytruth:

Job manesi mother ye kid schooling age( or atleast age 3) varaku chusukovali




Idi asalu maata..andar snake dance lu vesthunnar...actual gaa cheyalsindi idi!
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aina sadukuni job chese parents kudaa budhi lekunda behave chesthunnaru...




Banda boothulu tittalsindi veellani...not the lady in jail...kakkurthi mundodukulu mana desi janatha...iddar sampadinchali and karchulu yemo short cut lo takkuva karchu tho nadichi povali and finally PAADE meeda yesukoni povali aa sampadana antha! I see a lot of our folks looking for less expensive options even at the risk of lives...oka aayana 9 year and 6 year kida ni after school day care lo pettakunda iddarne intlo unche vaadi parents work nundi ochhe varaku...all to save some money on after school care!
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chaala mandi desi day care owners only school going kids ki care provide chestaaru..

so infants or toddlers mostly amru chains ee ampaali..
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Untrained adults (many cases of relativs also doing this) most common ga chesedhi idhe. Looks like its a natural reaction. Entha dangerous o will be know only through education


Hmm.. i really doubt if its a natural reaction bhayya.. assalu 4 months ago kids tho zero experience unna naaku natural instinct is kids are delicate and make sure u dnt put too much stress part of the body... inka India and indian relatives aithe naaku idea ledu.. any ways sad for the family...
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aame daridram , aa kid parents daridram anthe...bad luck...mind pani jeyyaledh aavidaki


yaa.. agree!!
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parents n aa daycare avidaa badluck. ante ..pschhhh
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kids ki discipline and schedules ki alavatu avataniki konchem time padthundi emo kani but still licensed day cares are safe and best..kids easily adapt to change..few weeks parents kastha opika padithe set ayipotharu...many parents giveup here and telisina avida ayithe feed chesthundi ani pampistharu....valla frustations vallaki untayi...manake mood swings okala undavu.....so inka non parents kids ni handle cheyyali ante matalu kadu




my daughter stayed home with mother for13 months and then wife started woking.

first few weeks daycare lo drop chesthunee edupu modalu pettededhi

Voorkukopettadaniki wait chesthaantee they used to say, just leave her and go without seeing her. we will handle. If she refuses to eat for 20-25 days then only we worry annaaru.


first two days oka Friend daggara vadhilithee, she kept her on toes for the fullday.

But with my sone, we started home day care after 5 months and he did for nearly two years then we started regular daycare


Regular day care start aithunnee ear infections almost everyother week
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thappanapudu koncham dabbulu ekkuvaina professional day cares ki pampatam best.
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Chillarodu:

dheeniki choke avvara?
upright position lo kaakunda padukobetti feed chesthe?



hmm you are right...konni sarlu veetiki kuda avvochu..but still padukobetti feed chese nanny deggariki pampinchina parents ni thannali...
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Chillarodu:

paamu, elekalu, thondalu pets ento/// eellenkamma




thondalu and elukalu chala common.

snakes aithe g balsina edavalu pythons ni pettukuntaaru. valla kaaka vadilesi florida everglades lo burmese python problem.
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just oat meal/fruit purees istharu




dheeniki choke avvara?
upright position lo kaakunda padukobetti feed chesthe?
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a pet rat





paamu, elekalu, thondalu pets ento/// eellenkamma
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Chillarodu:

feed chesinappudu baby choke avvatam laantidhi jarigi vundochu.




6 months baby choke ayye food emistharu...just oat meal/fruit purees istharu
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My Guess..

feed chesinappudu baby choke avvatam laantidhi jarigi vundochu.
ignorance tho baby ni voopatam lantidhi chesindhemo
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still remember a case long time back. a pet rat killed an infant, parents arrested with more than 10 years sentence


damn!!
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ameras untayi, class ki 3-4 teachers so there is lot of accountability and okaru chustaru anna bhayam



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kids ki discipline and schedules ki alavatu avataniki konchem time padthundi emo kani but still licensed day cares are safe and best..kids easily adapt to change..few weeks parents kastha opika padithe set ayipotharu...many parents giveup here and telisina avida ayithe feed chesthundi ani pampistharu....valla frustations vallaki untayi...manake mood swings okala undavu.....so inka non parents kids ni handle cheyyali ante matalu kadu
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still remember a case long time back. a pet rat killed an infant, parents arrested with more than 10 years sentence





Onlytruth:


endangering kids life kindha chesthe cheyyochu...but gravity will be less




SO its basically an accident.

Grand parents antee mana parents manalni soosina anubhavam vundhi. But it was 20 plus years back.

Very scary to think og that situation itself.
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endangering kids life




adi indirect reason aithe. parents ye shake cheyatam valla aithe parents aina same anukunta
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Ilaanti situations grand parents daggara jarigithee vallani koodaa arrest chesthaaraa?




parents or grand parents does not matter.

still remember a case long time back. a pet rat killed an infant, parents arrested with more than 10 years sentence
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Andhrawala:

Ilaanti situations grand parents daggara jarigithee vallani koodaa arrest chesthaaraa?




endangering kids life kindha chesthe cheyyochu...but gravity will be less
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Maverick:

National chain Daycares are safest.some do living nanny..i am not comfortable with thqt..one person doing child cars can lead to frustrations some times.


Depends le. Usual ga day care people asalu strain theesukoru kids konchem cranky unte. I've see this in multiple places. Na kid not a complete special need one but kind of which I cannot explain here.

Day care of plate mundestaru thinte thinnattu ledante clean chesetaru. Konchem cough or sneeze unte ante theesuku ravoddu antatu which is fine considering other kids. But there was never a personal touch in day cares.

In house nanny ala kadu we instruct her and she used to literally follow those. Na kid ki thana ki manchi bondage gel ayyindi and a happy kid from there on.

It all depends on case by case and person to person.
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Its scaryy.

Ilaanti situations grand parents daggara jarigithee vallani koodaa arrest chesthaaraa?
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Sesani:

she got frustrated after baby threw up and oopi dobbindi kopam la... thats what I think happened...




oko sari kids unconscious stage ki pothaaru, alantapudu mild ga shake cheyali or eyes meeda blow cheyali.

as someone said, burp ichunte sari poyedi emo.
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Maverick:




Yep also akkada ctivites with other children will improve their social skills
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National chain Daycares are safest.some do living nanny..i am not comfortable with thqt..one person doing child cars can lead to frustrations some times.


Ot 1 year varaku ok..toddler stage lo intlo tv serials kante day care learning better
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Look at below. Majority cases lo parents are the one who doit not because they want to hurt because they dont know how to stop the baby from crying

http://img.medscape.com/fullsize/migrated/478/153/adnc478153 .fig4.gif
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Sesani:

probably bhayya... but shaking the baby to calm it down is not something which requires the education kada... 6 months old ante just a month or 2 ago neck set ayyindi koncham...




Untrained adults (many cases of relativs also doing this) most common ga chesedhi idhe. Looks like its a natural reaction. Entha dangerous o will be know only through education
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Sesani:

but shaking the baby to calm it down is not something which requires the education kada... 6 months old ante just a month or 2 ago neck set ayyindi koncham...




aame daridram , aa kid parents daridram anthe...bad luck...mind pani jeyyaledh aavidaki
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TOo sad ..bhahusa gukka pattinattundhi emeki telika oopesindhi anukunta....ina h4 lo vundhi baby sitting enti cons em alochinchara
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Shaking the baby is ignorance. Baby vomit chesindi ante thinnaka burping ivvaledu.
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H4ead tho HD ki edoka dakota software train chesi pakkana unna desi Telugu aavida daggara kid (inka unborn) after 3 months ni pedudam anukunna.

Ee news chadivaka have to repeat what I did for 1st kid by keeping the kid@home for 2+yrs.

Lekunte mav tho deal matladukoni wfh set cheyyali for HD.
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not a deliberate, she seems uneducated about baby care...


probably bhayya... but shaking the baby to calm it down is not something which requires the education kada... 6 months old ante just a month or 2 ago neck set ayyindi koncham...

'Macharla said at the time that the infant had vomited after a feeding and then had become unresponsive'... she got frustrated after baby threw up and oopi dobbindi kopam la... thats what I think happened...
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unfortunate incident


One year ago, on Thursday, March 27, 2014, a six-month-old baby girl was left in the care of a neighbor, Pallavi Macharla, who regularly provided child care for the baby.


It is alleged that at approximately 2:40 p.m, Macharla called the baby’s mother to say the baby was not breathing. The mother drove to Macharla’s home and saw Macharla performing mouth-mouth respirations on her daughter who was limp and nonresponsive. The mother immediately called 911. The defendant reported that the baby became unresponsive after vomiting following a feeding. First responders arriving at the residence on Baron Park Lane in Burlington found the baby unresponsive, pulseless, and apneic. The child was transported by ambulance to Lahey Hospital and then to Boston Children’s Hospital where she was pronounced dead on March 30, 2014.
Diagnostic tests and studies were performed, which revealed that the baby was suffering from diffuse subdural hemorrhaging, diffuse subarachnoid hemorrhaging, diffuse and multilayered bilateral retinal hemorrhages and retinoschisis. Additionally, she was found to have multiple vertebral compression fractures to the base of the thoracic spine and upper lumbar spine, which were dated to have been inflicted on March 27, 2014, and were consistent with forceful axial loading or extreme hyperflexion such as seen in shaking. The medical team opined that the injuries were consistent with Abusive Head Trauma. At autopsy, bilateral subscalpular hemorrhages and multiple subperiosteal hemorrhages were revealed. The cause of death was ruled "blunt force and shaking injuries of head."
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i was quite opposite, kani she wanted to take care kids, kids first, later i realized how important kids need mother for healthy development..
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ee twist enti ? aaame licensed doctor back in india antaadu.... ?

http://boston.cbslocal.com/2015/03/27/burlington-woman-charg ed-in-death-of-infant/
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Sesani:

frustration endi raa ayya life/kids meeda... how can u do that to a 6 month old.




not a deliberate, she seems uneducated about baby care...
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@OT ..
Day care ledhu vankaya care ledhu..Job manesi mother ye kid schooling age( or atleast age 3) varaku chusukovali intlo

naadhi same opinion ...
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* arrested yesterday , she will not get bail

incident jarigi one yr aindhi
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Anthe frustration endi raa ayya life/kids meeda... how can u do that to a 6 month old... she is 40 yrs old ante she might be a mom.... antha reckless ga how can she do that to a baby...
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Papam aa pallavi ane aavida held without a bail ..1 yr ayindhi incident jarigi, india dobbeyyakunda emi chesthunnaaro...... plus nighty meedha court la chuttu tippadam emito ...vintha ga undhi case


http://www.bostonherald.com/news_opinion/local_coverage/2015 /03/woman_held_without_bail_in_death_of_infant
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Day care ledhu vankaya care ledhu..Job manesi mother ye kid schooling age( or atleast age 3) varaku chusukovali intlo ne ani na strictest wish and i pushed for the same... even i got resistance and criticism by relatives i dont care....i am very happy finally

ante kids ki edho aipotundhi daycare ki pampisthe ani kadhu...for some unknown reason my mind never adjust to the point of leaving a baby to daycare like a chicken in caged farm.....sorry if my view point hurts many of you who sends to daycare

amma nanna or grand parents chetullo peragaleni baby ni i cannot imagine
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Posted on Sunday, March 29, 2015 - 07:39 am:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IPPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

It takes 2-3 weeks for kids to get used to day care, it's tough but you shouldn't give up. It's better to leave ur kids with licensed and trained people. There might be good nannys and desi day cares but is it worth taking a chance..
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pillalni handle cheyadam raaka pothe day care pettakudadu, they need to have patience , picha poo, easy money kavali, mental gallu
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Unfortunately, there is no defense in the case.
It doesn't matter if she was ignorant or deliberate, she was will receive the same judgement.
On top of this, she was running a daycare without a license, and very likely she didn't pay taxes on the income.
She is in a big mess.
The laws surrounding child abuse (physical/psychological) are very strict in this country. For example, if your child gets an injury and goes to see a doctor, if the doctor suspects the injury is non-accidental, then he/she will (doctors and all those who have significant contact with children are required to report abuse) call child protective services, who will take further steps to determine if its indeed accidental.
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I think this is a case of clear ignorance. as the 6 month baby stopped taking breathing she tried to shake him vigourously, that resulted in mutiple fractured

not a case of deliberate murder

or chestilo nundi jaari kinda padi undochu
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Moviebuff001:

Avsaranni batti kada.... Tondarapadi andarni generalize chesi judge chestarenduku?




I don't think we are generalizing....Licensed daycare loo emanna choke avutnna leka breathing difficulties vunna CPR tranining vunna vallu vuntaaru....unlicensed vaatilo kastam....

Mee case loo you had a good reason...but in some case I have seen especially in Bay Area, people did this to cut costs...
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Startrek:

Winter lo sick aitaru kaani i will take cold and cough over the chance of some person hurtingmy child .




wait until 1.5 years to send the kids to daycare....extend leave isthaaru kadha 1 year varaku US loo for new Moms...1.5 years lopala day care ki velthe ear infections headache...
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not just desi baby sitters..intiki vache nannies kuda chala cases unnayi. no matter how much you trust a person you never know what goes behind the 4 walls. Especially when a baby cries nonstop for non-parents its easy to lose patience and out of anger they might do something like this.
Best bet is always child care centers. Cameras untayi, class ki 3-4 teachers so there is lot of accountability and okaru chustaru anna bhayam. Winter lo sick aitaru kaani i will take cold and cough over the chance of some person hurtingmy child .
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damn nenu ade area lo unde few year back and my neighbour lady(telugu aavida) used to run day care...aamemo anukuni konchem tension padina...aavida kaadu.

Seriously, ee desi day cares ni encourage cheyadam praents aapeyyali.. unnecessarily 2 families ruined.. all because for few dollars more.
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Ma vadu 6months appudu daycare lo pettam. Assalu adjust avvaledu. Rojanta edche vadu (live video). Appudu Indian family okari intlo pettam. He used to be all smiles when we pick him up or at lunch time. Opigga feed chesevallu. Avsaranni batti kada.... Tondarapadi andarni generalize chesi judge chestarenduku?
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Wtf..
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Gandhiguevara:

Training lekunda day care ante tholu tiyyalsindhe....Bay area lo chaala cases vinapaduthunnayi...aina sadukuni job chese parents kudaa budhi lekunda behave chesthunnaru...




Even If your parents can't help, it's better to raise the kid at home for the first 1.5 years even at the expense of spouse's salary....Bay area loo sometimes I find it surprising that both the dad and mom work in good jobs, but they still cut corners leaving kids in unlicensed day care for saving a little bit...
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Leaving your baby in an unlicensed day care is a risk always....how do you detect frustrated H4 spouses...
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Onlytruth:

lack of knowledge is the cause...not a deliberate harm


Training lekunda day care ante tholu tiyyalsindhe....Bay area lo chaala cases vinapaduthunnayi...aina sadukuni job chese parents kudaa budhi lekunda behave chesthunnaru...
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Death happened on 2014 antaadu..case ippudu pettadam enti ?

On March 27, 2014, Macharla called the baby's mother at 2:40 p.m. to tell her that the infant was not breathing, Goddard said. The mother arrived at Macharla’s home on Baron Park Lane in Burlington to find Macharla performing mouth-to-mouth resuscitation on the baby, who was “limp and nonresponsive,” according to Goddard.
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Gandhiguevara:




lack of knowledge is the cause...not a deliberate harm


Child’s death was “a stark reminder” that programs to educate people about the dangers of shaking babies must continue.
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Posted on Saturday, March 28, 2015 - 11:33 pm:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IPPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

" tests showed the baby had sustained multiple compression fractures to her spine that dated to March 27, 2014, and that were consistent with injuries seen in shaken babies. The tests also revealed hemorrhaging beneath membranes that surround the brain and spinal cord, and in the eyes, and separation of tissues in the baby’s eyes, she added."

sampi dennaali ittaantollani...
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Looks like a h4 spouse working illegal case
http://i.imgur.com/eI7517s.jpg?1
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Posted on Saturday, March 28, 2015 - 11:28 pm:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostView Post/Check IPPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

http://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2015/03/27/burlington-woman -charged-with-murder-apparent-shaken-baby-death/USx17qgn4iWB X9uSzYequL/story.html

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