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     Anand_n Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 15020 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.24.150 Rating: N/A |
Not everyone is made the same way - so I agree, no point in trying to become someone you are not - the journey is to find what does give us that satisfaction and incorporate that into our life to the extent possible along with the current responsibilities  The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim | ||
| Alochinchu Junior Artist Username: Alochinchu Post Number: 785 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 65.51.27.62 Rating: N/A |
it's not i do not believe in people blindly.. i am talking about only after i know if it is honest or not.. anyway.. most of it does not excites me as i feel most of it is silly.. i want the same way others do but i could not as i feel it's not me and i could not be that i am not.. | ||
| Nepatriot Junior Artist Username: Nepatriot Post Number: 38 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 147.62.110.6 Rating: N/A |
I think its the memories that stay with you. moments have a short life... | ||
| Anand_n Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 15019 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 72.177.241.31 Rating: N/A |
Our view of the world is severely limited and colored by what we can feel, understand ...Don't mind my saying this , but if you see the truth and honesty in yourself you will see it in others if we assume good intentions , it takes a long time for us to be convinced someone is dishonest, on the other hand if we start with the assumption that they are dishonest, it takes us a lot of evidence to believe they are honest - the truth is probably somewhere in the middle Db lo roju chusede kada fans will defend their idol to the extreme Maybe you can atleast give people the benefit of doubt that they are being honest and true to the best of their ability and you will find a lot more joy in the interactions and in your own relationships Else the sense of dissatisfaction and search for a "better state" will be perpetual ..till you find some guru who turns on the switch of enlightenment (if you believe that ) For me, as Jawmetri said, it is the ability/power to choosing what to believe that liberates The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim | ||
| Alochinchu Junior Artist Username: Alochinchu Post Number: 784 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 65.51.27.62 Rating: N/A |
i feel the same for any one. I am not talking happy moments where kid feel happy when they get candy or adult feel happy about some occassion or promotion.. The best emotion for me is the "Joyous Moments" it lasts only few seconds... winning / achieving some thing after all the hard work or struggle or done.. majority in sports .. ex. the moment the player win after 6 sets.. or championship, etc. It's hard to say.. i am not confused.. and i am not searching for any thing to enlighten.. i feel all the relationships the way it was defined or the way civilization is moving are all non-sense.. I always look at the truth and honesty on every thing around you (relationships, emotions, love, etc.).. i rarely see it.. so i could not give any value to it.. note, it does not mean i am perfect.. | ||
| Last_avataar Junior Artist Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 960 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.228 Rating: N/A |
Yes agreed it is overstated. But he never said to follow his philosophy and people donot follow also Human life in this world is not meant to be lived in the path specified. His version explains one facet of life, if followed world will come to stand still | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2978 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
Ledhu Bro, Anandgarus words are gospel for me.I think, I appreciate and then go back to Yashodara and Rahul. I dont 'choose' to believe in an ultimate enlightment, hence Im not interested in investing energies for such a journey. Life to me is no more about believing or not believing, it is about choosing to believe or not believe (It doesnt matter to me if something is real or not) | ||
| Anand_n Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 15018 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 166.147.72.43 Rating: N/A |
Konchem overstated emo about Gautama being a confused soul there is a level of detachment past no one/nothing is mine and then it transcends to everyone/everything is me/mine - the ultimate attachment of the infinite ego something to think about ..The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim | ||
| Last_avataar Junior Artist Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 957 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.228 Rating: N/A |
There are different abstrations created for Human Life 1. Mere Animal Level 2. An abstration created over is Human Level with relationships 3. Another abstration created is emotional Level If you start peeling off these layers , we end up non-entity as animals do have emotions Gutham Buddha him self is a confused Soul, he is dead wrong in his detachment thoery as it explains one aspects of mutidimentional spect of creation | ||
| Zulu Megastar Username: Zulu Post Number: 21663 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 199.168.243.252 Rating: N/A |
naku neelo oka gouthama budhudu kanipisthunnadu..you will attain enlightenment very soon. | ||
| Anand_n Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 15017 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 166.147.72.23 Rating: N/A |
I don't know how you define attachment versus connection As long as you like seeing joy on 'your'family's face more versus a random stranger's face it is an attachment - as long as you feel responsibility only to your children it is an attachment - ownership of responsibility is also an attachment to the ego - the sense of I I do not see it as a bad thing but you seem to - anduke thought process different annanu any emotion / desire comes from attachment -like/dislike, joy/sadness, so to me attachment is a very necessary part of a good life The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim | ||
| Last_avataar Junior Artist Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 954 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.228 Rating: N/A |
Becuase thats when they realize how difficult it is to be a "Loving & Caring and Capable Daddy" and you start admiring how your Dad has done that and filled the emotional vaccume. Mom to relation first nundi same gaane untundi. So No change I see lot of happiness when my aged parents talk about thier childhood and thier parents. What a Lovely human relationship. When we start analysing , we will end up dry. If we accept the realtion as is then We feel Good and Human | ||
| Getafix Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 13965 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.7 Rating: N/A |
Sons become attached to father when they hit middle ages.. may be andukenemo sons get sentimental when they lose father..Growing up mother tho attachment untadi but after marriage and parenthood - its father who takes #1 position anukuntaa.. | ||
| Alochinchu Junior Artist Username: Alochinchu Post Number: 782 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 65.51.27.62 Rating: N/A |
this is the part i do not like.. it does not mean disconnected.. the only thing moving me on is responsibility since i am married with children. The only thing i feel good to see the emotions in Joyous moments of person(s) (not happy moments). | ||
| Anand_n Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 15016 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 72.177.241.31 Rating: N/A |
Na advice meeku apply avvaadu cos our thought processes are very different But, you have a list of what you don't like, make a list of what you like and build an attachment to some of those Even buddhist monks ni gardening cheyyamantaranta - to build and satisfy the human need of attachment, nurture and caring The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim | ||
| Linkmaster Legend Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 40979 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 149.128.8.245 Rating: N/A |
chelli meeru chaalaa sunnitha manaskulu ... | ||
| Alochinchu Junior Artist Username: Alochinchu Post Number: 781 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 65.51.27.62 Rating: N/A |
it's fact.. any advice? i do not like human emotions build up with selfish, hypocracy, temporary, to-do rules, etc. | ||
| Alochinchu Junior Artist Username: Alochinchu Post Number: 780 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 65.51.27.62 Rating: N/A |
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| Neel Side Hero Username: Neel Post Number: 7568 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 75.57.166.140 Rating: N/A |
I met ANR garu once and spoke to him, could not stop my tears since last 3 days watching TV though he led full life and left still manaku aa lotu kanapadutundi | ||
| Anand_n Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 15015 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.24.150 Rating: N/A |
So don't do it...Detachment leads to a dry , joyless existence... The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim | ||
| Jalsa Megastar Username: Jalsa Post Number: 20433 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.53.46.143 Rating: N/A |
jawmetri emi annavo ardham kaale...telugu lo cheppavaaa? b/w Yes, I agree with L_A | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2948 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
Yes, that is the sentiment aspect to it. It is selfish, you are continuation of their gene, so you get maximum love. Evolutionarily Mothers love is number 1 because she knows for sure about the maternity of the child. Number 2 is fathers love because some degree of doubt on paternity of the child is there.  if we deconstruct life, sentiments all vanish ( | ||
| Last_avataar Junior Artist Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 945 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225 Rating: |
Kasta battalu kattuko, baguntundi, eureka ani tarvatha aravochu | ||
| Linkmaster Legend Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 40963 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 149.128.8.245 Rating: N/A |
eureka | ||
| Jackson Hero Username: Jackson Post Number: 12550 Registered: 09-2007 Posted From: 171.159.194.11 Rating: N/A |
Parents ki minchina vaalu evvaru leru.. love/affection & vaalu chesina service maatallo cheppa lemu.. as a parent now I'm knowing that.. ... | ||
| Last_avataar Junior Artist Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 944 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225 Rating: N/A |
No one can replace the love, care and security given by parents. Thats why it is irrepairable loss for any one It is very Sad to look at Nag crying out his heart like a child lost his parents. |
