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     Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3471 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
 adi cheppindi kittayya... aayanni adagandi nannu kaadu  If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Jr_fan Junior Artist Username: Jr_fan Post Number: 86 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 66.196.163.70 Rating: N/A |
Kathi cheppav mama ... sine wave comparision 2 gud ... we shud channelize frustrations/anger in ways that will only help us to alleviate them and we shud enjoy that process. I have always faltered at this point. Dealing with both extreme happiness and extreme frustrations,anger, or agitation is always hard 4 me ... I tend to lose myself pretty often regardless of who is at the receiving end and how close they are with me. Finding a happy medium in dealing with extremes is a journey of its own requires patience and the catalysts imo are experience with those situations, up bringing, education, and finding a suitable distraction that helps you alleviate that extreme emotion. Why does it always happen that after we react to those high extremes we tend to regret? Sometimes we feel happy if we vent out anger on people since we think they "deserve" it. We become the judge and our emotions take a strong hold of us ... at this very moment we need to detach ourselves from the situation and look at options as to how we can channelize our emotions in a less serious manner. This is hard. | ||
| Mikkymouse Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 2121 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Endhuko mee post chooste tega navvu vachindhi, So podicheyyandi oo pani aipothundhi. Edhayina thedalu vaste Mr.hyder choosukuntaru. | ||
| Diwakaram_april1 Comedian Username: Diwakaram_april1 Post Number: 1033 Registered: 12-2007 Posted From: 137.254.4.6 Rating: N/A |
Namitha ekkadanundi vachindhi anukunna...??? I agree with Elca.. | ||
| 1k_posts Junior Artist Username: 1k_posts Post Number: 915 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 216.10.193.23 Rating: N/A |
Thread rating: Entertainment : 0% Headache : 100%  Oka_laila_kosam aka Clipartlmao manchi kurradu. BTW naa next ID Paga_babai_paga. | ||
| Mallik Moderator Username: Mallik Post Number: 7526 Registered: 10-2008 Rating: N/A |
Okkopaali maa director gaanni soothhe podiseyyabudhhi aithadi.. thoseyyamantaavaa?  In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  | ||
| Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3460 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
Analysis paralysis annattu every simple thing ki inta pedda theories anavasaram in my opinion. JUST DO IT!! (Anyway, manam nimitha maatrulam ani kishiah cheppadu kadaa.... cheyinchedi antaa nene ani... so why fear? )If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3459 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
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My vote goes to ELCA (in this disco)If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Cylonesubbarao Hero Username: Cylonesubbarao Post Number: 13471 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.61.20.228 Rating: N/A |
 Welcome back! You must be the change you wish to see in the world - Mahatma Gandhi  | ||
| Mallik Moderator Username: Mallik Post Number: 7520 Registered: 10-2008 Rating: N/A |
You missed my first sentence.. My guess, the Wise in the story should be atleast 50+ in age.. In general, you get wiser/matured with your age.. anduku nen said.. age tho vachhe wisdom ni theesukoni alaa flow lo vellaali ani .. learn from your experiences..In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Mikkymouse Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 2116 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Thank you. I will try to follow this. Edho oka roju dheenni sadistanemo. | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5280 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Yes - sadyame  Everyone's reactions are a function of their perceptions and paradigms ... even ours.. Aa okkati gurtu unchukunte - you will give the benefit of doubt to everyone around you ...Does not mean you have to take bad behavior - but you will react in a more productive fashion when you think it thru ...instead of acting when you are angry aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5279 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Ledu took a hiatus from the hiatus as I thought it was valuable
Mee kosam - to keep your mind in a good state aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5277 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Flow lo follow ayyedi driftwood - you can choose to drift with the flow or you can choose to take the rudder and steer your journey thru life Anger feeds anger within you - its a vicious cycle ..then you collect the snowballing baggage of he said , she said and lug all those grudges with you throughout your life wasting precious memory and processor capacity in your brain that you could have filled with happy memories and thoughts There is a story about a budhist monk and his disciple walking across a village ... A villager hurls all kind of abuse at the monk - the monk keeps walking without reaction .. later the disciple asks the monk - how could you take that abuse ? The monk replies - "If someone offers you an alm and you refuse to take it , who is left holding the alm ?" Disciple : The donor ofcourse... Monk : It is the same with rudeness- if I refuse to accept it, it does not enter my system - the offender is left holding the anger Wise words - you have the control on what you want to accept and what you reject aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Mikkymouse Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 2115 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Anand Garu, Evanni kakunda manki person telisi marala vallatho relation maintain cheyyaka thappani (like sibblings/their spouses/in-laws )paristiti vuntundhi. Vallu eppudoo mana oorpu nu parikshitoone untaru. Alantappudu anni sarlu mana emotions ni control chesukolem kadha? Alati vallatho ela behave cheyyali? Hubby aithe vallatho relations maintain chestunte detached ga undali antadu. Sadyameena? | ||
| Jkm Side Hero Username: Jkm Post Number: 3991 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
meeku 5 stars ichindi nene. avesam intlo vaalla meeda choopinchi decissions theesukunte life time baadhapadatham. intlo daddy,mummy,wife,husband,brother,sister kopam lo edo annarani ego hurt ayyi decission theesukokunda alochinchali. outside people eppudu manchigane matladatharu. vaallu edaina ante maata padalsina avasaram ledhu. | ||
| Ishan Junior Artist Username: Ishan Post Number: 479 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 128.249.106.234 Rating: N/A |
Welcome back anand...hiatus appude ayipoyindaa... . Meeru mareenandi ... evado mukku mokham teliyanodu vachi adi idi ante enduku oorukovaali...friend ki ayithe benefit of doubt...second case lo manaki ivvali benefit of doubt Integrity means doing it right when no one is looking | ||
| Linkmaster Side Hero Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 9466 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 12.34.246.72 Rating: N/A |
uhum.... chelli chinnadi ayina pedda maate cheppindi... Jai Jagan | ||
| Mikkymouse Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 2114 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Meeru cheppindhi most cases lo nijame kaanee konni sensitive matters lo control chesukokapovadam valla kooda suicide chesukone situation ravachu. | ||
| Linkmaster Side Hero Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 9465 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 12.34.246.72 Rating: N/A |
kaliyugaaniki very close epik is Mahabharatham.. Drutharastrudu represents very close to us.. we prepare very strong reason/logic to support our nature/mistakes.. ex: pisanaari vaadiki untundi oka reason why he is right.. spend trifter ki untundi oka strong reason why he is rigt... ala chatram lo bandinchu koni, manaki manam right anukontu bathikestaam like drutha raastrudu .. ( he always have strong logic to support his bad sons, despite other great dharmathams telling no....) Jai Jagan | ||
| Mikkymouse Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 2113 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.2 Rating: N/A |
Antha twaraga ee emotions ni control chesukovadam chala kastam. But nuvvu cheyyali ani manasulo gattiga anukonte nemmadhiga change vastundhi. Something is better than nothing kadha. Assalu control chesukoleka vache problems kante enthakontha control chesukunte jarige damage thakkuva. Konni rojulu/years ki nemmadhi ga vatini mana control lo undela chesukovachu. | ||
| Rajusk Side Hero Username: Rajusk Post Number: 8601 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 206.53.147.62 Rating: N/A |
Namasthe Moderator Mallik Garu... | ||
| Mallik Moderator Username: Mallik Post Number: 7510 Registered: 10-2008 Rating: N/A |
Vayasu nerpinche [guna]paataalu ivi.. alaa flo lo falo avvaali.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Linkmaster Side Hero Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 9464 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 12.34.246.72 Rating: N/A |
1.idi thappu oppu ani nirna inchatame correct kaadu.. Aa nirnayam is based on others knowldge ( some one, system decided wrong right.. adi manam vini oka decission ki vastaam, right or wrong ani).. that not your knowldge. got from others.. knowldge got it from others is just useful to advice to others again. When it comes to you, u will not practice, as it was not your knowldge. ex: if some one is deep sorrow, we condole him with good words. If that is ur knowldge, we will not get into sorrow at all even in deep sorrow.. here we need to discuss unfolded knowldge, wich is your and it is in you. A big topic.. Jai Jagan | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5276 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Not quite right What you are quoting is an excuse for your being rude - a justification. Analyse your responses in the two cases... First case you know the person's normal behavior so you made allowances Second case -how do you know the stranger is not normally perfectly decent and not just having a bad day ? Does he not deserve the benefit of doubt ? Jodhaa, Take it one step further - your anger does not impact anyone negatively but you yourself. Evaro annaru ani meeru temper lose avute the stress you feel is in your body and mind - you essentially just handed a remote control to your adversary for him/her to control your reactions Your goal should be to stay in control of your life , not let your amygdala hijack your life Amygdala is the part of the brain that controls these emotional reflexive reactions There may be tons of excuses for you to lose control of how you are reacting but none of them are beneficial for you Elca, Avesam anandam anni manchide as long as you retain the control to apply them where needed aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Ishan Junior Artist Username: Ishan Post Number: 477 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 128.249.106.234 Rating: |
Depends on the situation and the mental condition of the other person. If a person whom you know for long time behaves strangely on one day, some thing bad might have happened to him/her on that day and you can certainly excuse him/her for that moment. Later you can try to find out the reason and you will feel glad you didn't react negatively. If a stranger behaves rudely with you, you have every right to retaliate with the same tone. But whatever the reaction might be, one should never go beyond or defy reason...thats what I have learnt. Integrity means doing it right when no one is looking | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1263 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
aavesam, kopam, santosham anni sahajam. kani aavesam lo, kopam lo nirnayalu teesukoka povatam manchidi. kopam vaste better say I don't want to deal with it now or let's talk about it later. Whatever is the decision I try to postpone it. That way I have a cool head later. email ayina, IM ayina, phone call ayina kopam vaste I try to end that discussion before I say something that I will end up regretting. edanna argument vaste matram I try to not drag it till the next day. ee roju di ee roje ayipovali. that way podduna lechinappudu u still want to see the face of the person next to you :-) | ||
| Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3217 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 65.244.125.146 Rating: N/A |
jodhaa iam not a saint. i did some mistakes in aavesam. but after certain period i made sure to call/mail them to say sorry/apologize and move on. if they reacted well fine. otherwise i will never have the feeling for rest of my life that "arey nenu tappu chesa. sarididdukolekapoyaa".. okati rendu sarlu if u experience this then u will start thinking more practical and will restrain urself without reacting too violently. rOSayya ni choostunTE jagan ki emi anipistoo unTundi? aayaasam xxxxxxxdi sukham xxxxxxxxxdi | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 16692 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 208.88.0.16 Rating: N/A |
renditiki atheethamgaa undali..appudu balance untadhi....kaani alaa undi bathakatam waste....pathi manishi lo kasi undali....impulsive n paasionate undali....appudu life entertaining ga untadhi...life should be like a sign wave and ur reactions should also complement it....and then u will enjoy the ride....good or bad life rocks and sucks and it adds colour.....avesham n anandham ni control seskuney kantey suicide seskovatam bestu ....but ofcourse maree murderlu sesetantha avesham untey matuku councelling theeskovali.... | ||
| Jodhaa Hero Username: Jodhaa Post Number: 11442 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.185.64.4 Rating: N/A |
meeru cheppindhi corretey pedha annai, kani follow avvatam chala kashtam ga vundi....flow lo definet ga manam kooda maata antam, drastic decisions kooda theesukontam...aa time lo manaki avey correct anipisthadhi kada..may be after sometime ala chesi vundalsindhi kadu ani anpisthundhi, kani avesham valla adhi possible ayethaledhu  | ||
| Skywalker Side Hero Username: Skywalker Post Number: 5120 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.248.89.8 Rating: N/A |
eeee rojullo gandhi kante gadse laga undatame better............. I will stick to my parties,leaders and affiliations. You can keep the CHANGE(18 paisa) . | ||
| Jai_bharath Junior Artist Username: Jai_bharath Post Number: 11 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 173.168.236.241 Rating: N/A |
Aavesaniki, Santhoshaniki react ayyevade Manishi.. Vaatiki react avvani vallu..Maharshulu.. Manamu manushalme kabatti..vaatiki react avvtam thappanisari.. kakapothe..Enthameraku react avuthunnmanedhe point.. Bais rule for responses emitante... nee response neeku labham cheyyakapoyunaa paraveldhu kaani..inkaa kothatha gaa Kastalu..I mean Sathruvulani srustincha koodadhu.. Nee snathosham valla vachhe response ..chala thvaraga marchipothavu..compared to your Aavesam. Yoga & meditation can help you in controlling these elements. | ||
| Reentry Junior Artist Username: Reentry Post Number: 286 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 65.198.163.148 Rating: N/A |
naa uddhesam lo okadini akaaaranamgaa dhoosinche vadu pichi vaadi kindhe lekka.... mana EGO hurt avutundhi ante.. dhaaniki manam direct gaa react avadam kannaa inkaa better methods unnai .... also mana reaction situation and advantage meedha depend ayi untundhi... mimmalni thidutunnadhi mee manager ayithe meeru react avadaaniki , patel gaaru thittina daaniki react avadaaniki difference untundhi kada... so if we are ready to compromise based on the context,situn and our advantage.. y not we take a single stand to such scenarios.... ofcourse its not easy as said | ||
| Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3214 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 65.244.125.146 Rating: N/A |
jodhaa basic gaa nirnayalu ante some big decisions like inka janma lo vaallato matladanu leda vaadi moham choodanu kind of things. down the road (may be with age) the decision u took while back may sound silly and in some cases u may never repair it. so never take such drastic steps/decisions when u r angry.. so is the case with never give boons/promises when u r very happy rOSayya ni choostunTE jagan ki emi anipistoo unTundi? aayaasam xxxxxxxdi sukham xxxxxxxxxdi | ||
| Jodhaa Hero Username: Jodhaa Post Number: 11440 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.185.64.4 Rating: N/A |
ok,well said...manalni anedhi pitchi kukka no kado ela decide chesukovali? asalu na main concern enti, asalu manam okari maatlaki react avvali antey, valla side nunchi e req's vundali? Padda vadu eppudu chedda vadu kadu anna saametha thelusu kani manishi annaka oka ego vuntadhi kada... | ||
| Rebel Side Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 5322 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.7.52 Rating: N/A |
kalisi unte malla ekkada edabaatu kalugutundo ani gundello gubulu... VDpoyi unte malla eppudu kalustamo ani ingo rakam ga gundello gublu... ani OM seppamannadu | ||
| Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3213 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 65.244.125.146 Rating: N/A |
nirnayaalu teesukodam is different from counter attacking. rOSayya ni choostunTE jagan ki emi anipistoo unTundi? aayaasam xxxxxxxdi sukham xxxxxxxxxdi | ||
| Reentry Junior Artist Username: Reentry Post Number: 285 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 65.198.163.148 Rating: |
oka pichi kukka ninnu karisthe dhaanni thirigi karavadam thappu kaadhu anukunte.. nuvvu cheppindhi thappu kadhu.... | ||
| Jodhaa Hero Username: Jodhaa Post Number: 11437 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.185.64.4 Rating: N/A |
Manishi annaka avesham/kopam raavatam sahajam kada? mari adhey flow lo konni decisions kooda teesukovalsi vasthundhi...and same with santhosham...veetini ela control chesukoni balanced ga undali? For example, manalni some other person vachi,unnecessary ga maatalu antunnadu...ala antuntey manam choosthu vunda lemu kada? manam kooda adhey flow lo vallani edho oka maata antam...ila anadatam thappa? |
