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Dlm
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Username: Dlm
Post Number: 11860
Registered: 04-2008
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One:emiti adi.....
love ... 
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One
Hero
Username: One
Post Number: 11600
Registered: 09-2008
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Dlm:nenu 3rd class lo start chesina.
emiti adi.....
Try and fail, but don't fail to try.. |
Dlm
Hero
Username: Dlm
Post Number: 11858
Registered: 04-2008
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Jambalahaart_raja:
aa break-up was a turning point in my life. landed in one of the most prestigeous institutions in our country to pursue Engg. Akkada, mix ayina environment, ambience, that part of life is utmost cherishable, formative years of whatever I am today. Made some really wonderful friends, gang of over 70, spread across the globe. Couldn't ask for more!!!
good for you mam..
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Dlm
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Username: Dlm
Post Number: 11855
Registered: 04-2008
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Guttonkay:8th class lo prema doma. badi ki chaduvukunenduku veltara leka vora choopulu, godala meeda ILU lu raasukunendu veltara? :-)
nenu 3rd class lo start chesina.. 
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Dlm
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Username: Dlm
Post Number: 11854
Registered: 04-2008
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Jambalahaart_raja:thammi, if you think you can't then better don't. Take your time to say YES. Prepare your questionnaire very very carefully. You should have a picture of yourself very first, then what kind of a person you would want to share your life with. Match kuduruthundi, cheskuni we can commit and strive for mutual good anukunnappude green signal.
annagaru nenu reality lo jarige 90% cases gurucnhi matladutunna..meeru 10% gurunchi matladuthunnaru.. engagement avvaka mundu, entha mandi ardham chesukuni munduki pothunnaru..match kaledu ani entha mandi drop chesthunnaru?
idemi exam kaadu mama... questions itchi answer cheyyamantaniki... andariki telusu emi answer chebithe select avuthamoo ani... aa answers vini pelli chesukunte anthe sangathulu.... vallu real ga tough situations vachinappudu ela behave chestharu anedhi alanti situations vasthene kaani teliyadu... inkoti nenu ila vuntanu ani anukontam..chala cases lo.. but situation and time tho chesukuni opinions maripotha vuntayi....
max antha success kosam try chestharu kabatte majority marriages succcess avuthnnayi.. nachaka poyina vidipoleru... ee jeevithaniki inthe ani saripettukuni munduki povatame....
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Jambalahaart_raja
Comedian
Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1474
Registered: 07-2008
Posted From: 71.79.245.160
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, June 29, 2009 - 11:57 pm: |
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Guttonkay:8th class lo prema doma.
aa break-up was a turning point in my life. landed in one of the most prestigeous institutions in our country to pursue Engg. Akkada, mix ayina environment, ambience, that part of life is utmost cherishable, formative years of whatever I am today. Made some really wonderful friends, gang of over 70, spread across the globe. Couldn't ask for more!!! |
Guttonkay
Junior Artist
Username: Guttonkay
Post Number: 797
Registered: 05-2008
Posted From: 70.174.181.183
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, June 29, 2009 - 11:47 pm: |
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8th lo oka ammayi naaku chesindi, 2 months taravatha break-up
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8th class lo prema doma. badi ki chaduvukunenduku veltara leka vora choopulu, godala meeda ILU lu raasukunendu veltara? :-) |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1473
Registered: 07-2008
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Anand_n:the fact that you posted names and enough details to identify the girls...
the level of details are very well insufficient to identify the girls. very well aware about it, and past love stories isn't any big deal. Getting attracted to someone from the opposite sex at such a tender age, is a natural thing, and can be whole heartedly taken in a lighter vein...... as long as........again I draw the line.
liberal mindedness ni meeru elaa define chesukuntaaro naaku teliyadu. tiffins and mini-skirts, after a certain age when you are considered no more tender and rather supposed to be applying proper discretion..........
btb, NY lo unnappudu I happenned to come across a school friend, girl from my 6th and I told her, I kinda had a crush on her. She took it quite well, helped me understand her a little better after these many years, we had lunch together, in the presence of her husband of course. |
One
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Username: One
Post Number: 11595
Registered: 09-2008
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Lechindi nidhra lechindi mahila lokam
Try and fail, but don't fail to try.. |
Anand_n
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Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4651
Registered: 02-2008
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Jambalahaart_raja:inkaa emi clarify cheyaali???
Most others are OK with what I post, some even like it but meeru ventaadi maree suggest cheyaali ani aa tapana, aa possessiveness........naaku ardham kaavatamledu raamanaadham gaaru!!!!!
LOL possessiveness on what basis - wouldn't know you from Adam on the street 
Anyway , my mention of you old thread was regarding the fact that you posted names and enough details to identify the girls...someone corrected you that is not right to publicise the girls identities and you fought back saying no one should have a problem....anta liberal minded ness appudu and then these ultra-conservative threads ...
Anyway , I apologise .. none of my business....
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1472
Registered: 07-2008
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Guttonkay:
Anand pinni ki naa reply saduvukuni, intha mandi ammayilu chi kottaaru ani navvuko!!!!!
nuvvu pakkaagaa alaa aalochisthaav ani nenu already navveskuntunnaa!!!! |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1471
Registered: 07-2008
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Anand_n:you come across as totally confused
schooling nunchi year ki oka ammayiki attract ayyaa, spent time together in school, talking, flirting........
yevvaritoh misbehave cheyaledu, advantage teeskoledu, asalu propose ye cheyaledu. 8th lo oka ammayi naaku chesindi, 2 months taravatha break-up, 9th lo daaniki inkodu tagilaadu......aa case entirely different.
Engg first year lo oka ammayi nachhindi, compatibility check kosam more than two years wait cheddaam anukunna, second semester lo propose chesindi, aa semester ending ki yevevo reasons cheppi good bye anindi. now she's happily married to some other guy.......again never took advantage, no misbehaviour, clean-chit!!!!
pass-out ayyaka, junior oka ammayi college nunchi parichayam, mails exchange chesukuntu, nene open-up ayyaa......"How can you think about me LIKE THAT??" anindi.......scene cut!!!! friends though!!!
exactly, idey appati thread lo koodaa vesaa, with names repeat cheyamantaaraa?? no assumptions, no reading between lines. better off, no twists in the storylines. I ain't projecting myself as a clean-chit. I don't want any more misunderstandings!!!!
inkaa emi clarify cheyaali???
Most others are OK with what I post, some even like it but meeru ventaadi maree suggest cheyaali ani aa tapana, aa possessiveness........naaku ardham kaavatamledu raamanaadham gaaru!!!!! |
Guttonkay
Junior Artist
Username: Guttonkay
Post Number: 790
Registered: 05-2008
Posted From: 70.174.181.183
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"old thread on your lovestories"
lmao. At least I am not the only one "reading between the lines". Peace out. |
Anand_n
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Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4650
Registered: 02-2008
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JH,
Between your old thread on your lovestories,last weeks threads you come across as totally confused clarify your thoughts if you can
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1469
Registered: 07-2008
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Guttonkay:tell your "friends" next time to not discuss their girl friend's history with you
seeking advice is a different story altogether again. To be able to distinguish the proper advisor comes only with proper maturity. Btb, all of those case studies were not even from among my friends. They are all about some strangers, narrated to me by my acquaintances.
Guttonkay:tell your "friends" also to not be too suspicious about the prospective girl's moral character.
clarity of thought unte, suspicion enti.......reality enti telsukuntaaru yevvaraina. Do I look suspicious?? or worried about harsh realities??? |
Guttonkay
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Username: Guttonkay
Post Number: 782
Registered: 05-2008
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dont' worry, the feeling is very mutual :-)
tell your "friends" next time to not discuss their girl friend's history with you and tell your "friends" also to not be too suspicious about the prospective girl's moral character. It will do them good. |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1466
Registered: 07-2008
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Guttonkay:He seems to not mind or he indulges me :-)
fact ento telsaa......telisthey feel avthaav/ tidathaav!!!!
AXAXTXHX-CARE!!!! |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1465
Registered: 07-2008
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Guttonkay:you are defining free as "vichalavidithanam"
post miss ayinattu unnav annayi, I have defined what I think of freedom. The above definition is what you think, I think of freedom, which however, is my understanding of what girls these days think of freedom.
Guttonkay:You have to define the parameters.
just lo miss ayinav.....read my post just after your post.
Guttonkay:If you are so so concerned
First nunchi naaku telusu, nuvvu nannu misunderstand sesukuntunnav......reading between lines, daaniki nenu emi cheyalenu. |
Guttonkay
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Username: Guttonkay
Post Number: 780
Registered: 05-2008
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cheppa kada reason kooda.
enti naa venaka paddaru? :-) |
One
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Username: One
Post Number: 11589
Registered: 09-2008
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Guttonkay:I am concerned based on his posts.
db lo evadi views vadu chepu thadu..why ur worrying abt it?????
Try and fail, but don't fail to try.. |
Guttonkay
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Username: Guttonkay
Post Number: 779
Registered: 05-2008
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, June 29, 2009 - 09:52 pm: |
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one garu,
I am not getting personal. I am concerned based on his posts. I know a few people who went thro this. You can't tell them to not be so concerned. They ruined their marriage in the end. I know a few guys who married really young girls for the same reason too - thinking is that the girl's mind will not be ruined by all sorts of elements that start in college, which in some cases is quite true.
To each his own but since JH sounds like a nice guy in all other aspects, I had to tell him what I saw based on my experience.
And you also have to notice that I love making jokes at JH's expense. He seems to not mind or he indulges me :-) |
One
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Username: One
Post Number: 11586
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, June 29, 2009 - 09:49 pm: |
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Guttonkay:
If you are so so concerned, your best bet is to go indukurupeta and marry a girl who just finished high school.
bro disc on matter ....very valu emi cheyalo nuvu chepaku........looks ur targeting personal......
Try and fail, but don't fail to try.. |
Jambalahaart_raja
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Username: Jambalahaart_raja
Post Number: 1464
Registered: 07-2008
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Dlm:arranged marriages lo understanding nammakam ekkada start avuddi..first lo edo peddollu choosaru..manam pelli chesukovali..anthe chesukuntunnam..majoirty cases inthe kadaa..
thammi, if you think you can't then better don't. Take your time to say YES. Prepare your questionnaire very very carefully. You should have a picture of yourself very first, then what kind of a person you would want to share your life with. Match kuduruthundi, cheskuni we can commit and strive for mutual good anukunnappude green signal.
peddollu choosaaru ani taali kattesthene, arranged marriages koodaa fail ayithayi. summary - arrangements koodaa maname cheskovaali. |
Guttonkay
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Username: Guttonkay
Post Number: 777
Registered: 05-2008
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ikkada enthomandi, aadavaallaki freedom vachhindi, free gaa undaali, dependent undakoodadu ani bhaavisthaaru. Somethings are best left unspoken brother!!!!
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Paruvu maryada gurinchi paakulaade vaallaki idi konchem kashtam. naaku kashtam!!!! As I said worst thing is he's discussing this stuff with his peers!!!! Who would do that at all??
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paruvu ga vundalanukune vaadu evvadu tana girl friend previous history gurinchi tana peers tho discussion pettadu. aa ammayi ni chulakana cheyyadam, friends drishti lo wacko guy la kanapadatadu. He will in my eyes.
define free. If I am reading you right you are defining free as "vichalavidithanam"
As for assumptions, suspicions, virginity - what will appease you - how are you ever going to know the other person is going to tell the truth? You think one is not virgin can't fake it for you? anumaanam penu bhootam ani vuttine evaru anala. Once you start wondering ye age lo potti skirt lu vesukundi, college lo abbayilatho matladinda, canteen ki vellinda, cinemala ki vellinda, did she sleep with others - where is the end? Will you believe it even if she tells the truth? What are you expecting out of her once she becomes your wife?
The way I look at life - past is past. You tell her what you are expecting out of her after marriage. ammayi nuvvu shorts vesukunna, skirts vesukunna marriage ki munde, naku avi ishtam ledu. nuvvu nee old classmates to friendly ga vundadam naaku ishtam ledu. You have to define the parameters. Of course she might think you are an idiot, that's a different story.
Please don't be lovey dovey in the begining and get nasty if she calls her previous classmates. Please don't wonder what she did in college, in high school, in infosys. All those are past. What matters is now.
If you are so so concerned, your best bet is to go indukurupeta and marry a girl who just finished high school.
That's really my sincere advice to you. You can say this thread is not about you, but we read it differently :-) |
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