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One
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Post Number: 10198
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Seemabidda:Hamayya.. Motham thread chadhivesaa..baagunnay konni points :-)
entha time patindi
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Seemabidda
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Post Number: 167
Registered: 07-2008
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Hamayya.. Motham thread chadhivesaa..baagunnay konni points :-) |
Annavaram
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cj,
chiru koothuru lechipoindi, purandeswari kuthuru lechiupoyini ane issues meeda blood boil chsukune stage eppudo datesaam
point divert cheyadam deniki, if you want to talk about it let's otherwise leave it
i clearly mentioned it was nothing personal against you or your family, i was commenting on your stand against the whole thing
if you still think it was a personal affront lets leave it at that
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Sunnil
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nenu naa life lo chala love marriages/arranged marriages choosa... rentilo same successs/failure kooda choosa... but it doesnt change/influence my opinion/my decision ...I feel mine will be unique case and it is going to be different from others..based on someone else experience, i cannot say this is either good or bad for me... even if we have some -ve experiences, we cannot be sure that the result is going repeat again..
naa vishayam lo love marriage support cheyyatama, oppose cheyyatama anedhi, caste/religion based gaa vundadu..vallu capable aa kaada, vallu genuine aa kaadaa ani choostha...thats it....
kids love chesthe,daanini supprt cheyatam boothu avuddi...alage maturity tho vunndi, chakkaga settle ina vallani ni oppose cheyyatam foolish avuddi.. |
Shawshank
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Post Number: 3269
Registered: 08-2008
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Simba:But, even if it had been an arranged marriage, he would have staged a successful image. Indhulo love vishyam theppemi undhi? A crook can deceive whether love or arranged marriage.
nenu love tappu undi ledu ani veyyaledu aa post .. aa post vesindi people attain maturity to judge things at a certain age ani ante .. comedy ga anipinchindi .. Even people in their 30s do judgemental mistakes with huge effect !
Same maa intlo .. 2 good successful love stories unnayi .. one is inter-cast relatively recent (4 years) .. and the other inter-linguistic (same cast) some 15-17 years ago .. still aa abbayi valla amma chinna choopu choostundi compared to chinna kodalu !
But what works in favor of arranged marriages in Indian societal set-up is .. in an arranged marriage, two very established systems (families, relatives, friends and society) talk .. so the chance of it failing is less in my view ..
Maa akka ki marriage cheseppudu .. abbayi elanti vadu ani US lo vakabu cheyyadaniki try chesam friends tho .. aa abbayi valla family elantidi ani India lo aa abbayi valla parents offices lo check chesaru (means valla life lo 20-30 years ni verify chesukunnaru ) .. so akkada more safety undi .. and infact marriage lo safety undali .. lekapothe how can you give your precious and loving son/daughter to some unknown person!
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Swayamkrushi
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Post Number: 342
Registered: 05-2008
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Shawshank
ok , thanks guru,,
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Simba
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Post Number: 330
Registered: 02-2008
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Shawshank:he stage managed everything to put up a false profile in front of her
Sorry to hear the story.
I believe, pelliki mindhu athani gurunchi enquiry chesi untaaru and he managed to cover the truth. But, even if it had been an arranged marriage, he would have staged a successful image. Indhulo love vishyam theppemi undhi? A crook can deceive whether love or arranged marriage. |
Shawshank
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Swayamkrushi:tappu, telisi chesina teliyadukuna chesina, tappu tappena.. prema pelli vishayam lo..
tappu ani antunnaru ga .. telisi/teliyaka do not matter .. tappe
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Swayamkrushi
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babulu.. I have one question...
tappu, telisi chesina teliyadukuna chesina, tappu tappena.. prema pelli vishayam lo.. |
Shawshank
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Sri_anji:Bro...touch chesav...touch lo undu
tappakunda
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Shawshank
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Der_schuler:and pillalu konchem pedha avvagane naaku ekkuva telusu ANUKUNTARU....
this is very true bro .. maa intlo ne choosanu .. one of the cousins .. when she was 21 or so .. evadino preminchindi .. same caste/ but less educated and importantly not a good person morally. valla parents pilladini choodagaane chepparu .. veedu manchi vaadu kadu .. lite teesuko amma ani .. vinaledu .. after some 6 months .. taagesi vachi pelliki enduku oppukoru meeru .. memu preminchukunnam .. iddaram majors ani .. aa ammayi valla amma meeda cheyyi chesukunnadu naluguri lo .. suddenly she realized how "divine" her parents words were 6 months prior to that incident happened ..
and aa ammayi, aa abbayi almost 2-3 years preminchukunnaru .. she was 22 when that incident happened (age enduku cheptunna ante 22 or 23 ki maturity vachestundi ani certificates istunnaru kabatti) ..
Inko case lo .. very very distant relative .. she was a deputy collector for Coimbatore, was some 30 years or so .. appudu love lo padindi .. oka SC, job-less candidate .. OC ani namminchadu .. Officer on Special Duty with govt of AP ani coloring ichi .. he successfully managed to keep that image till the marriage happened .. 4 months into the marriage .. she realized he was married 2 times earlier .. that he lied about his caste and told her that he was an OC. lied about his interests and earning, about his study etc .. later on .. she fought in courts to get a divorce from him .. but unfortunately she lost that happiness in life which she had prior to those false love scenes .. she lost interest in marriage .. today she is in a very big position with Govt of India in Delhi .. aged 42 .. not married ever again ! .. papam aame parents lo okariki paralysis vachindi due to these tensions, and the other died last year !!!
in the second case .. he stage managed everything to put up a false profile in front of her .. so much so that .. once they went to Sri Kalahasthi or Kanipakam temples .. akkada .. temple lo evarino bribe chesi .. he managed to get a "poorna kumbam" swagatham .. he cheated her very similar to how we see in movies ! 
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Elcaminocapastrino
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Shawshank:
You can only say, Sex before marriage is okay for me. You can go a step ahead and can say, I do it. But do not make something you practice/like/hate a general thing for others as well !
Regarding the topic, I am not against love/dating/pre-marital sex etc .. as long as one can take their parents and immediate family along with them ! I do not enforce these on others !
idhi bhaley undhi.....I dont c any thing wrong wid that so I think its justified....Iam going to say to 100 people its justified....wether they take it or not is not my problem.....and if one of the 100 says he is not ok with it and he is going to save himself for his wife its his wish...manushulandharu rushulu kaleru....vajpayee n abdul kalam entha lonely ness feel iyyaro evariki thelsu....infact once kalam quoted to a young girl saying hope she will not end up like him wid out partner.... |
Eluri_kurradu
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samayaniki iamim garu leru .. eti seyyali..??
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Cinejeevi
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annavaram
nenu chiru koorutu example chepte anta blood boil ainde?? mari nuvvu emi lekundaa ide thread lo naa family and kids (paiga jaali okati extraa) ni teste naakenta avvali?? going forward not only me dont ever bring any one's family into DB discussions.. nenu cheppindi in one of my posts lo ade.. keyboard naa chetilo kooDA vundi and nenu kooda "jaali" choopincha galanu (which means even i can comment on someone's family).
if you differ with my opinion say so in an educated manner without bringing personals. then i am game. if not today then any other day.
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Eluri_kurradu
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okka mukka ardam kaaatalle eti seyyali?
Ekkado munigi ikkada tela |
Sri_anji
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Shawshank:infact, as an unmarried son, my dad reserves such rights against me!
Bro...touch chesav...touch lo undu
Maa Nanna NTR -- Balayya
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Annavaram
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Cinejeevi:
deenemma prathi daaniki chiranjeevi koothuru okatti example ayipoyindi... chiranjeevi caring parent kaadhu antaava, valla intlo kuda nuvvu anatte chesukunte kallu iragadengutha antene kadha ala jarigindi..pillalni andaru protect chesi pamper chese penchuthaaru..
18 ki 20 ki pelli chesukuntaa ani oorlo mangalodu ni denkosthe thappe.. kani anni telisi life lo set ayyi vallaki vallu decision teesukunte thappu emi ledu nuvvu, love marriages okate kaadhu arranged marriages kuda ade range lo ••••• gudisinavi chaalane unnaai
inthakante mass gaa cheppalenu evo convent saduvulu
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Rasputin
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Shawshank:rushulu/sadhuvulatho samaanam
Exactly. It is up to you, if you want to be like that.
Ikkada migatha vaaru cheppedi, re-think your available options ani, just in case, future lo regrets lekunda. As I always say, 100s may try to guide you to 100 different paths, but the path you take rests in your hands (no pun intended). |
Shawshank
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Cinejeevi:
bro .. mee type lo ne nenu kooda chesta .. if my kid is so mature as to select his/her partner without the need of his/her dad .. good for them .. they also have to learn to live with the dad they do not care for much either !
tappuledu .. infact, as an unmarried son, my dad reserves such rights against me!
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Der_schuler
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Cinejeevi:
Abusive parents untaru kondharu and 99% valla pillalu valla maata vinaru.....chala mandhi parents chala neat ga penchutharu....and pillalu konchem pedha avvagane naaku ekkuva telusu ANUKUNTARU....but thr truth is parents know far better than kids in certain aspects......
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Linkmaster
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Annavaram:cj,
steppin out for a meeting, will be back in a couple of hrs, if your game let's take this up then
cool down....
idi very natural process...
evariki edi manchodo ade chestaaru/cheyaru...
manchi ani anukkona vaatini andaru cheyaru.. chedu anu konna agarau...
"Reputation to be valued more than one's life".. Geetha
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Shawshank
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Rasputin:Don't forget about A.B.Vajpayee and Abdul Kalam ani Shawshank bro cheppamannaadu.
great people .. great examples ..
rushulu/sadhuvulatho samaanam !
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Idle_yzag
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elca annai, yetti avuthundi ikkada? sex kosama?
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Cinejeevi
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annavaram
as a dad i protect them and i respect them. but on certain aspects especially like love/marriage i cant take a chance with my kids. even if i wish it be of my choice i would still consider my kid for a yes/no. ala kakundaa siranjeevi kooturu level lo 18 or 20 ki evadino techchi loves anTe aaha enta edigipoyavamma ani seppi danDalu marpinchi pelli seyyalenu. tanu sesesukunTe nee kharma anukuni vadilestanu.
what i mean is if family involves in a marriage then for future problems one can depend on them. if not then it will be hell. for most of my life i have seen only hell (with those who married against their parents) and as a parent I dont want that to happen not only to my kids but for any kid.
indulo emotional blackmail ekkadundi asalu?
okavela kids ni caring gaa penchakapote appudu vallaki nannu question chese chance aina untundi.. i am not prakash raj of bommarillu so that Q does not arise.
intakanna telugu lo ela cheppalo naku telidu... edo vaanakalam municipality baDi telugu medium saduvu...
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Humpty_dumpty
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Shawshank:pre-marital sex etc .. as long as one can take their parents and immediate family along with them !
annai r u in west virginia...j/k...ee thread lo ee topic odhu...asalu step1 kay kottukuntunaaru...penthouse antay inka emaina undhaa
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Annavaram
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cj,
steppin out for a meeting, will be back in a couple of hrs, if your game let's take this up then |
Eluri_kurradu
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eti avuthondi??
Disco balaheena kshanalameedaki mallindeti? who is the culprit..
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Humpty_dumpty
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Shawshank:ro ..
premarital sex pai elca bro nee pommanaav kada( icon) andukay warning icon vesaa...j/k
anyways, heard your opinion...as any other I respect it...good or bad you will only know after you know what you have gained/lost or could have gained/lost....
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Rasputin
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Elcaminocapastrino:how long are u going to belive in swayamkrushi??? ur stomch needs food....ur skin needs pampering n ur body needs sex.....basic urges....
Don't forget about A.B.Vajpayee and Abdul Kalam ani Shawshank bro cheppamannaadu. |
Shawshank
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Elcaminocapastrino:everyone has a breaking point....viswamitra lanti rushuklu kooda thadabaddaru.....u can live the way u want to live....u want to give up sex...go ahead..its ur right...u want to give up koffee...its ur right....But do not judge others who likes sex n koffee.....
what you said is true .. that everyone knows what he wants to give up or rather what he wants to choose. I have only commented it when you generalised that sex before marriage is "okay". It may be for you, may not be for others. Let them decide.
You can only say, Sex before marriage is okay for me. You can go a step ahead and can say, I do it. But do not make something you practice/like/hate a general thing for others as well !
Regarding the topic, I am not against love/dating/pre-marital sex etc .. as long as one can take their parents and immediate family along with them ! I do not enforce these on others !
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Annavaram
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cj,
read my post again, nenu ekkada mimmalni kaani mee family ni kaani emi analedu, meeku kopam vacchunte iam glad, yes mee attitude ee vishyam lo naaku nacchaledu, aa post lo you indicated mee kids meeku nacchanattu chesthe vallatho relationship cut anattu annaaru
how can you say something like that about your kids, as a parent all we can do is teach them to think for themselves about right and wrong, mee opinions ni mannicnhakapothe direct emotional blackmail?
as a kid did you agree with your father about everyhting he told you to do all the time?
iam sure you are a great parent and have a lovely family, but you having such strong feelings about things you dont want your kids to do, is just unreasonable on them |
Getafix
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Elcaminocapastrino:May be in some cases...but not in every case.....any relationship build avvalantey u have to live it to build it....Now nenu cheppina sleeping together after or widout sex is one of it....opposite sex ki manam attach ipothamu ala chesthey...manaki theliyakundaney.....I think many people with agree with that.....And then if the couple are lucky they face challenges which needs each other help to get through it....for eg the woman loses her father....and the man will be there rock solid giving his shoulder....bingo....they r building something which is going to have so much foundation.....alanti challenge ostha untey relationship strength build avuthoo untadhi....dats why people having kids n then getting divorced face a lot of pain than people seperating b4 they built anything.....the more u live life with other the more u love them...most of the times....
fair enough bedar !
but dating meeda still not conviced nenu  .. kani thread heatekki poyindhi.. someother time. |
Elcaminocapastrino
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Shawshank:my body does not dictate what I do, it is my mind that does it. I have controlled lots and lots of basic urges, some times I faltered, but learnt quickly. I think any body can control any urge, however strong it may be. I am sure you disagree.
everyone has a breaking point....viswamitra lanti rushuklu kooda thadabaddaru.....u can live the way u want to live....u want to give up sex...go ahead..its ur right...u want to give up koffee...its ur right....But do not judge others who likes sex n koffee..... |
Shawshank
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Humpty_dumpty:
warning deniki bro ..
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