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Raman
Side Hero Username: Raman
Post Number: 6753 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 159.182.1.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 01:51 pm: |
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Basky_indya:I have seen reverse. kids came from india at 5,6 years and continuing here. now they are 16,17. they dont know even the basic ettiquettes of receiving family calls(phone) or in-visits.
my kids are same type .. manam mattadamante chilakalga edo cheptaru .. H_D valla daddy laga nenu kuda roju class peekuta unta what is communication basic ettiquettes anto chala lite teeskuntaru .. maa pakkintlo ikkada putti perigina desi kids call cheyyagane answer chesi details kanukkuni valla parents lekapote vachaka call cheyaman cheptamu ani kooda cheptaru .. pillalaki emi problemo .. nuvvu fone chese tyme lo Wii PS3 lativi edo adutu untaru andukani lite teeskunu untaru .. ee mathraniki BP enduku samy necessity is mother of all inventions ane aryokti ni nammukuntu munduku potunna .. vallaki avasaram vastundi pakana vallani chusi nerchukuntaru ane nammakam to |
   
Jodhaa
Hero Username: Jodhaa
Post Number: 18716 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.174.58.140
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 01:51 pm: |
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Khandada:daya chesi maa pillal meedha kaadhu maa meedha comment seyyandi
 Khandada:phone answer seyyatam, relatives talk nee reciprocate seyyatam depends on upbringing not desi, amru culture
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Khandada
Junior Artist Username: Khandada
Post Number: 719 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 64.79.135.151
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 01:44 pm: |
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basky mama phone answer seyyatam, relatives talk nee reciprocate seyyatam depends on upbringing not desi, amru culture I am a live eggjample maaku chinappudu( <10 yrs) phone vachina kothalo chala worst gaa hello ok type talk chesy waadnee okay IAS relative ma dad kee complain sethay maa babu appudu how to talk ani class peekadu he basically was not aware of my phone handling daya chesi maa pillal meedha kaadhu maa meedha comment seyyandi Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall,Humpty Dumpty had a great fall |
   
Simba
Side Hero Username: Simba
Post Number: 4809 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 206.210.17.33
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 01:31 pm: |
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Basky_indya:
What do you expect from the kids? Intlo Indian la undi, bayata velthe American la behave cheyyala? Poor kids suffer with dual life. India lo unna indians, US lo unna Americans have a simple life. Why should indian kids settled in US should act like both? Your expectations are unreal on kids. |
   
Siloan
Megastar Username: Siloan
Post Number: 21929 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 132.174.20.41
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 01:06 pm: |
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Raman:
sennai lo paaga veyyi... |
   
Kkd
Megastar Username: Kkd
Post Number: 21948 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 101.63.252.211
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:47 pm: |
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kid 5-6 yrs before move aithe ...very smooth...they do not even realize much....very easy to adjust |
   
Gandhiguevara
Megastar Username: Gandhiguevara
Post Number: 26323 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.151.13.188
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:43 pm: |
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Anand_n:their son was in 8th grade
chaala ghoram idhi maatram...matru desaniki balavantham gaa dooram cheyyadam  |
   
Raman
Side Hero Username: Raman
Post Number: 6745 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 159.182.1.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:41 pm: |
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Basky_indya:
malli ikkadaki radam jarigite like permanent move ante .. But it is not going to happen |
   
Basky_indya
Legend Username: Basky_indya
Post Number: 31336 Registered: 10-2007 Posted From: 24.127.230.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:39 pm: |
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Raman:I will know the answer very soon next year ide time ki kanapadite answer chepta
aaa next year ki nuvvu ikkada untav  kRUshITHO nAsthee dURbhikSHAM!! JP_ROCKS: ...der unte enchakka andarni giant wheel ekkistadu..girrr mani oogachu.. |
   
Raman
Side Hero Username: Raman
Post Number: 6742 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 159.182.1.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:38 pm: |
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Kkd:
Anand_n:
good news for me anukuntunna .. but my kids are too laid back  |
   
Basky_indya
Legend Username: Basky_indya
Post Number: 31335 Registered: 10-2007 Posted From: 24.127.230.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:35 pm: |
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I have seen reverse. kids came from india at 5,6 years and continuing here. now they are 16,17. they dont know even the basic ettiquettes of receiving family calls(phone) or in-visits. intlo phone chesthey , manam kalividia matladutham, em kavali, leru andi, emanna cheppala, call back cheyyala etc etc ani. those teens doesnt behave this normal. phone etthi haloooo ani, mummy not there and hangup the phone anthey. intiki vellina, mee cousins ante, aaamudham taagina face reaction istharu, as if we are going to occupy his room ani. kRUshITHO nAsthee dURbhikSHAM!! JP_ROCKS: ...der unte enchakka andarni giant wheel ekkistadu..girrr mani oogachu.. |
   
Kkd
Megastar Username: Kkd
Post Number: 21946 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 101.63.252.211
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:30 pm: |
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Anand_n:I have friends who moved back when their son was in 8th grade. They have adjusted well enough :-) Kids adjust easily - they may complain and whine for a bit but they do.Adults have to adjust their expectations of the kids - it is a tough transition and if you expect your kids to perform at the same level as XYZ 's kids then you will have problems anukuntunna. But as long as you move before highschool you should be fine:-)I would not advise after that as the work styles in school are so different :-)
perfect..and true in all cases i have seen including :-) |
   
Raman
Side Hero Username: Raman
Post Number: 6736 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 159.182.1.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:23 pm: |
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I will know the answer very soon next year ide time ki kanapadite answer chepta |
   
Anand_n
Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 11584 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.24.150
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:23 pm: |
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Moviefan84:US lo NRI kids eppudainaa parents R2I ayithe, akkada survive avuthaaraa? Aa street smartness, aa life style, aa comparisions completely different.. R2I parents mee experiences post seyyandi..
I have friends who moved back when their son was in 8th grade. They have adjusted well enough Kids adjust easily - they may complain and whine for a bit but they do.Adults have to adjust their expectations of the kids - it is a tough transition and if you expect your kids to perform at the same level as XYZ 's kids then you will have problems anukuntunna. But as long as you move before highschool you should be fine I would not advise after that as the work styles in school are so different  The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim |
   
Moviefan84
Side Hero Username: Moviefan84
Post Number: 5444 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.138.1.3
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2012 - 12:17 pm: |
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US lo NRI kids eppudainaa parents R2I ayithe, akkada survive avuthaaraa? Aa street smartness, aa life style, aa comparisions completely different.. R2I parents mee experiences post seyyandi.. |