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Jai_ycp
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Post Number: 19667 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 108.31.153.56
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:47 am: |
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What is the purpose of life? Companionship? Why do we marry or have offspring? Answer this question before you say anything. Then answer can be found |
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Bharateeyudu
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Post Number: 11673 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 117.213.177.106
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:42 am: |
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Swayamkrushi:f one is affluent enough he should go for maximum kids not even 2(even 5 or 6 or 10)
em ambani ki mugguru enduku 30 mandi vunna thappu ledu..thats how wealth gets distributed..and of those 30 kids evado iddare sustain avthaaru business lo..it creates balance ani my view.. JAB THAK JAATHIVAAD SE VOTE DAALA JAAYEGA THAB THAK ANDHERA KHAAYAM RAHEGAA ~(Janevu Dhaari Parusuraam vamsaj Rahul G ki Jai) Bharatha Desama Voopiri Peelchuko..Babu and Baba are coming!!! |
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Critic
Comedian Username: Critic
Post Number: 1609 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 99.203.57.173
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:37 am: |
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May not be related to this thread... My friend who's son at age of 13 died due to skiing accident few years ago... they also have a daughter... but abbayi chanipoyadani enni years depression lo ki vellipoyaru... recently at age of 40 she gave a birth to one more child (daughter). They are little happy now. What I am saying is it is better to have two or three if you are financially and age wise better... ee America America lanti depressing weather conditions, night pafukuneppudu single kid may not grow wrll. Ofcourse on the other hand, I have seen parents single kid ni chaala baaga caringteesukunnavaaallani...focus kooda ekkuvuntundi kid pai.. I like 2-3 kids family ante... epudu pandaga laaga untundi... I came from big family (7 siblings) so I like that. |
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Anthamidhya
Junior Artist Username: Anthamidhya
Post Number: 558 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 70.119.103.67
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:20 am: |
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Blood is thicker than water . Ee vishayam all is well appudu telavadhu. Life andariki dhoola teerusthundhi , matter of when not if. Nothing like siblings but even better if we can teach them values of being together for each other for life |
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Swayamkrushi
Comedian Username: Swayamkrushi
Post Number: 1196 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 108.51.148.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:20 am: |
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Mandharam:wife pothe(death or divorce) immediate ga marriage cheskovachu but off-spring pothe(not just death, if they desert the parents) emi chesthavu mastaru so both different
Bharateeyudu:if one is affluent enough he should go for maximum kids not even 2(even 5 or 6 or 10)
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Polavaram
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Post Number: 5134 Registered: 08-2016 Posted From: 99.203.28.187
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 07:33 am: |
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Siblings leni life ni imagine cheyyalen Good or bad or happy or sad or infact all emotions , they were with me and they are going to be with me ane feeling oka kickku Siblings are your strength and your weakness Amen |
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Bharateeyudu
Hero Username: Bharateeyudu
Post Number: 11670 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 117.213.177.106
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 06:19 am: |
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I will be harsh..single kid waste..its better to have no kids than having single kid..(unless heath complications).. ee quality education tokka thota kura doesnt matter One is depriving siblings love for your child and also future lo antho intho vunte thammudo akka vunnaru ani cheppukovachchu..forget caring old parents. I have seen two families who were born rich in desam itself and were double rich in US still they had single kids..unfortunately their kids died in their teenage.The families are devastated one returned to india also and left job and doing agriculture in village(Inkenduku sampadinchaali ane nairaasyam tho) another is still at bay area. Anyways my opinion is always firm..if one is affluent enough he should go for maximum kids not even 2(even 5 or 6 or 10).. a poor person needs to have single kid..(desam lo vulta vuntadi poor goes for max kids while ultra rich will have single or two kids yekkado manchu vishnu laanti aanimuthyaalu thappithe..)/// for my position I would go for 2 kids..If one is having 100 crs property he should go for 4 to 5 kids.. nations requires more well of kids than poor or poverty stricken kids.. PS: special love to sannayi and speaker ee dblo yekkuva pillalu vunnadi vellake  JAB THAK JAATHIVAAD SE VOTE DAALA JAAYEGA THAB THAK ANDHERA KHAAYAM RAHEGAA ~(Janevu Dhaari Parusuraam vamsaj Rahul G ki Jai) Bharatha Desama Voopiri Peelchuko..Babu and Baba are coming!!! |
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Mandharam
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Post Number: 5587 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 122.171.232.22
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 05:26 am: |
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Gochi:Same logic wifes ki kooda apply chesi inkoka wife ni chesukuntey better antaara...malli age aiooyaaka isthaaro ledho mari....asalu oka amma, oka naanna, oka bhaarya relation ok ainappudu oka kid why not...
wife pothe(death or divorce) immediate ga marriage cheskovachu but off-spring pothe(not just death, if they desert the parents) emi chesthavu mastaru so both different |
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Rangoon
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Post Number: 4179 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 113.23.137.112
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 08:13 pm: |
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Anthe kaani okaru pothe inkokaru ana daridrapu logic tesuku raakandi... it will hurt many people. Asalu aa alochane depressing ga untundi. Please respect members sensitivities.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> it concludes 2 kids better (okariki ichina salaha nu inkokaru adapt chesukokuudadhu. case by case suggestions maari pothaayi) |
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Anand_n
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Post Number: 18694 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 174.207.11.162
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 05:41 pm: |
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Musafir:May be, the right gap is the key. I have seen 5 years + gap work better than a year or two.
Not really - we are less than 2 years apart , my boys are 5 years apart , friend has kids who are only a year apart - no problems with any of these The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim |
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Hero
Hero Username: Hero
Post Number: 13889 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 104.177.182.44
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 04:59 pm: |
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More kids more fun Siblings are best gifts u can give to your kids |
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Aha
Side Hero Username: Aha
Post Number: 6159 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 205.153.115.162
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:50 pm: |
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Gochi:asalu oka amma, oka naanna, oka bhaarya relation ok ainappudu oka kid why not...
Husband/wife, amma/nanna same group lo untaaru, so long term company expected and fulfilled in all fortunate cases. But kids ki edige vayasulo sibling company makes lot of difference, regardless of unprecedented attention from parents. Sharing and caring value telustundi. Selflessness develop avutundi. DB members ki request - evari personal choice vaalladi ani munduku vellandi. Anthe kaani okaru pothe inkokaru ana daridrapu logic tesuku raakandi... it will hurt many people. Asalu aa alochane depressing ga untundi. Please respect members sensitivities. The One and Only Veturi |
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Hanuman_junction
Junior Artist Username: Hanuman_junction
Post Number: 924 Registered: 02-2016 Posted From: 98.158.244.89
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:42 pm: |
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we need thread for 2+ kids, forget about single kid family. mostly of single kid batch having 2nd kid in 40's. |
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Jodhaa
Legend Username: Jodhaa
Post Number: 38348 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 70.113.13.173
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:34 pm: |
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Enni sarlu vesthaaru same thread?? Chusss |
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Enigmatic
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Post Number: 2407 Registered: 11-2010 Posted From: 69.249.71.186
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:29 pm: |
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multiple kids vundi aasthi kosam kottukuni, father okadu mother inkodu daggara vunde kante okka kid better. |
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Gochi
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Post Number: 4027 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 64.121.67.210
Rating:  Votes: 3 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:23 pm: |
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Starc:even now same anukunta.. single kid unte.. anything happens to him, or failue, or cannot support parents etc ayithe chala kastam ga.. may be still older thoughts kani.. good reasons to have more
Same logic wifes ki kooda apply chesi inkoka wife ni chesukuntey better antaara...malli age aiooyaaka isthaaro ledho mari....asalu oka amma, oka naanna, oka bhaarya relation ok ainappudu oka kid why not...
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Swayamkrushi
Comedian Username: Swayamkrushi
Post Number: 1192 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 171.159.66.11
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:18 pm: |
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My opinion. Have one of your own(none is also fine if you can handle the societal pressure). If you have more love to spread, adopt a kid. But please try to treat them equally. adannamaaTa (read like venkatesh after he reciting is poem) |
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Mandharam
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Post Number: 5579 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 122.171.235.96
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:13 pm: |
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Swayamkrushi:your opinion is in very bad taste. osama
Aayana threads anni oka depressed state lo vesinattu vuntayi I am sorry if it hurts Konchem chanuvu theeskunna |
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Mandharam
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Post Number: 5578 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 122.171.235.96
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:11 pm: |
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Chand:better to have a girl and a boy
Two girls is best Illu kala kaladuthundhi |
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Swayamkrushi
Comedian Username: Swayamkrushi
Post Number: 1191 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 171.159.194.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:11 pm: |
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Mandharam:Why not to have single child ki proof meeru Mee threads
your opinion is in very bad taste. osama is not the example to have multiple kids right? |
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Mandharam
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Post Number: 5577 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 122.171.235.96
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:08 pm: |
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Ballasticmissile:no i grow up single...no attachment to any other family members rather than my mom and dad....i rarely have attachment to any of those family members,....
Why not to have single child ki proof meeru Mee threads |
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Chand
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Post Number: 16450 Registered: 10-2013 Posted From: 183.83.156.173
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:06 pm: |
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better to have a girl and a boy |
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Swayamkrushi
Comedian Username: Swayamkrushi
Post Number: 1190 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 171.159.194.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:02 pm: |
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Starc:may be still older thoughts kani.. good reasons to have more
Most selfish reason emo... |
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Starc
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Post Number: 8623 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.78
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:01 pm: |
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First kids is blessing, Second kid is fun, Third kid is always more caring |
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Chikitha
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Post Number: 12133 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 106.201.43.119
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:57 pm: |
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Forget about kid.. parents itself becoming pocessive.. too much caring... Fever vasthe vaniki povadam.. fnds tho adanivvalanna thinking... Etc etc . Bochedu chustunna appartment lo.. slowly everyone started having second one . |
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Twitter
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Post Number: 66603 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.183
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:57 pm: |
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Sannayi_nokkulu:second time twins.
oh nice ..congrats |
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Sannayi_nokkulu
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Post Number: 37093 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 68.100.238.174
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:56 pm: |
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Twitter:1 own 1 adapted is ideal deal
ilage anukunnamu.......second time twins....ippudu memu vere vallaki adoption iche situation.....kiki Perugu kavalaa perugu Vada kavalaa vada Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada https://streamable.com/f4riy Modi chesina help eppatikk maruvalenu bob Kia is posssible bcos of Modi - lokesh https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10218450763926010&set=a.3135785239187&type=3&theater |
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Twitter
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Post Number: 66602 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.183
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:54 pm: |
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1 own 1 adapted is ideal deal |
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Twitter
Legend Username: Twitter
Post Number: 66601 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.183
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:54 pm: |
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any no. >0 is fine |
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Ferrari
Hero Username: Ferrari
Post Number: 17439 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 192.158.44.11
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:45 pm: |
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Ballasticmissile:no attachment to any other family members rather than my mom and dad....i rarely have attachment to any of those family members
ni theds chusthe evarikaina ardham avutundi le idhi.. |
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Starc
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Post Number: 8622 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.78
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:40 pm: |
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ee madya 3rd kid in early 40s chala trending lo undi.. ma chuttu pakkala mari plan chesi chesukuntunnaru.. ... aa age lo mundu oka kukkani tecchukune vallu ippudu aa efforts e pedithe mana bidda perugutundi ani pothunnaru emo |
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Starc
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Post Number: 8620 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.78
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:38 pm: |
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Ballasticmissile:being a single child is the best thing a child can experience.....little prince syndrome of china google kar...
ma parents cheppe vallu.. aa kalam lo oo 8kids kante.. 3 to 4 survive ayye vallu anta.. single kid unte.. vadu pothe enti ani.. they used to prefer minimum 3 or above.. even now same anukunta.. single kid unte.. anything happens to him, or failue, or cannot support parents etc ayithe chala kastam ga.. may be still older thoughts kani.. good reasons to have more |
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Ballasticmissile
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Post Number: 11847 Registered: 07-2012 Posted From: 145.116.177.201
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:33 pm: |
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Starc:single kid ante.. chala dull ga untadi anukunta life.. parents kuda full focus chesi.. unna okallani chadugudu adukuntaru emo
being a single child is the best thing a child can experience.....little prince syndrome of china google kar... Capacity vundi, laziness, and uninspired life is a waste of time. YOLO kada.... But experiences is how you bring meaning to life. Worthiness should be earned with adequate efforts. |
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Starc
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Post Number: 8618 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 170.63.120.78
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:31 pm: |
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I am from big big families. I cannot imagine how single kid would live. ma dantlo chinna function ayyina.. oo 100 jama avutharu.. cricket kuda ade vallam.. it only in family. single kid ante.. chala dull ga untadi anukunta life.. parents kuda full focus chesi.. unna okallani chadugudu adukuntaru emo |
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Bunty717
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Post Number: 59464 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.161.172
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:30 pm: |
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.naa situation ide// keka sannai.. |
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Bunty717
Legend Username: Bunty717
Post Number: 59463 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.160.29
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:30 pm: |
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Kids ee kada uncle// kids ee uncle.. 2 ayite must annatu ee desam lo unnaaa.. |
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Ballasticmissile
Hero Username: Ballasticmissile
Post Number: 11846 Registered: 07-2012 Posted From: 145.116.177.201
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:28 pm: |
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Liteteesko: manam perigindi with cousins and family/relatives thoti kabatti manaki pedda pain telavaledu...manakedaina help kavalsunte family members eppudu ..evaro okallu untaaru....konthamandi anochu firends unnaaru maaku family members leru etc etc ani..manaki ee friends unnaaru ante manam vallatho close untaamu kabatti...meeru observe cheyandi ee generation kids ki relations antha strong undavu ..whether it is friends or cousins..anduke siblings unte parents taruvatha there is some one to share and care....
no i grow up single...no attachment to any other family members rather than my mom and dad....i rarely have attachment to any of those family members,.... Capacity vundi, laziness, and uninspired life is a waste of time. YOLO kada.... But experiences is how you bring meaning to life. Worthiness should be earned with adequate efforts. |
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Sannayi_nokkulu
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Post Number: 37075 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 68.100.238.174
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:26 pm: |
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Bunty717:3 is best
Bunty garu enti idi ....naa situation ide Perugu kavalaa perugu Vada kavalaa vada Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada https://streamable.com/f4riy Modi chesina help eppatikk maruvalenu bob Kia is posssible bcos of Modi - lokesh https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10218450763926010&set=a.3135785239187&type=3&theater |
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Guru
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Post Number: 14688 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 98.221.21.126
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:23 pm: |
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Bunty717:min 2 undaali.. 3 is best.. 4 is tooo much annatu..
Kids ee kada uncle  |
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Bunty717
Legend Username: Bunty717
Post Number: 59462 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.160.29
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 11:44 am: |
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min 2 undaali.. 3 is best.. 4 is tooo much annatu.. |
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Musafir
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Post Number: 1466 Registered: 10-2018 Posted From: 174.235.9.9
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 11:40 am: |
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Anand_n:after a long gap - best decision ever ...
May be, the right gap is the key. I have seen 5 years + gap work better than a year or two. |
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Anand_n
Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 18692 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.243.73.207
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 10:20 pm: |
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Been thru both thought processes but in different situations... had first kid in India - felt bad about mom and mom-in- law coming in to help they his infancy and thought one is good as he was growing up among cousins...then moved to the US and the realization hit that he was not going to have anyone to turn to once we are gone .., so went for the second after a long gap - best decision ever ... I know how important siblings are - I have only one but I know I can depend on him when I need and vice versa ... it’s a huge sense of security for both of us ... sure not all siblings may have the best of relationships but all said and done blood is thicker than water ! The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim |
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Risingstar
Legend Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 42092 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 96.245.82.131
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:27 pm: |
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Gochi:Single kid is fine..personally i was a single child myself and i never felt i needed a sibling or felt void of anything.... Ee question elaa undante, love marriage chesukunnodni love marriage better aa arranged better aa ani adigithe em chepthaadu..only love ey ayyindi, arranged koodaa ayyaaka chebuthaa antaadu..alaane single child gaa unnodiki they dont know what it is to be having a sibling, similarly people with siblings dont know how it is to be a single child..if u can be both, then give suggestions...
Gos baa  |
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Sannayi_nokkulu
Legend Username: Sannayi_nokkulu
Post Number: 36998 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 68.100.238.174
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:24 pm: |
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Rangoon:if something unexpected thing happen. Parents have nothing to enjoy the life
shame to shame my cusin tolded...is there any guarntee 2 kids gone in accident?? Perugu kavalaa perugu Vada kavalaa vada Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada https://streamable.com/f4riy Modi chesina help eppatikk maruvalenu bob Kia is posssible bcos of Modi - lokesh https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10218450763926010&set=a.3135785239187&type=3&theater |
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Liteteesko
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Post Number: 5195 Registered: 01-2012 Posted From: 194.223.190.139
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:11 pm: |
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Ferrari:if something unexpected happens for both of them..
less chances kadaa.. |
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Ferrari
Hero Username: Ferrari
Post Number: 17429 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 108.171.131.187
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:10 pm: |
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Rangoon:any thing possible but probability is less
that's what i'm saying..anything can happen and doesn't matter if the number is 1 or 2 or 3 or more..its all about affordability... |
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Post Number: 5194 Registered: 01-2012 Posted From: 194.223.190.139
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chaala mandi kids ikkada ..memu single kids we are fine ani antunnaaru kaani... manam perigindi with cousins and family/relatives thoti kabatti manaki pedda pain telavaledu...manakedaina help kavalsunte family members eppudu ..evaro okallu untaaru....konthamandi anochu firends unnaaru maaku family members leru etc etc ani..manaki ee friends unnaaru ante manam vallatho close untaamu kabatti...meeru observe cheyandi ee generation kids ki relations antha strong undavu ..whether it is friends or cousins..anduke siblings unte parents taruvatha there is some one to share and care.... parents lenappudu kaneesam fortnight ki okasari phone chesi baane unnaava ani adige oka relation untadi sibling unte ika karchu gurinchi entha thakkuva matladukunte antha manchidi..india lo manaki enni properties unnaa..vachindi suitcase thote..same way kids kooda anthe..naaku thelsina chaala mandi families lo kids parents properties ni charity ki ciheyandi maakoddu anna vallani chaala mandini chusaa... manchi budhi reasonable eduction isthe chaalemo kids ki...manam mana parents antha time ivvalekapotunnaamu kabatti kids ki ..oka sibling isthe they have someone to share and care |
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Enigmatic
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even better. don't marry buy a ferrari chage girlfriends frequently
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Rangoon
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Post Number: 4173 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 113.23.137.112
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if something unexpected happens for both of them..>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> any thing possible but probability is less |
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Ferrari
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Post Number: 17428 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 108.171.131.187
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Rangoon:I kid - blindly no if something unexpected thing happen. Parents have nothing to enjoy the life blindly go for 2.
if something unexpected happens for both of them.. |
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Rangoon
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I kid - blindly no if something unexpected thing happen. Parents have nothing to enjoy the life blindly go for 2. if you love kids adapt more or help for their studies. one kid package ante you should prepare for no kid package also |
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Ferrari
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Post Number: 17427 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 108.171.131.187
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Telugu_times:Reputed colleges give tuition waivers, based on family income. In US, colleges never penalise/discourage students based on their financial situation. Admission raavadam kastam, but once got in, money is not an issue in top colleges in USA
naams ke vaasthe college anna bhayya..inka chaala scenarios lo 2 kids aithe everything gets halved ani na uddesham...for example if i have 1 kid and my budget for shopping is 100$ then i can buy him a good amount of clothes in that budget but adhe 2 kids aithe i should spent 50$ on each..adhi na inner meaning.. |
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Gochi:
There is no way u can be both.. So evariki tochina ans ivvadame.. Ika love arranged.. edaina marriage okate.. brahma satyam jagan-mithyä jivo brahmaiva näparah |
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I personally HATE imagining ONE CHILD. I think it is a punishment to the kid. Also, after parents passes away, there is NO ONE for that single child to dependent on anyone. NO MONEY can buy the joy/pain/experience/emotions etc. that a siblings give each other. At the same time I am also against having too many kids as world's population is exploding (especially this is painful for any Indian as our country's main problem is population), I encourage courageous young couple have 1 kid on your own and adopt 1 or 2 kids. |
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Ee madhya early 40s telisinayana 3rd kid confirm ayindani cheppadu, sudden ga inka form la unnara aneesa, chi deenemma nooti doola kakapothe, emanukunnado emo |
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Single kid batch, second kid ki mid 40s , 3rd kid ki mid 50s lo plan cheyandi. Jai Trump Money can be earned later. Kids? Where ever you go, we follow- Hutch Dog |
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Mandharam:But they feel lonely all their life.
I am envy of my frds when I look at them..who ever has those single kids I have 3 frds .....they just had single kid Do we really need 2 kids?? They can play at school or if you train with friends Ok ....if they don’t have siblings they don’t know value of relations blah blah.... How many of us now maintaining relations purely?? With out money hooplas..... I feel don’t worry..,...just go for what u r heart says Perugu kavalaa perugu Vada kavalaa vada Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada https://streamable.com/f4riy Modi chesina help eppatikk maruvalenu bob Kia is posssible bcos of Modi - lokesh https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10218450763926010&set=a.3135785239187&type=3&theater |
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Single kid is fine..personally i was a single child myself and i never felt i needed a sibling or felt void of anything.... Ee question elaa undante, love marriage chesukunnodni love marriage better aa arranged better aa ani adigithe em chepthaadu..only love ey ayyindi, arranged koodaa ayyaaka chebuthaa antaadu..alaane single child gaa unnodiki they dont know what it is to be having a sibling, similarly people with siblings dont know how it is to be a single child..if u can be both, then give suggestions... |
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Musafir
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Confused:How about adopting the second one?
Great idea in principle. But Sherin Mathews case choosam kada.. Voddu babu. Aite andaru adopted undali. Leda none. |
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Anyone adopted a child here ? |
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Anthamidhya
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If you have 3 , then you may be forced to buy a 7 seater instead of 5 seater. One of my colleague had twins on 2nd go and his immediate problem was changing cars !!! J/k |
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Confused
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How about adopting the second one? |
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Aquarian
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I want 4... |
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Telugu_times
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Min 2 kids better. 3 is also good.
Ferrari:depends upon the financial status of the parents..with 2 kids they need to plan about spending the same amount on education and other things for both of them..say if you have 100k and 1 kid then you can send him to some reputed college but 2 kids you need to divide the 100k into 2 and send both the kids to a lesser reputed college..
Reputed colleges give tuition waivers, based on family income. In US, colleges never penalise/discourage students based on their financial situation. Admission raavadam kastam, but once got in, money is not an issue in top colleges in USA |
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Ferrari
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Speaker:Avvataaniki malla PM vi... legessssssssssssss
PM ayina developer ayina, program manager ayina prod support ayina andhariki same jeetham 70k bracket..oka GC holders ki oka 30k ekkuva istaru.. |
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Ocanada
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Pulpfiction:2 min 3 ideal 4 awesome
Mari 11 |
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Mental_sachinodu
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Hanuman_junction: I saw families devastated loosing their only child
recently met someone .. had a single kid.. but they lost her... they seem like they dont have anything to live for right now... planning to go back to desam... |
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Manthri
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ikkada ..many desis are going for 3rd, which is a good sign. you need siblings in life, vallatho good terms lo leka poyina |
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3-4 kids undali intloo kalakalaladuddi |
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Hanuman_junction
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min 2. I saw families devastated loosing their only child. 1+1(adopt) even better scenario |
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more than one kid aithee okkadu sesin appulani migatha vaalu theerusthaaru so that family doesn't get bad name j/k. In general better to have more than one atleast in the foreign land ur kid will have someone to share if at all he wants to do. vallakid esam lo vunna cousins tho pedha releation vundadhu |
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Ferrari:ma lanti lower middle class TCS fellows
Avvataaniki malla PM vi... legessssssssssssss Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke.. |
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Ferrari: ma lanti lower middle class TCS fellows ittage alochistaru..meeru ante Bay area and double earning folks..mi alochanalu veru...
hehe, ekkada aina adhey math applicable , meeru anukunnantha emi ledhu roju intlo same lekkalu, pre-school ki ekkada pampinchali kid ni ani |
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Pulpfiction:4 awesome
 Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke.. |
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2 min 3 ideal 4 awesome Congrats tdp ! |
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Ferrari
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Biggboss:ee math ekkada nerchukunnavu 1 kid ki 100k/1 2 kids ki 100l/2 SNIST lo na
ma lanti lower middle class TCS fellows ittage alochistaru..meeru ante Bay area and double earning folks..mi alochanalu veru... |
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Musafir
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To each his or her own. From what I have seen, single kid unna parents also have a lot of time on their hands. Can be real productive. Kids can excel and parents can devote their time 100%. Parents will also have time to spend on their own adventures. Traveling with one kid is much easier than 2. And the advantages of having more than one kid are already listed here. |
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Biggboss
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Ferrari:say if you have 100k and 1 kid then you can send him to some reputed college but 2 kids you need to divide the 100k into 2 and send both the kids to a lesser reputed college..
ee math ekkada nerchukunnavu 1 kid ki 100k/1 2 kids ki 100l/2 SNIST lo na
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Ferrari
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depends upon the financial status of the parents..with 2 kids they need to plan about spending the same amount on education and other things for both of them..say if you have 100k and 1 kid then you can send him to some reputed college but 2 kids you need to divide the 100k into 2 and send both the kids to a lesser reputed college.. |
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Speaker
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Have 3 or 4 kids.. If u want more fun.. Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke.. |
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Chitti_babu
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A BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OO |
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Baatasari
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i wud reco 2 kid family.. (not there yet personally) the pros of having 2 kids outweigh the cons .. and yes looking after old parents, having a sibling will help in long run.. brahma satyam jagan-mithyä jivo brahmaiva näparah |
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Ballasticmissile
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I’m there single child of my parents...... I feel great because I don’t have financial hurdles...so I easily dived into the quest for knowledge... If there are two kids there arises scenario where children compete.... Secondly no attachments....which makes self made humans .... Only drawback is if in India there is a risk for child and his life which cannot be discounted... Myself just missed death 3 times...2 times on motorbike.....in teenage I wanna travel fast to get thrill....vizag beach road meeda 110 kmph lo bike skid almost ayipoyan anukuni once...second time also beach road....just missed a major accident...adding to it 10-15 times bike accidents.. So choice is yours.....if can control go for one else two... Capacity vundi, laziness, and uninspired life is a waste of time. YOLO kada.... But experiences is how you bring meaning to life. Worthiness should be earned with adequate efforts. |
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Emc2
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Mandharam:Single child financially looks good.
yes and no, depends on your earnings
Mandharam:But they feel lonely all their life. Especially after the parents are gone, they have none to share their emotions with. Even when parents are alive, there are certain things a brother/sister helps
i don't think this is true, i rarely see sharing emotions between siblings. relative really doesn't matter, system is changed, especially if you are living in metro area helping each other is not from relatives. these are the not a criteria to have multiple or single child if you like to have one more go for it. It's ok
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Mandharam
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Single child financially looks good. But they feel lonely all their life. Especially after the parents are gone, they have none to share their emotions with. Even when parents are alive, there are certain things a brother/sister helps In the urban/modern lifestyle with nuclear families we are almost cut off from our relatives. So our next generation will be total strangers with our relatives families. Single child might prove disastrous when the parents grow old. It is easy to say that leave them in old-age hostels. Not spending the final years with parents is bad thing anybody wants |