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Nanigadu Megastar Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 20554 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 32.97.110.55 Rating: N/A |
@Love4all ------------------------------------ Stay strong brother we all will pray for speedy recovery for the little one Stay Blessed | ||
Asdf Megastar Username: Asdf Post Number: 28337 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 76.109.163.196 Rating: N/A |
hopefully the kid will be alright very soon.  please take care of yourself as well, and dont think while driving. | ||
Musicfan Comedian Username: Musicfan Post Number: 1438 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
Dont go now when treatment is in progress. Without you, your wife managing alone will be impossible. You will be support to her wherever you are make sure you all as family are together. No one can beat that strength. Unless its impossible to manage finances here for medical bills, dont think of changing the place. One of my close friend mother-in-law is undergoing esophagus cancer treatment, logistics are very tough as he says.. Here you wont have those challenges. And hospitals are just fine to leave anyone alone in the hospital. If you need moral support bring in people from India. Since parents are here, you should be fine. Other than that until treatment is complete and she is declared free, dont think of going to India. One of my collegue at work managed alone with his wife treated for Lukemia. So dont let any emotions/fear come to your mind. Just stay strong and tough.. best will happen automatically. Baahubali 2 Audio review | ||
Netra Megastar Username: Netra Post Number: 25964 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 69.53.240.84 Rating: N/A |
Nenu india treatment cheppalenu kaani but I know there are good doctors.. But meeru maathram pampoddu as long as treatment goes.. Once she is out of danger then you can plan.. Happy gaa vellochhu.. YSR AMAR RAHE | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 24 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
inkoka
from last few months, i felt she became normal except some bad days. india ki vellalani baga undi just bhayamestundi, atleast vaalliddarini pampaalanna doc details anni telusukuni pampudama or treatment ayyentavaraku wait cheddam ani undi.. parents india nunchi vacharu, that helped alot for both wife and kid. Thanks for the information about the immigration, things akkadivaraku radu anukuntunna but just in case preparing for the worst and gathering information | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 23 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
Thanks everyone.. we are not seeing boston childrens hospital now but had second opinion there.. its almost 1.5 to 2 hrs journey from where i stay but move avudam anna uddesam tho second opinion ki velte, the doc there said its going to be same protocol so unless i feel the need or urgency, i dont need to be moved from where she was being treated..i liked the docs here they are very familiar with her case details and other strings attached apart from leukemia at the time of diagnosis. so i felt its better to continue here. the gud thing is she being diagnosed with low risk, her treatment duration would be little less than expected. | ||
Tombrady Legend Username: Tombrady Post Number: 56154 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.220.32 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear this | ||
Kranth1 Side Hero Username: Kranth1 Post Number: 3830 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 209.136.235.11 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear Bro. I pray that your spouse H1 gets picked this year and your daughter gets treated "Every twist, every turn, can challenge our sense of direction. But it's the choices we make when we reach a fork in the road that define who we are." - Dexter | ||
Musicfan Comedian Username: Musicfan Post Number: 1432 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: |
Sorry to hear, but its a fight that needs to be won.. Key things easy to say but hope you will get strength for the following 1. Dont let any -ve energy pop into the family by any means. 2. Dont let anyone loose hope, having positive frame of mind is very important to fight. 3. Have the life as normal as possible. 4. No Panic at any time. You have 1.5 years, file for green card, Its better to be here and continue the treatment. Dont think of other options at this time. I guess your daughter is born here, even if not talk to local senator, they will help in all means if immigration/stay here is a problem. I have seen 4 persons recently all who won the fight.. So nothing to worry at this time. After treatment of lukemia one person in neighborhood was perfectly alright, went to India, came back and leading normal life. So nothing to worry. Baahubali 2 Audio review | ||
Redsox2009 Junior Artist Username: Redsox2009 Post Number: 152 Registered: 05-2014 Posted From: 173.48.207.171 Rating: N/A |
Love4all I agree with Boglehead. Two of my colleagues kids were treated at Boston Children's hospital, they were back to their playgrounds in less than 10 months. My best bet would be Boston Hospital. If your daughter is born in US, write a letter to your local Senator, your visa will get extended on Humanitarian Grounds. I knew a guy who did that, when he went through similar situation. Speedy recovery to your daughter. | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 55527 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 172.56.36.57 Rating: N/A |
I have a friend who got ALL and got treated successfully here in the U.S... If it helps you to talk to him, I can connect you both.. Also talk to Kings bro in DB, he is a Cancer survivor too | ||
Thikka_sankara Legend Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 32130 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 106.208.177.153 Rating: N/A |
easy to say stay strong but all the very best bro.... India lo definite ga treatment venues unnayi.... Hearing lots and lots of cases these days.... Chennai appollo log yas, couple of known people underwwent avin(1 case was successful , the other was diagnosed pretty late)....but it's very costly,....so start saving as much as you can..... Chennai cancer institute is considered to be one of the best but it's pretty depressing to go there it seems..... methavulaki venkayya jawaabu.... https://youtu.be/fUafzTD37sY | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 6454 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 82.19.11.233 Rating: N/A |
Stay strong Love4all. There are very good treatments available for Leukemia now. Most of that is available in India as well today. In Hyderabad, the best pediatric oncologists are in Basavatarakam but American Oncology Institute in Nallagandla is also quite famous. However, start your GC process and keep extending the H1 as long as you can. Medical care that you get in the US is unparalleled. When we were in a similar (but not the same) situation back in India, we interacted with doctors here in Boston to understand and digest the prognosis. You are in a situation where you can provide the best medical care in the world to your daughter. Aa paina it is God's wish. May she recover soon. | ||
Asdf Megastar Username: Asdf Post Number: 28318 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 76.109.163.196 Rating: N/A |
stay strong brother. reach out to local NGOs/groups , so you can get more info/help. I will pray for her, incidents like this devudi meeda nammakam pothundi . | ||
Jaguar Junior Artist Username: Jaguar Post Number: 147 Registered: 01-2017 Posted From: 12.180.115.102 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear. https://thetruthaboutcancer.com/ This site talks about alternative treatments. Main stream lobby doesn't believe these treatments. Several hours of videos vunnai site lo...opika vunte choodandi... | ||
Whyme Megastar Username: Whyme Post Number: 21363 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 172.73.186.98 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear.. I wish and pray for the best | ||
Rambo_999 Junior Artist Username: Rambo_999 Post Number: 677 Registered: 03-2017 Posted From: 172.112.16.33 Rating: |
Cigna PPO aa meede ? maade same condition may be enka worse with our younger kiddo, same needed a surgery ended up paying 5k at last. Meeru India ke velthe I am not sure ela workout aythundoo...!! me Doctors tho matladi case manager tho workout chesi..complete ga Ronald Mcdonald house lo stay teesukondi until me kid complete ga cure ayye varaku..meeru work ekkada chesina ebbandi undadhuu.weekends or important appointments unnapudu fly oo drive cheyandi... and RMC house lo food n stay completely free; so meeku financially emi additional burden vundadhu... ma kids and wife alage unde valuu.. unil ma vadu baa ayye varaku. American kids ne chusanu Ronald house loo years years untaru... schooling kuda provide chestaru... worst case scenario loo me immigration emaina pblm ayyina eppudu unna hardship ead rule loo ead ke neeru eligible autharu.. They drew first blood, not me. | ||
Boglehead Junior Artist Username: Boglehead Post Number: 219 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 174.49.142.15 Rating: N/A |
If you live close to Boston, go to Boston children's hospital for treatment. It's one of the top children's hospitals in the country. In terms of treatment, a lot will happen in that 1.5 yrs time on you have on your H1. Get parents or in laws for 6 months because she is likely to spend a significant amount of time in the hospital, and will likely need to go to ER often because of possible complications from the treatment. This might be of some help in understanding her prognosis. https://www.cancer.org/cancer/leukemia-in-children/detection -diagnosis-staging/prognostic-factors.html I hope she does well. | ||
Donvusko Junior Artist Username: Donvusko Post Number: 411 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 68.192.46.75 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear that.dont worry at all. B-ALL treatment has a very good prognosis. The treatment is also standardised across hospitals ,there are currently two protocols and there are plans to standardise into one.if you movie states/countries you would get same treatment.after around 6 months there would be no hospital stays (unless kid is neutropenic). Hospital stays are stressful,kids bounce back quickly.Dont worry too much. will pm tomorrow,we can talk | ||
Ruj Megastar Username: Ruj Post Number: 21090 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 24.118.19.194 Rating: N/A |
bethar be strong.antha manche jarugutundhi.. | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 22 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
MA bro. | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 21 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
nenu ikkada client ki ful time.. vadu ee year chesta ane antunnadu.. ee recent issues tho emayitado ani naa thinking actually negative thinking | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 20 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
memu undedi cali kadu but its true by gods grace we are at best place in the world for the treatment and insurance wise also.. financially its not much burden except paying max of 5k per year our plan out of cost expenses | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 19 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
emo brother asala ilantidi jarugutundi ani expect cheyyaledu so okkasariga negative thinking start ayindi.. most of the times i keep the frustration to my self and dont show it outside, but its very difficult literally hell to see ur little one suffering even some of them are side effects of the treatment... yes, if you know any details about the gud oncologist and insurance like if they cover preexisting ones etc..., please share them
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True_indian Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 14214 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 76.193.121.43 Rating: N/A |
boss sorry to hear but let me know where you live couple of my close friends and cousins are daughters i can ask them pray god for her recovery .those who are serious about their watches display them prominently, those who are more concerned with style and branding present you with aircraft carriers and hide their watches. | ||
Scorpio Hero Username: Scorpio Post Number: 16837 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 170.167.192.52 Rating: N/A |
maa American collegaue 6 year old kid ki ochindi cancer...after several chemos and treatment from last one year...he is normal now Just be brave... You do one more Mumbai, you lose Balochistan - NSA Ajit Doval | ||
Scorpio Hero Username: Scorpio Post Number: 16836 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 170.167.192.52 Rating: N/A |
Good luck !!! You do one more Mumbai, you lose Balochistan - NSA Ajit Doval | ||
Kantha_rao Side Hero Username: Kantha_rao Post Number: 3829 Registered: 11-2013 Posted From: 107.14.54.1 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear about ur daughter bro..,don't worry, all will be well Coming to immigration....apply your GC labor as soon as possible (before your 6th year starts)....then u will keep getting an year extn after that...in the mean time if u get ur 140 approved then u will get 3years in each extn | ||
Rambo_999 Junior Artist Username: Rambo_999 Post Number: 676 Registered: 03-2017 Posted From: 209.252.182.194 Rating: N/A |
kadhu bro...cousin kee cancer specific type telidu ekkada vellaru ani telsu !! But, again India loo unna..treatment ke medicines ke US ninche order chestaru...meeru Calif loo unte , ekkada Medical ke apply cheyandi me kids ke treatment almost free..oka veela thanuuu US Citizen aythe.Else, mee insurance change chesuondi.. St.Judes or Children Hospital loo try cheyandi.. maximum meeru unna state Govt valuu... edo vidhamnaga help chestaru...trust me your'e in safe hands here in US. They drew first blood, not me. | ||
Starc Side Hero Username: Starc Post Number: 5804 Registered: 03-2015 Posted From: 98.110.245.67 Rating: N/A |
Babai.. I had my colleague whose son had leukemia and we worked together for 6 years in one company. We used to have a daily update. It was cured and now the kid is 14. He is cancer free from last 8 years. So there is high chance that it can be cured. So be positive. related to other question, I face cancer case in my family and I lost hope the day i heard news from India. I went to india to talk to doctors and for my surprise only some doctors in hyderabad are top notch. They are not less than any one in usa. I did lots of research on cancer and treatment and i found that india has good facilities. Do not worry about it. I can guide you if you need more details. I can suggest you one thing. It is gods decision and you would not be able to do anything other than supporting patient. Never think of the end. Just become very hard and do not make the environment around you that something very bad happened. Live life as normal. Nature will take care of everything. death, birth etc. you cannot control anything. It is gods decision. | ||
Ipc302 Moderator Username: Ipc302 Post Number: 24429 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear about your daughter...treatment depends on the kind of cancer...some are more complicated than others...india lo treatment options definite ga untayi.... one of my family members had gone thru cancer in 1999 and got cured from basava tarakam hospital....definitely treatment and facilities are better in this country...i wouldn't discount india if you had to go and have no other option...things have improved a lot in India..if you start looking for second opinion, its not a bad thing but you need to have all the reports, files, xray, mRI whatever...you cant expect the oncologist in india to give an opinion without giving him all the details... again dont worry too much...based on the type of cancer there are few complications but the doctor here would have informed you about these issues | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 17 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
Alternate treatment enti? and one more thing maa doc emi cheppindante konni countries kalisi oka association la form ayyi research chesi, treatment plans frame chesaru.. ee countries lo ae place ki vellina same treatment plan follow avutaru and their success date is also above 95.. mana india is not part of it anta.. | ||
Last_avataar Side Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 8611 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.224 Rating: N/A |
Kudos to Brave Little Fighter and Parents. I am extremely sorry to hear this. you are in a best place for treatment. My Best Wishes and Sincere Prayers to little one for Complete Recovery I advise you to start looking at proper treatment centers in India, also Alternate Treatment ... I will try to post few, keep all options open if you have to move back. | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 16 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
mee cousin doctor? india lo evariki cheppaledu maa brother ki tappinchi. vadini basava tarakam hosoital lo pediatric oncologist tho appointment teeskomani cheppanu i donno if they deal in phone for these cases.. lets see | ||
Doraveerachakra Side Hero Username: Doraveerachakra Post Number: 4344 Registered: 11-2010 Posted From: 82.30.64.255 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear. all the best to your daughter for her health | ||
Saarang Hero Username: Saarang Post Number: 15898 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 206.29.176.77 Rating: N/A |
sorry to hear about your situation...but naaku telisi place change ki raadhu and not so soon...stay strong. India lo no idea about docs in this speacialty. There are online health forums...you should be able to find more info there. | ||
Rambo_999 Junior Artist Username: Rambo_999 Post Number: 675 Registered: 03-2017 Posted From: 209.252.182.194 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to read Brother.. !! pediatric oncologist ante telidu kani maa cousin kee basavatraka hospital loo vesaru same case....akkada emaina kanukunte help chestaru emo. They drew first blood, not me. | ||
Love4all Junior Artist Username: Love4all Post Number: 14 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 72.195.146.39 Rating: N/A |
The first reason i registered in this db is to discuss abt it... few months ago, saw members discussing abt autistic kids. so i thought someone who are in our position might help us, though i hate to ask this question cos i dont want any parent or kid go through this. Its about my daughter who is 4 now diagnosed with Leukemia few months ago. maku first time ilantidi okati undi ani telisinsa roju. Treatment jarugutu undi and lasts for 2 more years i guess. naa h1 will be just for 1.5 years and gc inka file avvaledu. so we are scared now wt if we had to go back to india ani.. akkada treatment gurinchi gani, costs associated with it or insurance edi idea ledu.. and chala bhayalu pattukunnayi wife ki. diagnosis ayyina day that was very terrible, enduko okkasari india lo ila ayi unte kanuka docs valla ayyedi kademo anipinchindi, the worst could have happened ani anipinchindi. poni treatment tarvata ela untundi, normal ga ayipotara i donno.. cant ask anybody outside except doctor. i donno i am judst typing whatever coming to my mind cos i cant speak it out to anybody including my wife. she herself is so trembled and depressed..worst phase of our life.. deeniki thodu immigration issues tho manassanti undatledu asalu... poni ayyededo avutu ndi india ki vewllipodam ante, environmental change valla health condition worst avutademo ani inko bhayam. endukante first us ki vachinappudu(she is like 2 years) oka 6 months oka state lo unnamu, she used to be very healthy and brave.. hardly remember her sick days, can count on fin gers. the moment we moved to new state, she started showing the symptoms which her pediatrician couldnt relate immediately.. so maku environment change valla ayindemo ani kuda bhayam pattukundi. i am really sorry to ask this, evaraina ee position lo unte pls share ur experience. Also if any one know best pediatric oncologist in hyd? |
