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Platypus
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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 01:12 pm:       


Cocanada:


i am beginning to think talking on phone is a skill.




It sure is. Some master it. some don't. Anthe theda.
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 01:10 pm:       

Cocanada - i am beginning to think talking on phone is a skill

every damn thing iz a skill re cokesh..

now...I know why u blabber so much online...disgruntled...grumpy..got it
Oka aalochana medilindi..aa aalochane nannu ennukundi..kaabatte ee post padindi.
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 01:08 pm:       


Platypus:

I have accepted the situation as permanent and talk only if I am asked to in a call


ante call lo ayite manaki ventane response ostundi kada.

i am beginning to think talking on phone is a skill. You need to find that tiny gap when people are not speaking and pounce with loud voice
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 01:02 pm:       


Cocanada:

phone maaruddam anukuntuna. nuvvu aa option try chesava?




I have the same issue - regardless of which phone I am using, webex/SFB, US, India, UK, UAE. At this point, I have accepted the situation as permanent and talk only if I am asked to in a call. Otherwise, I send my points of view in writing via email to all the stakeholders.
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 12:58 pm:       


Cocanada:

phone maaruddam anukuntuna



Gonthu, the stone maarchu
CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER
 

Cocanada
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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 12:57 pm:       


Platypus:


Birth defect. Emi cheyyalemu. Self help books chadivi, ilaa cheyyi ane DB posts chadivi change ayyetatlaithe ee paatike change ayyetodivi. Nee karma anthe. Anubhavinchu. Blunt gaa endhuku cheptunnaa ante nenu kooda adhe category lo unna kaabatti.


vuncl. naa phone lo naa voice vinapadatledu ani chala mandi complain chestu untaru

phone maaruddam anukuntuna. nuvvu aa option try chesava?
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 12:52 pm:       


Cocanada:

mee evarikaina ala jarugutunda? naa lo defect entatnaaru?? deeniki upaayam enti?




Birth defect. Emi cheyyalemu. Self help books chadivi, ilaa cheyyi ane DB posts chadivi change ayyetatlaithe ee paatike change ayyetodivi. Nee karma anthe. Anubhavinchu. Blunt gaa endhuku cheptunnaa ante nenu kooda adhe category lo unna kaabatti.
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 11:56 am:       

GC vundi kudaa inni badalu cheppukuntunnav ante..
adakku tinamani gippude gandhi vannai skypechatted.
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 11:54 am:       


Cocanada:

enduku alaa arichaav ante em cheppachu


nee gunce cheelchi choopinchu... Balayya untaadu..
 

Cocanada
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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 11:47 am:       


Sesani:

Jai balayya ani aruvu when u wanna speak..

andharu silent ayinanka u can start talking..


enduku alaa arichaav ante em cheppachu
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 03:36 am:       


Thedarkknight:

You may be facing the discussion and conf call that's more political ( where everyone is trying to prove their muscle ) than productive.




Discussion lo mana participation cut cheyatamey kakunda, Nuvvu student vi, "Listening is good habit" ani Ammalakkalu & Peddollu antha "nilabetti & kurchobetti" class peekutharu.

Ilanti chota manaki "Self Respect anedi peddaga vundadu, our energies get drained very quickly & There's lots of frustration on a frequent basis without your fault".
I dont wear spects, only wear contact lens(&goggles sometimes). Only code lang that i know are => c,c++,java,c# & scrpt lang.
 

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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 02:16 am:       


Kadapafan:

Alaa vere vallaku chance ivvani chota nuvvu maatladinaa peddagaa vachedi eti ledu




Completely Agree with you. Annee moosukoni vacheyatame.
You need the skills of a politician and authority to survive in such environments.

You may be facing the discussion and conf call that's more political ( where everyone is trying to prove their muscle ) than productive.

I faced such work environments recently ( In person meetings ) in Bay Area. Alanti places lo mana lanti methaka manushulaki place ledu.

Example ki konni discos pettanu choodandi.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4bhpXhxP-WU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cHNWfsWjNqg
 

Sesani
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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 01:32 am:       

Jai balayya ani aruvu when u wanna speak..

andharu silent ayinanka u can start talking..
 

Whitecollar
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Posted on Friday, January 13, 2017 - 12:28 am:       

Pedha para rasi delete chesanu... Meeru managers (I was also a sr manager before coming to consulting)... So agenda nundi deviate ayithe moosukoraa poola chokka ani cheppandi em parledhu
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:36 pm:       

" I am sorry to interrupt your flow" anesi nee story nuvvu modalettu
NTR-Vajpayee Polavaram Irrigation Project
 

Cocanada
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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:35 pm:       


Last_avataar:

you should cut thru the meeting


inka ade anukuntuna. 2-3 times karicheste kaani set avvaru
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:35 pm:       


Pulpfiction:

ur english problem emo ?? [ remember ur thread last week ? ]


hayyo. neeku alaa ardham ayindaa. last week cheppindi kangaaru lo chuskokunda send button nokkeyadam gurinchi. nannu nammu. english problem kaadu. expecting too much orderliness from a disorderly group.
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:31 pm:       


Cocanada:




I think if you have definite role in this project, you should cut thru the meeting in the beginning and tell your concerns quickly , or send a mail to all recipients about the issues you are facing and how unproductive are meetings, time to make changes and stick to meeting agenda
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:31 pm:       

ur english problem emo ?? [ remember ur thread last week ? ]
Jai Rayala Seema !
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:30 pm:       


Vishvak:

start controlling the meeting the word go


Director level person meeting. manaki antha bomma ledu.
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:29 pm:       


Last_avataar:


appatiki webex lo 'raise hand' button nokkutunaa :-(

sachinollu ... call in users ..asalu edi chuskuni chaavaru
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:28 pm:       


Cocanada:


Only way to get rid of this is start controlling the meeting the word go... Set the agenda... start discussing the agenda items... after each item summarize what discussed...

Ee madyalo nee questions adagocchu... and you will never be out of the group...

Vi veri universum vivus vici
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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:25 pm:       

Meeku teliyandi kaadu

Any Meeting should be moderated and controlled by wither initiator or other designated person. Why don't you discuss this with your PM and interrupt then and there to hold the meeting on track

manam tone set chestamu kada begining lone, what is the objective , whether it is analyse discussion or design or technical or issue resolutions ot process improvement
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:22 pm:       

Alaa vere vallaku chance ivvani chota nuvvu maatladinaa peddagaa vachedi eti ledu
 

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Posted on Thursday, January 12, 2017 - 11:20 pm:       

naaku unna oka manchi alavaatu - i dont interrupt when someone is speaking

in person meetings lo pedda problem ledu. ee webex calls appudu pedda problem ochi padindi

janaalu continuous ga matladukuntu potunaaru with out any gap. ee lopala inko yedava topic change chestunaadu.. malli janaalu dadadada matladeskuntunaru

gap iste matladadam ani nenu wait chesi chesi call aipotondi. chivarlo i have a question on ____ ani adukkuni malli close chesina topic motham discuss cheyalsi ostondi. kontha mandi 'i am dropping off. i have to join another call' ani elipotunaaru

mee evarikaina ala jarugutunda? naa lo defect entatnaaru?? deeniki upaayam enti?

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