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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:32 pm:       

Why me uncle
Can you please eliminate rasp
Meet and greet lo ede sodi
Db lo ede sodi

Next meet lo andarsm Kalisi eliminate cheddam
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:01 pm:       


Rasputin:




I know exactly what you are going through. Asalemi jaruguthundho kooda artham kaavatledhu but life is going on at full speed. At times I wonder if I am a participant or just an observer of my own life.

Midlife crisis yeh oka vidhamgaa.
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:49 pm:       


Rasputin:

I like my job, wife and life, but just wondering why I didn't set goals and go after something. It felt like I am just drifting with the currents, rather than swimming for something. Did anyone go through a similar phase?




Rasputin bhai,
aa paina matalu seppavu ante, you are already doing good ... as it is difficult to get there.

you just need change ... suggest outing with friends to Las Vegas.
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 12:53 pm:       


Rasputin:

usually 1 or 2, sometimes 3. Weekends emayina party untey company batti quantity. The most I had was with a db member. Iddaram kalisi 2 bottles lepaamu in a single night.


ok ippudu na question..bachelor lo unnapudu daily mandhu ante ok..ippudu week oksari or 2 times ayina ok..but daily ela bhayya..health emaitadhi ani anipnchadha..what if something happens all of a sudden..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:23 am:       


Rasputin:




Nice way to Handle. When we are single many people can handle pressure well, as there are no tangles

once Married and have children growing up, Job instability, Financials, Kids health issues, Martial issues, trouble between parents family and your spouse side, health issues for children, wife, not able to meet our personal goals amidst of all these issues, all these things are really challenging for any one to handle

I wish you continue to display the same attitude to make life beautiful, come what so ever may be
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:20 am:       


Bunty717:


usually 1 or 2, sometimes 3. Weekends emayina party untey company batti quantity. The most I had was with a db member. Iddaram kalisi 2 bottles lepaamu in a single night.
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:17 am:       


Chiru_fan:

adee if you are dealing with real issues related to visa/work life


visa, work really not a big issue. I faced these issues around 2006. Here was my Visa situation ....

OPT in 2005
H1 in 2005, but papers lost in mail
Applied for duplicate, no updates for almost a year
Senator letter -> received H1, but name lo typo -> correction submitted
Corrected H1 received with wrong starting date, again correction submitted

Meanwhile, fulltime offer on hand, pelli Dec lo ani FIL pressure. Mamagoru chethilo h1 approval lekundaa raalenu antey vinaru.

Finally Feb lo H1 approval received, immediately H1 transfer, March 1st week lo receipt, full time job lo join ayya, out at the end of the month for getting married.

Didn't feel to stressed through that ordeal. Jaragaalsindi jaruguthundiley ani lite teesukunnaa.
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:06 am:       


Whyme:

Maaku ardhamayyindemo raddhantham




neeku raaledha gnana dhantham :-)
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:05 am:       

rasp.. oka chinna tokkalo Q.. nuvvu rojuki enni pegs estunnavu/estaavu/eyagalavu..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 11:01 am:       


Twitter:

needhi vedhantham naadhi siddhantham




Maaku ardhamayyindemo raddhantham
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:59 am:       


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Pudatha emi pattukuni ochaam...poyetappudu pattukupotaaniki?




needhi vedhantham naadhi siddhantham
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:57 am:       


Time_waste:

I think anni facilities vundi peace ga vunte ee crisis lu surface aythayy...if they have struggles they won't face this anukunta...




correct..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:50 am:       

Twitter - Pudatha emi pattukuni ochaam...poyetappudu pattukupotaaniki?
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:50 am:       

a car
a road
a driver

just have hold the stearing and drive saftely when you have up and downs and when you get left and right turnings...so basically you are just a driver in a gods car in a gods path..enjoy your drive anthey
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:49 am:       


Rajusk:

look at other parents in DB..who are facing all challenges while raising kids..we need to draw inspiration from Jalsa/Urumi and so many others..




100% correct bhayya.....I always have a high regard for them.....issues vundi kooda life loo bright side choosthunnaru....there is lot to learn from them!!
CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:49 am:       


Rasputin:




dheenni blessed life crisis antaru, which means you are worried that one day whatever has given to you will be
taken away, worried one day you may wake up in rags thinking all this life is a dream, worried that your journey is
in down hill and you may hit uphill soon, worried the dark will follow after this bright day..
but don't worry some lives are blessed touch wood and enjoy responsibly .. Happy Holidays. :-)
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:48 am:       

first warald problems
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:44 am:       


Chiru_fan:

.adee if you are dealing with real issues related to visa/work life or some "real" personal issues...ee thoughts dari daapulloki raavu....




nannu adigithe avi kooda real issues kaavu..(being one of them)

look at other parents in DB..who are facing all challenges while raising kids..we need to draw inspiration from Jalsa/Urumi and so many others..

not to mention kashtal in desam..which are at a different level..
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:41 am:       


Rasputin:

being sober for 1 day after a long time?




kiki...podhugalla jokela thammi....nuvu aa trance lo nundi bayataki vasthae...jeevitham ilagae vuntadhi...karpuram karigipothuntae...ventane inkoti veliginchali..appudae happy ga vuntadhi...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:40 am:       


Whyme:

Entha lottery lo whiskey bottle win avvakapothey maathram.. Intha feel avvala.. Chuss




CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:39 am:       

This is not midlife crisis. It just means you areca lucky sob
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:39 am:       


Rasputin:

Did anyone go through a similar phase?



nenu vunna naayinamma.....naadi ingaa aa age/gauge kaadi kaani....ilaanti panikimaalina thoughts chaala vasthunnayi......okka okka saari anipisthadi....odduna paddam (w.r.t to visa/job/other things) kaabatti balisi kottukuntunnam ani.....adee if you are dealing with real issues related to visa/work life or some "real" personal issues...ee thoughts dari daapulloki raavu....
CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:36 am:       

paint your hair orange - akkada unde 2 kattherlu...iha daaniki e rangu esthe eti?
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:34 am:       


Rasputin:

migatha vaati meeda pedithey baaguntundemo ani chinna aalochana


wrong thinking.. ippudu baalekapothe kada vere edo baagundenduku !!!
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:33 am:       

@Rasputin

--------------------------------------------

I will think the other way, everything was pre-planned for you, and you get them when its the right time. You are very lucky that someone is watching over you :-)

naa case kuda mostly same to same okka love/marraige lo thappa
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:31 am:       


Whyme:

Entha lottery lo whiskey bottle win avvakapothey maathram.. Intha feel avvala..


Actually, I am happy with that uncle. I know that I tried my best to buy that bottle. For the rest, I feel like I am not trying enough. Booze meeda pettina effort, migatha vaati meeda pedithey baaguntundemo ani chinna aalochana
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:30 am:       

pickup a new hobby, buy a new car , take a dream vacation, paint your hair orange or shave your head for a while there is so much shixt you can do if you are in us .
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:22 am:       

God are you serious.... Your wife chose you even though you told her that you cannot stop boozing for her...Not many would do that.... You earned it for being honest.... Don't know about your work skills but, judging by your DB history I can assume you earned all those jobs...It's just that not many get them easy doesn't mean you didn't deserve them.....
ban Krishna_jilla for being a TT
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:12 am:       

Entha lottery lo whiskey bottle win avvakapothey maathram.. Intha feel avvala.. Chuss
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:04 am:       


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nenu enduku puttaanu


maree ee range ki raaledu
01/06/2012 - 169.4; 8/1/2013 - 182; 9/23/2016 - 185.8
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 10:01 am:       


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I think anni facilities vundi peace ga vunte ee crisis lu surface aythayy...if they have struggles they won't face this


inchu minchu idey meaning vachetlu mana db lo eppudo okasaari post padinatlu gurthu.
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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 09:59 am:       

Manishi lo antharmadanam modalayithe, Paapabheethi, Vedaalu, Tarkaaalu, nenu enduku puttaanu...matti mashaanam ishtart avutaayi...

Live Life 2 the Fullest...leave rest 2 the creator

Nee Pani nuvvu cheseyyi...tarvaatha aa SriKrishnudu choosukuntaadu anthe...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 09:57 am:       

So many random things around you tries to put you down break you up...

You need to ignore and move on..... Life is short forget dont let these things bother you ...

THink of billions of people who were not given atleast a chance of leading a comfortable life like you
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 09:55 am:       

I think anni facilities vundi peace ga vunte ee crisis lu surface aythayy...if they have struggles they won't face this anukunta...
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 09:53 am:       

Rasputin Bhai - Oka rendu 3 megs whiskey on rocks esi thongo..

don't think in those terms...if u start...u'll get more depressed...

mid age life crisis b boshanam anni oka Humbuck...

don't rock a sailing boat anukuni nadipinchu naava anthe
 

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Posted on Thursday, December 22, 2016 - 09:46 am:       

Per Wikipedia, midlife crisis starts around 45 for men and 35 fit women. But, enduko ee vidhamayina thinking midlife crisis kindaki vasthundemo ani doubt.

I was going through one of those rare moments of self-reflection, when I realized that most of the things in my life were just given to me. Barring a few exceptions (academics, booze etc.), I didn't really desire something and go after it. For example, this is my third job and all 3 just kind of fell in my lap; I did not apply for these. Even pelli, first pellichoopulu - nee mohaaniki inthakantey manchi sambandham dorakadu, pelli chesuko annaaru, done.

I like my job, wife and life, but just wondering why I didn't set goals and go after something. It felt like I am just drifting with the currents, rather than swimming for something. Did anyone go through a similar phase?

Is this the onset of midlife crisis or just the side-effects of being sober for 1 day after a long time?

Thread rated D for depressing.
01/06/2012 - 169.4; 8/1/2013 - 182; 9/23/2016 - 185.8

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