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Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2016 - 09:38 am:       


Aggipidugu116:




Alimony paid till kids 18
 

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Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2016 - 08:50 am:       


Manthri:

evaro bonus ga single * kuda easaru



Ee star la lolli endhi thambi.. okka mukka artham kaale...
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:58 pm:       


Jeffa:

niZZam gaa man3 vi anipinchukunnav.. naa posts anninti extract ni moodu mukkallo cheppi.. US politics ki panikostaav future lo try cheyyu. :-)




evaro bonus ga single * kuda easaru
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:54 pm:       


Manthri:

Already clarified


niZZam gaa man3 vi anipinchukunnav.. naa posts anninti extract ni moodu mukkallo cheppi.. US politics ki panikostaav future lo try cheyyu. :-)
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:54 pm:       

Life long alimony ante .. Vammo ..Taruvaata ee dabbulatho kotha boyfriend tho njoy chesina alimony stop cheyyalema? Appudappudu dabbulu/alimony istunnam kada ani mana kooda vellocha? Just curious..
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:52 pm:       


Thokkalohdi:

if she earns less than him


inthaku munde cheppa.. she is earning WAY MORE than him.
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:50 pm:       


Mandharam:

affair aa




No masala. Already clarified

Husband has anger issues
Wife has better career and in Senior Mgmt

So basically husband is at fault.
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:49 pm:       


Thikka_sankara:

Bhayya, sorry for asking..... Is the case definitely your friend's???



for "More than a Friend"
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 11:13 am:       


Thokkalohdi:

there are menists in this DB... who believe men increasingly are becoming victims of divorce laws


but that comment wasn't made against men kadaaa ....
When there are so many bad apples, there might be something wrong with the orchard -- reference intended
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 11:04 am:       


Urumi:

Info ichaanu. Why single star ?




there are menists in this DB... who believe men increasingly are becoming victims of divorce laws
this is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 10:59 am:       


Asdf:

inkaa cooking lo vunnava , cleaning and laundry epudu sestaav sesani.


avi nee responsibility...
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 10:45 am:       


Urumi:

Info ichaanu. Why single star ?


lite teesukondi.... Don't count stars
When there are so many bad apples, there might be something wrong with the orchard -- reference intended
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 10:43 am:       


Sesani:

whats cooking




inkaa cooking lo vunnava , cleaning and laundry epudu sestaav sesani.
Sesani lo inta hater dagi unada malli neetulu baga chebutadu, lol - Gotcha
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 10:42 am:       

Divorce thread ki 2k views.. whats cooking
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 10:40 am:       

Info ichaanu. Why single star ?
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 10:31 am:       


Jeffa:

Marriage was in india 18 yrs bk. Regd in India only(not in US). All are US SHittixens now. Nuvvu cheppina last two items lo okati vundi guru.. ade kadaa maavaadi main issue.




doesnt matter where marraige happened... where you are living matters...

18 yrs , CA antey heavily tilted in her favor.... if she earns less than him he will have to pay lifelong alimony till she marries someone else... And will have to pay kids support..

Leverage he might have is the House and properties... since they will be split in half... there are some things you can use to your advantage and negotiate a deal.

dont go to judge.. get a settlement... usually ppl who go through it say.. try to get out of the lifelong alimony.. thats one thing that will sting forever..
this is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 06:06 am:       

Anger issues aithe , adi court lo mention cheste kannesam visitation rights ki kooda chance vundadu. Telisina okariki alaane ayindi CA lo.

Cheppakunda india ki teesukellaali ani try cheste, ammay case file chesteflight kooda ekkanivvaru.
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 02:59 am:       


Jeffa:


Bhayya, sorry for asking..... Is the case definitely your friend's???
When there are so many bad apples, there might be something wrong with the orchard -- reference intended
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 02:25 am:       


Jeffa:

unless there is breach of trust(illicit affair) or physical abuse involved.




Jeffa:

Nuvvu cheppina last two items lo okati vundi guru.. ade kadaa maavaadi main issue




affair aa
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 01:14 am:       

Recently my close friend in US got divorce, uncontested to avoid more expenses and for mental peace
No kids, girl knows everything about him and his lifestyle and met him before marriage, but from day 1 she started the fight saying she didn't like their marriage, she always picked up fights and my friend thought she needs time to get adjusted, it became worse when she called cops for no reason and then my friend thought he had enough, she initiated the divorce process, she asked for 15 lakhs marriage expenses settlement, my friend agreed for 12 lakhs to get rid of the torture, girls relatives met my friends parents later somewhere and said she had some behaviour problems right from childhood
my friend is at least peaceful now
WE THE NORTH
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:36 am:       


Gochi:

asalu mee friend marriage ayyindi ekkada? is it registered in US or in India ? Not in all cases cross country divorces are valid, Mutual consent divorce in US aithene, it might be valid in India...alaane chaala issues unnaai, its not as easy as he/she is thinking...ikkada dovirce theesukuni India lo case esthey peristhithi enti? edo okati sardukomani cheppandi unless there is breach of trust(illicit affair) or physical abuse involved...


Marriage was in india 18 yrs bk. Regd in India only(not in US). All are US SHittixens now. Nuvvu cheppina last two items lo okati vundi guru.. ade kadaa maavaadi main issue..
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:33 am:       


Nanigadu:

ennaina bharistharu kani, respect lekapothey kastham antaru, even after kids ee step antey, may be Jeffa case lo kuda idey ayyuntadhi emo


Nuvvu karrest bhayya..
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:29 am:       


Starc:

idantha vadilesh. pillalni thisukoni india ki chekkeste?


Pillal and parents all are US Shittizzens, kudard... peeki padukobetti vongo bedathaar..
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:29 am:       

ammayile ekkuva divorce adugutharu adendo.. ammayialaku financial freedom undam oka reason ani na view..feminists nannu kummakandi..
knower of Nothing!
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:24 am:       


Ferrari:

inthaki divorce varaku enduku vachindhi matter..


Anger problem with him coupled with stupidity
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:22 am:       


Thokkalohdi:

1. state in which she filed divorce
2. no. of years of marraige

ee rendu important... deeni batti migilinavi automatic ga decide avuthayi... judge daaka pothey standard untadi procedure.. mostly mom ki vellipothayi and thananki job lekapothey , 7yrs+ marraige aythey lifelong alimony set avuthundi...

so , whatever you do move fast... asalu aa pilla file chesey daaka wait chesi thappu chesaru...(technically. emotionally reasons verey untayi anuko).



1) CA
2) 18.
Last mukka correct babai.. ( asalu aa pilla file chesey daaka wait chesi thappu chesaru...)
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:21 am:       


Rebel:

ide mukka aa ammay lawyr ki meeru chepte vaadu meetho santham nakinchestadu...



Ee mukka lo doubt lene ledu.. correSHt
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:20 am:       

nenu atani place lo unte job vadilesi alimony kosam file chesta. divorce istundhi ante job chestundi ani anukuntunna
 

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Posted on Saturday, August 06, 2016 - 12:19 am:       

Ippude mee answers chaduvutunna.. oka mukka nenu ckear gaa cheppalisindi munde. She is earning very better than him with a great job (sr management position lo). So, financial burden may not be beyond half and half of the present property. But kids custody doubt.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:59 pm:       


Xxx:

Time for prenuptial


desam lo undadhuga idhi.
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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:55 pm:       

Time for prenuptial
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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:52 pm:       


Komaranna:

inida jump for few years with kids.anni ave set avuthai..if reconcilation does not work out...


India lo inkaaa danger situation for husband....
When there are so many bad apples, there might be something wrong with the orchard -- reference intended
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:45 pm:       


Reentry:

wife had an illicit affair




Reentry:

Wife got the house and kids here




dheenemmma jeevitham
adhi affair pettukunna kooda ..magadike bokka
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:37 pm:       

Depends on state...California is a community state...mee friend ki ishtam lekapoina...divorce ichesthadu judge...and all assets are divided equally...and your friend might have to pay child support and alimony...


recent ga maa friend divorce ayyadu...vaadi wife divorce notice ichey mundhu...aamey money antha India lo parents ki transfer chesukundhi...so veedi money + RSUs + illu mortgage antha 50% ga ichesadu...on top of that India lo 498a case kuda pettindhi....
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:29 pm:       


Sachin:


India lo 498a maintenance case pedatharu
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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 11:06 pm:       

ikkada divorce process anthaaa set ayyaka ..illu gara amamesi money shae cheseskoni alimony and kids care ki dabbul kattakundaa india chekkesthe em chestharu kids ni ammayiki vadilesi?
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 10:39 pm:       

moral: men need to stay unattached as much as they can. especially to kids. such women take that as a weakness and play games. :D love your kids but dont show too much attachment.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 09:20 pm:       

inida jump for few years with kids.anni ave set avuthai..if reconcilation does not work out...
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 08:46 pm:       

AFAIK pedda peekedi emi ledu..! he will loose house / kids and part of monthly salary! weekend kid ni choosukune chance vuntadi..!

INdia jump kottesthe pillalatho cheppa pettakunda?
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 08:35 pm:       

Contested divorces upto $30,000 per party anta. Uncontested around $500
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 08:29 pm:       


Prasanth:

why we need to bribe to love ani...


pessu dolling teenage lo love lo kuda GF ki ayi iyi koni bribe sestheney manatho vuntadi lekapothey ila susthadi
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 03:23 pm:       


Reentry:

Wife got the house and kids here - he moved to an apartment and pays for the kids-kids visit him every two weeks during the weekends




she lied like hillary, and he got a very bad deal.
trump should renegotiate, and make a better deal for him :D
Sesani lo inta hater dagi unada malli neetulu baga chebutadu, lol - Gotcha
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 03:22 pm:       

Divorce cases lo main benefitters are the lawyers on both sides
If they get to know that both are financially strong then they keep prolonging and squeeze as much feez as they can :-)

saantham naakinchesthaaaru
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 03:20 pm:       

Husband ki chances thakkuva
Telisina story:
wife had an illicit affair . So both decided to part ways. Husband gets the properties in india all ; wife gets the house here etc.. wife agreed out of guilty first - but lawyer changed her mind and she refiled in court saying she got very less - shortly after that husband's 401K about 250K was taken away just like that and given to her - no consent required.

Wife got the house and kids here - he moved to an apartment and pays for the kids-kids visit him every two weeks during the weekends
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 03:15 pm:       

Get a good lawyer and communicate to lawyer to bargain for joint custody...tell him to stay away from directly talking to her or her lawyer...let his lawyer do all the talking. tell him to communicate his priorities to his lawyer in absolute terms, they both need to be on the same page at all times...
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 02:42 pm:       

divorce notice will already have the details about whether he can stay in the same house, or separately and or a restraining order. pedhaga ga cheyagaligindhi emi lehdu

approach a lawyer, and proceed legally, while trying to settle out of court if possible.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 02:22 pm:       


Kuyyo_morro:

notiki/keyboard ki edi vasthe ade typing ante misbahulla haq batting chustham.


evaru babu ni la trying chesindi
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 02:19 pm:       


Emc2:

cheptharu kani aadollani slave al treat chesthe


can you explain?
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 02:18 pm:       


Gochi:

asalu mee friend marriage ayyindi ekkada? is it registered in US or in India ? Not in all cases cross country divorces are valid


Law of land will take into course....
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 02:15 pm:       


Jeffa:


Rule No.1 and the only rule.... first engage a lawyer.... evadi pani ade cheyyali. These friendly advises will back fire.

Ask him to first find a good attorney and work with him, that's the only solution
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:49 pm:       


Prasanth:




you are right but jihva ko ruchi purre ki oka buddhi annaru,

if both think in same way no problem other wise one materialistic and one love ante not work, we have to balance it
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:37 pm:       


Jeffa:




asalu mee friend marriage ayyindi ekkada? is it registered in US or in India ? Not in all cases cross country divorces are valid, Mutual consent divorce in US aithene, it might be valid in India...alaane chaala issues unnaai, its not as easy as he/she is thinking...ikkada dovirce theesukuni India lo case esthey peristhithi enti? edo okati sardukomani cheppandi unless there is breach of trust(illicit affair) or physical abuse involved...
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:34 pm:       


Emc2:

nagalu kontunna,


ivi anni materialistic...friends laaga prateedhi discuss and practical ga purchasing etc reasonable anipistadhi...naaku costly gifts ..that too surprise gifts concept nacchadhu..why we need to bribe to love ani...
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:28 pm:       


Nanigadu:




most of the time nagalu kontunna, sampadisthunna manchiga chusukuntunna ani sodi cheptharu kani aadollani slave al treat chesthe they will burst and don't care attitude vachesthadi
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:24 pm:       


Emc2:

self respect




ee vishayam lo ladies chaala strict gaa vuntaru annay

ennaina bharistharu kani, respect lekapothey kastham antaru, even after kids ee step antey, may be Jeffa case lo kuda idey ayyuntadhi emo
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:21 pm:       


Rajusk:

so naa observation matrame..not blaming her for her choices




https://youtu.be/ywjO1O_qUdQ?t=3m28s

ilanaa annay :D
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:18 pm:       


Starc:

india ki chekkeste?




taking kids is difficult , without kids is possible .. then India lo 498A pedatharu , unless the husband is politically or locally influential ..

doola theruthundi
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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:09 pm:       


Rgb:

Desi a? Partners as in husbands or boy friends?




desi ne..

husband or boyfriend anedi etla telusuthundi your honor..

by the time we moved into that house..they were already separated..

vonly recognize her..because the kids used to go to her..after the ischool events

lady iddar parents are doctors in Chennai anta..vonly daugther anta..

maa pakkana kurrod valla dad ...just above middle class. edo Dubai lo job..raised kids in Mumbai.(although tamil folks)
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:07 pm:       


Rajusk:

maa neighbor wife aithe..ippatki 3 partners marchindi ..after ditching my neighbor..

ee info meeku etla telusu ani nannu adugutharu emo..

she shows up to all the kids events in ischools..where I go..

so naa observation matrame..not blaming her for her choices




Desi a? Partners as in husbands or boy friends?
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:02 pm:       


Telugu_times:

America lo almost all experiences unnai, except this divorce thing
Friends circle lo kooda, evadu theesukoledh




maaku vimmediate neighbors kabatti zara info vasthundi..not from the guy though..

his parents live here to take care of his kids..so aunty zara info sharing sesthu untundi HD tho..bayata kanapadithe..

naa previous jaab lo boss kurrod ..mauka dorikithe thana ishtory seppe vaadu..more when we went together to Canada..

kurrod 20 years Wall Street..unna house poyi..investment house poyi..3kids possession kooda poye stage ki vachadu appatlo..last 3 years lo emi jariginayo naaku bhi teliyad
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:02 pm:       

idantha vadilesh. pillalni thisukoni india ki chekkeste?
Pandulu drainaige guntalo undi matladukuntai anta.. Chi Chi Manushulu ala ela untaru.. chi chi..
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 01:01 pm:       


Kuyyo_morro:

balupu tho divorce enduku theesukuntaru evaranna, that too when kids are involved. notiki/keyboard ki edi vasthe ade typing ante misbahulla haq batting chustham.




balupu cases kuda untayi unkl, in front of eyes chusanu with kids,

in this case kids get dad's possession, most of the cases lo mogudu pellani emotional atyachar chestharu, manasika kshoba, no self respect ilanti cases lo money involvement kante self respect kosam divorce prefer chestharu

raka rakaalu, evaridi thappu analemu, everybody has argument
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:55 pm:       


Kuyyo_morro:

kids possession is ruled out.




not necessarily..but a bit difficult to convince court that you can take better care of a child than the mother..
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:53 pm:       

balupu tho divorce enduku theesukuntaru evaranna, that too when kids are involved. notiki/keyboard ki edi vasthe ade typing ante misbahulla haq batting chustham.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:53 pm:       

If she earns more , she may end up paying to him ..
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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:52 pm:       


Linkmaster:

emi peekiddi anta divorce teesukoni..




we don't no the complete story from both sides,

unless balupu tho chesthe thappa i am sure both sides mistakes untayi...
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:49 pm:       

kids possession is ruled out.

alimony entha kaduthado prepare avvali.

malli kids and wife ki daggarlo same community lo unde idea worst. antha idea unte kalisi undali instead of divorce.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:49 pm:       


Linkmaster:

emi peekiddi anta divorce teesukoni..




maa neighbor wife aithe..ippatki 3 partners marchindi ..after ditching my neighbor..

ee info meeku etla telusu ani nannu adugutharu emo..

she shows up to all the kids events in ischools..where I go..

so naa observation matrame..not blaming her for her choices :D
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:47 pm:       


Rajusk:


America lo almost all experiences unnai, except this divorce thing
Friends circle lo kooda, evadu theesukoledhu
wife classmate oka lady theesukundhi, but no info. just balupu divorce ani telusu, anthey
ki ki
Ignore spam and AJ.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:46 pm:       

Yeah forget about staying in same house and being with kids. As others have said, you may have to pay alimony and child support. Most states will allow for joint custody and/or vistation rights
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:46 pm:       

1. through common friends start negotiatiate
2 .paid arbitrators untaru, you can start negotiate using them
3. if she wants the divorce and your friend don't want it you have to show the reason , he may get some time to drag the issue, but it is very hard to get along
4. if he want the kids possession it is also very hard to get it, but it has to be from the court order
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:45 pm:       

emi peekiddi anta divorce teesukoni..
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:42 pm:       


Telugu_times:

court/judge , kids ni adagaraa? say if the kids are teens?




kids above 18 aithe thappa..father custody lo ravadam bahuth mushkil baba goru..

based on two feeful's own experience..my neighbor and my previous boss
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:41 pm:       


Andhravodu:

almost all states kids mommy custody lone pedataru, unless u can prove total negligence, and that's downright impossible with Indian moms



court/judge , kids ni adagaraa? say if the kids are teens?
on a lighter note, maa warald pamous lo maathram, kids peddha gaa mothers ni miss avvaru, nenu jumpu
Ignore spam and AJ.
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:36 pm:       

inthaki divorce varaku enduku vachindhi matter..
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:33 pm:       


Politricks:

he ends up paying HUGE Alimony for their living




not entirely true.. less than 3-4 years aythey 5yrs alimony untadi... 7yrs limit edo undi and depends on state... chala permutations and combinations unnayi...
this is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:32 pm:       

1. state in which she filed divorce
2. no. of years of marraige

ee rendu important... deeni batti migilinavi automatic ga decide avuthayi... judge daaka pothey standard untadi procedure.. mostly mom ki vellipothayi and thananki job lekapothey , 7yrs+ marraige aythey lifelong alimony set avuthundi...

so , whatever you do move fast... asalu aa pilla file chesey daaka wait chesi thappu chesaru...(technically. emotionally reasons verey untayi anuko).
this is it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:31 pm:       

Jeffa

NOTICE sent by his wife ante ika there is NO question of staying in same house and be close to kids etc. As ANDHRAVODU said only he if he can prove gross negligence from his wife towards kids he can get custody of kids. As a double dhamaka if this guy's wife NOT working he ends up paying HUGE Alimony for their living! Ee Desam lo divorce ante mogodiki pagilinatte and unfortunate gaa mee vaadiki pedda vere options kuda levu!

YES...say wife is a very well earning doctor etc may be his financial burden will not be bad...otherwise chala kastame mee vaadiki and I am sorry for him!
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:24 pm:       

almost all states kids mommy custody lone pedataru, unless u can prove total negligence, and that's downright impossible with Indian moms
Some things don't change. the rest are useless
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:23 pm:       

>>My friend is not willing to go for the divorce but willing to let his spouse take what ever the stake she wants.

ide mukka aa ammay lawyr ki meeru chepte vaadu meetho santham nakinchestadu...
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:21 pm:       


Jeffa:

My friend want to live in the same house where kids are going to live till the kids are outgrown independent.




vunkul naak telisi idi baaga mushkil

if the other lady does not have income ..your friend might have to leave the current house that he is living and give it to her..on top of it pay for mortgage and also alimony all at the same time..(exact situation happened to my boss in a previous company..so hopefully the lady is working)

getting kids possession is huge task OTOH..
 

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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:19 pm:       

uncontested aithe ika only asset sharing. its better to talk with the lawyer and engage in a friendly discussion.
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Posted on Friday, August 05, 2016 - 12:18 pm:       

A friend of mine got the divorce notice from his spouse's lawyer. He is asking my help.. I am trying to understand. What to reply? My friend is not willing to go for the divorce but willing to let his spouse take what ever the stake she wants. My friend want to live in the same house where kids are going to live till the kids are outgrown independent. Many questions(not yet engaged the lawyer) but before the lawyer engaging, what are the things to consider?(try not to start with an advice to engage the lawyer, which we are clear bout it).

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