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Posted on Thursday, April 30, 2015 - 09:02 am:       

http://www.rediff.com/movies/report/mani-ratnam-i-dont-belie ve-in-giving-advice/20150430.htm
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Posted on Thursday, April 30, 2015 - 08:30 am:       

ee generation lo ammayi abbayi iddar chaduvukuntunnaru kada but I never saw a woman standup to disown maintenance or alimony when she herself got the bread-winning capabilities yet she plays the victim card to gain /////

why should father be denied responsibility for his kids even if woman is earning don't u think father has also responsibility towards kids

seriously asking meeru icche maintenance NIJAMGAA KIDS ANNI KARSULAKI saripothjaya aa mathram dhaniki edupu dheniki
 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 07:06 pm:       


Analog:



Anand_n:



Rocketk2:


 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 06:47 pm:       


Darth_vader:

id marchu urgent ga. responses anni biased ga vasthunnay & type casting ayyindhi.




ee concept asalu ardham kaadu - guess only a handful of us in the DB still use our original ids - part of the reason for losing interest in discussing indepth in the DB is because of the shifting ids - cos you never know or understand the people you are responding to - but that must be cos I am still old school :-)

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 06:42 pm:       


Nanigadu:

it feels awesome


 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 06:40 pm:       


Maanas:

...naa okkadi case ayuthe naaku db lo asalu discussion cheyyalsina pani ledu...naa badha edo nenu padatha...so vadileyandi please...thanks for ur concern.




Point taken and apologies for intruding into your personal space...appreciate your clarity in not impacting another innocent person though ..

And I actually did not read the first 200 posts of this thread - edo mental essay chusi last few posts skim chesi post chesanu - bad idea..:-( Only posting now to respond to your post..

But meeru cheppedi edi kottaga telusukondi kadu kada- marriage has always been a gamble , arranged marriage even more so. It works for couples who learn to adjust and make most of the cards life dealt them - if either is not willing to adjust , trouble is bound to happen..

In old days exit was not an option so people, mostly women, had to take abuse , not a great situation so exit was made easier and more acceptable. On the flip side extra easy exit unte , the drive to adjust to meet the commitment reduces...

yeah - in this short current period women who want to take the guy to the cleaners have it easy with the laws, and there are some who are doing it whether out of spite or greed - unfortunately your generation of guys is paying for the sins of the previous generations where perfectly able and earning men saw dowry as easy money and tried to extract it by hook or crook...

Laws are made to take care of majority of victims - and harassed women still outnumber harassed men - when that numerical balance shifts the laws will also get adjusted.

What you cannot refute is marriages do work for a huge majority of people .
Risks to marriages have increased with time - due to lack of support systems, conflicting priorities, distractions etc...which means couples have to work harder to nurture the relationship ..., and now atleast for people whose marriages don't work, there are alternatives...

End of the day people can try to mitigate risks in life but life does not come with any guarantees, in relationships or anything else :-)

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:54 pm:       


Maanas:

naa okkadi case ayuthe naaku db lo asalu discussion cheyyalsina pani ledu...naa badha edo nenu padatha...so vadileyandi please...thanks for ur concern.


point to be noted pura prajalaara..

his fight is not for him alone...more over, he is not yet relieved from the mess and his golden years are getting wasted...
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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 10:54 am:       


Sesani:

already alavaaatu ayyindi probably




okaru alavatu chesudendi
vaadey alavatu aipoyyadu first day nunchi :D

any ways, re-living those early days of child birth again, it feels awesome :-)
 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 10:53 am:       


Mental_sachinodu:

howdy.. belated happy birth day




wish you the same annay :D
 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:47 am:       


Maanas:


id marchu urgent ga. responses anni biased ga vasthunnay & type casting ayyindhi.
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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:47 am:       


Anand_n:

Do you think times were always like this ? My mom was pulled out of school even though she was performing better than her two elder brothers in the same class because they could not afford to educate all 3 ...

The choice to be a bread winner for women has come after a long struggle - and that choice has also given men some choice in their breadwinning responsibilities - today my hubby can relax and take a few risks in his career because I back him up and vice versa...

I have a lot of colleagues who have Stay at home husbands ...who no longer see it as their sole responsibility...So times will change and with that the 'HAS TO" rules.




hmm meekardamkaaledu anukuntunna, its not about women doing jobs, but its abt the same women expecting their husbands to fulfill her greedy needs, effects of patriarchy andi anduke...agreed partriarchy valane meer jobs cheyalekapoyaar but the same system gave lots of privilages to you na...ee generation lo ammayi abbayi iddar chaduvukuntunnaru kada but I never saw a woman standup to disown maintenance or alimony when she herself got the bread-winning capabilities yet she plays the victim card to gain few pennies from the husband...ee rojuki meekunna(mee ante meeru kaadu) privilage ante mimmalni evarina work cheyu ante kooda harassment kindaki vastaadi...vaddu anna harassment loki vastaadi...but men ki ala kaade they are expected to win bread, pay maintenance even if they lose job and are surronded by criminal cases...daanni highlight chesthunnadi naa previous post lo "HAS TO"..



Anand_n:

Meeku bitter experience undi, so its natural for you see things one-sided.


naa experience tho sambandam ledu andi...one-sided ani ela decide chesar? you dont call me biased, I wont take it with a smile...commitment ani lock chesi, adhe system nundi bayatiki ravalante 10years literally waste cheyyalsi vaste appudu ardamayiddi meeku...
arranged marriage anedi guddi gurram kaada? cheppandi YES or NO..okka maatalo


Anand_n:

Instead of ranting at sytems better for you to find a relationship and an equation that works for you, irrespective of social norms if you have the courage to take them on- because any and all systems will have bad apples who take advantage...a system cannot work for all aberrations


Thank you. Being a woman, you actually suggested something like that. I value it. Its not abt courage, it is about righteousness, my status is complicated as of now, I dont want some innocent to suffer because of me.
naaku evaru suggestions ivvoddu...naa okkadi case ayuthe naaku db lo asalu discussion cheyyalsina pani ledu...naa badha edo nenu padatha...so vadileyandi please...thanks for ur concern.

[last post in this thread]
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:34 am:       


Maanas:


idantha pakkana pettesey .. nee current life tho nuvvu happy ee na? alage nee life antha undagalava? if answer is yes .. inka poradatam aapesi .. life ni enjoy cheyyadam modalupettu ..
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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:31 am:       


Maanas:

naaku suggestion lu avasaram ledu, nenu adigaana? malli deeniki best ani meere certify chesesukuni naaku adakkundaane ichesthunnare...devudaaa



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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:27 am:       


Prasanth:

pure dravidian telugu style marriages....


Please explain more on this!
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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 05:15 am:       


Prasanth:

i wont get into details of others but i wont agree with this..even previous generations wont understand as sanskrit is not our language....sanskrit padyams etc were brought up in later parts of history before which we have pure dravidian telugu style marriages....


interesting pure dravidian telugu style marriages are different from vedic marriages?
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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 04:33 am:       


Frasier:

Manas gaaru that is the best suggestion ever given to you...




naaku suggestion lu avasaram ledu, nenu adigaana? malli deeniki best ani meere certify chesesukuni naaku adakkundaane ichesthunnare...devudaaa
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Wednesday, April 29, 2015 - 04:21 am:       

Anand_n Awesome post...

Manas gaaru that is the best suggestion ever given to you...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 10:41 pm:       


Aha:




maanas kurrod ni konni months vadhileyandi.... malli pelli card pattukoni vasthaad... :d
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 09:04 pm:       


Rajusk:




Lol - which is why I encouraged my son to learn bread baking along with bread winning capabilities .. :-)

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 08:26 pm:       


Anand_n:

Meeku bitter experience undi, so its natural for you see things one-sided. Instead of ranting at sytems better for you to find a relationship and an equation that works for you, irrespective of social norms if you have the courage to take them on- because any and all systems will have bad apples who take advantage...a system cannot work for all aberrations





ide mukka nenu Manas ki day one nunchi telugu lo chepdaamanukuntunna, but post mis communicate avutundemo ani bhaya padutunna.

@Manas, mee life lo jarigina unfortunate episode ni vadilesi, new relation loki enter avvandi, if you are not already into.
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 06:04 pm:       


Anand_n:



Ee thread chaduvutunna/ post vestunna enduko mi kosam naa manasu vetikindi ..:-)

Busy emo ani disturb cheyaledu
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 06:00 pm:       


Anand_n:

given men some choice in theirbread making responsibilities


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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:56 pm:       


Nanigadu:

too good vunnadu



Nanigadu:

memey sleep deprived


idi common..

Nanigadu:

kindha esethey edastha vunnadu


already alavaaatu ayyindi probably :-)
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:54 pm:       


Nanigadu:

endhi ee thread itta vunhdi




howdy.. belated happy birth day :-)
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:53 pm:       


Sesani:




too good vunnadu

memey sleep deprived, kindha esethey edastha vunnadu :-)
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:51 pm:       


Nanigadu:


uncle hows the kid?
 

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Maanas:

You can choose to be a bread winner. He can't. He HAS TO.




Do you think times were always like this ? My mom was pulled out of school even though she was performing better than her two elder brothers in the same class because they could not afford to educate all 3 ...

The choice to be a bread winner for women has come after a long struggle - and that choice has also given men some choice in their breadwinning responsibilities - today my hubby can relax and take a few risks in his career because I back him up and vice versa...

I have a lot of colleagues who have Stay at home husbands ...who no longer see it as their sole responsibility...So times will change and with that the 'HAS TO" rules.

Meeku bitter experience undi, so its natural for you see things one-sided. Instead of ranting at sytems better for you to find a relationship and an equation that works for you, irrespective of social norms if you have the courage to take them on- because any and all systems will have bad apples who take advantage...a system cannot work for all aberrations

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:43 pm:       


Mental_sachinodu:

i had three types of weddings.. all to the same person




Enni times wedding kaadu re.

Entha kalisi melisi untunnar

Ani Maanas kurrod off line lo adigadu :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:42 pm:       


Whyme:



ee roju romba form lo irikien mental vunkul.. ekkada soosina mee postings




pani chaala undhi vunkl.. edhi cheyalo theliyaka posting :D
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:40 pm:       


Prasanth:

by the way, my marriage was conducted in telugu without sanskrit slokas...




it doesnt matter i feel, you can get a court marriage done and all this doesnt change anukuntunaan... i mean the discussion.

btw, i had three types of weddings.. all to the same person. :d
 

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by the way, my marriage was conducted in telugu without sanskrit slokas...
From Vijayawada, staying in Bangalore
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:36 pm:       


Analog:

ee generation ki sanskrit ardam kadu .


i wont get into details of others but i wont agree with this..even previous generations wont understand as sanskrit is not our language....sanskrit padyams etc were brought up in later parts of history before which we have pure dravidian telugu style marriages....
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:33 pm:       


Mental_sachinodu:




ee roju romba form lo irikien mental vunkul.. ekkada soosina mee postings
 

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Rocketk2:

SO called world power house America's politcal punadule kadhilipothayi.. marraige and values topic meedha.. mana Db entha :-)




Value is always an interesting concept, whether it is in economics, education, society in general philosophy. More so when the conflict is between individual and societal patterns. there is always friction between these, and like you have mentioned both adapt and adopt because of these friction.

barring one point of yours, i feel i am an agreement with many things you have mentioned. western society tweaked with the concept of marriage and going no where ani, i don't think its the society that tweaks things, its the individuals who tweak it, and society reacts to it. and for good or bad, and eventually for the good, even indian systems are getting tweaked. what was the need of laws protecting females? if indian systems did not need tweaking, such laws wouldnt have a part to play.

if a system exists it keeps changing to make itself relevant to changing times(doesnt mean its always linear). some happen without causing much notice, some happen violently. infact it has been tweaked quite often in india, from stopping child marriages, to allowing widow marriages, polygamy to monogamy.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 05:25 pm:       

endhi ee thread itta vunhdi

 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 04:55 pm:       


Mental_sachinodu:

endhi inni threads unaayi ee topic meeedha...


SO called world power house America's politcal punadule kadhilipothayi.. marraige and values topic meedha.. mana Db entha :-)
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 04:38 pm:       

endhi inni threads unaayi ee topic meeedha...
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 04:34 pm:       

ee giant wheel inka tiruguthonda.. hermothermrsrajasegar
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 04:32 pm:       


Maanas:


marriage ane system lo a woman is insured but not a man why? incase of a failure what is that a man going to get? he will lose everything he got....why shld someone support this system? why you have support a biased system...only because you found a way to adapt or compromise doesnt mean that you or the system is right?

answer me why a man is not insured?


So many threads.. very little time to spare today :-)

Maanas, It is not about being insured. In the timespan, you are at a phase where law worked against you. But let me step you few years back.
1. Why do you think the Female infanticide was so rampant in part. Middle and poor class parent were not confident of providing good life to their daughter in fear of dowry.
2. up untill late 80's check how many daughter-in-laws are killed for dowry. This has become so rampant that kitchen mishaps became common. Gas banda pellatam chala common ayyipoyindhi..
3. Aada pilla pelli ante vennu lo nunchi shivers vache paristhithi. The social problem of dowry was so rampant. there were several social workers who dedicate their life for this cause.
4. Aada pillalaki asthi lo vaata ledhu.. that left them financially vulnerable.(until NTR changed it.. Mahaanubavudu!! I still dont know if that is being implemented every where)

Pelli chesi aadaapillani in-laws intiki pampatiniki bayapade timezone pass ayyam manam. There was a need of hour to protect women and thus the dowry harasmment law was born. satha koti upayam's ki anantha koti apayam's vunnattu.. it is being missued. the more and more the misuse is evident, it will get corrected.

Divorce lo both partners get affected. there are no insurances. law only protects to some extent.

I am sorry to discuss personal stuff but will make one expection in your case, to complete my point. YOu expressed frustration is towards the dowry harassment law not the marraige system itself. What if the dowry harassment law was not there. would it have reduced your hostility towards marraige system ??

All these laws are created to protect the system. They will be 'Tweak'ed as we evolve and social situations change. They should not be impetus to break the marraige system.

Some people premise that marraige happens between two random people is not entirely true(Partially true). It is not as random as it appears. I have posted about this sometime back and I will again when I find some time..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 04:00 pm:       


Cinejeevi:



btw, thank you ... mee valla oka jeevitha satyam telisindi ... follow kaniki try chestanu :D
 

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Meekosam naan mundara explanation isthe, u ignore my comments :-(




ori eedebba ... nuvve kottav le ...

le endee

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:32 pm:       


Saint:

becoz men run the family, not women. Men are stronger physically / mnetally. its men's duty. u r talking abt govt laws which were created to protect weaker sections in society. I am talking abt dharma. u can fight against govt laws but not dharma!




what dharma...evadichaada dharma...adhokati manam create chesukunnadi...yem dharma bhale vaadive annai...evaru paatisthunnaru dharmam? dharmam patinchani vaallani em cheddaaam? em cheyagalav?

idigo idi mana dharmam idi unchu...
You blame patriarchy without thinking zilch the privileges it has granted to you. You can choose to be a bread winner. He can't. He HAS TO. You can choose to work or not work. He can't. He HAS TO. You can choose to be financially independent or not before you get married. He can't. He HAS TO. You can choose to break away from marriage if you want, you would never get criminally charged. He can't. He HAS TO face criminal charges if he do. His RULES are harsh for him. But....he isn't allowed to be a Victim too....
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:32 pm:       


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Meekosam naan mundara explanation isthe, u ignore my comments :-(
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:29 pm:       


Maanas:

Maanas:

marriage ane system lo a woman is insured but not a man why? incase of a failure what is that a man going to get? he will lose everything he got....why shld someone support this system? why you have support a biased system...only because you found a way to adapt or compromise doesnt mean that you or the system is right?

answer me why a man is not insured?




becoz men run the family, not women. Men are stronger physically / mnetally. its men's duty. u r talking abt govt laws which were created to protect weaker sections in society. I am talking abt dharma. u can fight against govt laws but not dharma!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:28 pm:       


Aha:

emi tittaledu lendi. don't worry. he gave some explanation, anthe.




Manas gurinchi telusu, but ee OT uncle aascharyarthakam chusi doubt vachindi ... eliminate him, I say!
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:26 pm:       


Maanas:

marriage ane system lo a woman is insured but not a man why? incase of a failure what is that a man going to get? he will lose everything he got....why shld someone support this system? why you have support a biased system...only because you found a way to adapt or compromise doesnt mean that you or the system is right?

answer me why a man is not insured?





Saint:



1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:24 pm:       


Rocktek2:

ctually.. there may be moments like that but beauty of the marriage is that it keeps everything intact inspite of those feelings..
Feelings dhemundhi .. morning 10 ki vunna feelings evening 5 ki vundavu :-)
evariki madhya occasional differences vunadau cheppandi.. I have differences with every one my mother, father, brother, sister and even kids.. kaani we will work thru them. Why spouse is the only one that should be singled out. Its extremely rare to have two human beings with identical everythings. we learn to live with each other..

Compromise ane mataki konchem Ibbandikaram ga anipisthe.. think of it as adaptability..antha positive gane kanapadathundhi..

Bottomline entante..In my opinion, marraige institution is proven to hold society together. To keep it, we all have to work hard. Few failures should not define its fate. affect ayyina vallaki idhi accept cheyyadam kastam gane vuntadhi...but few accidents ayyayi ani flight journey bad analemu kadha...

Western society has been tweaking this idea for quite some time.. they are getting nowhere. Like any problem even marraige will have alternatives but consequences may be worse.



 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:22 pm:       


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Vivaham/wedding vedam cheppina oka krathuvu....16 days raka rakala thanthulu untayi....garbhadanam is the last event.....ee generation ki sanskrit ardam kadu ..mantrallo emi chepthunnaro idea ledu....asalu wife and husband ila undali mee madya relation ilantidi ani vallu chepthunnappudu avi vinte we get goosebumps....avi ardam chesukuni burra loki ekkinchukunte automatic ga souls connect avuthayi...inka strangers ela avutharu....anduke vidakulu ane concept asalu hindu dharmam lo ledu...garbhadanam ante aa roju nunchi vallu dharma baddam ga family life start cheyyamani chepparu kani aa roje cheyyamani kadu....ala start ayina family lo kids ki oka safe and secured support system undi anataniki maname proofs....look at western world ..UK lo 60% kids are born to single moms ata.....oka vyavastha la untene kids ni moral values tho penchatam kastam avuthundi inka single person ela cheyyagalaru...ide continue ayithe its a total breakdown of society

BTW I was not born in a family who does anustanam and follows vadika kriyas ....pregnancy lo puranas chadivithe kids by birth good natures and moral values vasthayi ante stories la chadavatam start chesa....later kids adigithe indian culture ela explain cheyyali ani decided to dig deep into traditions....wedding krathuvu mantralu appude ardam ayi unte i would have behaved differently whenever we had conflicts anipinchindi....

wedding crores petti cheyyatam kadu sanathana dharmam wife and husband ela undali anukuntundo....each and every mantras explain chesthu couples ki work shops conduct cheyyali..bride and groom parents ni kuda kurchopettali.....enduku ante wife and husband madya third person even if they are parents undakudadu ani sanatana dharmam lo marriage system cheppindi kabatti....



 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:20 pm:       


Rowdy:

Manas Bhayya ... em tittavo telavad kani baga tittavani arthamaindi




emi tittaledu lendi. don't worry. he gave some explanation, anthe.
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 01:16 pm:       


Rowdy:

Manas Bhayya ... em tittavo telavad kani baga tittavani arthamaindi ... sorry if I hurt ur feelings ... chala light vein lo adigaa ... kshaminchei eesariki


Post chudaleda? Maanas ninnemi thittaledu, paiga opigga thana experiences share chesukunnadu!!
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 12:56 pm:       


Maanas:




Manas Bhayya ... em tittavo telavad kani baga tittavani arthamaindi ... sorry if I hurt ur feelings ... chala light vein lo adigaa ... kshaminchei eesariki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 12:49 pm:       


Analog:


sis, nee opika ki hatsoff!!
too good posts


naku ento gifs panicheyatledu ivvaala, chas!
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 12:45 pm:       

wedding crores petti cheyyatam kadu sanathana dharmam wife and husband ela undali anukuntundo....each and every mantras explain chesthu couples ki work shops conduct cheyyali..bride and groom parents ni kuda kurchopettali.....enduku ante wife and husband madya third person even if they are parents undakudadu ani sanatana dharmam lo marriage system cheppindi kabatti....>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

very good post.. asalu enduku pelli chesukunnaamu ani alochinchi chesukunte sagam problems vundavu.
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:58 am:       


Analog:

wedding crores petti cheyyatam kadu sanathana dharmam wife and husband ela undali anukuntundo....each and every mantras explain chesthu couples ki work shops conduct cheyyali..bride and groom parents ni kuda kurchopettali.....enduku ante wife and husband madya third person even if they are parents undakudadu ani sanatana dharmam lo marriage system cheppindi kabatti..




me venu for you statement
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:55 am:       


Rowdy:




yo...aa adagadam endhi ?
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:29 am:       



(Message edited by lax on April 28, 2015)
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:17 am:       



(Message edited by lax on April 28, 2015)
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:16 am:       


Spy_india:


ok ok ippudu ardamayindi, mee friend ki cheppaara oka kapuram nilabettaru
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:13 am:       


Spy_india:


eti aa classu naaku peekara? okka mukka ardamkaaledu...naaku kids eti

naaku teleekunda ekkadayuna ithanalu nateste...ippude parigethukelli baboo ani vaatesukunta...seppandi ekkada?
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:05 am:       


Analog:


wow mee post chuste chaala muchatesindi...
maa naanna naa pellilo and maa sister pellilo kooda veda pandithulatho mantrocharana cheyunchaaru...daanini vere edaina anteeremo telvadu...ayuna naadhi dobbindi...I mean dobbinanduke happy nenu...

pelliki chaala value undi andi...kaadanatamledu...nenu edo pitchi ga vaagite lite teesukondi...naa badha antha evarni pelli chesukovaali ani...evarnaina chesesukuni ee literature antha chadivincheste avudda sister...ledandi mummatiki kaadu...

basic ga iddaru equals kavali marriage ki...jnanam leni manushulu untaaru vaallaki ela jnanam prasadinchatam...chesukunnam kada ani bharinchaala?


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wedding krathuvu mantralu appude ardam ayi unte i would have behaved differently whenever we had conflicts anipinchindi....



introspect chesukuni sari chesukuntunnaru anduke you are having a happy married life...ala andaru undar ga andi...
evarni? eppudu? ela? chesukovaali anedi kooda oka book raasi unte bagundedi...sick arranged marriage lo evarno chesukunte criminals ayipotunnaam sister ardamsesukondi...


Analog:

enduku ante wife and husband madya third person even if they are parents undakudadu ani sanatana dharmam lo marriage system cheppindi kabatti....



enduku? mogud sampadinchindi antha kani penchina parents ke matram dakkakunda wife okkathe thineyatanika andi j/k

ippudu mee post chuste ardamayundi...why you hated pawan for divorcing renu...meeru baaga deep ga vellaaaru system loki...antha jnanam jananiki undani nenu anukotam la andi...people change...behavior changes...ayuna kalisi undamantam tappu anedi naa abhiprayam..
1. No one is born hating the other gender that requires feminism
https://youtu.be/p9DQINKZxWE?t=5m6s
2. with aagadu mahesh babu became mahesh bhatt!!! ki ki ki 292 palakol tagore ki ki ki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:04 am:       


:

Maanas :




Potladatam maneste elaa time pass :-)
Vishayaalu dil se tisukoni peddavi chesukokuu andarito diff untaay antamatraana odilesukoni enta dooram paaripotaav.. Chetanaite undi solve chesukodaaniki prayatninchu .. Ledaa situation ardam chesukoni niku emi cheyaali anipiste adi chesey... Kids unnaru anedi gurtunchukoo
Akkada anta pedda vishayam kaadu Edo money matters loo.. So alaa naa burraki tochindi cheppa tappo oppo nammi ochaaru kadaa ani..
Finally tanu ippudu happy nee.. Kopam lo unnappu ikkada ventane etuu puttintiki /phone cheste intiki kangaru padataru... kada Edo okariki okaram alaa kasepu cheppukoni odarpings ante
Malli normal situations ki vellipotaaniki

Ee roju chedu/Manchi anipichindi repu Manchu/ chedu avvochu self exp too... so konnitini kaala nirnayaalaki odilestaaru peddalu anduke..
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 11:04 am:       


Analog:

pregnancy lo puranas chadivithe kids by birth good natures and moral values vasthayi ante stories la chadavatam start chesa....later kids adigithe indian culture ela explain cheyyali ani decided to dig deep into traditions....wedding krathuvu mantralu appude ardam ayi unte i would have behaved differently whenever we had conflicts anipinchindi....


Can u pls give some pdf or links?
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 10:58 am:       


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Vivaham/wedding vedam cheppina oka krathuvu....16 days raka rakala thanthulu untayi....garbhadanam is the last event.....ee generation ki sanskrit ardam kadu ..mantrallo emi chepthunnaro idea ledu....asalu wife and husband ila undali mee madya relation ilantidi ani vallu chepthunnappudu avi vinte we get goosebumps....avi ardam chesukuni burra loki ekkinchukunte automatic ga souls connect avuthayi...inka strangers ela avutharu....anduke vidakulu ane concept asalu hindu dharmam lo ledu...garbhadanam ante aa roju nunchi vallu dharma baddam ga family life start cheyyamani chepparu kani aa roje cheyyamani kadu....ala start ayina family lo kids ki oka safe and secured support system undi anataniki maname proofs....look at western world ..UK lo 60% kids are born to single moms ata.....oka vyavastha la untene kids ni moral values tho penchatam kastam avuthundi inka single person ela cheyyagalaru...ide continue ayithe its a total breakdown of society

BTW I was not born in a family who does anustanam and follows vadika kriyas ....pregnancy lo puranas chadivithe kids by birth good natures and moral values vasthayi ante stories la chadavatam start chesa....later kids adigithe indian culture ela explain cheyyali ani decided to dig deep into traditions....wedding krathuvu mantralu appude ardam ayi unte i would have behaved differently whenever we had conflicts anipinchindi....

wedding crores petti cheyyatam kadu sanathana dharmam wife and husband ela undali anukuntundo....each and every mantras explain chesthu couples ki work shops conduct cheyyali..bride and groom parents ni kuda kurchopettali.....enduku ante wife and husband madya third person even if they are parents undakudadu ani sanatana dharmam lo marriage system cheppindi kabatti....




 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 10:57 am:       

maaanas kurrod is monarch pekaaas raj of db
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 10:52 am:       


Analog:



opikakaki
 

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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 10:05 am:       

vammo bubble gum kante ghoram ga laggings kada
 

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One week mundu vesina thread ipudu 200 kottindi! Idi oka record emo :D

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Meeru em cheppina Maanas vinadu :P live-In is best anthe :D
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Posted on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 - 09:59 am:       


Maanas :




Vivaham/wedding vedam cheppina oka krathuvu....16 days raka rakala thanthulu untayi....garbhadanam is the last event.....ee generation ki sanskrit ardam kadu ..mantrallo emi chepthunnaro idea ledu....asalu wife and husband ila undali mee madya relation ilantidi ani vallu chepthunnappudu avi vinte we get goosebumps....avi ardam chesukuni burra loki ekkinchukunte automatic ga souls connect avuthayi...inka strangers ela avutharu....anduke vidakulu ane concept asalu hindu dharmam lo ledu...garbhadanam ante aa roju nunchi vallu dharma baddam ga family life start cheyyamani chepparu kani aa roje cheyyamani kadu....ala start ayina family lo kids ki oka safe and secured support system undi anataniki maname proofs....look at western world ..UK lo 60% kids are born to single moms ata.....oka vyavastha la untene kids ni moral values tho penchatam kastam avuthundi inka single person ela cheyyagalaru...ide continue ayithe its a total breakdown of society

BTW I was not born in a family who does anustanam and follows vadika kriyas ....pregnancy lo puranas chadivithe kids by birth good natures and moral values vasthayi ante stories la chadavatam start chesa....later kids adigithe indian culture ela explain cheyyali ani decided to dig deep into traditions....wedding krathuvu mantralu appude ardam ayi unte i would have behaved differently whenever we had conflicts anipinchindi....

wedding crores petti cheyyatam kadu sanathana dharmam wife and husband ela undali anukuntundo....each and every mantras explain chesthu couples ki work shops conduct cheyyali..bride and groom parents ni kuda kurchopettali.....enduku ante wife and husband madya third person even if they are parents undakudadu ani sanatana dharmam lo marriage system cheppindi kabatti....

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