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Vijayy
Comedian Username: Vijayy
Post Number: 1519 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 198.241.217.15
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 07:02 pm: |
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Meeku guruvu nijamga kavalante>>> yup... want it to happen... will try what you advised . thanks |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 390 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 173.70.134.173
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 05:53 pm: |
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Jalsa:Raju gaari istory telisthey needhi pichha light anukuntavu nuvvey....
Bhayya.. i m not saying naa antha problems yevvaru face cheyyaleru ani.. JP bhayya GC ani mention cheste naa story cheppina.. because this constantly bother mee too.. but i am sure Raju garu went through lot more.. |
   
Sasibabu
Megastar Username: Sasibabu
Post Number: 27433 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 206.29.180.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 05:45 pm: |
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Kish:Sasi aunty, Nuvvu, Zulu aunty iddharu mi sodhi inka ekkadainaa ettukondi!
Calling Idhendi bhayya ...choodu nee favourite kish annayya oka super sattire esaadu nee compliment and 5 star saklette kosam  Don't bet the bet .. If you bet the bet he will regret .. He is not a bet .. He is banana split |
   
Kish
Legend Username: Kish
Post Number: 39018 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 68.180.94.217
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 05:42 pm: |
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Sasibabu:
Sasi aunty, Nuvvu, Zulu aunty iddharu mi sodhi inka ekkadainaa ettukondi!  || || PK || JP || MODI || CBN || SACHIN || DHONI || JDLN || EENADU || HYDERABAD || |
   
Sasibabu
Megastar Username: Sasibabu
Post Number: 27432 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 206.29.180.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 05:37 pm: |
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Zulu aunty edho kotha angle thechindhi ee thread lo .... evvaru dhaani meedha anthalaa drushti saarinchalaa....Zulu Aunt.... please elaborate Don't bet the bet .. If you bet the bet he will regret .. He is not a bet .. He is banana split |
   
Hillsboro
Junior Artist Username: Hillsboro
Post Number: 56 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 192.55.54.42
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 05:03 pm: |
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Humans will be happy! when they can figure out how to be happy! |
   
Sasibabu
Megastar Username: Sasibabu
Post Number: 27428 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 206.29.180.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 05:00 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:ver time i have started believing in being dispassionate as much as possible, but many view my style as too distant to issues.but im more comfortable with it, as i accept its nothing is end of the world. office lo kooda issue vachi labho dhibo mantunte.. naa demeanor kontha mandhiki ardham kaadhu... office lo major issues vachinappudu kooda, nenu same normal day laaga work chesukunta pothaanu ... not much emotion. one other case was, company lo layoffs ayinappud.. boss called me, i have not told your wife yet, but your wife is being layed off man, im very sorry. he expected that i will be shocked or show some sort of emotion. naa reaction ni choosi, boss ki emi anaalo artham kaledhu... i said "oh thats unfortunate, but it is what it is" are you not disappointed? "yes, i think so, but its just a job, will work out for the better" ani... fuse lu out ayyayi boss ki... ippatiki timepass ki beers thaaguthunaadu.. septhaa untaad.. i cant believe some of your reactions man ani... sometimes i feel you just act too much inka wife ayithe chala sarlu shock avutadhi.. she stopped trying to surprise me .. surprise plan chesi.. naa reaction choosi... chala disappoint ayyedhi
 Don't bet the bet .. If you bet the bet he will regret .. He is not a bet .. He is banana split |
   
Jalsa
Megastar Username: Jalsa
Post Number: 25372 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.53.174.140
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:37 pm: |
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Sesani:Raju garu... 4 yrs waste cheskunna and 2012 lo apply chesina nunchi inka waiting kada.. so inka enni days wait cheyyalo telvadu.. vision 2020 emo..
Raju gaari istory telisthey needhi pichha light anukuntavu nuvvey.... |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 384 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:33 pm: |
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Rajusk:4 years ke brahmi cry icon aa ..oh my mad
Raju garu... 4 yrs waste cheskunna and 2012 lo apply chesina nunchi inka waiting kada.. so inka enni days wait cheyyalo telvadu.. vision 2020 emo.. Ade kismath baagunte ippatiki pathram cheetlo undedi kada.. thats when I decided.. jo hona hai hoga.. saala soch sochke dhimaak kharab hotha hai par problem solve nai hotha hai... .. |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 383 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:27 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:140 unda? 3 yr extensions chestu manage aipo bedaru..nenu unna kada company...
Undi.. and ade chestunna bhayya... |
   
Rajusk
Legend Username: Rajusk
Post Number: 32521 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.55.82
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:25 pm: |
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Sesani:4 yrs just like that waste.
4 years ke brahmi cry icon aa ..oh my mad  |
   
Jalsa
Megastar Username: Jalsa
Post Number: 25368 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.53.110.143
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:23 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:Expectation is just a target, having a target does not mean you will be unhappy. Infact without a target in mind, i dont think we can be an imaginative bunch. The key is how you perceive life. How you react to a certain result.
Well said.
Mental_sachinodu:Over time i have started believing in being dispassionate as much as possible, but many view my style as too distant to issues.but im more comfortable with it, as i accept its nothing is end of the world. office lo kooda issue vachi labho dhibo mantunte.. naa demeanor kontha mandhiki ardham kaadhu...
How did you get to become like this? Don't say I don't know
Pipeline:Content and happiness are different. Just because some one is content that doesn't mean that person is happy and vice versa. Career vishayam lo contentment panikiradu. You can be perfectly happy though while trying to get better in everything you do. I am not content but happy most of the time, say 90% of the time
That's true. |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16808 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:23 pm: |
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Kish:Oka individual happy gaa undaali ante she/he needs to get disconnected from the rest of the family and society- in doing so she/he might have to hurt (not intentionally) or cause people to think they are being neglected or not cared for! So what's the worth of individual happiness when one is getting it at the cost of others' suffering? Others happiness is not directly proportional to ones happiness! OR is it?
good question kishai...you can't be happy if your family is unhappy...so it may be a balancing act..na vishayam lo nenu hard core nv lover ni, and i don't like traditional dishes.....but i can't cook nv at home coz my wife is a vegetarian..so even though food is a basic and a primitive instinct, i have no choice but to train myself to work around the situation.. may be that's why family light tiskuntar emo sanyasulu.. |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3382 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:16 pm: |
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Kish:
Kish Bro, Happiness doesn't come with detachment, for people like us it comes when you can love your ones without expectations and as is when you perfrom duty with 100% of your satisfaction in right frame of mind, able to take the outcome with ease |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 382 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:11 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:140 unda? 3 yr extensions chestu manage aipo bedaru..nenu unna kada company...
undi.. ade chestunna bhayya... |
   
Kish
Legend Username: Kish
Post Number: 39016 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 68.180.94.217
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:08 pm: |
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Vokey now time for my Friday thokkalo philosophy- Oka individual happy gaa undaali ante she/he needs to get disconnected from the rest of the family and society- in doing so she/he might have to hurt (not intentionally) or cause people to think they are being neglected or not cared for! So what's the worth of individual happiness when one is getting it at the cost of others' suffering? Others happiness is not directly proportional to ones happiness! OR is it? || || PK || JP || MODI || CBN || SACHIN || DHONI || JDLN || EENADU || HYDERABAD || |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16807 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:08 pm: |
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if we look at the definitions for heaven in different religions - they tend to define happiness as a state of being, where everything is at peace with everything.....mana hindu and mus thammulu koddiga masala add chesi rambha oorvasi, thai massa settings ettar - so heaven ni define chesina vadu definite ga male ye ayyuntadu... anyway in real life happiness tends to be more transient and tends to come in waves..when we eat the food we like, while having orgie etc etc......this implies that we are impacted by the release of chemicals when we immediately pursue a pleasurable activity..so how do sansyasis do this by renunciation?
Sesani:Infy no GC kada.. after marriage 2011 la change the emp and Aug 2011 prevailing wages apply cheste Mar 2012 naa date.. maa friends ki andhariki GC vachindi already... 4 yrs just like that waste...
140 unda? 3 yr extensions chestu manage aipo bedaru..nenu unna kada company... |
   
Zulu
Megastar Username: Zulu
Post Number: 25037 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 199.168.243.252
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 04:01 pm: |
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Happiness is overrated...your mind deceives you like anything...if you have 10 years of misery and somehow you overcome it.. in the 11th year..your mind only remembers the happy parts of those 10 years.. so, my friends...hang in there..whether you are happy..or sad..or anxious or bitter..in the end it doesnt even matter..(edho pata la undi) |
   
Dreamcatcher
Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher
Post Number: 6195 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:58 pm: |
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Rocksuuu, nee phone calls raavatledu ani ninna chaala mandi baadhapaddaaru...jeevitham lo inta chinna chinna aanandaalani kooda kolpotunnaru, please MoM ki, Batthar ki, Coke ki veelaithay call chesi vaallaki happiness ivvu. |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 15306 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:57 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:so now i got no peaks or valleys in my emotions....it is a straight line
few months oka lady car ni back ninsi kiss ettindhi... traffic light deggara... car lo ninsi digi.. crying ninsi.. screams varaki ellipoyindhi.. nenu emo car digi.. are you alright ? i am going to call 911, should i report anything medical ani adigaan.. tension lo undhi avida... nenu normal ga call chesaan... tharvatha a lady tho casual ga evo matalu cheppaanu.. tension lo undhi ani... cop vachaad antha ayipoyindhi... aaa ammayi elle appudu.. are you a cop ani adigindhi? no, why ani adigaan... you behaved as though it is a daily deal for you, but im so glad you were calm and made it so easy for me ani ... btw, accident ayinattu wify ki seppalani thattaledhu... intiki vachaaka car back soosi.. what happend ani adigindhi.. woh.. podhunna ila ayyindhi ani seppaan... oka ganta class ..... |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3379 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:56 pm: |
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Driverramudu:In reality there is no one deserved to be as guru
Guru comes when your intent is passionate and true to guide Life long learning is any how required for every one Not all ae ready to move in this path due to past samskaras |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16806 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:55 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:ippatiki timepass ki beers thaaguthunaadu.. septhaa untaad.. i cant believe some of your reactions man ani... sometimes i feel you just act too much
fake it until you make it - this works big time.....by repetition we could consciously train the unconscious (over a period of time)
Last_avataar:Also they train thier mind as outside observer rather being an actor of the situation
good point bro....we could do this to a certain extent but the brain always processes information in context.. being an outside observer of our own emotions and reactions is a great self improvement tool |
   
Driverramudu
Hero Username: Driverramudu
Post Number: 10780 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 166.137.8.21
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:53 pm: |
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Vijayy In reality there is no one deserved to be as guru. As everyone have to learn more and more at every point if time. All one should do is be wise analyse learn from it Vignaanam like viswam which is anantamu Continuous learning knowing and implementing Is continuous process. As our lives are temporal All we can do is how many experiences we get in this small life Out if it how much we learn Out of learnt how much we gotta know well Out of knowing how much we implement or practise of course we have to consider it's feasible or not etc So my best suggestion is LILA Learn Implement Learn And .... This goes on forever .., Never ending process of GODs Lila Life is Race. I am in. Driving is my PASSION. Ayya baaboi bullet baby Dhaga... Dhaga... Champuthondi chocolate baby Sega...Sega.. |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16805 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:48 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:inka wife ayithe chala sarlu shock avutadhi.. she stopped trying to surprise me .. surprise plan chesi.. naa reaction choosi... chala disappoint ayyedhi 
lol same here..... a lot of it is genetics anukuntunna...growing up, i've seen many extremely irritable, reactive figures (teachers, relatives)..so by means of repetition i've consciously trained to not react to situations..so now i got no peaks or valleys in my emotions....it is a straight line |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3376 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:35 pm: |
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Vijayy:
Vijayy Garu.. , Naalanti folks just talking sestu untaru. dont take us too serious. Kaani i am going to lot of turmoil inside out from last few months as i meditate. Meeku guruvu nijamga kavalante... Prey your ista daivam for 40 days with clean thoughts and mind. The universe will show you the right guru Meeku already unte, take it easy |
   
Vijayy
Comedian Username: Vijayy
Post Number: 1517 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 198.241.217.15
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:31 pm: |
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Last_avatar garu... be my guru  |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3375 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:30 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
Thats how one should trian thier minds, as observer of situation, so that we do't get trapped into the emptions of anger, furstation, etc of the Manasu. |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 374 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:29 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:ex: behavior from other ppl, GC etc
GC vishayam la naa experience chepta annayya.. 2008 beginning la oka company start chesta annadi... almost start kuda chesindi.. naa job dobbindi and company kuda close chesadu.. H1 transfer cheskunna.... so GC application couldnt kick off.. 2009 Oct la malla GC process start cheddam ani anukunte, paper ad etc done.. auupudu infy ki subcontracting... Dec 2009 la infy either join or leave annadi.. maali bokka.. infy join ayna because naa marriage unde May 2010 la.. Infy no GC kada.. after marriage 2011 la change the emp and Aug 2011 prevailing wages apply cheste Mar 2012 naa date.. maa friends ki andhariki GC vachindi already... 4 yrs just like that waste...  |
   
Sonyvaio
Side Hero Username: Sonyvaio
Post Number: 9363 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 68.224.201.186
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:29 pm: |
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Its tough, People who take their path towards renunciation of this world will be the most happiest people in the world, everything else we are effected by emotions |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 15301 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:28 pm: |
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Last_avataar:Also they train thier mind as outside observer rather being an actor of the situation
yes. i tend to be an observer, and react to the situation. sometimes i tend to analyze even my reactions to see why i reacted the way i reacted. |
   
All_day
Side Hero Username: All_day
Post Number: 2136 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 107.0.27.252
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:27 pm: |
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My company founder. The Only Thing We Have to Fear Is Fear Itself - FDR |
   
Rowdy
Legend Username: Rowdy
Post Number: 31549 Registered: 01-2010 Posted From: 12.155.202.69
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:25 pm: |
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Sanyasulu vetakalante himalayala ki povali ... ilaa db lo, Chicago lo etikite ela dorukutaru? |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3374 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:24 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
Becuase in many cases, people to avoid the dissoppintments, dis-pleasure to the heart, train thier mind to quickly move on from that state without attaching much importance to the outcome. Also they train thier mind as outside observer rather being an actor of the situation |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 15300 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:21 pm: |
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Last_avataar:Good points. Have you asked your Heart truthfully you are trying to control emotions deliberately or you are in peace really in many situations what so ever be the outcome
i dont think i try to control emotions bro. i have asked this question myself. i think im as emotional as anybody, but my passion is not attached to all things. like if something small happens to my dog, i think it will break me in a bad way, but i dont have that kind of passion towards most of the day to day stuff. especially with work, i put in long hours, and there were days when i started i would work through all weekend, even without going home for taking a bath. but, never feel that if i get fired i will be disappointed. |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3373 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:20 pm: |
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Driverramudu:
Yes it is extreely dififuclt to get to the terms of a disastorus tragic situations. Becuase all of happiness is built around these relations. With physical boyd, no once can remain in same state, with all changing parameters. if so you must be a highly evolved personality My reference is to non-tragic incodents. |
   
Pipeline
Side Hero Username: Pipeline
Post Number: 9929 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 24.114.41.238
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:19 pm: |
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Content and happiness are different. Just because some one is content that doesn't mean that person is happy and vice versa. Career vishayam lo contentment panikiradu. You can be perfectly happy though while trying to get better in everything you do. I am not content but happy most of the time, say 90% of the time |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3372 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:17 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
Good points. Have you asked your Heart truthfully you are trying to control emotions deliberately or you are in peace really in many situations what so ever be the outcome |
   
Driverramudu
Hero Username: Driverramudu
Post Number: 10779 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 166.137.8.21
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:17 pm: |
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Last_avatar Not all or most if outcomes like disappointing or Tragic for many considering many So that inturn tells that no person ever happy Completely. Adjust and lead life with what we have Ani kavi bhaavamu Life is Race. I am in. Driving is my PASSION. Ayya baaboi bullet baby Dhaga... Dhaga... Champuthondi chocolate baby Sega...Sega.. |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 15299 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:13 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:no that is too much generalization...i am proposing that we eliminate expectations or lower the bar on results that are not in our control. ex: behavior from other ppl, GC etc for people with some ambition, it is inevitable to have "some" expectations...can we live in peace with those expectations or when the results are not positive?
ofcourse nenu chala simplify chesanu issue ni. but my point was dont blame expectation. what we need to learn to be at peace with discomfort. Losing a battle is unacceptable in today's cut throat world. Inherent ga competitive nature untundhi kontha mandhiki.. it is more difficult for them. Over time i have started believing in being dispassionate as much as possible, but many view my style as too distant to issues.but im more comfortable with it, as i accept its nothing is end of the world. office lo kooda issue vachi labho dhibo mantunte.. naa demeanor kontha mandhiki ardham kaadhu... office lo major issues vachinappudu kooda, nenu same normal day laaga work chesukunta pothaanu ... not much emotion. one other case was, company lo layoffs ayinappud.. boss called me, i have not told your wife yet, but your wife is being layed off man, im very sorry. he expected that i will be shocked or show some sort of emotion. naa reaction ni choosi, boss ki emi anaalo artham kaledhu... i said "oh thats unfortunate, but it is what it is" are you not disappointed? "yes, i think so, but its just a job, will work out for the better" ani... fuse lu out ayyayi boss ki... ippatiki timepass ki beers thaaguthunaadu.. septhaa untaad.. i cant believe some of your reactions man ani... sometimes i feel you just act too much inka wife ayithe chala sarlu shock avutadhi.. she stopped trying to surprise me .. surprise plan chesi.. naa reaction choosi... chala disappoint ayyedhi  |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3369 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 03:11 pm: |
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Driverramudu:And happiness directly relation with desires
People often relate thier happeiness with the outcome of thier desires But real happiness comes from inside when you start receving all kinds of outcomes with same emtional balanace. |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16803 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:57 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:Expectation is just a target, having a target does not mean you will be unhappy. Infact without a target in mind, i dont think we can be an imaginative bunch. The key is how you perceive life. How you react to a certain result.
excellent point bro..
Mental_sachinodu:and you are saying we all should be thu na boddu folks?
no that is too much generalization...i am proposing that we eliminate expectations or lower the bar on results that are not in our control. ex: behavior from other ppl, GC etc for people with some ambition, it is inevitable to have "some" expectations...can we live in peace with those expectations or when the results are not positive? |
   
Driverramudu
Hero Username: Driverramudu
Post Number: 10778 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 166.137.8.21
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:49 pm: |
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Alalu , kalalu mariyu korikalu nirantaram Nirvighaatam ga vastane untai And happiness directly relation with desires So no person ever happy 100% in their life time. If some one says it lie. Life is Race. I am in. Driving is my PASSION. Ayya baaboi bullet baby Dhaga... Dhaga... Champuthondi chocolate baby Sega...Sega.. |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 15298 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:44 pm: |
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Jp_rocks: so can i say lowering the bar of expectations is one way to increase our chances for happiness/living in the moment?
vunkl, serious disco la undhi. Expectation is just a target, having a target does not mean you will be unhappy. Infact without a target in mind, i dont think we can be an imaginative bunch. The key is how you perceive life. How you react to a certain result. lets say nenu repdhunna everest climb chesthaan ani nuvu egespect sesaav.. nenu ekka ledhu. nuvu feel ayyav anuko absurd ga anipisthadhi ... but ippudu nenu feel ayyan anuko, nenu ekka ledhu.. blind lo squint voook anipisthadhi.... but the question is should my reaction and your reaction be the same for the result? This perception is personal, some folks get verry disappointed when results dont match their expectation, blade ettukoni seyyi cut chesukone rakam... usually they are very passionate in nature, some are oka three pegs esi ... negesht day normal... some are thu na boddu folks...and you are saying we all should be thu na boddu folks? |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 369 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 172.56.36.236
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:40 pm: |
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Nenu naa US life lo experience chesindi endi ante...Dont worry too much about the things u cannot control...that will keep u cool ( I cannot say happy ).. |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16802 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:37 pm: |
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Sesani:. Ippudu mee priority date EB3 2008/2009 anukunta.. assuming that u will get GC in next 10 yrs will u relax... NO.. you want to port to EB2.. so bottom line endi.. oka korika undi meeku which will make u feel that ur missing something and want to get that ASAP..
correct mastaru....we always want to satisfy our desires as quickly as possible so can i say lowering the bar of expectations is one way to increase our chances for happiness/living in the moment? |
   
Last_avataar
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Post Number: 3363 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:34 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:
Well Said JP, we all do the same as humans in every day life, - Not only control the outcome, - But try to mend others behaviour to accept our view point (even for the good couse) |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16801 Registered: 06-2009
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:32 pm: |
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Last_avataar:Yes we must all try to come out of these aspects, we should try - but again when we decide that outcome should be like that and starts actions, we end up dissoppinted some times
yes..my mom is a good example.....dad doesn't like anything other than traditional dishes..mom likes to taste all cuisines and out of love she'd want my dad to taste so he could enjoy..of course he doesn't want to try and that makes her unhappy.. this is a minuscule example on how as humans we try to control outcomes and behaviors that are not in our control.... |
   
Last_avataar
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Post Number: 3362 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:32 pm: |
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Sesani:tha lo Krishnudu chaala complicated ga chepparu
Geetha lo Krisha Gave Blue Print that can cover every aspect of Human Life He gane resposbility to simplyfy it ( stich it to specific perspcetive) to sages and learned men Anduke anni vyakhyanalu vacheyi. If we want to learn the besutiful aspects of how to live in right perpective and what not to do, Ramyana and Manhabharata are best. Thanks to Chaganti Gaaru |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 368 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:29 pm: |
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Sesani:Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:22 pm: Â Â Â Â Â Jp_rocks: knowing that life is fragile and transient, why is it difficult to live in the moment? Desire anedi chaala peddadi kaavacchi, chinnadi kaavacchu... Ippudu mee priority date EB3 2008/2009 anukunta.. assuming that u will get GC in next 10 yrs will u relax... NO.. you want to port to EB2.. so bottom line endi.. oka korika undi meeku which will make u feel that ur missing something and want to get that ASAP..
Geetha lo Krishnudu chaala complicated ga chepparu.. so real life example tho simplify maadithini.. nothing personal...  |
   
Sesani
Junior Artist Username: Sesani
Post Number: 366 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.4
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:22 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:knowing that life is fragile and transient, why is it difficult to live in the moment?
A human being's desire will always make him restless and will keep him pushing to achieve that... money making kaani, career growth kaani anything.. adi achieve chesinanka inka yedo vastadi.. daani tarvvaata inkoti... Desire anedi chaala peddadi kaavacchi, chinnadi kaavacchu... Ippudu mee priority date EB3 2008/2009 anukunta.. assuming that u will get GC in next 10 yrs will u relax... NO.. you want to port to EB2.. so bottom line endi.. oka korika undi meeku which will make u feel that ur missing something and want to get that ASAP.. |
   
Last_avataar
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Post Number: 3360 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:18 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:expectations are the source of every conflict and disappointment in life..
Yes we must all try to come out of these aspects, we should try - but again when we decide that outcome should be like that and starts actions, we end up dissoppinted some times Krishna in geetha tried to teach the same. Very difficult to preactise. |
   
Mental_sachinodu
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Post Number: 15293 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:16 pm: |
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vunkl.. inataniki baaguntadhi.. kaani... we are a body of contradictions, please respect that and sit tite.... |
   
Last_avataar
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Post Number: 3359 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:16 pm: |
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Cocanada:
If we think phylosophically, we donot have any past or future, all is happening at the spot of the moment, becuase you are alive and experiencing past is only in our memories that fade away, future is just our attempt to create a physical realim currently not existing. |
   
Jp_rocks
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Post Number: 16800 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:15 pm: |
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Last_avataar:Because we want to control the outcome of every action, that creates the tension, rather flowing with the wind with acceptance of things beyond our control
good point....expectations are the source of every conflict and disappointment in life.. |
   
Sannayi_nokkulu
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Post Number: 238 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 199.21.112.162
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:14 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:
before meeting she was not happy but after giving me cpl of lap dances she said she was "completely content and happy with what she has" same with me...kiki |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 15292 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:14 pm: |
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Cocanada:"ozone pora gurinchi mee lo evarikaina telusaa?do you know about ozone pora?"
"ippudu puvvu untahi.. purugu untadhi .. zuuuyy antadhi chi antadhi. paiki padhu.. capsule ghatu .. puvvu ki spot.. shakti ki thrupthi ki.. neerasam" |
   
Cocanada
Legend Username: Cocanada
Post Number: 47386 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 168.244.164.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:11 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:knowing that life is fragile and transient, why is it difficult to live in the moment?
nenu alaane untaanu. but oka moment lo aakali estundi, next moment lo manchi wine taste anipistundi, manchi house anipistundi aaa "present moment"lu future ki plan cheskuntaanu. then i start living in future. #unbanwarrior, #modssuck, #bringbackwarrior, #weneedwarrior, #modsdowndown |
   
Idendi
Junior Artist Username: Idendi
Post Number: 630 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 199.29.132.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:10 pm: |
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Kish:I met Vone and Vonly Happy person and his name is Pfb aka Jp_rocks! Naaku seat icchesthaara?
abba superr |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3358 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:09 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:
Because we want to control the outcome of every action, that creates the tension, rather flowing with the wind with acceptance of things beyond our control |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16799 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:09 pm: |
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seethamma vakitlo cynma lo prakash raj character ni chuste manaki enduku kopamochindi? |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16798 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:08 pm: |
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knowing that life is fragile and transient, why is it difficult to live in the moment? |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16797 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 02:05 pm: |
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Cocanada:Sontham lo Venkatlakshmi dialog gurtu ochindi
nalla vari velugu lo kursoni typing aa.. |
   
Cocanada
Legend Username: Cocanada
Post Number: 47384 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 168.244.164.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:46 pm: |
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"ozone pora gurinchi mee lo evarikaina telusaa?do you know about ozone pora?" Sontham lo Venkatlakshmi dialog gurtu ochindi #unbanwarrior, #modssuck, #bringbackwarrior, #weneedwarrior, #modsdowndown |
   
Last_avataar
Side Hero Username: Last_avataar
Post Number: 3356 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.225
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:44 pm: |
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I recently met my Colleage Friend. - He is the head of Brhamakumari Chapter for Hyd - Maintining Bhrahmacharya... seems to making impressive spiritual advancement - My few meetings with him, he always looked, highly peaceful, Warm and Loving with few sentences, always said his happiness qutient is very high - I could literally see that |
   
Tombrady
Megastar Username: Tombrady
Post Number: 23209 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.216.56
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:43 pm: |
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Kish:Naaku seat icchesthaara?
neeku aaku the leaf eppudu bayate |
   
Kish
Legend Username: Kish
Post Number: 38981 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 68.180.94.217
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:42 pm: |
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I met Vone and Vonly Happy person and his name is Pfb aka Jp_rocks! Naaku seat icchesthaara?  || || PK || JP || MODI || CBN || SACHIN || DHONI || JDLN || EENADU || HYDERABAD || |
   
Man_of_masses
Megastar Username: Man_of_masses
Post Number: 28656 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 198.175.154.213
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:42 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:
mittamajjanam mandesava  Success Doesn't Guarantee Happiness.. http://i42.tinypic.com/54g1g2.png
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Tombrady
Megastar Username: Tombrady
Post Number: 23208 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 216.163.216.56
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:41 pm: |
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Jp_rocks:enta peaceful ante, if in a plane crash he/she will die in peace, knowing they lived a fulfilling life..
idi telusukonnodu alive vundadu kada btw i have not met anyone like that |
   
Jp_rocks
Moderator Username: Jp_rocks
Post Number: 16796 Registered: 06-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, August 15, 2014 - 01:39 pm: |
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Have you ever met a person who is completely content and happy with what he has? Totally at peace with everything - enta peaceful ante, if in a plane crash he/she will die in peace, knowing they lived a fulfilling life.. |