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     Pipeline Side Hero Username: Pipeline Post Number: 6182 Registered: 05-2009 Posted From: 161.141.1.1 Rating: N/A |
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| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2957 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
Getafix, I don't prefer the ipl analogy because 200 open positions in a billion people is much more risky than millions of say , engineering jobs. If a child wants to do economics instead of engineering, let them do that but clearly explain the consequences. Look at this ows movement, English or art majors feeling entitled to great financial comfort with those degrees | ||
| Rajusk Megastar Username: Rajusk Post Number: 29197 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.55.79 Rating: N/A |
meeru school ki poyinappudu levu le  Getafix septhondi ..maa lanti youth school ki vellina time ..like late 80s etc..appudu kooda emi levu ani | ||
| Jambalahaart_raja Side Hero Username: Jambalahaart_raja Post Number: 4178 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 171.159.192.10 Rating: N/A |
ivanni kaadu kaani... Parents and kids madhyanna.. in fact, for any relationship, and every person into any kind of relationship ki most important thing is awareness. Kids should be aware of the Cause-and-Effect factors of every situation they come across. As a parent, I'd want to be the one who'd develop that awareness in them. personally, my biggest deprivement is a sense of lack of awareness, both in my parents and I. There is only so much we can do VS There is something more we could do. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10151917303374436 | ||
| Bunty717 Moderator Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 37336 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
idi ippudu .. 70's lo emi avenues unnayi.. manalni mana parents encouragementing cheyataniki.. | ||
| Getafix Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 13961 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.13 Rating: N/A |
aa security kosam athi chesthar le... for suppose kurrod ki lucky break dori ye IPL lo2 -3 matches aadi - 2-3 matches fixng sethe - ye engineer/developer lifetime lo sampayinche money 1 yr lo sampayisthad.. basic gaa mana porolam ga unnappudu mana farents emergency era lo youth - aallaa youth lo unemployment susi athi ga tension padi manalni aadukunnar ...kiki | ||
| Triggerblaster Side Hero Username: Triggerblaster Post Number: 3181 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 140.98.210.243 Rating: N/A |
Ade mari chaduvu lkunte cricket antena? Comman man? atom daggaranundi atombomb varaku undi science telisunna sicence inka teliyani since yenta undo. chukka nundi chadramandalam varaku vundi telusunna geography, inka teliyandi yento undi.... One billon unnamu yenta mandi chadukvukunna(????) yedavalamu vunamu? Okka einstien yena vachada india nundi? Gujju leka kaadu gorrelekka polo mani oke paata.. dabbu paata.... "Chedda vallani support chese vallu chedda valla kante mundu M gudustaaru", Idi sapam kaadu brahma vakku | ||
| Triggerblaster Side Hero Username: Triggerblaster Post Number: 3180 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 140.98.210.243 Rating: N/A |
Yedo luck undi chala mandi flight yekkamu kaani? Manaki pustakalu ichina pedda farak undadu, naakudu naakude... "Chedda vallani support chese vallu chedda valla kante mundu M gudustaaru", Idi sapam kaadu brahma vakku | ||
| Bunty717 Moderator Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 37329 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
maradee.. prati parent ki valla kids ki secured career undaali anukuntaaru.. indulo tappu emi undi.. ippudu kids kootanta diff kaani.. aa time lo kids ki vallu eti avaalo vallaki kid ga unnapudee telise chance chaala takkuva.. manaki cric ante istam ani oka bat icheste max kids nakestaaru.. | ||
| Havingfun Side Hero Username: Havingfun Post Number: 2667 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 149.241.215.173 Rating: N/A |
Adhe situation maa UK lo koodaa vundi...ikkada kid ni okka roju school ki pampakapoyinaa 60£ per parent per kid fine maaku.....ippudu 2 kids ki four parents vunnaaru oka, like her mom married again and dad married again, it will be like 240 per kid.....kattakapothe jail.... http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2539378/Couple-took- children-school-weeks-holiday-Rhodes-face-jail-refusing-pay- fines.html Always be yourself. Because an original is worth more than a copy. | ||
| Getafix Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 13959 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.13 Rating: N/A |
a kid interested in music forced to study academics - deprivement kaada? a kid interested in sports forced to study - deprivement kaada? emanna ante orientation and spending lifestyle teeskochi balupu ani coloring esthar.. too much ya! ee db lone unnar unkals who look back into their childhood and go over missed oppurtunties time and again.. aa deprivement gurinchi talking ikkada | ||
| Rajusk Megastar Username: Rajusk Post Number: 29189 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.56.80 Rating: N/A |
correst rao garu.. after repeatedly repeating ..i think maa vollaki koncham ardham avuthundi.. ippudu store ki poyina..price tag soostaru and declare that we cannot buy this....they kind of know the allowable limits.. | ||
| Film_fan Megastar Username: Film_fan Post Number: 25240 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 89.168.180.48 Rating: N/A |
if kid enjoys using whatever it is, and parent is happy in giving it, they both are happy...who are we to say what is right and what is wrong? how can we decide what is right vs. wrong for someone else? -- we are no one.....but KIDS compare with their friends...this is where it gets tricky...... how can someone have it and not me.......yes...parents must have time and patience to handle this and explain them... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2955 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
What is deprivement? No Gay lifestyle? No Teen Sex? No 300 USD Monthly Allowance? No Limits on Food? No Limits on TV? and if everyone in a generation is deprived, why to look at that as deprivement? | ||
| Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 5172 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
if kid enjoys using whatever it is, and parent is happy in giving it, they both are happy...who are we to say what is right and what is wrong? how can we decide what is right vs. wrong for someone else? | ||
| Film_fan Megastar Username: Film_fan Post Number: 25239 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 89.168.180.48 Rating: N/A |
kids should always know..what they are getting for free .. every once in a while..I keep reminding my kids that I did not have TV at home until 10th grade..while they get to watch TV...even before they know what it was..and the list goes on.. --- keeping them grounded and dont take things around them for granted boasting thokka ledhu kaani.......I apply same thing with my parents as well as my kid and wife.....If i cannot afford.....i say it...'cannot afford' anedhi okati undhi ani theliyali anedhi naa point......donka thirugudu unda koodadhu I get irritated when some children touch something and that's it they got to have it......and giving in to that demand is the first wrong in my view... jawmetri posts good... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
| Ringo_rangaswamy Side Hero Username: Ringo_rangaswamy Post Number: 6586 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 162.134.72.5 Rating: N/A |
I think parents who are trying to compensate for what they feel they were deprived by giving it to children are doing it for their own fulfillment. Is that right or wrong? Who is to decide? | ||
| Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 5171 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
take it even further, kids should always know why we are saying 'no' to a certain thing they are asking for...once they understand the reasoning behind the 'no', they will not hold any resentment against parents for making that decision...like our jambal_raja saying now 'bat ball konivvakunda tokkesaaru'. :-) | ||
| Rajusk Megastar Username: Rajusk Post Number: 29188 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.56.80 Rating: N/A |
What about worst irresponsible parents ..who squeezed everything out of the parent as a kid...and would not let the parents live freely even after marriage...using/abusing their love for saving on few dollars of baby sitters.. | ||
| Rajusk Megastar Username: Rajusk Post Number: 29187 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.56.80 Rating: N/A |
agree totally.. kids should always know..what they are getting for free .. every once in a while..I keep reminding my kids that I did not have TV at home until 10th grade..while they get to watch TV...even before they know what it was..and the list goes on.. | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2953 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
What about worst irresponsible parents who take advantage of both their parents and their children. The kind of parents that were impossibly irresponsible in their youth but force a brutal responsiblity regime of their children. | ||
| Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 10919 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.9 Rating: N/A |
video games adanivvaledu,cricket bat konaledu ilanti silly things ki trauma na..what ur parents did is correct..u will know once u have kids | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Moderator Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 24920 Registered: 02-2009 Rating: N/A |
http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/answer-sheet/wp/2013/12/ 31/i-would-love-to-teach-but/ | ||
| Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 5170 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
this is actually a good thing for kids to know, it teaches them financial discipline...and also gives them insight into why their parents made certain decisions. | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2951 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 183.82.148.5 Rating: N/A |
I dont understand. What was luxury in a previous generation becomes a necessity These guys dont do anything extra but give these extra cuttings "I dont want my children to feel deprived the way I felt deprived in my childhood", what is this ungrateful nature. It conveys that although it was well within the parents means to provide for something, they didnt provide because they are uncool | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12480 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
link ettu the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 5169 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
avuna...that mommies life. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Moderator Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 24919 Registered: 02-2009 Rating: N/A |
WP lo oka blog nadusthundhee why I stopped teaching ani frederick country lo teacher posted | ||
| Jambalahaart_raja Side Hero Username: Jambalahaart_raja Post Number: 4176 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 171.159.192.10 Rating: N/A |
obvious adi.. it is rather an indication of progress. My dad never had a tri-cycle. At a certain age, when he was much older, he realized he should have had one, and bought one for me, re-used for my younger sibling. As a kid, I always wanted to play video-games. Contra and Mario were so popular. Anthenduku, oka age lo cricket ante pichhi. Wanted to be a super-fast right-arm bowler. encourage cheyaledu.. tokkesaaru. I definitely don't want my kids to go through that trauma. Limited earnings, baruvu baadhyathala madhya yentho calculated gaa parents mammalni penchaaru. I do not want to be suffocated and don't want my kids to realize some day how financially suffocating our family was etc etc.. There is only so much we can do VS There is something more we could do. https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=10151917303374436 | ||
| Andhrawala Megastar Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 28311 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
a rojullo doctor avvudaamu anukoni vundocchu. merit lo seat raaledhu. father Management seat quota lo konaledu now candidate working in SAP and can afford 2-3 cr for Medicene seat so thaanu deprive aina medical seat kodukki konnocchu ala ana maataa No Signature | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 12478 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.131.68 Rating: N/A |
clear cut ga oka sample vadhalandi.. never came across anyone with such attitude, if in understanding right the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Thikka_sankara Side Hero Username: Thikka_sankara Post Number: 9036 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 122.164.143.190 Rating: N/A |
yovv.... till our generation, its about survival... potta kootiki problem leni vaadu ennaina cheptaadu.... asthi pasthulu leka tindi ki job okkate margam ani situation unnappudu, ye parents aina first concentrate chesedi pillala education meedane... as financial independence grows, indulo change osthundi... which is already evident... ippudu pillalki kachitham gaa extra curricular activities nerpisthunnaru ante skippin running jumpin kaadu... culturals... almost mandatory ga nerpisthunnaru... again, this is in above middle class, poverty and below middle class lo, still the prev situation would persist keka link: fikileaks, | ||
| Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 5168 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
 hevvar seppaar tammi? | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Moderator Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 24918 Registered: 02-2009 Rating: N/A |
america lo ayithay desis consulting nee naakinchinattu school system nee desi/chinkus started many thella parents are complaining about standardized tests( board exams) and the effort/time spent vS value ee advanced/gifted programs lo grade saringaa leka pothay poyi teacher tho godava pettukuni better grade raayinchukovachu anta manalnee intlo rendu peekay wallu | ||
| Katthi Hero Username: Katthi Post Number: 12343 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 170.63.120.180 Rating: N/A |
mana india lo kids ni machine la penchutharu.. anduke issue http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AekjFFsznNM&feature=youtu.be JP : Tappu antha seemandhra prajalade | ||
| Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 10914 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.9 Rating: N/A |
manoollaki chaduvu pichi...6th class lo IIT tokka totakoora | ||
| Linkmaster Legend Username: Linkmaster Post Number: 40964 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 149.128.8.245 Rating: N/A |
i donot know | ||
| Ringo_rangaswamy Side Hero Username: Ringo_rangaswamy Post Number: 6585 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 162.134.72.5 Rating: N/A |
Many parents if not all think that they do not want children to feel deprived the way they felt deprived in their childhood. So the result is they compensate or over-compensate for that by providing their children what they missed. Flip-side to this is : why Indians feel they have been mistreated, insulted, deprived in their childhood and when they grow up do not like their experiences in their child-hood. Why dont they accept the experience and let their children be independent as well? Why this feeling of deprivity and anger in parents? Obviously, not everyone is like that, I agree but most seem to. |
