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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:47 am:       

What is the purpose of life? Companionship? Why do we marry or have offspring? Answer this question before you say anything. Then answer can be found
 

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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:42 am:       


Swayamkrushi:

f one is affluent enough he should go for maximum kids not even 2(even 5 or 6 or 10)




em ambani ki mugguru enduku 30 mandi vunna thappu ledu..thats how wealth gets distributed..and of those 30 kids evado iddare sustain avthaaru business lo..it creates balance ani my view..
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Bharatha Desama Voopiri Peelchuko..Babu and Baba are coming!!!
 

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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:37 am:       

May not be related to this thread...
My friend who's son at age of 13 died due to skiing accident few years ago... they also have a daughter... but abbayi chanipoyadani enni years depression lo ki vellipoyaru... recently at age of 40 she gave a birth to one more child (daughter). They are little happy now.
What I am saying is it is better to have two or three if you are financially and age wise better... ee America America lanti depressing weather conditions, night pafukuneppudu single kid may not grow wrll.

Ofcourse on the other hand, I have seen parents single kid ni chaala baaga caringteesukunnavaaallani...focus kooda ekkuvuntundi kid pai..


I like 2-3 kids family ante... epudu pandaga laaga untundi... I came from big family (7 siblings) so I like that.
 

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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:20 am:       

Blood is thicker than water .
Ee vishayam all is well appudu telavadhu. Life andariki dhoola teerusthundhi , matter of when not if.
Nothing like siblings but even better if we can teach them values of being together for each other for life
 

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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 08:20 am:       


Mandharam:

wife pothe(death or divorce) immediate ga marriage cheskovachu
but off-spring pothe(not just death, if they desert the parents) emi chesthavu mastaru

so both different





Bharateeyudu:

if one is affluent enough he should go for maximum kids not even 2(even 5 or 6 or 10)




 

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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 07:33 am:       

Siblings leni life ni imagine cheyyalen

Good or bad or happy or sad or infact all emotions , they were with me and they are going to be with me ane feeling oka kickku

Siblings are your strength and your weakness

Amen
 

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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 06:19 am:       

I will be harsh..single kid waste..its better to have no kids than having single kid..(unless heath complications).. ee quality education tokka thota kura doesnt matter

One is depriving siblings love for your child and also future lo antho intho vunte thammudo akka vunnaru ani cheppukovachchu..forget caring old parents.

I have seen two families who were born rich in desam itself and were double rich in US still they had single kids..unfortunately their kids died in their teenage.The families are devastated one returned to india also and left job and doing agriculture in village(Inkenduku sampadinchaali ane nairaasyam tho) another is still at bay area.

Anyways my opinion is always firm..if one is affluent enough he should go for maximum kids not even 2(even 5 or 6 or 10).. a poor person needs to have single kid..(desam lo vulta vuntadi poor goes for max kids while ultra rich will have single or two kids yekkado manchu vishnu laanti aanimuthyaalu thappithe..)///

for my position I would go for 2 kids..If one is having 100 crs property he should go for 4 to 5 kids.. nations requires more well of kids than poor or poverty stricken kids..

PS: special love to sannayi and speaker ee dblo yekkuva pillalu vunnadi vellake :-)
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Posted on Saturday, May 04, 2019 - 05:26 am:       


Gochi:

Same logic wifes ki kooda apply chesi inkoka wife ni chesukuntey better antaara...malli age aiooyaaka isthaaro ledho mari....asalu oka amma, oka naanna, oka bhaarya relation ok ainappudu oka kid why not...




wife pothe(death or divorce) immediate ga marriage cheskovachu
but off-spring pothe(not just death, if they desert the parents) emi chesthavu mastaru

so both different
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 08:13 pm:       

Anthe kaani okaru pothe inkokaru ana daridrapu logic tesuku raakandi... it will hurt many people. Asalu aa alochane depressing ga untundi. Please respect members sensitivities.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

it concludes 2 kids better (okariki ichina salaha nu inkokaru adapt chesukokuudadhu. case by case suggestions maari pothaayi)
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 05:41 pm:       


Musafir:

May be, the right gap is the key.
I have seen 5 years + gap work better than a year or two.




Not really - we are less than 2 years apart , my boys are 5 years apart , friend has kids who are only a year apart - no problems with any of these

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 04:59 pm:       

More kids more fun

Siblings are best gifts u can give to your kids
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:50 pm:       


Gochi:

asalu oka amma, oka naanna, oka bhaarya relation ok ainappudu oka kid why not...




Husband/wife, amma/nanna same group lo untaaru, so long term company expected and fulfilled in all fortunate cases.

But kids ki edige vayasulo sibling company makes lot of difference, regardless of unprecedented attention from parents. Sharing and caring value telustundi. Selflessness develop avutundi.

DB members ki request - evari personal choice vaalladi ani munduku vellandi. Anthe kaani okaru pothe inkokaru ana daridrapu logic tesuku raakandi... it will hurt many people. Asalu aa alochane depressing ga untundi. Please respect members sensitivities.
The One and Only Veturi
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:42 pm:       

we need thread for 2+ kids, forget about single kid family. mostly of single kid batch having 2nd kid in 40's.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:34 pm:       

Enni sarlu vesthaaru same thread?? Chusss
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:29 pm:       

multiple kids vundi aasthi kosam kottukuni, father okadu mother inkodu daggara vunde kante okka kid better.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:23 pm:       


Starc:

even now same anukunta.. single kid unte.. anything happens to him, or failue, or cannot support parents etc ayithe chala kastam ga..
may be still older thoughts kani.. good reasons to have more




Same logic wifes ki kooda apply chesi inkoka wife ni chesukuntey better antaara...malli age aiooyaaka isthaaro ledho mari....asalu oka amma, oka naanna, oka bhaarya relation ok ainappudu oka kid why not...

 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:18 pm:       

My opinion.

Have one of your own(none is also fine if you can handle the societal pressure). If you have more love to spread, adopt a kid. But please try to treat them equally.

adannamaaTa (read like venkatesh after he reciting is poem)
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:13 pm:       


Swayamkrushi:

your opinion is in very bad taste. osama




Aayana threads anni oka depressed state lo vesinattu vuntayi

I am sorry if it hurts
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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:11 pm:       


Chand:

better to have a girl and a boy




Two girls is best
Illu kala kaladuthundhi
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:11 pm:       


Mandharam:

Why not to have single child ki proof meeru Mee threads




your opinion is in very bad taste. osama is not the example to have multiple kids right?
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:08 pm:       


Ballasticmissile:

no i grow up single...no attachment to any other family members rather than my mom and dad....i rarely have attachment to any of those family members,....





Why not to have single child ki proof meeru Mee threads
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:06 pm:       

better to have a girl and a boy
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:02 pm:       


Starc:

may be still older thoughts kani.. good reasons to have more




Most selfish reason emo...
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 02:01 pm:       

First kids is blessing, Second kid is fun, Third kid is always more caring
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:57 pm:       

Forget about kid.. parents itself becoming pocessive.. too much caring... Fever vasthe vaniki povadam.. fnds tho adanivvalanna thinking... Etc etc . Bochedu chustunna appartment lo.. slowly everyone started having second one .
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:57 pm:       


Sannayi_nokkulu:

second time twins.




oh nice ..congrats
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:56 pm:       


Twitter:

1 own 1 adapted is ideal deal


ilage anukunnamu.......second time twins....ippudu memu vere vallaki adoption iche situation.....kiki
Perugu kavalaa perugu
Vada kavalaa vada
Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:54 pm:       

1 own 1 adapted is ideal deal
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 01:54 pm:       

any no. >0 is fine
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:45 pm:       


Ballasticmissile:

no attachment to any other family members rather than my mom and dad....i rarely have attachment to any of those family members


ni theds chusthe evarikaina ardham avutundi le idhi..:D
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:40 pm:       

ee madya 3rd kid in early 40s chala trending lo undi.. ma chuttu pakkala mari plan chesi chesukuntunnaru.. ... aa age lo mundu oka kukkani tecchukune vallu ippudu aa efforts e pedithe mana bidda perugutundi ani pothunnaru emo
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:38 pm:       


Ballasticmissile:

being a single child is the best thing a child can experience.....little prince syndrome of china google kar...




ma parents cheppe vallu.. aa kalam lo oo 8kids kante.. 3 to 4 survive ayye vallu anta..

single kid unte.. vadu pothe enti ani.. they used to prefer minimum 3 or above..

even now same anukunta.. single kid unte.. anything happens to him, or failue, or cannot support parents etc ayithe chala kastam ga..

may be still older thoughts kani.. good reasons to have more
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:33 pm:       


Starc:

single kid ante.. chala dull ga untadi anukunta life.. parents kuda full focus chesi.. unna okallani chadugudu adukuntaru emo





being a single child is the best thing a child can experience.....little prince syndrome of china google kar...
Capacity vundi, laziness, and uninspired life is a waste of time.
YOLO kada....
But experiences is how you bring meaning to life. Worthiness should be earned with adequate efforts.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:31 pm:       

I am from big big families.

I cannot imagine how single kid would live. ma dantlo chinna function ayyina.. oo 100 jama avutharu.. cricket kuda ade vallam.. it only in family.

single kid ante.. chala dull ga untadi anukunta life.. parents kuda full focus chesi.. unna okallani chadugudu adukuntaru emo
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:30 pm:       

.naa situation ide//

keka sannai..
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:30 pm:       

Kids ee kada uncle//

kids ee uncle..

2 ayite must annatu ee desam lo unnaaa..
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:28 pm:       


Liteteesko:


manam perigindi with cousins and family/relatives thoti kabatti manaki pedda pain telavaledu...manakedaina help kavalsunte family members eppudu ..evaro okallu untaaru....konthamandi anochu firends unnaaru maaku family members leru etc etc ani..manaki ee friends unnaaru ante manam vallatho close untaamu kabatti...meeru observe cheyandi ee generation kids ki relations antha strong undavu ..whether it is friends or cousins..anduke siblings unte parents taruvatha there is some one to share and care....





no i grow up single...no attachment to any other family members rather than my mom and dad....i rarely have attachment to any of those family members,....
Capacity vundi, laziness, and uninspired life is a waste of time.
YOLO kada....
But experiences is how you bring meaning to life. Worthiness should be earned with adequate efforts.
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:26 pm:       


Bunty717:

3 is best


Bunty garu enti idi ....naa situation ide
Perugu kavalaa perugu
Vada kavalaa vada
Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada

https://streamable.com/f4riy
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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 12:23 pm:       


Bunty717:

min 2 undaali.. 3 is best.. 4 is tooo much annatu..




Kids ee kada uncle
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 11:44 am:       

min 2 undaali.. 3 is best.. 4 is tooo much annatu..
 

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Posted on Thursday, May 02, 2019 - 11:40 am:       


Anand_n:

after a long gap - best decision ever ...



May be, the right gap is the key.
I have seen 5 years + gap work better than a year or two.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 10:20 pm:       

Been thru both thought processes but in different situations... had first kid in India - felt bad about mom and mom-in- law coming in to help they his infancy and thought one is good as he was growing up among cousins...then moved to the US and the realization hit that he was not going to have anyone to turn to once we are gone .., so went for the second after a long gap - best decision ever ...:-)
I know how important siblings are - I have only one but I know I can depend on him when I need and vice versa ... it’s a huge sense of security for both of us ... sure not all siblings may have the best of relationships but all said and done blood is thicker than water !

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet : James Oppenheim
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:27 pm:       


Gochi:

Single kid is fine..personally i was a single child myself and i never felt i needed a sibling or felt void of anything....

Ee question elaa undante, love marriage chesukunnodni love marriage better aa arranged better aa ani adigithe em chepthaadu..only love ey ayyindi, arranged koodaa ayyaaka chebuthaa antaadu..alaane single child gaa unnodiki they dont know what it is to be having a sibling, similarly people with siblings dont know how it is to be a single child..if u can be both, then give suggestions...




Gos baa
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:24 pm:       


Rangoon:

if something unexpected thing happen. Parents have nothing to enjoy the life


shame to shame my cusin tolded...is there any guarntee 2 kids gone in accident??
Perugu kavalaa perugu
Vada kavalaa vada
Peruguvada kavalaa peruguvada

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:11 pm:       


Ferrari:

if something unexpected happens for both of them..




less chances kadaa..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:10 pm:       


Rangoon:

any thing possible but probability is less


that's what i'm saying..anything can happen and doesn't matter if the number is 1 or 2 or 3 or more..its all about affordability...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:09 pm:       

chaala mandi kids ikkada ..memu single kids we are fine ani antunnaaru kaani...

manam perigindi with cousins and family/relatives thoti kabatti manaki pedda pain telavaledu...manakedaina help kavalsunte family members eppudu ..evaro okallu untaaru....konthamandi anochu firends unnaaru maaku family members leru etc etc ani..manaki ee friends unnaaru ante manam vallatho close untaamu kabatti...meeru observe cheyandi ee generation kids ki relations antha strong undavu ..whether it is friends or cousins..anduke siblings unte parents taruvatha there is some one to share and care....

parents lenappudu kaneesam fortnight ki okasari phone chesi baane unnaava ani adige oka relation untadi sibling unte

ika karchu gurinchi entha thakkuva matladukunte antha manchidi..india lo manaki enni properties unnaa..vachindi suitcase thote..same way kids kooda anthe..naaku thelsina chaala mandi families lo kids parents properties ni charity ki ciheyandi maakoddu anna vallani chaala mandini chusaa...


manchi budhi reasonable eduction isthe chaalemo kids ki...manam mana parents antha time ivvalekapotunnaamu kabatti kids ki ..oka sibling isthe they have someone to share and care
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:05 pm:       

even better. don't marry buy a ferrari chage girlfriends frequently
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:04 pm:       

if something unexpected happens for both of them..>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

any thing possible but probability is less
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 09:00 pm:       


Rangoon:

I kid - blindly no

if something unexpected thing happen. Parents have nothing to enjoy the life

blindly go for 2.


if something unexpected happens for both of them..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 08:58 pm:       

I kid - blindly no

if something unexpected thing happen. Parents have nothing to enjoy the life

blindly go for 2.

if you love kids adapt more or help for their studies.

one kid package ante you should prepare for no kid package also
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 08:54 pm:       


Telugu_times:

Reputed colleges give tuition waivers, based on family income. In US, colleges never penalise/discourage students based on their financial situation.
Admission raavadam kastam, but once got in, money is not an issue in top colleges in USA


naams ke vaasthe college anna bhayya..inka chaala scenarios lo 2 kids aithe everything gets halved ani na uddesham...for example if i have 1 kid and my budget for shopping is 100$ then i can buy him a good amount of clothes in that budget but adhe 2 kids aithe i should spent 50$ on each..adhi na inner meaning..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 06:14 pm:       


Gochi:




There is no way u can be both..
So evariki tochina ans ivvadame..


Ika love arranged.. edaina marriage okate..
brahma satyam jagan-mithyä jivo brahmaiva näparah
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 06:14 pm:       

I personally HATE imagining ONE CHILD. I think it is a punishment to the kid. Also, after parents passes away, there is NO ONE for that single child to dependent on anyone.

NO MONEY can buy the joy/pain/experience/emotions etc. that a siblings give each other.

At the same time I am also against having too many kids as world's population is exploding (especially this is painful for any Indian as our country's main problem is population), I encourage courageous young couple have 1 kid on your own and adopt 1 or 2 kids.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 06:10 pm:       

Ee madhya early 40s telisinayana 3rd kid confirm ayindani cheppadu, sudden ga inka form la unnara aneesa, chi deenemma nooti doola kakapothe, emanukunnado emo
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 06:08 pm:       

Single kid batch, second kid ki mid 40s , 3rd kid ki mid 50s lo plan cheyandi. Jai Trump

Money can be earned later. Kids?
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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 05:54 pm:       


Mandharam:

But they feel lonely all their life.


I am envy of my frds when I look at them..who ever has those single kids I have 3 frds .....they just had single kid

Do we really need 2 kids??
They can play at school or if you train with friends
Ok ....if they don’t have siblings they don’t know value of relations blah blah....
How many of us now maintaining relations purely?? With out money hooplas.....
I feel don’t worry..,...just go for what u r heart says
Perugu kavalaa perugu
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https://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10218450763926010&set=a.3135785239187&type=3&theater
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 05:45 pm:       

Single kid is fine..personally i was a single child myself and i never felt i needed a sibling or felt void of anything....

Ee question elaa undante, love marriage chesukunnodni love marriage better aa arranged better aa ani adigithe em chepthaadu..only love ey ayyindi, arranged koodaa ayyaaka chebuthaa antaadu..alaane single child gaa unnodiki they dont know what it is to be having a sibling, similarly people with siblings dont know how it is to be a single child..if u can be both, then give suggestions...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 05:18 pm:       


Confused:

How about adopting the second one?



Great idea in principle. But Sherin Mathews case choosam kada..
Voddu babu.
Aite andaru adopted undali. Leda none.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 05:17 pm:       

Anyone adopted a child here ?
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 04:58 pm:       

If you have 3 , then you may be forced to buy a 7 seater instead of 5 seater. One of my colleague had twins on 2nd go and his immediate problem was changing cars !!! J/k
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 04:52 pm:       

How about adopting the second one?
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 04:52 pm:       

I want 4...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 04:45 pm:       

Min 2 kids better. 3 is also good.

Ferrari:

depends upon the financial status of the parents..with 2 kids they need to plan about spending the same amount on education and other things for both of them..say if you have 100k and 1 kid then you can send him to some reputed college but 2 kids you need to divide the 100k into 2 and send both the kids to a lesser reputed college..



Reputed colleges give tuition waivers, based on family income. In US, colleges never penalise/discourage students based on their financial situation.
Admission raavadam kastam, but once got in, money is not an issue in top colleges in USA
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:33 pm:       


Speaker:

Avvataaniki malla PM vi...

legessssssssssssss


PM ayina developer ayina, program manager ayina prod support ayina andhariki same jeetham 70k bracket..oka GC holders ki oka 30k ekkuva istaru..:D
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:28 pm:       


Pulpfiction:

2 min
3 ideal
4 awesome




Mari 11
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:16 pm:       


Hanuman_junction:

I saw families devastated loosing their only child




recently met someone .. had a single kid.. but they lost her... they seem like they dont have anything to live for right now... planning to go back to desam...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:14 pm:       

ikkada ..many desis are going for 3rd, which is a good sign.
you need siblings in life, vallatho good terms lo leka poyina
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:14 pm:       

3-4 kids undali intloo kalakalaladuddi
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:06 pm:       

min 2. I saw families devastated loosing their only child. 1+1(adopt) even better scenario
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:05 pm:       

more than one kid aithee okkadu sesin appulani migatha vaalu theerusthaaru so that family doesn't get bad name


j/k. In general better to have more than one atleast in the foreign land ur kid will have someone to share if at all he wants to do. vallakid esam lo vunna cousins tho pedha releation vundadhu
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:02 pm:       


Ferrari:

ma lanti lower middle class TCS fellows




Avvataaniki malla PM vi...

legessssssssssssss
Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 03:01 pm:       


Ferrari:

ma lanti lower middle class TCS fellows ittage alochistaru..meeru ante Bay area and double earning folks..mi alochanalu veru...




hehe, ekkada aina adhey math applicable :D, meeru anukunnantha emi ledhu

roju intlo same lekkalu, pre-school ki ekkada pampinchali kid ni ani
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:59 pm:       


Pulpfiction:

4 awesome





Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:59 pm:       

2 min
3 ideal
4 awesome
Congrats tdp !
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:54 pm:       


Biggboss:

ee math ekkada nerchukunnavu

1 kid ki 100k/1
2 kids ki 100l/2

SNIST lo na


ma lanti lower middle class TCS fellows ittage alochistaru..meeru ante Bay area and double earning folks..mi alochanalu veru...
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:50 pm:       

To each his or her own.
From what I have seen, single kid unna parents also have a lot of time on their hands. Can be real productive. Kids can excel and parents can devote their time 100%.
Parents will also have time to spend on their own adventures.
Traveling with one kid is much easier than 2.

And the advantages of having more than one kid are already listed here.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:49 pm:       


Ferrari:

say if you have 100k and 1 kid then you can send him to some reputed college but 2 kids you need to divide the 100k into 2 and send both the kids to a lesser reputed college..




ee math ekkada nerchukunnavu

1 kid ki 100k/1
2 kids ki 100l/2

SNIST lo na

 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:45 pm:       

depends upon the financial status of the parents..with 2 kids they need to plan about spending the same amount on education and other things for both of them..say if you have 100k and 1 kid then you can send him to some reputed college but 2 kids you need to divide the 100k into 2 and send both the kids to a lesser reputed college..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:39 pm:       

Have 3 or 4 kids.. If u want more fun..
Inform, Amuse, Confuse, Evoke..
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:37 pm:       

A BIG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OO
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:34 pm:       

i wud reco 2 kid family.. (not there yet personally)

the pros of having 2 kids outweigh the cons .. and yes looking after old parents, having a sibling will help in long run..
brahma satyam jagan-mithyä jivo brahmaiva näparah
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 02:25 pm:       

I’m there single child of my parents......

I feel great because I don’t have financial hurdles...so I easily dived into the quest for knowledge...

If there are two kids there arises scenario where children compete....

Secondly no attachments....which makes self made humans ....

Only drawback is if in India there is a risk for child and his life which cannot be discounted...

Myself just missed death 3 times...2 times on motorbike.....in teenage I wanna travel fast to get thrill....vizag beach road meeda 110 kmph lo bike skid almost ayipoyan anukuni once...second time also beach road....just missed a major accident...adding to it 10-15 times bike accidents..

So choice is yours.....if can control go for one else two...
Capacity vundi, laziness, and uninspired life is a waste of time.
YOLO kada....
But experiences is how you bring meaning to life. Worthiness should be earned with adequate efforts.
 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 01:31 pm:       


Mandharam:

Single child financially looks good.




yes and no, depends on your earnings


Mandharam:

But they feel lonely all their life. Especially after the parents are gone, they have none to share their emotions with. Even when parents are alive, there are certain things a brother/sister helps




i don't think this is true, i rarely see sharing emotions between siblings.

relative really doesn't matter, system is changed, especially if you are living in metro area helping each other is not from relatives.

these are the not a criteria to have multiple or single child

if you like to have one more go for it.
It's ok

 

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Posted on Wednesday, May 01, 2019 - 01:25 pm:       

Single child financially looks good.

But they feel lonely all their life. Especially after the parents are gone, they have none to share their emotions with. Even when parents are alive, there are certain things a brother/sister helps

In the urban/modern lifestyle with nuclear families we are almost cut off from our relatives. So our next generation will be total strangers with our relatives families.

Single child might prove disastrous when the parents grow old. It is easy to say that leave them in old-age hostels. Not spending the final years with parents is bad thing anybody wants

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