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Hail_the_labour
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BUllying aa pulling aaa aaaadi baaammmmaaa parri.....

neelugu peekithe motham set atuhadi
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Maverick:

Bellying ani peru kooda pedite sari..pakka thread lo issue ki..


endidi teeneger problems ante joke ga unda?
Ee roju puttina roju jarupukuntunna vallaki janma dina subhakankshalu
Pelli roju variki pelliroju subha kankshalu ..

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Humpty_dumpty:

work from home today...all homely topics only..kiki



work for home today...all homely topics only
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aite nenu kooda case ettachchannamaata.

nenu class ninchi vastoo unte night time road cross chesi school parking lot loki enter avutoo unDagaa oka black van lo tellodu edo arichi naa vepu icecream cup visiresaaDu. adi naaku few mts dooram lo paDindi. koncham dooram lo school parking lot lo on duty cop choosi naa daggarakochchi what did they say ani adigi, he chased them. dont know what happened later.


btw maa kid school lo kooda jarugutoo untayani telsindi.. intakumundu school lo ekkuva. ippudu koncham takkuva. monna valla school bus digutunte teacher ni evaro venakaninchi meda meeta okkati esaranta.. aa principal andarini pilichi pedda class..
congratulations to Razesh for breakthrough!!
congratulations to KNF for thorough break!!!
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Guttonkay:

adi jarigina chala rojula varaku em bayata raledu. I dn't remember how it all cmae out, but some of the kids went to jail, some were suspended from school.




facebook or some online journal lo raasindhi aa pilla.. her name was phebe prince. Boston police formally charged 5 students with criminal charges .. okamale student meeda rape charges kuda vesaru anukunta.. case is going on.
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mari ee range lo untaaya..
the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada
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Guttonkay
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recent ga bullying sesthe jail lo ettarani news lo vachindhi... ittanti rules nijam gaane unaaya..!!
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that was an extreme case.

Ireland ninchi vacchina oka ammayi boston area lo edo high school lo cherindi. aa ammayi evaro football player ni dating sesindi. aa football player ex gf ki vallu mandi tana friends tho kalisi Irish pillani bullying start chesindi. it was horrible bullying like that kid literally had no friends, no respite. last day she was going home and they threw a emtpy/half empty coke can at her etc.

intiki velli vuresukundi.

adi jarigina chala rojula varaku em bayata raledu. I dn't remember how it all cmae out, but some of the kids went to jail, some were suspended from school.

20357704%2C00.html,http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,2 0357704,00.html
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Mental_sachinodu:

recent ga bullying sesthe jail lo ettarani news lo vachindhi... ittanti rules nijam gaane unaaya..!!



Mass lo january lo oka high school girl suicide chesunkundhi 'coz of relentless bullying by her 5 classmates.. ippudu aa 5 students( 3 girls and 2 boys) pi charges esi criminal proceedings naduputhunnaru.. if they are convicted then they might be gone for long time.
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recent ga bullying sesthe jail lo ettarani news lo vachindhi... ittanti rules nijam gaane unaaya..!!
the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada
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Guttonkay
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Posted on Wednesday, May 19, 2010 - 01:58 pm:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

konni rojulu DB lo padesthe...all set avutaaru please open a section for kids
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coke,

great idea. telugu language nerchukunna nerchukoka poyina telugu herola peru, telugu kulala perlu nerchukuntaru.
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GK
yes, a lot can go unnoticed
how 2 prep your kid is an issue
if being targeted, got 2 prep them to be bold and not budge
OTH make them treat every1 equal to themselves

a very fine balance anukuntunna
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Cocanada
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Posted on Wednesday, May 19, 2010 - 01:34 pm:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

konni rojulu DB lo padesthe...all set avutaaru

Admin,
please open a section for kids
Simha is conceptually hollywood range film - OT
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Guttonkay
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Posted on Wednesday, May 19, 2010 - 01:30 pm:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

ilaantivi anni ikkade ekkuva vuntaayi emo especially for desi/chinki kids... as we are minority here.
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I wasn't referring to racially motivated bullying.

manam india lo horahori kottukunnam. none of that has anything to do with caste/color etc. kids ante kondaru athi vuntaru they tend to bully others.

Of course racially motivated kooda vuntadi, but I would think it would be very low at elementary school level.
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Guttonkay:

I was talking about bullying in US.

India lo bullying is like second nature.




Ind lo bullying is OK atleast 80's lo..
US lo bullying horrilbe untundi..
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Guttonkay:

One thing to know is that there is a lot that goes on at school, in the school bus that ur kid doesn't even tell you.


Again, ilaantivi anni ikkade ekkuva vuntaayi emo especially for desi/chinki kids... as we are minority here.

Desam lo ayithe at least racial issues/fights takkuva anukunta.

Ikkada mana desi kids chaala mandiki inferiority complex kuda vuntundi antaaru. Not sure how far it is true... another reason why many desis hang out with afr amr's
If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you
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bunty bro,

I was talking about bullying in US.

India lo bullying is like second nature. several forms lo vuntadi. ammayilu ayite neetho matladanu. Everyone decide if u r on my side or padmaja's side anukuntaru. abbayilu ayite horahori kottukuntaru. India lo I was on both sides of that.
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Guttonkay:

I have seen both cases.




ekkada US or Ind..
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Maverick
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Posted on Wednesday, May 19, 2010 - 01:19 pm:   Insert Quote Edit PostDelete PostPrint Post   Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)Ban Poster IP (Moderator/Admin only)

Bellying ani peru kooda pedite sari..pakka thread lo issue ki..
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Guttonkay
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some parents are very hands on and would go to the school, complain to principal and all that.

Some parents are very hands off and kids deal with it in their own terms.

I have seen both cases. One thing to know is that there is a lot that goes on at school, in the school bus that ur kid doesn't even tell you.

Unless your kid is actually having trouble at school or is not interested in school b'coz of the bullying I would say the best thing you can do is train her about ignoring bad elements and not let those affect you.

If your kid is a bully, you better act on it fast :-)
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hyder
work from home today...all homely topics only..kiki
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bump for annawaram, anand, oka hyderabadi
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vammooo enti ee threads??
If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you
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how do you handle if your kid is a victim of bullying?
or
if he/she is a bully?

IMO ,both cases can have a bad effect on the personality development of kid

mana chinnapudu idhi face chesay untaamu and somehow overcame it. but jarigevi jaruguthaayi ani matter gaaliki vadhileyya kunda postandi


from wiki:
"Bullying is a form of abuse. It comprises repeated acts over time that involves a real or perceived imbalance of power with the more powerful individual or group abusing those who are less powerful.[2] The power imbalance may be social power and/or physical power. The victim of bullying is sometimes referred to as a target."

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