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     Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4039 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Should women behave like men at work? Last updated on: March 30, 2010 11:33 IST Tags: Clay Shirky, Dr Louann Brizendine, New YorkUniversity, CEO After many years in the corporate world, I believe there is some unfortunate truth to the statement by New YorkUniversity professor Clay Shirky that women should "behave more like men" to get ahead in the world. I have time and time again been completely annoyed in meetings when male colleagues self-grandiose, pontificate, obsessively dominate the conversation, and frankly to me act like narcissistic fools. But, the truth is that many of these tactics pay off: when you dominate a meeting, it is your point of view that is most heard. The friendly, over-considerate shy person may have phenomenally intelligent things to say, but without being assertive and speaking up, they are left in the dark. And it goes far beyond simply talking too much. What shocks me most is how many of my male colleagues can say absolutely nothing of value, but do so in such an authoritative way that others around will listen and believe what they are saying is something to pay attention to. Combine this with constant paraphrasing, building on what others have said, and making small mundane points seem like very important topics, and you have the perfect corporate get-ahead strategy. Most interesting though, is how the average man in the workplace seems to care less what others think (or at least makes it come across this way). Time and time again I see male colleagues give a point of view that is completely shot down in a meeting, but not seem affected in the least. Even if they are shot down in an embarrassing way, ten minutes later they will pipe up with yet another comment. I've noticed women colleagues, on the other hand, would retract and think twice before asserting their point of view in similar situations. Does this come from women simply being more self-aware, or are men really just not as affected by other people's perceptions of them? One of my favorite explanations comes from the book The Female Brain by Dr Louann Brizendine. The overall thesis of this book is that women and men are biologically different, and these biological differences lead to obviously different behaviours. A poignant example given is of an experiment conducted on small children. Mothers were asked to take their 12-month-old son or daughter into a barren room with nothing but a table and an object placed upon it. The children were all given instructions not to touch anything in the room. It was noticed that very few of the girls touched the forbidden object, and, they glanced back at their mothers looking for approval or disapproval 10 to 20 times more than the boys. In sharp contrast, the boys rarely glanced back at their mothers, and frequently touched the object even as their mothers shouted 'no'! This constant reaffirmation, needing to be polite, and lower doses of testosterone that seem to stem from how women are biologically wound up could be what leads to various female character traits in the professional world: being more self-aware; being conscious of other's perceptions; asking for forgiveness more times than necessary; taking the backseat in discussions, arguments or debates. These can all be good things in moderation, harmful in abundance. Many women counter these traits and force themselves to "act like men", but they do so to such a degree that they come across as "bossy" and over-aggressive in situations, the same situations their male counterparts will not. It can be unfair and it certainly makes it difficult if you are a woman in the corporate world to figure out how to act, how to self-market, how to be assertive in a non-obtrusive way. For me, the learning process on how to act in the business world is constant. At this point, I believe it is best to be who I am, and act like myself rather than putting on an act. By defining my own personality I feel I have been able to create my unique brand image in contrast to other colleagues. With this in mind, I also take extra special care to be assertive and not aggressive, speak up in meetings, and not take it personally if my ideas are shot down. I don't want to be self-aggrandising, because while being obnoxious may help to get one noticed, many over-aggressive male executives fare terribly in managing teams and working in cross-groups. Here, you actually have to listen and be considerate to others. In the end, I believe it's hard to cross a certain ceiling in any professional context if you are unable to motivate, be liked by, and effectively manage a group of people -- consisting of both men and women. The last point I'd like to make is to disagree with Shirky's statement that because women do not behave like men, "women are neither as successful nor as famous as their male equivalents". I believe this way of thinking is far too narrow. Many women stop wanting to be successful and famous after they have children as they place a higher value on work/life balance, and becoming a CEO doesn't mean much if their home lives are in disarray. And others are perhaps just more aware than their male counterparts that the ego validation resulting from rising to the top doesn't provide any real happiness. The author is a teacher, entrepreneur and expert on communications and soft-skills training. Nasha Fitter | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4033 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Premarital probe: Detectives make big bucks in India Last updated on: April 2, 2010 15:05 IST Manu A B in Mumbai Siddhi was all set to get married to her 'ideal' man, whom she knew for three years. It ultimately turned out that he had already someone married two years ago but had still continued the relationship with her. In another instance, the parents found a handsome boy with a good job for their daughter. But days before the marriage, the girl got a whiff of something being wrong. Finally, it was found that he was undergoing treatment for a serious health problem. Playing the role of saviours in their cases are detective agencies, who regard this as good business and also social service. Premarital investigations have turned out to be a lucrative business with increasing instances of people trying to cover up many personal, family and official details. There are hundreds of cases of forgery and blatant cheating in the booming matrimony market. These detective agencies work to unearth every detail about the prospective groom/bride. With a boom in online matrimony sites, many alliances are born in cyber space. Prospective brides and grooms spend hours on the net chatting with each other and meeting once or twice before marriage, but knowing hardly anything about the each other or their families' background. This trend has led to many unfortunate cases of break-up within months of marriage. So it's not surprising that there has been a rise in the number of pre- and post-marital investigations. Most of the requests come from middle class families. Detective agencies say that from 2-3 enquires in a week about 5 years ago, nowadays there are 2-3 enquires every day. "We get 30 per cent of our revenues from the premarital investigation business. We expect this business to grow further," says Rahul Rai Gupta, CEO of Secret Watch Detectives, who started the agency in 1999. A typical premarital investigation includes character verification, verification of social reputation, employment status, vices, addictions, violence/medical/education history, past broken/unbroken marriages, social/financial status and reputation of the family or any other specify investigation required by the customers. According to Topsgrup Risk Intelligence Private Ltd (TRIPL), about 80 per cent of the general investigation cases are for premarital investigations. "The booming Internet matrimony business has led to the investigation business in India growing at the rate of over 30 per cent annually, set to cross Rs 100 crore (Rs 1 billion) turnover soon," says Nilendu Mitra, senior vice president (marketing and communication), Topsgrup. Topsgrup is developing an exclusive premarital investigation portal and are in talks with some leading online marriage portals. With the increase in the number of marriage related fraud cases, parents now consider this as a part of the wedding package. "Anyone who is getting married must spend on a background check. It is better to verify facts before marriage to be on the safe side," says Bhawana Paliwal, co-founder of Tejas Detective Agency. She recounts many instances where the girls were unaware of the prospective groom's past relationships, medical history, salary, job, et cetera. "About 10-20 per cent of the premarital investigation cases turn negative, highlighting the need for parents to keep an extra vigil in terms of premarital investigations while 60 per cent cases turn negative in terms of post-marital queries," says Bhawana Paliwal. The cost of the investigation varies from person to person and depending on which place the investigation is to be carried out. Agencies charge from Rs 15,000 to 30,000 for a premarital investigation. The price should not be a deterrent advises Paliwal who says, "When you splurge so much on a wedding, the cost of an investigation is hardly a big expense. In fact, it is the most important thing to do especially when it is an arranged marriage." A typical investigation usually takes 7-10 days. Although premarital investigations are easier compared to post-marital ones, the agencies have to make sure that the people involved do not get any whiff of the investigation. So it must be done discreetly and at the same time reveal everything about the person. "We make sure that the process is managed with utmost discretion and with sensitivity without causing discomfort to any of the parties involved as your own future and safety is paramount," says Nilendu Mitra. While this is a risky and difficult profession, detectives are happy that this business helps people begin their marital life peacefully! | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1459 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
choosi choodanatlu choosthe evariki ibandhi undadhu..guchi guchi adhe paniga choosthe andhariki baadha..aa oka vishayamlo hyd abbayilu konchem marchukovali..bte garu anakandi..vuncle ayipoyina feeling vastondhi..  Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3500 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.19.210 Rating: N/A |
vaala mundhara moodu sarlu atu itu nadichina kooda oka sari choodaru ------------------------------------------------------------ --- ammayilu choosi choodanatlu choostaru Ruj garu :-) abbailu blatant ga choostaru anthe theda. | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1458 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
oh nice..software kaadha..katthi bhayya...non software valani choosthe adho muchata..gorrela mandha la engg olaam field tho sabandham lekunda 80% software ee..nenu engg MS mechlo chesi job emo software.. Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 3181 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.88.234.149 Rating: N/A |
Nenu engg kaadu thammi...veterinary sciences...agricultural university... ...and I am never gonna dance again...guilty feet I have got no rhythm...though its easy to pretend...I know you are not a fool...I should've known better than to cheat a friend...wasted chance that I'been given...so I am never gonna dance again...the way I danced with you... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zALiyJ02k_Y | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1457 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
MGIT.. bhale undedhi le mehdipatnam.. meeru hyd ena bhayya engg antha..Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 3180 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.88.234.149 Rating: N/A |
Vasavi or CBIT? Mehidipatna bus stop oka apara swargaseema...St ANNs ammayilu, vasavi cbit, agricultural university ammayilu...abboo adoka marupu raani experience le... ...and I am never gonna dance again...guilty feet I have got no rhythm...though its easy to pretend...I know you are not a fool...I should've known better than to cheat a friend...wasted chance that I'been given...so I am never gonna dance again...the way I danced with you... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zALiyJ02k_Y | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1455 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
anthe anthe ayyuntundhi...lekapothe ammayilu choodatamenti..vaala mundhara moodu sarlu atu itu nadichina kooda oka sari choodaru..kaani engg college ki vellepudu mehdipatnam side ellinapudu mathram akkada kondharu choose valu burkhalu esukuni..bhale kaaledhi..adho peddha topic le..ippudu vadddhu.. Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 3179 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.88.234.149 Rating: N/A |
Adi mana face value ni batti untadi...IamIm annai apara gandharvudani aayane chepparu oka saari...mana chappidi face laki atlaanti vi jaragavule ...and I am never gonna dance again...guilty feet I have got no rhythm...though its easy to pretend...I know you are not a fool...I should've known better than to cheat a friend...wasted chance that I'been given...so I am never gonna dance again...the way I danced with you... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zALiyJ02k_Y | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1454 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
ooruko annai..antha adrustamaa.. mana choosudutho polisthe aala choosudu oka choosudenaa..Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 3178 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.88.234.149 Rating: N/A |
 kathi cheppinav thammi...5 stars....and I am never gonna dance again...guilty feet I have got no rhythm...though its easy to pretend...I know you are not a fool...I should've known better than to cheat a friend...wasted chance that I'been given...so I am never gonna dance again...the way I danced with you... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zALiyJ02k_Y | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4032 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
What about girls staring at boys.. I think it does happen.. There used to be one such girl who used to cook with her looks in our teenage.. Many years passed.. we changed localities.. recently I was gardening with my kids.. suddenly that girl was appeared walking with her kid.. seems their house is right in our lane.. we both stared at each other and exchanged a thousand words... | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4026 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: |
He Treats.. She Retreats.. Mankind is driven by Male Testoterone alone... | ||
| Ntr_fan Megastar Username: Ntr_fan Post Number: 21974 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 74.232.109.243 Rating: N/A |
//Will the boy treat the girl as Sister.. Mother.. Daughter.. /\ what about the girl? how she treats? | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4024 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: |
Yeah.. thats natural.. biological.. Simple test is Blue Lagoon Test.. Leave a boy and girl alone to grow together.. Will the boy treat the girl as Sister.. Mother.. Daughter.. Never.. coz these are all man made relationships.. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3489 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.19.210 Rating: |
Guys, Can we stop this war of words? | ||
| Rebel Side Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 7341 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.73.190.3 Rating: N/A |
kamal tammud ni rapist ga uhunchukuntunte abbo | ||
| Telugubabu Comedian Username: Telugubabu Post Number: 1399 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.56.33.118 Rating: N/A |
nijame. natural.rape magavallu matrame cheyyagalaru. pillalni ladies maatrame kanagalaru annattu. Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4023 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Adaithe correcte.. Every Man is a potential born rapist.. Maga Purushulu kadu Maga Purugulu.. | ||
| Rebel Side Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 7339 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.73.190.3 Rating: N/A |
aada purugula, maga purugula ani iamim adagamannadu | ||
| Telugubabu Comedian Username: Telugubabu Post Number: 1398 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.56.33.118 Rating: N/A |
chee chee padu magallu. purugulu patti sastharu. Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4022 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Generally speaking.. its only in eastern culture.. particularly the mother of all cultures.. Indian culture.. that women are respected.. its just waste of time to even talk about respect for females in other cultures.. Vivekananda said the same more than 100 years ago... | ||
| Telugubabu Comedian Username: Telugubabu Post Number: 1397 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.56.33.118 Rating: N/A |
emi analedule. thanksandi. ee roju shop ki velli karunanidhi kallajollu konukkunta kiki Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4021 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Adentandi anta kopam tecchukuntaru.. Ippudu ikkada nenu adavarini gani magavarini gani em annanu.. Hayiga Goggles pettukoni Ogle cheyyamane kada magavariki cheppindi.. Nayananandakaram.. Paramanandamayam.. | ||
| Telugubabu Comedian Username: Telugubabu Post Number: 1396 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.56.33.118 Rating: N/A |
ee varnasrama dharmam ante naaku theliyadu. mee posts congress,tdp chiru,bala fighting posts laga vundavu. kamal thammud laga hinduism protection meeda direct discussion vundadu. edo ikkada andaru brahminism,hinduism ni naasanam chesthaniki agenda tho vacharu annnattu post vestharu. ok enjoy cheyyandi. alaage maa lanti vedhavalina magavalla meeda konchem daya choopandi. Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4020 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Kaadedi Kavitakanarham.. anattu... Kaadedi Kamanikateetam.. anukovali... | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4019 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Pilli ante maa peratlo Pilli gurthocchindi.. Shes a real cute one.. their gestation period is just 9 weeks.. The male cats are constantly on her prowl and make a lot of noise.. Dont know whether our backyard cat likes it or not.. Dont know whether to drive away those prowling male cats or not.. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4018 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Sare Caste ante gurthocchindi.. Evari angles varu chepperu.. Congress.. TDP.. Westernization.. Telangana.. Andhra.. Hyderabad.. Movies.. Let me think about my angle too.. to round off.. Varnasrama Dharmam brastu pattadam deeniki karanam anukunta.. | ||
| Telugubabu Comedian Username: Telugubabu Post Number: 1395 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.56.33.118 Rating: N/A |
he hates people if anyone go against his caste. anthakante ekkuva cheppalenu.
there are dumb and intelligent girls out there. i am worried about dumb girls. Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3488 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.19.210 Rating: N/A |
telugubabu garu, I don't know what you mean in ur comments when u said iamam doesn't like some people. Leaving that aside, IMHO there is nothing wrong in the two posts he posted. He not posting those two posts does not erase the facts either. I think we all know that there are good and bad people in both men and women. ikkada edo post cheste danni chadivi pellillu vadilesukune vallu evaru leru anukunta. | ||
| Telugubabu Comedian Username: Telugubabu Post Number: 1394 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.56.33.118 Rating: N/A |
Mr Iamim , I know you hate certain people in this DB. please deal with them directly. you are not helping anyone here by posting articles like this. you are actually breaking marriages by showing men as wolves and animals. This article is from an angry educated woman. guess who is going to get benefit out of this english article ? woman from villages ? english written articles like this can only break urban living educated families. after reading this article some crazy dumb woman may divorce her husband if she see him just looking at a beautiful clerk in a shopping mall. and intelligent woman stick to her man to get the best out of him to lead a happy life. does anyone write articles about irrational thinking woman ? please stop this nonsense. yaa it touches my nerve and many men. iamim you may be a perfect man for your wife. next time bring your wife to DB for a discussion. let her say something about you. yes men are not perfect. atleast I am not perfect. thank you. I am going to email this article to my ex. it makes her feel happy that she is not alone.there are many single woman out there and will see many in future once they all get freedom from husband and society. they all should visit http://www.indusladies.com/forums/ do bashing men, crack jokes on men. Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4009 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Noppinpaka tanovvaka.. Best way wear goggles.. goggle and ogle at gals to your hearts content... | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4006 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
A large number of emotionally vulnerable women fall prey to manipulative relationships every day, perpetuating feelings of loss and a further erosion of self-esteem at the end of the game they thought was 'love'. Jayalakshmi Sengupta reports. Does he come on like a tsunami, in an unpredictable swirl and sweep you off your feet (despite your own reservations) and cool off just as suddenly? Does he give you a heart-bursting moment one day and a mild angina the next? He could well be the wolf in sheep's clothing your mom warned you about. Mature women routinely fall prey to manipulative lovers who are past masters in the game of seduction, with no desire for commitment or emotional attachment whatsoever. Vulnerable women often end up in this web of the archetypal love game that uses women as just "another flavour in the platter". Love is a wonderful feeling, "but with little or no commitment, it is relegated to an amusing pastime and no more," points out psychiatrist Anjali Deshpande. If one is looking for a long term commitment, one has to be more careful. Behavioural gurus explain this in the framework of the biological 'chase and hunt' game that has the male species looking for a female to pursue and the female waiting to be wooed, eventually only to procreate. Much as in the animal world, powerful attractions propel humans into exploratory passion -- with the exception that humans are capable of experiencing lust that transforms into the higher and more complex emotions of love and commitment. Men and women, however, may use these natural instincts to bait and bed multiple partners depending on personality and circumstances. "Boredom and ennui takes over certain individuals more than others and in the absence of responsibilities, the hunting spirits may awaken again and again," says Deshpande, adding "What makes it dangerous is manipulation or conscious exploitation." Serial manipulation for sexual gratification is, however, not very common among women. "How many men complain of being sexually exploited in our society? Women more often than not come out feeling victimised instead," she points out. Meet Gaurav (35), an archetypal hunter who, despite being married, makes no bones about his penchant for falling in love "with every beautiful woman" he meets. It is a thrilling and unique experience each time and his heart sings a different tune every time. "I am capable of loving more than one woman. That's how I am," he shrugs off defiantly and reminds us that "commitment and responsibility kill passion". To live passionately, one has to be free of possessiveness and that is "true love", according to him. "In truth, since pure sexual urges follow the pattern of diminishing returns, euphoria seeks newer pastures to feel the 'high' again," notes Deshpande. To cut through this sort of a web of love game, one must understand the peculiar psyche of a manipulative hunter. They are men driven by testosterone, which guides both criminal and high-level intellectual activity in men. They have a powerful presence and are immensely resourceful to begin with. "Their personal magnetism is nothing but sheer sexual energy, which they may be quite incapable of handling," says Deshpande. He could be someone who is always the centre of attention in a confident way, but will nevertheless exude several ambivalences which will be telltale signs of his fickleness. Many women tend to fall just for that. Apparently, everything that should set a tiny alarm ringing does just the opposite. Women find this anomaly more enticing than ever. A tremendous sense of humour or constantly playing around with words is a complex masking technique used by most such men. Double entendre is often used with great panache to get away from the truth. A perfectly straightforward reply may hide a second meaning, often risqué, or ironic, completely lost on a naive partner, and is a turn on for the smarter one. They are also typically those who will never have a deep conversation. This is because their incessant creative energy finds a natural outlet in a libidinal high which wanes as quickly as it rises, making them restless. Intimate conversations also make them vulnerable. Their limited attention span helps them to be in control at all times. Ironically, most women, even when they find it exasperating, work harder to get their attention. If these men appear vulnerable and needy for love, it would to get things in control as a last resort and again, it invariably sweeps the woman off her feet. These men are often alternatively aggressive, offensive, brusque and then gentle and kind. Most women find this extreme shift in behaviour an overwhelming experience. Gaining acceptance after near-rejection leaves them with a sense of fulfillment. It is easier when the woman is looking for a leg up in the profession, or trying to overcome some deep crisis in her personal life. This man will appear like a knight in shining armour, a saviour. But soon, the so-called magical love will suddenly disappear in the wake of greater demands like more time, more intimacy, more transparency or more commitment. The woman in the web may choose to end the game here with an angry outburst and futile tears or continue to ride a tantalising rollercoaster in the hope of a better tomorrow. Herein a woman may unwittingly step into the greater web called "the harem". A lot of women who do not know how to cut away from their dependency and are unaware of the great juggling skills of this kind of man step into the harem willingly. They are willing to live on crumbs of hope and resign themselves to face a certain competition, even though they don't get enough from the relationship. Only under large scale subterfuge, deceit and lies can one sustain multiple romantic relationships. This can have a devastating effect on the compliant partner. Many others who may find the situation repressive and want to walk out will be confronted by an aggressive companion, unwilling to end the relationship. "I want you in my life," is their refrain and may be translated to mean "I cannot do without you," but that is far from truth. "It is a huge insult to their ego to let anyone walk out on them. They will keep their women for whatever they are worth to enjoy their affection as and when they choose to." "One must demand time, respect, love, transparency and commitment, if stability is what one is looking for," says Deshpande. Or else in the risky game of hunt and chase, one may wake up with a broken heart or a self-esteem pummeled into fine cottage cheese. Jayalakshmi Sengupta, Trans World Features | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4005 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
It's official: Men are obsessed with sex April 01, 2010 12:44 IST Tags: Dr Louann Brizendine, Uttam Ghosh, Daily Star Expert Dr Louann Brizendine has dived inside a man's mind and confirmed what most women long suspected: men are obsessed with sex, hide their emotions, and cheat. According to Brizendine, testosterone causes the 'man trance', where blokes have to stare at boobs, reports The Daily Star. She says: "The best advice I have for women is make peace with the male brain. Let men be men." Some of the other findings in the expert's new book Male Brain: A Breakthrough Understanding Of How Men And Boys Think are: 1. Men really are sex-crazed: The brain's part inked to sexual pursuit is two-and-a-half times larger in males than females. 2. They're programmed to perv: The testosterone drives what Louann calls the 'man trance' -- a glazed-eye stare at breasts. She says: "I wish I could say that men can stop themselves from entering this trance. But the truth is, they can't." 3. Men want more partners: According to the book, men want an average of 14 sexual partners in their lifetime. Women want one or two. Louann says: "It's postcoital narcolepsy. During Xorgasm, males release a huge amount of oxytocin in their brains, and it is very sedating. It's not that he doesn't love you." 4. Men lie more about sex: Biologically speaking, men are more comfortable lying to the opposite sex. 5. Foreplay round the clock: In case of women, foreplay is everything that happens in the 24 hours before intercourse. For men it's what happens three minutes before entry Louann says: "The male brain's initial emotional reaction can be stronger than the female. But within 2.5 seconds his face changes to hide the emotion, or even reverse it." The expert doesn't reckon her book justifies bad behaviour. She says: "This is not giving men an excuse to rape and pillage. But men do have a right to give voice to their biological predisposition and have it come in to the dialogue." | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6473 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
rebel kurrod kee mandu esi bojjopettandi inka...  ye all have a good weekend...byebye | ||
| Rebel Side Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 7325 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.73.190.3 Rating: N/A |
apudu pilli ne teeeskochi ganta ki kateyochu kada | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3462 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: |
So do you agree now that it is something we can try in India to curb some of the perversion? ------------------------------------------------------------ ------- agree to what? I used to think crimes of perversion are much more over here. May be b'coz access to internet wasn't so rampant. But I think the rate of reporting of this kind of crime was actually low in our media. ippudu access to internet and p0rn, alchohol ekkuva ayyindi india lo and reporting of these crimes kooda ekkuva ayyindi. Going forward I only see these kinds of crimes increasing b'coz mana magavallaki there is no one to sleep with unless they are married or don't mind going to kamatipura kind of places. sex ed, talking to kids, giving them pills and condoms - ivanni correct ye kani I don't know how much of this is practical. At the end of the day 75% of India is still very puritanical society. mana vallu they prefer to keep their eyes closed and preach about the virtue of our culture than fact the problem headon. You, hd, kamal, dhaarkaar - you all have good points. kani, pilli medalo ganta katte valle leru :-) | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13148 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
I totally say the same what Onkai said on this .. btw .. harmones build up is like a cresendo ani chadiva .. the more you use them .. the more u produce ani .. what abt that .. ?? aa logic lo .. there is no end to ur liberalization right?? "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7858 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Correct ye, kids ni kidnap chesi backyard lo pettukunna perverts, to catch a predator lo choopinchina perverts chaala mandi unnaaru ikkada kooda. As I said earlier, perverts leni place undadu. But, scale of the things different ani chebuthunnaa. Choopultho guchi guchi champey types thakkuva kada ikkada. Migatha harassment ekkadayina undedey kada, daaniki manam emi cheyyalemu. So do you agree now that it is something we can try in India to curb some of the perversion? GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Proline Side Hero Username: Proline Post Number: 4453 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 173.3.73.246 Rating: |
budhi undhara..key board unte saripothadha.. 1st this is shame on all the people ilanti daaniki malli congi.. TDP lo rapes kaledha..thuu ivanni reported crimes.. North lo bihar, UP, north east, WB lo states lo enni crimes report avuthayo theluso 100's lo oakti kuda kadhu... TDP lo CBN okko rape cehse morons andariki ki kapala pettada cheyaneeyakunda.. day by day whole soceity neethi lekunda avuthondhi... recent years wetsern culture invasion ekkuvaindhi...daaniki malli satatistics... okati CONGI antu dappu okati  ... | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3460 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
Ikkada just barely butts ni cover chesthunna shorts esukoni, jogging chesthuntey evaroo gudlappaginchi choodaru. Ikkadi vallaki adi common sight, no perverse thoughts or looks. ------------------------------------------------------------ -- I agree, but I have a counterpoint. ee desam lo dating is allowed. 14 years ke evaritono tirugutaru. free access to everything including layabaddham ga moving body parts. kani, ikkada sechual abuse chala ekkuva, rape chala ekkuva, p0rn0graphic pics of little kids chala ekkuva. endukani? and yes, I should've known ur answer :-) | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7857 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
good question. But naa answer easy gaa guess chesundaali. May be, intha free access to all the erotic material undadam valla, memu perverts kaademo? At least to me, it just like watching an action movie or reading a 'romantic' book like Twilight. One more supporting point. Ikkada just barely butts ni cover chesthunna shorts esukoni, jogging chesthuntey evaroo gudlappaginchi choodaru. Adey India lo enduku choosthaaru? Ikkadi vallaki adi common sight, no perverse thoughts or looks, just jogging ye kada anukuntaaru. Adey India lo ayithe, entha covered clothes tho jogging chesina, moving parts kosam vethiki vethiki choosthaaru janaalu. How can you refute this? GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3458 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
Guttonkay: bayata cinema posters lo ammayila voluptuous ga vuntiri, TV pedite evevo choopistaru, Raputin: I strongly disagree on these two ------------------------------------------------------------ -------- Rasp, meeru emi anukonu ante oka question If voluptuous images and all kinds of shows on TV are not a factor - kotha video vachindi ano, images vachayi email ettandi pampista ano vese threads ki enduku antha traffic vuntundi? No offense obviously. Just an observation. | ||
| Dhaarkaar Hero Username: Dhaarkaar Post Number: 19863 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 198.204.133.208 Rating: N/A |
legalise prostitution..appudainaa crimes thaguthayemo.. | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1427 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
okok Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Bunty717 Side Hero Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 6965 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
vere topic mama.. | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1426 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
yep agree..cultural difference..kaani idhi ee pervetismki karanam ela avutundhi.. Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Bunty717 Side Hero Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 6964 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
north lo few yrs back.. asalu ladies ki diff seats and men diff seats ala undadu .. | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13144 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
I know Onkai ji, koncham extrapolate chesa ..
I know .. just wanted to get this answer from u .. anthe "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Bunty717 Side Hero Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 6963 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
madam..naa exp nenu north lo chala state lo WB,MP,bihar,orrisa,maharastara,delhi lo chusenu.. pakkana seat vacant undi kurchunte feel kuda avaru.. same thing south lo cheste.. chala feel ahyipotaru.. nenu one incident base chesi cheppadam ledu.. atleast 5-6 jarigeyi.. | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7856 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Ippudey ee post choosa. well put. Naa post nenu kooda intha baaga explain cheyyalenu. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7855 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
I strongly disagree on these two. Migatavi antey OK, alcohol and drugs are mind alterting substances. Nenu kinda cheppina article on Japan, actually makes a point that wide-spread sexual imagery is actually good for soceity. Kamal, "ekkada padithey akkada" ani digaavu. Manam road meeda s**t ki vellamu kada. Pakkana oka place choosukuntaamu. Ayina nenu cheppadaluchukunna point veru...let me try again.... 100% cases ila undavu. But, naaku telisina most cases lo, Dad peddha taagubothu ayyi intlo roju taaguthuntey, aa son eppudoo jeevitham lo Mandu muttadu. Adey Mandu antey oka taboo style penchithey, eppudo okappudu curiosity koddi try cheddam anipisthundi. Again, it is just a "tendency" ani chebuthunna. Blanket statement laaga treat cheyyaddu. Bottomline: There is no "Solution". We can only think of means to reduce the effects. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1425 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
read it as eppati nundooo
emo bhayya..abuseki idhe karanamaa emo telidhu..kaani guchi guchi choodatam lo mathram hyd tops..oka sari vijayawada,guntur,warangal etc vellu..u'll understand the diff..akkada perverts undaru..ledha ammayilanu choosevalu undaru ani kaadu..kaani maree guchi guchi adhe paniga choodatam..pakkana ammayi father unna,husband unna evaru unna pattinchukokunda adhe paniga choodatam hydlone nenu choosindhi..ippudu maarindhemo telidu kaaani 3yrs back varaku ayithe alage undi paristhiti... Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3456 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
tappu/bluder.. asalu south lone undadu.. valla pakkana kurchunte.. edo rape chesinattu feel avutaru. -=------------------------------------------------------ bunty bro, this abosulely depends on the person/town/community/wahtever. let's say nenu city bus lo veltunna. I was tired. There was one seat with one male sitting in it. may be he is also tired and didn't offer the seat to me. But I don't mind sitting next to him. nenu velli koorchogane pedel mani lestadu seat lonchi. Or I was sitting alone and I told some guy he can share the seat with me - jantuvuni choosinatlu choostadu nannu. Both happened to me. at the end of the day different people have different perspective about this kind of stuff. | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5907 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
@bunty annai nuv maree.. cinema halls ,bus seats gurinchi kaadu ne seppindhi...professional/social settings lo chusindhi cheppina.. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3455 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
ante how? like .. when u feel like doing it .. do it with whoever it is, wherever it is or whatever time it is type lo cheptunnava annai? ante free-for-all antaav anthe na? ------------------------------------------------------------ --- kamal maree ekkuva reading between the lines rasp posted anukunta. he said if we don't treat sex as a taboo and if people treat it like a normal subject and have discussions about it and educate people it will be better ani. | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5906 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
women tappu undhi anedi naa uddesyam kaadhu.. Hyd women migitha cities lo women laga kakunda chala vulnerable ga undabatti ila abuse ki guri avuthunnara ani naa question akkada.. | ||
| Bunty717 Side Hero Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 6960 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
tappu/bluder.. asalu south lone undadu.. valla pakkana kurchunte.. edo rape chesinattu feel avutaru south ippudu hyd/chenna/b'lore examples ivvakandi.. north lo idi ekkuva.. pakkana kurchunte what big deal anukuntaru.. | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1424 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
lately kaadandi..eppati nundi unnaru hydlo...naak telusu..hydlo ammayi nadustunte..auto vala nundi prathi vadu..atu nundi itu ammayi velle varaku ala choosthune untaru.atuo valu ayithe maree baboii..engg lo masthu sarlu disco chesam ee topic meedha..endukura mana hydis ila untam ani.. Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13141 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
naa thinking kooda similar ga untundi ! "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5905 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
@Ruj brother Nenu observe chesaa konthavaraku.. I noticed our telugu women are more comfortbale moving in company of men from other states/cities.. ade oka telugu valla gumpulo ochi comfortable ga feel avvatam matram chudaledhu..ofcourse generalise cheyatam ledhu kani na observation chepthunna.. Mana hydians lo closeted psychoness ila abuse roopam lo bayatakosthundantava? | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1423 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
annai...nenu ammyi enti..yeddhu la periga...abbayine..  ..oorike color blind color blind ani bhayapettakandi annai.. ika hydi vishayaiki vasthe nen observe chesindhi cheppa..alage appatlo times deccanlo articles kooda vachayi deeni meedha..mari daarunamga choostharu baboii.. Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13140 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
mee ragging tagaleyya .. oka soln cheppandayya ante .. post ki 1 satire avg meeda kodutunnaru ga ! chass !
rendoo avvakoodadantava? 
ade ardam kaadu naaku .. solution aithe frankly .. both (lib/cons) .. rendu ways lo total solution ledu .. rendu mix chesina solution kanipinchatledu naaku .. confused extremist ni nenu ..
ante how? like .. when u feel like doing it .. do it with whoever it is, wherever it is or whatever time it is type lo cheptunnava annai? ante free-for-all antaav anthe na? "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3453 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
Comedy endante Hyd tho compare chesthe migitha metro cities lo women chala accessible untaru abuse ki.. hyd chala conservative compared to those cities.. alantidi hyd topped all of them ante em cheppalo artham kaatled mashtaru.. mana women lo edo problem anna ayyundali leda mana men lo pervert quotient anna ekkuvundali.. ------------------------------------------------------------ --------------- Hyd topped all cities in terms of crimes against women ante andulo women lo tappu vuundi meeru ela infer chestunnaru? If these are not consensual affairs, it just shows the male pervert population in Hyd went up lately. bayata cinema posters lo ammayila voluptuous ga vuntiri, TV pedite evevo choopistaru, free availability of alchohol, inka chepte drugs kooda - ivvani valana chi ka ku la tayarayye abbayila ki there is no release and so the crimes against women. | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7852 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Enti Ruj, ninna color blind test lo fail ayinatlu unnaavu naa laaga? Ammayi gaa undi color blind avvatam chaala rare. Neeku son pudithey guaranteed color blindness. About Hyderabad, may be kalaa poshakulu ekkuvemo Hyderabad lo :P May be they were just admiring God's creation. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1422 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
nen observe chesindhi enti ante..hydlo ammyilanu guchi guchi choosinattu desamlo inka ee voorulo choodale..I have being to many places in india..ammayi kanipisthe abbayilu choodatam sahajam..kaani adhe paniga guchi guchi kannu arpakunda choodatam hydlone..y i dont know..auto vala nundi uncles varaku andharu idhe tantu..inkekada choodale..vijayawada,guntur,tirupathi,chennai,bangalore,delh i,punjab,Himachal etc etc etc..chaala placeski vella..naa observation mathram idhe.. Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5904 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
north lo BJP strong undatam oka reason anatava? Karnataka lo BJP ruling govt kada.. Comedy endante Hyd tho compare chesthe migitha metro cities lo women chala accessible untaru abuse ki.. hyd chala conservative compared to those cities.. alantidi hyd topped all of them ante em cheppalo artham kaatled mashtaru.. mana women lo edo problem anna ayyundali leda mana men lo pervert quotient anna ekkuvundali.. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6470 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
@Kamal your face...minimum knowledge impart cheyyali antaav...nenu adhi kooda cheyyatam ledhu...chesina it does not cover anthing antunna... kamasutra akhar ledhu antaav...sex education antay kamasutra naa..induku kaadhu ninnu extremist anaydhee(j/k)... truly understanding KS takes a lot more than knowing your body...for that u have to be with some1 and have some connection with them naa point, S-Ed lo pregnancy, STDs, lifestyle,career implications as much important as knowing your cyles or cleaning your genitals...this should be made compulsory or they can go to catholic schools..antay kaani bhangimaa kaadhu | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7849 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Ee vishayam lo Japan ni follow avvatam better emo anukuntunna. It is not considered a taboo subject at all. ekkado oka article chadivaanu, Yahoo lo anukuntaa correct gaa gurthu ledu. It was about wide-spread images of sexuality even in the busy crowded streets and how sex is not a taboo over there. Food thinadam, S**t ki elladam laga, sexual release is also just part and parcel of your daily life anna feeling kalagaali public lo. Appudu intha perversion undademo anukuntunnaa. Just my opinion. Too liberal gaa untey kummesuko :P. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3449 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
rasp, andaru abbayilu vedhavalu vundaru kada. same way andaru ammayilu revealing clothes, vora choopulu type vundaru. kala hridayam correct ga vundevallu - they would know to separate the what from the chaff :-) | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13139 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
maree antha buddimaan baalak types kaadu nenu ani .. 101 times cheppi untaa .. aina meeru alage anukunte .. neneti seppali .. borlaa padataaru eppudo .. j/k "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Bunty717 Side Hero Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 6958 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155 Rating: N/A |
Rasp post ki navastunnaru.. eti artham ayindi neeku.. db lo nee posts chuste nekku kuda vallalaga emi teliyakudadu.. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3448 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
Maaku clarity ledu, external views kooda detailed ga cheppandi ani adigaamu. ------------------------------------------------------------ -------- maa class lo kooda abbayilu had a field day. maa teacher abbayilaki ammayilaki separate classes ani decide chesesindi gola bharinchaleka :-) | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13138 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
I think, yes, guys need to know this point .. but fortunately .. naaku chinnappude ardam aipoyindi idi .. appude girls manatho matladataaniki ready avutaru kanisam ani ..
exactly .. alochinchi cheppandi ane kada adugutunna .. ? "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13137 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
 "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7848 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Pakkinti pinni lanti comments, girls feel ayyi edupu start cheyyadam...ok konchem artham ayyindi ikkada conflict ento. But, but, but...I can always counter that argument.... Kondaru (I repeat, kondaru), revealing dresses enduku vesukuntaaru public lo. Pubs ki antey OK, velledey andukosam. But, even shopping or college ki velthuntey kooda low V-necks higlighting the cleavage enduku? Just to make the guys look kada. Kondaru, "followers" ni choosi edusthaaru, kondaru proud gaa feel avuthaaru, inkondaru take advantage of them. Anyways, as some wise-guy explained it to me at work, Men are wired differently than women. It is just the nature of the men. When women make one egg a day, men probably make a sperm every second. God's creation atla ayyindi, em chesthaamu. Men Brain lo circuits verega untaayi, and add to that the side effects of Testosterone. SouthPark ee season starting episode was hilarious but also so true. The scene where chimp starts acting differently when it smells money. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13136 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
baboi .. nannu apaardham chesukovaddu .. my meaning is .. asia lo parents are a bit conservative and most asian cultures (not just Indian) parents ivi matladaremo antunna .. !!!
nee tho chache chaavochindi gaa .. mari .. oka solution cheppu .. natural ga .. evadu cheppakunda .. ela telustundi poragaallaki? minimum knowledge impart cheyyadam lo tappu ledu anukunta .. maree kamasutra course kinda introduce cheyyakarledu kaani .. "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3446 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
kamal, extreme cases ani artham chesukovadhu. My whole point is that whatever u do is okay provided the girl is not hurt. I did see some real hardcore chettha nayallu. excuse the language, obviously. | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5901 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
@ kamal,HD and Guttonkay Naa posts lighter vein lo vesinavi... so take lite. ____________________________________ Take away points from the article are Hyd though with all so called development beated poorer cities like bhopal,lucknow,bhubaneswar in crimes cases against women. Sare developed cities lo generally crime ekkuva untadi ani anukundam ante bangalore,pune and mumbai are not even in the list.. reason emayi untundi? Are hydians more pervertish compared to other people in other cities? Delhi ni pakkanettochu endhuknate delhi capital city kabatti floating population ekkuva untundi.so that leaves hyderabad.. even with all the development and oppurtunities, we are not developing into better citizens ..endhuku anedi alochinchalsina vishayam anukuntunna. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3445 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
pillala tho paina vaati gurinchi matladataara? just curious .. bcoz .. naa feeling enti ante .. parents not talking to kids about those is a cultural thing anukuntunna .. rather than education or the lack of it .. ------------------------------------------------------------ ---------------- em culture sonti culture? whether we like it or not a lot more of the current generation are seksually active. 13 years or 14 years ke. parents better have that chat. And yes, most parents in the west have that chat. ammayilu puberty reach ayyaka if u don't have that chat i don't know what to say to that mom. bharateeya nari kavachu, kani america lo mee ammayini penchali ani decide chesukunnappudu konni straight forward talks ki prepare avvatam manchidi ani naa abhiprayam. It's always good for the kid to hear from her mom than some random friend at school. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6469 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
//come on .. 8th class lo untundi .. 9th untundi .. 10th lo untundi annai // @kamal tell me what u remember and what u can relate to things mentioned in GK's posts //. ikkada sex-ed vuntadi schools lo, parents talk to their kids about diseases, condoms, pregnancy. ikkada schools lo DARE program vuntundi// @GK //I think all parents will whole heartedly approve this. // I do not agree with this at all. I dread sometimes...but what is natural should remain natural ...curbing/liberating lo extremity is not good annadhi naa point | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13134 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
ammo .. maree antha sadists mi kaadandi babu .. edo classroom lo baagunna ammayini follow avvadam .. neighborhood lo baagunna ammayi meeda comments (avee vulgar kaadu!) cheyyadam tho saripedataaru anukuntunna chala varaku boys .. antaku minchi .. road side romeo types undaru anukuntunna .. atleast college going youth lo .. meeru example ga maree extreme cases ni choopistunnaru anukuntunna .. atleast guys vishayam lo ! "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7847 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Kamal, enti mana schools lo sex-ed gurinchi maatladuthunnaava? kikikiki...avi always omitted from the syllabus ani evaroo chepparu class lo. Aakhariki 10th class lo ma ateacher konchem dhairyam chesi cheppadam start chesthey, 2nd day tarvatha maa allariki.."meeku cheppandu poni" ani aapesaaru. The point of contention at that time was, male genitalia ki detailed external diagrams ichi, female genitalia ki maathram internal diagrams of ovary ichaaru. Maaku clarity ledu, external views kooda detailed ga cheppandi ani adigaamu. Just for your info, some of my friends confided in me (not sure if it is true or if they were just making it up or if their wives were lying), that wives ki first night roju emi chesthaaro telidanta. Nuvvu calm gaa untey anni mee aayana choosukuntaadu ani pampinchesthaaru. Vaallemo cinemalo choopinchinatlu okari paina okaru padukuntey pregnant ayipothaaru aney range lo untaaru. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3444 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
kamal, already peekesa I don't think guys will ever get what a girl feels about this kind of roadside romeos and their thikka veshams. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3443 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
beach lo padukoni sunset choodataaniki, pakka bench lo koorchuna ammaayini choodataaniki pedda teda ledu. ------------------------------------------------------------ ------- nijame. kani meeru enta gudlu vellabetti choosina sooryudu emi anukodu. meeku kallu mandutayi ante. kani ala ammayindi chooste aa ammayi embarassed ga feel avutundemo alochinchandi. follow avadam tappu ani nenu analedu. bench meeda rayatam lo kooda tappu ledu - provided - the girl doesn't mind. meeku innocent acts anipinchachu. aa ammayi gurinchi pakkinti pinni, venakinti aunty "enti ee ammayi venaka roju vadu scooter lo vastunnadu. emi lekunte enduku vastadu, edo vuntundi le" anukuntaru. did you ever think about the girl, how she may feel, how her parents might feel? meeru venaka padtunna ammayi kallalo ki neellu vachina kooda mee kala hridayam matrame important anukunte I can't say anything. | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13133 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
I agree .. adugudaam anukunna .. kaani Onkai lo .. oka mahila mandali president sandhya madam unnaru .. anavasaram ga class peekutaru ani lite teesukunna
Hmm .. ikkada pillalni penchutunna Indians .. pillala tho paina vaati gurinchi matladataara? just curious .. bcoz .. naa feeling enti ante .. parents not talking to kids about those is a cultural thing anukuntunna .. rather than education or the lack of it .. "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13132 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
come on .. 8th class lo untundi .. 9th untundi .. 10th lo untundi annai .. and lastly my respect or rather the lack of it for the newer gen kids is not becoz of other reasons .. but for the reasons u mentioned .. other wise this gen kids are good when it comes to responsibilities/studies etc etc .. long list of positives ..
entoo .. aparichutudu lo sada cheptundi kada edo scene lo girls/ladies meeda attrocities .. ala undi mee post .. huh .. waste to think of these on a weekend anukuntunna ! ela aina emi maarpu undadu ! "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7846 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Just curiosity koddi aduguthunnaa, just "follow" avvatam kooda antha pedda thappa? Ala ayithe pakka bench lo koorchunna ammaayini kannaarpakunda kooda choodadam kooda thappenaa? Kinda cheppina migatavi anni perverse, I agree. Kaani choodatam kooda thappantey elaaga? IMO, beach lo padukoni sunset choodataaniki, pakka bench lo koorchuna ammaayini choodataaniki pedda teda ledu. GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3442 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
medical ga evanna pills kanukkunte better .. 18-25 harmones control cheyyadaaniki .. emantaav? ------------------------------------------------------------ I think all parents will whole heartedly approve this. They would want this to work from 13 to 19 may be :-) You have very valid points. mana desam lo enough support base anedi lekunda westernization vachesindi. That is the problem. ikkada sex-ed vuntadi schools lo, parents talk to their kids about diseases, condoms, pregnancy. ikkada schools lo DARE program vuntundi. manaki evi levu. Half the parents (even desi parents in america) kallu moosukuni mana pillalu baane behave chestunnaru le anukuntaru. bayata ki velite pillalu emi chstunnaro devudike telusu. Age alantidi. curbs vuntali. ala ani idanta wesernization valana ani kakunda as a society, using public educatin programs awareness penchali. consequences ento teliyacheyyali. aa taruvata valla kharma | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6466 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
@kamal how did it grow antay yemi chepthaaru...huge population growth...daani offset lack of opportunities economically socially ...the % of crime doers might be the same but the numbers will increase right? these days pillalu 20yrs kay pelli issue is coz of hormones antay...mana villages/towns lo 20 yrs back kooda same 16 yrs pillau were activie in illicit reliations...yentha kapaadukuntaamu anaydhee mana chetilo undhi by restricting exposure at the right age and at the same time making them realize the consequences so that they dont crave for it ( u dont want kids becoming ••••• as a rebellion, don't you) there is no point in thinking low of 20 yr olds today while comparing us/yourself to them we arent as pious as the generations before us ( at least naa waraku septhunna)...other cultural influx, adoption, change is bound to happen...adaption is the key...how many schools have sex-ed in the curriculum...i think it is a must from 7th grade | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3441 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: |
starved ga manushulu ela aipothaaro .. ------------------------------------------- kamal, savalaksha reasons. too much libido, not getting any, not getting enough, not exciting enough - idhi tarataraluga jarugutunnade kada. mana puranallo keechakudu vunnadu. cinemallo villain lu vunnaru. alantivalle nija jeevitham lo kooda. ammayi lu annaka ilanti follow ayye abbailu, musali nakka thataha garlu etc mamule. | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13128 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.141 Rating: N/A |
ee point super cheppaavu ..
last 10 years lo .. the situation is better than what it was .. if it used to be 50 years for a case to get the judgement earlier .. now its come down to I think an average of 15-16 years .. ante .. by ur logic .. such crime should decline .. but instead .. it grew manifold .. what could be the reason ..??? pokiri/10 year kids ki romance etc etc .. I totally agree .. anakoodadu kaani .. kids these days are abnormal .. 20s ki vacheppatiki pelli avvakapothe .. inka emaina chese type desperate dawgs aipotunnaru .. yaak .. medical ga evanna pills kanukkunte better .. 18-25 harmones control cheyyadaaniki .. emantaav? compulsory medication .. lol .. "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6464 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
@kamal nenu cheppalanukunna matter guttonkay#3439 lo undhi...scoeity lo pervert-ism has always been there...but what is alarming is the magnitude of exposure has been increasing alarmingly from the last decade... 90 yr old meedh chesina 6 yr old meddha chesina ...it is a psychological problem...society problem kaadhu ani antledhu... yes there needs to some order reinstated...adhi religion through aa antay koda cheppalem...the world is materialistic enough these days to put religion on the back burner... governance, law and order etc lo i wud advocate fast tracking of such cases..make the punishment heavy...register and publish sex offenders...mana lanti conservative society lo it will be a huge blackmark to carry one such tag news, entertainment media nee regulate cheyyali...how many crime incidents u see reported in gross fashion on national TV in USA...mana media itself is one of the pall bearers of pervert -ism...remove those fKing "ippatiki inka naa vayasu ninda 16" from movies like pokiri...oka rated movie nee kids kee yetta supisthaaru...erotic dances by kids on TV?... desham lo 10 yr olds are exposed to a lot of things on TV and cnma...sakam brain akkada sanka naakings there is no overnight solution for this nor a conservative whiplash will help...IMO and I stand by this in my personal life too, you have to be "conservatively liberal" in bringing new things into our society ardham kaka pothay oggeyy | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3440 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
haha, satire ani velagaka ragilipoyyanu :-) ninna neeku cheppalsina sookthulu ivvala cheppa anuko saripoddi :-D | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13123 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.140 Rating: N/A |
aa post naa lanti "conservative" "fundamentalist" "extremist" gaallaki satire onkai ji .. he doesnt mean it ..
Gosh .. laagi rendu kottalsindi .. musali naa koduku ni .. malli "gaaru" avasarama vaadi mohaaniki? donno .. antha seks starved ga manushulu ela aipothaaro .. huh .. disgusting .. whatever are the reasons .. "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Rasputin Moderator Username: Rasputin Post Number: 7844 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: |
lol GreatBong: The old Sachin radiated heat. The new Sachin gives light. But he still remains the sun | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3439 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: |
stop industrializing.. curb oppurtunities.. meeremi anukokunte I will say what I really think about your last paragraph. edisinatlu vundi. No offense obviously. 16, 17 yella appudu curb chesi, roju badiki vachetlu cheste aa chaduvu ayipoyaka jobs lekunte chetilo dabbulu vundavu. evaru pillani ivvaru. h00ker daggaraki poniki kooda dabbulu vundavu. appudu what do you think he is going to do? ayina mana chinnappudu westernization ledu. did it stop the guys who were following me everyday? class lo bench meeda i love you rasinavadiki westernization akkarledu. hormones chalu. pakkana koorchuni thigh meeda cheyyesina 60 yr old thatha gariki asalu westernization ante ento kooda teliyadu. stop blaming everything on padamara dikku. manadi manchigunte west vacchi chedipedi emi ledu. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6462 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
@Getafix //stop industrializing.. curb oppurtunities.. restrict people and make them slaves to the system..thats it// do you think all will become slaves by default...ppl who want to or will have to do so only will become such...marri chettu kindhaa pekata batch will always be in abundance | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13121 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.140 Rating: N/A |
sarcasm lo facts marchipothe ela brother? no money .. no freedom aa .. (if u really meant it .. thats a revelation for me .. !) ante only rich people are free aa .. wow .. gr8 !!! dhanam moolam idham jagat !
thats correct .. industrialization ki deeniki sambandam ledu .. I totally agree .. but what do you think will be/needs to be the solution .. ? asalu aa 94 year old lady (grandma !) .. gurinchi chadivithe .. manam entha "dastarised" society lo bathukutunnamo ardam authodi .. liberal/conservative pakkana petti .. as a society how to stop those cheppu annai .. "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5900 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
industrialization lekapothe freedom undadhu youth ki becuase of lack of opurtunities.. no oppurtunities no money.. no money no freedom. 70s,80s and 90s lo manam 10th class ki ravatame aalasyam.. life anedi okatundhi ani amrichipoyi ealry am's eamcet coaching .. full dayc olleges and evening inko tuition.. we were prisoners..hehehe.. stop industrializing.. curb oppurtunities.. restrict people and make them slaves to the system..thats it. Inka westernization valla oche socila evils undavu.. ofcourse katnam kosam vedhimpulu, hindu-muslim godavalu, kalthi saara thaagi chavatam untune untayi anuko.. but those are not offshoots of westernization.. right.. we can live with those, atleast pretend that they are not big deal.. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6460 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
//industrialize cheyyakunte ipppudu chi ka ku la behave chestunna vallu somehow manchi vallu ayipotara? how so// @GK nenu idhi ekkada annanu andi...i dont blame industrialization for the rise in crime against women or regressing values | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 3436 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
HD, getaflix, whether that muddling sentence is there or not, your stance still doesn't make sense. industrialize cheyyakunte ipppudu chi ka ku la behave chestunna vallu somehow manchi vallu ayipotara? how so? | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6458 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
@Getafix thats fine bro...i know some1 like u will not post such a thing...was thinking may be u wanted it to be funny | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5899 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
H_D brother  post veseymundu proof reading chesukune alavaatu thondarlone chesukunta..promise.. 2 different sentences ni 'and' tho kalipi confuse chesinattunna.. please disregard " the only way to stop this muddling of our culture" while reading last para.. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 6455 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
//the only way to stop this muddling of our culture and lets keep our culture pristine.. lets stop industrializing .and the easy way to do so, is giving away Hyd to seperate T// @getafix {head banging icon}.... | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5897 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
please read above as - (have now) | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 5896 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: |
Rapid industriliazation in our state is the reason behind this... too much softwarization and industralization caused people to travel to west and such frequent trips, exposed people to western culture.. The social evils in western culture has now infiltrated in to our own culture and the evidence for this is above stats.. the only way to stop this muddling of our culture and lets keep our culture pristine.. lets stop industrializing .and the easy way to do so, is giving away Hyd to seperate T.. | ||
| Kaisersooze Comedian Username: Kaisersooze Post Number: 1096 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 159.123.254.1 Rating: |
Metta ga raayakunda ,.....Ahooooo Ohhoooo Manchi Pani sethundi AP Congress anala CAG thittina sigguledu ....Keyboard tho Mafia na /// akkada topic..enti..nee colors enti...akkada party ki sambandham enti ? | ||
| Methhanithodugu Side Hero Username: Methhanithodugu Post Number: 2884 Registered: 12-2008 Posted From: 59.93.50.126 Rating: |
Metta ga raayakunda ,.....Ahooooo Ohhoooo Manchi Pani sethundi AP Congress anala CAG thittina sigguledu ....Keyboard tho Mafia na Methhani-thodugu- SOFTWEAR ~ SOFTWARE | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 4000 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
I guess that sums it up... | ||
| Kaisersooze Comedian Username: Kaisersooze Post Number: 1093 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 159.123.254.1 Rating: |
APeople deserve it JAI HO CON-gress / Jai ho Son-ia /Jai ho YSR Minitters // mettaga rayakau keyboard vundhi kadha..ani.. | ||
| Ruj Comedian Username: Ruj Post Number: 1421 Registered: 03-2007 Posted From: 71.195.29.143 Rating: N/A |
chii..emundhi goppaga cheppukotaniki manaki oka vishayamlo kooda..antha daridrame. meli pandu choodu melimai undunu..potta vippi chooda purugulu undu ki perfect example manam.  Congress, the worst thing ever to happen to Bharat | ||
| Methhanithodugu Side Hero Username: Methhanithodugu Post Number: 2873 Registered: 12-2008 Posted From: 59.93.50.126 Rating: N/A |
at Present AP is surviving on LIQUOR taxes every month .... Recently in Kushaiguda they raped one time a tenth passed girl and again next month 2-3 friends forced her and she denied then they BURNED her with petrol and she died in 2 days poor girl The other day 1 rag picker early tamil teen girl was raped in outskirts and those guys were Orissa Boys Some are disgusting some are even pathetic to tell ..Values are a Past thing ...Blame Media/UPA govt for 25% at least ...... Methhani-thodugu- SOFTWEAR ~ SOFTWARE | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 3997 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Two to undergo DNA test in British woman rape case PTI Friday, April 2, 2010 18:30 IST Dehradun: Nearly a fortnight after a British woman was allegedly gangraped, Uttarakhand police have zeroed in on two persons including a Norwegian who will undergo DNA test. After investigations, samples from the two suspects, identified as John from Norway and Khusaro, a Mumbai resident, have been collected and sent to a lab in New Delhi for DNA test, said a police official investigating the case. While John came to Rishkesh as a tourist, Khusaro is running a Yoga centre in the town, he said, adding the two suspects have been asked not to leave the area till the DNA report is received. In her complaint, 30-year-old British woman had alleged that the two persons including a foreigner gangraped her in Luxman Jhoola area near Rishikesh, 60 km from here, on the night of Mar 21. PTI DPTTwo to undergo DNA test in British woman rape case | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 3996 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Teenage girl raped, burnt alive in Jammu and Kashmir PTI Saturday, March 27, 2010 18:15 IST Jammu: A teenaged girl was raped and burnt alive by some unidentified persons in Udhampur district of Jammu and Kashmir. A semi-burnt body of the 17-year-old was found in a tin-shed in Majalta area of the district last night, police said today. During preliminary investigation, it was suspected that the girl was raped and then set afire by the attackers. Station house officer (SHO) Arvinder Kotwal said that a case has been registered and an investigation was on. | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 3114 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.88.234.149 Rating: N/A |
 UP kante daridram ga thayaarayyinda......and I am never gonna dance again...guilty feet I have got no rhythm...though its easy to pretend...I know you are not a fool...I should've known better than to cheat a friend...wasted chance that I'been given...so I am never gonna dance again...the way I danced with you... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQtlrBziyzI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zALiyJ02k_Y | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 3995 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
Teacher suspended for allegedly raping student in Jammu & Kashmir PTI Friday, April 2, 2010 13:54 IST Jammu: A government school teacher has been suspended by the Jammu and Kashmir government for allegedly raping a girl student in Udhampur district. Noor Mohammad, a teacher of Government Higher Secondary School in Jakhed in Ramnagar tehsil of the district, has been suspended by chief education officer of Udhampur, officials said today. Noor had allegedly raped a class 12 student in the school premises and was arrested on March 31. | ||
| Methhanithodugu Side Hero Username: Methhanithodugu Post Number: 2870 Registered: 12-2008 Posted From: 59.93.50.126 Rating: |
APeople deserve it JAI HO CON-gress / Jai ho Son-ia /Jai ho YSR MinittersMethhani-thodugu- SOFTWEAR ~ SOFTWARE | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 13100 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 130.36.62.140 Rating: N/A |
anduke antaaa .. mana antha luchaaaa .. "liberal" and "fcuked up" society inkoti ledu ani .. 94 year grandma ni rape cheyyaali ani anipinchina vaadiki .. ye prostitution legal cheste aagutaadu???? (monnevaro argue chesaaru ee lines lo .. ) Ilanti cases lo I fully fully endorse "Shariat" to take precedence over this bullcrap of laws .. which make man believe that whatever fcuk he does to the society under whatever "circumstances", he still gets lots of ways/time to prove himself as guilty .. that provision itself takes away the sheen from laws acting as detriment and fear/order-installing mechanisms ... I am sure, people will come with loads and loads of BC to tell us how laws will address that idiot .. LOL .. my answer .. dudes, think about the value of such laws .. where people do not think twice before doing such heinous crimes/acts .. Gita lo Krishnudu cheppinattu .. what we sow, so we reap .. as a country, India will have to pay for this $hit and will do .. no matter what !!! God bless .. "Each nation has an identity and destiny. As far as Bharat is concerned, Hindu is its identity and religion is its way of working" - Swami Vivekananda "Embracing Islam or Christianity would have meant going away from the cultural soil of India, which I do not wish to do." - Dr. B.R. Ambedkar | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 3994 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
MBA student gangraped in taxi in Pune PTI Friday, April 2, 2010 11:06 IST Pune: A 25-year-old married woman was allegedly gangraped in Pune by occupants of a share taxi in which she was travelling, police said today. The woman, an MBA, had gone for an interview in Wakad area taking a lift in the vehicle when she was abducted and allegedly raped by three persons, already present in the share taxi last night, they said. Two suspects have been detained for interrogation, they said, adding the medical report in the case is awaited. The victim, who hails from Nagpur, was staying with her relatives in the city. | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 3993 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 119.235.54.170 Rating: N/A |
94-year-old raped in Punjab PTI Wednesday, March 31, 2010 17:30 IST Phagwara: A 94-year-old woman was allegedly raped here by an unidentified person, police said today. The woman was alone at her house in Model Town yesterday when the accused barged in and fled after committing the offence. On the basis of her complaint, a case under section 376 (rape) and 451 (house trespass in order to commit offence punishable with imprisonment) of the IPC has been registered against the unknown person, police said. The medical examination of the woman was conducted at local civil hospital, they said. | ||
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Every hour, 18 women face abuse in India IANS, Jan 13, 2008, 01.22pm IST NEW DELHI: Every hour that ticks by in India inflicts more brutality on women, with two rapes, two kidnappings, four molestations and seven incidents of cruelty from husbands and relatives, reveal the latest national crime statistics. According to the National Crime Records Bureau (NCRB), on an average every hour at least 18 women in the country were victimized in 2006 and more disturbingly, the numbers are swiftly increasing. Among states, Andhra Pradesh topped the list of crimes against women with 21,484 cases, accounting for 13 per cent of the total incidents in 2006. Uttar Pradesh was a close second, with 9.9 percent of such crimes. The recent rape case of a British journalist in Rajasthan's Udaipur city and the molestation of two NRI women in India's financial capital Mumbai have once again highlighted the need for stronger measures to empower and protect women in the country. Crimes against women have been increasing with each passing day. NCRB reveals an increasing trend of rapes from 2003 to 2006. "Rape incidents reported a substantial increase of 15 per cent in 2004 over 2003, a marginal increase of 0.7 per cent in 2005 over 2004 and an increase of 5.4 per cent in 2006 over 2005," the report said. Among 35 cities with a population of more than one million, the Indian capital topped with 4,134 cases, accounting for 18.9 percent of the total crimes again women followed by Hyderabad at 1,755 cases. Delhi reported 31.2 per cent of the rape cases, 34.7 percent of the kidnappings and abduction cases, 18.7 per cent of the dowry deaths, 17.1 per cent of cases of cruelty by husbands and relatives and 20.1 percent of the molestation cases. A total of 19,348 rape cases were reported in the country in 2006, while the figure was 15,847 in 2005. The report said 8.2 percent (around 1,593) of the total rape victims were girls below the age of 15 years, while 17.4 percent (around 3,364) were teenaged girls. Nearly two-thirds (around 11,312) were in the age group 18-30 years. Madhya Pradesh reported the highest number of rape cases, at 2,900. The report suggested that women are unsafe in the company of friends, neighbours and relatives, as in 75.1 percent cases (around 14,536), the offenders were known to the victims. Parents/close family members were involved in three percent (431) of the cases, neighbours were involved in 36.8 per cent (5,351) and relatives were involved in 7.6 per cent (1,106). Molestation incidents in the country increased by 7.1 per cent. In 2006, a total of 36,617 cases were reported against 34,175 in 2005, the NCRB report said. And again, Madhya Pradesh topped the list. "Seventeen percent of the total cases (6,243) were reported from Madhya Pradesh," the report said. Kiran Bedi, India's most decorated woman officer who retired in December last year, said at a conference that the loss of ethics and values was the root cause of escalating cases of violence against women. "Police say that crime statistics are dropping but we know that it is not true. Hiding data will not improve the situation, revealing it will. This way we will be able to know where we lag behind," Bedi added. Another factor troubling India women was torture meted out by husbands and relatives, which is punishable under Section 498-A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC). At least 63,128 such incidences surfaced in 2006 as compared to 58,319 in 2005. The figure was 58,121 in 2004. "Torture cases in the country have increased by 8.2 per cent over the previous year (58,319). 14.5 per cent of these were reported from Andhra Pradesh (9,164)," the report said. NCRB said a total of 7,618 incidents of dowry deaths were in 2006, an increase of 12.2 percent over 2005. Uttar Pradesh with 1,798 cases witnessed the highest number of such deaths, followed by Bihar with 1,188 cases. Uttar Pradesh also topped the list of kidnappings of women, with 2,551 cases. A total of 17,414 cases related to women's abduction were reported in 2006, an increase of 10.6 per cent as compared to 2005. |
