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     Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 7628 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: |
Perfect  My definition is captured int Rienhold Niebuhr's verse - a favorite prayer I have posted many times Give me the courage to change the things I can, The serenity to accept those I can't And the wisdom to know the difference
Nothing says you should not do that..sthirapgnatha as I understand it is not lack of emotions - it is the ability to chose which ones to react to Roller coaster ekki if you cannot enjoy the crest cos you are still worried about the last low point/fall - what use would the ride be ?
Excellent post - only thing I disagree with - you do not control your emotions,you will still feel all the emotions but you will not let the emotions control you aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Kimura Junior Artist Username: Kimura Post Number: 130 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 151.151.109.25 Rating: N/A |
kamal question ee nenu kooda adugutunna.. how do we know what our dharma is? how does one figure that out? | ||
| Rowdy Side Hero Username: Rowdy Post Number: 5427 Registered: 01-2010 Posted From: 24.13.161.117 Rating: N/A |
good, inta telisinodivi enduku ban ayyav malla ... aa stitapragnata ni enduku frequent gaa kolpotuntav?  edemainaa meshtaru, baga vidamarchi chepparu | ||
| Onlooker Junior Artist Username: Onlooker Post Number: 521 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 72.100.189.100 Rating: N/A |
 ..intha chinna vayasuloo intha knowledge penchi panchutunnav ante, OT..thum vyakthi nahi hoo...tum shakti hoo...manishi nahi hoo...mahanubhav hoo...hun...hooo | ||
| Vjavasi Side Hero Username: Vjavasi Post Number: 3814 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 192.127.94.7 Rating: N/A |
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| Vjavasi Side Hero Username: Vjavasi Post Number: 3813 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 192.127.94.7 Rating: N/A |
sthithapargantha ante....having the right emotions backed by gnana anukuntunna...agnanam tho prapancham tho naku emi pattindhi ani raayilaga vundatamu aithe kaadhu | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 14959 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 155.94.110.223 Rating: N/A |
ok .. here we go .. nee enkama rey .. nenu ninnu oka question adiga ara ganta mundu .. daniki answer edi bey? Ab bhi jiska khoon na khola - khoon nahi wo paani hai, jo desh ke kaam na aye - wo bekaar jawani hay | ||
| Der_schuler Side Hero Username: Der_schuler Post Number: 6508 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 38.106.198.17 Rating: N/A |
dammunte telugulo tittu | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 14958 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 155.94.110.223 Rating: N/A |
maine tumko ada ganta pehle ek sawaal poocha hai .. tu ne abhi tak uska jawab nahi diya .. Ab bhi jiska khoon na khola - khoon nahi wo paani hai, jo desh ke kaam na aye - wo bekaar jawani hay | ||
| Der_schuler Side Hero Username: Der_schuler Post Number: 6505 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 38.106.198.17 Rating: |
Roju...padukune mundhu...try to breath slowly yet completely...feel the energy flowing through to the third eye..oka 5 mins chesi...still ga undandi... rendu palms deggaraki cherchi........aa dositlo denni meeru sasvathanga pattukogalaro prasninchandi.....meeku vachina answer ye anni vedhala saaram | ||
| Bunty717 Side Hero Username: Bunty717 Post Number: 9749 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.158.23 Rating: N/A |
ok meaning telisindi.. can this be achieved annadi q.. pottolu manchollu by VONKAI | ||
| Sachin Hero Username: Sachin Post Number: 17897 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 198.204.133.208 Rating: N/A |
nenu eppudo saaadhincha | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 4580 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.89.186.85 Rating: |
 excellent post. I concur that this is the true meaning of that slokam. DUKHESHV ANUDVIGNA MANAHA SUKHESHU VIGATA SPRUHAHA VEETARAGA BHAYA KRODHAHA STHIDADEEHI MUNIRUCHYATE tum chupaanaasakogi...main woh raaaz hun...tum bhulaanasakogi...woh andaaaz hun... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_1sKAxUV2lY&videos=owak8I-G8i0 | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 14949 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 155.94.110.223 Rating: N/A |
annai .. enta easy ga, crisp ga cheppaavu swamy .. awesome asalu .. ekkadanna chadivava? sontam ga aalochinchava? sare .. nako doubt .. naaku telisinanta lo .. righteous path to life is nothing but our "dharma" .. and as you say .. once we realize and perform our dharma .. we attain wisdom (i would call it gnana) .. but to realize dharma .. dont we need gnana? are we not dealing in circles here? short ga adagaali ante .. how to realize your dharma? is the moot question ! Ab bhi jiska khoon na khola - khoon nahi wo paani hai, jo desh ke kaam na aye - wo bekaar jawani hay | ||
| Der_schuler Side Hero Username: Der_schuler Post Number: 6504 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 24.14.198.145 Rating: N/A |
Sthithihi pragna.... pragna: wisdom He who going through the karmic fruits of his lives(keep the plural in view), being wisely aware of the situations he faces and he who has the wisdom to give up all the fruits of his existence to him shall be relieved from his karmic life and is hence on path towards me. He who can be aware can also stop his presence in those moments.For he who is aware every moment is a deja vu..renunciation comes from wisdom..and wisdom comes from..a righteous path to life....... | ||
| Rowdy Side Hero Username: Rowdy Post Number: 5421 Registered: 01-2010 Posted From: 24.13.161.117 Rating: N/A |
ee word ekkuvagaa mana guttonkay vadataru kadu | ||
| Film_fan Hero Username: Film_fan Post Number: 13367 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 81.138.131.153 Rating: N/A |
chadavataniki bagundhi..... We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. -- Aristotle | ||
| Onlytruth Legend Username: Onlytruth Post Number: 65780 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 173.62.7.9 Rating: |
Sthitha Pragnatha ante emotion lekunda batakadam kaadhu..as someone saying animal la batakadam antha kannaa kaadhu....as ELCA misinterpreted it :on the edge,rebellious life lead cheyyakunda ctrl chesukovadam kaadhu. Sthithapragnatha ante human emotions lo overexpression ,reaction lekunda batakadam. dukham kaliginappudu digulu chendani vadanu, sukhamulu kaliginapudu spruha leni nadanu, ragam, krodham, bayam poyina vadanu stithapragnudu ani cheppavachunu Moneywise/Family affairs edaina manchi luck tagilite ollu paina teliyakunda behave cheyyakundaa normal ga undi , nadamantrapu siri tho show putup cheyyakunda undadam sthithapragnatha Mana relatives ko, manako chedu edainaa jarigithe its end of world annattu edusthuu koorchodam. padhe padhe adhi longterm taluchukovadam lantivi chesi depress avakunda...just baadha padi vadileyyadam sthithapragnatha okallantene amitamaina prema, okallante dhesham...bloodboil avadam....society lo jarige manaki sambandham leni , manam aapaleni vaatini chusi voogipovadam ........ kaamam tho kanapadina prati aadadanni chonga karchukovadam, inkaa kaamam tho mundhuku velli harass jeyyadam ..........illaanti kaama,krodha,raaga dweshaalu CTRL ur emotions, NOT supressing the emotions http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hodLsvgFb0 | ||
| Jujung Junior Artist Username: Jujung Post Number: 98 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 76.98.126.13 Rating: N/A |
sthithapragnatha is not a description of events in life but a description of how a person reacts to a generally random, chaotic life out of one's control.. remember that this is being told to arjuna, who's having a tough time to fight a war against his relatives, greatest warriors, etc etc.. life is a game to be played.. and when we know we played it at our efficient best, results wouldn't matter so much ani nishkama karma concept's implication.. The folly of mistaking a paradox for a discovery, a metaphor for a proof, a torrent of verbiage for a spring of capital truths, and oneself for an oracle, is inborn in us.- Paul Valery | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 302 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
mee id lo ne 100% undhi andi.. ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Fakeeru Junior Artist Username: Fakeeru Post Number: 941 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 70.178.114.39 Rating: N/A |
50% reach inattu vunna.... | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 300 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
shutting the doors of thought process....keeping once self aware/alert/balanced yes..when you loose something you have 2 kinds of reactions.... craving- for that thing..aversion- towards yourself or the situation in which u lost it...crave and aversion both comes n goes 2 ur mind for a long time keeping you unrest. cos your mind never shuts the thought/reaction process off. what happens in sleep? even if you sleep for 1 hr. you are relieved. atleast your mind subdued for a while. then once you wake the process begins....this could be for anything not only an item but a thought itself also. If some one has fear about death..how hell the life be if the death fear haunts you every second?Is n't it better that you loose something else? ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 299 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
yes..its the degree directly propositional.....the more we crave for something the harder come out of it.... ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Megastar Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 21143 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 67.201.89.8 Rating: N/A |
I would like to see it out of control.... I dont want a pleasant and balanced life i want a rebellious n impulsive n on the edge life i want to live even if its for 40 years....not survive for 100 years.... i want to succumb to every instincts like an animal with in the boudaries of law... i dont want stability....i want it to be unstable....i want it disoriented...i want turmoil....i want it to be imperfect.... I hate to be a sthithapragny | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 5391 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.136 Rating: |
Thanks bro. I am firmly stuck in IMeMy phase now. I need examples to work on things like this. prastutaniki oka necklace pogottanu. adi manaki chendali ani rasi vunte dorukutundi, lekunte dorikina vadu lakshadhikari avutadu ani sardhicheppukovadaniki try chestunna. It's about impossible to not think in terms of MeMyI in situations like this. How can one not be attached to material things? Are may be it's the degree with which you attached to them that is the starting point - learn to let go ever s o s l o w l y ... | ||
| Telugu_times Moderator Username: Telugu_times Post Number: 18206 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
Ghantasala | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 298 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
this starts from the time of childhood...my toy, my dress..etc. balancing mind and see the things as they appear in reality..is the key for real happiness BUT very hard to attain and maintain such state each and every second of life... ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 297 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: |
As per Buddha everything in life is a cycle...incl life-death... everything arises, be there for some time and dies....it can be a fruit,a person,ripple in water, or a wave what ever...keeps changing...but we human beings attach our emotions towards things out of ignorance...and label "I" me "mine" my car, my job, mine, "I am hurted" and starts multiplying the problems..ego,dukha,happiness etc. ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 5390 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.136 Rating: |
Don't we all think that at some level? But we do still react to every incidentin life, sometimes with a lot of intensity. So, how exactly does this attaining wisdom or being a stitapragnudu or reacting to everything work out? Are these supposed to be a cycle like balyam, yavvanam, sanyasam (I know I am missing couple). The first stage is to be emotionally vested and the next stage is to be the wise men and somewhere along the line you are a stitapragnudu? Just curious. | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 296 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
Here is the deal: If your kid swallowing a stone...what will you do? Will you let him swallow because of it scraches inside his mouth while taking it out??NOPE if you do so that will put more troubles to him...you take out the stone though it hurts him temporarily...same way you need to shout when gets angry but in a balanced way....with fully awareness, it is not shouting out of anger...but by LOVE....as the above said case you take out the stone from the Boy with love (even though it appears outside u r anger with the kid, you have love towards him, so you save him) ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 295 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
dukham kalginappudu, sukham,ragam krodham anniti ki spandhistu...BUT should be AWARE that every feeling is impermanent...it is like quickly bounce back...that is real wisdom ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Ntr_rocks Hero Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 11929 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 69.138.33.171 Rating: N/A |
 If you don't like Something, Change it. If you can't Change it, Change the way you think about it. | ||
| Cyberabadsinnodu Junior Artist Username: Cyberabadsinnodu Post Number: 294 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 68.206.116.251 Rating: N/A |
the main thing in life is not attaining stitha pragnatha but wisdom/nirvana...by which u will know everything in this world s transient. ఎంత చికాగో యునివర్సిటీ లో చదువుకున్నా చిలక్కొట్టుడికి సరైన ఇంగ్లీషు పదం దొరుకుతుందా..!! | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 7625 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 166.205.15.44 Rating: |
Jujung, Good posts aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Sagar Hero Username: Sagar Post Number: 14705 Registered: 09-2007 Posted From: 63.118.230.7 Rating: N/A |
mari daarunam saami.. animals ku emotions vunDavv ani evaD cheppaD... already konthamandi tdp kurrol and bala fans oogutunnaru...so, db member ni kotte chance vundi... - LWA | ||
| Onlooker Junior Artist Username: Onlooker Post Number: 495 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 75.221.21.86 Rating: N/A |
cruise/sail | ||
| Onlooker Junior Artist Username: Onlooker Post Number: 494 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 75.221.21.86 Rating: N/A |
artham ayyindi brother...but nuvvu cheppnadhi follow aite ..... Life will be a smooth cruise sail on the high seas... But I prefer my life to be a roller coaster ride. | ||
| Jujung Junior Artist Username: Jujung Post Number: 96 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 76.98.126.13 Rating: N/A |
scientifically or otherwise, the only rational purpose of any life-form is self-preservation and self-perpetuation animals (right from bacteria/viruses) lo this happens through fighting for survival and genetic propagation through generations.. humans lo its similar with some extra features.. in addition to food, emotional stability aids self-preservation.. in addition to progeny, great achievements and fame also aids self-perpetuation because we have a way of preserving history.. The folly of mistaking a paradox for a discovery, a metaphor for a proof, a torrent of verbiage for a spring of capital truths, and oneself for an oracle, is inborn in us.- Paul Valery | ||
| Jujung Junior Artist Username: Jujung Post Number: 95 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 76.98.126.13 Rating: |
firstly it's only humans who can "control emotions".. animals just react based on instinct.. sthithapragnatha ante the emotional graph is stable ani.. so there is no question of suppressing/controlling emotions.. lopalunna emotions ctrl chesukunte eppudokasari burst avutharu.. the being who attains sthithapragnatha is always pleasant ani bhaavam.. The folly of mistaking a paradox for a discovery, a metaphor for a proof, a torrent of verbiage for a spring of capital truths, and oneself for an oracle, is inborn in us.- Paul Valery | ||
| Ntrnbkvenkyfan Junior Artist Username: Ntrnbkvenkyfan Post Number: 233 Registered: 06-2010 Posted From: 69.31.35.200 Rating: N/A |
andulo unna qualities janam avasaram leni chota, arhulu kaani vaallaki kooda pradarsistaru..so can't we control emotions towards such people and situations. | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Megastar Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 21140 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 206.208.231.61 Rating: |
inga bathakatam dheniki vaa??? | ||
| Annavaram Side Hero Username: Annavaram Post Number: 3061 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.14.213 Rating: N/A |
if u come to know you will die by so and so date for sure may be it's posibble to achieve a few of those qualities  | ||
| Onlooker Junior Artist Username: Onlooker Post Number: 465 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 75.221.21.86 Rating: N/A |
mundugaa oka prasna vestaa.. Emotions choopinchani manishi ki, animal ki theda emiti? | ||
| Kamal Hero Username: Kamal Post Number: 14941 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 155.94.110.223 Rating: N/A |
enduku possible kaadu .. possible kabatte kada Krishnudu Arjunudiki cheppindi .. Ab bhi jiska khoon na khola - khoon nahi wo paani hai, jo desh ke kaam na aye - wo bekaar jawani hay | ||
| Ntrnbkvenkyfan Junior Artist Username: Ntrnbkvenkyfan Post Number: 232 Registered: 06-2010 Posted From: 69.31.35.200 Rating: N/A |
possible kakpothe what of below mentioned qualities we can achieve if not all | ||
| Rebel Side Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 7961 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 151.151.109.18 Rating: N/A |
pragna ane ammay venta padite valla anna sutti etti kottadu...ala stita pragna sadincha | ||
| Ntrnbkvenkyfan Junior Artist Username: Ntrnbkvenkyfan Post Number: 231 Registered: 06-2010 Posted From: 69.31.35.200 Rating: |
dukham kaliginappudu digulu chendani vadanu, sukhamulu kaliginapudu spruha leni nadanu, ragam, krodham, bayam poyina vadanu stithapragnudu ani cheppavachunu above is from bhagavdgeeta idi saadinchuta asalu possible ena? | ||
| Annavaram Side Hero Username: Annavaram Post Number: 3058 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.14.213 Rating: N/A |
idi saadhishte emduni inka happy sachipovachu | ||
| Pulpfiction Hero Username: Pulpfiction Post Number: 13996 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 171.68.87.104 Rating: |
maintaining ideal balance in all situations in life .. Fight for existence. | ||
| Annavaram Side Hero Username: Annavaram Post Number: 3056 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.14.213 Rating: N/A |
correct meaning enti | ||
| Ntrnbkvenkyfan Junior Artist Username: Ntrnbkvenkyfan Post Number: 230 Registered: 06-2010 Posted From: 69.31.35.200 Rating: N/A |
ikkadunna vallallo evaraina sadhinchara in real life |
