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     Ntr_rocks Side Hero Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 6074 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 69.138.32.249 Rating: |
Pelliki mundu podukunte...tappu ani inka antunnara....  The secret of joy in work is contained in one word - excellence. To know how to do something well is to enjoy it!!! | ||
| Ishan Comedian Username: Ishan Post Number: 1857 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.90.235.198 Rating: N/A |
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| Okahyderabadi Comedian Username: Okahyderabadi Post Number: 1048 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 67.159.44.51 Rating: N/A |
Pillala tho friends ga unte vallatho anni discuss cheste there is no issue. peer pressure anedi andari kids whether it is back home in India or here is pretty common. It is prevalent in everything from the way they dress, eating habits everything. Most of you might have kids who are just born or few years old. I have two kids both of them who are entering adult hood. My daughter is 13 and son 12 both are them are at an age where the issue is discussed pretty freely in their school and their age group. Free and frank discussions are very necessary between parents and kids, in that age they are very impressionable and get in to unwanted situations because of that. We have been educating our kids slowly about issues related to teen age and they know the issues and the risk involved. I would say this much for sure, no parent American, Indian or anybody would want to see their children go through unwanted pregnancies or issues related to such promiscuous activity. When the children are adult they are free to take their decision because then they are adult and mature enough to take their decisions. Most parents do not realize that parents have thoughts and questions of their own as they grow up and if they are handled properly they grow up to be fine individuals. You have to encourage the trait of honesty irrespective of what happens. Making mistakes is part of growing up. Often we(Indian parents) either admonish them too much or become too protective which leads to either smothering of their personality or rebellious nature. I have seen many such fine young men and women of friends growing up and leading happy life with parents being as guides. Please do not take it as a moral lesson, after all everybody is free to feel and do what they believe in but its just my point of view I wanted to share with you. | ||
| Shantaram Junior Artist Username: Shantaram Post Number: 129 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.93.233.170 Rating: N/A |
28 ke old lekkana kodatannav enti vuncle..there is no age for love Manasu ni chariot chesi, korikalani gurralni chesi dookinchu cheptaa... | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3560 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: |
Vijay Mehta This is an interesting subject. I have spent past few years working with the American Born Cute Desi�s (ABCD�s) ! The tradition from back home was no sex before marriage. And in olden times that was not very hard to achieve. Because it was not easy for a man and a woman to have time and space available to engage in sex. Second there was fear of being caught because of unwanted pregnancy. Third there was fear of bringing shame to the whole family if caught. Fourth the marriage age was much younger than nowadays. The degree of inhibition was enough for so many of youth to be able to control the desire. In spite of this there were some who did engage in pre marital sex. Females specially had to be extra careful because there were not too many man willing to marry a non-virgin. (Of course you always wondered about Mata Kunti giving birth to Karna and having to hide the fact.) That was back in 1970 and more than 10,000 miles away. We live in new millennium in United States of America. Here the young ones grow up in the society where television, movies (even Indian Movies) Music are full of sexual exposure. Sexual explicit magazine, pornographic movies are freely available to the youth. And the internet has opened the door to pornographic material to virtually everyone. Regardless of the admonition against opposite sex, Asian youth is caught in dilemma as to what is right and what is wrong early on (starting from 12-14). Of course they quickly realize how futile it would be to discuss such a delicate issue with the parents. So for most of them best way out is to live double life. In front of parents they sing are virtuous traditional children. When alone they act just like main stream Americans. As a matter of fact many a times they behave worse than main stream Americans. I hope not to shock Indian Parents but more than 70 percent of our kids become sexually active before 19 years of age. Of course this is not base on any controlled study but more from personal discussion with hundreds kids. Our tradition does emphasize virginity till marriage. So many of our young women engage in every other form of sex and still remain virgin. (After all our ex president taught them that oral sex does not constitute sexual relationship). Because of the taboo associated with this topic no real dialogue can take place. My recommendation is as follows: While I do not encourage premarital sex I think it is a personal decision to be made by both the people involved. Make sure this is not done due to pressure or to keep someone like you. Differentiate between sex for purely physical pleasure versus two people who truly love each other and are not married, while waiting completion of studies or some other reason. Differentiate between emotionally or physically abusive sex versus sex under the context of steady relationship where both parties have mutual respect and care for each other. Mature sex where the danger of pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease is discussed and emotional problems associated with sex is thought out. I hope that Asian parents will realize that sex exists and it is far more prevalent than most of us would like to think. The best way to handle it is open discussion and acceptance of it rather than act as if world comes to an end if your teenager is sexually active. Studies have shown that when sex is openly discussed (without emotional melodrama) the incidence of teen pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, emotionally and physically abusive sex and even the premarital sex goes down and not up!  | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3559 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: N/A |
Arun Sharma Good for the following reasons: 1-Helps one evaluate one's own sexuality 2-Helps one understand the opposite sex at a deeper level 3-Kicks off spiritual thinking early on Bad for the following reasons: 1-Emotional account dissipates (ref: well known "village theory") 2-When misunderstood (highly likely), one tend to resort to junk food as someone already mentioned in this thread 3-If you don't behave as Romans do in Rome, you can not exist peacefully (sex is not the only thing one needs in life) My personal opinion... in line with what Deepak Chopra says - "Go with the flow of universe".  | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3558 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: N/A |
Yee article lo views sadavandi... http://www.boloji.com/women/02724.htm "Pre-marital sex is a big NO-NO in our culture for various reasons. While prohibiting sex until one is married has its own merits, one must also consider the fact that in recent times the age in which the men and women are tying the nuptial knots has been slowly on the rise. Early 30s is a common age until which men and women remain un-married due to prevalent socio-economic situation. In light of this, I wonder if Indian values have undergone any changes or do Indians still consider pre-marital sex a sin. Please share your thoughts and views." | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3557 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: N/A |
28 nindi poyi....29 parigedatannay...loves sesi heart breaks sesekune age aa naadi...just konni facts telsukundamani prayathnams | ||
| Shantaram Junior Artist Username: Shantaram Post Number: 128 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.93.233.170 Rating: N/A |
gagu vuncle meeki heart break chesina pori hevvar | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3556 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: N/A |
Vinayakudu cinemalo inko scene vundi...Heroine dating setha vuntadi(vinayakuditho kaadu)...oka night oka park lo koorchuni matladukuntoo vuntaru...inthalo patrol party vasthundi...mana AP police la sangathi telsinde gaa...'ekkadnundi kottukochav raa deenni...' ani edo continue sestha vunte...self respect vunna sraavs policoditho godava paduthundi...aa dating SW engineer emo...police ayanni pakkaki ki teeskelli convince chesi oka '1000 BUCKS' ichi pamputhadu...daaniki heroine malli fire aipoyi nannu aaa type ani confirm sesesava...I didn't expect this from you ani vadni vadilinchukuntundi...police station ki velli fight chesina bagundedi antundi... anthaku munde aa dating kurrod aduguthadu 'pelliki yes cheppadaniki intha time enduku teeskuntunnav' ani...appudu aa heroine 'no cheppadaniki time teeskuntunnanu ani anukovachugaa' antundi...hento antha maaya | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3555 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: N/A |
men are not from mars...women are not from venus ani pelliki munde telsukunte manchidi ani kavi bhavam | ||
| Npa Side Hero Username: Npa Post Number: 5537 Registered: 05-2007 Posted From: 76.125.251.80 Rating: N/A |
gandhi vuncle.....ilanti threads esi pelli kavalsina kurrolani enduk tension eduthav... "America's Quaterback" Brett Favre roxxx........ | ||
| Gandhiguevara Side Hero Username: Gandhiguevara Post Number: 3554 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 173.65.159.215 Rating: N/A |
http://eenadu.net/panelhtml.asp?qrystr=htm/panel11.htm Abbayilu 16%....Ammayilu 6% pelli ki munde aa pani sethannar anta rastram lo... Monna Vinayakudu cinema soosa...danlo heroine tappenti ani prasnisthaa vunte vinayakudu 'avanni kaadu kaani...nuvvu pelliki mundu bobbuntava' ani aduguthadu... |
