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     Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5482 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 67.10.134.234 Rating: N/A |
Good advice ... Understand what is at stake for you and only pursue if they are worth the trouble... Some wise sayings I have learnt... People find it easier to forgive you for being wrong , than for being right since they hate to accept they were wrong  You can do favors for people in two ways - by giving help and by taking help (the second one helps them feel needed and valuable - eppudu pai cheyyi manade ayite edutavalla self-esteem debba tintundi) aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5481 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 67.10.134.234 Rating: N/A |
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Whyme Junior Artist Username: Whyme Post Number: 245 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 68.222.136.146 Rating: N/A |
deeni batti artham emi ayyindante der_schuler kurrodu rendu postlu vesi ee thread start sesaadu andaru egesukochi comment lu statement lu ichi red flowers ayyaru.. kocchen adingind der kurrodu... manam answer icham.. kurrod loam la entha mandi red flowers ani random sampling sesthunnad | ||
| Whyme Junior Artist Username: Whyme Post Number: 217 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 68.222.136.146 Rating: N/A |
my favorite stress buster.. dont argue.. when you argue ego vasthundi madhyalo eppduo oka chota chadiva.. okadu argue chesinappudu vaadu argument win avvatam valla nee kompalemi munagavu ani clear ga telisthe.. let that person win that argument.. vaadu kush neeku peace of mind.. pick and choose your fights | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5464 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
 Very true - I guess once you survive something, including a heartbreak - you know you can do it again
Cool My fav stressbuster is to put on some fast music and move to it - You cannot dance and remain tense But aa salaha iste tittukuntaru emo ani exercise ki change chesa  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3603 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
from today, yes..  .. | ||
| Desparado Junior Artist Username: Desparado Post Number: 159 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 71.52.3.16 Rating: N/A |
he will get used to it There are two days in the week about which and upon which I never worry. Two carefree days, kept sacredly free from fear and apprehension. One of these days is Yesterday. ... And the other ... is Tomorrow Robert J Burdette | ||
| Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3700 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
Good one. Heard the story many times in the past. But let's just argue the logic for the heck of it  Let's say, prof tears the Rs500 note in to 2 pieces. How many hands will raise this time? Then if he further tears it down to 10 pieces.... How many people will be interested? Will it still have same value? Now, let's apply this to human spirit. A guy's heart is broken in to two pieces by a girl whom he loves too much. Let's say he was brave enough to pull himself together and trying move on... What if he gets betrayed by another girl again ? If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Joey Junior Artist Username: Joey Post Number: 54 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 198.28.69.5 Rating: N/A |
Maasiponivvu, Marakalu padanivvu..Kaani note maathram CHIRAGANIVVAKU... adhi moral of the story... how u doin? | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5462 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Very nice example and a lesson for everyone 5 *aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Unknown Junior Artist Username: Unknown Post Number: 544 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 76.16.137.45 Rating: |
"Did u ever feel..I am done" - yes, I feel everyday in the morning..toilet seat meedha oka 10 mins koosunnaaka ika saalu..I am done anipistadhi.. just kidding...everyone feels it once in awhile in their life time..but we always have to remember our value..we should keep 'hope'.. read somewhere... A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a Rupee 500 note in the room of 200 members. He asked, "Who would like this Rupee 500 note ?" Hands started going up. He said, "I am going to give this note to one of you but first let me do this ." He proceeded to crumple the note up. He then asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the hands were up in the air. "Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe. He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it ?" Still the hands went into the air. "My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth Rupees 500/-. Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened, or what will happen, never lose your value. You are special. Don't ever forget it! Never let yesterday's disappointments overshadow tomorrow's dreams. "Value has a Value only if its Value is Valued" | ||
| Whyme Junior Artist Username: Whyme Post Number: 206 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 68.222.136.146 Rating: N/A |
sorry.. i meant "a life to live" | ||
| Whyme Junior Artist Username: Whyme Post Number: 203 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 68.222.136.146 Rating: N/A |
good one seemabidda tammudu.. anthe atleast software profession lo most of the mission criticality undadu (ante rocket padi poddi, patient gunde aagi poddi etc..) particularly product development (R&D) scenario lo.. janalu time ki konchem emotional ayyi arustharu lolli chestharu.. edavalu aithe adi next day continue avuddi otherwise everyone knows that they have a life to leave | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1455 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 24.255.125.83 Rating: N/A |
annavaram, yes I am mor elike you. I blare music and floor the gas pedal. okko sari car ekkalani kooda anipinchananta tired aipotam kada aa roju is a bad day. Seemabidda, U r lucky. A good manager is a must unless u know how to be not stressed out by yazh0les at aapice. | ||
| Ishan Junior Artist Username: Ishan Post Number: 602 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.90.44.243 Rating: N/A |
Its in the nature of human mind to exaggerate fear and worry regardless of the cause. Experience teaches us that those fears are unnecessary gimmicks of mind and can easily be dealt with logic and reasoning. There should be a strong reason why a person who was nice to you for one year had behaved in a different manner on one day suddenly. I have experienced these kind of incidents too. Strange are the ways of mind. Integrity means doing it right when no one is looking | ||
| Seemabidda Junior Artist Username: Seemabidda Post Number: 343 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 203.18.187.50 Rating: N/A |
My manager (some 55+ old man) and I had a good rapport and he keeps encouraging me on many issues both profession and personal things. Yesterday he worked from home.. and I screwed something in production system without my knowledge and he yelled at me which is first time in my one year in this new place. I got pissed off badly and got stressed myself so much last ngt. I expect today will be tough time for me in office. But contrary to yesterday, he came to office today and sat next to me and explain clearly what went wrong and keep smiling at me .. I see his face clearly that he is feeling really bad for yelling at me yesterday. appudu anipinchindhi.. dhenikaa intha feel ayyindhi nenu ani.. anyway nee message chusaka ee incident chepalanipinchindhi. Sometimes we feel so bad which is not necessary. | ||
| Annavaram Comedian Username: Annavaram Post Number: 1756 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.14.213 Rating: N/A |
good bottle of booze and a visit to the spa might help or flooring your pedal on the tollway as long as u dont get caught  kinda anand mention chesaaru adi follow ayipondi, though following mine is more fun though | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5460 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Konni quick tips ... 1.Eat a bar of DARK chocolaate - it will help soothe your nerves 2.Breathing techniques - Anuloma viloma pranayama... simple ga sit straight in your chair - close your eyes. With the thumbof your right hand close your right nostril. Inhale deeply using your diaphragm thru the left nostril. Close the left nostril with your for and middle fingers and exhale thru the right nostril.Breath easily and smoothly - without pressure... Now inhale thru right and exhale thru left nostril. Alternate an even number of times. Focus on the air going in and out.This will calm you down. 3. Exercise in fresh air - this will help as well . aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1454 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.135 Rating: N/A |
Sorry to hear that ...when we are close to the problem it engulfs our world -and all that helps us thru is the grit and determination that the show must go on ... When you can , take a step back and look at these days in the big scheme of things..don't know the exact issue and generic advice can only irritate when you are already down .. but have faith , you will pull through ... --------------------------------------------------------- Thanks andi. Miracles kadu kani I believe forgetting is the best miracle that can happen to one. When u have too much going on today you forget the bad stuff from the day before :-) I keep telling myself to remember the big picture and some times that gets murkier too. I really need to spend some time learning meditation or something that will calm me down when I am strssed out. | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5458 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
We are saying the same thing ...but our definitions are different. Sacrifice , by definition means you give without getting/anticipating a return Self-satisfaction is a return too, the best kind
Sorry to hear that ...when we are close to the problem it engulfs our world -and all that helps us thru is the grit and determination that the show must go on ... When you can , take a step back and look at these days in the big scheme of things..don't know the exact issue and generic advice can only irritate when you are already down .. but have faith , you will pull through ... aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 17020 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 208.88.0.16 Rating: N/A |
but life still goes on....I cant get used to living without living without livin without u....I got to figure out on my own....I got to break free ani freddie mercury seppadu.... | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1453 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.135 Rating: N/A |
Today I feel it. I feel I am done and no matter what I do I can't fix things. Last night was a horrible night. You want to kind of give up on everything, but as human beings we are resilient and cowards at the same time. I somehow lulled myself into sleeping somewhere around 4 am. Today is another •••••• day at the aaapice. May be I should really learn how to buy the winning lottery ticket. | ||
| Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3696 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
NOT all sacrifices will fall in to this generalization obviously. In some cases, you don't expect ANY thing in return even after a great sacrifice. In those cases you will be doing a sacrifice for your own sake...the self satisfaction that you get after such a sacrifice is incomparable. It doesn't matter if they reciprocate or recognize your deed or not...you have already got your reward... self satisfaction If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5455 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Yeah, do tell why I am curious too aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3584 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
whyy.. I thought you are a fan of Roark. | ||
| Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3693 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
I disagree If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Hero Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 16988 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 208.88.0.16 Rating: |
when someone feels they r done they kill themselves....ur never done....u got some shxt to attend to every fckin day.....naa M lo depressing thallu...sasthannam | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5440 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Agree that not everyone is there , hence the strife
Ever the pessimistic misogynist Maybe, I am lucky because I never had issues with my mom-in-law As for me, I will have to wait another 10-15 years before I make the transition and find out aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Iamim Side Hero Username: Iamim Post Number: 2092 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 118.94.226.64 Rating: N/A |
Every mom is matured.. as long as the mommy-boys are unmarried.. once the daughter in law arrives maturity matures into torture.. | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3571 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
I dont think any mother would think her job is done or deemed complete once he child gets married ..She will compete with her daughter in law(or son in law) for equal footing .granted the scenario of equal footing is more pronounced in son and daughter in law case..as you noted - lack of importance triggers a sort of feeling that her sacrifices as a mother have gone in the direction she didnot expect,ultimately leading to "I did so much for you" dialogues.
I am kind of skeptical about this.. i mean how many families would have this level of maturity. | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5439 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
LOL ... good one aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Jkm Side Hero Username: Jkm Post Number: 4081 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
thank you.
yes. 100% true. ok aa vidham ga choosukunte PRP,TDP performed better than Congress. so 2009 May election results choosthe PRP,TDP are winners and Congress party is a looser emantaru ? kiki. SPB fan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXKFDk1f4Ns | ||
| Jkm Side Hero Username: Jkm Post Number: 4080 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
intrude post NO. manchiga chepparu. public DB lo evaru chepthe emiti. madyalo vachi thidthe feel avutham kaani. yes. moodu okate. yes life lo expectations lekapothe happy ga vuntamu. SPB fan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXKFDk1f4Ns | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5436 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Problem is an identity crisis kada - it is equivalent to what men go thru at retirement if you have noticed... They suddenly feel thy have lost their importance in what is "their world" - they feel they are not adding value and are dispensable because they have tied their self-esteem to all the relationships "needing " them ...It is mostly people who thing they have "sacrificed" their life that have the most issues - becasue of that expectation that those sacrifices will result in reciprocative actions from the family Now the family's actions may not be commensurate with their expectations - so the " I did so much for you " dialogs that become a common refrain.. If I never think I did something for my children - but I did the right thing as a mother the transaction ends at the point of action - there is no expectation carried forward. Then whatever the family does for me becomes a source of joy , not an opportunity to crib about its inadequacy aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5435 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: |
LOL - single veste grudge pettukune state lo lenu thankfully The only reason I called the single star out was to start a discussion Mee question answer cheyyataniki konchem time tessukovali ani appudu cheyyaledu
Simple and foolproof trick to overcome this - go perform on stage - multiple times Make a fool of yourself infront of a 100 people after that and go back and do it again - you will learn to laugh at yourself and not take yourself too seriously Fear of failure and perfectionism stops people from starting anything- remember that if you deliver 50 % it will still be better than 0 Perfection is a frame of reference in your mind - you have the control to change that frame of reference to whatever you want it to be
Evaru annaru meeru alpulu ani - everything is in everyone ...everyone has the unlimited potential Do not compare yourself to anyone - the only comparison should be between what we were yesterday , what we are today and focus on what are we doing to reach our target state for tomorrow aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3569 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
gattiga chusthe annai.. moodu okate kada.. i mean you have fear of failure and try to be perfect and in trying so.. you avoid mistakes.. so deenni batti naaku artham ayyindi endhante - source is fear od failure.. fear comes when there are expectations.. best way - mana meeda maname expectations tagginchukovale.. life is simple and beautiful when there are no expectations. mee question loki intrude chesi post chesinanduku manninchavale.. | ||
| Jkm Side Hero Username: Jkm Post Number: 4079 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
naa question ki reply ivvaledu... nenu single star vesanu anukunnaremo nenu veyyaledu. nenu mee posts single star asalu veyyanu. sare ippudu naa question ki time theesukuni answer cheyyandi. naa question lo clarity lekapothe cheppandi. SPB fan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXKFDk1f4Ns | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3567 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
agreed..but consider this scenario.. when a mother becomes mother in law.. and if ..if.. son kind of sides with his wife.. mother willnot feel the same way she used to..A mother will feel isolated and thinks son being unthankful.. i am not generalising but I observed these kind of cases in good number.. | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5434 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Because seeing my children thrive makes me happy...Because a smile on their face can light up my day It is not just about the tangibles it is about the intangibles The satisfaction I derive from doing something for them is my reward And the mother is doing it because it is "her" children kada - evari kosamo cheyyataledu , na pillala kosam chestunna - naku vallu important kabatti chestunnanu - the operative word being "na" The day a mother can do it equally for other kids , she becomes selfless aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3566 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
naako doubt.. oka mother ila endhuku feel kaadu towards her children. btw.. nen single veyyaledu mee post ki.. | ||
| Jkm Side Hero Username: Jkm Post Number: 4075 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.99.205.17 Rating: N/A |
adhi maa adrustam. poorva janma sukrutham.(jummandi naadam ani ETV lo vasthondi. SPB tho 4 episodes. host Sunitha gaaru. 10 mins ki okasari aame SPB tho meeru maa show ki ravadam nijamga maa adrustam antaru. ika gaana gandharvudu SPB garu prathi song ki mundu okasari endaro mahanubhavulu andariki vandanamulu ani sangeetha vidvansulani peru peruna smarinchukontaru. ee sari aayanaki kallamta neelu vachayi. ee janma lo chesukunna punyamo ee janmalo konni vela songs paade avakaasam naakicharu ani chepparu. so nenu sunitha anukondi. meeru SPB. meeru maa DB ki raavadam nijamga maa adrustam.)
ledu lendi inka kontha vundi. meere ala ante ela cheppandi. maalanti alpula paristhithi enti? edo public shows gatra interest ledu antaru anukonna. kiki. naa question. fear of failure, strive for perfection, never make a mistake. how do we decide and balance these in our career? SPB fan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXKFDk1f4Ns | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5433 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 67.10.134.234 Rating: N/A |
LOL - idea bagane undi-Nenu famous ayyaka meeru andaru maku munde telusu ani cheppukovachu Anta ledu andi - edo life experience to telusukunnavi - if the lessons we learnt help someone live better, manchide kada ani cheptanu aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Jkm Side Hero Username: Jkm Post Number: 4068 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.99.205.17 Rating: N/A |
akkai desi jantha kosam anand radio talk show start cheyyochuga.. 1 800 db anand toll free number "mee samasyalu naa javaabulu" program. peru prakyathulu vasthayi. entha kalam ani job chestharu? SPB fan http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXKFDk1f4Ns | ||
| Jalsa Side Hero Username: Jalsa Post Number: 7995 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.115.29.189 Rating: N/A |
So true!!! | ||
| Jalsa Side Hero Username: Jalsa Post Number: 7994 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.115.29.189 Rating: N/A |
done emo gaani, ippudu unna work valla plan chesukunna vacation meedha interest poyindhi...suxx | ||
| Cocanada Hero Username: Cocanada Post Number: 11581 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 136.181.195.4 Rating: N/A |
nenu ee madhyane nerchukunna idi....the hard way . Try try try .... you will succeed | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5418 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
 A single vesinavallu enduku vesaro cheppi discussion ki vaste it will be interesting aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5417 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Doubt aa? aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Cylonesubbarao Hero Username: Cylonesubbarao Post Number: 13930 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.61.18.228 Rating: N/A |
Basically meeru cheppedi 'Seethayya evari maata vinadu' type lo undaali antaaru anthena? You must be the change you wish to see in the world - Mahatma Gandhi  | ||
| Risingstar Hero Username: Risingstar Post Number: 15302 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 98.225.199.48 Rating: N/A |
konsem naa thread loo?  | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5415 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: |
Not true You need to be selective in what hopes/expectations you let go. Let go of hopes/expectations from others but keep hopes and expectations of yourself alive- on what you are going to do Its not easy to deal with people not reciprocating your goodwill, not rewarding your hardwork etc Couple of years back - I said in the DB - Live for yourself - and it caused a furore - because most people associate that with selfish unconcern for others and do not get the concept You need to be able learn to live to your own satisfaction, to your values, to your conscience, to your standards... Don't do anything you feel is a sacrifice, don't be a martyr - because that implies built in expectations of deferred returns, and people may not reciprocate making you feel miserable later. Do things because you feel they are the right things to do, then that satisfaction is your instant reward and there are no expectations carried forward. When you do that, you are at peace with yourself and everything and everyone else's actions become secondary aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| 111 Side Hero Username: 111 Post Number: 3625 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 198.185.18.207 Rating: N/A |
edhi gaurantee ga ada ladies anukontunna....... | ||
| Machomegastar Side Hero Username: Machomegastar Post Number: 3352 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.248.126.232 Rating: N/A |
loosing all the hopes is a big relief!!! whatever happend happened what ever going happen is goin to happen!!! hard work, thinking day and night will not make any diff!! yours is alreaudy destined. dont take any f..king thing to heart!!! peoples star YSR amar rahe!!! | ||
| Subzero Side Hero Username: Subzero Post Number: 3047 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 59.93.67.168 Rating: N/A |
NO | ||
| Seemabidda Junior Artist Username: Seemabidda Post Number: 342 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 203.18.187.50 Rating: N/A |
Thank you.
Thank you. | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5411 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 67.10.134.234 Rating: N/A |
Change is never easy - especially to a system that has been your comfort zone all your life. Things will change when you introduce a new dynamic into the family - most of the times people will adjust fairly well- but be prepared to manage it The same applies when your sister gets married etc.. Go in with an attitude that everyone is going through the adjustment phase and give them some room to adjust - and you will be fine aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Eluri_kurradu Side Hero Username: Eluri_kurradu Post Number: 6772 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 173.19.86.81 Rating: N/A |
db lo sana sarlu .. Ekkado munigi ikkada tela | ||
| Seemabidda Junior Artist Username: Seemabidda Post Number: 341 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 203.18.187.50 Rating: N/A |
Arjuna mama naaku kooda ee vichithramaina alochana ventaduthundhi..
Anand garu, Any suggestion to get rid of it? | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8711 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: N/A |
thanks Akka... CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5408 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Idi try cheyyi - this is meditation technique that helps you handle people issues and your own negative feelings http://www.wildmind.org/metta/introduction aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5407 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Doing ok - how r u ? Long time no see.
Lots of things are not in our control - we can only work on the things that are in our control. You cannot change other people, you can only change how you react to them... Things happen - urike why did this happen to me anukuntu kurchunte you will sink into the quicksand of self pity and make things worse for yourself and people around you... look forward and think what you can do to make things better - and act on that.. First thing is to learn to break that cycle of negative thought - adi nerchukunte everything else becomes easier. And everyone is different - they will not live the way you want them to- learn to accept that - some personality issues can just be handled by not reacting to their flare-ups or reacting in the right way aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8708 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: N/A |
/Chinna problem ni magnify chesi , feeding on negativity and getting themselves spun up - chala mandi untaru ... / Akka, mari what should we do, if things are not in your hand? you want to fix those issues desperately, but still you can't do a damn about it... what if those are "personality related issues" that might involve multiple people.. CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Comedian Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 1870 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10 Rating: N/A |
anand garu, ela unaaru? the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Comedian Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 1869 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10 Rating: N/A |
mallik bhai, etlunnav? life la twists and turns periginayi so kaastha bz. 2 weeks ki oka sari login avuthunna DB lo the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Mallik Moderator Username: Mallik Post Number: 7879 Registered: 10-2008 Rating: N/A |
Thats the spirit.. Emaipoinav tammi hinni dinaal.. ashwamu adhirohinchuta nerchukonitivaa? In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5405 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Chinna problem ni magnify chesi , feeding on negativity and getting themselves spun up - chala mandi untaru ... Learn to divert your mind ... at any point in time you can only have one thought. Replace a negative thought with something mundane and move to positive. Depression vaste go for a walk or cup coffee pettukoni tagandi or something - just the intent of doing something will replace the fear/boredom/depression and break the cycle of thought and give you the mental distance to handle the feeling. Don't feed the negative feeling by ruminating on it. It is a simple switch that can help people handle the small issues - walk away from the situation, change of activity, even getting up and drinking a glass of water will break the thread. aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Getafix Side Hero Username: Getafix Post Number: 3542 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.127.66.112 Rating: N/A |
sometimes it helps if you take a dispassionate approach towards life..somethings are meant to be certain way even if we think there is better way.. passion thagginchukunte exhaustion tagguthundi.. life lo principled ga undadatam manchide..avasaram kuda kaani vaatini appudappuddu relax chesthe chala varaku stress tagguthundi. | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Comedian Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 1865 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10 Rating: |
yes, many times. every time I had to fight for something which is totally not in my control, this feel crops up, but it never worries me, it only gives me chance to slow down and re-approach the situation. You might feel exhausted today, but in the course of a struggle it is just one another obstacle, and i learnt we do not have to fight exhaustion, it exhausts itself, if you just honor the feeling and give yourself sometime, you will feel renewed. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Rocky Comedian Username: Rocky Post Number: 1708 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 216.31.211.11 Rating: N/A |
I feel I am done when I watch Bala movie ani Cocanada brother cheppamannadu  | ||
| Ishan Junior Artist Username: Ishan Post Number: 567 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 128.249.107.38 Rating: N/A |
Ayyo avunaa...I am very sorry to know that...hope she finds peace and courage to fight it out... Integrity means doing it right when no one is looking | ||
| Arjun1234 Comedian Username: Arjun1234 Post Number: 1580 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 198.241.217.15 Rating: N/A |
hahah .. neu aithe kaadu ... btw Naaku oka variety fear/feeling about future... I dont want to grow... I mean I am so attached to my parents, bro and sis... and I think I am too possesive too... now if I think of getting married... having my home... i feel the distance is gonna grow between us... and ofcourse when you have kids and as they start to grow you will be thinking more about them and ... hmm | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8692 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: N/A |
/adi pelli ayina tharuvaatha start avuthundi ani naa abhipraayam/ Arjun mama...yevarikoo kaali naaku single vesaaru... CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8691 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: N/A |
/I am done anukuntaru / Akka...mana DB loo meeru alaa anukunee vaari list ettandi! CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Cocanada Hero Username: Cocanada Post Number: 11487 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 136.181.195.4 Rating: |
"cheri moorkula manasu ranjimpa raadu" ani maatram chaala sarlu anukunna if that qualifies Try try try .... you will succeed | ||
| Arjun1234 Comedian Username: Arjun1234 Post Number: 1579 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 198.241.217.15 Rating: N/A |
lollll | ||
| Anand_n Side Hero Username: Anand_n Post Number: 5404 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150 Rating: N/A |
Baaga chepparu... Anni unte ilage untundi... Struggling with the news that someone dear to me has a very short time to live and she is not done with what she wants to do in life...  Health, education, job, family anni unna vallaki - chinna problem vaste - I am done anukuntaru ...  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale | ||
| Jalsa Side Hero Username: Jalsa Post Number: 7984 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.53.46.142 Rating: N/A |
//First time in this DB, evaro naaku single star vesaaru./ alavaatu ayipothundhi le annai. naaku choodu 70 singles just for asking a q...kiki bye...mtng | ||
| Ishan Junior Artist Username: Ishan Post Number: 564 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 128.249.107.38 Rating: N/A |
 First time in this DB, evaro naaku single star vesaaru.Integrity means doing it right when no one is looking | ||
| Wrathchild Side Hero Username: Wrathchild Post Number: 9821 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 192.146.101.71 Rating: |
Nenu prati tube ki reply ivvanu..kiki | ||
| Mallik Moderator Username: Mallik Post Number: 7874 Registered: 10-2008 Rating: |
U hit right in the bullseye point tammi.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Ishan Junior Artist Username: Ishan Post Number: 563 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 128.249.106.234 Rating: |
In layman terms, dont we call it Boredom? When you stop exploring, you feel you are done...In this infinite universe with infinite probabilities, there is always something to ponder and get excited about. reminds me of the anecdote...when you try to hold sand tighter and tighter, you will loose more and more of it. When you cant change it or fight it, I think you should let it go. Then you will either find a solution to the problem or the problem resolves by itself or you might even realize it was never a problem at all. Integrity means doing it right when no one is looking | ||
| Bhikhu Side Hero Username: Bhikhu Post Number: 4347 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53 Rating: N/A |
8 yrs ki first time buthu bomma susa..ee jeevithaniki idi salu ani feel ayya.. | ||
| Methhanithodugu Junior Artist Username: Methhanithodugu Post Number: 547 Registered: 12-2008 Posted From: 59.93.67.208 Rating: N/A |
india nunchi vachina nirasamo puttina vairagyam lo thelina alsata kavochu Monday2friday life lo it will sink in from Optimistic pessimism to Pessimist Optimism . IMO "I am Done " applicable for our prev generation when they get retired/shashtipurthi. just my random gibberish Methhanithodugu- SOFTWARE "A great leader's courage to fulfill his vision comes from passion, not position.â | ||
| Mrhyderabad Side Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 3640 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.230.38.120 Rating: N/A |
 If god doesn't like the way I live, let him tell me, not you | ||
| Mallik Moderator Username: Mallik Post Number: 7873 Registered: 10-2008 Rating: N/A |
Ee age lo ee thoughts "interesting" aa.. .. To your koshhens, I never felt any.. but one felt.. 9to5 job.. chess jeevitham anpistadi everyday.. I should sleep whenever I feel and wake up whenever.. tanchanugaa 9ki desk ki raavaali ane sirrethhi potundi.. Iam done anifittundi.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8686 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: |
BTW...aa single stars nenu veyyaledu....yevaroo nee fan pani ayi vuntundi CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8685 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: |
Der mama... life meeda siraaku dobbatam sahajamee...general gaa adi pelli ayina tharuvaatha start avuthundi ani naa abhipraayam! alaa ani manam vaatini vadili vellaleemu....sarlee ani vundaleemu...naaku english pedda gaa raadu... but, ee kinda padam saana saarlu vinna damned if you do, damned if you don't CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Der_schuler Side Hero Username: Der_schuler Post Number: 2030 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 198.135.110.2 Rating: |
I think diff people reach that stage via diff routes.....but whats more interesting is... When do we feel really tired not physically but mentally...so tired that all u care is just to pass that moment off... its an interesting thought that occured to me....while I was on my wya back to US.. | ||
| Der_schuler Side Hero Username: Der_schuler Post Number: 2029 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 198.135.110.2 Rating: |
did u ever feel that u are exhausted of this life and its anomalies..... ever felt: " I am tired...I want to rest.." did u ever feel..: " Its OK...after all its just another thing to live through.." ever felt like: " this is what it is. I can't neither change it nor fight it..." |
