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     Shawshank Side Hero Username: Shawshank Post Number: 5117 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.29.126.37 Rating: N/A |
very true bro .. nenu naa relatives pillalaki .. Amar Chitra Kadha, Ramayana, Mahabharata, Panchatantra etc chadavamani encourage chesta .. Most of my relatives use this link to order the books .. and btw .. these books are very very cheap ! ( aa links lo religious propaganda emi undadu .. I assure you ) http://www.vhp-america.org/books/bookcat30.pdf Free Tibet ...  | ||
| Shawshank Side Hero Username: Shawshank Post Number: 5115 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.29.126.37 Rating: N/A |
ee desam la unte .. simplest life kooda India lo chala comfortable life tho samanam ani naa loni poet bhaavam annai .. ikkada simple gaa ne untunna ippudu .. kaani nenu ikkada unnappude nikka chesukunte .. aa pori kosam life lo konni changes cheyyali lifestyle ki .. I do not prefer that ! Free Tibet ... | ||
| Jalsa Side Hero Username: Jalsa Post Number: 7833 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.115.29.189 Rating: N/A |
idhi ento koncham explain chestaava tammudu? materialism enti? simpleton ga undaali anukuntey ekkadaina undachu kadhaa? desam lo kooda anni comforts unnai ga? | ||
| Shawshank Side Hero Username: Shawshank Post Number: 5112 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.29.126.37 Rating: N/A |
Chudandi S.V. Ranga Rao garu .. aalasyam amrutham/visham annaru peddalu .. manam vaallani follow aipothe best  on a serious note, eppati nuncho anukuntunna annai daani gurinchi .. kakapothe aa madhya career ki importance ichi ikkade undali ani anukune vaadini .. kaani looking back .. I am afraid .. materialism might creep into my life and drag me away from my ideals/principles .. and then family ki dooram ga undadam kooda kastam ga undi .. so my thoughts ! Free Tibet ... | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 3968 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 98.231.138.194 Rating: N/A |
waari nayano...nannu oggey saami flzzz... | ||
| Jalsa Side Hero Username: Jalsa Post Number: 7830 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.115.29.189 Rating: N/A |
aavesam annividhaala anardham rao gopal raooo!!!! | ||
| Shawshank Side Hero Username: Shawshank Post Number: 5108 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.29.126.37 Rating: N/A |
right wing meede kannu eppudu kooda ..
you nailed it well .. this is the reason for me .. nenu entha tondara ga veelaithe antha tondara ga jump .. dabbu di emundi .. ippudu kakapothe oka 10 years taravata sampadistha .. naaku ela aina comforts ante pichi ledu .. ASAP .. Desam jump aipovaali .. Free Tibet ... | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 3965 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 98.231.138.194 Rating: N/A |
mama ramoji, jhon mccain, advani tho comparision kastam... many of our background is middle class, whose parents have broken their backs for the kids...health wise chala issues vastunnai andariki... and of coz chala mandhi kee criteria will be post retirement(60-65) parents ekkuva kasta padakundaa unnara ledhaa ani...CF bro was asking about this... | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1396 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 24.255.125.83 Rating: N/A |
When my father died I wasn't there. To this day I regret that more than anything in life. That's what scares me about being so far away from my mom. If I don't have this white elephant home I would move in 5 years. Now it looks like I will live in this home till I die. I will file for GC for my mom some day hopefully and take things from there. My siblings are in India, but it's still not the same as me being there for me. | ||
| Shawshank Side Hero Username: Shawshank Post Number: 5106 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.29.126.37 Rating: N/A |
Yes. Last week lo .. mamulu ga chaala strong anukune oka relative .. last week nunchi chaala sick ayyaru .. even now .. kastam antunnaru doctors. He is just 69 years. Vaalla abbayi US vachi .. oka 3-4 years undi vellipoyaadu back. A good decision. Nenu kooda ade chesta .. whatever few good moments are left for me, I will share them with my family in my country! So enta tondara ga veelaithe antha tondara ga chekkesta ! ee week lo teesukunna decision idi ! Free Tibet ... | ||
| Gotcha Side Hero Username: Gotcha Post Number: 4428 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 98.206.204.119 Rating: N/A |
even if they are 60 now, 70-75 is a age where they can be little mobile kada aa udesam to estimate chesa. check ramoji. eeyaniki oka 70 paine untayi kada and he is still healthy. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 3959 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 98.231.138.194 Rating: N/A |
20 yrs aaa...mama, nuvvu sachin classmate vaa? | ||
| Gotcha Side Hero Username: Gotcha Post Number: 4427 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 98.206.204.119 Rating: N/A |
we are taking about 20 years later. who knows what will happen at that time. andaru india jump ayipovachu leka pote vallu andaru ikkadike ravachu. | ||
| Jalsa Side Hero Username: Jalsa Post Number: 7827 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.115.29.189 Rating: N/A |
Rising annai, 5* to your post#:14747 | ||
| True_indian Side Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 4501 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 174.96.142.227 Rating: N/A |
amen, you are 100% right we need kakarla to certify lot of Mental Kandidates | ||
| Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3496 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 76.200.215.127 Rating: N/A |
I totally agree with what rising said and ofcourse with other's opinions as well. iyyala repu sonta ooollo udyogaalu raavu. for sure Hyd,blore or delhi ala vellali. oka voollo 30plus yrs unna vaallani vere vooru vachchesi undamantam chala kastam. bezawada lo unna sukham naaku Hyd lo unDadu anutundi maa mother. akkada poddunna leste yabhai mandi palakaristaaru. aa facility Hyd lo ledu. atleast US lo unde avakasams kosam exploring once i file for citizenship. maa father madras lo work chestoo ratri padukuni poddunna levaledu. room lo pakka bed meeda padukunna candidate ki kooda teliledu eeyana poinattu or avastha padutunnattu. so when the time comes it just happens. in all practical senses all i pray to god is after certain age any one should die like that. padukunnamaa, praanam poindaa... dESam eltunna anna anandamlO unna. | ||
| True_indian Side Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 4497 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 174.96.142.227 Rating: N/A |
My parents lived here for while before i was born so they know hows its here, my parents come here every yr and stay max of 3months ma mum monna retire ayya last oct lo, so fulltime charity ki set ayyaru ma dad ki daily mandu, peka lekapote timepass kadu so he wont stay here my sis lives in london so they shuttle i cant go to india since they live in wgl and i cant live in wgl but surely i want to take care but not sure how baga badaga untundi kani they are more independent and want to be like that ma mum and dad always say we have always lived alone and we want to stay that way antaru em cheyalo ardam kadu, its tough decision we need kakarla to certify lot of Mental Kandidates | ||
| Andhrawala Comedian Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 1798 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 75.182.101.190 Rating: N/A |
California lo aithe Medicare is applicable to GC holders also. alaane konni states lo vundocchu. My elder brother and sister are in India. Every two years I go to India. from last 3 years I am going to Inida every year. Infact Thaks Giving ki Inida velthunna for just 1 week | ||
| Movieanalyst Comedian Username: Movieanalyst Post Number: 1953 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 98.180.196.219 Rating: N/A |
hmm... edi cheppukunna manam satisfaction kosame.. life lo prathi vaallaki goals n aspirations vuntayi.. evari priorities vallaki vuntayi...generalise cheyyalemu.... evariki nachindi vallu chestharu... okallu chesindi oppu..ookallu chesindi tappu ani cheppalemu...money important..samajam lo social status important...pillala future important... alage talli tandrulu kooda...avakasam vunte vallani manathone vunchukotaniki try chestham... | ||
| Emc2 Junior Artist Username: Emc2 Post Number: 449 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 68.100.241.101 Rating: N/A |
details ekkuva teleedu babai,but medical problem emi kadu. ::naku evvaru fans leru,nene andariki favourite | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1395 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
GC meeda kuda cover avuthundi,anduke waiting for to apply GC for them. ------------------------------------------------------------ ---------- really? details konchem cheppandi. anni states lo work avutunda idi? | ||
| Emc2 Junior Artist Username: Emc2 Post Number: 448 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 68.100.241.101 Rating: N/A |
GC meeda kuda cover avuthundi,anduke waiting for to apply GC for them. ::naku evvaru fans leru,nene andariki favourite | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1394 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
they can stay here and medical problems vachina cover avuthundi. ------------------------------------------------------------ ----- ela cover avutayi? They have to be citizens to claim medicare kada? | ||
| Emc2 Junior Artist Username: Emc2 Post Number: 446 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 68.100.241.101 Rating: N/A |
for me siblings unnaru,but they want to live with me,I am happy to bring them here,but vallaki ikkada nachaledu,especially dad adjustment problem. inko 1 yr lo citizen ship vasthundi vallaki GC apply chestha.they can stay here and medical problems vachina cover avuthundi. for now i am also visiting every year and spend with them as much as posibble. that is the plan. ::naku evvaru fans leru,nene andariki favourite | ||
| Reentry Junior Artist Username: Reentry Post Number: 353 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 65.198.163.148 Rating: N/A |
Rising annai cheppindhi nijame... ikkada emotional posts esinanth veazy kadhu practical life... nenu 2 1/2 years lo okka sari kooda india vella ledhu... two times mother ee vachindhi visitor visa meedha... maa akkayyani web cam lo choodatamu anthe... | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 3952 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
@Guttonkay RS koncham sooti gaa cheppay type...he was just being practical as he said | ||
| Risingstar Hero Username: Risingstar Post Number: 14751 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 98.225.199.48 Rating: |
touching ledhu vankaya ledhu annai... 2 years ki okasari velli parents chuse vallu unnaru.. konthamandi kunti saakulu cheppi 3,4 years ki veltharu... virtual world loo posts veyyamantee chelaregipotharu.. thelvanidhi emundhi? EOD mana manasskashi ki thelusu manam manchi ga unnama ledha ani... | ||
| Nanigadu Side Hero Username: Nanigadu Post Number: 3506 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 204.92.92.4 Rating: N/A |
Meeru cheppindantlo thappemi ledu annai, i agree with most of your points... naku thammudu vunnadu Hydbad lo, vadu velli chusukuntuntadu emanna issues vuntey, nenu at least 1.5 years ki oka sari velli vostha... roju phone lo matladanu kani, thappakunda weekly once 1 hour paine matladatha... but it all depends on each individual, everyone things differently...naku mathram amma nannalni ikkadaki tecchukovalani vundi... chudali entha varaku sadhya paduddo... memu muggram vokadu india lo, nenu ikkada, inkodu australia lo vuntadu... vallaki bore kottakunda ekkada kavalisthey akkada vundocchu When you point a fingre at some body remember that there are three fingers pointing at you and one finger pointing at God | ||
| Risingstar Hero Username: Risingstar Post Number: 14750 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 98.225.199.48 Rating: |
yaa.. alage undachu. nenu year ki 2 times vellina years unnayu.. emergency vasthe 24 hours loo velthanu... sister unnaru inka emergency vasthe they will take care.. konchem practical ga vesanu post adhi.. | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1392 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: |
annai...ninna GC vachindhee annav, eyala ee msg vesaav...janal msg kanna poster nee ekkuva suthar DB lo...mee opinion is not wrong...it works in some cases ------------------------------------------------------------ --------------- @hD anta ledanukunta. The way RS conveyed sounded callous IMHO. The way he said might have touched people the wrong way. | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1391 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
desam move avvali for sure...pillal perige time lo pedda vallu undali..valla influence undali..valla degara ninchi pillal..nerchukunevi chana untayi.. ------------------------------------------------------------ ---------- idi nijam and make sure you teach ur kids how to speak Telugu. lekunte parents english rani vallaki asalu connection vundadu grand kids tho. Make sure you make ur kids talk to grand parents, unlces and aunts regularly. lekunte nijam ga india lo vallatho ela mingle avvalo assalu radu kids ki. Personally I feel bala vihar, balanandam are great for kids. It connects them with Indian culture and keeps them occupied. India Language nerpistaru chinmaya mission programs lo, that's a great thing for kids also. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 3950 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
//endhi anni single stars vesaru... // annai...ninna GC vachindhee annav, eyala ee msg vesaav...janal msg kanna poster nee ekkuva suthar DB lo...mee opinion is not wrong...it works in some cases | ||
| Risingstar Hero Username: Risingstar Post Number: 14748 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 98.225.199.48 Rating: |
endhi anni single stars vesaru... nenu entha kastam auna every year parents ni visit chestha.... every day phone loo matladatha. naaku single stars vesina vallaloo 90% ee rendu cheyyaru ani naaku thelusu... nenu vallani thappu paattam ledhu.. evari opinion valladhi.. | ||
| Jp_rocks Comedian Username: Jp_rocks Post Number: 1616 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 166.137.135.138 Rating: N/A |
Well said bhikhu bhai...na relative son abcd..9th grade...gr8 n obedient kid but could not mingle with anyone in india..his grand father in india is sooo fond of him and he calls daily to talk to this kid..manodemo hi bye antadi..papam peddayana monna natho antunde, manavaditho sarDaga mattadaniki ledu ani | ||
| Reentry Junior Artist Username: Reentry Post Number: 350 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 65.198.163.148 Rating: N/A |
naaku ayya ledu... amma maatrame undhi... 54 years nenu US vachi 2 1/2 years avutondhi... amma ki nannu vidichi undatam kastam.. fortunately india lo akka undhi.. so six montha akkada six months visitor visa lo ikkada untondhi... appudappudu nannu thidutu untundhi... especially flight journey appudu ee vayasulo nannu kasta pedutunnavu raa edhava ani... ee vistior visa extend cheyyali anukuntunaa ee sari | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1389 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
so as long as you take care abt ur parents pakkanee undalsina avasaram ledhu for ever anukuntunna. ------------------------------------------------------------ ---- okkoru okko rakam ga alochistaru kani if u r in india u can atleast make ur parents come stay with u in bangalore or hyd. It's better than them coming and staying with u forever in US and feel lonely. ivvala repu india lo flights baga ekkuva ayyayi which is great thing. vizag, vijayawada, tirupati anni chotla ki major cities ninchi flights vunnayi. so u get off the flight at vja and drive to ur home town/village. In any case each person should do what works for them but I think one will be incredibly sad forever if he/she is not there when his/her parents die or he/she is not able to take care of them when they are not well. | ||
| Bhikhu Side Hero Username: Bhikhu Post Number: 4305 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53 Rating: |
desam move avvali for sure...pillal perige time lo pedda vallu undali..valla influence undali..valla degara ninchi pillal..nerchukunevi chana untayi.. | ||
| Risingstar Hero Username: Risingstar Post Number: 14747 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 98.225.199.48 Rating: |
india loo kooda unna voolloo jobs raavatamledhu ee hyd, bangalore loonoo vasthunnayu. health baagalekapothe ventanee velli manchi doctors ki chupinchi money paramga emanna issues unte clear chesi evarinanna thelsinvallani chuskommani requesting or money ichi ravalsinde kadha..doctors kooda emi cheyyaleru situation bad avuthe. manam emi chestham pakkane undi. final days avuthe vallaki evanna korikalu untee kastamauna theerchali.. india loo kooda traveling ki 10 hours pattuddi okkosari ikkada nunchi 24 hours pattuddi... so as long as you take care abt ur parents pakkanee undalsina avasaram ledhu for ever anukuntunna.. | ||
| Guttonkay Comedian Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 1387 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.133 Rating: N/A |
vellali ani gattiga anukunte elagola veltaru. okati matram mana parents ki 70 yrs vacchaka it will be very hard for them to live alone. I have a few friends whose parents have health issues. One has a sibling in India, so whenever the father gets sick he goes to bangalore and stays with that till he gets better. Another's father was sick for a long long time and in the end when he did, the guy couldn't go. okkade koduku. Those of you who have no siblings in India and want to go back plan for it from now. repu pillakayalaki 7 years vachhaka appudu vellali ante chala kashtam. save from now, buy a plot in india, plan on moving with a certain target date in mind. parents ni ikkadaki teesuku ravachu, it's a jail for them here. Unless u r in california where there is a ton of telugus, all other places are a jail for telugu parents. so permanent ga vallani ikkada vunchadam anedi kashtamaina pani. | ||
| Humpty_dumpty Side Hero Username: Humpty_dumpty Post Number: 3948 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 38.117.247.14 Rating: N/A |
mama , depends if u have any sibling(s) to tend to them in India... naa case lo parents cannot come to US for long periods of time, thammudu kooda same line of profession, so all three will be there only... all I can do is to visit them every yr or so and may be jump in another 5 yrs..ee loga GC vasthay ikkada oka deepam petta taaniki options alochisthaa... but if they don't have any children to take care of them in India, it is better to have them here at least 6 months every yr | ||
| Kdnumber1 Side Hero Username: Kdnumber1 Post Number: 2766 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 66.155.211.158 Rating: N/A |
Inka daani gurinchi aalosinchala...emi cheyyala ani. | ||
| Chiru_fan Side Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 8597 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 170.22.76.10 Rating: N/A |
Meeru ikkada mee parents akkadaa.... ippudu okay, as they might be in good health and enjoying their time in India... how are you planning to take care of your parents when they really need you? would you go back to India...for good? would you get your parents here?... (in most cases it's not possible) any other options...??? serious question...so, sincere gaa answer cheyyundri CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER |
