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Annavaram
Comedian Username: Annavaram
Post Number: 1130 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.15.86
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:31 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:
parents ki important bro, they seem to relish it, it apparently is a big deal for them to really make a bang for their child's wedding the grooms usually dont care if it is grand or not it's a big deal for the bride since it's their day they need to show it off entha rationalize chesi reason chesina waste intha dabbu enduku bokka enni manchi panulu cheyacchu etc etc |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Comedian Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 1536 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:24 pm: |
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Bunty717:importance gurinchi cannot comment.. anta knowledge ledu kani
importance ante religious ga kaadhu brother, i was just asking personally how does it effect you if your ceremony is a simple one instead of it being a grand one. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada |
   
Bunty717
Comedian Username: Bunty717
Post Number: 1479 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:23 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu:how important is the marriage ceremony to you guys?
importance gurinchi cannot comment.. anta knowledge ledu kani appu chesi marriage ki ekkuva karchu petadam ayite naku foolishness anipistundi.. Ind lo middle class and lower middle class vallu they save for their entire lives just to spend for these two days ..idi too much anipistudni naku |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Comedian Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 1534 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:20 pm: |
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Annavaram:basic gaa siggu saram vadileyaali avi vadilesthe life chaala happy gaa untadi wife annaaka thiduthundi, artha raatrullu firends tho pekaatalu aadaali, biryaanilu thinaali, mandhu kottaali premier showlu chudaali and intlo wife respect cheyaali ante kudaradu antaaru nana maatalu antaaru basic gaa ayanni oka sevi lo ini inko sevi lo vadileyaali
 the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada |
   
Annavaram
Comedian Username: Annavaram
Post Number: 1129 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.15.86
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:19 pm: |
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ee thread lo andaru baaga sensitive gaa unanaru |
   
Annavaram
Comedian Username: Annavaram
Post Number: 1128 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 71.97.15.86
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:17 pm: |
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Joshrocks:
basic gaa siggu saram vadileyaali avi vadilesthe life chaala happy gaa untadi wife annaaka thiduthundi, artha raatrullu firends tho pekaatalu aadaali, biryaanilu thinaali, mandhu kottaali premier showlu chudaali and intlo wife respect cheyaali ante kudaradu antaaru nana maatalu antaaru basic gaa ayanni oka sevi lo ini inko sevi lo vadileyaali all the best |
   
Woodpecker
Side Hero Username: Woodpecker
Post Number: 3314 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 199.198.251.106
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:15 pm: |
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papam joshrocks kurrod ki torsure supeduthunar ga andar kalisi, kurrod jump anukunta  |
   
Crunk
Junior Artist Username: Crunk
Post Number: 351 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 66.196.163.70
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:14 pm: |
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Bunty717:avi marriage chesukunnaka kuda sampadinchochu..
Yup mama that is true only when you know for sure that marrying will NOT affect your already dire financial situation. "One of these days I gotta get myself organizized" - Robert De Niro in Taxi Driver. |
   
Crunk
Junior Artist Username: Crunk
Post Number: 350 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 66.196.163.70
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:13 pm: |
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Mental_sachinodu: how important is the marriage ceremony to you guys
I believe marriage day is very special. Once in a lifetime exp (well mostly ) ... union of souls in love. It needs to be celebrated and needs to be rejoiced coz the memories will last a lifetime. But celebration here IMO differs from person to person. In my case, I wud get the same joy when I marry in a temple/church/marriage registrar (lol as i am atheist) with my few close frnds n family .... or marry the same person in a pomp setting with trumpets blaring ....horses ...dances ...money thrown over ....expensive chandeliers ... biggest marriage hall in town ... all steps and mantras chanted out to perfection ... tons of food (half of which is wasted) ... and an empty pocket afterwards. Ceremony and celebration shud be planned .... whts use of celebrating when u gonna pay the loans for ur marriage for the nxt 5 yrs? Yup people will remember the wedding blah blah but IMO i don't care wht ppl think if i got married in a hush hush setting. Family n few frnds who really mean somethin to me. No flashy sh1t  "One of these days I gotta get myself organizized" - Robert De Niro in Taxi Driver. |
   
Bunty717
Comedian Username: Bunty717
Post Number: 1478 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 161.185.151.155
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 12:05 pm: |
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Crunk:Financial stability ... full time job ... finding the right partner ... having the right mindset.
mariage ki right partner and right mindset bagunnayi.. kani financial stability and full time job criteria kadu.. avi marriage chesukunnaka kuda sampadinchochu.. |
   
Bhikhu
Side Hero Username: Bhikhu
Post Number: 3446 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 148.129.71.53
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 11:55 am: |
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sagam youth pelli ante compatibility match, hobbies match,views match..akula katta conditions ettukuni life ni complicate seskutunnar |
   
Mental_sachinodu
Comedian Username: Mental_sachinodu
Post Number: 1524 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 63.161.147.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 11:55 am: |
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on a different note, how important is the marriage ceremony to you guys? the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada |
   
Crunk
Junior Artist Username: Crunk
Post Number: 349 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 66.196.163.70
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 11:51 am: |
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Crunk:2. You are
oops typo. "One of these days I gotta get myself organizized" - Robert De Niro in Taxi Driver. |
   
Crunk
Junior Artist Username: Crunk
Post Number: 348 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 66.196.163.70
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 11:48 am: |
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Ramk: ma friend okadu unde vadu.. no marriage.. friends andaru avasaraniki vele vela dollers tisukunnaru.. return ivvamante.. niku penli ledu pillalu leru.. niku dabbu enduku ani face mida annaru
Lols mams I had this experience a cpl times already ... since then I avoided frnds like that.
Ramk:antha ayyi realize ayyi nenu ippudu chesukunta ani vethikithe.. mogallu antha varaku wait chestaru kaani adavallu niku matching vallu undaru.
I don't believe in this statement mama. Matching is not age driven. Don't matter if u are 20, 25, or 40 ... u need to be patient ...do ur analysis and search .... socialize and find 'that' person.
Ramk:kabatti parents cheppinattu 24 or 26 lo chesukovadam best if you are settled.
Are ur views are solely based on arranged marriages ... but I mock that concept? Yes I agree stalling marriage based on ur present hardships is not cool ... kaani you always have to find a comfort zone (more favoring circustances according to your and your partner's views). Itz just prioritizing your life. Marriage is one of the most imp decisions in ur life and you need to put in that xtra effort to find the right person, correct time, circumstances, and do your analysis. Well after all that too things might not work thats a diff story. IMHO u shud not resort to marriage because: 1. Friends take money from u and then use ur bachelorhood as an excuse to return money. 2. Just to show your ex that you too found 'the' person. 3. Parent pressure or as you said "mari old avuthe valladi vallake gurthu undadu.. u will no get same extended love from parents after certain time". This is a joke in my opinion. Why wud your parents ability/inability to love you drive your decision to marry and find a person to 'replace' your parents love --- we are comparing apples to oranges? 4. Sheer boredom and that resulting in you finding some random person as your life partner (after what talking to them for a max of a cpl days in case of arranged marriages) 2. You are "One of these days I gotta get myself organizized" - Robert De Niro in Taxi Driver. |
   
Lovetilludie
Side Hero Username: Lovetilludie
Post Number: 3233 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 117.200.4.81
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 09:40 am: |
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Siloan:nagrockz
NO, Only joshrock'zzz' |
   
Siloan
Side Hero Username: Siloan
Post Number: 8058 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 76.249.28.212
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 09:31 am: |
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Joshrocks:
nagrockz??? idly babai korika meraku... |
   
Ramk
Junior Artist Username: Ramk
Post Number: 422 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 24.34.24.3
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, August 06, 2009 - 09:30 am: |
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crunk babai.. Eppudu unde problems appudu untai.. Career ani oo stage varaku apadam ok kaani.. Edi chesi entha sampdinchina family life lekunte daniki sardakatha undadu.. ma friend okadu unde vadu.. no marriage.. friends andaru avasaraniki vele vela dollers tisukunnaru.. return ivvamante.. niku penli ledu pillalu leru.. niku dabbu enduku ani face mida annaru.. vadiki oo sariki virakthi vachindi.. nenu endku.. evadi gurinchi brathakaali.ani.. life lo okati gurthu unchuko.. parents vallaku sakthi unnantha varaku koduku ani premachestaru.. mari old avuthe valladi vallake gurthu undadu.. u will no get same extended love from parents after certain time. Friends kuda vallu family big avutunte ninnu pattinchukoru.. they move towards families not bachelors.. antha ayyi realize ayyi nenu ippudu chesukunta ani vethikithe.. mogallu antha varaku wait chestaru kaani adavallu niku matching vallu undaru. manchi ammai dorukutundi ani nammakam undadu.. kabatti parents cheppinattu 24 or 26 lo chesukovadam best if you are settled. final ga.. penli ki inko daniki relate cheste.. eppatiki edo oka problem untundi.. in your life eppudu kuda nivu this is right time for marriage ani undadu.. eppatiki edo oka tanta untadi.. Cheste meme cheyyali |
   
One
Hero Username: One
Post Number: 12495 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 193.200.150.82
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:53 pm: |
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Ramk: Eee life sweetness aaa life lo untundi kaani married life is like mamidi tencha entha chickina sweetness daggadu.. bachelor life lo nivu emi enjoy chestavu? ma ante weekend pub ki pothavu anthe ga.. leka freinds tho sodi dobbuthavu phone lo usa life ki best suitable life is married life.. penli chesuko.. oo manchi car tisukoni zuyyi zuyyi ani prathi trip oo honeymoon trip.. married life usa lo enjoy chesinantha nivu indialo cheyyalevu.. india lo sodi na relations.. andaru involve avutharu.. ikkada independance untadi.. better get married before you become old GM car.
ram kaka first time i agree with....100% correct chala baguntundi ...china debalatalu...mali sorry lu.....ani vunati....sharing life..i lvoe it |
   
One
Hero Username: One
Post Number: 12494 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 193.200.150.82
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:51 pm: |
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Joshrocks:pelli time vachesindi guys
time and tide wait for non..do and get it done..... |
   
Ntr_rocks
Side Hero Username: Ntr_rocks
Post Number: 3073 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 68.98.187.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:50 pm: |
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Crunk: I completely agree with u mams .... but still life is not as rosy and breezy as you are portraying it. There are many parameters that ppl (well I do) need to consider before walking the altar. Financial stability ... full time job ... finding the right partner ... having the right mindset. Hurry hurry lo marriage jarigi antha time lo set avuthayi ante kashtam ... it varies from person to person ... some ppl wait for the right time ...some marry and then build from there. People will know when they are ready (of course when not forced by parents). As in my case, I have been in a relationship for an year. I know this is the girl I gonna marry ... she knows that she gonna marry me. We are pretty happy without marriage ... im a consultant .... job ekkadosthado ..eppudu pothado teliyadu ...she a student pretty tough schedule and immersed in her tasks. Circumstances and present situations mixed with a drive should influence your decision to marry. Folks of mine keep askin and forcing me to marry soon ... but I know I am not ready. I need more time.
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Crunk
Junior Artist Username: Crunk
Post Number: 347 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 66.196.163.70
Rating:  Votes: 2 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:43 pm: |
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Ramk:
I completely agree with u mams .... but still life is not as rosy and breezy as you are portraying it. There are many parameters that ppl (well I do) need to consider before walking the altar. Financial stability ... full time job ... finding the right partner ... having the right mindset. Hurry hurry lo marriage jarigi antha time lo set avuthayi ante kashtam ... it varies from person to person ... some ppl wait for the right time ...some marry and then build from there. People will know when they are ready (of course when not forced by parents). As in my case, I have been in a relationship for an year. I know this is the girl I gonna marry ... she knows that she gonna marry me. We are pretty happy without marriage ... im a consultant .... job ekkadosthado ..eppudu pothado teliyadu ...she a student pretty tough schedule and immersed in her tasks. Circumstances and present situations mixed with a drive should influence your decision to marry. Folks of mine keep askin and forcing me to marry soon ... but I know I am not ready. I need more time. "One of these days I gotta get myself organizized" - Robert De Niro in Taxi Driver. |
   
Ramk
Junior Artist Username: Ramk
Post Number: 420 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 24.34.24.3
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:34 pm: |
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30 ki penli chesukunte.. it indicates that you lost almost half life. real ga marriage life enjoy cheyyali ante.. life settle ayithe by 26 you should get married. 26 lo unde marriage feelings 30 lo undavu.. 30 ante .. endo chesukovali ani chesukovadam.. inka oo samastaram datithe pillanu ivvaru ane tension lo vachina Dodge vehicle ni konnattu penli chesukovadame Cheste meme cheyyali |
   
Crunk
Junior Artist Username: Crunk
Post Number: 346 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 66.196.163.70
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:30 pm: |
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Joshrocks:emi artham kavatledu?
Congrats. Why are you having cold feet abt marriage, if u don't mind me asking? Love or arranged? Having the right partner who is sync with you is awesome ... u won't miss ur bachelorhood that much IMHO. Im 25 now will marry when I am 30 lol .... long time 2 go (hi five DB bachelors!!!!!)  "One of these days I gotta get myself organizized" - Robert De Niro in Taxi Driver. |
   
Ramk
Junior Artist Username: Ramk
Post Number: 418 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 24.34.24.3
Rating:  Votes: 10 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:24 pm: |
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Joshrocks.. Eee life sweetness aaa life lo untundi kaani married life is like mamidi tencha entha chickina sweetness daggadu.. bachelor life lo nivu emi enjoy chestavu? ma ante weekend pub ki pothavu anthe ga.. leka freinds tho sodi dobbuthavu phone lo usa life ki best suitable life is married life.. penli chesuko.. oo manchi car tisukoni zuyyi zuyyi ani prathi trip oo honeymoon trip.. married life usa lo enjoy chesinantha nivu indialo cheyyalevu.. india lo sodi na relations.. andaru involve avutharu.. ikkada independance untadi.. better get married before you become old GM car. Cheste meme cheyyali |
   
Ntr_rocks
Side Hero Username: Ntr_rocks
Post Number: 3071 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 68.98.187.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:22 pm: |
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Cylonesubbarao:Ante wives general ga ala kummutaaru ani ela decide ayyavu ani? Neeku marriage ayyinda?
sarigga 25 years kuda leni pasi godduni...nannu ogeyi annai General kada adi marr ayaka....mee lanti annailu and uncles ee seppali mari |
   
Cylonesubbarao
Hero Username: Cylonesubbarao
Post Number: 11170 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 72.90.253.159
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:21 pm: |
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Ntr_rocks:
Ante wives general ga ala kummutaaru ani ela decide ayyavu ani? Neeku marriage ayyinda? You must be the change you wish to see in the world
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Ntr_rocks
Side Hero Username: Ntr_rocks
Post Number: 3070 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 68.98.187.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:19 pm: |
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Cylonesubbarao:
endi aa supuki meaning.. |
   
Cylonesubbarao
Hero Username: Cylonesubbarao
Post Number: 11163 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 72.90.253.159
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:09 pm: |
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Ntr_rocks:baaga kumminchukovali ani vunattu vundi kada...wife to ela
 You must be the change you wish to see in the world
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Ntr_rocks
Side Hero Username: Ntr_rocks
Post Number: 3069 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 68.98.187.51
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 10:01 pm: |
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em annai....nee bachelor life lo njoyment leda...pelli antunnav.... baaga kumminchukovali ani vunattu vundi kada...wife to ela |
   
Joshrocks
Junior Artist Username: Joshrocks
Post Number: 2 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 207.234.209.125
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, August 05, 2009 - 09:59 pm: |
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pelli time vachesindi guys kani pelli chesukovalani ledu ippude emi artham kavatledu? |