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Jalsa
Side Hero Username: Jalsa
Post Number: 4494 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.53.78.142
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 11:57 am: |
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//I guess my parents gen enjoyed freedom in homeland.... stresss free jobs....// idhendhi malli? stress-free emundhi baabu? My mom used to work in a insulating materials manufacturing company. Total industrial area adhi. She used to get frequent headache 'cuz of the sounds, polluted water, allergies etc. I cannot imagine myself working in that co. Every generation has their own challenges. Like you said, life was tough in british rule for our grand parents. Our parents had to walk miles to get to their schools. "Aakali Rajyam" lo choopinchanattu, unemployment was a problem back then also. Mana generation ki bikes/tvs/cars etc ani vachaayi. Competition perigindhi, but at the same time, manaki reach lo unde resources kooda perigaayi, alagey opportunities (sports, media, etc) Mana next generation ki inka lots of opportunities untai anukuntunna. I've made a choice to move to US. I am happy to face the issues with my choice too. Sure, there are times when I think of my homeland, but when the time comes I will move. |
   
Iamim
Comedian Username: Iamim
Post Number: 1987 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 118.94.229.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 11:53 am: |
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quote:Question is what do you want and why ? :-)
If the question is just between the 3 generations.. I want to live today... |
   
Havingfun
Junior Artist Username: Havingfun
Post Number: 61 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 194.36.240.11
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 11:29 am: |
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my grand parents gen were with the motto of "struggle for existence" in the home country... because of british.... and I am also struggling for existence away from the home country... and that tooo british.... I guess my parents gen enjoyed freedom in homeland.... stresss free jobs.... |
   
Anand_n
Side Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4331 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 11:17 am: |
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Iamim:
Question is what do you want and why ?  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
   
Iamim
Comedian Username: Iamim
Post Number: 1983 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 118.94.229.64
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Thursday, June 04, 2009 - 11:14 am: |
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Depends on so many things.. your gender.. your caste.. your religion.. your nationality.. SCs.. STs.. BCs.. want to like today only.. FCs want to live 3000 years ago.. Muslims want to live 500 years ago.. US blacks want to live today only.. European whites want to live hundred years ago.. |
   
Anand_n
Side Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4321 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 68.206.110.236
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 08:55 pm: |
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Desparado:are you for real??? you sound more like Robert scullar's books
I have not read Robert Scullar - so I do not know what you are talking about But yes I am for real - very much so
Disc:kani ee srtage ki rava taniki entha struggle ayyaru.....avi ani peda struggles ani nenu anukonu.....aa time lo mental ga struggle ayyevaru kadu...
See that's the thing - kashta padi chadavatam kani , work cheyyatam kani eppudu struggle anipinchaledu - not even when I was working towards those goals...Probably the reason is I never felt I "had " to do something - I always had a choice ...and when the decision is mine , the consequences are mine too - if something does not work out , I spend my energy fixing and correcting my course rather than expend it moping " I have a hard life" Monna pplsuck perfect ga chepparu evariko - if you think your life sucks , give me all the money you have - if you are busy finding means to survive you will not have time to mourn your quality of life ani... Health undi, comfortable life lead chese income undi , manchi families undi inka rojuki padi sarlu life sucks / we are struggling so hard anukune vallani chuste konchem ascharyam ga untundi naaku  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
   
Feelgud
Junior Artist Username: Feelgud
Post Number: 17 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 24.183.180.146
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:43 pm: |
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Telugu_times:
hmm ...indiana vallu antha relax ga vuntara ..
 _Old id Trans_  |
   
Telugu_times
Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 13679 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 71.156.92.132
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:40 pm: |
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Feelgud:indiana ki grandparents ki relation yenti ???
I was referring to Laid back attitude KCR 2024 |
   
Feelgud
Junior Artist Username: Feelgud
Post Number: 16 Registered: 06-2009 Posted From: 24.183.180.146
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:37 pm: |
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Telugu_times:me 2. That is why, settled in Indiana
TT, indian ki grandparents ki relation yenti ???
 _Old id Trans_  |
   
Simhadri
Side Hero Username: Simhadri
Post Number: 2369 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 74.232.109.254
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:37 pm: |
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Desparado:as far as i'm concernd given my laid back attitude i wud prefer grand parents life ..... me opinions ettandi
grand parents kadu kaani...Rajula kalam lo king ga puttalsindi ane korika undi.. Ntr_Fan - pandu Simhadri - Laddu |
   
Telugu_times
Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 13677 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 71.156.92.132
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:33 pm: |
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Mallik:Financial valla mental stress undadaa baba gaaru..
emo mallik bedhar? Nen MS jesay tappudu, more happier than now anukuntunna  KCR 2024 |
   
Mallik
Side Hero Username: Mallik
Post Number: 5638 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:31 pm: |
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Dics: Hard working ni neeki struggle anukuntunnai.. When u dont have necessities, and u cope up with that and achieve, adi struggle anukuntaa.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Disc
Junior Artist Username: Disc
Post Number: 326 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 66.45.237.210
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:25 pm: |
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Anand_n:I work 50-60 hour weeks, take care of kids and home and find time to volunteer significant amounts of time. But no, I don't think I am struggling:-) I made all those choices knowing what was entailed - and I am living the life I chose to live ...If I do not like it I will change it - having that freedom is a blessing and I thank my Mother Goddess everyday for what I have...struggle is when you have to do something which you do not like out of necessity ...I enjoy all my work so its not a struggle for me
baga cheparu ..last week oka thread lo meru cheparu..mee father still using bus ani.....adi meru struggle anukovachu....@the same time if u ask ur fahter...valaku same antaru...60hrs per day work chesthunavu..chala struggle avuthunavu ani.......ee time ki vunda valasina struggles avi vuntayi....meru ee rojuna chepu thunaru .....i can stop doing this ani.....kani ee srtage ki rava taniki entha struggle ayyaru.....avi ani peda struggles ani nenu anukonu.....aa time lo mental ga struggle ayyevaru kadu...adi chala important.. chiru ni...nilabetti gochi lagesaaru |
   
Desparado
Junior Artist Username: Desparado
Post Number: 85 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 67.76.222.224
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:18 pm: |
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Desparado:are you for real??? you sound more like Robert scullar's books
protagonist of Robert scullar's books |
   
Desparado
Junior Artist Username: Desparado
Post Number: 84 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 67.76.222.224
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:16 pm: |
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Anand_n:
are you for real??? you sound more like Robert scullar's books |
   
Anand_n
Side Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4320 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:07 pm: |
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Telugu_times:which are more stressfull.
Stress is self inflicted  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
   
Anand_n
Side Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4319 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:06 pm: |
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Disc:do u think we are not struggling now......if u think its struggling....we have to struggle
I work 50-60 hour weeks, take care of kids and home and find time to volunteer significant amounts of time. But no, I don't think I am struggling I made all those choices knowing what was entailed - and I am living the life I chose to live ...If I do not like it I will change it - having that freedom is a blessing and I thank my Mother Goddess everyday for what I have...struggle is when you have to do something which you do not like out of necessity ...I enjoy all my work so its not a struggle for me  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
   
Mallik
Side Hero Username: Mallik
Post Number: 5633 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:04 pm: |
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Financial valla mental stress undadaa baba gaaru.. Maa thatha fultoo sokul padetodu anta.. nmaa nayana kooda fultoo soku.. naake aa sokulu levu.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Telugu_times
Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 13674 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 71.156.92.132
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 07:02 pm: |
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aaa rojullo, enni kastaalu paddaaa, mostly physical or financial But in modern times, most of the kastaalu are mental, which are more stressfull. KCR 2024 |
   
Anand_n
Side Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4318 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:59 pm: |
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Disc:plz can u explain what is struggled mean.....do u think we are not struggling now......
For my parents, it was not having the money to take a bus to work or buy a meal, relying on scholarships for fees and meals - my struggle does not even merit the word.. so I do not indulge in self-pity about my so-called "struggles"  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
   
Desparado
Junior Artist Username: Desparado
Post Number: 83 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 67.76.222.224
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:52 pm: |
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Anand_n:
I might not have used the right words, but I guess I could convey my thoughts...agreed that attitude makes all the difference..but 3 generations had different scenarios and different kinda opportunities..and on a lighter note appudappudu i enjoy thinking like a looser
Disc:
Telugu_times: Disc:
} naakithe voorlo rendu moodu chinnillu pettukuni meesam melesthu racha banda yevvaralu cheyyatam bahu sarada |
   
Mallik
Side Hero Username: Mallik
Post Number: 5632 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 162.116.29.69
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:39 pm: |
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Disc:plz can u explain what is struggled mean.....do u think we are not struggling now......if u think its struggling....we have to struggle
 In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Telugu_times
Hero Username: Telugu_times
Post Number: 13673 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 71.156.92.132
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:35 pm: |
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Desparado:as far as i'm concernd given my laid back attitude i wud prefer grand parents life .....
me 2. That is why, settled in Indiana  KCR 2024 |
   
Disc
Junior Artist Username: Disc
Post Number: 320 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 66.45.237.210
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:35 pm: |
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Anand_n:my parents struggled a lot
plz can u explain what is struggled mean.....do u think we are not struggling now......if u think its struggling....we have to struggle chiru ni...nilabetti gochi lagesaaru |
   
Disc
Junior Artist Username: Disc
Post Number: 319 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 66.45.237.210
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:33 pm: |
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Desparado:s far as i'm concernd given my laid back attitude i wud prefer grand parents life ....
mee too chiru ni...nilabetti gochi lagesaaru |
   
Anand_n
Side Hero Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 4316 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 167.24.104.150
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:27 pm: |
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Desparado:
I don't know if you can compare - I think it is the attitude that decides whether they find the life good or bad - my parents struggled a lot - but I have never seen/heard them say they suffered- If I ask them, they always have the same answer life has been very good I have the same answer - Life is good I have no complaints - yes I have materially more that what they did - but does that make my "bliss" any different from their "bliss" ? That is a philosophical question So maybe your question should be worded differently cos bliss is not measurable  aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale |
   
Desparado
Junior Artist Username: Desparado
Post Number: 82 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 67.76.222.224
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:19 pm: |
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Mvssr75:Our Parents Gen - are the most sufferers. Yet they have given us the Best of All, what they can do. These people suffered a lot between GP Gen and Our Gen in many ways (Transition perios). But Good to see Our Gen Showing them the flavours of Materialistic comforts by showing them the world atleast in thier old age.
100% agree with you |
   
Mvssr75
Junior Artist Username: Mvssr75
Post Number: 684 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 12.10.219.168
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:17 pm: |
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Our Parents Gen - are the most sufferers. Yet they have given us the Best of All, what they can do. These people suffered a lot between GP Gen and Our Gen in many ways (Transition perios). But Good to see Our Gen Showing them the flavours of Materialistic comforts by showing them the world atleast in thier old age. |
   
Desparado
Junior Artist Username: Desparado
Post Number: 81 Registered: 02-2009 Posted From: 67.76.222.224
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Wednesday, June 03, 2009 - 06:12 pm: |
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1)mana grandparents...........mostly dependent on agriculture advantage:: they dint have much competition disadvantage:: they did not enjoy the so called materialistic luxuries (the products of technological revolution) 2)mana parents ....... kula vrutthu la nunchi batiki vacharu advantage:: government jobs or jobs for life.... stable life disadvantage:: lot of sacrifices for kids mostly led hand to mouth life.. 3) manamu.................foreign countries explore cheythunnamu ....Advantages:: globaliisation and technological advancements made life easy disadv:: fierceful competition and insecurity... as far as i'm concernd given my laid back attitude i wud prefer grand parents life ..... me opinions ettandi |