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     Tilak Hero Username: Tilak Post Number: 15797 Registered: 02-2012 Posted From: 14.99.254.193 Rating: |
actually saying .. love you, the first time .. may be very easy .. even without much thought! a better question would be to ask .. how regularly do you tell your spouse (such) feelings aloud .. "Congress Mukt Bharat" - www.narendramodi.in | ||
| Bongaram Side Hero Username: Bongaram Post Number: 2238 Registered: 04-2013 Posted From: 103.245.47.20 Rating: N/A |
office spouse concept baaga perigipotundi.. India lo kooda rare ga aina kooda idi kanipistundi. esp. BPO employees lo.. some times, idi professional understanding varaku restrict avutundi.. konni sarlu bumchikbum New_User: Koththa director tho cheyyali ante, mundu vallani observe cheyyali. Ala cheyyadaniki, Mahesh ki time undadu. Ads lo full busy, actual ga movies, second priority. (Post Number: 24437) | ||
| Diviseema Hero Username: Diviseema Post Number: 14988 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 203.200.27.189 Rating: N/A |
50 % on 1st night. 49% after a while. 1% between pellichoopul and pelli. love marriage 20% on 1st meet. 20% after 1st meet and before 2nd meet(through phone) 20% after few meets. 20% before marriage 20% before beak up. T DBing ki hanikaram. Dooram ga vundali | ||
| Meghan Junior Artist Username: Meghan Post Number: 352 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 76.121.188.124 Rating: N/A |
Evarni hurt cheddamani kaadu... I heard some Indian examples in my past location. Wives are not working though, First and Last rule of DB ing.... Memu chesthe kapuram,,,,,Meeru chesthe vyabhicharam | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2314 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: |
I dont mean to put a doom and gloom kind of outlook. my comment was in jest and didnt intend to worry the public. "Chance dorikite morals choodaru ani prove chestunnava?" If only it were so easy, a momentary weakness can light a fire.The infidelity-workplace link is not to be taken lightly, it is wrong but still people fall into that trap because of momentary weakness and it is easier to fall into that trap these days. Not all humans are good at self-policing. where is watch by parents or by community when in the US, and you are in office 45 hrs a week, also very stressed because you are trying to make it without a support system. what is inappropriate in what Iam saying? I expressed a risk, it is very real and it is supported by increased number of divorces in which work place infidelity is a factor.This is very valuable for desi uncles. Women most of the time can get backups easily because they are chased after. Not easy for desi uncle to recover if wife gets carried away, especially if he relied on the arranged marriage system because he has no dating skills. There is a big change in the balance of power these days in favor of desi women. Traditionally parents would tell women on how to keep their man for straying, things have changed, a similar kind of talk is needed for men too. What if you have a wife who is a little nutty? Take extra care, dont take things for granted. Infidelity can really burn a marriage,hard to reconcile after that, so it is a risk that must be mitigated by being very aware of how affairs take place. Who reads all this stuff anyways? I wouldn't have read it unless for seeing it in known ones. Besides, makings a compelling discussion! | ||
| Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 10638 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.188.111.221 Rating: N/A |
abbe... atta emi ledu. Jawmetri tho 2nd interaction. Rendu sarlu rendu examples choopinchi janalanu generalize chestunnadu. Fun kosam oka vishayam septa. CA lo unde iddharu freinds ilanti edava panulu chesaru ani vinna. Can I generalize all CA guys cheat? Atla undhi yevvaram... | ||
| Saint Hero Username: Saint Post Number: 16354 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 68.13.100.193 Rating: N/A |
Indians in USA lo its very uncommon....vunte ginte max 10% vuntaremo....(after marriage) having said that...I have to tell one example .. avi US kothaga vachina rojulu...walmart lo pani cheshtunna rojulu....oka couple roju kanipistha vundevallu...abbayi pani ipoyaka ammayi kosam waiting...ammai pani ipothe abbayi kosam waiting annattu...ila sagi potha vundaga aa kurroditho parichayam ayyindi...ala ala sagipothundaga ..oka roju maa frens tho matladuthunnappduu eeyana wife ee department ani adiga....(luckily ayana akkada ledu) maa vallu aadiki pelli kaledu...aa ammayi just fren...aame husband vere ekkadoo chesthadu annaru...ademiti valla body language adola vundi ante...oka verri navvu navvaru...almost living together annattu....okallu apt lo paina...okallu kinda.... second example: same to same place...ee sairki manaki full knowledge vachesindi eetillo | ||
| Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 10637 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.188.111.221 Rating: N/A |
in this fictional story.... the colleague could be married guy. Does it make his wife dumb? | ||
| Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 45683 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 69.174.58.180 Rating: N/A |
>> In these days of working couples, calendar scheduled I love yous must be given, otherwise mrs. Might get weak for colleague who is knocking at the door with I love yous... highly fictional and exaggeration..unless husband is a dumber who doesnt value his wife, this is highly impossible. Who is this DB member? nenu anumanapu mogudu laaga jrNTR seelanni sankinchina maata nijam BUT mugguru karudugattina only balayya fans (who watched badshah tho) matladaka they certified "maakemi anipinchaledhu" | ||
| Man_of_masses Hero Username: Man_of_masses Post Number: 13914 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.88.182.198 Rating: N/A |
mee iddariki paatha kakchalemaina unnayaa  http://i42.tinypic.com/54g1g2.png | ||
| Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 10635 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.188.111.221 Rating: N/A |
Clever. You want relate infedility to working couples... no wonder the search results agree with you. //"Opportunity changes the equation" Chance dorikite morals choodaru ani prove chestunnava? There are still sane people in this world who value their marriage. Anyways, you are entitled to have your opinion. | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2313 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: N/A |
Unless I selectively expand, nothing will change. Please open your eyes. Infidelity need not be only for insecure people, it can also happen when needs are not met."Opportunity changes the equation". I didn't selectively paste the following text. First five google results for workplace infidelity. Take it on your own volition. http://www.infidelityassistance.com/work_office_infidelity.p hp According to all the latest statistics, the workplace has become the #1 place for married people who engage in infidelity to meet the other person. As women make advances everywhere in society, the old cliché about the boss and the young secretary carrying on an affair has been overshadowed by an increase in the number of men and women who work together as equals becoming romantically involved. The old separation of the sexes has passed and old boundaries to interaction have been replaced by no boundaries. Hearing about the âguys from workâ or the âgirls at the officeâ has transformed in the âgang at workâ. As we all know, people begin to get to know one another well when working together. The coed workplace offers lots of interaction, team work, travel, projects and longer work hours, all of which lead to members of the opposite sex who share many common attributes growing close. Lets face it, they share the same boss, same work stresses, same lunch hour, etc. The unavoidable closeness, commonalities in life and the amount of time together can lead to friendship. They end up spending a great deal of time, on occasion more time than they spend at home, with this new âfriendâ so the friendship can become very deep. These friendships can quickly lead to strong emotional attachments. Strong emotional attachments with the opposite sex can often lead to romance. The most noticeable theme is that they work together, grow to understand one another and ârelateâ better to this co-worker than they do to their spouse. At home they hear about bills, problems, chores, etc. The co-worker friend offers someone who relates to talk with, someone who empathizes with them and does not bring any of the stress that home often has, making them all the more attractive. http://www.cbn.com/family/marriage/anderson_infidelitywarnin gs.aspx My affair began at work, so Iâm an expert on workplace temptation. Once, the most common type of office infidelity was between male bosses and females who were lower-ranking employees, but thatâs changed in the last ten years. With more and more women working, the most common office affair is between coworkers. The man I had my affair with (Jake) was not my boss; we were both sales repsâequals. My relationship with Jake started innocently. I noticed that we laughed at the same things, and he noticed that we liked similar music, so we started to sit together at lunch. We were just friends ... until we werenât. I remember the first time we went out of the friendship zone and into the danger zone. We were sitting next to each other at a sales meeting when his leg brushed up against mine. I felt a spark at the contact point and was a bit disappointed when he pulled away. A few minutes later, he shifted slightly in his chair and his leg, from knee to thigh, pressed gently against mine. http://www.shirleyglass.com/dallas.htm Dangerous liaisons: Work infidelities It happens like this: You're working long hours on a project. The co-worker you're teamed up with is funny, smart and, well, yes, attractive. But you're happily married with children, and straying is morally wrong and far from your thoughts. Or is it? Instead of eating dinner at home, you end up grabbing a quick bite with your colleague. Instead of confiding to your wife your deepest fear about work, you talk to your co-worker. Then one day you tell her that you and your wife are drifting apart. With work and tending to the children, you just don't talk anymore. Your colleague is a good listener. And she knows how you feel. She wishes her husband could be more open like you. It's late. Your hands touch, and there is a spark. It might take days, weeks or even months, but you slide from being "just" friends to becoming lovers. http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/sex_and_intimacy/ma naging_temptation/the_new_workplace_romance.aspx How budding workplace relationships are causing a "crisis of infidelity" Today's workplace has become the No. 1 spot for married individuals to meet affair partners. More men and women are breaking their marriage vows by engaging in office friendships that slowly become romantic relationships â relationships that would have been socially impossible just 20 years ago. As the boundaries that once separated the sexes crumble, so do the boundaries that protect marriage. | ||
| Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 10634 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.188.111.221 Rating: N/A |
please expand your circle.... there is bigger world out there. What you said applies to insecure people, working or otherwise. | ||
| Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 10633 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.188.111.221 Rating: N/A |
technically she is not spouse until wedding | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2312 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: N/A |
1st reply is the man, migatha public ki siggu eppudu ani cheppataniki. | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2311 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: N/A |
Don't be so sensitive  , it was in jest but still, nothing fictional about it | ||
| Man_of_masses Hero Username: Man_of_masses Post Number: 13913 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.88.182.198 Rating: N/A |
Nee headdu annai nee headdu love untada undadaa ani kaadu kochen epudu LOVE U ani sepparu ani http://i42.tinypic.com/54g1g2.png | ||
| Rowdy Megastar Username: Rowdy Post Number: 25420 Registered: 01-2010 Posted From: 166.147.121.175 Rating: N/A |
Pelli aite love undada ... Nenu khandistunna | ||
| Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 10632 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 24.188.111.221 Rating: |
Is this also based on your vast experience and circle of friends? Then it must be true. /s | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2310 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: N/A |
lol @ mom In these days of working couples, calendar scheduled I love yous must be given, otherwise mrs. Might get weak for colleague who is knocking at the door with I love yous... | ||
| Ntr_rocks Moderator Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 53392 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: N/A |
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| Man_of_masses Hero Username: Man_of_masses Post Number: 13912 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.88.182.198 Rating: |
Nee kosam oka sinna jokuu mikeuu There was a group of women gathered at a seminar on how to live in a loving relationship with your husband. The women were asked, âHow many of you love your husbands?â All the women raised their hands. Then they were asked, âWhen was the last time you told your husband you loved him?â Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didnât remember. The women were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text to their respective husband: I love you, sweetheart. Then the women were told to exchange phones and read the responding text messages. Here are some of the replies: 1. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick? 2. What now? Did you crash the car again? 3. I donât understand what you mean? 4. What did you do now? I wonât forgive you this time!!! 5. ?!? 6. Donât beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need? 7. Am I dreaming? ??????? 8. If you donât tell me who this message is actually for, you will die todayâ¦!!! 9. I asked you not to drink anymore.! Last one is ultimate 10. Who is this?? .. http://i42.tinypic.com/54g1g2.png | ||
| Man_of_masses Hero Username: Man_of_masses Post Number: 13910 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.88.182.198 Rating: N/A |
ala ani love u anakapoina.. gifts iyyalsinde lekapote ... samarameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee annattu  http://i42.tinypic.com/54g1g2.png | ||
| Ntr_rocks Moderator Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 53390 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: N/A |
pelli ayyaka luv u enduku... Mamulugane pelli aithe money bokka, malli luv u septe, edoka gift adugutaaru how romantic anukuntu...ki ki ki Pelli ayyaka dula vunna vallu tappite evaru chepparu... | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2309 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: N/A |
Kuriositi D... During Phone/Personal Dates before marriage? A few weeks into marriage? A few months into marriage? or was it "I never told my spouse I love her/him, I don't believe in such statements" | ||
| Man_of_masses Hero Username: Man_of_masses Post Number: 13909 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.88.182.198 Rating: N/A |
only kissie icon, no1 icon tappite daniki kuda eppudoo seppukole http://i42.tinypic.com/54g1g2.png | ||
| Ntr_rocks Moderator Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 53388 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: N/A |
MOM annai.. Geetha madhuri photo ki enni sarlu cheppav luv u ani | ||
| Man_of_masses Hero Username: Man_of_masses Post Number: 13908 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 173.88.182.198 Rating: N/A |
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| Ntr_rocks Moderator Username: Ntr_rocks Post Number: 53387 Registered: 04-2009 Rating: N/A |
Pelli ayyaka love u enduku seppatam...  | ||
| Megastar Username: Twitter Post Number: 27561 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 69.118.124.210 Rating: N/A |
looks time lo nachuthe cheppeyocchu ..pebbi style love you | ||
| Keko_keka Comedian Username: Keko_keka Post Number: 1763 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 162.119.64.110 Rating: N/A |
let them discuss yaar .. interesting ga vundhi question | ||
| Senapathy Moderator Username: Senapathy Post Number: 15664 Registered: 01-2009 Rating: N/A |
Why such Kolaveri D? I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza | ||
| Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 45682 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 69.174.58.188 Rating: N/A |
pelli choopullo Who is this DB member? nenu anumanapu mogudu laaga jrNTR seelanni sankinchina maata nijam BUT mugguru karudugattina only balayya fans (who watched badshah tho) matladaka they certified "maakemi anipinchaledhu" | ||
| Jawmetri Side Hero Username: Jawmetri Post Number: 2308 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 71.204.164.76 Rating: N/A |
When did you first tell your spouse you love her/him. |
