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     Zuri Junior Artist Username: Zuri Post Number: 53 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 173.36.196.8 Rating: N/A |
esp if they are good friends
It might help if you broach the topic...in all possibility they might not even recall anything about those episodes  | ||
| Rasputin Hero Username: Rasputin Post Number: 17296 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.146.101.71 Rating: N/A |
Mental bedar, vine opika untey cheppu, oka weekend antha burra thintaa :P 01/06/2012 - 169.4;05/04/2012 - 175.8; 8/1/2012 - 179 | ||
| Zulu Hero Username: Zulu Post Number: 15912 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 199.168.243.252 Rating: N/A |
intha pedha post nenu heppu vesana anukunna..dang | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9820 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
like i said im not sure if its guilt, may be a sense of failed ego that i couldnt make a difference  , or may be its because i gave it significant importance
while i believe that environment has significant effect, i have also seen people coming from similar situations or same home take things differently. no hard n fast rule there. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Zuri Junior Artist Username: Zuri Post Number: 51 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 173.36.196.8 Rating: N/A |
what are you guilty about...that you couldn't do enough for your friends? Do you think it would have helped? As much as we like to believe that time will heal everything, I don't think that is true. The wounds are the same and since we have been around the block so many times, some learn to cope better while others move into a self-pity/self-destructive negative zone. I also think it depends a littel bit on the environment you grew up in, the way you have seen parents/friend/people around you cope to challenges inadvertently affects the way you cope, but it is possible to unlearn . | ||
| Pointblank Side Hero Username: Pointblank Post Number: 3338 Registered: 05-2012 Posted From: 198.241.217.15 Rating: N/A |
I used to be like a confession box types where all my frenses used to come and share the sorrows etc (nothing will go out of me)... and over period of time started losing trust in people... lolll... I really need some positive energy... Innocence is Bliss ani uttiga analedu... PK | PK | PK | Charan | Mahesh | JP | A R Rehman | Jessie | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9732 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 98.194.159.57 Rating: N/A |
Nenu add cheskunnaka telusthayi... ...let me do that | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9816 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
yes, correst yee... nenu linkedin lo ippudu ippude konchem acvitity penchaali ani planning. mee details ela thelusthadhi naaki? the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Gatti_gunde Hero Username: Gatti_gunde Post Number: 14062 Registered: 02-2010 Posted From: 70.114.148.187 Rating: N/A |
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| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9731 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 98.194.159.57 Rating: N/A |
fine fine...how are you? btw, nee first name naak telsu, but does your last name starts with V and you have a middle name starting with S? endukante naa linkedin lo frequent gaa vasthuntundi ee peru 'people you may know' ani...endukosthundo telvadi kaani...birmingham area nunchi... ..just want to confirm before adding ani anthe | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9815 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
bhayya, how are you doing!!? the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Chiru_fan Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 17361 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 71.166.52.164 Rating: N/A |
All is well bhayya....just took a break from DB. I hope all is well from your side! its good to see your post bhayya! CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9814 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
bhayya nenu expert ni kaadhu ee vishayam lo. just naa experience post sesthaanna. but i have known friends that were negative when kids, obsessive in nature, but they turned out fine later. and i have seen the otherway round as well. ofcourse, this is looking back. i think symptoms do appear, but can we analyze each and every reaction, assuming there is somethig wrong? interestingly, i was reading about Anderson Coopers story somewhere. he was of the opinion that it can show from early ages. His brother suffered from depression issues, from childhood and eventually took hislife. Anderson was deeply disturbed as they were from the same household and he did not of any significant differences on how they were brought up. but one took his own life, while anderson did not. but Anderson adimitted that abit of guilt drove him nuts, and he went through depressive behavior after his brothers death. i cant recollect where i have read this. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9730 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 98.194.159.57 Rating: N/A |
Baagunna bro. How are you? its been a long time. Hope all is well with you | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9729 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 98.194.159.57 Rating: N/A |
Symptoms widely vary. For some people hormones trigger the symptoms. Some children who are very active would suddenly become depressed after reaching adoloscence. Some get them in their middle age. Some are gender related too. And yet some depend on environmental triggers. | ||
| Chiru_fan Hero Username: Chiru_fan Post Number: 17360 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 71.166.52.164 Rating: N/A |
Ishan bhayya....yelaa vunnaru?  CHIRU - SACHIN - FEDERER | ||
| Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 6002 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 24.61.12.115 Rating: N/A |
what about symptoms? when would they present themselves, in general? balupu s/o gelupu | ||
| Ishan Side Hero Username: Ishan Post Number: 9728 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 98.194.159.57 Rating: N/A |
They could definitely have genetic origins. | ||
| Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 6001 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 24.61.12.115 Rating: N/A |
time is not nature. it's ex-nature. balupu s/o gelupu | ||
| Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 6000 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 24.61.12.115 Rating: N/A |
do you think such symptoms would be visible from childhood? negative thinking or depression symptoms? balupu s/o gelupu | ||
| Feldgrau Junior Artist Username: Feldgrau Post Number: 286 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 208.53.147.174 Rating: N/A |
also cure....Time heals everything | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9812 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
cause .. not sure. interesting question. as far as i know, psychological issues can be genetic in nature. aa rakanga choosthe nature has to do something with it anipisthundhi. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 5997 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 24.61.12.115 Rating: N/A |
cause balupu s/o gelupu | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9811 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
cause or cure? the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 5995 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 24.61.12.115 Rating: N/A |
so you think, it is all nurture and nature has nothing to do with it? balupu s/o gelupu | ||
| Feldgrau Junior Artist Username: Feldgrau Post Number: 283 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 208.53.147.174 Rating: N/A |
short-term These things have to come from within..okalu induce chesthe vachevi kadu IMO....rediret cheyatam oka solution...ninna chusina ENGLISH VINGLISH lo climax dialogue...."Thanks for making me feel better about myself" sreedevi to french guy last year I was with a person with so much negative energy...I tried my best....after a week or so, aa depression signs naku antukunnttu anipinchindi | ||
| Thelegend Moderator Username: Thelegend Post Number: 22509 Registered: 04-2008 Rating: N/A |
yes placebo, secret, being confident, positive thinking etc etc ivaannee konchem similar kind ahnukovachha? opposite to the negative thiknig | ||
| Feldgrau Junior Artist Username: Feldgrau Post Number: 282 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 208.53.147.174 Rating: N/A |
+1 | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9807 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
its a fascinating one. khaleja lo director kooda konsem light concept expore sesaad. i think, its a beneficial theory, whether it works or not.
ardham kaaledh bro the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Thelegend Moderator Username: Thelegend Post Number: 22508 Registered: 04-2008 Rating: N/A |
ee madhya konchem "the secret" theory meeda nammakam erpadindi | ||
| Siloan Legend Username: Siloan Post Number: 31273 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 132.174.20.41 Rating: N/A |
deeniki mana AP samakaalena samasya ki emanna linkundha? Jai PARAKALA | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9806 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
 antha vz ga seppalem. have read abit on these, you cant change them easily, you can only provide avenues and see if the seek a path out of it. the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada | ||
| Pulibongaram Side Hero Username: Pulibongaram Post Number: 5283 Registered: 03-2012 Posted From: 162.115.108.101 Rating: N/A |
ok mental | ||
| Zulu Hero Username: Zulu Post Number: 15906 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 199.168.243.252 Rating: N/A |
bottom line enti? Negative thinkers ni avoid cheyyala? akkada kurchuni just vinala? or mee bokkalo negative thinking apadroooo ani cheppala? | ||
| Mental_sachinodu Side Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 9804 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 208.85.128.5 Rating: N/A |
This thread is a product of my mind going back to thoughts based on couple of threads that were posted here. Probably, a sense of guilt that I couldnt do enough, or probably an episodic memory with strong enough intensity that surfaces every so often. I have been involved with a couple of amazing friends, who were pathologically negative during certain periods of their lives. There was this constant feeling of failure in them, even with the most blatantly insignificant issues. My reactions first would be of indifference, probably not understanding the symptoms, and after a few interactions in this state, i would grow more frustrated, and almost yell "Oh Come On!! snap out of it!!!" . At this point, unknowingly I am becoming a contributor and a possible ally to the "Negative" host. After a guilt trip, i would grab a beer or shot of whiskey, It dawns "Its not about me" . So I take the obvious route, the negation to negativity, can only be positivity. I try to be more positive, and try to portray every thing around happening to or with them in a positive light. frustratingly, my feeble positive energy wasnt strong enough. you know the basic physics, equal and opposite amounts of energy is needed. i could never muster that strong positive nature, each and every interaction .Probably because, I myself aint that truly positive, it was an act. and Im sure aint that good an actor. Time past by, then i realized, may be the answer is not being or acting positive, may be i just need to absorb the negative, all i can. I started listening, absorbing every freaking negative emotion they pump out, and try to remain stable and calm. It was like holding on to a drowning guy, in the middle of an ocean. He constantly trying to pull you down, while you are trying to stay afloat, holding on to him. It took abit of time, before Im one among them. finally the alien has successfully bred itself in to me. i had to take a break, took a vacation, back packed across long trails for few days. I recovered, or atleast I felt recovered. went back to them. the routine continued, they have recovered after considerable time. but these episodes still travel with me. I dont know how they are coping with it, we never discuss. may be we should. The main thing, now I know for sure is, its just a feeling, time is bound to heel it, but stay through it. endhuku type or post sesthanaanoo kooda thelvadhi the world of appearances may or may not be real, or both may and may not be real - or may be indescribable; or may be real and indescribable, or unreal and indescribable; or in the end may be read and unreal and indescribable - its all Syadvada |
