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Iamim
Junior Artist Username: Iamim
Post Number: 659 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 210.214.50.107
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, June 30, 2008 - 01:48 pm: |
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quote: I can't help smile at your eagerness to blame everything on the moms :-)Irrespective of which parent pushes them both are responsible - if indeed you are right and the voiceless dads are rotting at home, high time they found their voice - don't you think?
I think Men over estimate the Demurity of Females.. including their own wives and daughters.. that is the root cause...  |
   
Anand_n
Junior Artist Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 354 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 209.183.55.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, June 28, 2008 - 06:13 pm: |
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Iamim, I am good ,how are you ? I can't help smile at your eagerness to blame everything on the moms Irrespective of which parent pushes them both are responsible - if indeed you are right and the voiceless dads are rotting at home, high time they found their voice - don't you think? nenu cheppina case lo push chesi disappointment tattukoleka heart attack vachindi father ke and it is kids of both genders paying the price-not just girls.. aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale ik aise gagan ke tale http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Iamim
Junior Artist Username: Iamim
Post Number: 645 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 210.214.50.38
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, June 28, 2008 - 02:45 pm: |
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quote: Makes you question the sanity of putting kids thru so much pressure at a young age ...
Yaar Anand.. how are you?? This makes me wonder.. who is putting these kids under pressure.. who is pushing these kids into such competitions... Traditionally Indians females used to be on the conservative side while males were liberal.. but in recent times looks like the roles have been reversed.. the way young teenage girls are being pushed into these under the watchful eye of their own moms.. while voiceless dads rot at home with unease... Anyway.. hopefully Renuka will put all these under Child labour sooner than later... |
   
Bicchapathi
Comedian Username: Bicchapathi
Post Number: 1158 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 141.158.20.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, June 28, 2008 - 02:18 pm: |
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Anand_n:
Pillallu ante edo machines prepared to produce at defined level. Asalki manam create chesukunna environment ki bali avutunnaru.. <image src=http://thumbnail.search.aolcdn.com/vsthumb5/tn/8F/81/8F81728EB15BE47A07EB75.jpg></image> |
   
Anand_n
Junior Artist Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 353 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 209.183.55.7
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, June 28, 2008 - 02:15 pm: |
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tragic... remember another episode of another show where a girl dropped out of a show - she said the father of another participant had a heart attack when his daughter lost the prior week and she did not want to risk her father going thru the same Makes you question the sanity of putting kids thru so much pressure at a young age ... aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale ik aise gagan ke tale http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Iamim
Junior Artist Username: Iamim
Post Number: 640 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 210.214.50.38
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, June 28, 2008 - 01:04 pm: |
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Teen paralysed after rebuke on reality show 28 Jun 2008, 0120 hrs IST,TNN KOLKATA: The next time you drag your son or daughter to music or dance competition, remember the face in this photograph. She is Shinjini Sengupta, a 16-year-old class XI student of a reputed Kolkata school, who can now neither speak nor move. She wasn't like this even a month ago. She was a good dancer and acted in tele-serials and had even appeared in a Bengali film. Participating in a dance competition on a Bengali TV channel recently, Shinjini was rebuked by the judges of the show during the shooting on May 19. The teenager never recovered from the shock of being publicly chided. She slipped into depression and then lost her speech and finally even the use of her limbs. Shinjini was flown to Bangalore's NIMHANS on Friday evening. "The doctors here have not been able to diagnose her problem. She can't speak or express herself. An MRI and a CT scan have been done, but we still don't know what she is suffering from," said Sibani Sengupta, Shinjini's mother. Till three days ago, she would write if she needed something. Now she has even stopped that. Psychiatrists admit that Shinjini's case, though an extreme one, is not rare. "Quite often we come across such cases. Depression is one of the factors behind a number of illnesses. Shinjini was biologically vulnerable," said psychiatrist Debashish Roy. On May 19, Shinjini participated in a popular dance contest aired from Monday to Wednesday on a Bengali channel. Shinjini didn't break into tears like some of the other participants after being scolded by the judges. "On returning home, she said she felt like singing loudly. I asked her if she was upset. She just said that she had fought hard to hold back her tears. After that day, she was not her usual self," Sibani said. She almost stopped eating and slept for most part of the day. When awake, she listened to music. "Being our only child we never stopped her from doing what she wanted to do. Education was our first priority. If she could manage to learn dance without hampering her studies we were okay with it. Now, I don't know what we will do. All parents should learn a lesson from us," said D K Sengupta, Shinjini's father. Some days later, Shinjini was at Fun City shooting for a tele-serial. That was the first time her parents realised she was facing a medical problem. "She couldn't say her dialogues. The director was a bit surprised since she hadn't behaved like this ever before. We thought she was deliberately doing this. Then we realised that there was a problem," Sibani said. She managed the shoot that day but that was the last time that she appeared before the camera. Shinjini even refused to watch episodes of the dance contest where she had appeared. "We took her to a psychiatrist. She was given medicines which made her drowsy and there was not much improvement in her condition. Since she had stopped eating, her health deteriorated as well and we had to take her to a nursing home," said her father. On 11 June, she was taken to a nursing home and later shifted to Calcutta Medical Research Institute. After five days at the hospital, the family members decided to take her to Bangalore for treatment. Shinjini was in class VII when she won a prize for dance in school. |
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