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Cylonesubbarao
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Post Number: 5442
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 09:52 pm: | 
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Anand_n:Lopsided or not fact remains that arranged marriages are fixed on these very limited considerations -qualifications, looks, earning capability and financial status - 5 mins interview is hardly time enough to dig deeper into a persons character
Anandji... most important in those days is.... before to this... people always used to look for family name/reputation first and their status in the society. If they are of the same league or above them... then they used to go for the second phase of getting the boy/girl details.
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Ntr_fan
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 09:44 pm: |
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ee tokkalo thed ni inka leputune unnara..ayina pellillu ayipoyinollu ee topic meeda disc cheyatam emi bagoledu.. |
Anand_n
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Post Number: 288
Registered: 02-2008
Posted From: 67.10.130.102
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 09:42 pm: |
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Quantum,
/**My issue (not a grouse) is with people who deem that checking a guy's W2 and making a subsequent decision on the back of that is as lopsided that it can ever get....**/
Lopsided or not fact remains that arranged marriages are fixed on these very limited considerations -qualifications, looks, earning capability and financial status - 5 mins interview is hardly time enough to dig deeper into a persons character or even preferences asking for a W2 is simply a way of ascertaining one of these - ust as most guys would not agree to marry a girl without seeing her or atleast a pic, just trusting her family's claims she looks better than Ms.World .gif)
/**My Q is why shud there be a reservation first up at places like work and higher education???? **/
Agreed - not needed for work and post graduate education
/**Reservation for women is not equivalent to reservation to women who need it. In fact, the segment of women who really need reservation has a direct correlation (positive) with the financial capapcity of the family that she comes from...**/
Absolutely agree with that - the challenge is in being able to implement affirmative action for the deserving and economic status should be a factor...
/**providing reservation sto women has certainly given undue advantage to women coz the rate of creation of jobs is not commensurate to the increment of people vying for them and providing special privileges to these so called fairer sex is creating more downward pressure on segments of the society that are all ready earning less and at the end of the day **/
Not sure how reservation to women is doing that? The number of grads are the same - and so are the jobs - how does it matter if it is men or women vying for them ?
Infact more women grads results in less competition - and this is my bete noir- women who do graduate and do not join the work force wasting that education which someone else could have used better 
/**instances where women feel that some guy is not upto her level are so unconvincingly naive coz her bread and butter has been won at the expense of some one more deserved than her and by virtue of a privilege....**/
Be careful before you generalise- I did not avail reservations and graduated at the top of my class
Coming to the other issue of level - you are all forgetting the social context - look at it objectively ...Indian society has not evolved to a point where it is deemed ok for the wife to be the primary breadwinner.. the day that happens you will see this concept of levels go away. As of now the society is still operating at "Ammayini oka mettu paiki ivvali, kodalani oka mettu kinda nunchi techukovali "
Independence starts with financial independence ...no two ways about it ..you cannot have independence of though when your survival depends on toeing the line
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
ik aise gagan ke tale
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Quantummorphed
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Username: Quantummorphed
Post Number: 92
Registered: 06-2008
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Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 09:05 pm: |
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Anand,
I was replying to ur point by point reply to my post......My issue (not a grouse) is with people who deem that checking a guy's W2 and making a subsequent decision on the back of that is as lopsided that it can ever get....it doesnt even fit into....even psuedo science....it is that retrgrade.......
temporary affirmative action........
Please define what temporary is, in some normative sense...My Q is why shud there be a reservation first up at places like work and higher education????
Reservation for women is not equivalent to reservation to women who need it. In fact, the segment of women who really need reservation has a direct correlation (positive) with the financial capapcity of the family that she comes from...
and what you deem as unrelated are not actually so.....providing reservation sto women has certainly given undue advantage to women coz the rate of creation of jobs is not commensurate to the increment of people vying for them and providing special privileges to these so called fairer sex is creating more downward pressure on segments of the society that are all ready earning less and at the end of the day what one is creating is a society whose levels of meritocracy is lesser than it had been ever before.
instances where women feel that some guy is not upto her level are so unconvincingly naive coz her bread and butter has been won at the expense of some one more deserved than her and by virtue of a privilege.....there are very many women in indian society that equate independence to financial capacity. A typical woman who earns either equal or more than her husband on an average enjoys more privileges in her way up the ladder.
my gripe is that there is this sudden engenderment of this fancy concept called pseudo independence on the back of new found power of earning. I can almost sense this brooding arrogance in today's women(not all) that care a heck abt anyone coz they earn as any one does..........well, you do earn...but how.....U crib for help....at crucial junctures in life.....
prati okkadiki idoka fashion aipindhi...."ma ammai MS chesindhi andi....maaku only.....MS chesi well settled and well earning abbai aithene cheskundata". this directly implies...all I need is money and love will subsequently arise out of it.....since when did women forget that even their admissions are reserved??????and a guys inability to do a MS or come to so called US of A is in no way refelctive of his inner capability........these are facts that exist out there......
I have seen these sort of dumb headed arrogant women through grad school.feeling ashamed to sit in the same class with these people who come here at half my credentials and with the knowledge that so many of my friends actually cant make it coz they are not "helped" to be there.......and my opinions are strongly entrenched in my personal encounters..and unfortunately most of the people here concur with me......... |
Anand_n
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Username: Anand_n
Post Number: 287
Registered: 02-2008
Posted From: 67.10.130.102
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 08:03 pm: |
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Quantum,
I really had trouble following what you were trying to say
If your grouse is against reservations - I already answered why I think a temporary affirmative action is worth pursuing...I do see the problem in the Indian scenario that these things are not removed when the need is gone ...
And I gave the DB case as an example That the example is the sole basis of my premise or position is your assumption
The divorce example I gave was about a problem marriage to drive home the point of how much independence of thought is deemed appropriate - why did you apply it to the one related to the income ?
And you forget half of the males too get their privileges on caste based reservation
/**I dont have issues with my wife earning more than me....thats very Ok with me...but with a semblence of humility that you are there at that moment at the expense of some one more deserving and talented than you....... **/
That's good to know...So if the woman is not there on reservation and has a better rank than the guy she has a right to act on "borrowed uppity to dominate " and then the guy should have the humility right?
/**if you argue on the back of an argument promoting lack of opportunity...( which is idealistic...coz there is no def of lack of opportunity....I ur own tone he/she who seizes the opp is the deserved winner), then be prepared to accept of responsibility of being platonic in terms of accepting a male on the back of his so called heart and character and not on some abstract def of success....( sorry wildly cliched def of success)**/
Did not understand what you were trying to say.
There are 2 diff discs here - the validity of asking for W-2 and the reservations... both are totally unrelated
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
ik aise gagan ke tale
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Zulu
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Post Number: 904
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 07:06 pm: |
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Mclovin:Sichhhi.. Kallis ki ladies W2 adiginaa, Gold adiginaa gittadu..
Kandukoori garu..antha kshemame kada.
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Basky_indya
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 06:07 pm: |
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Mclovin:
jara pakka thread loki raa, telangana-tdp party anta
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Mclovin
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 06:06 pm: |
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Basky: wal kurrodu edo dhandha cheskuntudu.. ippudu vaanni divaalaa em teestam.. ponee ani odileshna..
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Basky_indya
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Mclovin:
walmart meedha CASE entha varaku vachindi
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Mclovin
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 06:04 pm: |
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Sichhhi.. Kallis ki ladies W2 adiginaa, Gold adiginaa gittadu..
In this db, there's always someone watching you!! |
Basky_indya
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 05:56 pm: |
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VAMMO Light hearted thread OT w2 aduguthunnaru ani post sesthe,
matter intha serious disccusions aipothunnai.. vammmo
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Quantummorphed
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Anand_n:It is very easy to pass judgemental statements :-)
What makes u feel that u are unbiased???????????? |
Quantummorphed
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I never understood this whole freaking definition of fairer sex??????In what.....??????????????
Even at an US university (for heavens sake).....When some one applies for an admit..if its a woman...their credentials are waived....upto 70%.....this includes Columbia....an ivy league player. My advisor told me that if a males GRE is 2200 and a female's 1900, they both stand the same chance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At the end of the day.....what is the judgement that is passed....inspite of she being a woman, she acheived so and so............oh really.........at the back of 300 point concession!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So when was the last time a female won a noble in hard sciences.....?????? |
Quantummorphed
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Anand_n:
Really....I dont see any argument from ur end but for a retort...that wouldnt help right???/
"Even in these modern days there are highly educated fathers who refuse to let their daughters learn things they would let their sons do .. ikkade ide db lo sangeetam neripinchataniki bhayapade father post chusi emanalo teliyaledu :-)May be that's why reservations are needed so the girls get an equal opportunity to compete :-)"
Do u actually intend argue on the back of one data point for your statement and that too in this small microcosm called a DB?????? Thats disturbing.
Women enrollment in engineering/Scinences has risen by leaps and bounds from 1990. All you need to do is to go a engineering college and have a look. A woman with 15000 sits along side with a boy who sweats his way through to a 2000. And some one with a 10,000 has to go find some place more inferior and you speak of woman being suppressed????????????? When some one grants a privilege , you dont deem that you have won it. do u???
in 1999 when I gave JEE, there were 2 females total in Aerospace in the whole of IITM...one freaking SC and the other in general category. Today there are still 6 and 3 of them SC's....the oC number never rose to more than 3....and they are now talking abt reserving the most prestigious dream of many in our nation to women who cant qualify? for what....??? For them to judge men on the back W2...as if they earned everything for real in life.....
and you are talking abt male insecurity....goodness....the ones who seek reservation by definition are insecure....thats actually a defacto....I dont have issues with my wife earning more than me....thats very Ok with me...but with a semblence of humility that you are there at that moment at the expense of some one more deserving and talented than you.......
"he same girl when she chooses a divorce over living dependently in a problem marriage is not applauded for her independence but castigated for being headstrong- isn't that right "
Taking a divorce out of a troublesome relationship is legitimate...but seeking a divorce coz he doesnt earn more......really sums it up.....She came into the relationship first up for the financial security.....and I saw you speak of appriopriateness of such a thought....if you argue on the back of an argument promoting lack of opportunity...( which is idealistic...coz there is no def of lack of opportunity....I ur own tone he/she who seizes the opp is the deserved winner), then be prepared to accept of responsibility of being platonic in terms of accepting a male on the back of his so called heart and character and not on some abstract def of success....( sorry wildly cliched def of success) |
Yahoo
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Already akkada ee reservations atho raavalsina junk antha vasthu undhi..campus interviews,jobs malli ikkada HR nako lu vvallane selection. team lo kochhaka Pl gaadi life.. this is the developemnt and upliftmen to anagaarina vargaalu.
story is repeating..mister pellam, jamba lakidi pamba..emandoy raatriki em vandamantaaru antu abbayilu vanta sections/ blogs lo/ diaper changing/room cleaning lo busy. emev ee shares konaali/ MBA ee institute lo chadaavali/ daani pay scale entha/e madya shopping ekkada chesaav antu ammayilu technical forums lo busy.sarwa nashainam.ammyilu supermales abbayily superfemales ani ravino cheppammannadu.} |
Zulu
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 04:57 pm: |
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Anand_n:Zulu,
Affirmative action Discrimination undi adi no one can deny with respect to education opportunities...
I am trying to understand it at a macro level.
How can one half of the population claim that the other half discriminated?
And if they did take the discrimination (Being an equal half of the population). Are they really equal?
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Anand_n
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Zulu,
Affirmative action Discrimination undi adi no one can deny with respect to education opportunities...
Ma family lo ne cases unnayi when in financial constraints - where even if the daughter is the better student, the son got to go to more expensive institutes - idi andariki telisinde ...
For some time affirmative action is needed - for people to gain acceptance that the daughters need to be given an equal chance, then it should be taken out ...
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
ik aise gagan ke tale
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Zulu
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 04:46 pm: |
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Somehow I dont understand the logic behind women reservation.
Lets look at it from mathematical perspective.
Women are not minority, they constitute 50% of the population,this eliminates the theory of majority ganging up and denying their share..which could be successfully used for any other reservation like SC,ST or muslim reservations.
So..if this 50% percent of population claim that they were historically discriminated (by the other(equal)50% of population),
doesnt that mean that this 50% of population (Women) are weak to begin with?
Confused?...Me too..
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Jkm
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Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 04:21 pm: |
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Dinosaur:parents ki entha property undho thelidhu.. ekkadedkkada undho thelidhu.. lawyer ni adigithe em chebuthadu... parents direct ga ivvam ani chebuthara, chepparu kada... mogudini nammi, amma nanna meedha case veyyali ante antha easy kadu... amma nanna sampadhinchina asthi pai manam case vesina parents ke favour ga untundhi... poni abbai ki ekkuva isthunnaru ani argue chesina, daanni manam prove cheyyali... parents asthi valla thadanantharam equal ga istare kani mundhe ivvaru... ee lopu jaragalsina damage jaruguddhi...
katnam istaru.. andhulo 10-20 paisa abbai chethiki istaremo... migatha 80-90 paisa ammai peru meedhe untadhi... 10-20 paisalu abbai ki isthunnaru ani 80-90 paisa ivvadhu ante etla... mundhe commit ayyi ivvaka pothe tharuvatha sangathi devudiki eraka... ila chala civil case lu unnayi court lo enno years nunchi...
Dinosaur tammudu neeku inka pelli ayinattu ledu. appude worry avvoddu. pelli ayina kontha kalam varuku ammayiki family ante parents & siblings plus husband. aa time lo lolli pettaku. so wife ni manchiga preminchu. siblings ni marchipoyelaga. pillalu pudatharu. appudu naa family, naa pillalu ani nee wife velli ame share thechukontundi. ee lopala nee share kooda nuvvu thechukovala. share la godavalopadi parents ni choosukodam marchi povaddu.
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Anand_n
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 04:20 pm: |
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Quantum....
ROFL
/**2.) With regards to women checking W-2. I think women in india are the most ambiguous creatures I have ever seen . If not all, most of them. **/
Have you thought this may be caused by your limitation in understanding
/**Firstly, they cry and crib for equality and independence. On the same token, they are ready to accept reservations to work places and education. Now what sort of logic defines this act??? **/
Even in these modern days there are highly educated fathers who refuse to let their daughters learn things they would let their sons do .. ikkade ide db lo sangeetam neripinchataniki bhayapade father post chusi emanalo teliyaledu May be that's why reservations are needed so the girls get an equal opportunity to compete
/**The very act of accepting a reservation is an allusion to the fact that you are inferior and need special privileges to compete. **/
Is it ? Or is it that they are underprivileged ? I had the privilege of being encouraged by my parents in anything I wanted to do... but I know a lot of talented cousins and friends who were not allowed to...
/**The existing notion of independence is even more troublesome...comic to put it appropriately...
I wnat to be independent directly translates to " I want to be whatever I would like to be.....but U freaking got to earn more and I will spend (or) If I earn more, I have this borrowed uppity to dominate.........and the same women talk of independence.......**/
ROFL - Sounds more like male insecurity ,inability to handle the fact that she earns more speaking more than the lady's behavior
/**Independence comes from thought...to exist beyond the realm of a freaking relationship and to etch a life of what u had dreamed for by virtue of hard work......**/
Very true, and that independence translates into being able to do things you believe in irrspective of sanction from everyone else- which you pithily described in your previous statement as "borrowed uppity to dominate " The same girl when she chooses a divorce over living dependently in a problem marriage is not applauded for her independence but castigated for being headstrong- isn't that right
It is very easy to pass judgemental statements
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
ik aise gagan ke tale
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Anand_n
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 03:52 pm: |
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Property share ammayiki ravali annadaniki ippudu laws unnayi ...and these laws can be enforced only after the demise of the parents..
Its just an excuse to say dowry is a way to ensure the girl gets the property share. Dowry is nothing but extortion...Parents bratiki undaga dowry ammayi share ani teesukunte , if by the time the parents die if they lose their property will the grooms family refund the excess amount to the brothers?
Half the time the dowry just gets handed to the inlaws and God forbid if the girl really needs it she does not have access to the money...
TT,
Mee question ki answer meere icharu - chusukondi
Kallis,
Adagatam valla ishtam, chupinchadam chupinchakapovadam mee ishtam
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
ik aise gagan ke tale
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Dinosaur
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 02:58 pm: |
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Politricks
// G Meeda tannali poralni, 90K, 100K ani kaburlu chepthe! Bocchulo osthe gisthe oka 20-30% Software valla ki ye salaries untay and valla lo malli USA lo oka 5-7 years ragadaayisthe ye salaries ki ostharu. Ye pelli kaani kurrolla ki antha antha ante cross verify chesukovali.
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OT
// 70K is the good amount as of now for the basic technologies such as java, .net, QA ,Unix etc.............. //
i strongly believe you are on wrong assumptions
were you on the production support(of GL or DWH projects) in the past? do you know how much these offcial vendors are charging?
last 6 months - 1 year, market is slow.. it doesn't mean that people are getting low.
Exluding testing, mainframes, desi comp (tcs,infy etc..) employees and MS with hardly 1-2 years exp candidates, atleast 70-80% of the remaining people are getting 90K in my circle.majority of those 70-80% are getting around 110-120K in my circle.
Coming to the full time employees, if you are on SAP you can expect 120K max else 80-90K is the max. maake 90K ravatledhu fresh candidates ki ela vastayi anatam correct kaadhu..
mana DB lo testing, mainframes, desi comp (tcs,infy etc..) employees, MS with hardly 1-2 years exp and full time employees ekkuvaga unnattu unnaru.. reality lo veellu entha mandhi untaru... |
Dinosaur
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Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, June 22, 2008 - 12:46 am: |
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jkm,
// if you are educated atleast you know how talk to a lawyer. you don't need engineering, medicine to read news paper or talk to a lawyer. avuna kada? chadavadam vrayadam vasthe evado chadivindi vini veli mudra veyyakunda chadivi sign chestharu kada. aa education gurinchi nenu matladedi. basic education vunte unknown information ni adigi thelusukontaru.
i think anand gaaru worried about rural uneducated girls. because they don't know about their rights. some one need to educate them. if an unrban educated girl is cheated by someone. i feel sorry for her and i may even call her a fool.//
parents ki entha property undho thelidhu.. ekkadedkkada undho thelidhu.. lawyer ni adigithe em chebuthadu... parents direct ga ivvam ani chebuthara, chepparu kada... mogudini nammi, amma nanna meedha case veyyali ante antha easy kadu... amma nanna sampadhinchina asthi pai manam case vesina parents ke favour ga untundhi... poni abbai ki ekkuva isthunnaru ani argue chesina, daanni manam prove cheyyali... parents asthi valla thadanantharam equal ga istare kani mundhe ivvaru... ee lopu jaragalsina damage jaruguddhi...
katnam istaru.. andhulo 10-20 paisa abbai chethiki istaremo... migatha 80-90 paisa ammai peru meedhe untadhi... 10-20 paisalu abbai ki isthunnaru ani 80-90 paisa ivvadhu ante etla... mundhe commit ayyi ivvaka pothe tharuvatha sangathi devudiki eraka... ila chala civil case lu unnayi court lo enno years nunchi... |
Jkm
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Dinosaur:i did engineering and was on payroll but didn't know what property my dad had till i took the loan.... i am not sure what eduction you are referring.
if you are educated atleast you know how talk to a lawyer. you don't need engineering, medicine to read news paper or talk to a lawyer. avuna kada? chadavadam vrayadam vasthe evado chadivindi vini veli mudra veyyakunda chadivi sign chestharu kada. aa education gurinchi nenu matladedi. basic education vunte unknown information ni adigi thelusukontaru.
i think anand gaaru worried about rural uneducated girls. because they don't know about their rights. some one need to educate them. if an unrban educated girl is cheated by someone. i feel sorry for her and i may even call her a fool.
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But takva salary ni ekva project cheshnodu okadu telsu.. now pilla is demanding divorce >>>
Ganthaki thagga bontha!
desi gaallaki, divorce antay joke ayyindhi. theesukunnaaka thelusthadhi, divorce mazaa! |
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"Neeku thelisi W-2s choopinchinoodu evaranna unte cheppu. "
But takva salary ni ekva project cheshnodu okadu telsu.. now pilla is demanding divorce..
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Battal aka Viresalingam >>>>
last name kandhukuri anukunta  |
Zulu
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Mclovin:
Battal aka Viresalingam.
Neeku thelisi W-2s choopinchinoodu evaranna unte cheppu. Thelusukuni tharistha..
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Mclovin
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Kallis aka aada lady hater: Pratheedi offensive gaa teesukomaakaa.. Virgin avakapoinantha maatranaa mogodi batku bustandu kaadu.. but ujjogam lekunnaa, nenu potu gaanni ani seppukunnonki pillani iste, aa pilla batku, parents batku naashanam..
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Zulu
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Anand_n:zulu,
meeku anta critical anukunte adagandi..adi ok anukunna families ammayilu kudurutaru
nachani ammayilu mimmalni lite teesukuntaru
W-2 Kooda anthe kadandi.
Ammayala parents adigaru kada ani andaru choopincharu..
In my view maga puttaka puttinodu evadu choopinchadu W-2s to get married.
Plz Letme know if you know any incident otherwise..
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Anand_n
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zulu,
meeku anta critical anukunte adagandi..adi ok anukunna families ammayilu kudurutaru
nachani ammayilu mimmalni lite teesukuntaru
aa chal ke tujhe main leke chalu ik aise gagan ke tale
jahan gam bhi na ho, aansoo bhi na ho,bas pyaar hi pyaar pale
ik aise gagan ke tale
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zWUOI_oxeOc&feature=related
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Dinosaur
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// girls need proper education. //
i did engineering and was on payroll but didn't know what property my dad had till i took the loan.... i am not sure what eduction you are referring. |
Jkm
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Dinosaur:example: i didn't know what property my dad had till i took the loan for completing some registrations for which my dad committed... my syster doesn't know either.. there are many families like this. if any case comes to court, in US, may be you can track the property of an individuals. But in India, you can not... you need some system which provides financial freedom to girls..
girls need proper education.
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Dinosaur
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// NTR aadapaduchulaki chesina goppa pani. talli thandrula nunchi vache aasthi hakku. aa law thelusu koni ammayilu parents nunchi aasthi adagali.
mana laws antha biased ga emi levu. problem antha janam lone. //
example: i didn't know what property my dad had till i took the loan for completing some registrations for which my dad committed... my syster doesn't know either.. there are many families like this. if any case comes to court, in US, may be you can track the property of an individuals. But in India, you can not... you need some system which provides financial freedom to girls.. |
Jkm
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Dinosaur:okay... katnam theesukoledhu anuko, mari ammayi ki ravalisni property share ni parents ammayilaku istara ??? ledhe, motham abbayi ki istaru...
NTR aadapaduchulaki chesina goppa pani. talli thandrula nunchi vache aasthi hakku. aa law thelusu koni ammayilu parents nunchi aasthi adagali.
mana laws antha biased ga emi levu. problem antha janam lone.
Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind. |
Dinosaur
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Post Number: 463
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in one way, dowry gives financial freedom to girls... danni mis-use chestunnaru anuko... mis-use chesarani, katnam vaddhu ante etla... katnam undali kani konni adjustments undali lekunte girls ki property meedha equal rights ela vastayi... |
Dinosaur
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jkm
// inka katnalu vundadam anedi siggu chetu. //
okay... katnam theesukoledhu anuko, mari ammayi ki ravalisni property share ni parents ammayilaku istara ??? ledhe, motham abbayi ki istaru... |
Zulu
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Anand_n:Idivaraku jobs reference check chesi ichevallu , ippudu proper background check chestunnaru - idi ante - like OT said first few will be odd, taravata mamulu ayipotundi ;)
Virginity tests kooda anthe.. First lo ibbandi aipothundi,mellaga alavataipothundi
Ammayalaki kooda abbayala charecter important aithe,let themcomeup with their measure of an equivalant test.
Let everything be out in the open,Double standards enduku?
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