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     Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 163 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
I meant unmarried guys and gals those who are in love relationship. same applies to married also. i am out of this discussion. may be some other time. see yaa | ||
| Iamim Junior Artist Username: Iamim Post Number: 335 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 221.134.209.236 Rating: N/A |
Brother.. Mankind is different from Animalkind.. HOW.. WHY.. WHEN.. WHERE is steeped in mystery.. whether it evolved or has been ordered.. it has a distinct and different existence.. Each individual for the group.. group for each individual.. Customs.. mores.. morals.. ethics.. culture.. civilization.. traditions.. law.. rules.. regulations.. justice came into existence.. The day they cease to exist.. Mankind can cease to exist... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 519 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Mama too deep....what are ur views on a free society like sanfransisco???.... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 516 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Yes...Iam talking about woman before marriage....Men already in a relationship and who visit stripclubs are mostly middle age.....If a guy is young and he has a pretty companion wat are the chances of going to these places??Iam only talking about a womans confidence before marriage and her insecurity after going through some years in to it. | ||
| Iamim Junior Artist Username: Iamim Post Number: 332 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 221.134.209.236 Rating: N/A |
There is nothing called true liberation.. only death is true liberation.. Man is born free.. chained for life... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 515 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Well that is what I meant when I pointed Protective shield of society and fear of constant judging by others... If given a choice which one do u prefer?A free society where U can do anything U want...experiment with everything....U make it on your own or break it on ur own....which will help U progress and let U identify urself with the risk of being exposed to all the vulnerabilities... or A guided life with restrictions on ur movements....thinking twice before keeping a step....90% chance of geeting success in ur life with a trade off being U r never going to identify ur trueself... | ||
| Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 162 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
still it is men who can not handle the turbulent times and diluted affection . don't you see gentlemen clubs ? | ||
| Yahoo Junior Artist Username: Yahoo Post Number: 136 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 130.236.188.170 Rating: N/A |
Babai anduke partially correct annanu.But there is no marriage system in US and Europe.its not widely accepted as much as in Asian countries,especially in India.If you look at the past 5 years in India, crime rate is at alarming numbers due to the strong effects of wsternisaton or globalisation.And most of the cases girls are at recieving stage be it a murder,rape or physical attacks.but not vice versa. | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 462 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
yes got it ...character... | ||
| Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 161 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
if you read my answer again one more time you will get it. | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 460 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Annai Nee posts....Superbad la Mclovin maadhiri eek ga untaii  | ||
| Mclovin Side Hero Username: Mclovin Post Number: 4776 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.27.233.254 Rating: N/A |
tammi.. nee id maadiri,nee posts kooda kilometer untaye.. In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 450 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
What I meant was...will the woman even when she is in love and the relationship is going throgh turbulent times...If she is continuously being pursued by more eligible people outside the relationship because of the factors mentioned before...dont U think there her affection will be diluted?Will she show the same enthisiasm in protecting the relationship with her partner when window of oppurtunities is so wide open?Ideally there is nothing called true love right...its all mutual dependence... | ||
| Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 160 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
I don't think anyone go for breakup thinking that they can get someone better than present partner if they are really in love. most people like to get out the problematic relation than thinking about the better one. if they do think about better one it shows the character. issue with character is same with girl or boy. after the breakup, as the time passes people forget the past and fall in love again. that is a different story . | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 449 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Baboi enti aa statistics  Anyways most of the time men suicides are related to heart breaks... As someone said nothing brings U more agony and misery than a broken heart.I donot think the suicides in rural India among young woman is related to heart breakes.May be its because of the confusion created by harmonal requirements and a severe regulation controlling their private life by not experimenting with their youth. | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 448 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Where does she derive this strength from... Its not chemicals...I know many woman personally who are on anti depressants as their family life is in turmoil... The strength comes from the demand,finanical independence as U said and the confidence that she is definitely going to meet someone better than this... | ||
| Yahoo Junior Artist Username: Yahoo Post Number: 131 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 130.236.188.170 Rating: N/A |
Partly true..the suicides are higher rate in men but there is no any scintific study relating due to its romantic failures. { The highest suicide rate in the world has been reported among \b young women in South India }by a new study. The research is of major importance, according to the World Health Organization, as it brings to light Asia's suicide problem. The average suicide rate for young women aged between 15 to 19 living around Vellore in Tamil Nadu was 148 per 100,000. This compares to just 2.1 suicides per 100,000 in the same group in the UK. The global suicide rate stands at 14.5 deaths per 100,000, with suicide the fourth leading cause of death in the 15 to 19 age group. However, in the Tamil Nadu study, suicide was the number one cause of death among these adolescents. Notably, young women were much more likely to kill themselves than young men - the reverse of the rest of the world. "I was surprised to find the rates were so staggeringly high," says paediatrician Anuradha Bose, who led the study at the Christian Medical College in Vellore. http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn4846-indian-teens-have -worlds-highest-suicide-rate.html
Even though Indians have excellent family support, The constant monitoring from society and poking into personal matter is very highest in its social system. Again we cannt generalise here.We hardly expose to break ups and its very new to our traditional mariage systems. so its difficult to overcome dese kind of personal crises once he exposed.In western world altogther different case. | ||
| Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 159 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
ok . lets leave MOM thing aside. as you said decreasing ratio may be one of the factor for confidence, i think financial freedom is the major factor. as Iamim mentioned in his post, it is scientifically proven that girl can control emotions better than a guy. lets not think about girl suicide cases in conservative india when guy cheats a girl. those are because of society. for equal social and financial conditions, i think it is girl who can move on easily than a boy. that doesn't mean she will fall in love with some one else. what i mean to say is she got that mental strength to move on. it is not a proven universal truth. this is more of perception than anything else. though scenically proven than hormones play a role here, we can not generalize. we know that girl karanam malliswari got more physical strength than average man. that doesn't mean girls can win against boys in weight lifting. Bottom line it is case by case. scientifically behavior and emotional strength depends on hormones. | ||
| Mclovin Side Hero Username: Mclovin Post Number: 4718 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 69.45.100.129 Rating: N/A |
Mee kochhen ki meere anser seppukunnaaru Iamim gaaru..
In this db, there's always someone watching you!! | ||
| Iamim Junior Artist Username: Iamim Post Number: 319 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 221.134.208.110 Rating: N/A |
It is the utter stupidity of males which blinds them with passion rather than reason that is responsible for the mess of their own creation based on assumption rather than gumption.. Lets say there are 10 freshers in an IT firm out of which are couple of girls.. who picks up faster?? Obviously the girls.. they only need to ask for help and LO.. all the guys queue up to explain the nitty gritty.. the girls take it as 'help'.. the guys assume more... | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 446 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Fathers having more effection is different...Women are fairer sex...I agree they are important and they need to be pampered.....But the question of the commitment...the value to a relationship.....I donno....from watever U hear and see and experience it is more guys who are on the recieving side than girls....Girls generally end up on the recieving side after marriage...When the charm of their beauty depletes and the harmone levels of the vuncles increase... | ||
| Iamim Junior Artist Username: Iamim Post Number: 317 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 221.134.208.110 Rating: N/A |
It is the males drooling over females like bees around a flower.. that gives them the confidence.. females are used to this drooling since birth from males whatever be the relationship.. even fathers drool more on daughters... | ||
| Thunder Side Hero Username: Thunder Post Number: 5277 Registered: 05-2007 Posted From: 204.27.156.146 Rating: N/A |
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| Ind2usa Junior Artist Username: Ind2usa Post Number: 821 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 205.174.22.26 Rating: N/A |
Yes | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 444 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Girl goes through a lot before she becomes Mom.Becoming Mom is quite an emotional thing even it is For a girl or a cow or a bird. Iam talking about the girl before she becomes a Mom. Girls moving on from a relationship is different perspective.Is it the decreasing ratio of number of girls to boys that is giving her that confidence? | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 443 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
That is completely wrong....Indian Males are more stronger I guess. Our Society gives us a protective shield of fear of being judged by others for our moves.You are hardly exposed to break ups and even If U R exposed U have an excellent family and social atmosphere to rely on to. You cannot do things as independently as U do in a country like USA.That is why I think the suicide rate is higher in developed countries. | ||
| Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 158 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
example is it is mom who can raise kids better with responsibility by controlling self destructive emotions. same with lovers. girls can move on where as boys end up as devdas. | ||
| Iamim Junior Artist Username: Iamim Post Number: 316 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 221.134.208.126 Rating: N/A |
While the brain allows us to think, it also drives our emotions. It may not come as a surprise, then, that the ability to identify and control emotions varies between sexes. "Women are faster and more accurate at identifying emotions," says Ruben Gur, PhD, a neurologist at the University of Pennsylvania. Studies have shown women to be more adept than men at encoding facial differences and determining changing vocal intonations. Women, as a whole, may also be better than men at controlling their emotions. Gur and colleagues at the University of Pennsylvania recently discovered that sections of the brain used to control aggression and anger responses are larger in women than in men. | ||
| Telugu_times Side Hero Username: Telugu_times Post Number: 3340 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10 Rating: N/A |
The percentage of men going on self destructing themselves or attacking the woman that has broken their heart is high right>>> Right, coz men are more violent than women | ||
| Jkm Junior Artist Username: Jkm Post Number: 157 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 216.235.145.222 Rating: N/A |
I agree with Iamim Female mentally stronger than Male | ||
| Yahoo Junior Artist Username: Yahoo Post Number: 130 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 130.236.188.170 Rating: N/A |
Ala generalise cheyaku kaaka..may be indian males..dat too south indian males emo. bayata they dont care once thye got brek up. Its completely individual and personal abilties of that particular gender. | ||
| Jodhaa Side Hero Username: Jodhaa Post Number: 2218 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 208.11.223.20 Rating: N/A |
First of all It depends on the Circumstances on which they were separated. People may say its depend completely on individual personality but I think ladies has more strength to move on..jmo.. No one can make you feel inferior without your permission, remember they are no better | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 442 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Masthu cheppavu mama evaro nuvvu gaani Paval and TT The percentage of men going on self destructing themselves or attacking the woman that has broken their heart is high right??In any country...Why is in movies they always show a guy in the recieving end....and the girl easily ditches him and move on??.... | ||
| Iamim Junior Artist Username: Iamim Post Number: 315 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 221.134.208.126 Rating: |
Female mentally stronger than Male... | ||
| Pavala Comedian Username: Pavala Post Number: 1470 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 192.38.83.6 Rating: N/A |
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| Telugu_times Side Hero Username: Telugu_times Post Number: 3336 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 40.0.40.10 Rating: N/A |
Does it differ from Gender or its completely indiviudal irrespective of the gender??>>> its completely indiviudal irrespective of the gender | ||
| Elcaminocapastrino Junior Artist Username: Elcaminocapastrino Post Number: 441 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 192.231.130.1 Rating: N/A |
Suppose Oka couple Unnaru Equally Attractive Equally Succesful Equally Talented And they are together for quite a period of time And circumstances valla vidi poyaru anukondi Who gets over the relationship fast Who has more strength to move on Does it differ from Gender or its completely indiviudal irrespective of the gender??Mee ammulyamina experiences untey cheppandi.... |
