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Senapathy
Side Hero Username: Senapathy
Post Number: 6232 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.212.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 03:26 pm: |
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Was busy.. just checked the thread.. Updates This is real incident. Ofcourse, family details will not be disclosed. She has been very frank with me on this issue and I would not be inclined to give too much benefit of doubt to opposite party. Divorce appudu, I did not like ur behaviour, ur family, I was insulted by so and so antey emanna ardham undi.. After coming back to USA, "I have different life here" antey ento ardham kaaledu naaku May be he already has a steady GF, and got married to my friend just for social norms in India May be he is Gay.. extra details emi adagaledu nenu. Next time, I will ask. The current scenario as of now is - after wedding, jump jilani.. She put everything at stake for the married life. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Tifosi
Junior Artist Username: Tifosi
Post Number: 293 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 171.161.160.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 02:34 pm: |
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American law prakaram vaaDu em tappu chesaDu...and how is it cheating? lot of holes in the story please dont reveal family details in a public forum |
   
Komaranna
Comedian Username: Komaranna
Post Number: 1777 Registered: 07-2010 Posted From: 12.34.246.78
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:19 am: |
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idi edo telangana andhra godava la ga atma samsya akula katta ante work avadu..thodalu kottadm waste move on..kasha cases bongu bushanam waste ani na udesam.. |
   
Bar_and_ha_cub
Junior Artist Username: Bar_and_ha_cub
Post Number: 53 Registered: 09-2011 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:18 am: |
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New_user:Aa kurradu "different life" ante homosexual anukuntunna. Heterosexual life try chesadu, nachchi undadu. American court will see justification in his argument. Case closed.
Gotcha:yep it could be it or he could be impotent.
Its very much possible !! But if this is the case, then I think he should be prosecuted for cheating if he has not declared his sexual orientation prior to marriage. You dont have to marry someone to try heterosexual relationship - unless he was forced into a marriage and not allowed to date ( not just this girl, just in general). |
   
Gotcha
Side Hero Username: Gotcha
Post Number: 8431 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 98.227.187.240
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:09 am: |
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New_user:
yep it could be it or he could be impotent. This real estate is for sale. |
   
New_user
Hero Username: New_user
Post Number: 16629 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 173.19.28.76
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:07 am: |
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Aa kurradu "different life" ante homosexual anukuntunna. Heterosexual life try chesadu, nachchi undadu. American court will see justification in his argument. Case closed. Jagan ki ippudu ivvandi mee chempa vote esthe repu munchuthaa mee kompa Copyrights: Bushu |
   
Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26142 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:01 am: |
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New_user:Ee story lo ammayi chala smart, better paying job lo unde chance undi. Alantappudu reverse lo pay cheyyalsi ravochchu.
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Bar_and_ha_cub
Junior Artist Username: Bar_and_ha_cub
Post Number: 52 Registered: 09-2011 Posted From: 206.243.134.73
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:01 am: |
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kompa teesi prenup laantivi levu kada? |
   
Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26141 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:01 am: |
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Mikkymouse:Almony kakapoyina cheating case anna undali kada ani. Pelli chesukoni eppudu nachaledu ante aa ammayi life emi kaavali.
idhemanna india naa? endhi? cheating anukovataniki.. nachithe kalisi untaru nachakapothe next second vidipothar.. |
   
Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26140 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:00 am: |
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New_user:Rising, alimony ki child support ki confuse avuthunnadu. Pillalu leka poyina alimony vasthundi, until she get remarried.
yaa..but vaallu iddaru kalisi unna kalam kadha chusedhi... |
   
Mikkymouse
Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse
Post Number: 8204 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.3
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 11:00 am: |
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Risingstar:pelli or partner ga register cheyunchukunnaka kalisi unna kalam count chesi appudu sampadinchina income loo share vasthundi kadha..veellu kalisi unna kalam loo vaadu emi sampadinchukokapothe ela chelluddi?
Vadu asala kalasi unde chance ekkada echadu? Almony kakapoyina cheating case anna undali kada ani. Pelli chesukoni eppudu nachaledu ante aa ammayi life emi kaavali. BTW edantha aa ammayi cheppindi nijam ayithe matrame. |
   
New_user
Hero Username: New_user
Post Number: 16628 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 173.19.28.76
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:58 am: |
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Micky Rising, alimony ki child support ki confuse avuthunnadu. Pillalu leka poyina alimony vasthundi, until she get remarried. Ee story lo ammayi chala smart, better paying job lo unde chance undi. Alantappudu reverse lo pay cheyyalsi ravochchu. Jagan ki ippudu ivvandi mee chempa vote esthe repu munchuthaa mee kompa Copyrights: Bushu |
   
Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26138 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:57 am: |
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Mikkymouse:Kaane nenu adigedhi okavela aa ammayi cheppedi nijam ayithe. Kids unte thappa oka ammayi life ki value leda ani.
pelli or partner ga register cheyunchukunnaka kalisi unna kalam count chesi appudu sampadinchina income loo share vasthundi kadha..veellu kalisi unna kalam loo vaadu emi sampadinchukokapothe ela chelluddi? |
   
Ravino786
Hero Username: Ravino786
Post Number: 14730 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 199.4.21.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:56 am: |
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Why not ma intlo kuda oka ammayini ekkadunna oka moorkudu vedistunte wadi parents ni nalipestam ante wadu darilo kochadu ... kurrodi parents or tobuttuvulu inida lo unte pilla kasi teerchukovochu kani now its better to move forward Rajanna Amar Hai.
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Mikkymouse
Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse
Post Number: 8203 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.3
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:55 am: |
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Risingstar:.. auna induloo manaki theliyani angle edhoo unnattundi..
Ayiunda vachu. Kaane nenu adigedhi okavela aa ammayi cheppedi nijam ayithe. Kids unte thappa oka ammayi life ki value leda ani. |
   
Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26136 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:55 am: |
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Jupiter:thila daanam thala pidikedu .. ani saametha .. madyalo relatives em sesaru saami .. nenu edva veshalu esthe .. maa babai no mamayya no esesthava??
yaa..aatavika nyayam anthee kadha.. vaadu chesinappudu manam cheyyataniki emaundhi.. |
   
Jupiter
Side Hero Username: Jupiter
Post Number: 2098 Registered: 05-2011 Posted From: 173.39.71.118
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:52 am: |
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Ravino786:dammunte pilla wadi relatives ni ventapadi champali
thila daanam thala pidikedu .. ani saametha .. madyalo relatives em sesaru saami .. nenu edva veshalu esthe .. maa babai no mamayya no esesthava?? |
   
Ravino786
Hero Username: Ravino786
Post Number: 14729 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 199.4.21.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:49 am: |
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Anyayam akramum pakkan petandi wadu naku nuvvu wadhu antunte eemme naku kavalani fight cheyyadam murkatvam... If they have kids together yes she can fight and get alimony antha kanna minchi irgageyyadam emi undadu leda dammunte pilla wadi relatives ni ventapadi champali wadi parents ekakde untaru so emi peekutadhi?? poni wadi akka chelle anna tammudu unte wallani akkada pusukuthe weedu lagettukuntoo wache position unda?? Rajanna Amar Hai.
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Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26133 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:49 am: |
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Mikkymouse:Adenti annai nijam gane US law kooda emi help cheyyada ammayiki. Aa ammayi cheppindhi kanuka nijam ayithe paapam anyayam kada.
endhi nijam? endhi abaddam? kids untee almony istharu.. vallu iddaru legal gaa kalisi unna kalam loo vaadu emanna paisal sampadinchi untee anduloo share vasthundi..pelli avaganee india poundhi...inka kalisi unnadhi eppudu... lawyer fee bokka.. auna induloo manaki theliyani angle edhoo unnattundi.. |
   
Mikkymouse
Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse
Post Number: 8201 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.3
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:43 am: |
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Risingstar:ledhu anta annai.. ot cheppadu kadha aame iragdeeyachu ani.. let her come and iragadeeyanee
Adenti annai nijam gane US law kooda emi help cheyyada ammayiki. Aa ammayi cheppindhi kanuka nijam ayithe paapam anyayam kada. |
   
Ravino786
Hero Username: Ravino786
Post Number: 14728 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 199.4.21.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:42 am: |
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she is educated US exp kuda undhi life lo debba tindhi so aa konam lo kuda kasi build up chesukoni mondi ga mundukellali settle kavali ... Rajanna Amar Hai.
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Ravino786
Hero Username: Ravino786
Post Number: 14727 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 199.4.21.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:41 am: |
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Is they had kids she will get Alimony, leda adhi kuda radhu .... time waste she has to move forward ...time wadi meeda waste cheyyodhu kasi ga batakali fight it ut and settle down ..she deserves best life than going behind somebody who rejected her .. Rajanna Amar Hai.
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Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26129 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:37 am: |
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Ravino786:nakunna knowledge tho cheptunna is she comes here too wadiki emi kadhu all she can get is few thousand dollars and dantlo 75 percent layer ki avutadhi its not worth ...she has to move forward and make her life happy and strog ...
ledhu anta annai.. ot cheppadu kadha aame iragdeeyachu ani.. let her come and iragadeeyanee |
   
Ravino786
Hero Username: Ravino786
Post Number: 14726 Registered: 12-2006 Posted From: 199.4.21.2
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:25 am: |
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wadiki istam ledhu wadi life wadu choosukunadu eeme move forword she is educated job choosukoni she should move forword and her life will be good for sure... nakunna knowledge tho cheptunna is she comes here too wadiki emi kadhu all she can get is few thousand dollars and dantlo 75 percent layer ki avutadhi its not worth ...she has to move forward and make her life happy and strog ... Rajanna Amar Hai.
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Twitter
Hero Username: Twitter
Post Number: 12060 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 151.191.175.207
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:23 am: |
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Mikkymouse:
thanks for the info. no need to sorry , pakka thread lo coca edho chepthunnadu adh kooda follow autha . Lets create a corruption-free India
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Mikkymouse
Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse
Post Number: 8197 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.3
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:12 am: |
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Twitter:
Sorry mee mail ID nenu note chesukoledhu DB lo link untundhi kadha ani. aa link weekend chaooste dorakaledhu, nene calling thread veddam anukuntunna. Hubby cheppina prakaram Ration card , 10th ceritificate and passport copies pattukoni munsipal office ki velli akkada pani chese evaro okariki konchem money este chala twaraga notary chesi estaru ani maaku notary chepinchina cousin cheppadu ani naku chepparu. |
   
Twitter
Hero Username: Twitter
Post Number: 12059 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 151.191.175.207
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 10:05 am: |
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Mikkymouse:
 Lets create a corruption-free India
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Mikkymouse
Side Hero Username: Mikkymouse
Post Number: 8196 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 216.111.115.3
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 09:35 am: |
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Oohlala:Guys, think calmly, divorce/annulment isthe cheating case ela avutundi? Can she prove in any way that he cheated? what was his motive? 5 month marriage ki alimony etc. istaro ledo telidu. If he inturn says that, she forced him to marry her for a GC, it might not help her. EAD rakunda job resign cheyaka pothe bagundedi.
Ya. Adento pelli ayina ventane Job ela resign chesesindo artham kaaledhu. Sena cheppindhi correct aithe kanuka mana Desi ammayilu antha fools evaroo undaru. entha chaduvu kunna Ammammalla alochistaru. Only dressing, style and pubbing lantivi chesi forward thinking la feel ayipotharu kaane life ki sambandinchi matram thinnaga alochincharu. |
   
Becbeckon
Junior Artist Username: Becbeckon
Post Number: 592 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 183.82.160.169
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 07:29 am: |
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Senapathy babai, call me at 9908595954 on my mobile i would like to talk to you regarding this matter |
   
Newguy123
Hero Username: Newguy123
Post Number: 12312 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 68.197.174.156
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 06:55 am: |
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Onlytruth:divorce case ante usa lo chirigi chaata avuddhi male ki alimony matters lo... if she can come back to USA, vaadiki doola teerio naakunna limited knowledge tho that is first impression
ee short term marriages lo ye case pettina ikkada antha alimony emi raadu.. tkt charges vasthe goppa.. edanna vaadu india vachinappudu choosukovatam better. |
   
Andhrawala
Side Hero Username: Andhrawala
Post Number: 7890 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 174.97.225.181
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 06:37 am: |
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Section 498a pedithe saripothundhi. Vaadi ayya, amma, akkal, thammul meedha pettochu Inthaki vaadi parents perlu enti. No point in hiding them |
   
Jupiter
Side Hero Username: Jupiter
Post Number: 2084 Registered: 05-2011 Posted From: 173.39.71.118
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 05:50 am: |
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story lo chala links missing .. ittanti story meeda judgement pass cheyatam kuda not worth it ... 2 baa chadvukunnollu .. pepancham chusina vallu .. ice pulla lageskunnadu annantha easy ga undhi story ... |
   
Catalyst
Junior Artist Username: Catalyst
Post Number: 962 Registered: 07-2009 Posted From: 24.21.142.87
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 01:08 am: |
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Senapathy:Most state laws require your spouse to respond to the petition for divorce within 30 days.
that is correct.guy might had already did that. Also, they need to give paper adv for few days. If they do not respond to it wittin 30 days marriage is annulled. |
   
Senapathy
Side Hero Username: Senapathy
Post Number: 6229 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 76.88.32.171
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 12:49 am: |
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Jawmetri:Most state laws require your spouse to respond to the petition for divorce within 30 days.
Will have to check NJ state case on that..
Entikaburlu:There will be a story on both sides.
I agree.. Atu vaipu sory telusukune avakasam kooda ledu.. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Catalyst
Junior Artist Username: Catalyst
Post Number: 961 Registered: 07-2009 Posted From: 24.21.142.87
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 12:27 am: |
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Onlytruth: divorce case ante usa lo chirigi chaata avuddhi male ki alimony matters lo... if she can come back to USA, vaadiki doola teerio naakunna limited knowledge tho that is first impression
emi kaadu easy ga set cheyyochchoo...only thing that guy has to do is remove all the property on his name and set Bank balance to Zero. |
   
Catalyst
Junior Artist Username: Catalyst
Post Number: 960 Registered: 07-2009 Posted From: 24.21.142.87
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 12:25 am: |
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Kuyyo_morro:Without knowing both sides of the story we cannot go with one. Your friend hasnt told you the entire story. There must be more than that. Sunday night special: idi A, B and C kind of Se_xapathy kind of story aa
i agree with the above sentence. We cannot judge anything by listening to one side's story. |
   
Bushu
Side Hero Username: Bushu
Post Number: 3375 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 4.26.17.58
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 11:44 pm: |
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and such short lived marriages without kids ki life long alimony emi undadhu. court will decide how much he has to pay up and in this case, it may be very little. dont see her getting anything out of this. |
   
Bushu
Side Hero Username: Bushu
Post Number: 3374 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 4.26.17.58
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 11:42 pm: |
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konni states, like CA lo, only one party has to file for a divorce. other party, whether they like it or not, will have to just accept it. the only benefit they get is the alimony etc. ee porod ki adhichudu issue kaadhemo, he maybe genuinely not interested in her any more. make him pay for the alimony and let go. If the marriage was registered in US, he has to pay up. and tough luck for her. |
   
True_indian
Side Hero Username: True_indian
Post Number: 7937 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 75.176.73.14
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 11:08 pm: |
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Senapathy:
forgive me but its hardly belive your story |
   
Risingstar
Megastar Username: Risingstar
Post Number: 26125 Registered: 08-2008 Posted From: 76.99.86.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 10:49 pm: |
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Onlytruth:divorce case ante usa lo chirigi chaata avuddhi male ki alimony matters lo...
thokka avuddi |
   
Jawmetri
Comedian Username: Jawmetri
Post Number: 1013 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 72.43.27.94
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:46 pm: |
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Steps * Meeting With an Attorney * Divorce Petition Served Upon Your Spouse * Your Spouse Responds to the Petition * Discovery * Settlement * Trial * Post – Trial Motions * Appeals Did she respond to petition? Most state laws require your spouse to respond to the petition for divorce within 30 days. If your spouse does not respond within your state’s specified time limit, he/she is in default and you may obtain a default judgment of divorce. If your spouse does respond, your case will proceed on to the discovery and settlement stages. |
   
Entikaburlu
Comedian Username: Entikaburlu
Post Number: 1968 Registered: 07-2011 Posted From: 67.247.83.224
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:41 pm: |
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Ask her to contact a US Attorney. A US Citizen cannot break US laws abroad also. The minimum she should get is a divorce and alimony. Her best bet is to contact any volnteer help orgs including orgs such as TANA. But do not jump to conclusions. There will be a story on both sides. |
   
Oohlala
Comedian Username: Oohlala
Post Number: 1161 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 24.6.216.34
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:31 pm: |
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Senapathy: Mee route ey anukundaam. For 1 min, if you trust her part of the story, emi cheyyali..
Sena, ask her to find a job and come to US if that is what she prefers. As someone said, what he did is unethical, there is no case here, in my opinion. Highly educated vallaki kooda ila jarigithe chala badha ga anipistundi... |
   
Kuyyo_morro
Side Hero Username: Kuyyo_morro
Post Number: 3670 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 99.32.148.228
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:26 pm: |
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Senapathy:nuvvu naaku vaddu naaku vere life undi - antey ey case kinda vastundi adi?
Daaniki e case antu ledu. Divorce thappa. |
   
Senapathy
Side Hero Username: Senapathy
Post Number: 6228 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 76.88.32.171
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:23 pm: |
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Kuyyo_morro: Cheating case applicable kadu
Hmm... Pelli cheskoni, 15 days kapuram sesi, nuvvu naaku vaddu naaku vere life undi - antey ey case kinda vastundi adi? I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Kuyyo_morro
Side Hero Username: Kuyyo_morro
Post Number: 3668 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 99.32.148.228
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:19 pm: |
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India lo undi fighting is tough. Cos the guy is an Indian citizen. Cheating case applicable kadu unless dowry harrasment donga case pedthe thappa. |
   
Senapathy
Side Hero Username: Senapathy
Post Number: 6227 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 76.88.32.171
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:18 pm: |
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Oohlala: divorce/annulment isthe cheating case ela avutundi?
Mee route ey anukundaam. For 1 min, if you trust her part of the story, emi cheyyali.. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
New_user
Hero Username: New_user
Post Number: 16627 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.232.128.10
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:17 pm: |
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Chala states lo one or two years separate ga unte, marriage annul ayipothundi. Paga, prateekaram anukunte, India lo kurrodi parents meeda harassment case pettali. Ethically wrong, ayina pani jarige chances unnayi. Best option, forget everything and remarry. Jagan ki ippudu ivvandi mee chempa vote esthe repu munchuthaa mee kompa Copyrights: Bushu |
   
Senapathy
Side Hero Username: Senapathy
Post Number: 6226 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 76.88.32.171
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:16 pm: |
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Mahesh_fan: Did she signed the divorce paper by any chance.
Inka ledu..
Oohlala:what is the basis of a case here? He is probably annulling the marriage.
Why? From what I heard from her - he just came back to USA and sent her divorce papers. Next conversation lo more details aduguthanu about what exactly is on that notice..
Oohlala:In any case, if the marriage doesn't last for 2 years, she can't get her GC.
Aameku GC kosam she can self petition herself on EB1, exceptional category lo sure shot gaa vastadi.. So I am sure she is not depending on him for status or anything. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Oohlala
Comedian Username: Oohlala
Post Number: 1160 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 24.6.216.34
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:15 pm: |
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Guys, think calmly, divorce/annulment isthe cheating case ela avutundi? Can she prove in any way that he cheated? what was his motive? 5 month marriage ki alimony etc. istaro ledo telidu. If he inturn says that, she forced him to marry her for a GC, it might not help her. EAD rakunda job resign cheyaka pothe bagundedi. |
   
Kuyyo_morro
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Post Number: 3667 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 99.32.148.228
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:15 pm: |
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Mediators evaru lera maatladi set cheyyadaniki. I have a different life variety ga undi. Courtwise divorce ki acceptable aa. Did he apply for divorce through US court or Indian court? |
   
Gotcha
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Post Number: 8419 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 98.227.187.240
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:07 pm: |
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Senapathy:
,he might be impotent and want a facade to cover that. i know one case where the guy just married so that people dont think he is an impotent. ado pedda torture aa ammayi ki. ofcourse she applied for divorce. This real estate is for sale. |
   
Oohlala
Comedian Username: Oohlala
Post Number: 1159 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 24.6.216.34
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:06 pm: |
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Sena, there are orgs like maitri, kiran for south asian women. However, please don't get me wrong, what is the basis of a case here? He is probably annulling the marriage. What surprises me is, why did she wait till the Indian wedding for sponsor papers? The purpose of American wedding must be to apply for AOS (adjustment of status) and EAD. In any case, if the marriage doesn't last for 2 years, she can't get her GC. Since it has been over an year, as a first step in getting her life back, she should apply for a job and get a fresh visa issued. |
   
Mahesh_fan
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Post Number: 3044 Registered: 09-2010 Posted From: 207.255.30.26
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:05 pm: |
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Senapathy:I have a different life ani cheppadu anta.
teda iyuntadu ..nuvu chepina prakaram ..story clear ga ledhu ..vadiki istam lekpothay aa 5 months kuda matalade vadu kadhu ..so elono life and career poendhi kabati . best thing 1.come back to usa on f1 or visiting.File a cheating case on him. Did she signed the divorce paper by any chance. 2. In india nothing will happen as he is an us citizen. mogudu pothe poyadu .. first night mathram bemmandam ga jargindi .. ani sametha .. |
   
Venkateswarlu
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Post Number: 9897 Registered: 01-2010 Posted From: 24.16.59.204
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 09:04 pm: |
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Highly educated antunnaavu kaabatti, ask her to come to usa by any means.. Worst case, UK ki velli oka year job chesi, visit/h1 tho ikkadaku raavachhu. Ikkadiki ochhinanka gurudu ki..
 In this db, there's always someone watching you!!  |
   
Senapathy
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Post Number: 6225 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.212.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:55 pm: |
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Kuyyo_morro:reason emani undi.
I have a different life ani cheppadu anta.. Need to ask more details.. Vaadi family vallu maatram just India lo edo wedding show off kosam pelli chesaru annatu cheppindi. Society kosam blah blah.. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Senapathy
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Post Number: 6224 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.212.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:53 pm: |
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Kuyyo_morro:Sunday night special: idi A, B and C kind of Se_xapathy kind of story aa.
Idi story kaadu baa..
Onlytruth:..on citizen of america ? it might not work na ? wahts her status by the time of marriage? GC/h1 ?
Citizen ayithey whats the problem? She was in H1 then..
Onlytruth: can file a case in USA court.
Idi best option aa? Thats what I have advised her.. To come here and file case. India lo undi emi peekalemu ani.. Each day lost is a waste ani.. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Onlytruth
Legend Username: Onlytruth
Post Number: 86861 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 96.233.195.195
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:52 pm: |
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Kuyyo_morro:
divorce case ante usa lo chirigi chaata avuddhi male ki alimony matters lo... if she can come back to USA, vaadiki doola teerio naakunna limited knowledge tho that is first impression |
   
Kuyyo_morro
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Post Number: 3664 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 99.32.148.228
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:50 pm: |
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Onlytruth:if she can come back on ANY visa to USA and can file a case in USA court... kodukki paguluddhi anukuntunnaa
Appudu kuda pagaladu cos cultural differences etc edanna file cheyochu. If he has more money then might end up paying an alimony. If he sent the divorce papers, reason emani undi. |
   
Ntr_rocks
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Post Number: 25894 Registered: 04-2009
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:49 pm: |
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Onlytruth:kodukki paguluddhi anukuntunnaa
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Onlytruth
Legend Username: Onlytruth
Post Number: 86859 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 96.233.195.195
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:46 pm: |
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if she can come back on ANY visa to USA and can file a case in USA court... kodukki paguluddhi anukuntunnaa |
   
Kuyyo_morro
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Post Number: 3663 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 99.32.148.228
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:46 pm: |
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Without knowing both sides of the story we cannot go with one. Your friend hasnt told you the entire story. There must be more than that. Sunday night special: idi A, B and C kind of Se_xapathy kind of story aa. |
   
Onlytruth
Legend Username: Onlytruth
Post Number: 86858 Registered: 01-2007 Posted From: 96.233.195.195
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:46 pm: |
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Senapathy:She filed cheating case in India
..on citizen of america ? it might not work na ? wahts her status by the time of marriage? GC/h1 ? |
   
Senapathy
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Post Number: 6223 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.212.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:41 pm: |
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Wedding happened in Aug 2010.. Last 14 months gaa stuck up ayyindi.. Asalu ilanti vallu society lo unnarantey kali kaalam ending anukuntaa I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |
   
Senapathy
Side Hero Username: Senapathy
Post Number: 6222 Registered: 01-2009 Posted From: 137.131.212.40
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:39 pm: |
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Advise cheyyandi on the following issue. One of my very good friend, highly educated woman in early 30's got married to a guy from NJ. They met in a matrimonial site.. She also lived in USA then. The registered wedding happened in April 2010 and then she resigned her job and went to India for the social wedding and planned to come back as a dependent (he is a citizen of USA, desi guy). After she left USA, I tried contacting her a couple of times and then she was not reachable since then. Pelli taravata busy lo friends ni marchipoyindi anukunna. Yesterday she emailed me after whole 14 months and gave her phone number in India to call. I was shocked to hear what happened. After the wedding (mid August), the guy returned to USA saying that he will send the papers etc.. 3 weeks later she received a divorce notice. He said that he had a "different life" in USA and cannot continue to live with her. This was a big blow and shock to her and main reason for her to not talk to anyone. She filed cheating case in India, but the legal process is taking too much time.. Also her inlaws in India have lil political power to bribe the police to make sure no cases reach higher authorities. She has proof of wedding registered in NJ, and evidence of wedding in India. Ippudu legal gaa emi cheyyali. Worst case is she is cheated, time wasted, job resigned, cannot come back to USA to fight her case, remarriage ki evaru munduku raaru etc.. USA lo NRI dump cases ki emanna forums, help groups unnaya? Asalu maa friend vaadini elaa nammindo emo.. 5 months phone talk and then wedding in USA. He was very nice till he left for USA ani cheppindi - not knowing his true motives.. Chass last 12 hrs gaa mood kharab ayyindi. I am struck by the lightning of love and burnt beyond repair - Florentino Ariza |