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     Kamal Megastar Username: Kamal Post Number: 23103 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 64.64.32.4 Rating: N/A |
she* na punyam .. na paapam .. na soukhyam .. na dukham | na mantro .. na theertham .. na veda .. na yagnah || | ||
| Kamal Megastar Username: Kamal Post Number: 23102 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 64.64.32.4 Rating: N/A |
oh sorry .. my grandmothers death was not an accident .. he had paralysis for 15 years .. last months lo .. it was expected ..
I never said anything bad or derogatory at all .. I hold my Guru in great respect frankly .. all I said was .. I was taken aback for a moment ani .. anthe .. nothing more to it ..
never ever said that ..! na punyam .. na paapam .. na soukhyam .. na dukham | na mantro .. na theertham .. na veda .. na yagnah || | ||
| Bushu Side Hero Username: Bushu Post Number: 2046 Registered: 04-2009 Posted From: 12.30.230.138 Rating: N/A |
for the western culture, death is just a natural thing. they know it will come some day and are very practical about it. anduke they are also usually more adventurous than us. edho aipothundi ani bhayapadi emi cheyakundaa koorchoru. | ||
| Cinejeevi Junior Artist Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 951 Registered: 09-2010 Posted From: 91.103.41.50 Rating: N/A |
maa family lo aged ones pOte dukkham untundi kaani anta baadha paDaru. pedda vaalla chaavu pelli tO samanam antaaru and I guess most of the times koDaLLu are happy as they are relieved from chaakiri. ee desam lo 18yrs ninchi bayatakochchesi untaaru. longevity ekkuva. so 80 yrs ki poina appatiki eellake 60s vastai pedda effect unDadu anukuntunna. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 8540 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.201 Rating: |
enduku generalize cheyyadam. manaki teliyadu vallu entha dukham lo vunnaro. The ones we know about are the ones we saw closely (like ur grandma Kamal). maku telisina avida koduku chanipoy 15 years avutundi. ippatiki koduku jayanti, vardanti ki office ki radu. ippatiki koduku grave choodanu NY ki veltundi every year. aavida lanti vallu inka entha mando, manaki teliyakapote paye, vallaki levu, manake vunnay bandhalu ante maa inti daggara orphanage lo vunde all the abandoned moms gurinchi evadu matldtadu? vallaki vanti meeda cheera vunda oodipoyinda choosevadu kooda vundadu. akkadem ayipoyay Indian families vunde bandhalu anubandhalu? | ||
| Dreamcatcher Comedian Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 1473 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
Losing loved ones due to age vs. losing loved ones unexpectedly due to accidents ki difference untadi anukuntunna. | ||
| Sanman Comedian Username: Sanman Post Number: 1667 Registered: 08-2010 Posted From: 71.199.91.151 Rating: N/A |
elaagaina west lo konchem bandhaalu takkuve manushula madhya. i think it is because of no one needing anyone's help that relationships dont get stronger. if you have good credit you really dont need a friend. you have AAA you dont need a friend when your car breaks. panchadaara aipoina pakkintiki poru store ki potaru cars untai kabatti. all festivals are focused towards the family getting together not families getting together. college lo kuda homies takkuva buddies ekkuva. just my observations assange is the biggest "patriot" India has seen in recent years | ||
| Kamal Megastar Username: Kamal Post Number: 23045 Registered: 08-2009 Posted From: 64.64.32.4 Rating: N/A |
nenu school lo unnappudu .. naa masters prof .. my dearest Guru .. oka roju school lo class ki velle mundu (nenu GA) .. he said .. my mom died last week .. so I will not be here tomorrow .. edanna issue unte call cheyyi cell ki ani annadu .. nenu shock tinna .. last week lo pothe .. eeyana ippudu cheptunnarenti .. asalu eeyana vellakunda ikkademi chestunnaru ani .. oka minute lo chala aalochincha .. he said later .. valla family vallu andaru ekkadekkado unnarata .. when his mom died .. only 1 daughter was living near by .. so vallu velli body ni hospital nunchi receive chesukuni .. ekkado store chesi .. andaru phone lo .. ye roju funeral cheyyali anedi decide chesukuni .. appudu veltunnaru ani annaru .. aayana tirigi vachaka .. nenu oka condolence card teesukuni velli .. I am very sorry ante .. no you dont have to do it .. we anyways were expecting this annaru .. naaku malli mind block .. he was so casual about it .. idi antha nenu ee country ki vachina kottalo .. so asalu ardam ayyedi kaadu .. that too .. maa intlo .. when my grandmother passed away (in my childhood).. maa family was rattled .. specially my dad .. he was not his usual self at all .. so terrible .. appudu anipinchindi enta difference undaa ani .. na punyam .. na paapam .. na soukhyam .. na dukham | na mantro .. na theertham .. na veda .. na yagnah || | ||
| Truelies Side Hero Username: Truelies Post Number: 6404 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 74.237.6.152 Rating: N/A |
miles evariki? funeral home vadika? dead body ka? www.prajarajyam.org - The account has been suspended. | ||
| Truelies Side Hero Username: Truelies Post Number: 6403 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 74.237.6.152 Rating: N/A |
 www.prajarajyam.org - The account has been suspended. | ||
| Guttonkay Side Hero Username: Guttonkay Post Number: 8538 Registered: 05-2008 Posted From: 148.87.67.201 Rating: N/A |
manam dinam chestam kada, aa roju full ga avi ivi vandutaru kada, vachinollu thintaru kada, the same thing happens at the house after the funerla. Eating is parting of coping. As for kids coming the way they came to church - they came for their friend. I don't think they or their friend cares about their attire. The family is sad and will be sad for a long time. That doesn't mean they have to cry in front of everyone kada. Chittoor side konni families lo dinam roju pattu cheeralu, unna nagalu anni vesukovadam choosa. I think the logic is that you want the departed person's soul to be peaceful and not see you cry or sad or something like that. Every culture, every region has a different way of dealing with these things. Yes, so true about funeral homes. Funeral home vadu body shipping chesenduku various airlines use chestadu. he even gets frequent flier miles for those shippings. | ||
| Oohlala Junior Artist Username: Oohlala Post Number: 855 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 64.102.249.7 Rating: N/A |
Some people may be strong/practical while the rest, I think prefer to deal their grief in their own way & time, refraining to share it with others. | ||
| Ipc302 Moderator Username: Ipc302 Post Number: 8030 Registered: 02-2008 Rating: N/A |
here people are more aloof and they mostly suffer from depression after the death of their loved ones...most people control their feelings and don't even cry...they try to look brave but eventually such measures are not good....in oriental culture we vent our feeling by crying or some other means...here they go into a shell and don't try to convey their feelings...may be this is due to the fact that here people are more individualistic.... also people here believe that even in death we have to remember the good times of the departed and cherish their memories | ||
| True_indian Side Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 7302 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 12.129.87.4 Rating: N/A |
 idi enti, valla amma pote, vadi trip mukyama endo chus jeevitam trip poyina em enjoy chestaru swami manam, mana grandma pote ne, office ki vella kunda untam endo oka culture oka laga untundi cant comment who is right on wrong but strange | ||
| Proline Side Hero Username: Proline Post Number: 6227 Registered: 06-2008 Posted From: 99.33.210.32 Rating: N/A |
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| Cinejeevi Junior Artist Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 949 Registered: 09-2010 Posted From: 91.103.41.50 Rating: N/A |
maa tammudi colleague okadu monna maa amma poindi kaani memu already trip book chesukunnam so funeral will be held after 10 days and lot of money to keep body in the funeral home ani badha paDDaadu. tulaks lo pote edavaru.. may be this guy is tulak. kaalam to ala munduki povali ante.. | ||
| True_indian Side Hero Username: True_indian Post Number: 7299 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 12.129.87.4 Rating: N/A |
Recently i went to funeral for a kid of my tester. he was 17yrs old died in car crash, he was going to school and hit the moving crane. she is from a small village near charlotte, southern and bible belt so all went to the funeral at the church, we went in suits strange thing, lot of his classmates came there, they all were dressed like they were going to concert or movie, short skirts, lot of makeup, heavy perfume chewing bubblebum, it was kind of strange feeling when the priest was talking, i saw only very few people depressed or crying most of them were watching like it was a movie we went to house to console, everybody was drinking, smoking and chatting guys were even making comments on some of the girls/women there i have been to some funerals here but this one i observed closely even family was drinking and eating without a big remorse or any signs of depression i know even in india we feed on karma day but you dont see anybody happy i understand that they think he is meeting the god and they are happy from him but how can they be so happy without any remorse so soon, i know time will heal everything but still i cant digest though, this might be better PS: Arrangements are also good here, india lo anta chaos ga untundi, nobody knows what to do, when to do, how to do ikkada funeral company will take care everything like a planned event |
