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Dreameronaroll
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 12:38 pm:       

Ippudu pelli agelo unna generation antha worst generation ekkada undadhu .. Atu traditional kaka itu modern kakunda worst ga tayaru ayyaru..
Ameki abroad life ishtam ante thappu ledu ..Kaani evadino pelli cheskuni adhi sadinchali anukovatam worst... Ame paatiki ame abroad osthe appudu automatic ga ameki kavalsina equation lo janallu dorkutharu.. Ammailla parents emo maree worst ga thayaru authunnaru. Abbaillu katnam avi adgakudadhu kaani abbai package aasthi mathram vallu adugochu.. ento ee karma
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:22 am:       

sodarulaara society alaane edichindi...cheppalsina talli tandrulu kooda aada pillalni ilaane thingari pempakamtho penchuthunnaaru...paara hushaar...poori gudesalo ganje posukunedi ayuna melu koddiga husharuga undandi...may god bless you sodarul...
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:17 am:       


Gsn1:


You are thinking she is a FOOL to think on those lines.


ofcourse she is..
danlo naaku 1% kooda doubt ledu..
malli kapuram enduku kooli poyundi ani edustaaru..tappu ledu they should learn the lessons the hard way..
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Gsn1
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:16 am:       

Stalker

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neeko 1year onsite offer vachindi anuko...nee bidda ni school maanpinchesi abroad lo kotha school lo estaava?
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I will weigh all the options and decide WHAT IS GOOD for ME and MY FAMILY.
 

Gsn1
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:15 am:       

Stakler

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argument sake kosam ayuna pitchi alochanalani samardinchaku...
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Ivi arguments kosam kaka, are we solving their problem in real?

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pelli anedi 1yr 2 yr vyavaharam ayuthe sare appudu nuvvu cheppinattu alochinchochu..
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Pelli anedi, Valliddari madya decide chesukovalsindi. Yedi manchidhi Yedi workout aithundi valliddaru and valla families decide chesukuntaru. We are NO ONE to decide it for them.

I am finding it is GOOD that girl is clearly mentioning and discussing her ambitions and plans before the marriage itself.

You are thinking she is a FOOL to think on those lines.

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khudafees!
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Have a good day.
 

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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:09 am:       


Gsn1:

WHY NOT?


malli why not antaav...chepthunna ga...vandella jeevitham foundation leni abstract events meeda base chesukuni evaru teesukoru..

neeko 1year onsite offer vachindi anuko...nee bidda ni school maanpinchesi abroad lo kotha school lo estaava?

argument sake kosam ayuna pitchi alochanalani samardinchaku...

pelli anedi 1yr 2 yr vyavaharam ayuthe sare appudu nuvvu cheppinattu alochinchochu..

khudafees!
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:03 am:       

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.but dont say that her choice is right
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WHY NOT? Why do you think only OUR CHOICE/VIEW is RIGHT?
 

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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 11:00 am:       


Gsn1:

Her plans AS OF TODAY is going abroad, what is WRONG IN IT?


because no sane mind plans their life based on speculation..

her choice is her prerogative, no one has rights to question that...but dont say that her choice is right...that makes us insane people..
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 10:55 am:       

Stalker

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abroad lo settle avvalaaa? adi oka demand na PELLI ki? adhedho burra lekunda adigindi...meekemaindi?
visa officer visa reject cheste idi mogudni vadilestaada? poni trump gaadu pampincheste vadilesuddaa? ilatolle malli nri husbands abuse chestunnaru ani edustaaru.?? ee ardamparamleni korikalaa empowerment ante?
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Why not. It is her plans for her future. If it matches with the boy's, they will get married.

Regarding future, like visa getting rejected or Trump throwing them out etc. they will change their plans as per the situation. Her plans AS OF TODAY is going abroad, what is WRONG IN IT?

Who are we decide what he/she has to think and how to live. If their views match, they will marry otherwise they remain friends.

It applies to BOTH SEXES, not only from Girls side. My point was, in the past, GIRL has NO SAY and now they BOTH have a say. That is good change.
 

Mandharam
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 10:42 am:       


Gsn1:

What is wrong each of them expressing their desires and future plans? Why future has to depend on ONLY from the boy's perspective?

Kudos to that girl for being firm in her ambitions and dreams.




feminist angle theeskochi divert chesthunnaru assalu point ni

i say both boy, girl expecting 'plug and play' to workout in relationship
adjustment, adaptation, understanding, respecting other's view lantivi kanipinchatam ledhu

iddariki okate ice-cream nachithe pellu chesukundam ane stage ki vachindhi current youth generation

ice-cream taste okkati match aithe saripothundha? that is my question
life ni relationship ni workout cheskovali anedhi marchipothunnaru
 

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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 10:42 am:       


Gsn1:

Why future has to depend on ONLY from the boy's perspective?

Kudos to that girl for being firm in her ambitions and dreams.



koooooooooooooo

boys perspective endi?
abroad lo settle avvalaaa? adi oka demand na PELLI ki? adhedho burra lekunda adigindi...meekemaindi?
visa officer visa reject cheste idi mogudni vadilestaada? poni trump gaadu pampincheste vadilesuddaa? ilatolle malli nri husbands abuse chestunnaru ani edustaaru.?? ee ardamparamleni korikalaa empowerment ante?
daanni materialistic bathuku antaaru for your information annaaaa...pellillu ala chesukokoodadu doraaaaa..nee sthree janodharana posts eppudu ila ardampardamlekunda untaayemanna? why dont you think and post? why do you blame boys for everything
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Gsn1
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 10:32 am:       

What is wrong each of them expressing their desires and future plans? Why future has to depend on ONLY from the boy's perspective?

Kudos to that girl for being firm in her ambitions and dreams.
 

Driverramudu
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 10:10 am:       


Mandharam:




She seems to be intelligent
We all why once get used to develoef country
Its difficult to go back under and snail walk developing system

In simple words

Thay guy thinking short term benefits
Girl seems to be longterm benefits
Driving is my PASSION.
Ball or Bimmer does not matter.
 

Cool_indian
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 10:04 am:       

Ide marriage oka 10-15 years back - chadivindi chalu, udyogam light ani ammayini convince chesevallu..

Women empowerment is happening. We need to get used to this.
 

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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 09:58 am:       

Don't blame arranged marriages in this context, idhe problem love lo aithe inka worst ga undedhi, modhatlo okarini okaru impress cheskodaniki abaddhalu aadukuntaru..pellayyaka reality loki ochhi vidipoye kante idhi better. Pelli choopullone abhipraya bedhalu and cancelled..clean case.matured people.
 

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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 09:54 am:       


Mandharam:


'foreign vellatam' anedhi oka paniki malini vishayam


adi manaki aa pillaki kaadu kada...aame opinion ni gowravinchalsina pani unda ledaa?

ee kurrodu should thank his stars aa pilla open ga cheppindi...pattalu parallel ga unnayi avi eppatiki kalavavu...kalustayemo ani aasa padi pelli ane daanloki eppudu digakoodadu..chaala chaala important lesson...so much at stake...so many lives are affected avasarama?..

compromise anedi single hand tho cheyyalem kada adi grownups ni...compromise ayye lakshanam unna iddaru like minded people kaliste baane untaadi...alaane assalu compromise avvaleni vaallu kalisina baane untaadi...okallu ala okallu ila unnallothene problem...aa marriage lo oka partner definite ga abuse ki guravuthune untaaru, may ge they still stay in that marriage for many reasons but alanti marriage lo goppemi kaadu ani naa uddesam...abuse ni adhedho mana goppala feel avvatam asahyamga untaadi..

edaina sambandam chusinappudu relatives chepthuntaaru chudu naaku telisina oka kurrodo kurradho undi...chaala manchi vaallu...mandhu kottaru, cigarette kalcharu ani...lol pobey analanipistaadi..compatibility anedi completely different concept..
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Mandharam
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 09:29 am:       


Stalker:

vaallu chesindi tappu ani enduku anukuntunnav?




right ani kooda analemu kada

'foreign vellatam' anedhi oka paniki malini vishayam
life lo inka chala vunnayi

foreign vellatam ane point paina mana opinion keeps changing as we discover new things in our life
 

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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 09:10 am:       

vaallu chesindi tappu ani enduku anukuntunnav?
you should have appreciated them that they know what they want in their life...marriage ayipoyaaka telusukunedenti sinthakaaya..
open and honest ga undatame the best in any relationship..ifs buts undakoodadu marriage lo...there is so much at stake...pillalu puttaaka idhe point meeda kottukuni vidipothe bagundeda?

let the girl find happiness with someone else...manishi mukyam kaani matti kaadu ani teliyataniki entho time pattaddu...lite
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Mandharam
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Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2018 - 08:53 am:       

Current generation expecting 'plug and play' in a relationship, marriage and life
I cannot imagine how that can work. Just a mere overlap of few likes/dislikes may not be the sole reason of a successful relationship

I closely saw a match being broken where the girl expressed her interest for living abroad for a couple of years. The boy replied he is totally against abroad for the reasons of missing his family

This is was an arranged marriage type. They hardly knew each other. Talked for a few minutes. Both rejected the match

We never know. May be that girl might never travel abroad in her life. Likewise it is possible the boy had to move abroad for compelling reasons at work,finances etc

My question is : Have you seen this kind of 'plug and play' working for anyone ?

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