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Ringo_rangaswamy Hero Username: Ringo_rangaswamy Post Number: 18784 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 47.17.50.143 Rating: N/A |
This is alarming. Better take him to multiple doctors for opinion. Some of the doctors are idiots and they dont know what the hell they are talking.
Definitely talk to friends and people. Better be insulted and have a healthy kid than the other way around. Important thing is if the kid is behind on fundamental skills, its a red alert. | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 13106 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 47.187.20.146 Rating: N/A |
Very little... konchem dooram gaa vundi he plays on his own... older kid wants to play with him but he rarely plays with her. very rarely.. if you make an effort for like 10 mins then you will get a smile He is very cute kid... konchem chubbu so even more cuter... maa friends gang lo he is the youngest so all of us have been trying to play with him or pick him up... but so far no luck... doesn't even give hi-five due to visa issues, he can't change employer... so he is traveling consultant... so he is home only 3 days a week. Wife also works. I have been telling them to put him in day care so he will get socialized but they prefer in home nanny for some reason Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 68005 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.126.165.211 Rating: N/A |
Ya, antibiotics will kill good and bad bacteria But before even they born their gut is already infected If we can treat the gut than brain inflammation can be treated And kids can get into normal growth | ||
Tadi_mattayya Junior Artist Username: Tadi_mattayya Post Number: 359 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 64.128.22.8 Rating: N/A |
makes sense. my personal theory (not scientific) is the antibiotics that we give for ear-infections.. most kids can handle fine but some kids gut ecology goes for a toss..and that triggers intestinal bacteria impacting brain development | ||
Cinejeevi Moderator Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 6829 Registered: 10-2014 Rating: |
if he is such a cheddy dost from childhood I don't see any issue talking to him. after all you are his well wisher (hituDu) not just a "friend". English lo aite friend kaani telugu lo chala words unnayi to identify the proximity and closeness. I would discuss the issue no matter the consequences of the talk reason being a child's life is involved. An early detection and if it helps the kid I have no issue taking the bash if that's what happens. talk to them. 20 month old and not responding to name on top addicted to smart device. raise the flag ASAP paripaalana anta baagunTe nee endorsement enduku bujja? petrol bokka... | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 68004 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.126.165.211 Rating: N/A |
nene chesina research lo telisindi enti ante toomuch of processed food in US.. excessive omega6 in processing foods, from child to mother gets it.. other factors pollution, altered genes and DNA thine food lo if there is no balance between omega3 and omega6 it will develop intestinal bacteria, this will effect the brain development hence the developmental delays.. | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21477 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
true... get the kid off the device... and have lots of interaction | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 67183 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
and ask ur friend to be in this world and interact with kid as much as possible..spend at least 1-2 hrs irrespective of having concerns or not. as such kids here lose connection with outside world due to devices..if there is a problem that just compounds. There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Tadi_mattayya Junior Artist Username: Tadi_mattayya Post Number: 358 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 64.128.22.8 Rating: N/A |
same feeling here.. there seems to be a spike. I cant call it heightened awareness as these issues are very apparent and have big consequences on families. | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 67182 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
ask ur friend to take mchat test. its very wide to cover as many kids as possible so that they dont leave out..so initial ga 3-4 score unna u can recheck after 2 yrs..maree 8-10+ score unte get screening asap There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Lisk Junior Artist Username: Lisk Post Number: 387 Registered: 12-2017 Posted From: 192.158.48.162 Rating: N/A |
I'm not sure if my statement is right when i say that i have seen most of the autism cases only in U.S Desham lo unnapudu i haven't heard of it..but ikkadiki vachaka 1st telisindhi relatives valla daughter..next oka Bday party ki velthe cousin valla friend son..then colleague's kid...recent ga oka mugguram friends 15 years tarvatha kalisam and found out one friend's son has this signs.. is it something to do with american medicines or water or whatever..ivanni chusi 2nd kid ki plan cheyali aney alochona potundhi.. | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21476 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
dont use words like autism vunkl... just express concern that he is not responding, and you have seen similar thing happen with another friend and they got some speech therapy or something that helped tremendously... just mention if he thinks it will help you will get more info... start it and leave it to them.. if they get back to you.. you can take the conversation forward... | ||
Maverick Legend Username: Maverick Post Number: 67181 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 165.225.50.165 Rating: N/A |
try calling him when he is not watchin videos or idle. if he still doesn't respond or seems lost, its a concern and needs to be addressed asap. is there a social smile strangers or parents? how does he play with the first kid? say first kid takes a toy, he goes to parents crying/complaining.. your friend should keep observing all these rather than you doing it during ur temp visits There's a cacophony in the truth, A melody in lies and it accompanies one on every journey, From the lows to the highs | ||
Tadi_mattayya Junior Artist Username: Tadi_mattayya Post Number: 357 Registered: 02-2017 Posted From: 64.128.22.8 Rating: N/A |
Not responding is a red flag. Lucky many snap out and become normal...unlucky few will develop other developmental issues. For some reason, primary Pediatricians are slow to suggest or escalate.(based on personal experience and 2 other first-hand cases) If you feel parents will get offended or defensive.. suggest them to take kid for Early-child-intervention and give an example of how a similar issue was resolved in a couple of months because of intervention . no need to mention autism. | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 13105 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 47.187.20.146 Rating: N/A |
yeah cheddi dost... so we talk openly.. but kid / autism is totally different league ani hesitating kid was raised in india until 14 months... last 6 months here both my kids and friend's elder one play together but this little one plays on his own... almost every week we meet for something or the other.. but still he doesn't come to any of us or any other neighbors you can sit right next to him or opp to him and call his name... no response. Friend wife pakkana lenappudu maa vaadiki cheppi choodali with subtle hints... Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Mental_sachinodu Megastar Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 21475 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 50.241.19.41 Rating: N/A |
if close enough... talk to them. i know most parents are in denial, and from experience most parents already would have noticed and the thoughts must be lingering in their minds.... its a tough call. i did talk to my friend, but it helped because im a parent who is going through this already... and they took it fairly well... but dont be blunt. | ||
Pfan Junior Artist Username: Pfan Post Number: 798 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68 Rating: N/A |
i see a concern here, not responding to name is a red flag late talking or some developmental milestones are ok, but not responding to name is a big concern first step is go for hearing test, next visit developmental pediatrician also you can observe for repetitive behavior etc.. i know it is sensitive issue, oka sari just conversation lo autism word use chesinandu ku other family chala serious ayyaru, i didn't even associated some one has autism especially desi families are in denial mode, see if you can inform them indirectly.. | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 13104 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 47.187.20.146 Rating: N/A |
good. in fact slightly over weight... not sure if that is also another flag. good point... don't know Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein | ||
Legend Username: Twitter Post Number: 57532 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 66.194.212.162 Rating: N/A |
just hearing problem ayyundochhu ..max hearing aids tho problem solve ayyela undhi .. | ||
Bobby Junior Artist Username: Bobby Post Number: 398 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 207.70.163.246 Rating: N/A |
did hear test done? may be he is watchin only actions or colors in the videos,not the sound? | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 66548 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
Dont say they may get offended sooner or later pediatricians will refer them if problem is there what about food elaa thintaadu No Signature | ||
Mrhyderabad Hero Username: Mrhyderabad Post Number: 13103 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 47.187.20.146 Rating: |
Close friend vaalla first kid antaa normal. But 2nd kid almost 20 months now but not talking yet.. not even small words.. I think that's ok because some kids start talking little late.. my sys's kid also started talking after 2 years... now chatter box But at 20 months, kids respond when you call them by their name right? I don't remember exact time, but my kids / my cousin kids started responding to name after 1st year However my friend's kid doesn't even turn his head no matter how loud you scream his name But he watches youtube videos and dances.. so there is no hearing problem i guess not sure if it matters but he doesn't play with any other kids or doesn't come to anyone else except his parents even though he sees quite often just development delay ani wait and watch or better to take it to doc ilaantivi chaala sensitive issues kadaa so not sure if we should even bring up this discussion with the parents or suggest as they may take it as offense Don't say you don't have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, and Albert Einstein |
