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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33875 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 68.53.21.199
Rating:  Votes: 1 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, February 17, 2018 - 03:33 pm: |
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Emc2:there is a reason why kids behave like that, it is not for fun.. not every kid is same..
i donno bro...its not only with teachers...even when my wife goes to pick him up...he doesnt listen at all....he runs everywhere....car seat lo koorchomante chukkal choopistaadu.... entha manchiugaa cheppinaa vinadu...but if i go...he listens to me ...may be because of my voioce or may be because he has that fear in him.... my wife waits for 20 minutes...then even if he doesnt listen...one spank and he listens.... |
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Emc2
Legend Username: Emc2
Post Number: 57851 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.126.165.211
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, February 17, 2018 - 02:39 pm: |
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Urumi: kid respond avakapote, manalni blame chestaaru. ekkada manam antaamo ani kooda defensive mode lo padi maree manalni antaaru.
agree, occasional ga me and my wife go together to pick my son, i will observe for 15 to 20 mins before going inside from out side the window.. he saw me from window and ears covering with hands and running around, when i met teacher she started complying about it, she was telling me about sound sensitivity etc..i know he is not sensitive to sounds, because he plays with vacuum cleaners and runs around with irobo .. covering his ears is relate to anxiety, nannu chusi vadu nenu ekkada vadilesi pothanu ani tension paddadu, i took him near me and gave him hug and told him that we are going together, he is happy, i told same to teacher, we have to educate teachers too in this aspect, she understood.. unless we observe and tell teachers and school they have no idea what is going on with each individual kid.. |
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Urumi
Side Hero Username: Urumi
Post Number: 4437 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 173.70.201.205
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, February 17, 2018 - 11:19 am: |
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Emc2:they don't have patient and time
absolutely true . time pakkana pedite, 90% mandi janaalaki patience vundadu. kontamandi arms hold chesi squeeze chesi padestaaru.
Emc2:we cannot blame them either
na experience lo telusukunnadi entante, occassional ga manam vaallani blame chestoo vundaali. nenu chaala soft ga vunna ippati daaka. anubhavistunna. kid respond avakapote, manalni blame chestaaru. ekkada manam antaamo ani kooda defensive mode lo padi maree manalni antaaru. |
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Emc2
Legend Username: Emc2
Post Number: 57846 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.126.165.211
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Saturday, February 17, 2018 - 09:05 am: |
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Vjawarrior:
teachers stereo types untaru, they don't have patient and time, we cannot blame them either but as a parent vadi psychology nuvve ardham chesukuni vallaki chepthe they will try to do the same..there is a reason why kids behave like that, it is not for fun.. not every kid is same.. |
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Sahoo99
Junior Artist Username: Sahoo99
Post Number: 8 Registered: 10-2017 Posted From: 107.77.64.127
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 11:26 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
}we told his teachers,Whenever he grab the peers hand,model him"Lets go Play" ani after he imitates he can go and play.BCBA went today to school to demonstrate this to his teachers.His teachers are really good.chala help chestunaru.And oka note kuda stick chesam class lo ma vadu request chesthene ivali ani food or toy anything.konni aa note lo teachers ki idea kosam rasamu sentences ma vadu matladevi.inti dagara adugutadu ani but school lo adigevadu kadu .Now he is requesting at school also.me therapists or Bcba school ki veltara? |
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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33858 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 68.53.21.199
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 10:14 pm: |
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Siloan: ijia ..migata check list ok unte ....deniki solution one language anipistaandi ..intlo kooda englishee vaadi soodandi
thanks annai...we are trying to speak more english at home...he tries to play tricks with us...but chaala varaku we have to listen to him..or scream at him to make him listen to us..mamollgaa chepthe vinadu chaala cases lo....
Sahoo99:,Eroje ardaminndi maku model chesamu "lets go play" ani.Now he is doing that.ala emina unayemo chudandi.
can u elaborate bro...how can we do this in day care? Urumi: Day care lo food sarigga pettetattu choodandi. Meat and fat ekkuva vundetattu choosukondi, small amounts ayina kooda.
day care lo entha tinnado telidu..vaalllu baane tinnadu ani cheptaaru...evening car lo snack pedithe full gaa tinestaadu and he is hungry...day care lo I wish he conveys that he is hungry...i want water ani adugutaadu maa intlo....hungry ani intlo konni saarlu cheptaadu intlo...but bayata adagadu anipistundi naaku.... vere kids understand , listen to their parents at day care when they pick them up...maa vaadu asalu vinadu esp to his mom..naakaithe vintaadu as he knows that I will become serious on him anukuntunna |
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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33857 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 68.53.21.199
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 10:10 pm: |
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Emc2: Just screeming at him or keep complaining about not listening is not going to solve your problem Support him understand him first , see why he is doing that Spend some time with him, pasi manasuni ardham chesukuni guidi him Lekapothe inka frustrate ayipothadu chinnodu
bro...chaala patient gaane untunnam bro...ivvala first time got complaint from day care...that he is pulling, hitting others....he plays more with toys and not woth other children..but he loves to hangout with adults...say hi, hifi, hugs etc... he doesnt listen to teacher anta, no, no, no antunnadu anta... intlo kooda vinadu but nenu konchem gattigaa aristhe vintaadu... speech kooda slow undi... |
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Urumi
Side Hero Username: Urumi
Post Number: 4436 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 173.70.201.205
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 09:24 pm: |
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Emc2:
+ 1 Day care lo food sarigga pettetattu choodandi. Meat and fat ekkuva vundetattu choosukondi, small amounts ayina kooda. |
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Sahoo99
Junior Artist Username: Sahoo99
Post Number: 7 Registered: 10-2017 Posted From: 107.77.64.64
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 08:43 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
ma son kuda alane chestadu but in our case he does not know how to initiate appropriate play..ma son grab chestadu peers ni or vadiki ela chepalo teliyaka vala toys throw chestadu.we need to show him,Eroje ardaminndi maku model chesamu "lets go play" ani.Now he is doing that.ala emina unayemo chudandi. |
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Siloan
Legend Username: Siloan
Post Number: 53513 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 65.24.38.103
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 08:17 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:,slow in speech...says small words, 3 or small sentences... he doesnt listen to us...we have to scream to make him listen or give timeout...maa wife ki asal vinadu... day care lo kids ni kodutunnad anta...
ijia ..migata check list ok unte ....deniki solution one language anipistaandi ..intlo kooda englishee vaadi soodandi |
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Emc2
Legend Username: Emc2
Post Number: 57844 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 71.126.165.211
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 08:04 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
Vija you have to think in his prospective Just screeming at him or keep complaining about not listening is not going to solve your problem Support him understand him first , see why he is doing that Spend some time with him, pasi manasuni ardham chesukuni guidi him Lekapothe inka frustrate ayipothadu chinnodu |
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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33856 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 192.251.84.7
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 07:57 pm: |
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Urumi:sound sensitivity vundemo confirm chesukunnaara ? Headaches kaani. ? Sounds tolerate cheyyalekapote okko kid okkola respond avutaaru. Maa vaadu edustaadu. Mee vaadu kodutunnademo. Evari expression vaalladi. Auditory processing iissue ki root cause identify cheyyandi. Gattiga ariste pilladiki pain tappa dammidi use vundadu.
i donno andi....hungry ainappudu day care cheppadu evening...once we pick him, he eats snacks fully....i donno if thats causing frustration in him... he listens only when he wants.... ivvala vere kids ni kottadu anta....entha slow gaa cheppina vinatledu....only when we scream he is listening... poddunna shoe vestunte chaalu...no antaadu... donno how to make him listen |
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Urumi
Side Hero Username: Urumi
Post Number: 4435 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 173.70.201.205
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 07:51 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
sound sensitivity vundemo confirm chesukunnaara ? Headaches kaani. ? Sounds tolerate cheyyalekapote okko kid okkola respond avutaaru. Maa vaadu edustaadu. Mee vaadu kodutunnademo. Evari expression vaalladi. Auditory processing iissue ki root cause identify cheyyandi. Gattiga ariste pilladiki pain tappa dammidi use vundadu. |
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Pfan
Junior Artist Username: Pfan
Post Number: 793 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 06:40 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
https://www.nemechekconsultativemedicine.com/blog/reversing- autism-2017/ don't worry about autism in that link, it is for any developmental delays.. see if you can read that book, at least you will understand what is going on in your child system, your perspective of treating him will change.. worth reading that book, and there is FB group also if you want to follow |
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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33848 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 192.251.84.7
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 06:28 pm: |
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Pfan: but he needs treatment or he may out grow..
india lo pillalu kottukuntoo untaar...but ikkada I donno man... |
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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33847 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 192.251.84.7
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 06:25 pm: |
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Pfan:early intervention is must
if u mean therapies..yes he is getting all of them...what is name check protocol? |
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Pfan
Junior Artist Username: Pfan
Post Number: 792 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 06:23 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
please do your own research, don't follow my advice blindly but he needs treatment or he may out grow.. |
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Pfan
Junior Artist Username: Pfan
Post Number: 791 Registered: 10-2016 Posted From: 98.159.111.68
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 06:20 pm: |
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Vjawarrior:
put him in a name check protocol, trust me it is all natural, all you need to do is EVVO,fish oil and inulin or consult with name check doctor..you will see lot of changes.. you need to understand your kid first, it is not his fault..there is lot to do with his biological things, early intervention is must |
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Vjawarrior
Legend Username: Vjawarrior
Post Number: 33846 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 192.251.84.7
Rating: N/A Votes: 0 (Vote!) | | Posted on Friday, February 16, 2018 - 06:08 pm: |
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my son is 2years 10 months... day care ki veltunnadu... slow in speech...says small words, 3 or small sentences... he doesnt listen to us...we have to scream to make him listen or give timeout...maa wife ki asal vinadu... day care lo kids ni kodutunnad anta... vere kids tho kakunda toys thone ekkuva aadataadu...he says hi to everyone in day care though.. he runs and doesnt listen,,.... Im very concerned...how to control him... how shud we make him understand what we say and make him not to hit others... |