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Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3869 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
recently visited a relatives place...husband literal ga edupu....wife emo parents bagogulu chusukonivvadu...money antha joint antaadi...lock chesestaadi...parents pranalameedaki vachuna spandhana undadu....if at all jaragaranidi jarigithe aa money attukuni wife jumpu like chakri gaani wife...taruvata parents roadlemmata adukku thinaali....valla paristhithi enti mari? anaadha aasramalena? vayasu lo unna wife dabbullekunda bratakaledu...kaani vayusu meerina senior citizens matram anaadha asramam paalu? entamandi ee asramallo magguthunnaru...year on year aa percentage enti? ademanna pattinchukuntaama ledu... poni senior citizens emaina sampadinchukonistaara ante...30years vaalla sampadhana antha ee lanjxakodukulani mepi chadivinchi oksa prAyojakudini cheyatanike saripoddi... cheppandi evariki undaaali HAKKU? Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3868 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
chi deenemma eenadu link dorakatamledu... taiwan lo a son was asked to pay 1 million for raising him...ilanti rules laws leka senior citizens nasanamayipothunnaru...pellayina daggaranundi pellam cheppudu maatalu...kids vanka bettukuni thalli tandrulani gaalikodileyatam... http://www.newsweek.com/taiwan-supreme-court-orders-son-pay- mother-1-million-raising-him-768077 30years penchi pellaniki ankitam isthunnaru india lo disgusting...evaru raktanni invest chesthunnaru evaru HAKKU lu pondhutunnaru...enduku pelli chesukunnav anta lol..ilanti laws leka chelluthunnadi abuse anthe.. Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71648 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.191.36 Rating: N/A |
recently visited a relatives place...wife literal ga edupu....husband emi chesthunnado teledu money...no savings...if at all jaragaranidi jarigithe kids paristhithi, valla paristhithi enti ani? vadu naa istam..nenu seppanu ante, pelli chesukokunda bachelor ga vundalsindi ani seppa...kids ni dinchaka naa istam ante dekadu....u have to be responsible... she raised very valid points...I have made a conclusion she can handle finances better than him...and its the need of the hour... BTW abbayi naaku relative...ammayi bayata vallu... so anni tappu analemu..ala ani anni right analemu....okko case ki okko logic....mana case vere vatiki apadinchalemu....generic ga all bad or all good ani cheppalemu..... issues are there on both sides...some times itu right..some times atu right | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71646 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.191.36 Rating: N/A |
dwry adige tappudu leni siggu, sampadana meeda right ante enduku vuntadi? dowry adigetappudu siggu padi vunte second question araise avvadu | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71645 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.191.36 Rating: N/A |
Dowry anedhi social norm ina its against law...nuvvu cheppe law lo dowry adigithe bokkali veshtaru.... parents ki pettakudadu ane daniki, naa dabbulu naa istam vachinattu cheshta ane daniki nakkaki nagalokaniki vunnantha theda vundi... parents ki ivvatam veru....cousins/frens etc ki ivvatam veru... case by case meeda matladali kaani anni cases ni oke ghatana kattesi mattadakudadu.... ladies own job cheyyali/salary techukovali/magadi salary ela karchu avuthundi ani adagakudadu anedhi / naa istam ante kudaradu.... anni choosi chesukunnappudu, compromise tho munduki vellali....ala compromise avvalemu anukunte, pelli chesukotam waste... ilanti problems emi vundakudadu ante adarsa vivaham chesukovali.....or love marriage chesukovali....appudu less problems | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3867 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
moning eenadu lo edo link chusa...ikkada post cheddam anukunna... the day parents follow that process india will be a great place for equality.. 30years penchi poshinchina parents ki HAKKU undadu kaani pelli chesukunna maru kshanam nundi abbayi sampadhana meeda wife ki HAKKU anta...sigganna padaru.. Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3865 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
neeku asalu ardamavutundo nuvvu em post chesthunnavo  magadu ekkada depend avuthunnadu...edi cheppu ee vidamga magadu depend ani cheppu straight ga.. dowry anedi social norm...magadu sampadinchaali anedi ela oka expectationo alaane dowry techukuntundaa anedi oka expectation...anthe kaani daaaniki legal ga relevance ledu...ye HAKKU ledu magadiki..alaane abbayi sampadhana lo kooda ye HAKKU ledu other than maintenance for a dependent wife...maintenance ante nenu thinataniki undataaniki naa karchuki intha ani...nee amma babu ki pettaku naake pettu ane HAKKU ledu.... hakku lenappudu enduku expect chesthunnaru ante...cheppanu kada oka kind of security like abbayi job cheyyali anedi ela ayuthe security no alaane...expectation undatamlo tappuledu daanni HAKKU anukuntene problem...meelanti feminists daanni hakku anukuntunnaru self respect tho vaalla kaalla meeda vaallu brathakatam maanesi.. manam ikkada matladukunedi hakkula gurinchekaaani expectations gurinchi kaadu...legal ga hakkulu teleekunda gonthemma expectations pettukunte ye samsaram kooda happy ga undadu eppatiki kooda....okodu okoddi chaduvu samskaram pempakam batti okola untaaru...andaru nuvvu cheppinattu undaru...societal norms are trash... only law defines the life...law telusukunte andariki manchidi...hakku lu geeta lu telusukuni hundaaga brathakochu evarayuna sare...desam lo law sarigga leka ee badhalu anninu.. done annai...anyway I think you will not get it...last post to you in this tedd.. Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71641 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.53 Rating: N/A |
yes their norms different to other caste ppl...other caste ppl ki land vundali...brahmins ki govt job vundali....mutual ga agree vunnappude pelli jaruguddi....ala leka pothe, explicit ga cheppi suite ayye vallani chesukovali.... naa istam ante kudaradu... | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71640 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.53 Rating: N/A |
hakku ledu annappudu, aa dowry lekunda/adagakunda pelli chesukovachu kada? manaki social status kavali/dowry kavali/ ammayi chadivi vundali/job cheyyali/andam ga vundali...indulo mana self respect ni improve chese point okkatanna vunda? vallaki mathram ee requirements vundakudada?vallaki mathram self respect vundali, mogudu meeda depend kakudadu... nenu kaadu addam ga vadisthundi..nuvvu.... nee point lo logic ledu/reality ledu/far from reality
so ammayi ki vunna asthi ni choosi pelli chesukunte ammayi mathram nee salary emi choodakunda neeki anigi manigi vundali? ammayi asthi annappudu, ne logic prakaram ammayi istam kada? manam asthi choosi pelli chesukonappudu, it doesnt matter evariki itchina pelliki mundu implicit ga nenu cheppinavi anni both parties agreed..if anyone different from the society norms, they shud explicitly say abt it and marry a person who has similar thought process
lol...self respect vunnavaadu evvadu dowry gurunchi alochinchakudadu....sampadana leni vanni chesukovali anuknna ammayilu chesukuntaru....future secure ga vundali ane dowry ina/ sampadana ina/ future planning meeda control ina.... avemi akkara ledu ante adarsa vivaham chesukuni, stop complaining... | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3864 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
bepanollu rupayi teesukokunda konni vandala savastarala nundi chesukuntunnaru...vaallaki vere rules raastara lol Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3863 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
nee argument lo point ledu...banda ga vaadistannav...dowry anedaanlo magadiki hakkuledu...try chesi chudandi wife techukunna aasti ni mee avasaralaki ledaa mee business laki vaadukuni chudandi...lol dowry anedi ammayi aasti. period. pillalni addupettukuni akkada ikkada invest cheyyalsinde kaani adi kooda wife peeru meedane kaani joint ga kooda konukkotam wife ki istam lekapothe peekagalgindi emi ledu...entha mutual anukunna literally zero hakku...repoddunnaka aame techukunna dowry lo edaina property thana chelliko tammudiko ichukunna legal ga kooda ye magaaadu emi cheyyaledu.period.. inka ye vidamga konukkundi antunnavo neeke teliyaali.. inka rendo isyam dowry lekunda pelli chesukuntaava ante yes sure magaadiki sampadhana lekunda ye ammayi ayuna adarsa vivaham chesukune roju vaste dowry lekunda pelli chesukotam tappuledu...nenaithe tappakunda chesukotam...arranged marriages anni money related ga ayinappudu rules magadiki matrame apply cheste ela kuduruddi.. Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71639 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.53 Rating: |
whether u get it or dont, if the alliance depends on the dowry, they bought u..u cant complain abt it. You can talk abt 1000 -ve points but would u have married the same girl if she didnt bring any properties? ur thot process is, even if u dont get it, ur kids will get it and they will be in a better position.
lol....then go for adarsa vivaham with out looking for dowry/social status/caste etc.....if ur thought process is this, u shud have chosen an employee who can earn her bread and butter
Law ki social living ki very less relation...Law only comes into picture when u try to go out of social norms or boundaries.
yes its her right. becoz she bought u..ready point 1
I am not feminist or male chauvinist. I am a normal guy who works within social boundary and ack +ves/-ves on both sides. | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3862 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: |
deniki deniki mudi peduthunnav annai...dowry teesukunte literally bought you endi...dowry anedi ammayi propery share...thanu techukunedi thanu techukun taadi, its her money...manakem vachuddi boodidha...thana money thana istam...adhe law kooda chebuthundi...and magaadiki daanlo ye hakku ledu...aame istapurvakamga iste ok...ledu ante aame pillalake ichukuntaado godaatlone padesukuntaado aame istam... dowry is not bad especially when croocked parents who see girl kids as burden, vaallu pellaayaaka aasthi anta abbayilake padeste adi correct na...asalu dowry anedi vachinde aa kaaranamga... additional dowry demand is bad...daanne harassment antaaru adi aapaali..daanike unnayi chattalu..
kids future anedi maintenance lekkalloki vastaadi...nelaki intha anedi ye parents ayuna chusukovaali adi provide cheyanappaudu adi tandri tappu avuddi..property koni ivvatam anedi ekkada ye chattamloni ye rajyangamloni raayaledu...provide cheyatam veru future kosam magadi sampadhanani dochipettatamveru...evaru sampadincharo vaallade pethanam.. coming to her future...if she is an abled person(healthy)...then magadi sampadhana meeda brathakataaniki siggu undaali...adi naa view...sigguleni law adult women ni somaripothulla brathakataniki sections create chesi aa burden antha mogodi meeda estaandi...that is what MRAs have been saying it is wrong.. oka adult badhyata inko adult teesukotam enti...daarunam anipinchatamleda?
enti kudardu? manam views kaadu law em chebutaando adhe nadavaali...law ekkada kooda naa sampadhana ela karchupettalo lo naa wife ki cheppe hakku undi ani ekkada analedu...thana dependent lady atuthe thana bagogulu mogudu chustunnada leda anede matter...travel together aa dabbulu meeda properties meeda samana hakku ilaantivi emi kooda law cheppatamledu...its a feminist view to contain a husband and his life..
who will decide who can plan anedi...it is an option anuko...mogudu ki nachi money management anedi wife ki iste ok...anthe kaani adi hakku ante kudardu..
so you are a feminist...accept it and enjoy annai Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Sicago Comedian Username: Sicago Post Number: 1441 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 77.172.211.78 Rating: N/A |
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Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 474 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 176.249.187.155 Rating: N/A |
Yes, for the same reason I’m doing this keyboard fight in this anonymous platform. Even if one person changes their attitude towards divorcees, I’ve had my success In real world I will need to face a lot of mud slinging before I get any justice that’s why I chose to just get on with my life | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3861 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
section undaali kaani aa section lo husband matrame undaali...relative of husband anedi teeseyaali...agree section undaali..teeseyamantam nyayam kaadu.. inkoti compromise ani cheppi dabbu teesukuni caselu moostunnaru adi kooda section nundi law nundi teeseyaali...harassment chesadu ante criminal prosecution lo dabbu perutho compromise endo ardamkaadu.. tappudu caselu pette aadavaallani aa section lekkane 7yrs bokkalo eyyaali....each case 6months lo parishkarinchaali... iyyi cheste ye MRA kooda 498A teeseyaali ani korukodu...adi matteru Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Saint Legend Username: Saint Post Number: 71636 Registered: 01-2011 Posted From: 144.230.63.53 Rating: |
whats wrong in that? nuvvu dowry tesukuni pelli chesukunte, literally she bought u..adarsa vivaham chesukuni vunte different matter.... It varies from case to case...Nuvvu money misuse cheshte, whats her future and kids future? after ur marriage, you have to travel together, naa salary, naa istam ante kudaradu.... If she can plan better, it is ok to leave this task to her..... I am completely opposite in reality but I do ack their rights / opinions | ||
Sicago Comedian Username: Sicago Post Number: 1440 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 77.172.211.78 Rating: |
498 A lekunte aada valla jeevithalu karsaipoyedhi, konni bokkalu vunna manchi section adhi.... | ||
Brickmansions Side Hero Username: Brickmansions Post Number: 3734 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 72.48.141.170 Rating: N/A |
420 kuda..... | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3860 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
 MRAs mi mem kooda adhe cheddumu andi if our parents, senior citizens, siblings are not dragged into this mud andi...law is unfairly treating the old or the weak...so fight seyaka tappadu...a few has to standup and question no...we are those few andi Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 473 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 176.249.187.155 Rating: N/A |
Oh, and forgot to add this in my previous comment. For all I have gone through, I have a lot of anger but I choose to be passive aggressive anc let karma do its thing. I don’t need to do anything. I have slowly learnt how to curb my anger and be socially well behaved. All thanks to the good education provided by my parents. | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3859 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
kc honnai  Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3858 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
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Sicago Comedian Username: Sicago Post Number: 1439 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 77.172.211.78 Rating: N/A |
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Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 472 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 176.249.187.155 Rating: |
As far as I remember I never restricted anyone but I had loads of restrictions (what time to switch on the washing machine in order to get a low electricity bill) despite the fact that I used to ask permission to buy a bicycle and to learn driving even though I was earning. My feminist friends around me tried to feed me some sense but I was too submissive. My abuse was directed at times when I broke rules. I always wanted to vent out about the holes in our society. Parents and society check for a lot of things ranging from bank balance, caste, job and every other shite but they don’t judge the 2 main traits for living together after marriage - personality of both and compatibility between them. Indian society in general expects everyone part of it to follow a standard template, high grades, good job, marriage (with anyone opposite gender must and should), kids. Same hamster cycle repeats for the next generation. When someone decides to not take part in this hamster run cycle, society tries as hard as possible to make their life miserable. | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3857 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
personality and ideology differences emo andi...mimmalni accuse chesinanta matrana meedi tappu avvadu...but okosaari completely wrong ga deal chesthuntaam as our society norms are structured in such a way.. naa varuku vaste...naa money nenu ela karchupettalo...evariki pettaalo evariki pettakoodado aa pethanam naa wife chestaanu ante kudardu...kudarnivvanu..then i would definitely treat her as money minded....each one is an individual adult kadandi..evari sampadhana vaalladi...spouse sampadhana manaki kooda pettamani adagochu kaani vaallaki pettaku ane hakku ledu ani naa bhaavana...even the law says the same thing...mana kutumballo adi gurtincham...thaalaala guthu vachindaa ledaa anede chustaaru mostly...disgusting anipistaadi naaku....prathi intlo vanda jaruguthuntaayi tappoppulu vaallaki tappithe bayatavaallam decide cheyyalem...end of the day evadi katha aadidi, evadi battle aadidi...material meeda aasa undakunda undaali anedi naa manastatvam.. alanti naa meeda dowry harassment petteru lol..irony anukovaali kada hahaha...domestic violence or poni eediki sadism undi anna tappuledu...dabbu kosam vedinchaadu ani nannu ante naaku navvu vastaadi...adi tappithe edaina accuse cheyochu nannu lol..nene agree chesta parents ki battal teeste vaddane vaallu unna frasier...dabbu manishe antaaam kada mari? anakoodada? that aside...additional dowry kosam himsinchatam entha tappo...dabbu kosam caselu pettatam kooda anthe tappu....meeru alanti chedda panulu cheyakapotam mee goppatanam...hatsoff to you...this is coming from a mens right activist...mcp whatever ;) so you are really an awesome human being Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Rusthum Hero Username: Rusthum Post Number: 10676 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 64.6.29.251 Rating: N/A |
bhava prakatana.. freedom of speech Veedi dialogue veedike applicable - Manam Baagunnappudu lekkalu maatlaadi, kashtallo unnappudu viluvalu matladakudadhu sir... yedo mayabazar teesinattu genre gurinchi lecturing.... deenemma life -sesani about DJ | ||
Teenmaar Side Hero Username: Teenmaar Post Number: 3921 Registered: 02-2011 Posted From: 24.185.157.193 Rating: N/A |
Add Clean chit to the list. | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 470 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 81.128.194.162 Rating: |
Irony of my life, nuvvu dabbu manishivi ani abuse undedhi naaaku reverse lo... | ||
Happydays Side Hero Username: Happydays Post Number: 6695 Registered: 02-2015 Posted From: 104.129.194.134 Rating: N/A |
Which religion and which god? Memu champtaamu anedi..chaala religions lo undi Memu oorkomu anedi hindus lo undi Chiru,Veturi,SPB,Ilayaraja,Jandhyala,Vamsi,K Viswanath,Sachin,Florida,Rohit Sharma | ||
Stalker Side Hero Username: Stalker Post Number: 3856 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 73.68.234.241 Rating: N/A |
dabbu kosam...meeru dabbu manishi kaadu so you didnt abuse it...and you didnt wanted revenge.. mee lanti vaallani vadulkotam athani loss not urs...you are truly independent...god bless you.. Stalker - 'S'traight talker | ||
Whitecollar Side Hero Username: Whitecollar Post Number: 8809 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 209.184.52.152 Rating: N/A |
Please specify which devudu? Secular or non-secular.. denni batti support untundhi.. veni.. vidi.. vici.. | ||
Frasier Junior Artist Username: Frasier Post Number: 468 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 81.128.194.162 Rating: |
I never used 498A even though I could, I can't believe why women would abuse it. Paruvu pothundhi kadha vaalladhi kuuda? Truth is truth at the end of the day | ||
Kranth1 Side Hero Username: Kranth1 Post Number: 6485 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 209.136.235.12 Rating: |
Inkoti add cheyyannai. Maa devudni emanna ante memu oorkomu. "Every twist, every turn, can challenge our sense of direction. But it's the choices we make when we reach a fork in the road that define who we are." - Dexter | ||
Whitecollar Side Hero Username: Whitecollar Post Number: 8807 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 209.184.52.152 Rating: |
498 A- Domestic violence --> deeni abuse gurinchi stories kokollalu Harassment --> 2 years kalisi tirigi final gaa harassment case pettina ammayi telusu.. This is highly debatable. Ee rendu cases lo genuine oka 20% untayemo, 80% are abused. SC/ST attrocity --> This is highly abused. Vallu emi anna, tirigi oka mata ante context odilesi ee case pettatam darunam.. Latest gaa Kathi kuda victim card vaduthunnadu.. Abused words are: Manobhavalu --> Endhi raa ee manobhavalu.. prathi vadiki hurting ye.. Secular --> please rename this to Anti-Hindu.. Stalker Baa, over to you veni.. vidi.. vici.. |
