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Abcdefghij Hero Username: Abcdefghij Post Number: 18275 Registered: 02-2007 Posted From: 68.49.55.232 Rating: N/A |
every kid is different and they will be fine at some point...atleast hoping. if its your cousin and if you have good rapo talk to them directly and ask as if you are not judging and give what you think is good. if its not rude dont indulge in other's kids business...if parents don't share the info...there could be a reason for them not sharing. kids issues are always little sensitive to parents...they might be going through alot with kid so don't chatter around relatives...thats one bad thing you could do to them sorry to say but india daka tesukellatam ee issue that to for 3 year kid is  Post by Knf: bittter annai, welcome RS prakasam varaku madi, Prakasm nunchi UA vaaraku meeedi http://www.chalanachithram.com/cgi-bin/discus/show.cgi?tpc=115&post=5144373#POST5144373 | ||
Boglehead Junior Artist Username: Boglehead Post Number: 176 Registered: 06-2014 Posted From: 174.59.126.97 Rating: N/A |
Agree with Cinejeevi. The behavior doesn't seem to be normal. Assuming your description of her behavior is accurate, she needs evaluation, initially by her pediatrician, then a developmental pediatrician or a developmental psychologist if Pediatrician agrees with you. Where does she live, btw? | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 14666 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.13 Rating: N/A |
>>She has known me for 2years but has never made eye contact with me or anyone except parents.>> girl kids generally more attached to parents at this age..anyway it's ur call. kinda bharateeyudu kurrod chakkaga cheppadu ee point - kids don't trust any one except their parents.. I have seen few kids who behaved this way..but were all set after going to school for few months... we are seeing this behaviour in kids because now -a-days they are growing in isolated environment..no grandma &pa's or no brothers/sisters.. working father and mother..so kids don't trust any one except their parents.. Zuri did not mention how long she is going to preschool.. if it is less than 2 months..no need to worry... but if its like 8-10 months and she is still behaving in same manner then its definitely something to think over.. | ||
Zuri Junior Artist Username: Zuri Post Number: 414 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 173.36.240.171 Rating: N/A |
She has known me for 2years but has never made eye contact with me or anyone except parents. | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 19489 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
It can be pretty normal , but it does not hurt to get some advice. | ||
Havingfun Side Hero Username: Havingfun Post Number: 5055 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 90.192.16.198 Rating: N/A |
intlo second baby behaviour ilaa unto abnormal and cheppochchu..... lone child and behaving so, ante normal And one other thing, why are you still reading this line that is obviously my signature? | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 14665 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.13 Rating: N/A |
>>dont follow american standards. they are based on ohio farm grils. Desi genes are different and will never match. lol. pilla edchindi. pakkanti aunty daggarki rakunda parents dagare undi. teacher piliste raledu. ivi toddler issues needs treatment ante inka em cheptam. | ||
Jai_ycp Side Hero Username: Jai_ycp Post Number: 4031 Registered: 04-2015 Posted From: 100.36.224.18 Rating: N/A |
if he is able to listen & follow parents directions, all is well. Ikkada doctor daggariki teesukupothe orikene interventions kella mantaru for safe side. some kids are shy and dont display social skills till certain age. dont follow american standards. they are based on ohio farm grils. Desi genes are different and will never match. the story of YCP and TDP in 2014 (AP)- http://goo.gl/zgrYmQ http://goo.gl/gn6XL5 the story of TDP in 2014 (T) - http://goo.gl/nyu1Wu | ||
Urumi Side Hero Username: Urumi Post Number: 4018 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 173.70.201.75 Rating: N/A |
edanna pain eemo, communicate cheyyaleka potundemo. rule out cheyyamanandi mundu. ee age ki antalaa behaviors vundavu anukuntunna unless some underlying issue vunte tappa. | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 14664 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.13 Rating: N/A |
>>kid's behavior is NOT normal. Worrysome at this point (per description). >>> >>but could be my over excitement too. >> 2nd line confirm chesko CJ bro | ||
Jambalahaart_raja Side Hero Username: Jambalahaart_raja Post Number: 6569 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 24.45.107.249 Rating: N/A |
Talk to your cousins.. kid is an adorable toddler.. expressing concern over the well-being and healthy up-bringing of a kid is never a bad thing... And suggest your Friends to follow Russell Peter's advice - Spank the MoFos!!! Ittanti verri vengalappa veshaalu vesthey veepu vimaanam motha mogipoyedi chinnappudu ayithe... Tantrums, crying and whining.. No Chance, No Way... rendu debbalu padi konchem sepu yedichaaka automatica gaa mottam reset ayipoyedi mana chinnappudu!!!! "Chill Bro. I told you to let it go!!" - The Budhha. | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3908 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
anduku DB undi, threads unnayi, andulo email IDs unnayi ani SESANI ippudu pinged  Jihvaagre Vartate Lakshmi, Jihvaagre Mitra Baandhavaha Jihvaagre Bandhanam Praapti, Jihvaagre Maranam Dhruvam | ||
Rebel Hero Username: Rebel Post Number: 14663 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 159.45.129.13 Rating: N/A |
I don't see any worrysome symptoms here.. crying, cranky, attached to parents ..that's what some toddlers do..hence the expression terrible two's. communication(atleast with parents),growth patterns OK unnattu unnay..some kids don't follow what teachers say initially because it's a new place..that doesn't mean there's an issue anavasramga meeru ekkuva worry autunnaru.. | ||
Last_avataar Side Hero Username: Last_avataar Post Number: 7195 Registered: 09-2012 Posted From: 12.10.219.226 Rating: N/A |
Your cousin can go to child psychologist , paying some fee they will conduct extensive analysis In some kids Separation anxiety may be extreme | ||
Dreamcatcher Side Hero Username: Dreamcatcher Post Number: 8316 Registered: 11-2009 Posted From: 208.86.145.68 Rating: N/A |
nemmadiga mother tho broach cheyyandi...like asking about how is everything with kid and how are kid's pediatric appointments going on..like you are inquiring about kid's overall well being...and when kids is crying excessively next time, ask mother again if they talked to pediatrician about kid's crying...if she says yes, then leave it there as parents are aware of the situation and they already discussed it with the doc...if she says no, then suggest they talk to pediatrician about it in a friendly way...and that should set the ball rolling between them and doctor about the kid. good luck. | ||
Mikkymouse Hero Username: Mikkymouse Post Number: 12048 Registered: 04-2008 Posted From: 70.191.59.106 Rating: N/A |
Emi unna lekapoyina kids behaviour lo konchem theda unte chupinchali..it is what it is.....Few years poyaka appudu early intervention ippinchi unte bagundedi anukuni emi labham. Just tell ur cousin to show her to specialist to rule out issues. Mild issues unna ee age lo set ayipotayi. May not be severe ....But chupisthe nastam ledu....unte she needs trearment..lekapothe happy Nuvve unna kannulatho mare vanka choodanani reppa venuka ninne ella kaalam dhachani... | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 47242 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.248.7 Rating: N/A |
mari boothulu etla seppali ani Whyme whatsapped | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3907 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
these lines are little worry some but could be my over excitement too. my kid being premie was only with us for almost one year due to fear of allergies and stuff (per doc advise). Later never used to go to anyone except for us for first 3/4 years. We were worried but once she was in pre-school some early troubles but later all set. Jihvaagre Vartate Lakshmi, Jihvaagre Mitra Baandhavaha Jihvaagre Bandhanam Praapti, Jihvaagre Maranam Dhruvam | ||
Bharateeyudu Comedian Username: Bharateeyudu Post Number: 1765 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 117.195.235.254 Rating: N/A |
I have seen few kids who behaved this way..but were all set after going to school for few months... we are seeing this behaviour in kids because now -a-days they are growing in isolated environment..no grandma &pa's or no brothers/sisters.. working father and mother..so kids don't trust any one except their parents.. Zuri did not mention how long she is going to preschool.. if it is less than 2 months..no need to worry... but if its like 8-10 months and she is still behaving in same manner then its definitely something to think over.. | ||
Rowdy Legend Username: Rowdy Post Number: 37414 Registered: 01-2010 Posted From: 12.155.202.69 Rating: N/A |
ee madhya idi chusanu ... oka kid gurinchi bhayam vesi ... http://www.asha.org/public/speech/disorders/SelectiveMutism/ | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 3905 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: |
kid's behavior is NOT normal. Worrysome at this point (per description). with regard to telling them... If I were you I will tell them in person. maha aite emavutundi? relation potundi.. Kid life bagupadite ante chalu anukuntaa. Oka vela emi lekapote, at least u will have peace of mind whenever u think of that Kid. if I feel it's my duty to say/do something I do it. naa kartavyam nenu nirvartinchaanu. manchi Mike lo cheppu, cheDu chevulo cheppu is the rule. relations lo teda vaste.. jai ghantasala, jai taata manavadu anukuni "anubandham aatmeeyata antaa oka bootakam" song esukondi. all the best. Jihvaagre Vartate Lakshmi, Jihvaagre Mitra Baandhavaha Jihvaagre Bandhanam Praapti, Jihvaagre Maranam Dhruvam | ||
Spy_india Hero Username: Spy_india Post Number: 11540 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 206.29.180.75 Rating: N/A |
kids behaviour normal aa kaadaa ane question ki oka example : to be frank modatlo urimi cheputunte mari chodyam ekkuva think chestunanv ani naa tokaklo salaha ichaa (endukante naa chuttu pakkala naa bujji prapancham lo appati varaku nenu choodaledu ) ippudu urmi ni taluchukunte kanneru tappa emi maltadaleni paristi naadi  so konni konni vishayalu over react/normal anedi appudappudu choose manam cheppalemu.. roju bharinche parents ke telustundi valal kid gurinchi | ||
Buduguuu Megastar Username: Buduguuu Post Number: 24672 Registered: 01-2012 Posted From: 199.67.131.217 Rating: N/A |
kids vishayam sensitive sister... meeku cheppedem undi indulo.. me cousin meeku enta close ane danni batti spy cheppina avidea follow ayipondi. konta mandi indirect hints ki kuda offensive ga feel avtaru. ivanni bereeju esukuni proceed ayipondi | ||
Spy_india Hero Username: Spy_india Post Number: 11539 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 206.29.180.75 Rating: N/A |
hmm cheppala oddaa ana sandhigdham ? maatallo phalana frd vala frd valal frd valla sister valla cousin valla kiduu ani begin chesi nuvvu emi observe chesavo cheppi doc choopinchaaru anta.. results emi raakapote baagundu.. malli follow up kaaledu ma vallu worry ga unnaru ani hint la aivvu first if they understand their kid behaviour okey .. lekapote monna cheppa kada ma valla kid ani malli begin chesi detialed ga behaviour explain chey .. good vallu mundugane doctor ni consult chesaaru ani own add chey okokkasaari mohamatam relation potundi ..manchi cheddam anukunte chedu ayye chances untaay .. ani dhairyam chesi cheppalemu konni koni so ilaa beerkay peechu etti cheppeyadame all da bestuu | ||
Aggipidugu116 Comedian Username: Aggipidugu116 Post Number: 1662 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 72.78.82.241 Rating: N/A |
at 2 year checkup.. doctor gives 20 questions.. if you match 100% you are fine.. | ||
Okahyderabadi Side Hero Username: Okahyderabadi Post Number: 5819 Registered: 12-2009 Posted From: 68.128.160.106 Rating: N/A |
each kid is different but these seem pretty bad symptoms it is better you tell them to consult a pediatrician for evaluation, they may not like it initially but if there is an issue they will come to appreciate it that your concern has helped their child. you should break it in a very gentle way and let them know they should get help for the kid In history there is no such thing as the last word on any subject research leads to new things every day | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 48722 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 128.229.4.22 Rating: N/A |
it might be late, but can't help it, these are sensitive issues, manam ekkuva involve avvakapovadam better unless they ask for suggestions | ||
Meghan Side Hero Username: Meghan Post Number: 2129 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 161.162.84.84 Rating: N/A |
Cousin antunnav kabatti maree daggara close ayithe cheppeyi.... yes sometimes you hesitate ... but if what you are doing is right .. go ahead... case1: your view may be wrong... they might be consulting a doctor ... case2: he feels and not tlaks... mari alantivaditho manakenduku brother | ||
Zuri Junior Artist Username: Zuri Post Number: 413 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 173.36.240.171 Rating: N/A |
ade concern, will it be too late before they realize, already 3yrs old and early intervention is better | ||
Bharateeyudu Comedian Username: Bharateeyudu Post Number: 1754 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 117.195.235.254 Rating: N/A |
Your senses worked well  | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 48721 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 128.229.4.22 Rating: N/A |
in some situations it is normal and in some situation it is not either case they already know about her behavior and pediatricians should have suggested something parents already know about this situation and some times they don't share with any body, either case they should take it to specialist i have seen a similar situation in one of my friends son, eppudu chusina self dabba kottevadu kid kosam, fianlly in kindergraten he is facing lot of problems, still he won't accept | ||
Bharateeyudu Comedian Username: Bharateeyudu Post Number: 1753 Registered: 03-2016 Posted From: 117.195.235.254 Rating: N/A |
it is not abnormal...but not even normal.. few kids who grow in isolation usually tend to have this behaviour...good thing is she started sending her childto pre school.. she will become normal child in few months ani feeling.. But it could be the case of selective mutism too.. | ||
Zuri Junior Artist Username: Zuri Post Number: 412 Registered: 12-2012 Posted From: 173.36.240.171 Rating: N/A |
My cousin's kiddo has some symptoms that have been pestering me for atleast an year. All the threads on kids issues have spooked me. So wondering if I am overreacting. Kiddo just turned 3 but still doesn't play with other kids. She is always by herself, does not interact with anyone except mom and dad. She is clingy, cranky and cries all the time, yes all the time. When we meet on weekend trips, the behavior has lasted for the entire weekend. She doesn't let anyone touch her (stranger anxiety??) and off late is throwing violent tantrums. She does communicate with her parents (only) on what she wants and can speak in small sentences. They have started sending her to a preschool I believe, where the teachers have informed the parents that she doesn't follow instructions, plays by herself and has general attitude issues. Obviously terrified of broaching this topic with cousin as they haven't shared their concerns with me or others. I am pretty sure they haven't consulted a specialist so far. I have asked my mom and she thinks cousin's parents/inlaws are probably in denial. Just wondering if this is normal toddler behavior? |
