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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 01:18 pm:       

best thing in life. it is the essence and purpose of life. what is life without a family and especially kids.
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 01:01 pm:       

Barbaad*
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 01:01 pm:       


Onlytruth:

bathroom sink hole lo kalisipoyundevi




Ee topic meeda oka ADULT joke yaad ki vacchindi Bhayya..

Sperm 1 - tu bada home kya banega

Sperm 2 - mein doctor banoonga

Sperm 1 - mein engg banoonga

The guy mastrubates..

Sperm 2 to sperm 1 - saaala career barbaag hogaya..lol..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 12:59 pm:       


Onlytruth:

bathroom sink hole lo kalisipoyundevi lives





Snakes in Your backyard won't bite only your neighbours.
#Hillary Clinton
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 12:58 pm:       


Nice:


 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 12:41 pm:       

If it is not worth , you/we would not be you/we !

bathroom sink hole lo kalisipoyundevi lives
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 12:19 pm:       


Kick:

I'm a guy who doesnt want to marry.



Kick:

Is fatherhood really worth it?




two statements do not sync...:D

you can be father without getting married

you can get married and not have a kid

which one is your quechen about
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 12:05 pm:       


Kick:

Detest or resist marriage if you can...but once you got married.., fatherhood is the only respite u can get out of marriage[smile]




sari aina statement
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 11:49 am:       


Sesani:

After a crazy day, when u go home and open the door and call the kid, it comes to you and hugs u with a broad smile.. WHAT A FEELING I TELL YOU... Price less... oka million dollar account la unna aa haapiness raadu

- Early in the morning when the kid wakes up and smiles at you, deenemma jeevitha.. it makes ur day

- The kiss it gives you, devudaaaa... blessed anthe!!




 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 11:43 am:       


Kick:

Kick




Bhayya problem emiti ante pillalu kaavali ante pelli ane baggage 99% cases lo mandatory - akkade problem antha. Dabbu saripadinantha unte too small ga unappude baby or babies ni adopt chesukunte life set. Baggage lekunda kuda life ni full ga enjoy cheyavachu

Dabbu saripadinantha ani enduku annanu ante, 24/7 manam chudalemu kadha pillani office pani lo or dabbu sampadinche panilo padi - aa time lo chusukovataniki intlo manushulu undali ga atleast till the kids come to the age of 6-7
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 11:40 am:       


Rasputin:

I never really felt what love is until i held my daughter in my hands, the moment she was born.




Puttinappudu naaku emi anipinchaledhu gaani, once 6-7 months daatina taruvatha vallu chese panulu, mana kosam chudatam lantivi modalu ayina taruvatha vache feeling ni describe cheyyataniki AMAZING ane word eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee matram saripodhu
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 11:37 am:       


Pulpfiction:

.they are filling the gaps in your life through their first 20 years.. so tomorrow if they fly with a bird of their choice, you need to thank them for the bundle of joy they gave you for 20+ years




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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 11:26 am:       

Yes.

Totally worth it. I never really felt what love is until i held my daughter in my hands, the moment she was born.
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:53 am:       

Y or X, chromosome lo kick verabba.. avi lekapote life modu ga ayipotundi..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:40 am:       

changanti pravachanalu vinandi, all set avuthar :D

note: nenu vinaledu, kani vinna vallu chepparu..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:38 am:       


Kukatpally:


annai ee role suite avvale nee image ki set avvadu... chiru apadabandavudu role type lo vundi... go back to your gangleader role for db sake


ikkada kooda gangleader type role ee.. sarigga saduvu...:D
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:35 am:       


Seinfeld:



annai ee role suite avvale nee image ki set avvadu... chiru apadabandavudu role type lo vundi... go back to your gangleader role for db sake
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:32 am:       


Seinfeld:


nee "job" nirvathinchu, ee kramam lo vache anandalu, dukkhalu anubhavinchu..anthe..nothing more than that


arupulu
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:26 am:       

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:25 am:       

materialistic warald idi. iddar kodukulu unte, anna ki asthi ekkuva ichav ani parents ni ammana buthulu thitina vallani chusa..thammudu ante neeku ishtam ani parents ni sudakunda odilesina vallani chusa..at the end of the day its all swardham..self centered..ilanti prapancham lo tooooooooooooooo much involvement is very dangerous to self..

oka talli.trandi ki koduku gaa
oka wife ki mogudu ga
pillalki thandri gaa

nee "job" nirvathinchu, ee kramam lo vache anandalu, dukkhalu anubhavinchu..anthe..nothing more than that
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:19 am:       


Seinfeld:

vere valla example naaku anavasaram..naa example.. naa parents andari parents lage pillale jeevutham type lo pencharu..tarvatha emi ayyindi? I got married, settled in USA with kids..last 10 yrs gaa every 2 yrs ki 2 months visit cheyatam, etc..entha parents anna valla life valaldi, manadi manade...


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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:18 am:       

pellam ante resposibility tho vache prema..kids ante blood relation valla vache prema..(ee prema lone responsibility vachesthadi).. desis lo paina cheppina bapathu ekkuva..aa prema ki banisa avvatam not so good.. love them, teach them, learn from them anthe..inka adeeeeeeeeeeee jeevitham ante kashtam..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:18 am:       


Diviseema:

this surprises will be there for whole life. dont always expect a good smile.


Bhayya... emaindi neeku asalu! Eee chamakkulu enti? Divyananda swami vi eppudayyavu :D
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:16 am:       


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aa aalochane bhayamesindi kadoo..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:15 am:       

inkoti kooda undi...

mogud, pellam madya lo just artificial gaa unna love, blood relation (kids) ragane full ga divert avutundi.. not saying ikkada unna vallaki ade ani.. but idi kooda chusa nenu chala mandi lo..

naa friend okathanu unnadu, only kid athaniki pichi prema..antha prema nenu eppudu ee parent ki kid meeda unattu chudale.. wife tho edo ala untadu..asalu oka chemistry undadu. edo pelli chesukunam kalisi undali ane type..

chala varaku mana desi parents ilane untaru..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:13 am:       

a son is not always joy . same son who smiles when we get up won't let us relax after hectic day. instead of smile in morning he may piss on u.

its not the point. the point is getting prepared for the morning surprise.

this surprises will be there for whole life. dont always expect a good smile.
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:12 am:       


Pulpfiction:

many a time, after kids , bond between parents also betters ..




i agree with this which means there was a crack formed before becoming parents ..i am talking about that crack free period as a couple.
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:11 am:       

vere valla example naaku anavasaram..naa example.. naa parents andari parents lage pillale jeevutham type lo pencharu..tarvatha emi ayyindi? I got married, settled in USA with kids..last 10 yrs gaa every 2 yrs ki 2 months visit cheyatam, etc..entha parents anna valla life valaldi, manadi manade...

vallani ikadiki randi ante raaru..neeku ishtam unte nuvve india ra antar..ivanni parallel tracks..repu mana pillalu kooda anthe.. entha hold chedham anukunte antha dooram avuthar..mareeeeeeeeee athi prema kooda manchidi kaadu..

pllani manam kanindi enduku????? evaraina reason cheppagalara? why kids? aa question ki correct gaa answer chesukunte anni answers dorukuthai.. god bless..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:11 am:       


Diviseema:

a son is like




you male ....i will inform about you to sunkara baby
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:10 am:       


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i guess you have to be a successful hubby first next q will be fatherhood .




disagree bro ..

many a time, after kids , bond between parents also betters ..
Jai Rayala Seema !
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:09 am:       


Kick:




i guess you have to be a successful hubby first next q will be fatherhood ..so first steps first ..all the best.
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:08 am:       

a son is like reading chandamama book in 30's and 40;s

he tells u many short stories with big morals. fun ride.
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:07 am:       


Diviseema:


perfect, nenu ne antha baga express cheyalekapoya..exactly my feelings..

naak iddar kodukul..prema undakunda untunda pillala meeda? kinda janam cheppinattu intiki ragane vallani chudagane super happies,etc type all situation andariki apply avuthai..

kaani think more than that..beyond that..too much of athi edaina is not good.. ade jeevitham, valle jeevitham anukovatam kamedy...jeevitham ante pillale kaadu, amma nanna,pellam, siblings etc kooda..

nenu ayithe mareeeee athi chesthuna parents ni kooa chusa..vallaki cheppalem, chepthe moosuko antar.. manakenduku ani oorukovatame..telsi vache time ki anni vallake telisi vathay
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:04 am:       


Kick:

On that note how many of you feel you have been a good son to your father..




enti baaboo nee interrogation and quechin bank ...

close everything get married and then have some kids and rear them with joy .. topic is overrrr ...
Jai Rayala Seema !
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 10:02 am:       

On that note how many of you feel you have been a good son to your father.. I mean comparing all the love and hardships he had them for you.. Do you think he feels they are worth?

Me for its kind of 40-60 kind of vague scenario.. I dont even dare to ask the ques to my father
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:59 am:       

aa relation ayina oka level daakane vundali. dont hold anything too close.

play, teach, learn , enjoy with kid. watch them . observe them. absorb from them.


but dont hold them back, dont be mad about them . inko lokam ledu annattu bathakoddu.

nenu , naa pellam, naa pillalu ani oka well lo brathakoddu. not good for both.

joint families earlier help us a lot in this. our love, responsibility , worries and joy everything is shared and views in larger context. which is healthy . MAYA lo padoddu. nothing great about it.

i became more brave and less worried after kid. i reinvent my knowledge to teach him and he introduce me to the new world (generation) . i cautions him safety , he shows me taking risks gives us new skills. i teach him to remember ,memorise - he teaches me to forget forgive.

Father and Son are 2 teachers and 2 students. if u observe the process is damn fun.

many fathers now a days r crossing the line and killing the teacher in him and growing student.

thats the reason kids now r very intelligent with less wisdom .
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:56 am:       


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looks like really happy father here ..good for you ses..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:38 am:       


Emc2:

marriage and parenthood is overrated

sesani Shakespeare raasina book lo sadivi ikkada post esadu,

if you think it is reality go bless you amma..


 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:37 am:       


Kick:

sesani uncle everyone loves the cute kids and their acts.. kids below 10 is the not the entire life of a kid.. a kid also means adapillanamma type singer and the millions of kids who put their parents in oldage home.. mana mana bojja meda podukobettukuni aadisthe vallu manalni oldage home lo pedatharu... peduthunnaru.. see the bigger picture




Bedaru... not ever kid does what adapillanamma singer did... I opposed it in some thread already...

All depends on ur pempakam.. kid chedipoyina, baagupadda parents role chaala untadi..

Naadi love marriage... mem maa parents ni convince chesi pelli cheskunnam.. it took us 3 yrs to convince them.. leshipoyi pelli cheskovaale anna thought kuda raaledu maaku... we made sure they understand what we are up to and make them 100% comfortable.. ippudu both families are happy....

pempakam important and at the same time as a parent try to thing from kids perspective... talk to them, discuss with them.. 10 or 20 or 30, age doesnt matter
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:34 am:       


Andhrawala:

Total 0 aithee after 70 or 80 years empty land aipodhaaa???




alagani kanukunta potee ee land medha only humaans ae untaru after some years..y cant adapt some one who has no mother and father? religion peru tho , society peru cheppi bayapeettii balavanthmga pilalni kanipichatam apinchii. adapat chesukune culture ni encourage cheayalii. pilalani kane vallu chala mandii untaruu alane pilalni kanakunda adpat chesukune valani kuda encourage cheyalii.. appudu society stable ga untundii
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:29 am:       


Seinfeld:

20 yrs sare..tarvatha??????

Ekkuva involve avvaku ra poola sokka antaru..


 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:28 am:       

if you feel that .. do not get kids..

kids is not luxury are show putup.. it is responsibility. Do not expect anything..

being without kids is like staying away from the society. AFter some years you would really get bored.

With kids you get into different set of society. You meet with other family with kids.. you get to know schools.. education.. what not..

people without kids is like no responsibility which might look bright in beginning days but later you feel that you are alone in the world.
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:25 am:       

Kick vunkl - do what you feel is right for you. there is no answer to these questions. Emotionally Kids provide an angle we wont experience otherwise(to an extent pets do as well).

kids desi brain wash, but wive for 50 yrs is not? endhi vayya idhi.. every few years ki wives change chese vaalu unaar.. desam lo ne multiple wives simultaneous ga unaaru.. in our earlier generations it was quite common
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:21 am:       


Bumper:

ma thatha vala naanna ki 12 mandhi unde vallu ,

ma thatha ki 3

ma nana ki 2

ante ma thatha 9 kids ni kanaledu, ma nana 10 kids kanaledu compared to grand grand father. so vallu em anukovalii??




appatlo infant mortality rate high vundeee. entha mandhi survive avvuthaaro doubt tho ekkuva mandhini kanevaaru.

Over the period people realized its burden to have more kids and reducing the numbers


andhukee thaatha lo time lo 5-8 vunna figures parenst time lo 3 and mana time lo 2 or 1 aindhi

Total 0 aithee after 70 or 80 years empty land aipodhaaa???
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:21 am:       

marriage and parenthood is overrated

sesani Shakespeare raasina book lo sadivi ikkada post esadu,

if you think it is reality go bless you amma..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:20 am:       


Sesani:


sesani uncle everyone loves the cute kids and their acts.. kids below 10 is the not the entire life of a kid.. a kid also means adapillanamma type singer and the millions of kids who put their parents in oldage home.. mana mana bojja meda podukobettukuni aadisthe vallu manalni oldage home lo pedatharu... peduthunnaru.. see the bigger picture
 

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I could do that too.. but the reason i am thinking of not having kids is lack of clarity of what they bring to me. per suppose nen ala adopt cheskunna oka few years tharvtha if i feel i couldnt bare the responsibilty appudu vadilalem kada.. anduke ee relations antene complications




adapt chesukunna kid tho ini problems undav. just friend la undochu. what ever u provide to them its always better than what they deserve. so if u can bare them, bare as long as u can. after that explain u cant help them anymore just like hopw u explain to u r friend.
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On a brighter side.. I also support someone not having kids.. Maa pillala bhavishyathu (India bhavishyathu) baaguntundi :D :D
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emundhi...naa varakaite....purti nyayam cheyagalugutunnaana ledha ani with the added responsibility ani pressure untune untundhi..


antha added pressure avasaram antava..
 

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Manam pillalni kanakapoyina having kids in life is a must must must thing. they are such huge stress busters.. office lo manager item gadu savagotte danitho poliste pillalu pette tension chala takkuva.
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:07 am:       

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I'm a guy who doesnt want to marry. But then as I read more and more interviews I see lots and lots of people saying once they became a father their life turned entirely into new dimention..

Mahesh said "Every man should experience fatherhood.Being a father is the most important thing, if you ask me. It changed me as a person and gave me an all new life." and it entirely changed his life (those 3 years when he worked for kaleja is when gautham was born)
Tarak spoke more on the responsibilty aspect and lots of people said asala entirely new dimention chusamu and ultimate happiness typelo.. Is it really true? or mahesh kids inka chinna pillale kabatti is he enjoying his sweet cute kid times and gave that statement?

And in reality as they growup.. ante manam valla kosame valla life ni malachadanike daily 10 hrs ala ala work chesthu untam kada... vallu ala peddayaka.. monna aa "aadapillanmma" singer laga po bey gootle ani case pedithe asalu fathers thattukogalara? all the love and effort of his fatherhood waste aipoinatte ga.. ante nen cheppindi in practical even this relation is the same as a husband/wife relation or is it as rosy as mahesh described?

Ante mahesh..inka kinda oka post lo cheppina aayana views chusthe tempting gaa undi..ledu kumaru akkada antha scene ledantara?
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idhivaraku meeru kids vadhu ane vallu anukunta

adi idivaraku bro...ob'ly having a kid changed my life and everything i knew about life
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ob'ly having a kid changed my life and everything i knew about life



Happy to hear. Idhi varaku meeru ala antunte ila kuda think chestara anukune vaadini, anduke antha ga gurthu undi poyindhi

Kids iche enjoyment life lo edhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii ivvaledhu. Vallu manam office nunchi eppudu vastama ani eduru chudtam daggara nunchi every moment is precious.
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My son smile and face makes me forget all the worries that i have and the way he tries to speak few words is too cute. HE is just 21 months old. I named him Nikith Reddy. THE touch of his small hands is enough to be happy.

I Dont expect my son to study or become what i want him to but i want him to become whatever he wants ( in a good way ) .

Fatherhood is a gift and not all are blessed with it.
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na lantodu okadu untame chiraku inkokadu enduku [biggrin]
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My son smile and face makes me forget all the worries that i have and the way he tries to speak few words is too cute. HE is just 21 months old. I named him Nikith Reddy. THE touch of his small hands is enough to be happy. I Dont expect my son to study or become what i want him to but i want him to become whatever he wants ( in a good way ) . Fatherhood is a gift and not all are blessed with it.
anna happy for you.. but tharvatah tharvatha.. chala responsibility untundi kada lifelong.. okavela someone is not happy with their better half.. child ane baggage valla ..valla responsibilty valla kalisundalsina situations osthay kada.. nenu chala mandi ladies ni chusa.. valla husband ni vadilesi bayataki osthe financialga valla kids ni raise cheyadam kastam kabatti.. pillalu kosam kalisiuntunnam ane modelo bathukutharu [frown] inka valla life motham misery ne kada..i mean aa mother di..
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My son smile and face makes me forget all the worries that i have and the way he tries to speak few words is too cute. HE is just 21 months old. I named him Nikith Reddy. THE touch of his small hands is enough to be happy. I Dont expect my son to study or become what i want him to but i want him to become whatever he wants ( in a good way ) . Fatherhood is a gift and not all are blessed with it.
anna happy for you.. but tharvatah tharvatha.. chala responsibility untundi kada lifelong.. okavela someone is not happy with their better half.. child ane baggage valla ..valla responsibilty valla kalisundalsina situations osthay kada.. nenu chala mandi ladies ni chusa.. valla husband ni vadilesi bayataki osthe financialga valla kids ni raise cheyadam kastam kabatti.. pillalu kosam kalisiuntunnam ane modelo bathukutharu [frown] inka valla life motham misery ne kada..i mean aa mother di..


What you said is ONLY partially correct. I have seen numerous couples who had fights before and they changed completely after a child was born. The people who are forced to live together because of a child are those people who do not know how to mould their lives and mostly (90%)they fight for silly reasons.

And if mana child grow aythey appudu one feels the success of their child as their own success and be happy with the growth of the child. One should not just feel it as a responsibility, but instead mix love and care. If done so, then one will like the responsibility and will not feel any difficulty.
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I just can't fathom where people are going with this kinda thinking.. you are an empty white paper.. waiting to burn to ash.. n vanish into thin air.. do u want colors to be splashed all over u.. which may or may not turn into great pictures.. or do u wanna burn as the same white paper..
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And if mana child grow aythey appudu one feels the success of their child as their own success and be happy with the growth of the child.
postive hopes.. positive hopes everywhere.. I am asking to analyse it in its entireity. kids below 10 are cute happiness givers and all... nen chuse soceity lo 40-55's lo unde fathers passion oo ardam kadu.. work addiction oo ardam kadu.. 70% grey hair ochesi daily trains lo daily-service cheso.. govnt office lalo no.. leda whatevr whatever mng to evng oka hopeless human laga workchesthu untaru.. mng bayaldderithe evng intiki oche varaku.. naku bahle jaaliga untundi.. vallu ala chinna pillal laga tuck chesuni enduku chesthunnamo em chesthunnamo thelikunda.. idi na jeevitha karthavyam annattu they accept their fate and work work and work..koddiga lower middle class aithe inka cheppanavasaram ledu.. aa kashtam tho family of 4 ni feed chestharu.. ala poddunna nundi sayantram varaku varaku vallu pette effort is worth their relation with their family members is my point?
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I just can't fathom where people are going with this kinda thinking.. you are an empty white paper.. waiting to burn to ash.. n vanish into thin air.. do u want colors to be splashed all over u.. which may or may not turn into great pictures.. or do u wanna burn as the same white paper..
annai ittanti valuable post lu aina apudapdu telugu lo rayochu ga. Na lanti vaalu 2,3 times chadavalsina avasaram undadu
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monna marriage avasarama ani oka topic

today fatherhood avasarama ani inkoka topic....etu pothunaro andaru
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@Sunny.. valuable annaavaa..[bawl].. attaithe idhi kooda sadhivi petttu.. pakka thrd kannaa.. ikkade dheeni avasaram yekkuva undhanipinchi vesthunnaa..

Kids kosame love making.. manam chesthunnaam ani kaadhu.. it was teleologically designed so.. pillale puttakunte.. next yevadu "love making" cheskovaali.. you may think offspring as an offshoot of your biological desires consummation.. simply not.. the /ecstasy or whateva happiness u feel when u have sex n what pushes you to making sex/love again n again.. was evolutionarily attached to the process of having kids[ for the primary need of propagation].. enjoying sex is not the end.. its the means to an end.. simply put.. sex was made enjoyable.. so as to make the beings of that species to involve more in it[sex].. so that it can propagate endlessly..

Encephalization has really made us bonkers.. the primary aim/purpose of any living thing is to make sure someone/something is there to see the next day..other things later..

We dont know clearly what we have done or what has happened that eventually resulted in life from mere gases.. n little abt an intelligent life that can question abt it's own existence.. the ability to reproduce is eons of evolution compressed into a year.. keep in mind you are simulating the analogical equivalent of evolution by having a progeny...

Marriage or whateva.. is just a way.. that Mankind/society makes sure you reproduce.. the ultimate purpose.. deal with the allied sh#t in your own way.. how many times you are going to live anyway.. Hedonism my a$$..
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Detest or resist marriage if you can...but once you got married.., fatherhood is the only respite u can get out of marriage[smile]
 

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>> 20 yrs sare..tarvatha?????? Ekkuva involve avvaku ra poola sokka antaru..

depends on your pempakam..

I am 42 years old now.. But my parents are still involved my life.. They would like to know my day to day activities..

My son almost 19 now.. I would like to know what he is doing at any given moment.. although he is in college..

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Bumper:

positive side is good. tell me about negative side and how do u face the negative side




The +ve are so huge,-ves look silly but still chepta...

- Sleep less nights - this is the first major thing... MOM ki unnata pain dad ki telvadu... andharu mothers ki naa dhandam

- kids until 1 yr u have to be very careful.. what to do, wat not do do.. food, clothing anni chaala careful undaale

- Kids ki health issues (fever, cold to major issues) or yedaanna incovenience vasthe narakam, they cant tell u their pain so they get super cranky and it is very difficult to manage them.. u gotta still do the job and all the day to day stuff plus be extra careful abt the kid

- as they grow u have different issues, financial or age related or what not.. but that part of life yaa..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:04 am:       


Andhrawala:

Think for a moment.

How would have been ur life if ur Dad also had thought the same




ma thatha vala naanna ki 12 mandhi unde vallu ,

ma thatha ki 3

ma nana ki 2

ante ma thatha 9 kids ni kanaledu, ma nana 10 kids kanaledu compared to grand grand father. so vallu em anukovalii??
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And if mana child grow aythey appudu one feels the success of their child as their own success and be happy with the growth of the child.
postive hopes.. positive hopes everywhere.. I am asking to analyse it in its entireity. kids below 10 are cute happiness givers and all... nen chuse soceity lo 40-55's lo unde fathers passion oo ardam kadu.. work addiction oo ardam kadu.. 70% grey hair ochesi daily trains lo daily-service cheso.. govnt office lalo no.. leda whatevr whatever mng to evng oka hopeless human laga workchesthu untaru.. mng bayaldderithe evng intiki oche varaku.. naku bahle jaaliga untundi.. vallu ala chinna pillal laga tuck chesuni enduku chesthunnamo em chesthunnamo thelikunda.. idi na jeevitha karthavyam annattu they accept their fate and work work and work..koddiga lower middle class aithe inka cheppanavasaram ledu.. aa kashtam tho family of 4 ni feed chestharu.. ala poddunna nundi sayantram varaku varaku vallu pette effort is worth their relation with their family members is my point?
 

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medical problems valla kids puttakapothe, your life is justified

For others: without kids.. life is not worth living. period..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 09:00 am:       


Sannayi_nokkulu:

ippudu inthe untadi....mundhu mundhu untadi undu...neeku poom puhar chestaru..



From Vijayawada, staying in Bangalore
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:59 am:       


~chirutha~:

Ipudu kuda thread lo pillalu leni vallu alane feel ayyi OP ni encourage chestaremo ..


already Seinfeld chestunnadu :D
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:59 am:       


Kick:

I'm a guy who doesnt want to marry. But then as I read more and more interviews I see lots and lots of people saying once they became a father their life turned entirely into new dimention.




Kick brother,

Think for a moment.

How would have been ur life if ur Dad also had thought the same

Life anedhi fromstage to stage change avvaalaaaa
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Sannayi_nokkulu:

ippudu inthe untadi....mundhu mundhu untadi undu...neeku poom puhar chestaru..


I am ready for it baa :D...
 

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Sesani:




positive side is good. tell me about negative side and how do u face the negative side
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Pulpfiction:

vaalley by virtue of their birth to you are giving you endless joy .


 

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20 yrs sare..tarvatha??????

Ekkuva involve avvaku ra poola sokka antaru..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:57 am:       


Kick:

kotha kada alane untadi


As kids grow prema taggadu kada?? kotta la entha prema unte, peddaga ayitunte inka prema perugutadi, taggadu
 

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Desi brain conditioning
 

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Sesani:

before having a kid yevvadanna office la kids gurinchi cheptunte, endi raa veedi sodi anukune vaadni... i was so wrong..


Ipudu kuda thread lo pillalu leni vallu alane feel ayyi OP ni encourage chestaremo .. :-)
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Sesani:

chitti chitti maatlu, tappatadugulu, cute expressions, chese allari...


ippudu inthe untadi....mundhu mundhu untadi undu...neeku poom puhar chestaru..:D
sachipotava , avineethi ga batukutava okkate option ante alochinchakunda chachipotaa ane type cbn - OT
 

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Just brain conditioning idhi anthe..know many couples enjoying life without kids
 

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sesani:

Few things which you have to go through to understand is it worth -

- After a crazy day, when u go home and open the door and call the kid, it comes to you and hugs u with a broad smile.. WHAT A FEELING I TELL YOU... Price less... oka million dollar account la unna aa haapiness raadu

- Early in the morning when the kid wakes up and smiles at you, deenemma jeevitha.. it makes ur day

- The kiss it gives you, devudaaaa... blessed anthe!!

- chitti chitti maatlu, tappatadugulu, cute expressions, chese allari... :-)

- Kids are bundles of joy... the only pain which you njoy is the pain ur kids give u (not talking abt grown up kids here)..




 

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Bumper:

m, malli adi bore kodutundii appudu pilalu unte baguntundiii anipistundii.


gone girl lo same point chupisthadu.. at the start they get attracted towards themselves..once the lust reduces and slowly finding fault and loosing interest .. they plan for a kid which helps the female in diverting her attention from boring life. and slowly occupies herself in raising the child his studies etc etc. just keeping yourself occupied anthe
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:52 am:       

I got married @ 22 years.

Got a kid by 23..

living every moment since then..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:51 am:       

Few things which you have to go through to understand is it worth -

- After a crazy day, when u go home and open the door and call the kid, it comes to you and hugs u with a broad smile.. WHAT A FEELING I TELL YOU... Price less... oka million dollar account la unna aa haapiness raadu

- Early in the morning when the kid wakes up and smiles at you, deenemma jeevitha.. it makes ur day

- The kiss it gives you, devudaaaa... blessed anthe!!

- chitti chitti maatlu, tappatadugulu, cute expressions, chese allari... :-)

- Kids are bundles of joy... the only pain which you njoy is the pain ur kids give u (not talking abt grown up kids here)..

I just love kids yaaa... before having a kid yevvadanna office la kids gurinchi cheptunte, endi raa veedi sodi anukune vaadni... i was so wrong..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:49 am:       


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2 days back siblings ki nakanna ekkuva pedutunaru na fathers ane thread chusava??


aa thread chudagane na burrani solidga okati ichinattu anipinchindi... vammooo.." parents ni nammakoodadu.." lanti mahatkaramaina statements enno chusa.. thanks for bringing the point bhayya
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:49 am:       

life lo change lekapote bore den***. so edo oka roju single life bore kotti peli chesukuntam, malli adi bore kodutundii appudu pilalu unte baguntundiii anipistundii. appudu pilalu kanatam tarvta vala panulu chealeka adi bore den** , kani chesedi em undadu, muskonii M** kadkatame valadhii
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:49 am:       

Kick:

Idi naa opinion..

oka saari marriage ayyaaka && job lo settle lo ayyaaka.. you will not have too many goals left in your life. You have nothing to do for the next 50 years or so...oka niraasa, nisruha kaluguthaay..

as pulpfiction correctly said, kids fill the big gaps in our lives..

vaallu kids gaa vunnappudu vaalla aalana paalana choodatam..
perigetappudu elaa bathakaalo vaallaki cheppatam..
vaalla education & marriages lo participate cheyyatam..

tharvaatha vaalla pillalo mana pillalni choosukovatam..

ivemi lekapothe, what are you go to from 25 to 85?
you will have total emptiness in your life..


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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:47 am:       


Sesani:


kotha kada alane untadi
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:45 am:       

kids lenide life ledu anatam koncham sodhi..kids mana swardham kosam kantunam..aa swardham just 20 + yrs varake...spouse kooda swardhame, but 50+ years
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:45 am:       


Bumper:

adapt kids on the road side


I could do that too.. but the reason i am thinking of not having kids is lack of clarity of what they bring to me. per suppose nen ala adopt cheskunna oka few years tharvtha if i feel i couldnt bare the responsibilty appudu vadilalem kada.. anduke ee relations antene complications
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:45 am:       


Thikka_sankara:

Chinna chinna decisions ke pack avthontundi saami....pillalemo my dad knows it thru ane thinking lo untaaru....father has all sorted out anattu....and that expectation adds to the pressure..... Maybe inka pillal age chinnavallu kaabatti ilanemo.... Once they grow up to certain age, it's better to lay down everything in front of them and say this is your best guess.... Ramblings....pls excuse




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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:45 am:       


Kick:

what does they add to your life lateron?




2 days back siblings ki nakanna ekkuva pedutunaru na fathers ane thread chusava?? thats how they treat parents. ee generation lo ne ila unaru next generation kids inka darunam ga unaru. mahesh life is different normal people life is different.
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:44 am:       


Kick:

Is fatherhood really worth it?


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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:44 am:       

edaina over rated eee..i feel husband and wife relation ee best.. you stay with your other half for almost 50+ years..andulo oka 20 yrs kids..tarvatha vallu vellipotharu, busy with thier life..
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:43 am:       

Chinna chinna decisions ke pack avthontundi saami....pillalemo my dad knows it thru ane thinking lo untaaru....father has all sorted out anattu....and that expectation adds to the pressure..... Maybe inka pillal age chinnavallu kaabatti ilanemo.... Once they grow up to certain age, it's better to lay down everything in front of them and say this is your best guess.... Ramblings....pls excuse
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:42 am:       


Ysr2009:

without kids.. life is not worth living.


y ? the reason of this thread is the same.. mahesh kuda ilane sweeping statement ichadu.. every man should experience fatherhood and it completes you ani... chinnapudu ante cute..etc etc anukochu.. what does they add to your life lateron?
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:40 am:       


Kick:




u might be right. people should start thinking out of the box. population too much perigipotundii. humans vala vere ae creature bathaka leka potundii. instead of giving birth to new kids, adapt kids on the road side. that's how they get proper life and human population also controlled. and we don't feel that responsibility as our own kid.
just my suggestion , nuvu follow avutunava ani evaru adakandii, naku inka antha maturity raledu,but somebody has to start
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:38 am:       

>> Pulpfiction: nuvvu vaalla kosam lifelong bathakadam enti comedy ... they are filling the gaps in your life through their first 20 years..


 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:37 am:       


Ysr2009:

without kids.. life is not worth living.

period



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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:33 am:       

without kids.. life is not worth living.

period
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 08:28 am:       

i am not sure why you don't want to marry,

hope you don't ave X problems,

other than that if you are worried about responsibilities than its a perception,

inreality you will enjoy kids, you have to experience all stages of life,

you are young now so you feel the way you are is good, but koncham age ayipoyaka your needs changes, your mind set changes, think beyond now,
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:56 am:       


Xxx:

Without kids you will get bored after certain age


early aging is the bonus with kids...(by virtue of tensions etc)
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:53 am:       


Kick:

monna aa "aadapillanmma" singer laga po bey gootle ani case pedithe asalu fathers thattukogalara?




It is simple , pay it forward .. You cannot expect anything back from your kids , hope to give them good life and it is your responsibility as you bought them into this world

Without kids you will get bored after certain age
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:49 am:       


Kick:

hahahha kummu prashanth anna kummu


intaku mundu emaina parichayam undha..just checking...

emundhi...naa varakaite....purti nyayam cheyagalugutunnaana ledha ani with the added responsibility ani pressure untune untundhi..depends on the persons how they handle that pressure and how they channelise that pressure...

parenting meeda councelling anedhi compulsory cheyyaali which unfortunately most ppl doesn't have as it becomes necessity in these days of nuclear families....
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:40 am:       


Prasanth:


hahahha kummu prashanth anna kummu nee motham wisdom bayataki cheppu
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:39 am:       

Mahesh mari antha gattiga..every man should experience ani antha gattiga chepthunte bhyam esthundi rao garu.. YOLO kada.. theda aithe life motham disaster avthundemo ani
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:35 am:       

okkasari child ki birth isthe they become a lifelong responsibty to carry..especially indian ethics.. okavela husband/wife tho undaleni situation osthe. whole soceity/family says pillala kosam anna kalisundandamma.. type.. inka ladies aithe cheppanavasaram ledu.lots of housewife indian ladies who are not employed ..pillala kosam kalisi untunnam ane modelo untaru lifelong
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:26 am:       

Ee question bachelor ga life long undevallani adagadam better. Then we shall know what we are gaining by marriage n having kids
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:21 am:       

ninna open heart with RK lo disco santhi iview choodandi ..

gunde pindesindhi anthey ..

he life is 100% devoted to others ..

before marriage, she devoted her life to improve financial condition of her family by doing marriage for 6 of her siblings
after marriage, she devoted 100% of her life to srihari
after srihari death, she in the day time is living for her 2 sons and in the night, she is not able to sleep thinking of sri hari ..

when asked what she is expecting from her sons, she said nothing and she will continue to love them and live for them even if they dont care for her or care for her post their marriage ..

disco santhi is the true example of someone who lived all her life for someone else ..
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:14 am:       

nuvvu vaalla kosam lifelong bathakadam enti comedy ...

vaalley by virtue of their birth to you are giving you endless joy ..they are filling the gaps in your life through their first 20 years.. so tomorrow if they fly with a bird of their choice, you need to thank them for the bundle of joy they gave you for 20+ years and now it is their chance to experience more joy in their life .. we need to commit ourselves from the time that they are born that for the amount of joy they would be giving us for almost 20+ years, we will live for them and we will die for them for the next 20+ years after they turn 23+ or so ..

easier said than done but then that is how it should be ..
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:12 am:       


Kick:

I'm a guy who doesn't want to marry.


me also, kaani married n have 2 kids :-|
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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:09 am:       

source : sbdb
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:09 am:       

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Posted on Sunday, November 22, 2015 - 01:10 am:
Jp_rocks:
ob'ly having a kid changed my life and everything i knew about life



Happy to hear. Idhi varaku meeru ala antunte ila kuda think chestara anukune vaadini, anduke antha ga gurthu undi poyindhi

Kids iche enjoyment life lo edhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii ivvaledhu. Vallu manam office nunchi eppudu vastama ani eduru chudtam daggara nunchi every moment is precious.
 

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Posted on Monday, November 23, 2015 - 07:08 am:       

I'm a guy who doesnt want to marry. But then as I read more and more interviews I see lots and lots of people saying once they became a father their life turned entirely into new dimention..

Mahesh said "Every man should experience fatherhood.Being a father is the most important thing, if you ask me. It changed me as a person and gave me an all new life." and it entirely changed his life (those 3 years when he worked for kaleja is when gautham was born)
Tarak spoke more on the responsibilty aspect and lots of people said asala entirely new dimention chusamu and ultimate happiness typelo.. Is it really true? or mahesh kids inka chinna pillale kabatti is he enjoying his sweet cute kid times and gave that statement?

And in reality as they growup.. ante manam valla kosame valla life ni malachadanike daily 10 hrs ala ala work chesthu untam kada... vallu ala peddayaka.. monna aa "aadapillanmma" singer laga po bey gootle ani case pedithe asalu fathers thattukogalara? all the love and effort of his fatherhood waste aipoinatte ga.. ante nen cheppindi in practical even this relation is the same as a husband/wife relation or is it as rosy as mahesh described?

Ante mahesh..inka kinda oka post lo cheppina aayana views chusthe tempting gaa undi..ledu kumaru akkada antha scene ledantara?

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