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Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3551 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
my point is simple a perfect bonding that was anticipated to last a few decades does not need a binding agreement/// there is nothing like PERFECT if u look for PERFECTION u will end up lonely life is about compromise and responsibilities .HARD TRUTH.compromise and responsibility makes a marriage some youngsters are so illusioned about life and talking LOVE ,PERFECTION ,LOVE UNTIL U DIE all silly romantic dreams with no reality there s nothing like LOVE UNTIL U DIE or SOULMATE the person whom u marry might feel right to u r thinking at the time of marriage .further down the lane both might have matured differently .then what u do LEAVE THEM yes westerners did that and r suffering at the end of their life with no one to care for. point is sharing of responsibility and compromise nad following dharma. that's it abut life . | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3550 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
the two people whom I gave examples also PREFERRED LIVE IN and having kids human basic nature is it wants some one without marriage its very hard to find some one stable in u r life at late age.neeku thodu ga kaneellu kaarche vallu undaka pothe thelsuthadhi old age lo. .what do u mean strength against nature no body can be strong against nature .only some sages are strong .anad those sages are in to sanyasam. basically without marriage stable relation ship is not possible u might argue there have been some .the percentage is very very less finally I don't see 90% gals in india interested in living with a boyfriend PERMANENTLY without marriage even though some men like it that way. so discussion waste anukuta | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1165 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 166.137.248.46 Rating: N/A |
Why do you people differentiate live in from a marriage , my point is simple a perfect bonding that was anticipated to last a few decades does not need a binding agreement | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1164 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 166.137.248.46 Rating: N/A |
Based on few statements it se ms to me that " unfortunately if the sex ratio drops down to 0.5 , there would be people who argue that the primary purpose of being a human is to reproduce so irrespective of human emotions each member from a minority sex should be shared by two members of the majority sex. This high moral practice should be encouraged and whoever defied this should be seen as fools." LOL @BL - there are same number of People from the east witha opinion that marriage is the worst thing happened to them. Moreover most of the people you quoted have no moral strength to face the challenges of the nature alone | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3544 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
oka aame undhi 3 marriages all failures.konnallu sahajeevanam . final gaa 3 pillalu .no child has stable relation ship she works in my uncle office she cried .she is in mid fifty another case one middle aged guy age 45 .live in .oka child kanee aame veedi daggariki Christmas 1 weeka ppudu pampisthundhi kid ni . rest of the time lonely .multiple relation ships.just for little emotion and bodily needs he is going in to tehse fafirs ani cheppadu . konchem press chesthey kaneellu .said u r indian concept of family good yaar.made wrong choices in life ani cheppadu.now I have no choce except to lead his life . he works in one of my cousins shop subway . | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3543 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
thokkalo west so called west LIVE IN tho are they really happy with their state of affairs compared to indian families there who got married ANSWER is NO so many westerners told me they got burned due to this live ins .now at the age of 45 they don't have anything to look after vaadu chasthey kaneellu kaarchataaniki kodoa evaru leru ani cry chesadu okadu he is in mid 45. meee indian sense of family great anandu. | ||
Mushin Junior Artist Username: Mushin Post Number: 564 Registered: 05-2015 Posted From: 17.82.124.130 Rating: N/A |
unique perspective | ||
Bob Junior Artist Username: Bob Post Number: 58 Registered: 10-2009 Posted From: 71.198.82.87 Rating: |
Nature created 2 sexes for its purpose not for our pleasure (our so called happiness that we believe in); otherwise it could have created only one sex. I don't think Nature created anything for our sake, we are only enjoying what is provided to us. Not marrying is against the Nature's law. Marriage is adjustment/compromise between two opposite sexes to produce the children and taking responsibility of them until they are adults; because the Nature always wants the growth. Off course we will get the divine profits which we can't perceive in mundane sense. All the points mentioned by most of you are very temporary comparing our present form of life to the life of Mother Nature on this Earth. | ||
Ballasticmissile Side Hero Username: Ballasticmissile Post Number: 9050 Registered: 07-2012 Posted From: 106.220.39.173 Rating: N/A |
lol..... i am leading a pious life so far so good new_user:Please, dont brng brand Mahesh into this discussion. BMW ki 50k pay chestunnarani, Chevy kooda anthe demand chesthe, ela? | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1157 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 76.122.78.172 Rating: N/A |
http://www.urantia.org/urantia-book-standardized/paper-82-ev olution-marriage paper bagundi chadavandi, Ayn Rands view on marriage which I agree with : I consider marriage a very important institution, but it is important when and if two people have found the person with whom they wish to spend the rest of their lives—a question of which no man or woman can be automatically certain. When one is certain that one’s choice is final, then marriage is, of course, a desirable state. But this does not mean that any relationship based on less than total certainty is improper. I think the question of an affair or a marriage depends on the knowledge and the position of the two persons involved and should be left up to them. Either is moral, provided only that both parties take the relationship seriously and that it is based on values. | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1156 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 76.122.78.172 Rating: N/A |
Endi baaga hurt ayinattu unnava intha insecurity feeling endi... | ||
Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 18785 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 104.148.189.239 Rating: |
pls go ahead and sh1t on the streets like animals. Don't worry if you draw strange looks. | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1155 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 166.137.248.16 Rating: N/A |
How marriage was evolved : animals in the wild do fight for their wives. Human being a smart animal developed a way where There's is a way to let others know " hey she is taken don't even dare think about her " . Tying a knot , exchanging rings , signing a contract ' are all part of some way . People who doesn't know how marriage was really evolved end up supporting it | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1154 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 166.137.248.16 Rating: N/A |
Simple example : I love my partner , she likes me . Just to appease a group of people ( read society) why should I 'MARRY' her. When we have decided to live in together we are already married . When we have differences if I truly love her I shouldn't force her to be with me when she no longer feels comfortable. It I sacrifice something it should be my love towards that needs to be the driving force , marriage shouldn't be a reason that would drive me to sacrifice something . | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 50883 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.91.18 Rating: N/A |
marriage ki live-in ki enti difference? marriage ante you have hundreds of witnesses. live-in ki kuda witness unte what is the difference? | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19140 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
live in lo limited chances to take anyone for granted....but disadvantage is even for small things splits happen....insecurity kooda baane untadi...even if u see ur girl chatting with someone....one ll feel insecured in a live in...as u never know what can happen....the same with the other gender | ||
Meghan Comedian Username: Meghan Post Number: 1153 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 166.137.248.16 Rating: N/A |
Marriage is a kind of binding agreement , I personally feel a live in is hundreds times better than marriage. | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 50880 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.91.18 Rating: |
ento ee kaalam kurrollu slippulu kuda mana valla kaadu | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19135 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
undi ...child care expenses anedi untundi...whether u r married or live in....but divorce hassle, families hassle etc undav when things come to a boiling point....and when live ins click for 4 -5 years...people eventually marry to complete the relationship anukuntunna | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19134 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
chaala live ins jarugutunnai india lo....accept it or not..mee ishtam....annayya oppukunnado/tandri oppukunnado ani kaadu....but live ins chaala ekkuva ayinaayi.... ee thread okatanu ekkuva gnaana gulikalu pradarsinchataaniki pontana lekunda peltunnadu | ||
Cocanada Legend Username: Cocanada Post Number: 50878 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 63.79.91.18 Rating: N/A |
thed chadive opika ledu. kurrod age guage details ettandi | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 39606 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.55.71 Rating: N/A |
deeniki legal binding unda edaina country lo ? | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 39605 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.55.71 Rating: |
enti ippudu Haryana lo ..vere kulam vaadu vachi lechipodam raa ...ante..aa ammayi annayya..enjoy living together chellemma ani pampisthunnara.. super kada.. | ||
Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 18775 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 104.148.189.239 Rating: N/A |
YES. uchita salahaalu ivvataniki married men are always first. Someone just proved it. | ||
Whyme Hero Username: Whyme Post Number: 13797 Registered: 09-2009 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
ee topic discussion lo most participants married anukunta | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19133 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: |
naa personal life gurinchi neekendukule gaani....ur thinking needs to change.....the moment u used abandon as a word in this thread...u dont get the topic anipinchindi naaku....edo gelakaali ani posts veyyatam kaadu....topic ki related gaa maatlaadu.... my answer to Cjeevi is valid based on recent trends in west....and what im hearing in North india esp metros... dont u think there's more flexibility in a live in to move away than seeking a divorce when people are married? | ||
Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 18774 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 104.148.189.239 Rating: |
one simple question... you can choose to ignore me. Are you ready to abandon your current relationship and venture into something new? | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19132 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
already north india and west lo max ive jarugutunnai....south india lo kooda chnages toralone choostam | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2262 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
enni change ayina amma, nanna, bhaya, bharta, pillalu change avaru kadaa!!! that is the pillar for sanatana dharma (not religion) for mankind to sustain. marriage is bullshit but sahajeevanam is best anukune chalamandi, tama own sister or cousin (a lady to be specific) i want maintain live-in relation anTE, great.. go ahead anTaara?? if someone says so hats off!!! somewhere this no marriage concept has many loose ends which r too tough to tie anukuntunna. instead known system lo unna chinna chinna lotu patlu sarichesukunTE life will be happy  uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Bumper Side Hero Username: Bumper Post Number: 6081 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 204.80.61.133 Rating: N/A |
Time tho patu food change avuthundhii, fashion change avuthundhii, habits change avuthunayii and we are accepting those changes. relations lo kuda chnages vastayii nachina nachaka poina accept cheyalii.accept chesina tarvta gradual ga ave nizam ani trust chestham Snakes in Your backyard won't bite only your neighbours. #Hillary Clinton | ||
Rocketk2 Junior Artist Username: Rocketk2 Post Number: 788 Registered: 03-2014 Posted From: 107.77.70.76 Rating: N/A |
Ee thread lo chala manchi points vunnayi.. but fundemental question posed is marraige or no marraige. Bramhacharyam gurinch nenu comment cheyyalenu as I dont have strong opinion there..but forms of no marraige gurinchi here is my take.. Marriage and the family are of fundamental importance for society. I believe marraiage as an instition is created to stabilize society which inturns stabilizes the individuals. So stable marraige valla direct benefit kante indirect benefit ekkuvanna maata. so konni sacrifices chesi marraige lo stability maintain chesthe(andharu) a society overall ga flourish avuthundhi, which inturn leads to individual happiness. There are always exceptions but casualities are there everywhere.... life is not fair Simple example, say we are standing at cross roads. one road has lot of foot marks(indicating several people travelled this way) and few blood stains here and there (negligible in comparison, but indicating some adversity)... other road has almost no foot marks and same number of blood stains.. what will be logical choice?? I believe most people take the first road. ofcourse we may think what if, but there is limited risk apettite for people. Some may be adventorous or driven to desparity and take the second and might reach the destination faster and safer or perish.. the fact is that it is an unknown. But in the recent days, marraige and family are being put under emormous pressure. Ee divorce, alternate life styles.. ivanni will they just dent the system or damage the system, time only will tell.. Lately, it is concerning that number of people wanting to take second road.. peruguthundhi... life nunch expectations peruguthunnayi..as the number of footmarks increase in the second road, the newer generation comming to that crossroads will start getting confused. Rendu dharlu valid gane kanipisthayi.. If you believe in a healthy society keep the institution of marriage stable, make few compromises in life and lead a happy life for greater good... end of the day marraige is not that complicated, if we keep expectations in check My personal belief if you take the other road, you will eventually learn 'No man is an Island' like Hugh grant in About a boy | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 410 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
whether you go forward or backwards wrt time doesn't matter, as long as one does without understanding, end result is same Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2260 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
choose ur own partner, live for a while (peacefully, happily or santosham gaa) anna concept techchina WEST world lo ena peaceful gaa undo wrt relations choostunnaka, how u can trust this materialist stuff? uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Bumper Side Hero Username: Bumper Post Number: 6077 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 204.80.61.133 Rating: N/A |
Sukumarudu,Sesani,Whyme,Asdf unkles life ni 50 years mundhu tisuku poii discuss cheyalii ani try chestuntee Musicfan,cinejeevi unkles 3000 years back ki tisuku povalii ani try chestrunaruu.. Pop corn techukoni evaru gelustarooo chusthaa Snakes in Your backyard won't bite only your neighbours. #Hillary Clinton | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 406 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
Ippudu having human birth again before this creation ends, might not happen. so dani gurinchi worry avvatam waste Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 405 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
true many characters once their role is done you cant see them again. Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Sesani Megastar Username: Sesani Post Number: 28044 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.20 Rating: N/A |
whyme ki dhimaag ledu.. entha cheppina artham kaadu.. waste  | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 11368 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
rubber ane sariki neek ardham aindi kada | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 11367 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
inkoncham naatuga seppu, whyme ki ardham kaaled anta | ||
Sesani Megastar Username: Sesani Post Number: 28043 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.20 Rating: N/A |
common man ki artham ayye language la cheppinav kada  | ||
Sesani Megastar Username: Sesani Post Number: 28042 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.20 Rating: N/A |
sahajeevanam is like watching a movie... marriage is like making a movie... baa cheppana | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 11365 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
avunaa, mari manaku ardham aindi next janma ki ela continue sesedi? | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2252 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
I was not in a hurry to read and taking my own time trying to understand, think. most importantly when I read it is like watching live characters right in front of my eyes and no wonder Valmiki is great story teller. Infact if someone researches Sri ramayanam in a Script wise, it has perfect story telling, landing, flash back at right times, introductions, how long to keep a character and when to bring one etc., I read an interesting read about why only Monkeys to help Sri rama in the war and why not anyone else? Only Rama and Lakshmana are humans and rest all are monkey barring five with Vibhishana. Also an interesting note on how and why (in that way) dasaradha divided payasam to three wives. 1/2 to kousalya, 1/6 th (1/4th and 1/8th seperately added together) and finally 1/8th to Kaikeyi. very interesting and most importantly "logical" for some medhavulu uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 404 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
Ramayanam chadivite oka nello ayipotundi kaani artham avataniki oka jeevita kaalam saripodu. The more we search the more we get out of it. That Epic makes everyone sensitive, nothing wrong with that. Keep going. The another one I like in Ramayana, is Rama hugs only three persons in total, Bharata, Guha and Hanuma. After Hanuma finds Sita and comes with her information, Rama just gives him hug and leaves it there. Lakshamana asks why he didnt give him anything in return? Rama says, if I have to give him anything in return, Rama says, nenu hanumaki edaina cheyyali ante tanaki manaki vachina kashtam kante peddadi ravali, naa sahayam kanna ataniki antati kashtam ravatam naakishtam ledu, kabatti nenu emi ivvalenu kougilinta tappa ani antadu.. appudu choke avvadam tappadu manaki. itlaga prati scene artham aithe chivariki mana paristhiti enti antaru?? Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 11364 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
thread close. | ||
Bumper Side Hero Username: Bumper Post Number: 6073 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 204.80.61.133 Rating: N/A |
relationship ante bonding with rubber thread. methaga untundhii epudu kavalante apudu cut chesuko vachu.. Marriage antee bahuballi movie lo golusu la tho kateytam lantidhii, gatti ga untundhi not eay to break. Snakes in Your backyard won't bite only your neighbours. #Hillary Clinton | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 11363 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
mari sahajeevanam ante bondage aa. chal phut | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3535 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
Inko 50 years lo evadu pelli kuda chesukodu/// e maata nenu 30 yrs nunchi untunna still people r marrying sahajeevanam cheyataniki indian ladies edho queue kaduthunnatlu discussions unnayi ikkada actual gaa akkada anah scene ledhu . | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19118 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
divorce ki only legal hurdles...sahajeevanam sarigga work out kakapothe pranalu kooda lestaayi.... | ||
Sesani Megastar Username: Sesani Post Number: 28039 Registered: 08-2014 Posted From: 170.200.144.20 Rating: N/A |
Marriage ante oka BONDING oka COMMITMENT .. bachelorship & sahajeevanam ante taadu bongaram leni anaadhalu... .. baa cheppana | ||
Sukumarudu Side Hero Username: Sukumarudu Post Number: 6832 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 50.78.34.65 Rating: N/A |
Ika chagga divorce teesukunte paristhithi kuda ledu desam lo.. Dokku laws ni abuse chesthu revenge kosam use chesthunnaru families. Simple ga hindu sacred marriage concept ni slow ga killing chesthunnaru. Inko 50 years lo evadu pelli kuda chesukodu. | ||
Sukumarudu Side Hero Username: Sukumarudu Post Number: 6831 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 50.78.34.65 Rating: N/A |
Marriage bagunnantha varaku baguntundi.. kani work out kavatledu.. bayata padali anukunte.. 'legalities and thokka thotakura' courts chuttu.. narakam saami. | ||
Bumper Side Hero Username: Bumper Post Number: 6070 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 204.80.61.133 Rating: N/A |
yeahh antheee /clipart{4} Snakes in Your backyard won't bite only your neighbours. #Hillary Clinton | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19117 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
divorce isnt as easy as calling quits in saha jeevanam....also kids leni scenario lo saha jeevanam vs marraige think cheyyi...ull see more differences | ||
Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 18773 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 206.210.27.33 Rating: N/A |
so how is sahajeevanam different from marrying and divorcing? Rinse and repeat... | ||
Sukumarudu Side Hero Username: Sukumarudu Post Number: 6830 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 50.78.34.65 Rating: N/A |
ippatidaka fresh antu vethukuthunna.. route marcha mantava bumperu? | ||
Bumper Side Hero Username: Bumper Post Number: 6069 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 204.80.61.133 Rating: N/A |
Sahajevnam is best option for current generation. previously ladies compromise ae vallu kabatii arranged margs nila batadayii. ippudu antha revesre aindhii. oka 2 or 3 relations break ithey kani ippudu ladies set avaruu. Snakes in Your backyard won't bite only your neighbours. #Hillary Clinton | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19113 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
the same that happens after u have a divorce....kids unte even in live in...both dont live together but they take responsibility of the kids...just like in a divorce.... | ||
Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 18772 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 206.210.17.33 Rating: N/A |
what happens to kids after you call it quits? | ||
Vjawarrior Hero Username: Vjawarrior Post Number: 19111 Registered: 02-2014 Posted From: 153.2.247.32 Rating: N/A |
Live in is the best option...in a Live in u can live like lovers, live like married people, u can have kids...u can call it quits...u can build ur life...u can pursue goals | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2247 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
ee post chooDakunDaane akka oka post esa raju garu uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 39571 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.55.71 Rating: N/A |
saar..nen vesina thread lo naalugu gulikalu(ade mee observations vadalandi) | ||
Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 17492 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 209.60.166.146 Rating: N/A |
I agree to this. Best Practices always exist whether its life or code | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2245 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
with regard to relationship and longevity in relationship, peddalu konni margadarasa sootralu chepparu. so called "educated/medhavulu" avi booju pattina tappdu sampradaayalu ani kotta puntalu tokkinchaaru yuvata ni. uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Mental_sachinodu Hero Username: Mental_sachinodu Post Number: 17489 Registered: 10-2008 Posted From: 209.60.166.146 Rating: |
these discussion keep hitting me with one question... are all folks this planned? To me decisions are instinctive, what I do today has nothing to do with I may be doing tomorrow. Planning for a relationship, finding a person for relationship seems weird to me. One of the questions I usually get, where do you see yourself in next 5 years - I never have an answer for this. I have been doing things on a whim all through my life.. never planned to find a person to share my life with, but it happend. never planned to be in a particular city, and do a particular job, but things keep happening. I just do the best I can, in the direction i feel is right/good/pleasing. Contemplating to do something is strange for me. Keep doing the things you feel like doing at that point of time, eventually all will be good. whether you get married or not is besides the point. | ||
Jambalahaart_raja Side Hero Username: Jambalahaart_raja Post Number: 5877 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: N/A |
The question is not marriage or bachelorhood or sahajeevanam. The core of the question is Emotional Connection!!! Andaritoh andaru emotionally connect avvaru.. avvaleru... But without that emotional support, life can get really depressing... In the end, either ways, everybody has to learn to connect to themselves emotionally... there is nothing out there that can help one connect emotionally!!!! "Chill Bro. I told you to let it go!!" - The Budhha. | ||
Rajusk Legend Username: Rajusk Post Number: 39568 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 170.74.55.71 Rating: N/A |
Yes..Good points in this thread by few folks | ||
Asdf Hero Username: Asdf Post Number: 11359 Registered: 12-2014 Posted From: 205.157.66.4 Rating: N/A |
full meals vs maggi&biryani roju full meals cheyali. weekends lo biryani, adi kooda lekapothe maggi anakandi. this is just a comparison | ||
Bumbumbole Side Hero Username: Bumbumbole Post Number: 4066 Registered: 08-2012 Posted From: 170.170.59.139 Rating: N/A |
ilanti threads vesthe, peli kaavalsina vaala paristhithi enti!!! very confusing ya Tollywood No:1 Hero: Prabhas Congrats to srimanthudu team and mahesh Babu fans. 2 Blockbusters Mirchi and srimanthudu tho career started, way to go koratala | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2237 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
emo guruvu gaaru nenu maree sensitive ayyano leka marOTO telidu kaani, ayOdhaakaanDa tegaDam lEdu. Rama is getting ready for danDakaaraNyaa and tears rolling out reading those sargas  ivaLo rEpO inka raamuDini aDaviki pampinchi, papam daSaradhuDini paiLokaaniki pampaali BTW Good points on brahmacharyam vs bachelorhood and gruhastaaSramam uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 403 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
read it as "Controlling as by winning over them, vs Controlling by suppressing them" Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 402 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: N/A |
Ramayanam entavaraku vachindi? BTW this reminds me of one best observation in Ramayana. What is the difference of controlling indiyalu and supressing them? Ramayana shows the difference. Ravana suppressed indriyalu during his tapassu, and they came back after he is done., we know the end result. He desired Sita, and when he is on death bed, his wife mandodari says, Ravana do you know who killed you? its not Rama or anyone, you killed your self with lack of control on indriyalu. On the opposite Hanuman won over the indriyalu and we see the result, how he remained as a benchmark for any quality one can describe about. Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Musicfan Junior Artist Username: Musicfan Post Number: 401 Registered: 03-2009 Posted From: 63.169.138.2 Rating: |
Brahmachari is widely misused term in our generation. As we don't know the meaning of it. Ramakrishna Paramahamsa once said that after the dharma of regeneration is fulfilled, both husband and wife should live like brother and sister indulging in performing their dharma. There are few key things that are defined for reason of existence of marriage. 1. To continue with evolution as per law of nature. The creator has defined rules regarding existence of this creation to be continuous until destroyed not destroyed after one time existence. 2. To follow many dharma's need one to be married to qualify to perform them. Thats the reason why even Hanuman marries Suvarchala even though he is askhalita brahmachari. It was suvarchala's wish that she had to perform some rituals for which she needed a person who had no wish towards her. 3. For betterment of society this bonding between two families not just persons and healthy progress of society it is required to have a system in place which is called marriage. Thru this stage of life many important deeds required to betterment of society happens. After gruhasthasram, no one can contribute much to society or themselves. 4. A wife is called dharma patni or sahadharmachari, just because she shares the dharma with the person. Their relation is not just single fold with desire. Its much more than that. 5. Since we don't follow dharma, we land into trouble and all issues arise, kids not taking care of parents, husband/wife incompatible, spouses having extra marital affairs and what not, and we blame the system for not knowing what it is or not following it since we don't know enough of it. Its as simple as that. What if one doesn't follow dharma, nothing happens. But if one follows then the result is different. Srimanthudu - Audio review | ||
Jambalahaart_raja Side Hero Username: Jambalahaart_raja Post Number: 5875 Registered: 07-2008 Posted From: 171.161.160.10 Rating: |
The true meaning of two ways of life as mentioned in the Vedas... 1) You take Life as it comes, what it offers, don't ask, don't bother for anything else - gruhasthasramam!!! 2) You don't like what Life offers, you think you deserve better, you want to try different - Sanyasam!!! It is the Blue-Pill, Red-Pill situation. I am a red-pill person. Always have been. Bear in mind that Passion and Perseverance don't last through the life-time. Bear in mind that Choice is only an Illusion. Bear in mind that the Red-Pill, will eventually lead you to the Blue-Pill as well!!! Bear in mind that Life always Wins!!! Perhaps, that is why there is this notion called Fate!!! Bear in mind that Life don't give a rat's A$$ for what you think, and what you feel!!! Bottomline, stop thinking!!! "Chill Bro. I told you to let it go!!" - The Budhha. | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2235 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: N/A |
with regard to seksu cheppavaa annai??? uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Andhrawala Legend Username: Andhrawala Post Number: 42117 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 152.51.56.1 Rating: N/A |
with Sahajeevanam u can have variety as when u get bored. Kind of similar to eating at a restuarant for month or two, year or two Marriage is kind of pretty much commited like eating at home. Bachelorship is like eating food everyday at a different restaurant No Signature | ||
Emc2 Legend Username: Emc2 Post Number: 43901 Registered: 03-2008 Posted From: 108.48.4.24 Rating: N/A |
saha jeevanam yavvanam lo bavuntadi, marriage young and musalollu ayyaka bavuntadi | ||
Cinejeevi Side Hero Username: Cinejeevi Post Number: 2234 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.166.89.74 Rating: |
brahmacharyam is different from bachelorhood and should not be confused with one another. If not marrying is what can count as bachelorhood then many r bachelors. But having experienced all physical pleasures and not married, can he be called brahmachari?? I doubt. If one decides to be bachelor for his life then trying to be "askhalita brahmachaari" is toughest thing which can be attained by only very very strongest will persons. Since controlling thoughts is toughest thing along with controlling "indriyaalu", our elders put up the marriage system, out of which develops bonding and last but not least the cycle of "dharma" and "aaSrama vyavastha" runs smoothly.. uttamE kshana kOpasya madhyamE ghatikaa dwayam adhamE ahOraatram paapishTE maraNantakaha | ||
Simba Hero Username: Simba Post Number: 18766 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 104.148.189.239 Rating: |
Life lo mana kosam alochinche vallu... manam pote 2 kanneeti chukkalu kaarche vaallu lekunte, life is waste. poor people (not lack of money, but lack of affection) want abundant of everything (money, material and p*ssy), but when they are thrown into abundance will realize the importance of affections and empathy. Until then, they will continue to argue to prove them right. | ||
Telugu_times Legend Username: Telugu_times Post Number: 44721 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 75.41.67.128 Rating: N/A |
do whatever keeps you happy over to RGV Ignore spam. | ||
Pavala Megastar Username: Pavala Post Number: 24666 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 195.137.178.130 Rating: N/A |
  Bala audio function roju ma fans ki grahanam day...memu bayataki rakudadhu....repu talk to u yaa.. - Onlytruth | ||
Pavala Megastar Username: Pavala Post Number: 24665 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 195.137.178.130 Rating: N/A |
gajji bongaram endhuk alanti links eduthunnav...why are you insulting marriaging ayina unkels Bala audio function roju ma fans ki grahanam day...memu bayataki rakudadhu....repu talk to u yaa.. - Onlytruth | ||
Gringo Side Hero Username: Gringo Post Number: 2133 Registered: 10-2014 Posted From: 72.15.229.180 Rating: N/A |
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Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3509 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
what is love .love has a broader emnaing/at diff stage of life u r definition waries how do u know that u r in love for ever ??.for fickle mined today its greta love u marry afte a few years they FEEL THAT THEY R OUT OF LOVE. even for NOT FICKLE MINDED people tomorrow u r priorities might change and the person u love today may not mature in the same way u do after 10 yrs.then u might stop loving the other person.then what would u do ? so my definition is IF U R READY for responsibilities and kids and some sacrifices and if u have conviction that u can shoulder responsibility and what u r sacrificing will give u happness in some other form go for marriage otherwise don't | ||
J__the_heartist Hero Username: J__the_heartist Post Number: 19097 Registered: 06-2012 Posted From: 83.110.239.252 Rating: N/A |
Idi Nth time ee topic pai thread padatam.... | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3508 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
any thing that majority of society does is GOING WITH TEH TIDE tomorrow if major part of society feels MARRIAGE IS WASTE then marrying is going against the tide. there r people who go against the tide but it needs BIGGER BIGGER CONVICTION not only marriage any thing that GOES AGAINST THE TIDE requires bigger conviction | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 219 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
dude why is marriage along the tide in the first place? is it because our culture or parents or elders demands it? or is it our self's bound to opinion we should get married? what was it exactly the reason you are saying (along the tide)? | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3507 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
what is love .love has a broader emnaing/at diff stage of life u r definition waries how do u know that u r in love for ever ??.for fickle mined today its greta love u marry afte a few years they don't want it even for NOT FOCKLE MINDE tomorrow u r priorities might change nad the person u love today may not mature in the same way u do after 10 yrs.then u might stop loving the other person. so my definition is IF U R READY for responsibilities and kids and some sacrifices and if u have conviction that u can shoulder responsibility and what u r sacrificing will give u happness in some other form go for marriage otherwise don't | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3506 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
u should stay umarried only if u have lots of conviction since it goes agaist the tide to get married u need conviction but since it does not go against the tide even if u have less covicion it wont be a problem. ut if u r dead againt marriage neer go for it.it will make u miserable. u can marry even if u not sure it is love or not but u should stay umarried only if u damn sure that u don't want marriage at all till u r end of life | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 218 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
I would say you should only marry when you love and know about each other's ??? | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 217 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
from my POV it doesnt matter if it is a love marriage... nationality, caste, color, status, physical appearance, economic status, and for the matter of fact....nothing else matters .. unless its only love you have on one other... | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2638 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
Only by birth.
Not exactly.
Yes. She is an Indian. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3505 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
They had their support from siblings and nephews// interesting now a days for siblings they have just enough time to care about their family.great thatthey cared about their unmarried siblings towards the end of their life | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2133 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
stats batti munduku velladam wrong bro ilanti matters lo , it depends on the indicidual and espcially going agianst the tide/trand(marriage kids etc) ,it takes a gr8 commitment to go for no-marriage TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3504 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
platypus sorry to intrude in u r personal life. but curiosity is making me to ask.is yours a love marriage.is u r wife from the same cultural background i.e same nationality ?/ this is off topic but i am just curious | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2132 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
bro , sorry to ask u , r u by any chance brahmin , i mean intha clear cut thought process and broad minded ness chusi adugutunna , maa baapan dosthlu andaru ilage think chestar ,vallani orey analante kuda konni sarlu mohamatam addu vastadi( becoz of the high level thought process) kani bachapan ka dostlu kabatti orey anukuntam TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3503 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
And from above just say how could a person without some goals not be happy? (as you are referring in your third para)/////// thats why is say if aperson who is hPAPY till their end of ife without nay kind of goal and un married with no kids and if they themselves say heartfully TAHT TEHY DID NOT MISS MARRIAGE and KIDS i will be interested to know their percentage finally stay true to u r conviction like if u don't want to marry and feel happy to live u r life that way then do that only if u have convictino that u can say this same line till the end of u r life same appies for married peole also .do with conviction}} | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2635 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
True. That's why I say marriage is not the way to go for everyone. Arranged marriage even less so. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2634 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
They had their support from siblings and nephews. But they were largely independent and didn't ask for much. They were happy with the choices they made. Bachelorhood is something very common in our family. Even in my generation - there are a few who have steadfastly refused marriage. My own brother is an example. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2131 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
but mana arraanged(stranger tho pelli) marriage lo chala couples un happy ga untar ga (becoz of wavelenth mismatch etc) and just for the society sake kalisi untar under one roof with no or minimal relation TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2633 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
The assumption behind every arranged marriage is that the couple would finally get to love each other. How far that is true - debatable. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 216 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
yup .. i do believe what your are saying.. but such thing is valid only whey they are in love right? whats is it bonding them in arraigned marriage? | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2130 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
bro , how did they cope up with ailments or health issues in last part of their life , i mean sontha wife and kids care chesinattu siblings or relatives take care cheyaleru kada becoz of various reasons TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2632 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
I'd like to believe that if two folks decide to get married to each other, they take care of each other out of love for the other and not consider that act as something they have to do because they're married to each other. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2631 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
 That's absolutely fine. You don't agree with the "Brahmacharyam" way of life. For me, I don't believe in rubbing my belief system on the others stating that is the only path forward. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 215 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
can you say.. its not responsibility of a person who married to support the other? | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2630 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
Marriage is not the only support system for a person. Is it? If you think that is the only way a person can happily live in the old age, I beg to differ. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3502 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
i don't encourage multiple ways of living life for me 2 paths 1) sanyasam like Abdul kalam or spiritual way of life or higher goals 2) gruhasthasramam that's it the mid path JUST TO STAY happy in a selfish way i.e spend money for u r self enjoy u r self and cant share with or unwilling to bear any kind of responsibilty.that kind of thought process i cant encourage and i don't believe | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 214 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
How can you bring kids? you are supposed to not have kids before marriage right? if you say you are committed with a girlfriend..u can always adopt .. there is still possibility... all this are only if you are committed.. right? and it need not to super seed a goal or any thing? .. why cant you say vajpayee is not a happy man.. see?.. you are not born with a relationship or a wife or a kid.. unless you feel like you want one.. so what is stopping you from being happy in the first place with our a wife and kid? And from above just say how could a person without some goals not be happy? (as you are referring in your third para) | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3501 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
till their end??? sorry to ask are u r uncles alive now? if so who takes care or took care of them in their old age ?/ | ||
Oceanseven Side Hero Username: Oceanseven Post Number: 5188 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 61.3.18.4 Rating: N/A |
20 mandhini choodu 10 mandhini select chesko 5 guritho living seyyi (okey saari kaadhu ) final gaa okarni pelli chesko | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2629 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
Doesn't matter. Concentrate on the big picture - one that allows multiples ways of life. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3500 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
And a couple of my uncles as well - who were the happiest folks I have ever seen.//// what r u r uncle age right now.do they have family support system i.e do they stay near their extended families ?/ wht profession are they in to ?? like social service tec ?/ | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2628 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
There is no question of superseding anything. By saying "superseding" you are alluding to the assumption that some goals are superior to others. That is not a valid assumption - if you follow a neutral reference axis. And there is no need for a goal that "changes the world" in order for one to be happy and unmarried. One need not be an ABVP, NM, APJ to enjoy life without the institution of marriage. Couple of my uncles - normal folks - decided that marriage was not for them. They were happy with the choice they made till their very end. In case it is not clear/apparent yet - here's a cheat sheet 1. There is no single answer to this question. It depends on you and you alone. 2. There can be multiple points of view 3. To each his own. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3499 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
not really , kalam or vajpay valnti vallu visible (becoxz of govt post or media etc) but arpohns ki seva chese vallu or some other seva chese vallu chala mandi untar away from media focus , its about personal feeling to marry or not to marry that's what i am saying if u have a goal ( social service or spiritual or scientific achievement or just do service as doctor ) then u wont get burned .normal people get burned in fact i appreciate eif one has a gOAL nad doe not marry for me its bettr path} but just responsibilities ni escape chesi badhara bandhi lekunda enjoy life cheyatanniki why marriage nai anukune vallu WILL GET BURNED after 50} | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2627 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
And a couple of my uncles as well - who were the happiest folks I have ever seen. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2128 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
not really , kalam or vajpay valnti vallu visible (becoxz of govt post or media etc) but arpohns ki seva chese vallu or some other seva chese vallu chala mandi untar away from media focus , its about personal feeling to marry or not to marry TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3498 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
n other words - it is a perfectly valid scenario to have a man in his fifties - unmarried and happy - not feeling lonely.// yes that is possible if u have a GOAL that supersedes u r lack of relation ship statuts or kids how can u say Vajpayee was a happy man or is a happy man now.?? he had a illegal son any way so u cant put him in to umarried no kids type. BDUL KALAM IS A BETTR EXAMPLE.yes he ahs lofty goals and his goals superseded his lack of marital sttaus or kids.so he was happy till his end. | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2127 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
samesar guru garu , itlu mee venu  TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3497 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
see if u have a bigger goal in life like social service or u r in to spiritual thing or Abdul kalam type scientific goals then even though no kids r marrieg or parner in fifties u stil have u r GOAL to live for but for normal people no such GOALS will be there if left alone with no kids r marriage more probability of getting burned that's why our puranas and vedas put only two paths 1) sanyasam ( i.e focused on higher goals} 2) gruhasthasramam there is no middle way .in middle way 90% u get burned | ||
Prouddesi Side Hero Username: Prouddesi Post Number: 2126 Registered: 09-2014 Posted From: 182.18.179.18 Rating: N/A |
 examples are gr8 vajpeyi and kalam garu TDP + TRS is RULING ALLIANCE in RANGA REDDY ZILLA PARISHAD ,no permenant friends or foes,so chillax friends | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2626 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: |
You are equating a person who is unmarried and well into his or her fifties as a "lonely person craving for companionship". That is an assumption based on what you belief in - your belief system. It may not be true from the multitude of other perspectives or points of view. In other words - it is a perfectly valid scenario to have a man in his fifties - unmarried and happy - not feeling lonely. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 213 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
just remembered kamal hasan? i dont have much knowledge so dont know about others..like to say baout all film fraternity but didnt feel like saying them as example other than kamal. | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 212 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
\ why do you think .. you will be left behind with out a wife and sons? have you not seen plenty of situations? where having a wife and child are still being left? and contrary to that.. with out wife and children .. a person having a supportive relationship? (example.. ABVP, APJ, etc?) | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3496 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
ada commitment ga.. why to get committed in the first place is what i am asking?//// simple answer bcos u wont remain as a lonely person with no kids and no partner in u r fifties. | ||
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Entha baga chepparoo  Be Kool  | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 211 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
thank you for such an excellent reply...my very own.. thoughts are same as what you have said... that all leads to the event of Arranged marriage right? what should be one thinking .. who is not sure to share his life? | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3495 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
after u get 50 yrs and u remain umarried with no children an still if ask why marriage ani post chesthe I APPRECIATE platypus i agree with u marriage is personal decision but u may take this personal decision not to marry in mid thirties or late twenties ,fine if u enjoy that way till u die remaing in that way its good . but many people r fickle minded they don't stick to their convictions.by the time they enter fifty remain lonely with out children or relation ship then they crave for some thing that is missing .then they get burned if they r lonely and craving same way might happen for a married man when they attain fifty they might feel what the heck is marriage about .they they might wish they did not marry.but they hav ekids by that time .though they feel that they hav echosen wrong path they might feel disappointed and crave something.cHNACES R THEY WONT GET BURNED compared to above category that's why parents insist on marriage . finally if u r so convinced and have conviction that u wont get second thoughts about kids or partner in u r fifties then dot marry}} | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 209 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
ada commitment ga.. why to get committed in the first place is what i am asking? | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3494 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
after u get 50 yrs why marriage ani post chesthe I APPRECIATE mid twenties early thiries lo every thig wil be fine yaar only if u bear responsibilities some one will bear u r responsibility.nee responsibility mee parents bear cheya ledha ? now wont u care about u r parents YES or NO. mana hidhu matham lo concept u get only if u earn it . | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2625 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: |
GTK, Here's the thing. Marriage is not for everyone. If you think you don't care about marriage, you should not worry about what you are missing by not opting for marriage. To give you a simple analogy, it is like me asking Barack Obama "What do I miss by not being the president of the US?" Either you want it or you don't want it. If you are in love with someone and can't live without that person and if you think that having children with that special someone is something that would make your life fuller and more meaningful, marriage is the obvious next logical step. However, if you think that commitment, kids etc are going to pull you back from what is eventually your life goal, and you feel they are more an obstacle than things of beauty of bundles of joy, you are better off carving your way through the maze of life with single-minded devotion towards whatever that life goal of yours is. Let me reiterate. Marriage is not everyone's cup of tea. It requires utmost conviction, clarity of thought and investment of the highest level - both emotional as well as materialistic. Lot of folks marry just because it is the usual thing to do. Such folks end up looking back over their shoulders, sipping a Johnny Walker, and introspect on where they have gone astray - what exactly have they done wrong... It is good that you guys are asking this question. It means you are thinking about what you want to do in life rather than blindly following the lead buffalo. If you are sure that marriage is not for you, it is not for you. Period. There's no such thing as the USP of marriage because of it is a highly personal thing. To each his own. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Doraveerachakra Comedian Username: Doraveerachakra Post Number: 1572 Registered: 11-2010 Posted From: 86.9.106.24 Rating: N/A |
Sirraaku dobbithe D'mantam vundadhu marriage lo (at least most cases) | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 208 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
when you are in relationship right? and that need not lead to marriage right? | ||
Diviseema Megastar Username: Diviseema Post Number: 27932 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 85.17.24.66 Rating: N/A |
GTk life accomplishment kaadu. relationship point of view lo chepthunna. Divi is Small OT - Gold. DB Janma Danyam | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 207 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
how can you say ... marriage is an accomplishment dude.. might be some thing else in my life to accomplish? | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 206 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
so what do you mean... .only that 3 mullu incident...  aduka.. what is it exactly ani adiga... | ||
Diviseema Megastar Username: Diviseema Post Number: 27931 Registered: 02-2008 Posted From: 85.17.24.66 Rating: N/A |
bachelorship is entertainment. sahajeevan is excitement . marriage is accomplishment. Divi is Small OT - Gold. DB Janma Danyam | ||
~chirutha~ Side Hero Username: ~chirutha~ Post Number: 5241 Registered: 10-2011 Posted From: 122.248.163.3 Rating: N/A |
This topic was extensively discussed not long ago Be Kool | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2623 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
Marriage. Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 205 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
dude dont say some vague statements... let us know exactly what your think we are missing... | ||
Gtk Junior Artist Username: Gtk Post Number: 204 Registered: 06-2015 Posted From: 173.74.227.46 Rating: N/A |
dude... even i am thinking exactly... i am seeing my sisters, uncles and their friend :P .. they are always about their child studies and stuff ( which i always think as rubbish)... I feel like why to get committed and take the responsibilities.. When my dad asked me to get married .. i asked same thing.. and from then he never spoke about marriage.... So what is this ,, only married people should shay what v should be missing... And what ever it is .. I feel like I can be in that happy zone.. even if i am not married.. ???? | ||
Platypus Side Hero Username: Platypus Post Number: 2622 Registered: 01-2008 Posted From: 167.220.236.1 Rating: N/A |
If you are married and asking this question, too late. If you are not married and asking this question, it can't be explained until you experience it. In short, catch 22 Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type. | ||
Bluelagoon Side Hero Username: Bluelagoon Post Number: 3489 Registered: 12-2013 Posted From: 49.207.227.237 Rating: N/A |
sahajeevanam lo children concept undadhu marriage lo untadhi sahajeevanam is less stable compared to marriage bcos marriage lo families involved kabatti next continius sahajeevanam chesthe 50 yrs ki burn up ayyi salman khan laa end avutharu salman khan kabatti sahajeevanam ki amayilu dorkuthnaru 50 yrs ki average guy ki 50 ki sahaeevanam undadhu pelli unaddhu pillal undaru after 50 ONTARI JEEVANAM | ||
Oceanseven Side Hero Username: Oceanseven Post Number: 5187 Registered: 09-2008 Posted From: 61.3.18.4 Rating: N/A |
go for sahajeevanam, work ayithey pelli chesko, lekuntey one more sahajeevanam till it works | ||
Sakshi Junior Artist Username: Sakshi Post Number: 353 Registered: 04-2014 Posted From: 49.206.172.14 Rating: N/A |
//Did u r home department hit u today with chapati karra or cheepiru katta?// cheepiru katta old style...eepudu smart phone...eapudu ladies chethilo eepudu vuntundhi smart phone...kitchen lo kuda smart phone lekunda vanta cheyalekapothunaru... | ||
Banam Hero Username: Banam Post Number: 10888 Registered: 12-2011 Posted From: 108.198.228.138 Rating: N/A |
Marriage ane concept ni mana indians komcham overhyped chesina, that's the most beautiful thing in this world if both understand each other... Simple ga vundali relationship, it will be very strong then. Green Bay PACKERS ||San Antonio SPURS ||Sachin Ramesh TENDULKAR | ||
~chirutha~ Side Hero Username: ~chirutha~ Post Number: 5237 Registered: 10-2011 Posted From: 122.248.163.3 Rating: N/A |
Kompateesi Maanas kani karichada Be Kool | ||
Sakshi Junior Artist Username: Sakshi Post Number: 352 Registered: 04-2014 Posted From: 49.206.172.14 Rating: N/A |
marriage lo relations build avutaye two famalies tho.... sahajeevanam tho eedhari madhya temporary love vuntadhi...like orange concept | ||
Aggipidugu116 Junior Artist Username: Aggipidugu116 Post Number: 184 Registered: 07-2014 Posted From: 64.121.42.246 Rating: N/A |
Did u r home department hit u today with chapati karra or cheepiru katta? J/k | ||
Ballasticmissile Side Hero Username: Ballasticmissile Post Number: 9046 Registered: 07-2012 Posted From: 106.220.255.199 Rating: N/A |
Gattiga alochistunte marriage anedi oka waste thing anipistondi, what are real uses of marriage, marriage lo extra ga dorikedenri, sahajeevanam, bachelorship lo dorakandi yenti?????? i am leading a pious life so far so good new_user:Please, dont brng brand Mahesh into this discussion. BMW ki 50k pay chestunnarani, Chevy kooda anthe demand chesthe, ela? |
