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Chanakya
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:15 am:       


Reddit:

Within 10-15 runs pigland will be all out.




NZ will run thru the tail in first 30 mins - ipatike ekuva runs ichesaru. If Baz bats for whole day today , match super untadi.
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

~Friedrich Nietzsche
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:13 am:       


Chanakya:

Baz toh adey kada probz, over attacking toh runs leak chestaru..... looks like 1st one hour is important for taking wickets


Within 10-15 runs pigland will be all out.
The masses have never thirsted after truth. Whoever can supply then with illusions is easily their master; whoever attempts to destroy their illusions is always their victim.
 

Chanakya
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:09 am:       


Reddit:

Alla mokam le; baz over attacked, bad field placing & under bowled corey.




Baz toh adey kada probz, over attacking toh runs leak chestaru..... looks like 1st one hour is important for taking wickets
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

~Friedrich Nietzsche
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:07 am:       


Chanakya:

nee absence lo England kurrollu kummesaru akada


Alla mokam le; baz over attacked, bad field placing & under bowled corey.
The masses have never thirsted after truth. Whoever can supply then with illusions is easily their master; whoever attempts to destroy their illusions is always their victim.
 

Chanakya
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:06 am:       


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nee absence lo England kurrollu kummesaru akada :D
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

~Friedrich Nietzsche
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:04 am:       


Chanakya:

Hey Bro - good to see you back


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The masses have never thirsted after truth. Whoever can supply then with illusions is easily their master; whoever attempts to destroy their illusions is always their victim.
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:03 am:       


Filmbuff:

Naaku Manchi Manchu functions ki invite vasthe, memu veltham amma...


No one really misses you even if you dont go in Indian functions kaani west lo ala kadu because catering is done to the extact number in most cases.
The masses have never thirsted after truth. Whoever can supply then with illusions is easily their master; whoever attempts to destroy their illusions is always their victim.
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 03:03 am:       


Frasier:

Does it come easy for you ?




Not at all.
Naaku nacchindi janaalaki nacchadu... Janaalaki nacchindi naaku nacchadu... Nenanthe.. adho type.
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:59 am:       


Reddit:

Easy to do living in Gur'Gaon'.




Naaku Manchi Manchu functions ki invite vasthe, memu veltham amma...

Frasier:




If the opposite party were to give the same response to you in a similar situation, how will you feel. If you are the kind who feels hurt, then go the diplomatic, peddalu cheppina way.

If however you are fine with mukku sooti answers, then act in the same way. I can assure you, first 2-3 times janalu koncham vintha ga choostaru, after that they will be fine.
 

Chanakya
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:52 am:       


Reddit:

Easy to do living in Gur'Gaon'




Hey Bro - good to see you back :D
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

~Friedrich Nietzsche
 

Frasier
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:52 am:       

But oka situation lo just manaki 2 options yes or no ani isthe, we cannot say either yes or no confidently, manam first reasoning tho start chesthaam, eduti vaallani hurt cheyyakundaa...

But many people don't return our courtesy and just be straight appudu manam hurt avthaam... And then starts a crisis
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:50 am:       


Filmbuff:

When i am invited to a function that i can't or don't want to attend, i just say "no, but if there is a change in plans i will. But for now it is a no"


Easy to do living in Gur'Gaon'.
The masses have never thirsted after truth. Whoever can supply then with illusions is easily their master; whoever attempts to destroy their illusions is always their victim.
 

Chanakya
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:46 am:       

From Childhood we were groomed by being warned to NOT say NO to our parents & Elder - this is for a good part of our life so we carry that for rest of our lives.
You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist.

~Friedrich Nietzsche
 

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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:44 am:       

It comes easy to me. Over a period of time, people will start adjusting to your style and behaviour patterns. Why should i do the adjusting, let the other's do so?

When i am invited to a function that i can't or don't want to attend, i just say "no, but if there is a change in plans i will. But for now it is a no"
 

Scorpio
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:43 am:       


Frasier:

When will we start living for ourself?




noppinchaka thaanovvaka, thappinchuku thiruguvaadu...dhanyudu sumathi

You need find fine line between those two...

Peddollu cheppedi entante....koddiga diplomacy alavaatu chesukomani
CBN is Good...Modi is Better...AK is the Best
 

Frasier
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:40 am:       

Scorpio - That is the response I was expecting, manaki ilaantivi anni cheppi aapesthaaru....

Manam chese Prathi pani vere vaallani drushti lo pettukune. When will we start living for ourself?
 

Frasier
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:37 am:       

After living in that social conditioning for 20 years and moving to a new society that expects you to be straight forward, I am finding it a little tough to let go off my old habits.

How do you all cope with situations where you need to be assertive? Does it come easy for you ?
 

Scorpio
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:37 am:       

Others will feel you are arrogant, when release the bullets straight...

Vaallu thittukunte neeku macnhidi kaadu
CBN is Good...Modi is Better...AK is the Best
 

Frasier
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Posted on Friday, May 22, 2015 - 02:34 am:       

Saying no is something we all Indians find very hard to say, rather than giving a straight answer we always try to beat around the bush. But I have observed that no one else in the rest of the world does this. Our social conditioning and brought up environment denies us to be straight forward. Personally, any signs of my straight forwardness were always corrected by my elders and they encouraged me not to say a direct no. For example, if you have been invited to an event and you cannot make it as the date clashes with another event, when I tried to give this reason to the 2nd host my parent corrected me to say "I will try my level best to come, I would love to come"

Why do we, as Indians, have to do a lot of crowd pleasing ?

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